I Think I Love My Wife Podcast

In this episode (Guilt-free sex), a few alums (Brandon, Jomar, and Paul) from the show wrap up their conversation with me as they dig into my journey to proposing to my wife. They try to understand why my fiancee is currently not my best friend. I highlight the ways that I've grown in my relationship. We discuss what you want and what matters in a successful / healthy relationship. I also offer some advice for both men and women who are single and dating. We are on all major platforms like YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and subscribe on YouTube. Please send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss. Email us at [email protected] with any feedback!

In this episode (I chose to date differently), I switch places with a few alums (Brandon, Jomar, and Paul) from the show and they ask me questions about my current relationship and journey to proposing. We discuss why I needed to take a break from the dating apps. I share how I met my fiancee at the time and explain why I set certain boundaries early in our relationship. I breakdown my issue with how most people date these days and highlight how I chose to date differently. I also recall things that I have learned about relationships and marriage from hosting this podcast that helped accelerate the progression of my relationship.  We are on all major platforms like YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and subscribe on YouTube. Please send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss. Email us at [email protected] with any feedback!

In this episode (The "head of household" misnomer), I wrap up my conversation with Aubrey as fatherhood and what it means to lead a household. We debate whether there is a head of household in modern families. We talk about decision-making in relationships and explore the difference between dictatorship and leadership. We discuss how fatherhood expands your love. We highlight the importance of supporting and being present for your partner during the fertility process. We talk about the need to find your village. And I conclude our discussion by spending time understanding postpartum effects on women, and potentially men, and how people can lose themselves in it. We are on all major platforms like YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and subscribe on YouTube. Please send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss. Email us at [email protected] with any feedback!

In this episode (Ess, Eff, Aye - Survive, Forgive, Advance), I continue my conversation with Aubrey as we discuss tough moments in his marriage and forward together. We talk about the idea of failing fast and cancel-culture, especially when it comes to dating. We discuss the importance of boundaries, understanding them, and holding fast to them. We unpack the importance of communication in a relationship, highlighting the process of having tough conversations with your partner on big life decisions (i.e., timing for children, the number of kids, buying a house). Aubrey speaks on his family's fertility journey and emphasizes the need for both parties to take the steps to understand their fertility status. Aubrey shares his secret to marriage, which includes surviving the tough moments, forgiving in those situations, and advancing forward. He also gives his perspective on leadership and sentiments that come with punching above or below your weight. We also spend time acknowledging the importance of knowing yourself, knowing your partner, how to handle them, and what is required in doing that - mutual respect and trust.  We are on all major platforms like YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and subscribe on YouTube. Please send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss. Email us at [email protected] with any feedback!

In this episode (Intentionality comes with sacrifice), I begin my conversation with Aubrey as we discuss his journey in finding the right person and getting married. We talk about the challenge men have in trying to balance prioritizing finding the right person for your life and getting your life set up or straightened out. We discuss how he navigated a long distance relationship as well as some of the benefits that come from being in that type of situation. We unpack the importance of living a disciplined life and having a person that anchors you in that and fits versus someone that pulls you away from it. We highlight the process of adjusting to your partner's norms (and vice versa) and acknowledging when effort is being put in even if it doesn't match what you want. We explore what it means to be a modern traditionalist and how people evolve even after you've been with the same person for a long time.    We are on all major platforms like YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and subscribe on YouTube. Please send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss. Email us at [email protected] with any feedback!  

In this episode (Fatherhood doesn't start at birth), I wrap up my conversation with Terrence as we discuss fatherhood and his growth as a father and husband. We talk about how to be more attentive during your wife's pregnancy. We discuss the first couple of months after a baby is born and the main focus being survival on all fronts. We highlight the demands of breastfeeding and the toll it can take as well as how guys can be helpful with the feeding process. We unpack dealbreakers and the importance of discussing them early on in a relationship. We also spend time exploring premarital counseling and share our thoughts on doing it prior to the engagement. We are on all major platforms like YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and subscribe on YouTube. Please send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss. Email us at [email protected] with any feedback!  

In this episode (Playing in the gray area), I continue my conversation with Terrence as we discuss the steps he took to build a solid foundation for his marriage. We talk about how he was challenged in growing intimacy within his relationship and marriage. We discuss the importance of having emotional safety in a relationship as well as how it can feed your physical intimacy with your partner. We unpack how a man's perception and appreciation of vulnerability changes as a relationship with your partner matures. We spend time highlighting how fixing issues doesn't erase what happened in the past. We uncover the perks of going to marital counseling, even in the early stages of marriage. I also get his perspective on the necessity of becoming more effective in conflict resolution in a healthy relationship. We are on all major platforms like YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and subscribe on YouTube. Please send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss. Email us at [email protected] with any feedback!

In this episode (Trying to protect you from me), I begin my conversation with Terrence as we discuss him playing the gray prior to marriage and what changed for him in his  journey to marriage. We talk about how proposing and getting engaged can feel heavier than actually getting married. We discuss why he waited until he proposed to say "I love you" for the first time. We highlight the importance of providing reassurance to your partner. We unpack the effects and impact on him from not growing up in a traditional environment or seeing healthy relationships. We spend time exploring why he tried to let go of a relationship that he was not ready for. I also get his explanation on the difference between selfishness and strategy when being involved with someone. We are on all major platforms like YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss. Email us at [email protected] with any feedback!

In this episode (You want someone that chooses you), I wrap up my conversation with Lamar as we discuss his journey in marriage and fatherhood.   We talk about navigating pregnancy issues and an atopic pregnancy. We discuss how you have to move differently in a committed relationship or marriage. We unpack some of the joy he gets from doing things with your children that you didn't get to during his childhood. We highlight getting a vasectomy and how it's a better preventative measure than options available to women. We spend time exploring his fatherhood journey, where his kids have become his biggest mirror, raising children on the autism spectrum, and learning that there is nothing to fix with neurodivergent children. We are on all major platforms like YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss. Email us at [email protected] with any feedback!  

In this episode (There was some healing that I needed), I begin my conversation with Lamar as we discuss his journey in marriage and learning to trust.   We talk about how to shoot your shot at a woman you see rejecting other guys. We discuss the importance of having a ride-or-die partner and someone who is willing to "shoot with you in the gym." We unpack the struggles that can come in a relationship from issues with trust and vulnerability. We go on to highlight his process of learning how to love someone and creating an infrastructure for vulnerability. We spend time expressing our thoughts on therapy as a preventative measure and pathway for growth and healing. We explore his first few years of marriage and how he and wife survived the challenges that made it rough. We also touch on learning how to balance passions and personal interests with the things that actually matter (i.e., God, wife, children, family). We are on all major platforms like YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss. Email us at [email protected] with any feedback!  

In this episode (Healing is not a one day thing), I wrap my conversation with LaDarius as we discuss his journey in marriage and faith.   We talk about the importance of communicating expectations upfront. We discuss how he and his wife navigated several major life changes - getting pregnant, being engaged, becoming a father, dealing with COVID epidemic, and getting married - within less than two years. We explore the need to heal and the way having a strong relationship with Jesus Christ can show you how to operate in marriage. We also highlight the impact therapy can have and how it proactively helped him get in front of things that he needed and wanted to navigate.  We are on all major platforms like YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss. Email us at [email protected] with any feedback!  

In this episode (Your joy is your responsibility), I begin my conversation with LaDarius as we tackle how he faced his history, created boundaries, and found happiness as he pursued his now-wife for marriage. We discuss the importance of maintaining boundaries when dating and while trying to grow a deeper relationship with Christ. We talk about navigating our personal history, more specifically, his wounds from his mother and how it's part of the preparation process. We unpack his realization during a period of time when he wasn't making the best decisions for himself and the effects of placing blame on others when you're getting what you want. We dissect his mindset shift required to maintain his joy. We also explore the need to acknowledge and be present in your partner's feelings when you are working to achieve your personal goals as well as the things you want for your relationship. We touch on the challenges of being an influencer and entrepreneur while maintaining a marriage.  We are on all major platforms like YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss. Email us at [email protected] with any feedback!  

In this episode (Sometimes you don't want to hear $h!t about yourself), I wrap up my conversation with Allen and his evolution as a husband and father. We discuss how "good sex" looks different to different people. We talk about the misconceptions of sex and challenges that can come up in that area once married. We explore why women do not usually communicate or give feedback to their partner when they've had poor sexual experiences. Allen and I unpack how fatherhood has changed him and the importance of preparing your children for adult experiences. We also touch on therapy and I get his perspective on what is hard about going as well as why people should go to therapy. We are on all major platforms. YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss. Email us at [email protected] with any feedback!  

In this episode (Nobody's perfect and no relationship is perfect), I continue my conversation with Allen, exploring the ups and downs of his relationship and journey to marriage.  We discuss his five-year engagement and how he navigated this journey with his fiancee. We talk about his rationale for having a child during the COVID epidemic and discuss how he was able to get past a bump in the road with his in-laws. Allen and I explore the importance of moving as a unit in marriage. We also break down a few different approaches to finances for a household. We are on all major platforms. YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss. Email us at [email protected] with any feedback!  

In this episode (I gave her an ultimatum), I explore Allen's journey to marriage and challenges that come with dating. I talk to a friend, who's recently married after being engaged for five years, to uncover lessons learned. We discuss navigating life's transitions on one's journey to getting married. We talk about how having a child impacts your calculus on getting married. Allen and I investigate why guys are scared to shoot their shot and the best places for singles to meet each other. We share different views on dating versus courting. We explore why people look for symbolic things, when dating, that don't have a lot of meaning when it comes to marriage. We are on all major platforms. YouTube (http://www.youtube.com/@ThinkLoveWife), Apple Podcasts, Spotify, TuneIn, Castbox and other streaming services. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss. Email us at [email protected] with any feedback!  

In this episode (Selflessly Selfish), I discuss with Darrin how he navigated obstacles such as long distance, being an entrepreneur, and infidelity prior to getting married as well as how those lessons learned has helped him become a good husband. We focus on the challenges that come with trying to satisfy your passions as well as your partner. I talk about the importance of having someone that supports you and your passions. We explore the tough calls and tradeoffs you have to make when doubling down on pursuing your dreams and how critical it is to know when to get out or pivot. We also examine how generational differences impact how we view dating today, pursue relationships, and consider sources of advice.  Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/  We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss.  

In this episode (The benefit of truly learning somebody), I wrap up my conversation with Carlton as we talk through the benefit of truly learning someone and having a healthy sex life in a marriage. We discuss the challenge that men have listening instead of problem-solving. We highlight the intentionality required to develop organic and strong relationships with the in-laws. We examine the importance of sex in a marriage and maintaining an active sexual dynamic throughout the years. We conclude on the idea that the head of the household being a collective effort. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/  We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss.  

In this episode (The unfortunate part of dating), I discuss the value of knowing your person's heart with Carlton as he shares more of his journey in marriage and in fatherhood. We talk about why guys are okay dating more than one person at the same time and the tradeoffs you make while dating multiple people. We discuss how harder it becomes to date as people get older and considerations for living with your partner prior to marriage. We examine the need for parity in a relationship and being mindful of the development opportunities of who you choose to hitch your wagon. We highlight the importance of communication in the middle of conflict and investing in your relationship once kids are in the picture. We also debate what matters more: trusting or respecting someone for their opinions or feedback.  Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/  We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss.  

In this episode (Am I really willing to do the work?), I discuss the feeling of knowing when you know and how they led to Carlton dating someone he randomly met prior to graduating college as well as their journey in marriage.  We discuss the importance of being intentional when getting to know someone. We break down the process of knowing that you know and how specific experiences can solidify how a guy feels about a woman. We also dive deep in what it means when a guy says "you know when you know". Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/  We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss.  

In this episode (I could have went off the rails), I wrap up my conversation with Courtney discussing critical moments that challenged his marriage early onsuch as dealing with a miscarriage and overcoming a severe covid experience. We emphasize the need to find time and space for yourself in the midst of internal and external chaos so you can show up better for your partner and family. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/  We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss.

In this episode (From supporting myself to supporting three), I talk to Courtney about his journey of becoming a stepfather. We discuss the importance of creating boundaries and relationship norms while learning to be a stepfather. We dive into the conversations required to engage as a parental figure while dating. We highlight why you should break through taboo norms and not wait very long to have meaningful conversations on important topics (i.e., life goals, salary/income). Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/  We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss.

In this episode (Shoutout to Bumble!), I discuss how Courtney's match on Bumble turned from a casual dating scenario to a marriage. We talk about dating a woman with a child and navigating how to build individual relationships with both. We highlight his doubts and misconceptions. We also examine the natural progression men go through in their journey towards marriage. Black-owned bourbon brand named in this episode is by the Brough Brothers Distillery (https://broughbrothers.com). Please support by checking them out. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/  We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss.  

In this episode (I don't want a cheerleader), I wrap up my conversation with Jourdan as he explains his need to have a partner he can trust and that can hold their own as he navigates his marriage with someone of a different ethic, cultural, and religious background.  We run back their decision to not live with each other, despite moving to a new city together. We talk through navigating the differences between expectations and preferences. We discuss the importance of having tough conversations to get to a happy place even if you're not happy with the outcome. We offer our perspective on compatibility and how vulnerability looks different for different people. We highlight the need for self-awareness in a relationship and to show up for your partner just as much as you do for yourself. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/  We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss.  

In this episode (We never look at anybody's Ls), I talk to Jourdan about his reluctance in participating in the dating game and how being honest with himself and what he wanted led to him finding his wife.  We examine the world of dating today and thematic problems that people face. We discuss taking a different approach to dating and the importance of strong communication and being upfront with people from jump. We dive into navigating dating while focusing on life's other priorities. We emphasize the necessity of being honest with ourselves first when it comes to dating - what we want, the realisticness of our expectations, and the tradeoffs we're willing to make. We also spend time on the need to understand our mental health and benefits of seeing a therapist.  Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/  We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss.

In this episode (We took the first baby for granted), I wrap up my conversation with Julian, reflecting on an emotionally tough period in his marriage, dealing with pregnancy issues, and having a rainbow baby We talk about how it was supporting a pregnant wife while living long distance. We discuss the difficulty of having to terminate a pregnancy. We highlight the importance of not checking out during traumatic and emotionally heavy situations. We also dive deep on dealing with the fears and emotions while trying to navigate the pregnancy of a rainbow baby.  Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/  We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss.

In this episode (Titles and definitions have to be the same), I continue my conversation with Julian as we reflect on dating apps and attributes he saw in his wife leading to his proposal. We highlight important attributes to look for in a partner. We discuss swiping with intentions on the dating apps. We examine the importance of supporting your partner in the midst of adversity. We also dissect how pivotal it can be to see how someone shows up for you, especially in areas of vulnerability. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/  We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss.  

In this episode (You have to let yourself heal first), I discuss finding love after a serious breakup with Julian and talk about his journey towards marriage and the road to fatherhood. We talk about recovering from a breakup after a long-term relationship. We discuss the importance of listening to your gut. We examine the scary part of giving up control when in a relationship. We conclude this episode highlighting the value of talking to a therapist and how helpful it can be, especially after a big breakup.   Check out @exclavespirits on instagram or www.exclavespirits.com if you are interested in trying the Rye that Julian was drinking or supporting Black-owned distilleries. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/  We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss.

In this episode (You're supposed to be the rock), I conclude my conversation with Nkem discussing key aspects he considered in getting married and that he values in his marriage. We investigate the importance of marrying someone in the same culture. We discuss why for some guys it's important for a woman to take their last name. We highlight how it is growing up in the Nigerian culture and the impact it can have on relationships. We examine the difference between being the rock for your family and being the source of strength for them. We also spend time on things we want to replicate from the culture we were brought up in and things that we don't.  Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/  We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss.

In this episode (The streets retired me), Nkem and I examine some of the issues he had to overcome in his long distance relationship and marriage. We talk about when guys start looking for marriage in a relationship. We highlight how moving in with someone is a big step and some of the considerations to factor if doing it before marriage. We agree on the necessity of having tough conversations with people in a respectful way. We emphasize the importance of having positive experiences in dating. I also reiterate that I don't like the term dating.  Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/  We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss.  

In this episode (Seeing more cons than pros), I discuss with Nkem how he transformed a long distance relationship into a marriage.  We talk about doing things out of obligation and provide our thoughts on whether love and logic go together in a relationship. He explains how understanding love languages are even more essential when in a long distance relationship. He shares his belief that men know where they fall in a pack and should shoot within their range. We highlight how men are not taught how to please a woman sexually and the importance of communication when it comes to sex. We discuss factors the may impact sex and our expectations for sex during life transitions (i.e., in marriage, during pregnancy, post-partum). Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/  We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss.

In this episode (Not a fan of the term dating), I provide a recap of what has been going on within me, share why there has been so much time between seasons, and express why I am not a fan of the term dating.  Major theme from this episode include: Life lifes at times and there's nothing wrong with focusing on the things you choose to prioritize Some of you wanted my "advice" so I got certified as a life coach and started a business called Nelo Effect (www.neloeffect.com) where I offer thought partnership to clients. I'm also working to become a licensed professional counselor so I can better support those who want to grow as individuals, as desirable candidates in the dating world, as strong partners in their relationships. Follow on IG (@nelo.effect)  Podcasting is not cheap, so I've created ways for people to support the cause and assist with equipment, studio time, operational costs to keep the podcast going, especially as I work to add a video component to the podcast for season 4. Support donations can be made via Zelle to [email protected] Interim titles on the road to marriage don't matter as much if you focus on healthy communication, sincere honesty, intentional action, reliable consistency, graceful patience, and showing up authentically Season 3 starts next week This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/  We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss.

In this episode (Get your no's out of the way early), I wrap up my conversation with Brooke Fitzpatrick, the founder of Mosaic Matchmaking and l get her thoughts as a dating coach. We talk about the costs of dating and some of the thoughts that go into asking a woman out on a date. We examine what's a reasonable amount of time to chat before you move off the apps with a match. We discuss common complaints that people have with dating apps. We breakdown the advantages and disadvantages of several dating apps. We offer thoughts on ways people can improve their dating profile. We also dive into the difference between dating and courting and the importance of reciprocity.   For more information on Mosiac Matchmaking to go https://mosaicmatchmaking.com/ and follow on IG at @mosaicmatchmaking Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/  We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss.

In this episode (Woman should participate in courtship), I learn more about Mosaic Matchmaking with its founder Brooke Fitzpatrick We learn how she sets expectations for client's and the potential matches and how she goes about matching them. We spend a great deal of time talking about how important it is to invest in your dating app profile. She highlights common issues she hears from her clients and why they choose to go with a matchmaking service. We share our thoughts on dating multiple people at once and the feeling required to have a chance for success For more information on Mosiac Matchmaking to go https://mosaicmatchmaking.com/ and follow on IG at @mosaicmatchmaking Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/  We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss.

In this episode (Matchmaking as a Service), I discuss with Brooke Fitzpatrick, the founder of Mosaic Matchmaking, and learn about her business, how she got started, and how she coaches singles as well as matches them with viable candidates. We talk about what she's hearing from both men and women who are trying to find love. She highlights the importance of taking some risks while dating and what comes with the territory of putting your heart out there. We learn about her philosophy when it comes to matchmaking and what happens to people that join her database. For more information on Mosiac Matchmaking to go https://mosaicmatchmaking.com/ and follow on IG at @mosaicmatchmaking Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. This episode is sponsored by Nelo Effect, a coaching and consulting service that helps people turn mindfulness into action as they navigate the dating world as well as in their relationships. Learn more at https://neloeffect.com/dating-relationship-advising/  We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay Music, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and Facebook. Send questions or topics you'd like us to discuss.

In this episode (Marriage is extremely dynamic), I wrap up my conversation with a guy who's met his partner in Vegas while visiting from another country and examine his journey to marriage and fatherhood. We talk about the importance of making space and time for yourself, especially in a relationship. We discuss finances and allocating money for your personal hobbies and individual needs. We highlight the intentionality required to keep the spark alive in a marriage. We dive deep on balancing emotions and understanding which ones to project out, because everything doesn't need to be shared. We uncover some of the unique feelings that come from fatherhood. We break down some of the misconceptions of marriage and how critical timing is to meeting the right partner. We wrap up with our thoughts on what people are truly looking for in a partner and our perspective on dating women with children. We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Google Podcasts, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send any questions and topics that you'd like me to discuss. Check out our sponsor - Sharper Services, an ACN Independent Business Owner, for your one-stop shop for all of your residential and business utility needs. Sharper Services can help you put extra money back in your pocket each month. Check out their offers at www.sharperservices.com or text "Think Love Wife" to 214-997-4205 for a quote on these free services.  Email me at [email protected] with any feedback!  

In this episode (Stick to your guns), I continue my conversation with a guy who's met his partner in Vegas while visiting from another country and examine his journey to marriage and fatherhood. We talk about the male ego and when we need to check it. We discuss the attractiveness of women who can take charge and the importance of seeing your partner actively make an effort towards the things you ask for. We uncover the blessings that going through seasons early in a relationship can provide. We explain how personal issues can impact the way a man progresses in his relationship and the communication required to overcome. We share how some men deal with break up and view taking the necessary steps forward. We break down how the feeling of "knowing" you're with the right person can trump some of the rigid rules we have, typical protocol we like to follow, and the desired data points we like to gather. We highlight how people are typically checking for things on the margin when it's not an instant or automatic fit / connection. We wrap up with a discussion on balancing the time it takes to cultivate a strong foundation with the expected pace to get to commitment and exclusivity. We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Google Podcasts, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send any questions and topics that you'd like me to discuss. Check out our sponsor - Sharper Services, an ACN Independent Business Owner, for your one-stop shop for all of your residential and business utility needs. Sharper Services can help you put extra money back in your pocket each month. Check out their offers at www.sharperservices.com or text "Think Love Wife" to 214-997-4205 for a quote on these free services.  Email me at [email protected] with any feedback!

In this episode (It's about opportunity and access), I start my conversation with a guy who's met his partner in Vegas, while visiting from another country and examine his journey to marriage and fatherhood. We talk about the adaptability required in a relationship, especially with long distance. We discuss women being risk averse and how expectations can lead to disappointment. We explain leverage dynamics and how it tends to change hands over the course of a relationship. We highlight the need for people to be authentic to themselves and for men to be more intentional about matching their actions with actions with how they feel about a woman. We dive deep in the value of having time apart from your partner. We describe some of the mental notes that men take when interacting with a woman and how much we evaluate the way a woman responds to things. We uncover why men are sometimes hesitant to move a relationship forward. We also share our thoughts on dealing with rejection and the things that can make guys feel less of a man. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Google Podcasts, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send any questions and topics that you'd like me to discuss. Check out our sponsor - Sharper Services, an ACN Independent Business Owner, for your one-stop shop for all of your residential and business utility needs. Sharper Services can help you put extra money back in your pocket each month. Check out their offers at www.sharperservices.com or text "Think Love Wife" to 214-997-4205 for a quote on these free services.  Email me at [email protected] with any feedback!

In this episode (It wasn't a full court press), I continue my conversation with a guy I've known for 20+ years, who's been remarried, and examine his journey towards finding love with the right person. We talk about the mixed messages that "courting" can send a woman in certain situations and how it can look like a full court press when it's not really one. We explain how men may react differently to a woman giving him what feels like demands. We discuss the differences between stating expectations and demanding them. We uncover the importance of showing your partner you support them. We highlight a key reason why it's important to celebrate marriage by having a wedding. He challenges my beliefs with his meaning behind opening a car door for a woman. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Google Podcasts, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send any questions and topics that you'd like me to discuss. Check out our sponsor - Sharper Services, an ACN Independent Business Owner, for your one-stop shop for all of your residential and business utility needs. Sharper Services can help you put extra money back in your pocket each month. Check out their offers at www.sharperservices.com or text "Think Love Wife" to 214-997-4205 for a quote on these free services.  Email me at [email protected] with any feedback!!

In this episode (I was definitely on her B-Team), I start my conversation with a guy I've known for 20+ years, who's been remarried, and examine his journey towards finding love with the right person. We talk about the desire to hedge even though we have something good right in front of us. We discuss how some people get married and not know the real reasons why. We dive deep in navigating the feelings, reflection, and next steps associated with getting a divorce. We show how men still have to be persistent and take chances even when we are not being prioritized in the dating phase. We explain specific situations where men aren't trying to be friends with women. We uncover why some men are relationship guys and why they typically find themselves in one. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Google Podcasts, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send any questions and topics that you'd like me to discuss. Check out our sponsor - Sharper Services, an ACN Independent Business Owner, for your one-stop shop for all of your residential and business utility needs. Sharper Services can help you put extra money back in your pocket each month. Check out their offers at www.sharperservices.com or text "Think Love Wife" to 214-997-4205 for a quote on these free services.  Email me at [email protected] with any feedback!  

In this episode (She taught me how to love), I continue my conversation with the father of a friend, who's been married for almost 30 years, and examine his journey towards getting married at a young age and his personal growth over time. We discuss the importance of developing a solid relationship with the in-laws. We talk about the perspective of treating your marriage like a family business. We share our thoughts on navigating the process to identify areas of improvement in a relationship. We highlight the mindshift and lessons learned in becoming a husband and a father at the same time. We explain the importance of showing up for your partner, especially during critical seasons of life. We dive deep on the need to accept family and cultural norms that your partner may have. We also uncover the lasting impact that being affectionate can have on children and how that's something that some men have to actively work on. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Google Podcasts, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send any questions and topics that you'd like me to discuss. Check out our sponsor - Sharper Services, an ACN Independent Business Owner, for your one-stop shop for all of your residential and business utility needs. Sharper Services can help you put extra money back in your pocket each month. Check out their offers at www.sharperservices.com or text "Think Love Wife" to 214-997-4205 for a quote on these free services.  Email me at [email protected] with any feedback!

In this episode (Marriage is a job), I start a conversation with the father of a friend, who's been married for almost 30 years, and examine his journey towards getting married at a young age and his personal growth over time. We share thoughts on how your perspective on relationships can change when a child is on the way. We talk about dating versus courting and how it looks different when a woman checks all of your boxes. We highlight the ways guys look at dating and the categories we put women in. We discuss the importance for guys to be honest upfront and express why it's valuable to have a "what I can do for you" perspective instead of a "what are you doing for me" mindset. We uncover ways to build trust with a man and lessons learned about communication. We also explain the mental notes that men take in their interactions with women. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Google Podcasts, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send any questions and topics that you'd like me to discuss. Check out our sponsor - Sharper Services, an ACN Independent Business Owner, for your one-stop shop for all of your residential and business utility needs. Sharper Services can help you put extra money back in your pocket each month. Check out their offers at www.sharperservices.com or text "Think Love Wife" to 214-997-4205 for a quote on these free services.  Email me at [email protected] with any feedback!

In this episode (It's a constant recalibration), I wrap my conversation with a friend, who's been married for 17 years, and examine his journey towards marriage with his high school "crush" and the obstacles and challenges they have faced while dating and in marriage. We talk about the role money plays in their relationship and how they do finances. We discuss how maturity on both sides changes with age. We highlight the importance of having your partner's support. We explain what it means to be a man in the context of being a husband and a father. We uncover how to demonstrate leadership in a household with an alpha woman. We also talk about how to navigate the things your partner wants you to do versus what your natural inclination is. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Google Podcasts, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send any questions and topics that you'd like me to discuss. Check out our sponsor - Sharper Services, an ACN Independent Business Owner, for your one-stop shop for all of your residential and business utility needs. Sharper Services can help you put extra money back in your pocket each month. Check out their offers at www.sharperservices.com or text "Think Love Wife" to 214-997-4205 for a quote on these free services.  Email me at [email protected] with any feedback!

In this episode (Men are mad emotional), I continue my conversation with a friend, who's been married for 17 years, and examine his journey towards marriage with his high school "crush" and the obstacles and challenges they have faced while dating and in marriage. We talk about dating versus courting and recognizing red flags. We discuss navigating the clock and condensed timelines that women have. We go deep on the strain that a lack of intimacy can put on a relationship. We highlight some of the lessons learned from seeing a counselor. We explain how people have different sex drives and how to find common ground. We explain why type A men are often attracted to type A women. We reveal the 95/5 rule and uncover how it plays out in a marriage. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Google Podcasts, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send any questions and topics that you'd like me to discuss. Check out our sponsor - Sharper Services, an ACN Independent Business Owner, for your one-stop shop for all of your residential and business utility needs. Sharper Services can help you put extra money back in your pocket each month. Check out their offers at www.sharperservices.com or text "Think Love Wife" to 214-997-4205 for a quote on these free services.  Email me at [email protected] with any feedback!!

In this episode (I'm a friend zone survivor), I start a conversation with a friend, who's been married for 17 years, and examine his journey towards marriage with his high school "crush" and the obstacles and challenges they have faced while dating and in marriage. We talk about falling in love with your best friend and the importance of having a partner that is self-sufficient. We discuss navigating the digital era as well as how it's changed the way people date and interact. We uncover some valuable lessons learned from being friend zoned. We highlight the value of getting dating experience and the growth that can come from that. We go deep on how a man can be in love but not be ready for marriage as well as how to navigate those feelings. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Google Podcasts, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send any questions and topics that you'd like me to discuss. Check out our sponsor - Sharper Services, an ACN Independent Business Owner, for your one-stop shop for all of your residential and business utility needs. Sharper Services can help you put extra money back in your pocket each month. Check out their offers at www.sharperservices.com or text "Think Love Wife" to 214-997-4205 for a quote on these free services.  Email me at [email protected] with any feedback!  

In this episode (Putting my feelings aside), I wrap up my conversation exploring love and relationship as I talk to a friend, who's been married for 7 years, and examine his journey towards marriage and how he and his wife have handled various challenges and adventures. We talk about the role money can have in a relationship. We discuss what the vows of marriage mean and the value of doing life with someone who understands you. We highlight different communication pro tips. We dive deep on the topic of children. We explain what the process is like and having to navigate issues that may come up with trying to get pregnant. We break down the factors involved with having a child and the role a man can have with pregnancy issues. We also uncover some of the consequences of being prideful. And we end on the importance of being a support system for your partner. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Google Podcasts, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send any questions and topics that you'd like me to discuss. Check out our sponsor - Sharper Services, an ACN Independent Business Owner, your one-stop shop for all of your residential and business utility needs. Sharper Services can help you put extra money back in your pocket each month. Check out their offers at www.sharperservices.com or text "Think Love Wife" to 214-997-4205 for a quote on these free services.  Email me at [email protected] with any feedback!

In this episode (Casting unnecessary blame), I continue my conversation exploring love and relationship as I talk to a friend, who's been married for 7 years, and examine his journey towards marriage and how he and his wife have handled various challenges and adventures. We talk about contemplating divorce and the things that led to that like communication issues, aligning on love languages, as well as the domino effect that it can cause. He explains how him and his wife got over the hump of wanting a divorce. We discuss the need men have to control things and in some cases force the things they want. We unpack the various levels of intimacy and why all of them matter. We look at the blame associated with a lack of intimacy, dealing with tension points, and the after effect of constant friction. We also go over his decision to move to another country for his wife, the decision making process for that, and the importance of having the right support system.  Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Google Podcasts, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send any questions and topics that you'd like me to discuss. Email me at [email protected] with any feedback!

In this episode (We tend to proceed before acknowledging), I explore navigating a relationship through marriage, tough career decisions, and intentions to grow a family. I talk to a friend, who's been married for 7 years, and examine his journey towards marriage and how he and his wife have handled various challenges and adventures.  We discuss the sacrifices made for a long distance relationship and the collective critical decision making points that come up. We go further to talk through making the decision to move to be close to a partner before having real certainty in the relationship. We uncover the power of acknowledgement, especially as it pertains to your partner's feelings. We talk through his decision to propose and trying to determine if she was the right person for him. We go deep in the internal evaluation of being prepared to be someone's husband and ability to be a good husband. We highlight the lessons learned like having patience and that all issues won't be resolved immediately as well as the continuous work marriage takes. He explains how important it is to work on yourself first, the various happiness levels he's experienced in his marriage, and the moments when he had serious thoughts of filing for divorce.   Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Google Podcasts, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send any questions and topics that you'd like me to discuss. Email me at [email protected] with any feedback!

In this episode (How do I out serve her), I wrap my conversation with a friend, who's been married for 5 years, and examine his journey towards marriage and how he and his wife have navigated challenging times.  We discuss service leadership in a relationship and the mentality to out serve your partner. We talk about the roles and responsibilities in the household and the importance of having a partner that will hold you accountable. We debate the perception of the term "head of household" and why it might be outdated. I inquire about creating space for your wife to find and have a voice in the relationship. We go deep on how to balance the business of the relationship with the romance in the relationship. We end the conversation around the idea of maturity, what that means, and the importance of time management to balance areas we invest our energy in. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Google Podcasts, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send any questions and topics that you'd like me to discuss. Email me at [email protected] with any feedback!

In this episode (How do I out serve her), I wrap my conversation with a friend, who's been married for 5 years, and examine his journey towards marriage and how he and his wife have navigated challenging times.  We discuss service leadership in a relationship and the mentality to out serve your partner. We talk about the roles and responsibilities in the household and the importance of having a partner that will hold you accountable. We debate the perception of the term "head of household" and why it might be outdated. I inquire about creating space for your wife to find and have a voice in the relationship. We go deep on how to balance the business of the relationship with the romance in the relationship. We end the conversation around the idea of maturity, what that means, and the importance of time management to balance areas we invest our energy in. We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Google Podcasts, TuneIn, Soundcloud, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send any questions and topics that you'd like me to discuss. Email me at [email protected] with any feedback!

In this episode (The little things add up), I continue my conversation with a friend, who's been married for 5 years, and examine his journey towards marriage and how he and his wife have navigated challenging times. We discuss evaluating someone as a wife versus a girlfriend and the difference between dating and courting. We talk about how he made his long distance relationship work and the grace required to be successful. We go deep to understand the benefits and concerns brought on from being in a long distance relationship as well as key things to consider when deciding who should move. I push hard to understand how he navigated living with someone for the first time and getting through the first year of marriage. I also get his thoughts on pre-marital counseling and learn about how going to a marriage counselor helped save his marriage. Help support the podcast so it can continue to give you quality content. Donations of support can be made via Zelle to [email protected]. Contributions will go towards things like equipment, studio time, and operational costs to keep this podcast going. We are on all major platforms. Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Google Podcasts, TuneIn, Castbox, and many others. Don't forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Looking for a couples or marriage counselor, check out Marquita Y. Clay. She is the counselor referenced in this episode and is based in Dallas, TX, but also does online sessions. Follow @ThinkLoveWife on Instagram and send any questions and topics that you'd like me to discuss. Email me at [email protected] with any feedback!