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Inner Confidence Podcast
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The Inner Confidence Podcast with Robbie Kramer is a weekly podcast that brings you the most cutting edge dating and lifestyle advice for men. Topics include attraction, dating, making friends, fitness, wealth hacking, and lifestyle design.
Episodes
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If You Freeze Before Approaching Women, Watch This ( Ep 338 )
Ever seen a woman you wanted to talk to, felt your whole body lock up, and watched her walk away while you came up with reasons it wasn't the right moment? This episode is about why that happens and the only thing that actually fixes it. Most guys want to stop being nervous first and then go...
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Why Dating Apps Don't Work Anymore In 2026 ( And What Replaced Them ) w/ Scot McKay ( Ep 337 )
If the apps have cost you confidence rather than dates, this one explains why. Scott McKay has coached men since 2005 and met his wife on Match.com twenty years ago, back when online dating actually worked. He's not anti-app , his point is that the feedback the apps gave you was never real data...
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The 5 Books Every Man Should Read Before Any Dating Advice ( Ep 336 )
Have you ever read a dating book, felt fired up for a week, then noticed nothing actually changed? Or you've got a shelf full of self-help books and the same results you had three years ago. One of the guys in my community asked for an updated five-book list, so here are the five I'd hand a guy...
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eHarmony Couldn't Find Him a Match. He's Now Coached Men for 20 Years. w/ JT Tran ( Ep 335 )
Have you ever felt like there's one thing about you that you can't change, your height, your race, your face, your age and that it's the reason none of this is working? My guest is JT Tran, the Asian Playboy. Former aerospace engineer, 5'4", and coaching men for over 20 years. When he moved to…
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Stop Avoiding Female Friends ( Ep 334 )
Most dating advice tells you to keep female friends at arm's length. Don't get too close, don't be too available, don't become her emotional support guy. Some of that is real, the friend zone exists. But that advice conflates two completely different things: orbiting a girl you're attracted to...
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My $15M Client Wanted His Legs Broken for an Extra 2 Inches w/ Dean Raymond ( Ep 333 )
I've got a client worth over $15 million who was seriously looking into leg lengthening surgery over one OnlyFans girl. My guest Dean Raymond's take: that's just a belief and once a guy holds a belief like that, his brain filters out every piece of evidence that says otherwise. Dean is 45, from a...
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Why Being Helpful Gets You Friend-Zoned ( Ep 332 )
Most guys who keep getting friend zoned think the problem is they're too nice. It's not. The problem is they're running the wrong business model - they're brokers.A broker makes himself useful, available, and helpful. He says yes to everything. And the moment she doesn't need what he's offering,...
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Why Dating Advice Is Making You Worse With Women w/ @JoeDucard ( Ep 331 )
"Red pill cuck cope."That's the phrase my guest dropped halfway through this conversation and I haven't stopped thinking about it since.A girl doesn't write you back and you go looking for the reason why. And the reason you land on is always something you can't change. She only dates guys over…
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There's One Specific Reason Your Dating Life Isn't Working ( Ep 330 )
Most men are playing their dating lives like a lottery. They buy a ticket, they wait. And if it doesn't hit, they tell themselves the game is rigged.Smart men play it like poker. And the difference between those two things is the difference between a guy who's been stuck for years and a guy who's...
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Doing Nothing About Your Dating Life Isn't Free
Every man is paying for his dating life right now. Most of them just don't know it.I hear this constantly from guys on the fence about investing real time and energy into getting good with women. "I can't afford it." "I don't know if it's worth it."I get the hesitation. But doing nothing isn't...
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If You Have Ever Run Out Of Things To Say, Watch This
Have you ever been in a conversation with a girl you like, things were going okay, and then you just ran out of things to say? The words dried up and you're standing there in the mental panic spiral trying to come up with anything to keep it going.Meanwhile some other guy has an endless supply of...
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She's Not Busy. You Already Know That.
She was texting you every day, making plans, laughing at everything you sent. And then, nothing. One word replies. Something shifted and you have no idea what it was. Here's the problem. Almost everything men do at this exact moment makes every possible version of this situation worse. There are...
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Why Dating Still Feels Like Work?
Have you ever put in real work - actual approaches, actual reps, real results and then wondered if this is just what it looks like forever? Or maybe you've got a solid social circle, you're around attractive women, and you're still going home alone most weekends. If either sounds familiar…
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You're Solving The Wrong Dating Problem
Most guys are trying to solve their dating life as an individual problem. Better approaches. Better texts.Better profile. Better conversation. That stuff matters. But there's a ceiling on it that most guys hit and can't explain. Because the guys who actually live the life solved a completely...
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Why You Keep Losing to Men You're Better Than
Six feet. Six figures. Six pack. Only 1% of men in the US actually hit all three at the same time. So either 99% of men are completely undateable or something about this whole conversation is being seriously misunderstood. In this episode I break down what the 666 standard actually reveals, why...
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If You Want Commitment From Her, Stop Doing This Immediately
If you're in a situationship right now, you put yourself there. Not on purpose. Not because you're a bad guy. But somewhere along the way your actions started writing a contract you never meant to sign. In this episode I break down exactly why this keeps happening, the two completely different...
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Why High Value Men Are Quietly Stepping Back From Dating (And What To Do Instead)
The men who built something. Got in shape. Went to therapy.Did the actual work. They're not complaining on Reddit. They're just quietly stepping back and deciding it's not worth it anymore. And here's the part nobody is talking about, they might be right.Or they might be making the worst mistake…
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Women Mock DiCaprio Publicly Then Date Him Anyway. Here's Why
Every few months, Leonardo DiCaprio gets photographed with another younger woman and the internet loses its mind. Women call him creepy. Men defend him like he's the last symbol of male freedom. Everyone makes the same jokes. But I don't think anyone is actually talking about Leo. I think they're...
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Height Does Matter in Dating - Here's the Part Nobody Tells You
Height matters. And if you're using it as your excuse, that's exactly why you're losing. But here's what nobody talks about: height matters far less outside of dating apps than men think. And apps happen to be the worst possible environment for shorter men to begin with. In this episode, I break...
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Looksmaxxing Is a Lie - Here's What Actually Attracts Women
Looksmaxxing is a lie.I sat down with Mark Sing, host of the Unapologetic Man Podcast with over 6 million downloads, to break down why men are obsessing over jaw surgery, followers, and aesthetics — when the real game is won entirely on the inside.In this conversation, we cover:→ Why perceived...
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Stop Taking Dating Advice From Reddit And Watch What Happens
Most men losing in dating aren't losing because of their height, their looks, or their luck. They're losing because of how they think. And Reddit is full of proof. I went through the most upvoted male dating posts on Reddit and broke down exactly what's going wrong in each one and what to do...
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Wall Street Exec Reveals Why Success Didn't Fix His Dating Life | IC Files ( Ep 317 )
Most men think money and status are enough. My client thought so too until he found himself divorced, successful on paper, and completely stuck in his dating life. I sat down with one of my clients, a Wall Street veteran, to break down how he went from scarcity to abundance by completely…
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Stop Losing Women You Like: Breaking Down the Real Reason Chemistry Dies (Ep 316)
Links: The Dating Protocol: (link at bottom of the page) https://www.innerconfidence.com/ Book a call: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Timestamps: 00:00 Losing chemistry on a date 03:09 Date with a twist of insecurity 06:31 Embracing single life journey 10:47 Building a high-status...
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How To Become Magnetic Without Fake Game (Ep 315)
Links: Book a call: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Timestamps: 00:00 Improving conversational charisma 05:19 The problem with fake authenticity 08:17 The impact of context and environment 11:31 Overcoming fear of approaching 15:31 Building social skills through practice 18:50 Building...
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Is Monogamy Dead? The Real Rules High-Value Men Are Playing By w/ Jake of @Bxtches.Aint.Shit (Ep 314)
Links: Jake's Site: https://bxtchesaintshit.com/ Jake's IG: https://www.instagram.com/bxtches.aint.shit/ Book a call w/ Robbie: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Timestamps: 00:00 "Boost Confidence, Masculinity, Game" 06:10 "Ruthless Business and RSD Controversy" 09:00 "King's…
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The Rise of Game Global w/ Founder, Ice White (Ep 313)
Links: Game Global: https://www.gameglobal.net/ AI Texting Guide: https://agmi.co/go/mgai?r=1oPlX1 Book a call w/ Robbie: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Timestamps: 00:00 "Finding Connection Through Game Global" 07:21 "Game Global: From Start to 310" 13:17 "Game Pillars Success...
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Stop Playing Dating on Hard Mode (The 4X Leverage Playbook) Ep 312
Links: Book a call: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Timestamps: 00:00 "4X Dating Playbook Explained" 03:10 "Modern Dating Challenges for Men" 06:49 "Social Circles Boost Dating Success" 11:02 Efficient Dating Strategy: Instagram Ads 15:05 "Breaking Free from the Grind" 16:39 "Abundance...
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The Fastest Way to Turn a Woman Off (And Most Men Do It Proudly)
Links: Book a call: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Get NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/ Timestamps: 00:00 "Dating, Polarity, and Anxiety" 05:48 "Unlock Success Through Social Circles" 06:44 "Link in Description" Connect w/ Robbie: Instagram:...
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Why Working on Yourself Isn’t Enough (Ep 310)
Links: Book a call: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Get NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/ Timestamps: 00:00 "Willpower vs. Environment" 03:30 "Growth Through Feedback and Change" 08:54 "Modern Dating Advice for Men" 12:22 "Change Environment, Transform Yourself" 12:52 "Build...
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Most Men Aren’t Rejected by Women. They Reject Themselves First
Links: Book a call: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Timestamps: 00:00 "Overcoming Anxiety and Identity Confusion" 03:40 "Overcoming Fear Through Leadership" 07:42 "Dating Success Odds Explained" 11:40 "Rejection Isn't About You" 14:37 Authentic Dating Advice for Men 17:37 "Overcoming...
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Confidence vs Self Esteem: The Truth That Finally Explains Your Dating Struggles w. Dr. Geoff Newton
Links: Dr. Geoff's Website: https://www.psychotherapist.com.br/ Book a call w/ Robbie: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Timestamps: 00:00 Confidence vs. Self-Esteem Explained 03:56 Addiction, Promiscuity, and Identity 06:55 Self-Awareness and Human Behavior 12:01 Primal Mind's Role in...
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Why Most Men Fail at Dating Until Their 30s - w/ Special Guest: Lloyd Dixon - A.Single.Guy
Links: Lloyd's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/a.single.guy/ Book a call: https://go.innerconfidence.com/ Get NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/ Timestamps: Connect w/ Robbie: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer...
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Why Smart Men Should Stop Ignoring Astrology (and Start Using It in Dating) w/ Neda Farr (Ep 306)
Links: Book a call w/ Robbie: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Neda's Site: https://snipfeed.co/soulmateastrology Timestamps: 00:00 Astrology: A Social Connection Tool 06:03 Men's Deep Interest in Astrology 09:14 "Astrology: A Dating Tool" 11:11 "Astrology Beyond Your Sun Sign" 14:01…
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Top 10 Texting Mistakes That Kill Attraction and How to Avoid Them (Ep 305)
Links: Book a call: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Get NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/ Timestamps: 00:00 "Top Texting Tips for Dating" 03:31 "Fast Replies: A Relationship Concern" 07:43 Frustration with Short Text Exchanges 11:15 Modern Dating Success Guide 12:53 "Excited…
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The Brutal Truth: Why Hot Women Don’t Even See You (Yet) (Ep. 304)
Links: Book a call: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Get NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/ Timestamps: 00:00 Body Positivity and Height Bias 06:07 Dating Challenges in Small Cities 08:13 "Balancing Attraction Criteria" 11:03 "Level Up: 10 Actionable Steps" 14:32 Meeting Fashion...
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Upgrade Your Dating Profiles: Avoid Cringe Photos and Start Getting Matches
Links: Book a call: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Get NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/ Timestamps: 00:00 "Optimize Online Dating Profiles" 05:54 Personalized Shopping Assistance 08:32 "Expert Photos for Dating Success" 09:46 "Finding a Photographer Solution" 13:08 Creating an...
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Ten Relationship Red Flags Every Confident Man Needs to Spot Early
Links: Book a call: https://www.innerconfidence.com/communityGet NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/Timestamps:00:00 Escaping Toxic Relationships: A Guide05:36 "Friends Reflect Future Partners"07:45 Controlling Long-Distance Relationship Struggles10:30 "Mutual Trust in Device Access"14:08...
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From Restraining Order to Reconnection: Bryan Power’s Journey Through a Brutal Breakup (Ep 301)
Links: Book a call: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Get NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/ Bryan's Site: www.myrelationshipfail.com Timestamps: 03:42 Father Reconnection Amid Childhood Trauma 06:24 Formative Childhood and Lifelong Impact 12:37 "Navigating Trauma and Emotional...
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Overcoming Resentment, Jealousy, and Hopelessness on Your Confidence Journey
Links: Book a call: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Get NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/ Timestamps: 00:00 Addressing Struggle and Inner Pain 03:41 Struggling with Self-Esteem and Dating 06:48 Priceless Wisdom, Health Investment 11:24 "Join High-Value Social Circles" Connect w/...
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Why Dating Apps Fail and Instagram Ads Work for Meeting Quality Women
Links: Brian's Site: https://brianmarckesano.com/ Book a call w/ Robbie: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Get NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/ Timestamps: 09:20 "Achieving Hugh Hefner Lifestyle" 12:50 "Time as a Growth Multiplier" 17:07 Real Intimacy vs. Artificial Alternatives...
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This Dating Hack Beats Bars, Apps, and Cold Approach and No One Talks About It
Links: Book a call: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Get NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/ Timestamps: 07:45 Missed Connection Before Moving 10:48 "Dance Mastery Through One Style" 19:29 Dance: Embracing Leadership and Flow 22:31 Casual Dance Dynamics Explained 28:25 Journey to...
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Love Can Be Calculated: The Science of Attraction, Compatibility & Self-Worth w/ Zoey Charif
Links: Zoey's Book: https://www.lovecaninfactbecalculated.com/ Zoey's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zoeycharif/ Free 5 Day Email Course: https://www.innerconfidence.com/start Get NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com Timestamps: 00:00 "Love, Betrayal, and Human Behavior" 03:52 Equally...
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Control the Frame or Lose the Girl: Mastering Power Dynamics in Dating
Links: Free 5 Day Educational Email Course - https://www.innerconfidence.com/start NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/ Intro: Most guys lose women not because they said the wrong thing — but because they gave up their power without realizing it. In this episode, I answer real questions from...
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$1,200 on Bottle Service… and Not a Single Number
Links: Book a call: https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call Get NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/ Timestamps: 00:00 Club Success Strategies Simplified 05:08 Navigating Door Policies with Respect 07:37 Building Connections Over Time 12:25 Flirting Techniques and Etiquette 15:25…
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Why Most Guys FAIL with Women at Bars (And How to Fix It)
Intro: Most guys completely blow it at bars — not because they’re unattractive or awkward, but because they have no idea how to move, where to stand, or how to actually create a connection in a nightlife environment. In this episode, I’m breaking down the real reason guys fail with women at bars…
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The Daygame System That Got Me Off the Apps for Good
Links: Book a call: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Get NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/ Timestamps: 00:00 "Overcoming Approach Anxiety" 07:53 Warm Up to Combat Anxiety 10:50 "Approaching Women Mistakes" 15:21 "Smooth Pickup Line Strategy" 17:47 "Start Small to Practice Dating"...
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Escaping Forced Monogamy: How to Date on Your Own Terms
Links: Get NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/ Book A Call w/ Robbie: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Timestamps: 03:58 "30 Dates Challenge" 09:29 Courageous Relationship Boundaries Conversation 10:10 "Understanding Casual Relationships" 14:25 "Threesome Story at the Abbey" 17:26...
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Six Dating Coach Scams That Drain Your Wallet Without Results
Links: Book a call: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Get NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/ Info: Are you thinking about hiring a dating coach or perhaps you've already invested with little to no return? Robbie exposes the pitfalls of flashy, overpriced programs and sheds light on…
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Transforming Dry Spells into an Abundant Love Life
Links: Apply for The Community & Book a Call with Robbie: https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call New Brew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/ Intro: We begin with the "Hoping Stage," where many guys find themselves stuck, relying solely on dating apps and chance meetups. Robbie explains how...
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Should You Fly Her In Before You’ve Slept Together?
Apply For The IC Community: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community Intro: In today's episode we're diving into the tricky world of weekend getaways and why they often backfire for men hoping for romance. Host Robbie Kramer explores why taking a woman on a trip can lead to the friend zone, and...
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The Inner Confidence Podcast with Robbie Kramer is a weekly podcast that brings you the most cutting edge dating and lifestyle advice for men. Topics include attraction, dating, making friends, fitness, wealth hacking, and lifestyle design.
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