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Is it just me ?

by Shumi:)

Is it just me, or are we all pretending to know what we’re doing?Welcome to Is It Just Me?—the podcast where we admit we don’t have it together, and that’s fine. From navigating faith (without being a saint), adulting, mental health dips, situationships, and keeping up with pop culture (because yes, I love God and a Netflix binge).I’m Shumi, a 28-year-old girly figuring it out—one overthinking session at a time. This is your safe space for honest chats, rants, and reminders you’re not the only one.New episodes every other week. Because surely… it’s not just me?

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Episodes

  1. EPISODE 9: DILEMMA (am I average?)

    In today’s episode, we’re unpacking a dilemma that hits a little too close to home: “Is it just me… or am I just average?” Not failing, not thriving… just floating. If you’ve ever looked around and felt like everyone else is standing out while you’re stuck in the background, this one’s for you....

  2. EPISODE 8: Soft Life? I’ll Take It from Here

    We’ve all seen the TikToks about the “soft life” — the slow mornings, the effortless luxury, the permanent peace. But what does a real soft life actually look like? In this episode of Is It Just Me?, I’m unpacking how softness doesn’t always mean ease or laziness. Sometimes, it’s choosing rest…

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  3. EPISODE 7: Am I Actually Over It… or Just Avoiding It?

    In this episode of Is It Just Me?, we’re unpacking a listener dilemma that hits way too close to home: “Am I actually over it, or am I just avoiding it?” You know the drill — we say we’ve moved on, healed, let go… but have we really? Or are we just really good at burying things until they bubble...

  4. EPISODE 6: Missing You & Thankful Too

    Ever felt like your heart is holding both sorrow and joy at the same time? In this episode of Is It Just Me?, we’re talking about grief — and how it doesn’t cancel out gratitude. I reflect on losing my dad to cancer when I was 10, how Father’s Day still brings up all the emotions, and why it’s…

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  5. EPISODE 5: Letting Go of Control (Even When It’s Scary)

    Ever felt stuck waiting for the perfect plan before you make a move? In this episode of Is It Just Me?, we’re unpacking the grip of control and how clinging too tightly to the plan you once had might be the very thing holding you back. I talk about underestimating your own gifts, over-familiarity...

  6. EPISODE 4: Fear of embarrassment is killing your potential

    Ever held back because you didn’t want to look silly trying something new? In this episode of Is It Just Me?, we’re unpacking how the fear of embarrassment might be quietly blocking your blessings. I talk about perfectionism disguised as caution, the power of starting badly, and why it’s more…

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  7. EPISODE 3: I Wanted a Rom-Com Love… Until I Rewatched My Best Friend’s Wedding

    In this episode of Is It Just Me?, we’re talking rom-com delusion, emotional manipulation, and the chaos we used to call “true love.” I’m unpacking My Best Friend’s Wedding—a film I once adored but now see with very different eyes. From sabotage and gaslighting to full-blown manipulation, Julia...

  8. EPISODE 2: Grace, Guilt & a To-Do List

    In this episode of Is It Just Me?, we’re getting into the emotional chaos that is… trying to be consistent while feeling everything all at once. I’m talking about that weird space between giving yourself grace and feeling guilty for not doing more, and how it’s possible to cry on the floor and...

  9. EPISODE 1: Faith, Expectations & Figuring It Out (Even When You Feel Behind)

    In this first episode of Is It Just Me?, I’m diving into what it’s like to live in your twenties, love God, and still feel like you’re behind in life—whatever “behind” even means. We’re chatting about the pressure to have everything sorted, what society expects of us (spoiler: it’s a lot), and…

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Is it just me, or are we all pretending to know what we’re doing?Welcome to Is It Just Me?—the podcast where we admit we don’t have it together, and that’s fine. From navigating faith (without being a saint), adulting, mental health dips, situationships, and keeping up with pop culture (because yes, I love God and a Netflix binge).I’m Shumi, a 28-year-old girly figuring it out—one overthinking session at a time. This is your safe space for honest chats, rants, and reminders you’re not the only one.New episodes every other week. Because surely… it’s not just me?

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Is it just me, or are we all pretending to know what we’re doing?Welcome to Is It Just Me?—the podcast where we admit we don’t have it together, and that’s fine. From navigating faith (without being a saint), adulting, mental health dips, situationships, and keeping up with pop culture (because...

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