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In The Trenches

by Antonia Varano

Antonia and Kaitlyn are just two women that are trying to navigate the trenches...ope we mean navigate dating in your twenties. Friends since 2010 - they have watched as all of their friends have found true love, gotten married, and started to have babies. For Tones and Kaitlyn, they have continued to be the life of the party and entertain their friends and family with their stories of finding love...that is, if it's real.

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Episodes

  1. Episode 17: Even Cinderella Was Bamboozled by Love

    In this episode, Toni and Kaitlyn talk about more reasons why love is not enough. Falling in love is the easy part, but did you know that all the romance movies we watched growing up failed to tell us that love really doesn't mean anything...? Dive in and hear how losing yourself in a…

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  2. Episode 16 - I'm An Independent Woman, So Shit or Get Off the Pot

    Navigating dating in your twenties is hard enough as it is, but when you are someone who is pursuing a career, balancing friendships, and trying to make your soul happy it gets that much harder. This week Toni & Kaitlyn discuss the difficulties of dating when balancing what seems to be the...

  3. Sometimes They Aren't Everyones Cup of Tea...but you don't need to remind me.

    The gals are still in these trenches and take a brief timeout from beach vacations and bar exam studying to dive into some hot topics requested by our users. Are we crazy to not want our partners liking, subscribing, and retweeting photos of random hot women? Maybe, but hey at least we…

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  4. If They Were The Love of Your Life, Would You Let Them Poop on You?

    Episode 14 takes a wild ride that neither Kaitlyn nor Toni could have expected. Diving into exes over-stepping boundaries, or wait - they weren't even an ex so even worse. Turning to first dates dos and don'ts and a question about how we express our kinks in the bedroom on a first time with our…

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  5. Reasons Why You Shouldn't Text Your Ex

    The trenches stay exciting when the two girls that stay in them continue to repeat past behaviors. Although Kaitlyn encourages her gals not to reach out to her ex, she shares the story of how not once...but twice...she reached out to two different exes in hopes of...who could be too sure. The…

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  6. These Trenches Are Dryer Than the Sahara Desert...

    In this episode, Kaitlyn and Toni get a bit more serious as they discuss how to navigate mental health in relationships. Spilling your juicy stories about losing your virginity and realizing just how long they both have basically been born again virgins, these two try to bring a real perspective…

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  7. It's Okay to Cry When You Lose Your Virginity...

    Welcome back to Season 2 of In the Trenches. Antonia and Kaitlyn have been busy these last three weeks as they have travelled to Mexico, Colorado, California and all the states in between to get another one of the gals married. What the girls didn't realize is that a lot of mixed emotions pop up...

  8. Why Do I Need Bitcoin to Sell My Panties?

    Listen, it's 2023 and it's almost as though we are living in the millenials version of the Great Depression. Which means we can do network marketing, shake our tatas on video camera, or sell some used panties. Being single in your twenties isn't all that bad I guess...This week join Toni and...

  9. Episode 9 | Celebrity Hookups Aren't Always Great... & Do We Tip for Happy Endings?

    Toni and Kait start this episode exploring what a happy ending looks like for women. Do we ask the masseuse for one? Do they simply do their magic and expect a tip? Should we be turned on or concerned...who could be too sure. And we've all heard an R&B track that has made us just guess that...

  10. Episode 8 | Grow Up, Wax the Cooch & Get Strapped Up for Battle

    On this weeks episode, Toni & Kaitlyn dive into expectations around landscaping the areas that usually enjoy the trenches. Waxing, shaving, or just letting it all grow out. You do you, and while you're at it, maybe tell your partner to grow up. They also end the conversation talking about why…

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  11. Episode 7 | Hailey v. Selena...I Mean We've All Been Both

    As the tiktokers unite to fight for Selena...or wait, Hailey...who knows - Toni and Kait discuss where they stand and their personal take on when mean girls played games with their love lives. And to give them the benefit of the doubt, most of us have been a little crazy at least once while...

  12. Episode 6 | DoorDash Dating, Animated Orgasms & Toot Protection

    The title says it all, or does it not say enough. Join Toni & Kait as they discuss the weekly update about dating people on apps - but not dating apps, the -icks that we get from men and how maybe a one night stand should stick to a one night stand when his mom wakes you up with a shower and…

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  13. Born Again Virgins, TikTok Porn & Walmart Cannoli's.

    On this weeks episode, Toni and Kaitlyn start us off with some helpful advice on the TikTok male trends. Whether it be smacking that chicken breast or chopping the wood, these men really do belong on the streets. The girls also dig into some of your thoughts on things like cheating, soulmates…

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  14. Episode 4 | Navigating Situation...ohp I Mean Imaginationships

    In Episode 4, Toni & Kaitlyn are getting down and dirty with some questions from a viewer. Navigating a situationship is never easy, but what if the situationship is more like an imaginationship...? And if you aren't sure what that means, tune in to find out. Also hear the pros and cons of dating...

  15. Episode 3 - Drowning in the Trenches...but with a floatie?

    Toni & Kait dive into how these trenches have been following the holiday of love. We also dive in about faking it to please your partner, and what to do when the poonani literally causes your partner to black out (*yikes*).

  16. Episode 2 | Getting (Love) Bombed

    Love Bombing...per the google, love bombing is: the action or practice of lavishing someone with attention or affection, especially in order to influence or manipulate them. Fortunately for y'all, we have the tips and tricks of how to spot this and avoid it. And before we provide the tools to…

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  17. Pilot | Getting In The Trenches

    Antonia and Kaitlyn are two best friends that are the last two remaining in the trenches...and what are these trenches? The streets, the dating world, the most awful thing to experience in your twenties (...okay we may be being a bit dramatic). But really, come join us as we talk about our...

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Antonia and Kaitlyn are just two women that are trying to navigate the trenches...ope we mean navigate dating in your twenties. Friends since 2010 - they have watched as all of their friends have found true love, gotten married, and started to have babies. For Tones and Kaitlyn, they have continued to be the life of the party and entertain their friends and family with their stories of finding love...that is, if it's real.

HOSTED BY

Antonia Varano

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In The Trenches currently has 17 episodes available on PodParley. New episodes are automatically indexed when they're published to the podcast feed.

What is In The Trenches about?

Antonia and Kaitlyn are just two women that are trying to navigate the trenches...ope we mean navigate dating in your twenties. Friends since 2010 - they have watched as all of their friends have found true love, gotten married, and started to have babies. For Tones and Kaitlyn, they have continued...

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In The Trenches has 17 episodes. Check the episode list to see recent publication dates and frequency.

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In The Trenches is created and hosted by Antonia Varano.
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