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It's Complicated

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On It’s Complicated, Jenifer Golden, Lauren Leonelli, and Rob Evors dive into the oh-so-messy world of dating and relationships with hilarious anecdotes, strong opinions, and expert guests. From situationships and ghosting to commitment and compatibility, they share their own experiences while bringing in the pros to weigh in.New episodes may be on pause, but the full archive is loaded with real talk, laughs, and relatable moments — binge now and catch up on the chaos.

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Episodes

  1. Newlywed Life, Nomadic Adventures, and Navigating Hormones

    We're diving into the whirlwind of post-wedding life, travel adventures, and hormonal changes. Join us as we navigate newlywed life, tackle the impact of hormones on relationships, and dissect the important insights we gain from traveling with a loved one. Whether it's the excitement of nomadic...

  2. Love is Blind UK: Behind the Pods Across the Pond

    We're diving into the world of British reality TV with a deep dive into the UK version of Love is Blind. Join us as we dissect the cultural nuances, casting choices, and the drama that unfolds in this transatlantic take on the popular dating show. From the gentlemanly manners of British…

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  3. Bennifer Unraveled: Love, Fame, and Fallout

    We dive deep into the whirlwind romance of Bennifer! From their early 2000s engagement to their recent rekindling and the latest rumors, we break it all down. Recorded just before their divorce was filed and made public, we posed the question: does this breakup mean that any couple who breaks up...

  4. Love in Stages: Mastering the Pre-Exclusive Dating Game

    In this episode, we tackle the often overwhelming task of planning dates, especially for guys in heterosexual relationships. We discuss the pressure of making a good impression and how choosing the right date can be a make-or-break moment. But don’t stress! We found a helpful list from Mostly...

  5. The Big Day Breakdown: We Recap Jen's Wedding

    We are back and resurfacing like that booty call you never wanted to go away. This week, we're diving into one of our most talked-about topics: finding "the one" and the ultimate light at the end of the relationship tunnel—getting married. Our very own Jen got married, and we were all there to...

  6. Love, Lies, and Loyalty: Our Vanderpump Rules Reunion Recap

    We dive deep into the much-anticipated Vanderpump Rules reunion, dissecting the drama, the betrayals, and the lessons on love that reality TV never fails to deliver. Is Tom Sandoval really the villain everyone makes him out to be, or is there more to the story? We debate the cast's reactions, the...

  7. Celebrations and Life Revelations: Mother's Day, Bachelorette Parties, and a Mid-ish Life Crisis

    Ever wondered how to balance kids, relationships, and the occasional bachelorette party? We've got you covered! In this episode, we dive into the latest updates on our personal lives, from Lauren celebrating Mother’s Day and birthdays, and navigating the complexities of modern parenting, to Rob...

  8. Revenge Reporting and the Dark Side of Dating Apps

    Can you be ghosted by the very platforms designed to spark connections? In today's episode, we navigate the alarming trend of users being banned from dating apps without clear justification. We share real-life stories, including one from a friend who found himself unjustly ousted from the digital...

  9. Romance Rundown: From Sandoval's Significant Other to Bieber's Baby

    We're peeling back the layers of Tom Sandoval's rumored breakup and the mysterious dynamics with his new flame, while unpacking the Bieber baby news and what it means for Justin and Hailey's public persona. Plus, we're holding up David and Victoria Beckham as the gold standard for enduring love…

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  10. Decoding the Dynamics of Tone

    It's not just about what you say, but how you say it—tone matters! We're exploring the concept of tone monitoring and how it can deflect from the real issues at hand. From Instagram insights to personal anecdotes, we unpack why your partner's tone can trigger you, and how to handle those moments...

  11. The Blame Game: Dodging Gaslight Grenades and Sarcastic Sniper Fire

    From the fine line between a playful tease and a hurtful jab to the infuriating prompt to "just calm down," we're dissecting the dynamics that can turn a simple conversation into a verbal minefield. In this episode, we explore the art of navigating through the murky waters of communication faux...

  12. Lessons in Love, Inspired by Love is Blind

    As your trusted village in the realm of dating and relating, this episode is a treasure trove of insights inspired by the hits and misses of Netflix's Love is Blind. We dissect pivotal conversations to have with your partner—from the necessity of location sharing for trust to the weighty matters…

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  13. A Paws in Dating, a Parents' Trip to Paradise, and Party Planning Panic

    Ever wondered how a puppy can influence your dating life or what it's like to plan a wedding while juggling a busy schedule? This week's episode has it all! Rob shares the impact of a dog's "fear phase" on social interactions, Jen reveals the pressure of wedding planning to the importance of...

  14. The Art of Arguing: From Heated to Heard

    In this heated episode, we peel back the layers of those dreaded words, "We need to talk," and plunge into the fiery depths of relationship arguments. We're not just talking petty bickering over unwashed dishes; we're discussing the explosive, therapy-inducing showdowns that can leave even the...

  15. The Golden Bachelor Breakup and the Curse of Reality TV Marriages

    We dive deep into the quick unraveling of reality TV's golden couple from The Golden Bachelor post-vows and the allure of televised romance. Does the glitz of the small screen tarnish the sanctity of marriage, or are these quickie divorces just a sign of the times? Join us as we explore the...

  16. Engagement Expectations: A Modern Look at When to Propose

    We tackle the age-old question of timing in relationships—when is it the right moment to pop the question? Join us as we dissect the societal pressures, personal expectations, and the unspoken rules of engagement. From the anticipation of proposal season to the intricacies of who should propose…

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  17. A Postpartum Rebound, Bridal Breakdown, and Dating App Dilemma

    Dive into the whirlwind of wedding woes, the trials of postpartum life adjustments, and the ongoing quest to navigate the dating world beyond apps. This episode of It's Complicated unpacks the personal journeys of our hosts as they confront the challenges of planning a dream wedding, embracing a...

  18. The Real Reality of Married at First Sight, Season 17

    This week, we're pulling back the curtain on the chaotic world of reality TV romance with an even deeper dive into Married at First Sight's latest season. Join us as Rob spills the tea on the dramatic dynamics, unexpected twists, and the raw truth behind the on-screen marriages. From love at…

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  19. Celebrity Heartbreaks and Double Standards: Unpacking the Ariana Madix Saga

    In this explosive episode, we're peeling back the layers on celebrity scandals and the aftermath of public infidelity. Join us as we unpack the Ariana Madix saga and ask the tough questions: When is it time to stop vilifying the cheater? How does fame and fortune change the relationship game?…

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  20. Age Gaps & Celebs on Dating Apps

    Join us as we unravel the tangled web of modern romance in this week's episode of It's Complicated. From Kristin Cavallari's post-divorce adventures, the latest celeb to join Raya, to the rumor mill milling over the truth about Giselle's new relationship, we're dissecting it all. Plus, we're…

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  21. What Happens When He's Not Ready

    In this heart-pounding episode, we're diving headfirst into the bewildering world of mixed signals and sudden cold feet. Ever wonder why Mr. Right turns into Mr. Ghost after a few magical dates? We're dissecting the perplexing phenomenon of men who woo like Romeo then go Houdini. With the help of...

  22. Sin City, Wedding Planning, and Swiping, Oh my!

    Wedding bells are ringing and we dive into the world of matrimonial madness as Jen counts down to her big day, sans the anxiety. From invites to bachelor(ette) parties, and the daunting task of balancing the books, we're unpacking the complexities of planning a wedding in the modern age. Plus…

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  23. KateGate: Where in the World is Kate Middleton?

    Buckle up for a royal rollercoaster of theories and speculation! In this episode, we dive headfirst into the swirling mystery surrounding Kate Middleton's sudden disappearance from the public eye. From potential palace affairs to secret pregnancies and health scares, we dissect the cryptic clues...

  24. Love is Blind Reunion Recapped

    Two of us think this reunion was the best one yet, we'll let you guess who that is. We dive deep into the drama, the unanswered questions, and the reality TV gold that's left us all wanting more. From Trevor's text message scandal to the fiery debates over who's the villain of the season, we're...

  25. Is Love Blind in The Valley?

    Strap in for a whirlwind episode as we dive deep into the turbulent waters of celebrity relationships and reality TV drama! Join us as we dissect the shocking split of Vanderpump Rules' Jax and Brittany. Is it a PR stunt or the end of the road? Plus, we're dishing out our hot takes on the Love is...

  26. Love is Blind Finale Recap

    Rob jumped on the Love Is Blind bandwagon and now we can have true water cooler talk! Season 6 is over, and we are probably more sad than Jimmy was when he saw that Chelsea did NOT look like Megan Fox…but not as sad as Chelsea was when Jimmy called her “clingy.” We share our thoughts on the show,...

  27. 7 Questions to Ask Your Partner

    Have you heard of the four horsemen? With regard to relationships, it was created by Dr. John and Julie Gottman - founders of the Gottman Institute, and it has been found to be remarkably accurate about predicting divorce. These destructive communication patterns, if they go unchecked, are likely...

  28. Love on the Spectrum

    We all know Rob loves his reality TV, but when he mentioned there was one show that brought him to tears, we knew we had to check it out for ourselves. Without fail, we fell in love with Love on the Spectrum. Listen as we share our perspective on the show, the cast, and which lessons can be…

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  29. Love is Blind is Back!

    Jen and Lauren's fav Netflix show, Love is Blind, is back and more complicated than ever! Hear our recap of episodes 1-6, including the couples that came out of the pods, the candidates that got canceled, and our controversial predictions! Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob: Host…

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  30. A Very It's Complicated Valentine's Day

    It’s the month of LOVE and the It’s Complicated crew shows you what Valentine's Day looks like at all different stages of the dating and relationship game. We update you on what our lives look like right now, including how Jen celebrates V-Day pre-wedding, how Lauren celebrates V-Day post…

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  31. Our Super Bowl Romance Recap and Predictions

    We've got your Super Bowl 58 recap, including which significant other got more coverage, the repercussions of being in the public eye, how we felt when we watched Taylor Swift get the ICK on live TV, whether we think other people's perception of your partner can influence your feelings, and share...

  32. Decoding the 12 Types of Dating

    Happy Valentine's Day! We know which love language we speak, we know the types of red flags to look out for, which dating trends give us the ick and make us want to ghost, but do we know what the types of dating there are? Knowledge about more dating terms might feel like yet another damn thing…

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  33. Super Bowl Sweethearts: Who will it be?

    It's the big game. Chiefs versus the Niners. Taylor Swift vs Olivia Culpo. We run the tapes and discuss which significant other will be this year's Super Bowl good luck charm, how romantic relationships may play offensive or defensive against your professional life, and why it's important for…

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  34. Changing Our Status

    Just like your dating profile, we post up and talk about our latest and greatest to keep you upDATEd! We get it, it’s 2024, but this is THE year Jen is getting MARRIED. It's also the year Lauren has left the baby phase, and the year Rob has embarked on the road to finding love. Find out how…

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  35. 2024 Dating Trends

    We have all heard of ghosting, breadcrumbing, love bombing, and the “ick.” Believe it or not, those negative terms used to describe people who can’t or wont commit for one reason or another actually became dating trends! Sadly, singles found themselves normalizing this behavior by calling it...

  36. Dating Red Flag Bracket Finals

    We're back with the Dating Red Flag finals, the only time where the worst offense will come out on top. Tune in to find out whether self diagnosed mental problems, bragging on hinge about how unlikely you are to respond, frequent Miami trips, or filthy car interior takes home the trophy as the...

  37. Dating Red Flag Bracket

    It’s a new year and we want to set the tone by opening the door to new beginnings and opportunities for you to win, especially when it comes to your love life…like Rob’s 12 months of dating challenge. Some say dating is a sport, which rang true when we found a Dating Red Flag bracket from…

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  38. Rob's 12 Months of Dating Challenge

    We deemed 2024 is the year Rob needs to decide whether he prefers the Bachelor life he's been living, OR alternatively, truly does want to find love and therefore needs to get.out.there. To help him do so, we’ve enlisted ourselves as his expert dating fairies and organized steps for him to take...

  39. Golden Globes and Golden Wedding, Unpacked

    Celebs are living their lives like it’s Golden, and we have a lot to say about it! Listen as we dive deep into Kylie and Timothee’s Golden Globes convo conspiracy, and Gigi and Bradley’s post Globes date night. We also unpack the circus that was the Golden Bachelor wedding, why it was tacky, and...

  40. New Year, Same Us

    Happy new year! (When do we stop saying that?) We're back from our holiday break and ready for all that 2024 has to offer. Listen as we recap how we each ended up celebrating, and what we're most looking forward to for ourselves, and each other...especially Rob. Spoiler alert, his dating life.…

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  41. Happy Holidays! Love, Us

    Love can be complicated, and the holidays tend to add yule log to the dating and relationship fireplace. To travel, or not to travel? To host, or not to host? To date, or not to date? Find out how we celebrate, and navigate the holidays this year, and what we're looking forward to in 2024!

  42. Married at First Sight: Mid-Season Recap

    This week we discuss MAFS, season 17. Don’t worry if you haven’t watched the show, there's only so much time for reality TV in our lives, unless you're Rob. That's why we are here to give you the highlights on the latest episode so you won't feel left out when your coworkers are talking about it...

  43. Celebrity Relationships: Past, Present, and Future

    Today we look into the Golden Bachelor’s NOT so golden past and how it might be affecting his relationships, Chris Martin's ex, Gwyneth Paltrow, and present flame Dakota Johnson's close friendship, and Gigi Hadid and Bradly Cooper expedited future. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and Rob:...

  44. A Royal Scandal, and America's Newest Sweethearts

    The celebrity rumor mill takes no days off, and we're here for all of it. We dive deep into dish about Andrew Shue and Marillee Fiebig's merry-little Christmas (see what we did there), and dissect the latest wave of Royal-ly wild relationship scandals. Keep it Complicated with Jen, Lauren, and…

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  45. Dating, Holiday Travel, and Wedding Planning OH MY!

    If you’re on the dating apps then you should be updating your profile in order to keep your potential matches in the loop. And just like your Instagram stories, we post up and talk about our latest and greatest so we can get you to like us more…and keep you upDATEd! Listen as we find out whether...

  46. The Golden Bachelor Finale

    Are we here for the right reasons or are we just in our Zaddy era? This week we discuss The Golden Bachelor and whether it tarnished in the end. The 489th season of the Bach switched things up by giving the spotlight to the old guy looking for love after his wife passed away. We get into whether...

  47. Let Us UpDATE You

    We're each in different phases of our love lives, and have been literally all over the place lately. We take you behind the scenes and upDATE you on Rob's venture out into the real world to find love, Jen's first family getaway as a couple, and Lauren's first couples' trip post kids. Keep it...

  48. Keeping Up with Kourtney, Kim and Travis

    What do you do if you found out your current partner previously slept with someone from your inner circle? It maaaay have happened to Kourtney Kardashian Barker, but the verdict is still out. Join us as we discuss the alleged deed, our POV on this troubling triangle, and how we'd handle this…

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  49. Married at First Sight Season 17, explained by Rob

    We love a good reality TV romance, and each have our favorite shows. Rob's currently watching the latest season of Married at First Sight and shares the premise behind the show and how it works, his perspective on each of the couples, and his predictions for what's to come as the season unfolds.…

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  50. Bravocon Boos, Taylor + Travis, and Sophie Turner

    The world's been a bit complicated lately so we took a brief break to sort ourselves out. In village news, Rob braced himself for Bravocon, Jen's been head down in wedding planning, and Lauren's going on her first adults only getaway since having kiddos. In celebrity couple news, we've got the...

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On It’s Complicated, Jenifer Golden, Lauren Leonelli, and Rob Evors dive into the oh-so-messy world of dating and relationships with hilarious anecdotes, strong opinions, and expert guests. From situationships and ghosting to commitment and compatibility, they share their own experiences while bringing in the pros to weigh in.New episodes may be on pause, but the full archive is loaded with real talk, laughs, and relatable moments — binge now and catch up on the chaos.

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