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Ignite Your Light with Xara Black
by Xara Black
It's all about taking control of your life. I talk you through my journey & experiences of, domestic abuse, divorce, dating, business, motherhood and religion. This podcast will show you how I went built my life back unveiling my true self without the chains of control
Episodes
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Ignite Your Light S5 EP1 Dr Divya Sadram Passion Healing
Passion Healings has emerged as a requisite response to the contemporary paradigm of holistic transformative healing. This platform is dedicated to empowering individuals towards improved well-being, including better health, enhanced happiness, and a realization of their inherent potential. The...
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Ignite Your Light S4 Ep 9 Narcissists Smear Campaign
When the cant control you they seek to control what others think about you
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Ignite Your Light S4 Ep 8 The Church Needs to do Better
Discussing Spiritual Abuse and what the Church should be doing With Katherine Spearing from Uncertain Podcast
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Ignite Your Light S4 Ep 7 Toxic Jesus Author Speaks On Spiritual Abuse
Ex Pastor Marc-Henri talks about his experience as a pastor and how came up with the concept of his book Toxic Jesus. You can follow my instagram page @xarablack https://bit.ly/2CrAQHZLike my facebook page bit.ly/3gZo5mM Also, Listen to my podcast Ignite Your Light -spoti.fi/37xJRKw Follow the...
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Ignite Your Light S4 Ep 6 What is Lovebombing?
The Narcissist will bombard you with attention, love and care. They will work incredibly hard to impress you, making you think that you are their soul mate. They may even mirror your likes and dislikes. This may feel uncomfortable in the same breath the target may feel this is everything they…
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Ignite Your Light S4 Ep 5 Religious Ignorance in the Black Community
Fear based Religion is capturing the minds of black people in turn pulling them further away from the truth. Follow @xarablack on Instagram Like Xara Black on Facebook
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Ignite Your Light S4 Ep 4 Narcissistic Personality Traits You Can Steal from Your Narcissist
These Personality traits can be beneficial for you in your day to day life. The narcissist may have used them on you but you can use them to get ahead in life without abusing people.
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Ignite Your Light S4 Ep 3 How to Spot Insecure Men
How to spot insecure men.
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Ignite Your Light S4 Ep 2 Alleged Prophet Kills his wife
Alleged Prophet Sylvester Ofori shot his wife Barbara Tommy at her work place after she attempted to file for a divorce from him. She had suffered domestic violence at the hands of the Alleged man of God. This story teaches us all to be aware of wolves in sheeps clothing and not all men/women…
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Ignite Your Light S4 Ep 1 The Dark Night of the Soul
Getting through the dark night of the soul can be incredibly tough as you can feel that you have no purpose or meaning in life. Many feel like giving up at this time as the pain is unbearable. I explain a few things you can do that might help you to get through the dark night.
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Ignite Your Light S3 Ep 13 Deal Breakers vs Compromise
What, and how much should we be compromising in a relationship and what should we discard immediately
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Ignite Your Light S3 Ep 12 Don't Date Down
Manifest the relationship that you want by setting your intention, making up your mind and sticking to the rules. Don't play yourself and blame the other person.
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Ignite Your Light S3 Ep 11 Fear of Success
Many people say they are afraid of failure but a lot of people are unconsciously afraid to succeed. Do you subconsciously have the fear of success?
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Ignite Your Light S3 Ep 10 Religion vs Spirituality
Here are the Main differences I have noticed when leaving religion and becoming more spiritual.
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Ignite Your Light S3 Ep 9 Brainwashing and Mind control
A lot of us do not think that we could ever become victims of brainwashing and mind control but in fact may already be under the spell of another without knowing. Religious, spiritual and cult leaders often use mind control and brainwashing techniques on their followers without the follower...
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Ignite Your Light S3 Ep8 Wicked Men Don't Change
DO NOT even waste your time. If a person is wicked, there is no redemption for them, take it at face value and never wait for a "change" that may never come. We can only go by what we have already seen and that is abuse, lies, manipulation. When someone shows you who they are...Believe them.
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Ignite Your Light s3 e7 Life Is Not fair
We cannot sit down and just let life happen to us. We have got to take it by the horn and create favourable situations for ourselves. Life favours the brave. Life will be you down but you have to fight back.
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Ignite Your Light S3 EP6 Spiritual Insurance, Just Incase
A lot of people have a hard time letting go of religious/ spiritual beliefs they have been taught from a young age and will often claim to have a faith or religion as a sort spiritual insurance just incase what they have been taught becomes true and they are likely to suffer the consequences...
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Ignite Your Light S3 Ep 5 Abusive Relationship with My Pastor with Guest Sandra
Speaking with Sandra about her abusive relationship with her pastor. Brilliant account shows how it is not always an intimate partner that can use tactics of domestic abuse but leaders can also abuse their power and take advantage of believers who generally have no clue that they are experiencing...
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IgniteYourLight S3 Ep 4 Self Abandonment
How many times do we abandon ourselves by overriding the way we feel to be loved and accepted? We are willing to make ourselves uncomfortable for the comfort of somebody else.
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Ignite Your Light S3 Ep3 Coronavirus Pandemic, If you were to die Today
With coronavirus , lots of people feel closer to death than ever. The abuse of spirituality and religion can be quite rampant at this time. The million dollar question, if you were to die today, where would you go.? Is being asked more than ever. Just be a good person.
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Ignite Your Light S3 Ep2 Due Diligence and Over Spiritualisation
A lot of people claim to be religious but may not be the best people for you. Always do your due diligence do not assume that people are good or make decisions based on somebody 'claiming' that they are from a specific religion.
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Ignite Your Light S3 Ep 1 Religious Trauma and Spiritual Bypassing
The depth of Religious Trauma, How ones life can be altered and the shattering of the soul after the assault on your mind. The problem with finding and living your true authentic self yourself if you are spiritual bypassing
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IgniteYourLight S2 Ep 13 Faith or Fool?
Many religious people are encouraged to have faith. At what point does it become ok to not believe that God can do everything. Does that mean you are a bad believer? Or just in touch with reality ? Let’s discuss. Can faith become foolish?
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IgniteYourLight S2 Ep 12 Self Doubt
Battling depression has been an uphill one and consistently trying not to doubt myself. I discuss depression, it's effects on my life and encourage you all to TRY not to doubt yourself. Your mind will play tricks on you, telling you stories that don't exist in reality, it may even cause you to…
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IgniteYourLight S2 Ep 11 Women Be Prepared
Too many women are investing their security in a relationship that may end. 87% of women retire in poverty, what have you done to avoid retiring in poverty? Women need to prepare for the worst and ensure that their independent security is secured no matter what happens to their relationship…
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IgniteYourLight S2 Ep 10 Spiritual Abuse, What are the Signs
How to spot Spiritual abuse. How do we identify it? What is Spiritual or Religious Abuse? How to spot religious/spiritually abusive organisations. A few examples from my own personal experiences.
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IgniteYourLight S2 Ep 9 Making the Right Choices without Fear
How to make the right decisions and stop operating out of fear.
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IgniteYourLight S2 Ep 7 Self Sabotage
A few ways that we can self sabotage ourselves in work, our relationships and even our bodies
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IgniteYourLight S2 Ep 6 Building Your Best Life
Building Your Best Life 2020, Setting goals effectively, taking action not getting stuck. Listening to your divine guidance, failing and trying again.
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IgniteYourLight S2 Ep 5 SPAC Nation Cult
Space Nation Is a CULT Presenting themselves as a church but they have all the attributes of a spiritually abusive organisation. They suck members in slowly and then followers become loyal, deployable and dependable minions of the church incapable of thinking critically and setting themselves up…
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IgniteYourLight S2 Ep 4 Coercive Control
Quite chilling to think about but large amount of victims cannot put a finger on the kind of abuse they are experiencing in their relationship. Coercive and controlling behaviour is a crime and intimate partners can be prosecuted if found guilty. I discuss my experience with coercive control in…
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IgniteYourLight S2 Ep 3 Relationship with Joe
The ones you want, never want you and the ones you don't want always want you. Isn't that always the case. We don't always have control over how the other person sees us even if we love them very much. Are you struggling to know where you stand with someone? Are you a prospect or a Joe?
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IgniteYourLight S2 Ep 2 What you've Been Missing
So many of us hit a brick wall in our careers and our business and we often don't realise that we have to get the combination of ingredients right in order for any of our ventures to be successful. We have to analyse what we may be lacking or maybe the ratio of our input is incorrect and we need…
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IgniteYourLight S2 Ep 1 The Greatest Love
My biggest goal is to have my children love themselves. Learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all
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IgniteYourLight Ep 12 Religious Kids
Would you want to raise your child up to be religious? And for what purpose? Religious does not guarantee good morals. I speak about why I am abstaining from raising my kids to be religious We will be discussing these issues on facebook @XaraBlack and instagram @xarablack so follow me
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IgniteYourLight Ep 11 Abuse: Why you don't Leave
Why do people stay in abusive situations? A quick talk on the matter. In some cases it boils down to your childhood. Stop victim shaming and support people when they leave.
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IgniteYourLight Ep 10 You are the God of Your Life
What is stopping you from taking action? Start to believe that you possess that power to create not waiting for anybody to open the doors but busting down the doors by creating the life that you want. We will be discussing these issues on facebook @XaraBlack and instagram @xarablack so follow me
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IgniteYourLight Ep 9 How are YOU Perceived
How are YOU Perceived in the workplace. Is there a healthy balance between being introverted and extroverted? Are you paying attention to what you are saying in social situations? How much you are saying and how much you are willing to kick back and just listen? We will be discussing these issues...
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IgniteYourLight Ep 8 Self Love and Dating Apps
Do you prefer to meet people online or in person? A little bit about my experience with dating apps. Most of all, Love yourself, Date Yourself. Nothing wrong with that. Self dating could help you find a more quality bae. We will be discussing these issues on facebook @XaraBlack and instagram...
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IgniteYourLight Ep 7 Do My Prophet No Harm
It is time people took their head out of the sand that various forms of abuse are taking place under religious and spiritual institutions and leadership. I believe they should be regulated as these leaders have influence over so many lives and many are abusing it. We will be discussing these…
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IgniteYourLightEp 6 I hate Being a Single Mum
Society shames women who have kids and are not in a relationship by using the phrase single mum which is 9/10 used in a negative way. Women with kids everywhere are trying their best and do not need the extra negativity from society looking down on them. Let's build more positive role models and...
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IgniteYourLight Ep 5 Religious Trauma
What is Religious Trauma? How can you be Traumatised by a Religion. Is Religion a healthy thing to engage in? follow me @xarablack
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IgniteYourLight Ep 4 Suffer Not Dear One
No Job No Money No Business, I struggled to feed my children. I couldn't find my purpose and it all changed with one experience. We will be discussing these issues on facebook @XaraBlack and instagram @xarablack so follow me
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IgniteYourLight Ep 3 Falling For the Narcissist
Narcissists are con artists, fraudsters and chameleons. Not people who take pictures all day. They are calculated individuals. We will be discussing these issues on facebook @XaraBlack and instagram @xarablack so follow me
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IgniteYourLight Ep 2 I was in a cult
My experience of being in a cult @xarablack
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IgniteYourLightEp 1 Spiritual Abuse
Get to know me. This interview pretty much sums up everything that I have gone through the last few years. Death, Abuse, Divorce, Motherhood, unemployment. I was interviewed by Deborah Ruffini from Artist first radio . We will be discussing these issues on facebook @XaraBlack and instagram...
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It's all about taking control of your life. I talk you through my journey & experiences of, domestic abuse, divorce, dating, business, motherhood and religion. This podcast will show you how I went built my life back unveiling my true self without the chains of control
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It's all about taking control of your life. I talk you through my journey & experiences of, domestic abuse, divorce, dating, business, motherhood and religion. This podcast will show you how I went built my life back unveiling my true self without the chains of control
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