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IADGAF

Welcome to IADGAF (formerly known as The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast & The Love Atiya Experience) a sensual rebellion disguised as a podcast created as an unapologetic “f**k you” to the patriarchy.This is the playground for every part of you that society attempted to tame! That means the too emotional, too loud, too sexual, too sensitive, too powerful parts if you get to come out, stretch, shake off the shame, and maybe even twerk a little under the moonlight (highly recommended.)This is where we decolonize our minds, undomesticate our desires, decenter men, recenter ourselves, redefine what femininity looks like outside of the male gaze (eeeeyuck) and literally practice not giving a f*ck. It’s time for us to step out of the cage the world built for you and walk barefoot into your own wildness.

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    Love Island USA Review Episode 4 | Ooooo She's Getting That Turtle Tongue Happy PRIDE!

    Send us Fan MailWelcome back, beautiful humans! 🌴✨It's time for another Love Island USA Season 8 recap because Episode 4 brought even more flirting, drama, tension, and messy villa dynamics.In today's video, I'm sharing my reactions, opinions, predictions, and hot takes on everything that happened in Episode 4.We're talking:💕 The couples that seem to be getting stronger👀 Islanders who surprised me this episode🔥 New connections and shifting dynamics🚩 Flags that are getting redder by the minute💋 The flirting, awkward moments, and villa tension🍿 The drama that had me glued to my screenEpisode 4 gave us plenty to discuss, and some of these islanders are making choices that have me seriously questioning their game plan.Who are your favorite islanders right now? Which couple are you rooting for? Who do you think is playing the game and who do you think is genuinely looking for love? Let me know in the comments because I love hearing everyone's opinions.Don't forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications so you don't miss future Love Island reviews, reality TV commentary, pleasure-positive conversations, and all the random things I become obsessed with.Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/nNcn_IHzrOE✨ Follow me:Instagram: @loveatiyaTikTok: @iloveatiya🌐 Website:https://www.loveatiya.com/🌸 Looking for deeper conversations about relationships, self-love, pleasure, embodiment, and breaking free from shame? Check out the Ethereal Pleasure Oasis—my online educational platform and community dedicated to helping people reconnect with themselves through pleasure and liberation.✨ Enjoy even more content at:https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience#LoveIslandUSA #LoveIslandUSASeason8 #LoveIslandReview #RealityTV #RealityTVCommentary #LoveAtiyaSupport the show

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    Love Island USA Review Episode 3 | It's Giving They're About To Unravel

    Send us Fan MailWelcome back, beautiful humans! 🌴✨It's time for another Love Island USA Season 8 recap because Episode 3 gave us exactly what we signed up for: flirting, tension, questionable decisions, unexpected connections, and enough villa drama to keep me fully invested.In today's video, I'm sharing my thoughts, reactions, predictions, and hot takes on everything that went down in Episode 3.We're talking:💕 The couples that are starting to emerge👀 Islanders who completely changed my opinion this episode🔥 Unexpected chemistry and surprising connections🚩 Early red flags that have me concerned💋 The flirting, tension, and awkward moments🍿 The drama that had me yelling at my screenIt's only Episode 3, but people are already showing us who they are (thank god like yesss give us authenticity), and I have THOUGHTS.Who are your favorite islanders so far? Which couple are you rooting for? Who do you think is here for love and who do you think is playing the game? Let me know in the comments because discussing Love Island is half the fun.Don't forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications so you don't miss future Love Island reviews, reality TV commentary, pleasure-positive conversations, and all the random things I become obsessed with.✨ Follow me:Instagram: @loveatiyaTikTok: @iloveatiyaWATCH THE VIDEO REVIEW: https://youtu.be/1afKdH591go🌐 Website: https://www.loveatiya.com/🌸 Looking for deeper conversations about relationships, self-love, pleasure, embodiment, and breaking free from shame? Check out the Ethereal Pleasure Oasis—my online educational platform and community dedicated to helping people reconnect with themselves through pleasure and liberation.✨ Learn more at:https://www.loveatiya.com/FOR BONUS CONTENT: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience#LoveIslandUSA #LoveIslandUSASeason8 #LoveIslandReview #RealityTV #RealityTVCommentary #VillaDrama #LoveAtiyaSupport the show

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    Love Island USA Review Episode 2 | It's Giving The Challengers & MFM

    Send us Fan MailWelcome back, beautiful humans! 🌴✨We're back for another Love Island USA recap/review because somehow after only two episodes, I'm already emotionally invested in strangers making questionable romantic decisions on national television.In today's video, we're breaking down everything that happened in Love Island USA Episode 2! The connections, the chemistry, the drama, the confusion, the almost threesomes land the moments that had me yelling at my screen (like when Bryce was kicked out of the Kayda and Zach bedroom cuddle session and slept 10 miles away on the bed.)We're talking:💋 New developments between the couples👀 Islanders who completely changed my opinion🔥 Unexpected chemistry & The almost "Challengers" Scene🚩 Red flags that are becoming impossible to ignore💕 Who seems genuine and who's giving "here for the followers"🍿 The moments that made me laugh, cringe, gasp, and immediately text my bestieOne thing about me: I love analyzing relationships, attraction, communication styles, and good ol human behavior. So while we're absolutely here for the reality TV chaos, we're also diving into what's happening beneath the surface.Episode 2 gave us a little more insight into everyone's personalities, and let's just say... some people are moving up my list of favs while others are hanging on by a thread.Who are your favorite islanders so far? Which couple are you rooting for? Do you think I'm completely wrong about someone? Let me know in the comments because discussing Love Island is basically a sport at this point.Don't forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications for more Love Island reviews, reality TV commentary, pleasure-positive conversations, and whatever else captures my attention this week.WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/CkW7SO2p4hs✨ Follow me:Instagram: @loveatiyaTikTok: @iloveatiya🌸 If you're here for the deeper conversations about relationships, embodiment, pleasure, self-discovery, and breaking free from shame, check out the Ethereal Pleasure Oasis! My online community and educational platform dedicated to helping people reconnect with themselves through pleasure, self-love, and liberation.https://www.loveatiya.com/#LoveIslandUSA #LoveIsland #LoveIslandUSAReview #RealityTV #RealityTVCommentary #LoveAtiyaSupport the show

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    BONUS EPISODE: You Are So Much More Than Your Trauma

    Send us Fan MailHey beautiful souls!Welcome to a bonus episode where I’m basically catching you up on my journey of giving less f*cks. In today’s episode we talk all about: How we are so much more than our trauma The time I took a pause on my sobriety My emotional breakdown (I sobbed)Growing up in a household without room to process my emotionsSidebar: I don’t really know if my mom thought I was sociopathic because I wouldn’t cry lol that’s an assumption I madeThe time I cried every day in my “relationship”How we need to normalize NOT trauma dumpingIdentifying cycle breakers vs cycle continuersFriends that keep trauma dumping How I FINALLY hung out with someone who didn’t suffocate me (and I actually had real fun!)Me constantly forgetting facts about myself Book recommendation: Healing Developmental Trauma Embark in 5 weeks of pleasure with The Ethereal Pleasure Oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureoasis Want exclusive content & access to bonus clips? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Pleasure Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Pleasure Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    Love Island USA Review Episode 1 | It's Giving Nostalgic Love Island

    Send us Fan MailWelcome, beautiful humans! 🌴✨Love Island USA is officially back and you already know I had thoughts.If you know me, you know I've been riding with this show since Season 1 (far less enthusiastically) but the nostalgic vibes of these villa-ians finally inspird me to share my thoughts on what's gonna go down this summer.So if you're new here, welcome lol and if you're used to my other content, I hope you enjoy this too (but feel free to stick around for my regularly scheduled content)In today's video, I'm sharing my reactions, first impressions, favorite islanders, questionable decisions, and all the chaos from Love Island USA Episode 1.We're discussing:💕 The first couplings👀 My initial thoughts on each islander🔥 Who has chemistry and who absolutely does not🚩 The red flags that had me side-eyeing my screen💋 The flirting, tension, and awkward moments🍿 My predictions for who's going to thrive and who's in danger alreadyAs someone who is endlessly fascinated by attraction, relationships, communication, and human behavior, I love analyzing what's happening beneath the surface while also fully embracing the reality TV messiness.It's only Episode 1 and somehow I'm already DEEPLY invested.Who are your favorites so far? Which couple are you rooting for? Who do you think is playing a game? Let me know in the comments because I need people to obsess over this season with.Don't forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications for more Love Island reviews, reality TV commentary, pleasure-positive conversations, and whatever other hyper-fixation I decide to bring to the internet.FULL VIDEO REVIEW: https://youtu.be/pDWkcU4cbDcFOR BONUS UNFILTERED CONTENT REGARDING LOVE ISLAND BECOME A MEMBER TO MY PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience✨ Follow me:Instagram: @loveatiyaTikTok: @iloveatiya🌸 If you're here for the relationship conversations, self-discovery, embodiment, pleasure, and emotional growth side of my content, check out the Ethereal Pleasure Oasis—my online community and educational platform dedicated to helping people reconnect with themselves through pleasure, self-love, and liberation.https://www.loveatiya.com/#LoveIslandUSA #LoveIsland #LoveIslandUSAReview #RealityTV #RealityTVCommentary #LoveIsland2026 #LoveAtiyaSupport the show

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    Love Island UK Review Episodes 1, 2 & 3 | It's Giving Vecna

    Send us Fan MailWelcome back, beautiful humans! 🌴✨Today we're diving into my thoughts, reactions, hot takes, and probably a few dramatic opinions about Love Island UK Episodes 1, 2, and 3!If you know me, you know this isn't my usual content but I needed to add a little extra razzle dazzle and pleasure into my world and one of the things I love the most at the moment is LOVE ISLAND LMAOIn This Episode We're talking:💋 First impressions of the islanders👀 Who's giving main character energy and who's already testing my patience🔥 The strongest couples so far🚩 Early red flags I've noticed💕 Unexpected connections🍿 The drama, the flirting, the chaos, and everything in betweenAs a certified lover of reality TV and human behavior, I can't help but analyze the relationships, communication styles, attraction dynamics, and all the messy little moments that make Love Island so addictive.Do you agree with my hot takes? Who are you rooting for? Who needs to be dumped immediately? Let me know in the comments because I need someone to gossip with.Don't forget to like, subscribe, and turn on notifications so you don't miss future Love Island reviews, reality TV commentary, pleasure-positive conversations, and all the other random things happening inside my brain.✨ Follow me:Instagram: @loveatiyaTikTok: @iloveatiyaWATCH FULL EPISODE ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/uX5Z7NzaNUAFOR BONUS CONTENT & MY UNFILTERED LOVE ISLAND THOUGHTS: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience🌸 Looking for deeper conversations about pleasure, shame, relationships, embodiment, and self-discovery? Check out the Ethereal Pleasure Oasis, my online community and educational platform dedicated to helping people reconnect with themselves through pleasure and self-love.https://www.loveatiya.com/#LoveIslandUK #LoveIsland #LoveIslandReview #RealityTV #RealityTVCommentary #LoveIsland2026 #LoveAtiya #realitytvreview #realitytvrecap Support the show

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    My Pervy “Play Uncle” & Why It’s Okay To Feel Your Anger

    Send us Fan MailWelcome to yet another episode of THE IADGAF PODCAST!In todays episode we talk all about:The Lorax & how it’s kinda my favorite movie The epiphany I had about my caterpillar soup phase Being willingly be cracked open (non sexually)Building my my armor (or dropping it) by being triggered and embracing the triggers Adult me’s wants vs inner child me’s wantsHow we’re not supposed to be living this way (separate and disconnected) How somehow it’s a “male loneliness epidemic” yet people of all genders in the world is experiencing it A question for trans people (and how you want to be seen and recognized) That time I was so stressed I went temporarily blind (like a snake) Finding gratitude while in the midst of the storm My pervy “play uncle” reposting videos of me in lingerie How and why it’s okay (and necessary) to feel your anger Wanna learn more?Embark in 5 weeks of pleasure with The Ethereal Pleasure Oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureoasis Want exclusive content & access to bonus clips? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Pleasure Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Pleasure Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    80. How To Date Again After Taking A Long A** Break (Part 1)

    Send us Fan MailHey beautiful butterfly!Welcome to yet another episode of IADGAFIn today’s episode we’re talking about dating as well as: What even is a wombCan men’s breast produce milk? Freeing the nipple Pre Covid dating vs Post Covid dating The dating app dopamine boost from people shopping Challant ass men (and how I get the ick from them) Absolute “NOs” for dating profiles A guide on what not to have on your profile Why don’t people ask questions back? I like a man who actually doesn’t exist Daddy wounds x dating Dating with a disorganized attachment style My 5 week pleasure program 20 questions to ask people on dating apps cause wtf Wanna learn more?Embark in 5 weeks of pleasure with The Ethereal Pleasure Oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureoasis Want exclusive content & access to bonus clips? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Pleasure Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Pleasure Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    79. How To Become Less Accessible Without Giving A F*ck

    Send us Fan MailWelcome to season 4 of THE IADGAF podcast (formally known as The Love Atiya Experience & The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast) I am sooooooo excited for this newly revamped and rebranded version of my podcast. We made it to year 4 baby! This is a big F you to anyone who says I have a problem with commitment LOL THIS EPISODE IS DEDICATED TO MY FUR DAUGHTER TAM WHO IS THE CATALYST IN TEACHING ME HOW TO SET BOUNDARIES & TAKE UP SPACE (AND ALSO HOW TO REMOVE MY ENERGY WHEN THE VIBES ARE OFF)Today mantra: I actually don’t careTopics we’re hitting in today’s episode are: a welcome into season 4seeking the good in people (and how that’s f*cking us up) a storytime about how I thought I made a friend but now she’s lowkey blocked (featuring the actual voicenote I sent to her to end the connection) how daughters feel like they have to protect their dads reputation how to be less accessible f*ck my ex and his waves you have limited fucks use them wisely (the 5 fuck rule) featuring: questions you can ask yourself when contemplating if your need to revoke or minimize your access to people TAKEAWAY: people are going to feel a way, so the f*ck what?!Embark in 7 weeks of pleasure with The Ethereal Pleasure Oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureoasis Want exclusive content & access to bonus clips? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Pleasure Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Pleasure Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    78. IADGAF A PODCAST FOR PEOPLE WHO WANT TO GIVE LESS F*CKS

    Send us Fan MailHey! So my laptop started glitching while I was trying to fix the sound (peep my pristine intro with my NEW mic) anyways in honor of not giving a fuck i'm posting it as it because I refuse to let my glitching laptop stop me from releasing this LMAO so just turn it down when I start doing the breathing otherwise it may blow your eardrums out jk jk lmao enjoy babes I can't wait for ya'll to enjoy my OFFICIAL first episode dropping in MARCH!XoxoSupport the show

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    PATREON BONUS: So I Met Up With a Man IRL After a Year Of No Dating…

    Send us Fan MailHEY BEAUTIFUL SOULS! This episode was WAAAAAY too juicy for the main feed so I decided to upload it onto Patreon instead. Wanna hear the rest of the episode? Become a Butterfly (Patron) TODAY!  https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience This episode is all about:Soooooo many damn lessonsMy amazing ass flower, fruit, water, moldy soup analogy (somebody write this down for me please!)I need more “acknowledgers” in my world (be gone with non acknowledgement) Having a transactional relationship with a parent and it’s impacts Family can be the opps (learnt through pattern recognition) That one time I lowkey thought my mom was tryna kill me (she literally was trying to HELP me lmao) Learning how to differentiate when my ancestors send me signs (are they blessings, offering assistance or are they protecting me)The light skin spiders (no spider racism I promise) Accidentally thinking a friendship was real (LMAO awkward af girl I thought we were friends 🤣) But we’re all going through it Why I’m not adding mf’s on social media anymore (para social relationships are a drag)The guy I met up with from hinge back in NovemberHow much I love my twin sister friend “Minimadality” LMAOWanna hear the rest? Head to my Patreon for the FULL episode 🫶🏾 https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Support the show

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    PATREON BONUS: Sometimes You Just Don’t Got It To Give… and That’s OKAY

    Send us Fan MailSometimes You Just Don’t Got It To Give… and That’s OKAY“I was the loudest one clapping in the room, eventually I learned how to start clapping for myself”Question of the day: are we (humans) a little too sentient? or maybe we’re not sentient enough?! Idfk If this patreon bonus left you wanting more you can check out all of my exclusive content by becoming a patron today! https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Te Amo!Support the show

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    77. Friendship Archetypes and Feeling More Pleasure With Friends (Part 2)

    Send us Fan MailFriendship archetypes and feeling more pleasure with friends (Part 2)Where is part one?: Part one can be found on my Patreon! Listen for FREE by becoming a patron today!https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Affirmation: “I accept myself”This episode is all about: How I woke up to a scream from my higher self Visualizing me and my mom being on tv together The fleeting need for validation Doing what I want to do instead of what I should doMy back to back interactions with narcissists How I call myself “Seal girl” cause I just be clapping or everyone How I’m no longer being the audience for people Shoutouts to my mom for putting me onto the friendship archetypes theory My list of friendship types& different kinds of friendship archetypes Doing wtf I want to do My 47 day challenge P.s. I promise I’m setting up my mic this week lol Want to join my pleasure oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademyWanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Follow me on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    76. Solo Date Ideas & After Care Tips For Sexting

    Send us Fan MailTRIGGER WARNINGHey beautiful souls, this episode of The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast includes discussion and mention of sexual assault.These conversations may be activating or emotionally challenging for some listeners.Please listen with care, honor your boundaries, and pause or step away at any time if needed.i love you.In this episode we talk all about: Stories of Me and my 1st lesbian lover’s second go round & the time she fell asleep when we were sextingWhy wasn’t I always horny?Tips for after care (even after sexting)The time my aunt joked about my sexual assault What happens when I don’t listen to my gut Doing what I want to do Conscious sex and intentionalitySolo date ideas and suggestionsSupport the show

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    75. Should We Stop Trying To Connect With Men?

    Send us Fan MailHeyyyyy beautiful souls! So happy to have you here.This episode is all about:Me flying in fake first class on JetBlueMy failed attempts trying to connect with menHow New York tried to steal my soulI just don’t have it to give to the men in my life anymore (a tough pill to swallow)Being naturally enthusiastic (perfect for energy vampires)Men are who they are (and they’re ok with that)Holding out hope for men (no)What do men even talk about?I don’t think I was ever meant to connect with menMaking excuses for the men in my lifeI wanna stop wanting men to see or recognize my painAre men narcissists by default?Want to join my pleasure oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademyWanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Pleasure Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Pleasure Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?YouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    74. We Are Not Normal Human Beings | Turning 31 and Giving Less Fucks

    Send us Fan MailHey beautiful souls!Welcome to yet another dope ass episode where I talk all about:Not being a normal human Faux healers & energy leeches Having friends I’m excited to listen toCharging money to people I’m not excited to listen to My thoughts on reciprocity Listening to my friends talk about men & the dumb sh*t they do Turning 31 and giving less fucks Calling out abusive sh*t (to your friend who’s in a relationship with a horrid man)Why do I keep giving strangers my time (no more 4 hour meet ups/hang outs!!!!)+ My 3 simple core values If I have to say no more than once it’s a problem!Is this bringing me pleasure or can it bring me pleasure in the future? Showing up honestly (reflecting on it & dealing with what comes in hopes I shed the dishonest people from around me)& so much more!Want to join my pleasure oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademyWanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    73. Confession: My Desires For Platonic Intimacy & A Companion?

    Send us Fan MailHey beautiful souls!In today's episode I'm talking all about:Platonic intimacy What if relationships aren’t all bad?Why I don’t need a roster (& taking the pressure off my roster search) Removing the moochers from my life before I could elevate and ascend& SO MUCH MOREWant to join my pleasure oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademyWanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    72. Misogyny in Queer Spaces & My Lesbian Updates

    Send us Fan MailHey beautiful souls!Todays episode is all about:Love island games Men being unintentionally queer How my ancestors have my back Lesbianism vs queerness My strange ass old friend Having energy that can’t be penetrated Are there other energies other than masculine and feminine?Why bi men are looked at as gay and bi women are looked at as straight (hint: it’s misogyny)The power of lesbian relationships  & MORE!Want to join my pleasure oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademyWanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    71. PATREON: He Said He Couldn’t Cuddle… Platonic Intimacy & Finding My People

    Send us Fan MailHey beautiful souls!I’m so excited for this wonderful Patreon episode that’s all about platonic intimacy! I was going to post it exclusively for my Patreons but I decided to post this as a preview into the type of bonus content you can enjoy on my Patreon! ❤️In today’s episode I talk all about:Platonic touch & intimacyMy amazing ass first Reiki sessionHow it feels like everytime I go outside I’m energetically attacked (It’s a test, thank you ancestors)I only wanna meet people who are like my momWhy I’m excited to age nowPlatonic friendships and how to introduce them into our livesThe time I got ghosted because I held a man’s handMy relationship with intimacy before the shame How much I love and appreciate my mommy Finding my peopleAll the times I begged for love and intimacy The time he said he couldn’t cuddle cause he gets hot The difference between platonic intimacy and sexual intimacy The difference between sensuality and sexualityHanging out with my 13 year old self  If you loved what I talked about in this episode then I know you’ll love The Ethereal Pleasure Oasis! CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademyWanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    PATREON BONUS: Everything You Want Is On The Other Side Of Fear

    Send us Fan MailHey beautiful souls!Today's episode is all about:Loving every version of myselfMeeting every version of myself and falling in love again and againHaving regrets everytime I go outside Protecting myself from passport brosPracticing no longer caring about what people think How you can’t fail a test if you’re trying your best Peeping patterns of fear How I got a text from an old flame a few weeks agoEnergetic check ins & MORE!Want to join my pleasure oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademyWanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    70. Creating A Pleasure Plan | Finding Pleasure During Grief

    Send us Fan MailWas everyone in my life using me? LOLHey beautiful souls! In today’s episode we talk all about:Asking for help & grief in your 30’sLetting go of all the people who aren’t truly aligned (and possibly never were)Grieving who I used to be and the life I THOUGHT I used to haveFriend PushersEnergetic cut offs & navigating the worldWant to join my pleasure oasis? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademyWanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    69. Decolonizing Pleasure Pt 2 | Gender & Sexuality Pre-Colonization

    Send us Fan MailHey beautiful souls,HAPPY EPISODE 69!For Episode 69 I wanted to do something HUGE and this episode is probably THE most informative one yet.We’re talking about:Gender and sexuality before colonizationHow a spanish colonizer strapped a non binary person to a cannon in brazil because they thought they were dominicHow the christian missionaries went into Amazonia and raided their communities teaching them about the “horrors” of same sex marriageHow the language is being actively erased& How the indigenous original people of the earth are fighting to get it back…Enjoy!Article: https://www.e-ir.info/2019/08/20/indigenous-sexualities-resisting-conquest-and-translation/ Want to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/Wanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    68. The Power Of The Indigenous People | Decolonizing Pleasure

    Send us Fan MailHey beautiful souls,In today’s episode I talk all about how the white man literally tried to wipe indigenous people off of the earth and dive deep into some research about the world of pleasure before our bodies were colonized.Enjoy!First Article: https://www.ualberta.ca/en/folio/2016/02/indigenous-erotica-gives-new-meaning-to-all-my-relations.html Second Article: https://www.fairobserver.com/region/north_america/for-native-americans-sex-didnt-come-with-guilt-21347/ Want to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademyWanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    BONUS EPISODE: I Made An Oppsie

    Send us Fan MailIf you were one of the 50 people with very fast hands who were able to catch my last accidental upload. Please go back and re-listen because I've officially uploaded the REAL and ACTUAL episode that was supposed to go out last week LMAO& it has some great info on dual stimulation.Ok love you byeeeee Wanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Support the show

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    67. Dual Stimulation, Energy Maintenance & Mind Blowing Orgasms

    Send us Fan MailHey beautiful souls!In today’s amazing episode we talk all about:The Ethereal Pleasure Camp (an adult summer camp)Dual StimulationMy latest experience with penetrating myself (hint: it was a success!) Explaining why it’s SO IMPORTANT for us to show up exactly as we areTryna figure out how much energy to give peopleWhy I’m making a burn book for the people in my life Want to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademyWanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    66. How To Pleasure Yourself To Your Higher Self | My Penetration Experiment

    Send us Fan MailHow To Self Pleasure To Your Higher Self & My Penetration Experiment  IT’S MY MF BIRTHDAAAAAAAAY!!!!!!!In today’s episode we talk about:Me & my amazing therapy sessionHow penetration has been a pain (literally and figuratively)How living honestly & in solitude triggers others (f*ck them)How I think I wanna start a podcast book club (maybe)How people pleasing is lowkey a mix of us trying to avoid making ourselves & others feel uncomfortableDoing a bid in Twitter JailWant to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademyWanna learn how to pleasure yourself to your higher self? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    The Root Cause To The Negative Voices In My Head

    Send us Fan MailGet those mf OUTTA HERE!Who is it? Cause it's not you.We weren't born hating ourselves, unless that's the energy that was pumped into from the womb and even then, there's hope for you to free yourself but first we have to figure out who's voice we are hearing.Most things people say about you are a reflection of their projection... move accordingly Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/TheLoveAtiyaExperienceThe Ethereal Pleasure Academy: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademySupport the show

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    65. The History & Hidden Truth Behind Porn (Are We Addicted Or Nah?)

    Send us Fan MailTrigger Warning: Mentions Of S*xual AssualtHey beautiful babes and babettes! I’m so excited for this episode featuring one of my favorite topics! The history of s*x!This episode is all about:Trying not to “be” what people want us to beMissing intimacy (per usual)Going off about Jesus What even is the Middle East? And how are you middle eastern if you’re Egyptian? Are you not AFRICAN?! + Learning all about the history of porn & how to watch it ethically in modern times Join The Ethereal Pleasure Academy: https://loveatiya.com/ Join Us On Patreon For Bonus Content & Pleasure Tips: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperienceFor a limited time, I’m offering $22.22 off the UNASHAMED workbook + self-led course inside The Ethereal Pleasure Academy. Use code SHAMEFREE at checkout.✨ Guided journaling ✨ Body + pleasure rituals ✨ Tools for releasing guilt + reconnecting with yourself ✨ Space to be soft, wild, and fully youYour healing doesn’t have to wait.Shop UNASHAMED The Workbook Created By Me To Help Release You From Sexual Shame: https://www.loveatiya.com/product-page/unashamed-dismantling-sexual-shame-reclaiming-your-pleasureSupport the show

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    What If Everything Wasn't a Punishment

    Send us Fan MailAnyone else getting sick of all the "lessons" and "tests" that are showing up in our lives especially once we announce we're dedicated to growing?Well maybe it's time for a mental reshift...What if these weren't lessons and instead they were practices. Let's talk about it!Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/TheLoveAtiyaExperienceThe Ethereal Pleasure Academy: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademySupport the show

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    The Root Cause To The Voices In My Head

    Send us Fan MailOn today's series of voicenotes we're at the beach & we're bringing some healing & compassion to the mean voices in our headsPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperienceThe Ethereal Pleasure Academy: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademySupport the show

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    64. Matriarchal Animals & How I Dating The Wrong Friend

    Send us Fan MailHeyyyy beautiful souls!Welcome to yet another episode of The Love Atiya Experience. In today’s episode we’ll talk all about:How I still have a stalkerRemembering the time I f*cked a guy next to the guy I used to talk to (they were friends)How I should’ve actually dated my former best friend and not my ex (you live and you learn)How men should just date each other and call it a dayThe weird father son dynamic that i’ve seen within the friendships of guys my age All the kickass animals that live in Matriarchal societies Why i’ll never get things shipped again (so that I can help save the dolphins and sealife wtf)How I show up differently in friendships vs relationships& so much other random sh*tSign up for The Ethereal Pleasure Academy: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy Shop from The Ethereal Pleasure Academy Shop: https://www.loveatiya.com/etherealx Shop from Ethereal Self Care: https://www.loveatiya.com/ethereal WANT MORE CONTENT?! Head to my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Shop The SIREN twist vibrator by VUSH: https://www.loveatiya.com/product-page/vush-siren-twist-vibrator Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    You Are Perfect, Just As You Are | No Lessons Just Practice

    Send us Fan MailThe world may not be punishing us ya'll...Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperienceThe Ethereal Pleasure Academy: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademySupport the show

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    63. My Social Experiment | Meeting Partner(s) Who Actually Care About Pleasure

    Send us Fan MailI knew things had to change when I was trying to talk to a guy about a sex dream I had about him and all he focused on was HIS pleasure....Let's talk about it!Here's The Application To Bring Pleasure Into My Life: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf5ONie6F277EUWPKkrYZ_LNxG5ZAPIr7ji8VGqPsmP-ay8cA/viewform?usp=headerPatreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Want to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademyWant vegan and cruelty free self care? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/ethereal Want exclusive content and mini courses? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    The People Pleaser’s Guide to Losing Yourself (and How I’m Finding Me Again)

    Send us Fan Mail“Excuse Me, Am I in Your Way — in Life?” - me LMAOOkay but…seriously. Why am I saying “sorry” to the chair I just bumped into? Why am I overthinking that text I sent 3 hours ago? Why am I mentally writing 12 versions of a message just to make sure no one’s offended by my breathing pattern??In this episode of Becoming Wild, I’m diving headfirst (with grace) into the beautiful, burdensome art of being too considerate. I’m unpacking where it comes from (hi, childhood conditioning), why we do it (survival, approval, trauma... whew), and what it actually costs us when we make everyone else’s feelings our full-time job. Spoiler alert: it's EXHAUSTING. Also: you're not alone.Let this be your loving nudge to stop editing yourself down to be digestible. You are not a disclaimer. You are not too much. And you sure as hell don’t owe anyone an apology for being your full, radiant self.Take a breath, press play, and let’s start reclaiming our space unapologetically. #peoplepleaser #peoplepleasingSupport the show

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    62. The Arousal Episode Part 2 | Solo Dates & Sexual Temptation

    Send us Fan MailHey doll face!Welcome to my world!In today’s episode we talk all about:Epiphanies for showing up as my authentic self Working through my friendship hurt (being open for separate healing)Talking through my desiresSetting my boundaries for my next sexual encountersFiguring out my own wants and needs without shameHow to increase your sexual arousalAn academy update & moreENJOY!10 ways to naturally boost your libido: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/323918#herbal-remedies Want to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademyWant vegan and cruelty free self care? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/ethereal Want exclusive content and mini courses? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    How To Become Yourself | My Sparkly, Slightly Messy New Beginning

    Send us Fan MailDarlings, welcome to the first juicy little bite of my brand-new series, Becoming Wild where I spill the tea, the honey, and maybe a few existential sprinkles about what it really means to unbecome everything you thought you had to be, just to remember who you truly are. (Phew. Yes, that was a sentence. Yes, it’s a journey.)In this kickoff episode, I’m pulling back the glittery curtain and sharing some real talk: the growing pains, the cosmic giggles, the ego meltdowns, and the tender moments of coming home to ME. Expect some laughs, a few awkward revelations, and at least one moment where I dramatically pause to sip tea and question everything (on-brand, I know).If you've ever found yourself dancing between the version of you the world expects and the wild, radiant soul whispering beneath the noise — this series is your permission slip to become. Let’s bloom, unravel, shimmy, and sparkle through it together. 🦋💫Hit play, take a deep breath, and let’s start becoming together. I love youPATREON: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperienceSupport the show

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    PATREON BONUS: Reconnecting With My First Lesbian Lover & My PMDD Diagnosis

    Send us Fan MailI want to live in a world where we aren't ashamed by our self diagnosis and instead are proud to know that we know our bodies well enough to be able to know when somethings wrong and how to heal it.Not saying I don't think doctors are needed (in some cases) but my goal to learn my own body was absolutely inspired from the hurt and misinformation I've received from "trusted doctors" when trying to find the answers.ALSO.... my first lesbian lover from back in the day reached out last year november.... here's how it went monkey covering eyes emojienjoy my babies!CLICK HERE TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE: https://www.patreon.com/c/TheLoveAtiyaExperienceSupport the show

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    61. How To Feel More Arousal | Math Dyslexia and Pelvic Floor Dysfunction

    Send us Fan MailHey beautiful souls!I’m so excited about today’s episode!First we’ll be catching up on how I recently learned I had Dyscalculia (a form of math dyslexia) and how it’s affected my life.Then I chat about my quick meet up with a MAN and how I’m navigating my confused horniness.Lastly, we chat all about why we sometimes find it hard to get aroused and how to fix that.10 ways to naturally boost your libido: https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/323918#herbal-remedies Want to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademyWant vegan and cruelty free self care? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/ethereal Want exclusive content and mini courses? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    60. PROJECT PLEASURE: I Asked 11 People About Their Pleasure & What An Orgasm Feels Like

    Send us Fan MailIn this raw and revealing episode of The Love Atiya Experience, I'm introducing you to something deeply personal, powerful, and necessary. Introducing: Project Pleasure!I sat down with 11 brave, brilliant souls and asked them the questions so many of us wonder about but rarely say out loud: What does an orgasm really feel like? Do you orgasm every time you have sex? Do you orgasm every time you have sex?This episode kicks off a sensual and thought-provoking journey into the intimate world of your favorite creators personal pleasure free from shame, judgment, or performance.This is more than a podcast episode. This is a reclamation. A reminder and A conversation long overdue.Tune in, open up, and let’s experience pleasure—on your terms.I am sending a major thank you to every last person who participated in this project two years ago & had trust in me and my vision... these beautiful souls include:INSTAGRAM@Unperf (Alex)@SomethingAlfred (Alfred)@Kam.th3.aziza (Kam)@nigelmarcellus (Nigel)@ayeehollaaaa (Alia)@Ditzylilprincess (Mak Lee)@beautybitesandbooks (Lakeisha aka Keisha)@Vinariskillakraneproductions (Facebook: Vinaris)@divinelyinformedwellness (Jessica)@Newyorkssixthrangernsfw Tiktok:@Ditzylilprincess (Mak Lee)@Hen_Taiger (Hen Taiyaki)@nigelmarcellus (Nigel)@ayeehollaaaa (Alia)HAPPY LAST DAY OF MASTURBATION MAY!Want to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademyWant vegan and cruelty free self care? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/ethereal CHECK HERE FOR MY SPECIAL ONE DAY 15% & 20% OFF CODES (available May 31st only): https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    59. How To Have A Self Pleasure Ceremony | The Friend I Wanna F*ck

    Send us Fan MailHey beautiful souls,HAPPPPY MASTURBATION MAY!Today’s intention is to help you feel a lot less shame about yourself, your body and your pleasure!I 10/10 recommend listening to this when you’re home LMAOWe’re gonna look and feel on our Polly Pockets while falling in love with ourselves one touch at a time.Want to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademyWant vegan and cruelty free self care? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/ethereal Want exclusive content and mini courses? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    58. How To Feel Less Shame About Self Pleasure

    Send us Fan MailHey beautiful souls,HAPPPPY MASTURBATION MAY!Today’s intention is to help you feel a lot less shame about yourself, your body and your pleasure!I 10/10 recommend listening to this episode when you’re home because we’re gonna take a look and a feel on our Polly Pockets, while falling in love with ourselves one touch at a time.Want to join my pleasure academy? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademyWant vegan and cruelty free self care? CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/ethereal Want exclusive content and mini courses? CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    PATREON BONUS: New Voicenote Series | Self Care & Boundaries

    Send us Fan MailHey babes!Welcome to my newest series VOICENOTES BY ATITI where I record the random (divine) sht that happens in my life... IN REAL TIME!0 edits.. all me LMAOYou can hear the rest of the episode hereMy Pleasure Shop: https://www.loveatiya.com/etherealxXoxoLove AtiyaSupport the show

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    57. Processing Grief & Finding Pleasure Without Sex

    Send us Fan MailHey beautiful souls!I know i’ve been MIA on the socials lately but for those of you who don’t know, my cat Tam transcended a few weeks ago and it rocked me to my core.On the day I decided to record this podcast I was finally having an experience of being in better spirits although, grief comes in heavy heavy waves, when the waves are calm the waters are easier to wade through.Anywho in this episode I give y'all a little bit of insight of what’s been going on in my life.I talk a lot about the past but if it’s one thing I have learned, it’s that you haven’t really gotten a chance to know who I am as I constantly evolve.I hope these super transparent and vulnerable episodes can touch someone and show them that they’re not alone.I’m so thankful to my fur baby Tam for being my true best friend for 10 years and I promise to honor her life in every single thing that I do from here on out.Thank you for listening.Oh… and in this episode we also talk about how to feel more pleasure without sex and the way I’d like to show up in future friendships + learning what support looks like to me.Enjoy!Sign up for The Ethereal Pleasure Academy: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy Shop from The Ethereal Pleasure Academy Shop: https://www.loveatiya.com/etherealx Shop from Ethereal Self Care: https://www.loveatiya.com/ethereal WANT MORE CONTENT?! Head to my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Toys From Biird + The Ohwii Glass Dildo: https://www.loveatiya.com/search?q=biird&type=products&collections=X+BiirdWant to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    PATREON BONUS: Friends, How Many Of Us Have Them? Not Me Apparently

    Send us Fan MailHey beautiful souls!WELCOME TO MY BONUS PATREON EPISODE! Today's episode is all about friendships and their disappointments.How I'm cutting everyone off.Friends being in new relationships.& setting boundaries in friendships from here on out.TO LISTEN TO THE FULL EPISODE CLICK HERE: https://www.patreon.com/c/TheLoveAtiyaExperienceTO CHECK OUT THE ETHEREAL PLEASURE ACADEMY CLICK HERE: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademySupport the show

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    56. I Had Sex With a Hotep | PMDD & Being a Highly Sensitive Person

    Send us Fan MailWELCOME TO YET ANOTHER EPISODE BABES!Today’s episode is all about:Some people just wanna complain & that’s ok Setting boundaries in conversations & asking for consent when giving advice Pmdd & suicidal ideations (wtf)Why I think everyone a little autistic Reflections on my sexual experience with a fauxtep Why you should never tell men that their s*x is healing LMAOMaking decisions in hornienss How tf do you get back to being yourself after dating a sociopath?Sign up for The Ethereal Pleasure Academy: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy Shop from The Ethereal Pleasure Academy Shop: https://www.loveatiya.com/etherealx Shop from Ethereal Self Care: https://www.loveatiya.com/ethereal WANT MORE CONTENT?! Head to my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Shop The SIREN twist vibrator by VUSH: https://www.loveatiya.com/product-page/vush-siren-twist-vibrator Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    55. Nipple Orgasm Tips, Reparenting & Giving Our Parents Grace

    Send us Fan MailHi my babies!In today’s episode we talk all about:Pervy web developersPTSD and delayed processing Are we all God or NAH? (Religion vs belief systems)Reparentification of myself and my parents Giving your parents grace (Because none of us really know what the fuck we’re doing)Learning how to experience your parents as parents and not as humans you have to save or sacrifice your well being for (based on assumptions you’ve made about their past and their current needs) Am I bi polar or am I just a human who deeply feels things + Pleasure Tips For Oral Sign up for The Ethereal Pleasure Academy: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy Shop from The Ethereal Pleasure Academy Shop: https://www.loveatiya.com/etherealx Shop from Ethereal Self Care: https://www.loveatiya.com/ethereal WANT MORE CONTENT?! Head to my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience Shop The SIREN twist vibrator by VUSH: https://www.loveatiya.com/product-page/vush-siren-twist-vibrator Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    54. The Pleasure Guide | How To Get Your Partner To Please You

    Send us Fan MailHey beautiful beings!This episode is so near and dear to my heart because it’s all about PLEASURE.In today’s episode we’ll talk all about:Pivoting and randomly changing sh*t upThe proper questions to ask your partner about pleasureMy epiphany on why I didn’t (past tense) allow my partners to solely please ME (and the shame behind it)Answering questions about pleasure (asked on Tiktok)Men & their pleasure (or lack thereof)Fcked up friendships& MORE!Sign up for The Ethereal Pleasure Academy: https://www.loveatiya.com/theetherealpleasureacademy Shop from The Ethereal Pleasure Academy Shop: https://www.loveatiya.com/etherealx Shop from Ethereal Self Care: https://www.loveatiya.com/ethereal WANT MORE CONTENT?! Head to my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:Imani Jewelry (use code LOVEATIYA for 10% off): https://imanijewelry.com/ That’s Besties Personal Wipes  (use code LOVEATIYA for 10% off): https://thatsbesties.com/ Want to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] Sex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    PATREON BONUS CONTENT: My New View Of Relationships In 2025

    Send us Fan MailJoin me on patreon to listen to the full clip & hear about all of my epiphanies and fun adventures!PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperienceSupport the show

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    53. Me & My P*ssy are TIRED | How To Advocate For Your Vulva To Your OBGYN

    Send us Fan MailHappy February beautiful souls!Today’s episode is all about:Choosing self over people pleasing Going from the side character to the main character in my own story Dealing with anxiety & burn out How to cope with and recognize medical coercion How my OBGYN prescribed me pain pills for my vulva pain (wtf)How to advocate for yourself to your vulva doctor & MOREWANT MORE CONTENT?! Head to my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience SIGN UP FOR 15% OFF PLEASURE PRODUCTS FROM Ethereal X | The Self Pleasure Shop: https://www.loveatiya.com/etherealxWant to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] Ethereal By Love Atiya | Vegan Handmade Hair & Skin Care: https://www.loveatiya.com/etherealSex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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    52. It Hurts When I C*m

    Send us Fan MailHey beautiful souls! So the other day I was masturbating and felt a sharp pain while I orgasmed… wtfLet’s figure this sh*t out!ARTICLES SITED:https://www.health.com/mind-body/what-to-do-if-your-orgasms-are-actually-painfulhttps://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/15723-vaginismushttps://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/diseases/12325-dyspareunia-painful-intercourse WANT MORE CONTENT?! Head to my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/TheLoveAtiyaExperience SIGN UP FOR 15% OFF S*X TOYS FROM Ethereal X | The Self Pleasure Shop: https://www.loveatiya.com/etherealxWant to share a fun sex story or pick the topic for our next episode? Submit your questions & stories to [email protected] Earrings From: https://imanijewelry.com/Ethereal By Love Atiya | Vegan Handmade Hair & Skin Care: https://www.loveatiya.com/etherealSex Education Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/loveatiya/Sex Education TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@iloveatiya?Sex Positive Podcast: https://theloveatiyaexperience.buzzsprout.comYouTube: iloveatiya https://www.youtube.com/@iloveatiya/videos Support the show

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Welcome to IADGAF (formerly known as The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast & The Love Atiya Experience) a sensual rebellion disguised as a podcast created as an unapologetic “f**k you” to the patriarchy.This is the playground for every part of you that society attempted to tame! That means the too emotional, too loud, too sexual, too sensitive, too powerful parts if you get to come out, stretch, shake off the shame, and maybe even twerk a little under the moonlight (highly recommended.)This is where we decolonize our minds, undomesticate our desires, decenter men, recenter ourselves, redefine what femininity looks like outside of the male gaze (eeeeyuck) and literally practice not giving a f*ck. It’s time for us to step out of the cage the world built for you and walk barefoot into your own wildness.

HOSTED BY

Love Atiya

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Welcome to IADGAF (formerly known as The Love Atiya Pleasure Podcast & The Love Atiya Experience) a sensual rebellion disguised as a podcast created as an unapologetic “f**k you” to the patriarchy.This is the playground for every part of you that society attempted to tame! That means the too...

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