Inbox with Aris

Is attractiveness something you’re born with, or is it something you build? In this episode, we’re talking style, confidence, grooming, first impressions, and why the way we present ourselves can completely change how we’re perceived. From glow ups and bad haircuts to personal style and self expression, we’re debating whether attractiveness comes down to natural looks or learning what works for you. How much does style actually matter, and can it change the way people see you?

Sliding into someone’s DMs can really thicken the plot In this episode, we’re talking DM etiquette, shooting your shot, getting left on read, terrible opening messages, unsolicited n*des, and whether sliding into DMs actually works. From success stories to complete disasters, we break down the best and worst ways people try to get someone’s attention online. All that aside… does sliding into DMs actually work?

We were on our way to a Red Light, Yellow Light, Green Light themed party when we realized we were wearing the wrong colors. After a quick detour home to change, a few more setbacks got in the way and we ended up staying in… turning the chaos into a full podcast episode instead.So we leaned into the theme and broke down situations in dating through the lens of red lights, yellow lights, and green lights.

After our first People Pleasing episode unexpectedly turned into a two-parter, we're back to finish the conversation.In this episode, we dive deeper into boundaries, guilt, avoiding conflict, and the pressure of constantly worrying about disappointing other people. We talk about why saying "no" can feel so uncomfortable, how people-pleasing can leave you emotionally drained, and the challenge of putting yourself first without feeling guilty.If you've ever said "it's fine" when it definitely wasn't, apologized for things that weren't your fault, or put everyone else's needs before your own, this one's for you.

Ghosting is one of those things everyone hates… until they’re the one doing it...In this episode, we’re talking about being left on read, disappearing acts, closure, boundaries, and whether ghosting is ever justified. Do people owe an explanation, or is silence an answer on its own?

In this episode, we talk about the emotional exhaustion of people pleasing — saying yes too often, avoiding conflict, struggling with boundaries, and constantly worrying about disappointing others.If you’ve ever put everyone else first at your own expense, this conversation will hit home.

How much PDA is too much? In this episode, we talk about our biggest public affection pet peeves, couples acting way too comfortable in public, what’s cute vs. what’s uncomfortable. Some people love love… others just want couples to PLEASE get a room.

How much of what we feel online is real… and how much are we being fed?In this episode, we talk about how social media can affect our mood, mental health, and the way we react to the world around us. From doomscrolling and algorithms to ragebait and online outrage culture, we dive into how the internet profits off attention and how sometimes our anger, stress, and emotions become part of that cycle.

Is lying ever actually okay? In this episode we dive into the different kinds of lies people tell. Everything from social expectations, “harmless” lies, honesty in friendships, and why people bend the truth to survive. Some lies destroy trust… others seem almost necessary. But where do we draw the line?

This episode is about first impressions, judging people too quickly, and realizing not everyone is who they seem at first We talk about being completely wrong about people, awkward first impressions, social media assumptions, and why appearances influence us way more than we admit Be honest… have you ever judged someone too fast?

We started with leftovers and somehow turned into a full debate about expired food, sniff tests, and how long people are REALLY keeping food in the fridge. be honest… at what point are leftovers just a health risk

If you’ve ever started 5 projects in one month, hyper-fixated on a new skill overnight, or convinced yourself your latest idea was “the one”... this episode is for you

DES : we got rejected… a lot rejected by Chipotle, ghosted by airlines, and realizing a 9–5 just wasn’t it this episode is about our failed job era… and why it was actually the best thing that could’ve happened

We finally address the question nobody asked but everyone loves to assume they know the answer to. From high standards and low patience we unpack the many reasons we’re single.

Let’s bond! In our first episode, we open up about moments that shaped our habits in the weirdest ways. From ants in drinks to finding worms in hats and unexpected insect encounters, we share how these memories still show up in our everyday lives.