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Intimacy Advisor Podcast
by Lover's Lane
A podcast dedicated to helping you love your body, love your relationship, and get the sex you want!🗣️ Hosted by Haley - Sex Educator & Intimacy Expert 💋presented by Lovers Lane
Episodes
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9 New Products Recommended by Our Romance Specialists
Welcome back to The Intimacy Advisor Podcast! We can safely say, variety is everywhere between the walls of Lover's Lane, and we have a little something for everyone! After being away for only a month, so many new toys are always arriving! We stopped in to a location to get recommendations on 9…
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Lets Get Explosive in the Bedroom: New Toys You Have to Try This Summer
Here's the latest, greatest, and most explosive toys you can play with in the bedroom! Join us exploring ten different toy and lube categories to find new novelties for just you or to share with a partner. Bonus points if you try a few together! Shop new toys and other products at Lover's Lane...
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Conversations About Coming Out and LGBTQA+ Terms
Happy Pride, Intimacy Advisor family! As we celebrate Pride 2023, join us discussing when is right to come out, and the change in your sense of self. Let's take a look at terms which define the difference between sex, gender, and gender identity. We also have a moment of discussing tolerance...
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Tentacles, Dragon Tails, and Other Fun Gadgets
Introducing (finally!) - Uberrime! This Orlando-made product is crafted with love, skill, and hand-poured silicone. Making dildos and tentacles alike with different textures than the average insertable toy, you'll see upon first sight and touch why they're so loved. Check out Uberrime here. Shop...
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10 Massage Moves You'll Crave
If you're looking to give in to relaxation and want the same for your partner, this is the episode for you! Let's take the first and most important step to intimacy: relaxation. When the body is relaxed and the mind shuts down, we can have a deeper physical connection. In this episode we mention…
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Rain, Rain, Here to Stay with Toys That Encourage Squirting
April showers are here! I mean, really here, in the bedroom and all! Don't dry off inside, head to the bedroom instead with the toy picks from Episode 90 of The Intimacy Advisor Podcast. In this episode, we take a look at what squirt really is and take a peak at some popular products that need a...
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The Best Tools for Your Intimate Toolbox
From toys to lubes to outfits...what tools are going to benefit your Intimate Toolbox the most? And which toys and products are worth trying (or at least keeping on hand?) Join us on The Intimacy Advisor Podcast to learn our Intimate tricks up our sleeve to have romantic, kinky, and...
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Exploring Beloved Intimacy Serum and Relationships with Dr. Megan Fleming
Welcome to the Intimacy Advisor Podcast, Dr. Megan Fleming! In this episode, Dr. Megan Fleming joins us to take a look at a new lubricant, Beloved, created for comfort with nourishing and balancing ingredients that we should look for in a good intimate serum as a tool to our love-making toolbox....
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Talking Dirty 101
Take it from us, talking dirty isn't always an easy task in the bedroom. And when you're put on the spot with your partner quick to say "talk dirty to me..." you don't want to freeze up. So how do you think quick on your feet and give them a sexy conversation that won't be a flop? And how do you...
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A Look In To BDSM Devices
If you have a curious mind or are looking to continue experimenting in the bedroom, this episode is for you! Let's take a dive at different roles, themes and products we offer at Lover's Lane in our BDSM department. What suits you best? Try some role play on for size in episode 86 of The Intimacy...
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Valentines Gift and Lingerie Guide 2023
Happy Valentine's Day here from Lover's Lane! It's the most lovely time of the year, so let's take the stress out of finding your love a gift this holiday and hear about our best toys and outfits to celebrate February 14. In this episode, we talk about best selling vibes for couples, air…
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Valentine's Love Kit Guide
Valentine's Day is just around the corner! The holiday of showing love to your special someone deserves no gift less than our Love Collections! Join Haley for an in-depth look at each of our 6 Love Kits and other suggestions for this Valentine's Day to make your night unforgettable. Shop our...
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Episode 83: New Year Hotter Sex
Bring on 2023! What resolutions or lifestyle changes are you bringing to the table this year? At Lover's Lane, Sex Drive and The Intimacy Advisor Podcast and Blog... we're all looking for hotter sex! If that means new toys, more free time, deeper connection, or all the above, have a listen to...
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Episode 82: Top 10 Toy Picks of 2022
Welcome back to Season 3 of The Intimacy Advisor blog with your new (old) host, Haley! Today we're talking what new products made their way to our top 10 picks of 2022 and what old products were so good...that they're STILL on that list. Check out our number one pick at Lover's Lane right here!…
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Finding Your Sexual Confidence
Today's episode wraps up Season 2 of Intimacy Advisor Podcast!! This year, we've covered everything from awakening your arousal and the joys of 69 to femme dominance and ways to spruce up date night! This episode brings it all together with exercises and activities you can return to again and…
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Top 10 Turn-Ons
What does hearing what your partner likes, neck kisses, and eye contact all have in common? They're all on the list of top 10 turn-ons! Want to up your game? Reignite the spark with a special someone? Become a more attentive lover? This episode covers the do's and don'ts of turning on your…
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Listener Questions Answered: Back to School Edition
We've been holding onto your questions for this very moment! Labor Day marks the end of summer for many of us and in the spirit of back to school, Sarah answers listeners questions. How do you turn your partner up if their nipples are too sensitive? What do you do if you get close, oh so close…
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Bootylicious Basics
Happy A n a l August, lovers! No topic is taboo here at Intimacy Advisor and booty play shouldn’t be either. If you haven’t ventured to the backdoor yet, you are missing out. This episode covers everything you need to know to get the most pleasure out of your a n a l adventures, including safety....
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Masturbation Makeover
When was the last time you revisited your solo play technique? Are you relying on the same hand trick from high school? Have you burnt out your vibrator from using it on high for too many years to count? Join Intimacy Advisor host, Sarah TomTom, for a solo play makeover, including techniques,...
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How to Build Your Own Sex Room
Have you been binging How to Build a Sex Room on Netlfix? In this week’s episode, Sarah breaks down celebrity designer Melanie Rose’s approach and how you can adopt it to YOUR space. No need to remodel your home! Sarah gives you activities for discovering your sex style and everything you need to...
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BDSM Day Buffet
Happy National BDSM Day! BDSM is a highly creative kind of play with limitless possibilities. This episode celebrates the different flavors of Kink. Learn the definitions and differences of Kink, BDsM and Fetish play. We will cover negotiation, play and aftercare practices for ensuring safety and...
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Tool School: How to Please the Big D
On this week's episode, Sarah drops a ton of knob knowledge...From satisfying hand techniques and how to create firmer, more sensitive erections to flaccid play and the squeeze method for delaying ejaculation! Also discover which toys are best for oral sex and hand jobs. This episode covers some...
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Travel-Friendly Toys
Tis the season for hitting the beach, the road, and all locations near and far. But, what toys do you bring?? Sarah covers the most discreet and compact products that pack a punch to liven up your adventures, as well as the newest innovations that will guarantee your sexcapades are as luxurious…
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Tapping Into Your True Desires
Getting in touch with what you want – what you actually want – is incredibly empowering! But, where do you start? Sarah takes listeners through a simple process for naming your desires and putting action towards them. Using tools like the Feelings Wheel and the Desire Map simplifies what may...
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The Art of Strap-On Play
Curious about mutual pleasure with your partner? Expanding your penetrative play options? Exploring new power dynamics with your partner/s? Then strap-on play is for you! Many people get discouraged or intimidated by the gear, which is why Sarah is breaking down all of the basics for you…
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Perfectly Queer
Happy Pride! In this episode, Sarah nerds out on the history of the term queer, how it reflects the versatility, resilience and inability to be confined by labels of the LGBTQIA+ community, and why she loves the term so much. For anyone looking for a quick queer history lesson to kick off Pride...
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Ode to the 69
This week we are celebrating our 69th episode by giving some love to the much talked (and snickered) about sex position! 69ing is an act of mutual pleasure dating back to the Kama Sutra. Sarah shares a little history about the clever naming of the position as well as tips for maximizing comfort…
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Sex-Positive Parenting
It can be intimidating to talk to your kids about S-E-X! Where do you start? What do you say? How do you know what's age appropriate? In this week's episode, Sarah breaks down some helpful tips for laying the foundation of open communication with your kids. Establishing bodily autonomy, setting…
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Femme Dominance
Traditionally, feminine people are type cast as submissives. But, what if subverting traditional power dynamics ignites your desire and makes you feel sexually empowered? This episode is a love letter to anyone whose been called bossy as an insult. We will explore how to tap into your authentic...
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Ask Anything! Listener Questions Answered
This week on Intimacy Advisor Sarah fields listener questions. How can I make my girlfriend come? What other positions can I explore if I love being on top? I can’t get off. Help! We’re talking sex toys, vulva massage, the wonders of the clit, nipple play, sex positions, erotic breath and more!...
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Weeknight Sex Hacks: Building Erotic Bridges
The movies have lied to us! Going from zero to hot & bothered and ready for action 7 days a week is a myth. Most of us have busy lives and priorities outside of the bedroom. Cultivating our erotic life can feel like it takes work. Creating an erotic bridge, an intentional transition, from...
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Spring Fling: Post Pandemic Dating with Elle Chase
Spring has sprung! Tis the season of vibe checks and new relationships. Are you feeling a little out of practice with dating? Are you tired of going on first dates that don’t go anywhere? Struggling to find other sex-positive matches? This week Sarah is joined by educator, author, and body...
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Finding Your O
Orgasms are a physiological response. Orgasmic experiences are also your mind, your body and your breath working together to allow for surrender and release. In this episode, Sarah shares a number of tools for finding your orgasmic potential. We cover getting to know your sexual scripts, diving...
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Multiple Os
We've been working up to this... Multiple Os! Learn how to catch and ride the waves of Multiple Orgasms. Sarah covers tips and techniques for anyone interested in expanding their pleasure potential. From the squeeze method and the power of exercising your Kegels; to layering sensations or moaning...
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Pleasure-Based Anatomy
Understanding our bodies' building blocks for experiencing sexual pleasure can help demystify roadblocks to orgasm, our partner's needs and so much more! Sarah walks you through her favorite nerdy topic, Anatomy, and gives you tips along the way. This episode covers everything you need to know...
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Awakening Your Arousal
Arousal is an overlooked building block to expansive orgasmic experiences. Sarah debunks some arousal misunderstandings, breaks down the nuances of different types of desire, and explains the importance of context. If you’re looking for ways to turn up your desire, understand your libido and gain...
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Date Night Overhaul
The most popular date night of the year is upon us – Valentine’s Day! When is the last time you changed up your date night routines? Getting tired of Netflix and chill? Want to engage with your partner in new and different ways? This episode offers a ton of creative (and hot) date ideas and ways…
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Valentine's Day Gift Guide
Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. Vday is a perfect opportunity to invest in your sexuality, your sensuality, and the love relationships you have in your life, including the one with yourself! This episode is dedicated to Sarah’s favorite toys. Toys can be a way to enhance your...
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Love Languages Pt. 2
This episode is a part 2 to our very first (and very popular!) episode about the original 5 Love Languages. This episode explores expanded concepts around the love languages, what to do when you and your partner’s love languages don’t match up, and how to ask for what you want and need! This...
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Body Ody Ody Love
Do you find yourself overwhelmed by unrealistic body standards? Do you speak to yourself negatively about your body on the regular? Or are you struggling to feel sexy? Body acceptance is a process. Host Sarah TomTom offers a variety of tips for affirming and accentuating your body in ways that...
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Pleasure Resolutions
We are kicking the New Year off with a new host, Sarah TomTom. Sex Educator and founder of Damiana Productions. This week we are talking about prioritizing pleasure in our routines and incorporating pleasure into our New Year’s goals and resolutions. This episode is sure to get you thinking about...
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Episode 54: Spooky Sex and Dungeon Fantasies
One more round of spookiness before Halloween season is done! In Episode 54, we talk how to build a dungeon, how to communicate your eerie needs, and what to do when you know the sex you want isn't the sex you're getting. Be sure to shop loverslane.com to build your BDSM fantasy! See...
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Episode 53: Tricks and Treats for Your Best Sex Ever
Trick or Treat?! In Episode 53 we talk about TikTok trending sex toys and products, how to give the easiest and best blow job ever, and helpful hints for awesome oral. Be sure to check out our Intimacy Advisor blog and shop Lover's Lane! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
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Episode 52: The Sex-Ed Episode
It's time for the talk...about how the sex ed we've learned as young adults doesn't add up to what you grow to learn. No one teaches pleasure, they don't teach how to explore your preferences, and the part I hate the most is they don't teach LGBT+ sex education. We need to change that. Send this...
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Episode 51: Chest and Breast Stimulation
Episode 51 is all about nipples! If you're wondering what products and creams and gels do all the best job of tugging, sucking, clamping, and caressing your way to a nipple orgasm (yes that's real!) look no further. Don't forget to shop Lover's Lane for all the best titillating toys ;) See...
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Episode 50: Breaking the Fake
Are you tired of faking it?! I bet you are. But why are we faking? Is it our fault? Our partners? Technique? Skill? The real reason behind it can be a few different things but it mostly boils down to 1) either our bodies don't want to (weird, right?) or 2) lack of sex education. (Not a big…
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Episode 49: Bringing Lingerie Out of the Bedroom
Now's the season of layering your clothes! But what's this... a sexy surprise for your partner after date night? You betcha! In Episode 49, you'll learn about different styles of lingerie and on what body works the very best for what style as well as some sexy layered outfit ideas on how to…
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Episode 48: Celebrating SeXtember with IA Podcast‘s 1 Year Anniversary!
Hooray! Our 1 year anniversary episode! So how do we celebrate? On today's episode we are giving the best alternatives to some of our high end luxury vibes and products maybe for your travel bag or simply to try something (still awesome) but on the cheaper side before you invest in the luxe...
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Episode 47: Labors of Love
Happy Labor Day 2021! As we enjoy a relaxing day away from work, consider how our personal relationships need care, understanding, excitement, and emotional labor. Then at the end of todays episode, we talk products fit for the job...the blow job that is! Make sure to shop Lover's Lane for all of...
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Episode 46: Anal Hooks and Other Not-As-Popular Toys
Here it is...the odds and ends that just take the right person to love on! Interesting stimulators like electro-spanking, tentacle play and anal hooks (who knows!) could be your next best friend! If you have an open mind and the willingness to explore, this episode is for you. Be sure to shop at...
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