Episodes
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How to Heal Your Mind Before Dating Again Ft. Poetess StefMarie
In this episode, Shon & Steph Marie Cole, a five-time author, mental health coach, and Christian wellness advocate, to discuss the importance of mental healing before entering new relationships. Steph shares practical advice on self-awareness, identity, accountability, and trusting God's guidance...
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Is It Love or Is It Toxic? Don't Miss These Red Flags Ft. Olivia Howell
Feeling stuck in the maze of love, toxicity, and healing? Olivia Howell, co-founder of Fresh Starts Registry and a seasoned life coach, shares fearless insights on spotting red flags, reclaiming your power, and starting fresh after heartbreak. If you're ready to love without fear and build a life...
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Ask Yourself This Question Before Entering Another Relationship Ft. Bashea Williams
Ask Yourself This Question Before Entering Another Relationship. Are you stuck in a cycle of repeating the same relationship patterns? Feeling like you're not enough or that love is just too scary to face? This episode is a raw, passionate dive into the real truths about healing, accountability,...
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Why Men Can't Find What They Are Looking For in Modern Women Ft. Taylor Chandler
Most women have lost traits that men are desperately craving, but how do we get them back? Taylor Chandler, a seasoned marriage and family therapist, uncovers the truth in this raw, eye-opening episode. She exposes what women are unknowingly giving up, why it matters, and how it directly impacts...
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How Social Media’s Fake Highlights Destroy Real Marriage Expectations
Are you tired of hearing the same old myths about marriage that just set you up for disappointment? This episode is a raw, emotional, and powerful conversation that cuts through the noise and reveals what really matters. If you're ready to love authentically and build a resilient bond, this is…
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The Biggest Dating Mistakes Divorced People Make Ft. Sabrina (she.unapologetic)
Dive into the raw truth of how unhealed wounds, unrealistic standards, and shifting identities shape the way divorcees approach new love. Sabrina shares her heartfelt journey, practical wisdom, and empowering insights to heal, transform, and love fearlessly again. Main topics: The impact of...
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The Surprising Power of Bringing 'Spouse Energy' into Your Single Season Ft. Mike Speaks
Are you bringing “spouse energy” into your single season and wrecking your chances at real love? Mike speaks drops the truth bomb about why overperforming in dating, carrying trauma, and rushing into connections can sabotage your future. If you’re tired of repeating the same mistakes and ready to...
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A Divorce Lawyer Warns Divorcees Not To Believe These Lies Ft. Shamika T. Askew
This episode dives deep into why so many cling to blame, how to own your part in the breakup, and why remarrying might be rooted in familiar patterns—until we do the healing work. Divorce Attorney Shamika T. Askew shares breakthrough insights on building boundaries, recognizing red flags, and the...
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The Psychology Behind Why You Attract Toxic Partners Ft. Stacie Danielle
Most people don't realize that their subconscious patterns from childhood often set the stage for attracting toxic relationships — and breaking free starts with understanding these hidden triggers. If you’ve ever wondered why you keep repeating the same painful cycles, this episode with healing...
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Emotional Intimacy Explained: What You're Getting Wrong Ft. Dr. Canary
In this fiery episode, Dr. Canary breaks down the psychological roots of emotional intimacy—what it really looks like when it’s strong, even without physical contact. Plus, she reveals how attachment styles shape your relationship happiness, and why rushing into new romance without healing is a...
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The Real Reason Good Men Cheat Ft. Meg Carter
Most men in sexless marriages are suffering in silence until biology takes over. When rejection persists, their brains rewiring for self-protection can lead them down a dangerous path toward emotional and physical betrayal. Discover the shocking science behind why good men cheat, even when they…
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Before You Do Anything Else After Divorce, Watch This Ft. Divorce Lawyer Lindsey Andrews
Some of the most dangerous mistakes happen in the first 48 hours of a divorce—mistakes that can impact your entire life. Lindsay Andrews, a top family law attorney with 20+ years of experience, pulls back the curtain on what truly matters during those crucial early days. If you're facing divorce…
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The Pattern You Didn't Know You Were Stuck In Ft. Liza Chuma
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The #1 Dating Trap Single Moms Fall Into Ft. Kaywanda Lamb
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The Nervous System Advantage Divorce Lawyers Don't Want You to Have Ft. Mardi Chadwick Balcom
The Nervous System Advantage Divorce Lawyers Don't Want You to Have Ft. Mardi Chadwick Balcom ___________________ Buy me a coffee and support the channel... *CashApp | $hynemans ___________________ Website: https://scarytoremarry.com/ Instagram: / https://www.instagram.com/scarytoremarry/ TikTok…
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Attracted to the Wrong Type? Here's What's Really Happening Ft. Len Sturdivant
Are you attracted to the wrong type or prone to self sabotaging healthy relationships? This new season of Scary to Remarry explores these challenges, offering valuable relationship advice. We discuss how to foster personal growth and build a deeper connection in your love life Leonard Sturdivant…
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Therapy Helped Me Heal But Dating Got Worse Ft. Jermaine Morris
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The Divorce Financial Reality Women Aren't Told About Ft. Taccarra
In this insightful episode, we welcome back Taccarra, a life coach, financial educator, and retired army nurse, to discuss the financial challenges and opportunities women face post-divorce. Taccarra shares her personal journey and offers practical advice on rebuilding finances, setting new life...
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The Hidden Pain Men Carry After Divorce They Never Show You Ft. Matt Walker
Most divorced men carry silent battles; hidden pain, unmet needs, and a longing to be truly understood. But what if women knew the raw truth behind a man’s heart after heartbreak? Matt Walker, a man who's walked the painful path of divorce and found love again, pulls back the curtain. He shares...
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How Female Entrepreneurs Can Bounce Back After Divorce Ft. Jasmine Chanelle
Are you a female entrepreneur navigating the complexities of divorce? This video discusses the challenges female entrepreneurs face during divorce, offering advice and encouragement Featuring entrepreneur Jasmine Chanelle We explore practical tips for women balancing business and personal…
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Beyond the Bedroom: Exploring 12 Types of Intimacy Ft. Alexis Freddie B
In this engaging conversation, we delve into the often-taboo subject of sex within the context of Christian values, exploring the importance of vulnerability, intimacy, and communication in relationships. They introduce Alexis Freddie B, Christian sexologist, who shares her insights on the…
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How To Avoid Bad Dates Every Time! Ft. D. Lashae Davis
In this heartfelt episode, we dive deep into the complexities of modern dating with returning guest Dru Davis. Together, we unravel the misconceptions of chemistry and compatibility, explore the significance of setting godly boundaries, and discuss the importance of knowing one's identity in...
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Broken Trust in Marriage, Can It Actually Be Fixed? Ft. Cassandra Menard
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Are We Too Grown To Discuss This Topic? Ft. Canden Webb
Join us for an enlightening discussion with Canden, a purity coach and spoken word artist, as we explore the depths of sexual integrity beyond abstinence. In this episode, we delve into the challenges of maintaining self-control in a hyper-sexualized culture and the importance of aligning actions...
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The Simplicity of Men: A Deep Dive
Join us for an enlightening conversation with Love Khadijah, a renowned content creator and author known for her love hacks and accountability coaching. In this episode, we delve into the simplicity and complexity of men, exploring the dynamics of love and reciprocity. Discover how small gestures...
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Are You Making the BIG Mistake of Waiting for the Perfect Match? Ft. Brandy Yates
We explore the hidden reasons why relationships often fall apart. Join host Shon and returning guest Brandy Yates, a certified life coach, as they delve into the themes of control, accountability, and the misconceptions between men and women. Discover how relationships mirror our own issues and...
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What Really Happens When You Let Go of Unforgiveness? Ft. Maurice Jones
Forgiveness isn’t just about letting others off the hook, it’s about setting YOURSELF free. When we choose to forgive, we release anger, bitterness, and pain that keep us stuck in the past. Forgiveness is the doorway to peace, emotional healing, and spiritual growth Connect with Maurice here ➡︎...
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Military Divorce Explained: A Veteran's Honest Perspective Ft. Ashley Hudson
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3 Modern Dating Myths You STILL Believe Ft. Sammie Rogers Jr.
3 Modern Dating Myths You STILL Believe Ft. Sammie Rogers Jr. ___________________ Buy me a drink and support the channel...*CashApp | $hynemans ___________________ Website: https://scarytoremarry.com Instagram: / https://www.instagram.com/scarytoremarry TikTok: /...
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Reimagining Life and Love: Pre-Marriage Tips for Christian Women
In this enlightening episode, we welcome our special guest, content creator Chotsani Gordon, who shares her journey of personal rebranding and spiritual alignment. Discover the five essential steps every Christian woman should take before marriage, as she guides us through building a life rooted…
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Trust After Infidelity: Can it be Restored?
In this compelling episode, we delve into the complex journey of rebuilding trust after infidelity. Join us as we explore the essential factors that can help mend a relationship, even after a breach of trust. Our guest, Chonell Monique, daughter of former NBA player Thurl Bailey, shares her...
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Healing From Divorce: A Guide For Veterans
Healing From Divorce: A Guide For Veterans. Military Vet Moyo Mitchell and I explore the unique journey of service members and veterans navigating divorce while balancing the challenges of military life. From deployment separations to co-parenting across duty stations, this conversation offers a...
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The Pain You Don't Even Realize You're Carrying In Your Marriage
The Pain You Don't Even Realize You're Carrying In Your Marriage In this episode of It's Scary To Remarry, host Shon Hyneman delves into the complexities of marriage with guest Michael Cox, a licensed professional counselor. They explore the impact of unresolved pain on relationships, the...
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Did You Try EVERYTHING Before Divorce? Ft. Taccarra
In this episode, we explore the journey of life after divorce, particularly focusing on the experiences of military personnel. Our guest, Taccarra, shares her insights on financial management, personal growth, and the importance of self-love and resilience. The conversation delves into the...
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Why They Treat You Like an Option Instead of a Priority
Why They Treat You Like an Option Instead of a Priority. OpusClip is a generative AI video repurposing tool that turns your long videos into viral short videos. Use our affiliate link for OpusClips ➡︎ https://www.opus.pro/?via=Remarry The tool that helps YouTube creators improve their channel…
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Is Dating Christians Really That Bad?
Why Is Christian Dating So Hard Now?OpusClip is a generative AI video repurposing tool that turns your long videos into viral short videos. Use our affiliate link for OpusClips ➡︎ https://www.opus.pro/?via=Remarry The tool that helps YouTube creators improve their channel, find ideas, & grow…
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What Happens To Friendships When One of You Gets Married?
What Happens To Friendships When One of You Gets Married. Getting married changes everything, including your friendships. In this video, we explore the real impact marriage has on friendships and why so many people struggle to maintain close bonds after saying "I do."OpusClip is a generative AI...
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Let's Talk About Sex!
Let's Talk About Sex! In this engaging conversation, Shon & Aqueela and their guest, Alexis FreddyB, delve into the often-taboo topics of sex, intimacy, and vulnerability within the context of Christian values. They explore the various dimensions of intimacy, including emotional, financial, and...
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Why Christian Women Are DONE With Church Men
Why Christian Women Are DONE With Church Men! OpusClip is a generative AI video repurposing tool that turns your long videos into viral short videos. Use our affiliate link for OpusClips ➡︎ https://www.opus.pro/?via=Remarry The tool that helps YouTube creators improve their channel, find ideas, &...
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Are Singles Desperately Avoiding Marriage? Ft. Dr. Krystal
Is Being Single Really Better Than Marriage? OpusClip is a generative AI video repurposing tool that turns your long videos into viral short videos. Use our affiliate link for OpusClips ➡︎ https://www.opus.pro/?via=Remarry The tool that helps YouTube creators improve their channel, find ideas, &...
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Are Finances Ruining Your Dating Experiences? Ft. Maurice Jones
Are Finances Ruining Relationships in 2025? OpusClip is a generative AI video repurposing tool that turns your long videos into viral short videos. Use our affiliate link for OpusClips ➡︎ https://www.opus.pro/?via=Remarry The tool that helps YouTube creators improve their channel, find ideas, &...
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Love Unlocked: Shattering Old Patterns Ft. Bryan Thomas
Breaking Bad Patterns Can Save Your Love Life. Are you stuck in toxic relationship cycles? In this video, discover how to identify and break destructive patterns that are sabotaging your love life. Learn the psychology behind why we repeat unhealthy behaviors and get actionable strategies to…
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It Takes 1.5 Years To Recover From Divorce Ft. Jessica Briel
The Surprising Truth About Moving On After Divorce! OpusClip is a generative AI video repurposing tool that turns your long videos into viral short videos. Use our affiliate link for OpusClips ➡︎ https://www.opus.pro/?via=Remarry The tool that helps YouTube creators improve their channel, find...
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The Impact of Men's Mental Health After Divorce Ft. Josh Cearbaugh
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When Is It Safe To Love Again? With @She.unapologetic
Healing After Heartbreak: When Is It Safe To Love Again? OpusClip is a generative AI video repurposing tool that turns your long videos into viral short videos. Use our affiliate link for OpusClips ➡︎ https://www.opus.pro/?via=Remarry The tool that helps YouTube creators improve their channel…
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Healing Looks Like This (After Divorce) Ft. Jenoir Lynne'
Divorce can feel like the end, but for our special guest, author and speaker Jenoir Lynne' it was the beginning of rediscovery. In this video, she shares her journey of healing, rebuilding, and reconnecting with who she truly is after the pain of a broken marriage. From faith to self-love…
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What's Wrong With Being Single? Ft. Kaela
This season of singleness isn’t a punishment—it’s preparation. In this video, Podcast & TV Host, Bible Teacher, Mentor, Kaela explore God’s purpose for your life during singleness and how He may be using this time to refine your faith, heal your heart, and realign your focus. Whether you're…
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Why Ignoring Abuse Warnings Can Be Dangerous! Ft. Stephanie Avril
Why Ignoring Abuse Warnings Can Be Dangerous! She didn’t walk away because she gave up, she walked away to survive. In this powerful podcast, special guest survivor Stephanie share her story as a brave woman who chose divorce after enduring abuse in her marriage. This isn’t just about leaving a...
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How To Avoid Making Marriage an Idol in Your Life Ft. Laurinda
How To Avoid Making Marriage an Idol in Your Life. Is your desire for marriage becoming an idol? In this video, we explore how to keep your relationship goals in check and avoid turning marriage into your identity or ultimate source of worth. 💍 Learn how to: ✅ Recognize signs of idolizing…
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The ONE THING That’s Silently Destroying Your Relationship Ft. Cassandra
The ONE THING Silently Destroying Your Relationship. Are you feeling disconnected in your relationship? In this eye-opening video, Christian Relationship Coach Cassandra Menard uncover the surprising reasons behind why your relationship might be struggling and how to bring back the spark. Join us...
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