Lawyers Without Billboards

Can child support really be unconstitutional? According to some corners of TikTok, Instagram and the internet, the answer is yes.There’s just one problem: that isn’t what the law says.In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve, Patty, Jimmy and Alexa dig into one of the stranger child support claims circulating online: that a Minnesota Supreme Court case supposedly ruled child support unconstitutional.Patty explains what the case actually decided, why the claim has been badly distorted online and how misinformation can turn into very expensive legal trouble when people try to use it in a real courtroom.The team also takes a look at a $279 “child support discharge” packet complete with courtroom scripts, “living man” language and arguments that sound suspiciously familiar to the sovereign citizen world.They also discuss:• Where child support laws came from• What the Minnesota Supreme Court actually ruled• Why child support itself was not declared unconstitutional• Whether child support can be legally “discharged”• Why internet legal scripts can backfire badly in court• Common misconceptions involving VA disability and child support• Why people often search online for the answer they want instead of the law that actually appliesIf you’ve ever seen a reel, video or website promising a secret legal loophole that makes child support disappear, this episode is worth a listen.⏱️ Chapters00:00 Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards00:51 Is child support unconstitutional?02:45 Where did child support come from?03:52 Child support and English canon law05:21 The origins of child support enforcement06:36 Child support enters federal law07:25 The Minnesota Supreme Court claim09:05 Holding vs. dicta10:58 What the Minnesota case actually said12:36 The internet’s courtroom “magic words”12:52 The $279 child support discharge packet15:30 Why the discharge packet won’t work16:28 Reading the courtroom script19:04 Child support is constitutional20:47 The danger of online legal misinformation21:39 VA disability and child support myths23:03 Asking ChatGPT if child support is constitutional24:20 Searching for the answer you want25:01 Final takeaway🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/bmQSc27RZEQ or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected](770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

A misdemeanor does not always mean minor consequences.In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve, Patty, Jimmy and Alexa break down the Lautenberg Amendment and how a domestic violence conviction can affect a person’s right to possess firearms under federal law.The conversation starts with the Second Amendment and the broader question of how far the government can go in regulating firearm ownership. From there, the team traces the law from the Gun Control Act of 1968 through the 1996 Lautenberg Amendment, which expanded federal firearm restrictions to certain misdemeanor domestic violence convictions and eliminated exemptions that had previously applied to members of the military and law enforcement.They also discuss constructive possession, why the exact name of the criminal charge may not determine whether federal firearm restrictions apply, and the importance of the U.S. Supreme Court’s decision in United States v. Hayes.For military members, law enforcement officers, attorneys and anyone facing a domestic violence charge, the consequences can extend far beyond the courtroom⏱️ Chapters00:00 – Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards00:41 – Meatballs, marriage and a Chick-fil-A burrito05:52 – Introducing the Second Amendment07:25 – Does the Second Amendment protect an individual right?08:47 – Can the government restrict what weapons you own?13:24 – When can the government take away firearm rights?13:50 – The Gun Control Act of 196815:42 – The original military and law enforcement loophole18:49 – The Lautenberg Amendment of 199621:07 – How Lautenberg changed firearm restrictions21:40 – 18 U.S.C. § 922(g) and who it applies to22:19 – Constructive possession explained23:28 – Felony convictions and firearm possession25:29 – Misdemeanor crimes of domestic violence27:22 – Where domestic, criminal and military law intersect28:19 – Does the charge have to be called “domestic violence”?29:48 – United States v. Hayes32:10 – Why the factual basis of a plea matters33:27 – Key takeaways from the Lautenberg Amendment33:47 – What future episodes will cover🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/Fzs2MaX01pQ or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected](770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

What does a judge really want to see when attorneys and litigants walk into the courtroom?In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve Shewmaker, Jimmy Lewis and Alexa Lewis sit down with Judge Robert Walker of Gwinnett County for a candid conversation about family law, courtroom professionalism and nearly two decades on the bench.Judge Walker shares his path from the University of Florida College of Law to eight years as an Air Force JAG officer, where he worked both prosecution and defense, followed by time in the Fulton County District Attorney’s Office and private practice before becoming a Gwinnett County magistrate judge in 2008.The conversation turns to the realities of domestic cases, why resolving issues before trial matters, when mediation makes sense and what Judge Walker wants attorneys to remember when emotions run high in family court.Plus, Jimmy recalls one of his earliest hearings in front of Judge Walker, the group talks about what makes the Gwinnett County courts unique, and Judge Walker weighs in on A Few Good Men, My Cousin Vinny, Animal House, Star Trek vs. Star Wars and life outside the courtroom.⏱️ Chapters00:00 Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards00:49 Meet Judge Robert Walker03:31 The role of Gwinnett County magistrate judges04:43 Why family law matters05:30 From law school to Air Force JAG08:53 Leaving the Air Force and coming to Atlanta11:16 Prosecuting in Fulton County12:00 Private practice and becoming a judge13:24 Judge Walker’s current caseload14:43 Family, law school and the next generation17:53 Would Judge Walker move to Superior Court?18:33 What lawyers can do to make a judge’s job easier20:39 When should parties mediate?21:46 Jimmy’s first hearing with Judge Walker23:47 What Judge Walker wants people to know about Gwinnett courts25:54 The Gwinnett courthouse experience27:16 Steve’s unusual Berlin Wall story28:46 Judge Walker’s favorite movies30:43 Life outside the courtroom33:04 Final thoughts with Judge Walker🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here:https://youtu.be/urYUOzeIlv4 or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected](770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

What happens when bankruptcy crashes into a divorce case?Bankruptcy attorney Ian Falcone joins Steve, Patty and Alexa to explain how bankruptcy can affect divorce proceedings, support obligations, property settlements, attorney’s fees, joint debt and real estate.Ian breaks down the differences between Chapters 7, 11, 12 and 13, then explains one of the most important concepts in bankruptcy law: the automatic stay. The group discusses what may pause when bankruptcy is filed during a divorce, what can continue and why the answer often depends heavily on the facts.They also explore whether child support, alimony, extracurricular expenses, car payments, attorney’s fees and other divorce-related obligations can be discharged. Ian explains why simply labeling something “support” may not make it support in bankruptcy court and why carefully drafted settlement agreements and indemnification provisions matter.Finally, Ian shares a critical warning for divorce attorneys and spouses dealing with real estate: when a house is titled in only one spouse’s name, filing a lis pendens early may help protect the other spouse’s interest if bankruptcy is later filed.⏱️ Chapters00:00 Introduction01:10 Meet bankruptcy attorney Ian Falcone04:40 From “threshold law” to bankruptcy practice07:20 When divorce and bankruptcy intersect10:17 Understanding Chapters 7, 11, 12 and 1312:46 Why people with assets sometimes file bankruptcy15:05 What happens when bankruptcy is filed during divorce15:36 The automatic stay explained16:40 What divorce issues may continue despite bankruptcy18:52 Why violating the automatic stay can be risky21:58 Criminal actions, civil actions and contempt24:40 Why bankruptcy answers are often fact-specific27:18 Can divorce-related debt be discharged?28:10 What counts as a domestic support obligation?29:44 Cars, insurance, college expenses and attorney’s fees31:00 Drafting agreements to protect support obligations33:17 Why labels do not control in bankruptcy court35:19 Why indemnification language matters37:17 Chapter 7 versus Chapter 13 divorce debt39:17 Protecting a home with a lis pendens41:34 Rising bankruptcy filings and struggling businesses43:14 Final thoughts🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards. Connect with bankruptcy attorney Ian Falcone: https://www.falconefirm.com/🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/BNnEoXfG-58 or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

A parenting plan is more than a calendar. It determines how parents will make major decisions, where children will spend their time and how everyday parenting will work after a divorce.In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve, Patty, Jimmy and Alexa break down what goes into a Georgia parenting plan, including legal custody, final decision-making authority, regular parenting schedules and the growing variety of 50/50 custody arrangements.They explain the differences between week-on/week-off, 2-2-5-5 and 2-2-3 schedules, why some arrangements create more confusion than stability and how work schedules, school locations, commuting distances and a child’s age can affect what is practical.The team also discusses why there may be no true “standard” parenting schedule and why parents should focus less on counting days and more on creating a plan that genuinely works for their children.⏱️ Chapters00:00 – Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards02:09 – Is a parenting plan required in Georgia?03:38 – The paperwork involved in a divorce with children05:20 – Why self-represented parents often struggle with the process08:13 – What a parenting plan actually covers09:01 – Understanding legal custody10:40 – Final decision-making authority11:08 – The four major areas of parental decision-making11:51 – Technology, smartphones and social media12:45 – Dividing medical, educational and other decisions13:42 – When parenting plans become too complicated15:50 – Regular parenting time versus holiday parenting time17:09 – What is considered a “standard” custody schedule?17:28 – How parenting schedules have changed over time18:36 – When judges favor 50/50 custody20:48 – Why parenting schedules must fit real life21:45 – Work schedules, commuting and distance between parents23:16 – The trend toward expanded parenting time23:36 – Why living near your co-parent can matter25:28 – Different versions of 50/50 custody25:36 – How a 2-2-5-5 schedule works25:55 – How a 2-2-3 schedule works27:21 – Week-on/week-off custody27:41 – Parenting schedules for younger children28:49 – Focusing on what is best for the child29:54 – More parenting-plan topics still to come🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/w-0pd0MJ_ko or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

The Lawyers Without Billboards team returns for Part 2 of its discussion about courtroom objections.Steve, Patty, Jimmy and Alexa break down asked and answered, argumentative questions, assumes facts not in evidence, authentication, foundation, best evidence, counsel testifying, compound questions, cumulative evidence, speculation and leading questions.They also explain why an objection must be made at the right time, how emails and text messages are authenticated, when repetitive witnesses become cumulative and why lawyers are sometimes allowed to ask leading questions.Naturally, the episode also includes childhood candy, a military office prank and one highly memorable poop emoji introduced into evidence.⏱️ Chapters00:00 Introduction01:26 Childhood candy favorites02:40 A military office prank06:33 Courtroom Objections Part 207:12 Waiving an objection08:23 Ambiguous questions09:09 Argumentative questions11:15 Asked and answered13:14 Assumes facts not in evidence15:48 Authentication17:05 Authentication vs. foundation18:34 Authenticating emails21:15 Authenticating text messages23:27 The best evidence rule25:17 Summaries and financial records26:38 Counsel testifying27:54 Compound questions28:43 Cumulative evidence30:26 Speculation32:27 Leading questions36:17 Closing thoughts🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here:  https://youtu.be/bcmmcNyrIZY or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Georgia has a fresh batch of laws on the books, and some are more surprising than others.In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve, Patty, Jimmy, and Alexa break down several notable new Georgia laws, including expanded protections for service dogs, changes to the Safe Haven law, new rules for cash rounding if pennies disappear, tougher penalties for signal jammers, and a publicly searchable animal cruelty database.The conversation also covers increased penalties for gift card fraud, human trafficking, and improper sexual conduct by clergy, along with Georgia’s new protections for political expression by public school students.As always, the team explores what the laws actually say, why lawmakers may have passed them, and the practical questions that could arise once they are enforced.⏱️ Chapters00:00 Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards01:02 Why many Georgia laws take effect July 102:33 New protections for service dogs06:45 Penalties for harming a service dog09:30 How the podcast is reaching potential clients10:08 Georgia’s expanded Safe Haven law11:32 Georgia’s new cash-rounding law14:49 Magistrate Court limits increase15:17 Signal jammers become a felony16:42 New criminal provisions involving clergy18:13 Georgia’s animal cruelty database21:13 Human trafficking and pimping penalties21:37 New gift card fraud offenses23:38 Political expression in Georgia public schools25:53 Political clothing, school dress codes, and free speech30:12 Final thoughts🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/QjjqbTgCDMM or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

One bad click can create a very expensive problem for a law firm.Steve, Alexa, and Jimmy welcome attorney and cybersecurity professional Lawton Brown of Exigent to discuss the growing cyber threats facing law firms of every size.Lawton explains why compromised law firm email accounts can spread malware to clients and opposing counsel, how artificial intelligence is making phishing attempts more convincing, and why attorneys may have an ethical duty to take reasonable steps to protect confidential client information.They also discuss cyber liability insurance, ransomware payments, cloud security, compromised charging cables, the risks of placing client information into free AI tools, and the potentially devastating cost of a data breach.Lawton shares the story of a small company that faced nearly $1 million in expenses following a ransomware attack and explains why cyber insurance may deny coverage when a business has failed to follow the security requirements contained in its policy.The conversation eventually turns to Shewmaker & Lewis’s ongoing devotion to WordPerfect, unrealistic computer hacking scenes in movies, WarGames, The Matrix, Star Wars, and the urgent need for a system that automatically deletes Steve’s browser history. ⏱️ Chapters00:00 Welcome and introductions00:41 Meet Lawton Brown03:13 Lawyer turned cybersecurity professional06:09 The old law firm server and the move to the cloud09:55 When hacked law firms send dangerous emails10:42 Cybersecurity negligence and legal ethics12:20 Practical email security protections15:42 The limitations of cyber liability insurance17:40 Ignoring known security vulnerabilities19:53 Why small firms are attractive targets21:31 Cloud servers versus local servers23:51 What a data breach can cost25:27 The realities of ransomware27:00 The battle over WordPerfect31:57 Hacking in movies versus real life33:33 Real-world hacking techniques36:16 Why most attacks begin with email37:35 Movies the hosts cannot stop watching40:32 A serious Star Wars technology debate41:33 Final advice for law firms📩 Connect with Lawton Brown:Lawton Brown is an attorney and cybersecurity professional with Xogent, helping law firms and businesses protect their systems, confidential information, and day-to-day operations.Website: www.xogent.comOffice: (678) 208-8866To learn more about Xogent’s cybersecurity and managed IT services, visit the website or contact Lawton directly.🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/gQl6xcSkRt8 or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

What can your spouse ask for during divorce discovery, and what happens if you refuse to answer?Discovery is the process attorneys use to gather documents, sworn answers, testimony, and other information that could affect a divorce, custody, alimony, child-support, or modification case. Although it can sound dry, discovery is often where a case’s most revealing evidence emerges.In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, the attorneys at Shewmaker & Lewis explain:• What discovery means in a divorce case• How soon discovery should begin• Georgia’s general discovery timeline• Requests for production of documents• Interrogatories and the 50-question limit• Requests for admission and what happens if you miss the deadline• How admissions can be used during cross-examination• When depositions are worth the expense• Whether depositions are sometimes used to intimidate• When a discovery request is overly broad, irrelevant, or privileged• How protective orders can limit improper discovery• What must happen before filing a motion to compelThe discussion includes real cases involving vehicle trackers, staged photographs, hundreds of requests for admission, expensive depositions, copy-and-pasted discovery demands, and disagreements over what qualifies as a proper discovery conference.⏱️ Chapters00:00 Introduction00:42 Is discovery really a “necessary evil”?01:15 What is discovery?01:51 When discovery begins and how long it lasts03:43 Tracking discovery deadlines04:36 Requests for admission explained06:18 Trackers, photographs, and strategic admissions08:18 Can someone send hundreds of admissions?11:01 Using admissions for impeachment11:39 Document requests and interrogatories14:59 What happens during a deposition?17:11 Can a deposition be used to intimidate someone?19:14 Can you object to discovery?20:21 Privilege, burden, relevance, and time limits22:19 When to seek a protective order24:34 Motions to compel and Rule 6.4 conferences28:44 Final thoughts and the next episode🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/C3JsQdPcXZU or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GAEdit This EpisodeEpisode is LivePublished:Jul. 09, 2026 @ 5AMEditAdd a TranscriptAdd Chapter MarkersCreate a Visual SoundbiteMid-Roll PlacementsShare Link to EpisodeEpisode Share URLCopyView in websiteDirect Link to AudioCopyDownload MP3Embed Audio Player

Welcome back to Lawyers Without Billboards!Many people think the divorce is over once the judge signs the final decree. In reality, that's often when some of the most important work begins.In this episode, Steve, Patty, Jimmy, and Alexa discuss the critical post-divorce steps that can make the difference between a smooth transition and years of unnecessary headaches. From transferring property and dividing retirement accounts to handling military pensions, refinancing vehicles, and selling the marital home, they explain why "done" doesn't always mean done.They also discuss what options may exist if you're unhappy with a final divorce order, including motions for new trial, motions to set aside, and appeals, along with the strict deadlines that can affect your rights.Whether you're going through a divorce or simply want to understand what happens after the courtroom, this episode offers practical insights from attorneys who deal with these issues every day.⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:47 Why the End of a Divorce Isn't Really the End 02:50 The "Post-Divorce Cleanup" Checklist 04:03 QDROs, Military Pensions & Property Transfers 05:00 Selling the Marital Home After Divorce 08:18 Questions Every Client Should Ask Their Attorney 09:27 Creating a Post-Divorce Action Plan 10:40 Common Mistakes That Create Future Problems 12:44 Managing Post-Judgment Tasks Efficiently 14:15 What If You Disagree With the Judge? 15:05 Motions for New Trial Explained 16:32 Motions for Reconsideration & Term of Court 18:25 Motions to Set Aside a Divorce Judgment 20:20 Appeals and Critical Deadlines 21:47 Final Takeaways for Attorneys and Clients 24:01 Closing Thoughts 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/wwbE9BYRgRI or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

What does it actually mean when a lawyer stands up and says, "Objection"?In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, the attorneys at Shewmaker & Lewis explain one of the most recognizable parts of any courtroom proceeding. They discuss why objections exist, how they protect the fairness of a trial, and what judges consider when deciding whether to sustain or overrule an objection.The conversation covers several of the most common objections, including relevance, hearsay, leading questions, and questions that assume facts not in evidence. Along the way, the hosts share memorable courtroom stories, practical trial tips, and insights into how experienced litigators use objections strategically without disrupting the flow of a case.Whether you're preparing for law school, actively practicing law, or simply fascinated by courtroom procedure, this episode provides a practical introduction to one of the most important tools in trial advocacy.In this episode: Why courtroom objections exist  What makes an objection valid  Sustained vs. overruled explained  Common evidentiary objections  Relevance  Hearsay  Leading questions  Assumes facts not in evidence  Trial strategy and objection techniques  Real courtroom stories from experienced litigators⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:26 What is an objection? 03:32 Why lawyers object in court 04:40 What makes a valid objection? 05:40 Sustained vs. overruled 08:56 A courtroom story about objecting 11:15 Common objections every lawyer knows 11:35 Relevance 15:35 Leading questions 17:35 Assumes facts not in evidence 18:20 Should lawyers cite the rule number? 22:25 When objections rely on case law 24:20 A practical trial strategy 25:20 Judge Greg Adams' famous "I sustain the objection" 28:35 Final thoughts 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/UyRn2v5SiuI or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

What exactly is hearsay, and why do courts spend so much time arguing about it?In this episode, the attorneys of Shewmaker & Lewis tackle one of the most confusing concepts in the legal world. They explain how hearsay is defined, why courts generally exclude it, and what makes certain out-of-court statements reliable enough to be admitted as evidence.The conversation covers practical courtroom examples, the importance of cross-examination, common hearsay exceptions, business records, admissions by a party opponent, and the strategic decisions lawyers face when deciding whether to object.Whether you're involved in a legal case, interested in trial strategy, or simply curious about how courts determine what evidence can be trusted, this episode provides a clear and entertaining introduction to the law of hearsay.⏱️ Chapters00:00 Introduction01:28 What Is Hearsay?04:22 Breaking Down the Legal Definition06:12 Why Courts Distrust Hearsay08:03 Jimmy, Porky the Pig, and a Hearsay Example12:23 When Hearsay Comes In Anyway15:07 Prior Statements and Witness Testimony18:22 Admissions by a Party Opponent22:22 Why Hearsay Exceptions Exist24:08 Present Sense Impression26:31 Excited Utterance28:47 Business Records Exception31:16 Real-World Courtroom Practice32:31 Wrapping Up and Hearsay Part 2🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/UyRn2v5SiuI or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

What exactly does a judicial officer do in Fulton County Family Court?In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve, Patty, and Jimmy sit down with Judge Scott Kaye, one of Fulton County's most experienced judicial officers, to pull back the curtain on how family court really works.Judge Kaye explains the purpose of 30-day, 60-day, and 120-day status conferences, how temporary hearings and contempt actions are handled, and why Fulton County's specialized Family Division often moves cases much faster than other courts.The conversation also explores what qualifies as a true family law emergency, how Zoom hearings changed the court system, and some of the most memorable courtroom moments Judge Kaye has witnessed along the way.Along the way, the group dives into legal movies, divorce stories, bad movies, courtroom decorum, and why showing up to court from your bathtub is never a good idea.In this episode: ✅ What a judicial officer does ✅ How Fulton County Family Court operates ✅ 30-day, 60-day, and 120-day status conferences ✅ Temporary hearings and contempt actions ✅ Emergency motions in family law cases ✅ Zoom court etiquette and courtroom decorum ✅ Common mistakes litigants make ✅ Why Fulton County cases often move faster ⏱️ Chapters00:00 Introduction00:42 Meet Judge Scott Kaye02:57 From Emory to Family Law05:35 What Is a Judicial Officer?07:08 Why Fulton County Has a Family Division09:53 Understanding Status Conferences11:24 What Cases Judicial Officers Hear13:15 What Litigants Need to Know About Court14:00 Zoom Court Horror Stories15:13 Courtroom Decorum for Attorneys18:55 How Fulton County Created Zoom Court19:48 Why Fulton Handles So Many Family Law Cases20:18 Judge Kaye's Life Outside the Courtroom21:15 Favorite Legal and Divorce Movies24:00 Is Kill Bill the Ultimate Baby Mama Drama?25:51 The Best Judicial Officers in Fulton County27:30 Memorable Family Law Cases31:00 Children of the Underground & Family Court Emergencies33:00 What Really Qualifies as an Emergency?35:10 The Famous Fulton County 1000-4 Rule39:50 Fulton vs. Gwinnett Family Court41:40 What Attorneys Should Know About Judge Kaye44:05 Final Thoughts🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/RGv9SBr_N1g or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

For many divorcing couples, the marital home is their largest asset and often one of the most emotionally charged parts of the divorce process. In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve Shewmaker, Alexa Lewis, and Jimmy Lewis sit down with certified divorce real estate expert Jill Heineck to discuss how specialized real estate guidance can help families protect equity, reduce conflict, and navigate the sale of a home during divorce.Jill explains what makes divorce real estate different from a traditional home sale, why involving a divorce real estate expert early can save time and money, and how proper planning can prevent costly disputes down the road. The conversation covers everything from drafting settlement language and managing difficult parties to handling occupied homes and maximizing the value of the marital residence.Whether you're going through a divorce, considering one, or simply want to understand how real estate issues are handled in family law cases, this episode offers practical insights you won't want to miss.In This Episode: ✔ What a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert (CDRE) does ✔ Why timing matters when selling a marital home ✔ Protecting equity during divorce proceedings ✔ Common mistakes attorneys and clients make ✔ Handling difficult co-owners and contested sales ✔ Expert testimony and property valuations in divorce cases ✔ How specialized real estate guidance can reduce conflict and delaysAbout Our GuestJill Heineck is a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert (CDRE) serving the Atlanta area. She specializes in helping divorcing couples navigate the sale of marital property while protecting equity and minimizing conflict throughout the process.🌐 Learn more: HeineckAndCompany.com⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:42 Meet Jill Heineck 01:45 What Is a Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert? 03:13 How Divorce Real Estate Differs from Traditional Home Sales 05:49 Protecting Equity in the Marital Residence 06:47 Why Earlier Involvement Leads to Better Outcomes 08:22 Managing Difficult Parties and Communication Challenges 10:09 Occupied Homes, Showings, and Court Orders 12:12 Why Divorce Real Estate Requires Specialized Expertise 13:13 Reviewing Settlement Language Before It's Finalized 15:23 Attorney Communication Protocols and Client Compliance 17:25 Geographic Coverage and Working Across Georgia 20:58 Property Valuations and Testifying as an Expert 23:47 Family Law Institute and Final Thoughts 25:13 How to Contact Jill Heineck 25:57 Closing Remarks 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/TMfSy2SP6hs or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

What happens when a parent takes a child and disappears?In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, the attorneys at Shewmaker & Lewis tackle one of the most frightening concerns parents face during custody disputes: child abduction by a parent or family member.The discussion explores real-world cases of domestic and international child abduction, the controversial story of Faye Yager and Children of the Underground, and the legal tools available to help prevent a parent from fleeing with a child. From custody orders and passport alerts to travel restrictions and court-imposed safeguards, the hosts explain what parents can do when they fear a child may be taken.You'll also learn how Amber Alerts actually work, why most family abduction cases don't qualify, and what courts can realistically do when concerns about child abduction arise.Whether you're navigating a custody dispute or simply want to understand your rights, this episode offers practical insights into one of family law's most serious issues.⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:55 What Is Family Child Abduction? 02:15 The Story of Faye Yager & Children of the Underground 07:10 Family Abductions vs. Stranger Abductions 10:15 Real Cases of Parents Taking Children Across State Lines 12:10 International Child Abduction Concerns 13:25 How Courts Can Help Prevent Child Abduction 14:15 Passport Alert Programs & Do-Not-Depart Orders 16:10 Habitual Residence and Hague Convention Considerations 17:30 Why a Custody Order Is Your Best Protection 18:20 Are Amber Alerts Effective? 22:40 Using Bonds to Deter Child Abduction 25:35 Can Child Abduction Ever Be Justified? 27:50 Final Thoughts 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/9y0vPomVCn8 or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Retirement accounts can become one of the most confusing and expensive parts of a divorce… especially when QDROs are involved.In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, the team at Shewmaker & Lewis dives deep into the world of QDROs (Qualified Domestic Relations Orders), retirement account divisions, pensions, gains and losses, plan administrator headaches, and the costly mistakes attorneys and divorcing parties make all the time.Jimmy, Patty, and Alexa break down practical QDRO “practice points” that can save people thousands of dollars and months of frustration, while Steve provides comic relief and repeatedly declares this “the most boring podcast ever.” 😄From pre-approval mistakes to undividable retirement plans, delayed QDRO disasters, and confusion over gains and losses, this episode is packed with real-world insights for anyone navigating divorce and retirement division issues.🎧 Whether you're divorcing, practicing family law, or just enjoy hearing Steve slowly unravel during technical legal discussions, this episode delivers.⏱️ Chapters 00:00 – Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards 01:06 – What are QDRO practice points? 02:44 – Why pre-approval matters 05:41 – Understanding model language 09:21 – Retirement plans that cannot be divided 10:50 – Gains and losses explained 15:17 – Problems with old valuation dates 17:17 – Why lawyers aren’t financial planners 20:35 – Doing your homework during discovery 23:22 – “Troublemaking provisions” to avoid 24:15 – Why parties should always review QDROs 26:30 – Steve declares this the “worst podcast ever” 27:29 – Closing thoughts 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here:https://youtu.be/NcprnTFIObQ or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

What makes a great opening statement? Is it storytelling? Strategy? Psychology? Or knowing exactly when to bend the rules without breaking them?In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, the team at Shewmaker & Lewis dives deep into one of the most important — and misunderstood — parts of any trial: the opening statement.Steve, Patty, Jimmy, and Alexa break down: Why opening statements may matter more than closing arguments  How jurors and judges form impressions early  The importance of themes, roadmaps, and courtroom storytelling  Why lawyers should address bad facts head-on  The difference between arguing and “advocating”  How broken promises in opening statements can destroy credibility  Real courtroom war stories, including jury objections, snap decisions, and Steve’s unforgettable “first-person opening statement” technique Whether you're fascinated by courtroom strategy, jury psychology, or just love hearing experienced trial lawyers swap stories, this episode pulls back the curtain on how cases are framed before the first witness ever testifies.🎙️ No gimmicks. No billboards. Just real lawyers talking about what really happens in court.⏱️ Chapters 00:00 – Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards 00:55 – What is the purpose of an opening statement? 03:30 – Why themes matter in trial strategy 05:20 – Opening statements vs. closing arguments 07:30 – Why jurors make up their minds early 11:05 – Can lawyers “open the door” in opening statements? 12:20 – How to craft a compelling opening 15:55 – How much argument is too much? 16:50 – How long should an opening statement be? 18:20 – Addressing bad facts before the other side does 20:55 – Promises lawyers should never make 22:20 – DUI example: facts vs. argument 25:20 – Why lawyers take notes during openings 26:20 – Turning an opening statement into evidence 27:40 – Art vs. science in courtroom storytelling 28:20 – Favorite courtroom opening statement stories 31:15 – Steve’s unforgettable “first-person opening” 36:20 – Final thoughts on courtroom advocacy 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/0h3fiWjIp0U or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

What actually happens during closing arguments in court? And are they really the most important part of a trial?In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, the attorneys at Shewmaker & Lewis break down the strategy behind effective closing arguments, including how attorneys persuade juries, simplify complicated evidence, and tailor arguments differently for judges versus jurors.The team shares real courtroom experiences involving difficult judges, dramatic jury trials, objections during closing arguments, visual presentations, and memorable courtroom moments that shaped how they practice law today.Topics include: The purpose of closing arguments  Why openings may matter more than closings  Bench trial vs. jury trial strategy  Using exhibits and demonstrative evidence effectively  Objections during closing arguments  Storytelling techniques in litigation  When attorneys decide not to give a closing at all Whether you’re interested in family law, courtroom strategy, or behind-the-scenes legal stories, this episode offers an entertaining and informative look at trial advocacy from experienced litigators.⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Intro 00:36 What Is a Closing Argument? 01:51 Are Closing Arguments Important? 03:09 When Judges Don’t Want to Hear Closings 05:07 Do Jurors Decide Before Closing Arguments? 06:07 Explaining Your Case to the Judge 07:04 Effective Closing Argument Techniques 08:33 Should You Script a Closing Argument? 09:35 Learning the Hard Way in Court 10:32 Using PowerPoint and Visual Aids 11:27 When Less Is More in Closing Arguments 13:13 Favorite Courtroom Closing Stories 15:04 Bench Trials vs. Jury Trials 16:24 Visual Demonstratives and Jury Persuasion 17:26 The “Black Hole” Theory of Circumstantial Evidence 19:01 High-Conflict Divorce Trial Stories 20:55 Ethics and Objections During Closing Arguments 23:36 Final Thoughts on Effective Closings 24:20 Outro 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/V9M0Cl-uh1o or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

In this episode, the attorneys at Shewmaker & Lewis discuss two recent Georgia Court of Appeals decisions that could significantly impact how lawyers handle appeals and post-trial representation.The conversation focuses on situations where parties attempted to file appeals on their own while their attorneys were still technically counsel of record, and why those filings were treated as legal nullities.Steve, Patty, Jimmy, and Alexa break down: The dangers surrounding the 30-day appeal window  Why attorney withdrawal orders matter  The distinction between civil and criminal appeal procedures  How these rulings may affect family law and civil litigation practice  Practical steps lawyers may need to take to protect clients and themselves This episode offers a rare behind-the-scenes look at how procedural appellate rules can dramatically affect real cases.⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:18 “When Does Representation End?” 02:45 The Muhammad v. Clayton County Case 06:50 What Is Summary Judgment? 08:30 The Pro Se Appeal Problem 11:55 Why the Appeal Was Dismissed 13:00 Why Internal Emails Weren’t Enough 16:30 Criminal vs. Civil Appeals 18:35 Why These Cases Scare Lawyers 21:00 How Law Firms May Need to Change Contracts 24:00 Filing Motions for New Trial 26:15 Real-World Examples From Practice 28:15 Will Lawyers Actually Adapt? 29:35 Final Thoughts 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/iu_cxY1J9CM or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Retirement accounts are often one of the largest assets in a divorce — and one of the easiest to mishandle.In this episode, we break down QDROs (Qualified Domestic Relations Orders), how they work, and why failing to handle them correctly can lead to tax consequences, penalties, and costly disputes years later.We cover: How retirement accounts are divided in divorce  When a QDRO is required—and when it isn’t  Why pensions and government plans can be tricky  Common drafting mistakes that create problems down the road  What to do if a QDRO wasn’t done at the time of divorce If you’re going through a divorce, or advising someone who is, this episode will help you avoid one of the most expensive mistakes people make.⏱️ Chapters00:00 – Intro01:10 – What is a QDRO (and why it matters)03:30 – Avoiding taxes and penalties in divorce04:40 – When a QDRO is required… and when it’s not05:50 – IRAs vs 401(k)s vs pensions08:00 – What happens when one party doesn’t cooperate10:00 – Why waiting years can cause major problems11:50 – Retirement accounts that can’t be divided (TRS pitfalls)13:20 – Common mistakes in settlement agreements15:30 – Why pensions are more complicated than you think18:00 – The challenge of drafting QDROs after the fact20:00 – Key takeaways: how to protect yourself🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/_rw_DWMQeVg or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Crossing borders can change everything—especially in family law.In this episode, we dive into the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction, a treaty that governs what happens when a child is taken from one country to another by a parent.We break down how these cases actually work, including: What “habitual residence” means and why it matters  The legal process for returning a child to another country  The key defenses that can stop a return—even when removal was wrongful  Why these cases are not custody battles, despite how they feel You’ll also hear real-world examples, strategic considerations for attorneys, and why timing can make or break a case.If you think custody law is complicated, wait until it crosses borders.⏱️ Chapters 00:00 – Intro: International Law Meets Family Law 01:10 – What Is the Hague Convention? 02:30 – Real-World Example of International Child Abduction 04:00 – “Habitual Residence” Explained 05:10 – Where Attorneys Get Involved 06:15 – How Common Are These Cases? 07:30 – Why Some Children Are Never Returned 09:00 – Building a Case: Legal Standards 12:00 – The Burden Shifts: Defenses Begin 12:30 – The One-Year “Well-Settled” Rule 15:15 – Mature Child Objection 17:30 – Human Rights & Rare Defenses 19:30 – Grave Risk of Harm Standard 23:00 – Why “Best Interest of the Child” Doesn’t Apply 24:30 – Federal vs. State Court Strategy 27:00 – When the Law and the “Right Outcome” Clash 31:00 – Timing Matters: Why These Cases Move Fast 32:00 – Preventing International Child Abduction 34:00 – Game Time (Because… of course) 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/Zdcx5lIcvGI or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Title IX cases aren’t criminal court — but they can carry consequences that are just as serious.In this episode, the attorneys at Shewmaker & Lewis break down how Title IX works in real life, from the moment a complaint is filed to the final outcome. They explain how universities conduct their own investigations, why the rules are different, and how students can face suspension or expulsion even when criminal charges aren’t pursued.You’ll hear insights on: The structure and purpose of Title IX  How misconduct allegations are handled on campus  The investigation and hearing process  The difference between criminal and Title IX standards of proof  Strategic considerations when both cases are happening at once  Appeals and potential outcomes If you or someone you know is facing a Title IX issue, understanding the process early can make all the difference.⏱️ Chapters 00:00 – Intro: A “Cavalcade of Nines” 00:45 – What Is Title IX (and Where It Actually Lives in the Law) 03:30 – How Title IX Applies to Colleges and Universities 05:00 – When Allegations Trigger a Title IX Investigation 06:30 – University Investigations vs. Criminal Cases 08:00 – Who Handles These Cases (and Why That Matters) 09:30 – The Investigation Process and Its Limitations 11:00 – How Hearings Used to Work vs. Today 12:00 – The Right to Cross-Examine (and Why It Changed) 13:30 – Balancing Title IX and Criminal Defense Strategy 15:00 – Why Title IX Can Help (or Hurt) a Criminal Case 15:30 – The Lower Burden of Proof Explained 16:30 – Real Case Example: When Outcomes Don’t Make Sense 17:00 – Appeals and Fighting Back 18:00 – Possible Punishments: From Suspension to Expulsion 19:00 – What Expulsion Means for a Student’s Future 20:00 – Can Students Continue Classes During Investigations? 20:30 – Does Title IX Apply to High Schools? 22:00 – Real-World Case Outcomes and Lessons Learned 23:30 – How to Avoid a Title IX Situation 25:30 – Should You Hire an Attorney? 26:00 – Final Thoughts and Takeaways 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/w85iMCiQaJc or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

What actually matters in court?In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, we sit down with Judge Ann Harris, Chief Judge of the Cobb County Superior Court, for a candid conversation about how decisions are really made from the bench.Judge Harris shares her journey from a 19-year career in the District Attorney’s office to presiding over a courtroom that handles everything from criminal cases to complex domestic and civil matters. Along the way, she offers insight into what judges look for, what lawyers often miss, and how courtroom strategy can make or break a case.We cover: How judges evaluate arguments, evidence, and credibility  When and why judges reserve rulings  The realities behind attorney’s fees decisions  Common mistakes lawyers make in court  The importance of clarity, structure, and relevance  Mental health accountability courts and their real-world impact This episode pulls back the curtain on the courtroom and offers a rare perspective from someone who sees it all.⏱️ Chapters 00:00 – Intro & why judges make great guests 01:00 – Meet Judge Ann Harris 03:30 – From prosecutor to judge: taking the leap 09:30 – Learning domestic law from scratch 13:00 – The biggest challenges on the bench 16:00 – When judges rule immediately vs. later 18:30 – Do lawyers or clients bring more emotion? 21:00 – Attorney’s fees: what judges actually look for 25:00 – What makes evidence persuasive (and what doesn’t) 27:30 – “This is not moving the needle” 30:00 – Do lawyers really understand evidence rules? 34:30 – Favorite movies & personal side of judging 38:00 – Life beyond the bench 41:00 – Mental health accountability courts explained 48:00 – International judicial work (Republic of Georgia) 50:30 – Final thoughts 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/xiTL6TbrFTk or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

What do high schoolers really understand about the law, and where can everyday behavior turn into real legal consequences?In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve and Patty are joined by their daughter, Molly,  a high school student for a candid, eye-opening conversation about life inside today’s schools. From vaping and gambling to driving risks and school discipline, they break down the difference between what’s “normal” and what can actually lead to serious trouble.Along the way, they explore how school rules differ from criminal law, why certain behaviors are treated more seriously than others, and the surprising age when teens can be charged as adults.It’s an honest look at the gray areas most people don’t think about — until they matter.Whether you’re a student, a parent, or just someone who’s ever said, “I didn’t know that was illegal,” this episode offers practical insight into how the law really works in everyday situations.⏱️ Chapters 00:00 Intro 00:41 Meet Our First High School Guest 01:35 What Teens Actually Talk About (Legal Topics & Current Events) 03:10 School Rules vs. Real Crimes 04:20 Common High School Infractions (Vaping, Gambling, etc.) 06:10 What Schools Enforce vs. What Slides 06:44 Guns, School Zones, and Legal Boundaries 08:15 Alternative School: What It Really Means 10:54 Drugs in High School: The Reality 12:10 Risky Behavior & Real Consequences 13:30 Teen Driving & Decision-Making 14:03 When Do You Become an “Adult” in the Eyes of the Law? 16:00 Being Charged as an Adult (Even Under 18) 17:00 Final Advice for High Schoolers 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/YLyQGAK947M or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Cross-Examination: Where Cases Win or ImplodeCross-examination is often the most critical moment in any case—and the most dangerous.In this episode, the attorneys at Shewmaker & Lewis break down how they prepare clients for cross-examination, what can go wrong on the stand, and why credibility is everything in front of a judge.They discuss the importance of identifying weaknesses early, understanding the opposing side’s perspective, and having honest, sometimes uncomfortable conversations with clients before trial.The key takeaway: there are no perfect clients—but owning your mistakes and preparing properly can make the difference between winning and losing.⏱️ Chapters00:00 – Intro: What Is Cross-Examination? 01:14 – Why Cross-Examination Can Make or Break Your Case 02:36 – Finding Weak Spots in Your Own Case 03:38 – Practicing Cross-Examination with Clients 04:46 – How Attorneys “Box You In” on the Stand 06:23 – When Evidence Backfires 07:06 – How Clients Should Handle Tough Questions 08:01 – Rule #1: Tell the Truth (Even When It Hurts) 09:22 – Get Ahead of Weaknesses Before Cross 10:04 – Military Lessons on Seeing the Other Side 12:20 – If You Can’t Explain Your Case Simply, You’re Not Ready 14:53 – Owning Your Mistakes Builds Credibility 17:21 – Why Judges Care More About Honesty Than Perfection 20:24 – Mock Cross-Examinations & Real Preparation 22:39 – “I Don’t Know” vs. Losing Credibility 25:51 – Why Some Lawyers Don’t Prepare (And Why That’s Risky) 27:17 – Final Takeaways: Preparation + Perspective + Ownership🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/Rr8GEwRTFcg  or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Divorce is one of the most common legal experiences in real life… so why does Hollywood almost never portray it?In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, we take a closer look at Marriage Story and break down how accurately it reflects the realities of divorce. From courtroom strategy to emotional conflict, we compare the film’s portrayal with what actually happens in family law cases.We also explore why divorce is such a difficult topic for storytelling — and why so few films attempt to tackle it.Whether you're navigating a divorce, supporting someone who is, or just interested in how law and media intersect, this episode offers insight you won’t get from the movies.⏱️ Chapters00:00 – Intro01:12 – Why Are There So Few Divorce Movies?04:30 – Introducing Marriage Story 07:10 – First Impressions from a Legal Perspective 10:25 – What the Movie Gets Right 16:40 – Attorney Dynamics & Strategy 22:15 – Emotional Reality vs. Legal Reality 28:05 – What Hollywood Gets Wrong 34:20 – Custody & Financial Misconceptions 40:10 – Real Divorce vs. Movie Drama 45:30 – Final Thoughts🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here:https://youtu.be/vhcboXAoPCs or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

After a full year of Lawyers Without Billboards, the team takes a moment to look back at the topics, lessons, and surprising realities they’ve covered since launching the podcast.In this anniversary episode, attorneys Steve Shewmaker, Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy Lewis, and Alexa Lewis reflect on some of the biggest themes from their first year behind the microphones. From divorce myths to custody disputes and the realities of family law litigation, they discuss what people often misunderstand about the legal system and what actually happens inside the courtroom.It’s an honest conversation about the cases, misconceptions, and legal realities that come up again and again in family law.⏱️ Chapters00:00 – Introduction to Lawyers Without Billboards 00:41 – Meet the hosts 01:55 – Celebrating one year of the podcast 02:30 – Why the team started the show 05:10 – Looking back at the first episodes 08:20 – Divorce myths people still believe 11:45 – Custody battles and what really matters in court 15:20 – What surprises clients the most about family law 18:40 – The reality of courtroom litigation 22:10 – Lessons learned after a year of podcasting 25:05 – Favorite topics and memorable moments 27:40 – Final thoughts and looking ahead to year two🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/vhcboXAoPCs  or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

In Part 2 of our ROTC disenrollment series, we examine the hearing process itself — and why it shocks so many families.Yes, you can hire an attorney. No, your attorney cannot speak during the hearing.Instead, the cadet must conduct their own examination of witnesses, cross-examine accusers, introduce evidence, and make arguments — often in cases involving serious allegations.We break down: • The structure of ROTC disenrollment hearings • Why post-hearing review can take over a year • What happens if command overrides the board • The financial consequences if disenrollment stands • Why preparation can cost more than trial representationIf you’re facing ROTC disenrollment, this episode explains the reality of the process — and why strategic preparation is critical.⏱️ Chapters00:00 – Part 2 Begins: Why This System Is So Frustrating 01:04 – Should You Hire an Attorney Who Can’t Speak? 02:43 – Why “Winning” Doesn’t End the Process 03:05 – The Army’s Multi-Level Review Process 04:48 – A Year in Limbo After Victory 05:59 – Sexual Assault Allegations in ROTC Hearings 08:40 – The Proof Chart Strategy 09:02 – Training a Cadet to Act as Their Own Lawyer 11:38 – The Real Cost of Preparation 13:46 – False Allegations & Military Culture 17:24 – Is There Any Appeal After ROTC Command? 18:11 – Repayment: $25,000 to $200,000+ 19:21 – Enlistment vs. Repayment 20:09 – Final Takeaways🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/4p0HMzJgMuQ or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

What happens when an ROTC cadet is accused of misconduct, academic failure, or a serious violation of military standards?In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, the team breaks down the high-stakes world of ROTC disenrollment hearings — where a scholarship can suddenly transform into a six-figure debt or even mandatory enlisted service.ROTC contracts are not symbolic. They are binding agreements with the United States government. And when issues arise — whether involving grades, conduct, DUIs, drugs, or allegations of sexual misconduct — cadets can find themselves facing a formal disenrollment process that feels more like a military tribunal than a campus disciplinary hearing.In Part 1, the panel explains:What ROTC disenrollment actually meansHow the process beginsThe types of allegations that trigger hearingsWhat rights cadets haveHow scholarship repayment is calculatedWhy early legal strategy mattersIf you or your student is contracted in ROTC, this is information you need before a problem arises.Part 2 will dive deeper into hearings, outcomes, and appeals.⏱️ Chapters00:00 – Intro00:41 – Welcome & Today’s Topic: ROTC Disenrollments02:00 – What Does ROTC Stand For?02:14 – The Three Paths to Becoming an Officer04:30 – How ROTC Works on College Campuses06:18 – ROTC vs Academies: Who Produces Better Officers?09:25 – ROTC Contracts & Giving Up Civil Liberties10:19 – What Is a Contracted Cadet?11:53 – What Gets You Kicked Out of ROTC?14:12 – “Back in the 80s”: ROTC Then vs Now16:24 – Contracted vs Non-Contracted Cadets18:31 – Notice of Disenrollment: What Happens First?20:33 – When Title IX & Criminal Charges Complicate Things22:47 – Requesting a Hearing (Or Waiving It)23:21 – Air Force vs Other Branches: Key Differences24:12 – What the Hearing Looks Like27:38 – Winning the Board Isn’t the End29:57 – Repayment vs Enlisted Service30:28 – Part 2 Preview🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/p2Tfy5Ntv_U or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Military retirement benefits can be one of the most valuable — and most misunderstood — assets in a divorce.In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve, Patty, Jimmy, and Alexa break down the fundamentals of military pensions, including the often-confused 10-10 Rule, how DFAS works, and what “High-36” really means.They explain how military retirement differs from private-sector pensions, why the 20-year “cliff vesting” rule matters, and what can go wrong when attorneys draft unclear or incorrect pension language in settlement agreements.Whether you're a service member, spouse, or attorney handling a military divorce, this episode provides practical insight into:• How military pensions are calculated • The difference between the old retirement system and the blended retirement system • What the 10-10 Rule actually does (and doesn’t do) • When DFAS will pay a former spouse directly • Common drafting mistakes that create major problems later • Why “pay me now or pay me later” applies to military pension divisionMilitary pension division is nuanced, technical, and full of traps for the unwary. Getting it right matters.⏱ Chapter Markers00:00 – Introduction 01:00 – What Is a Military Pension? 02:30 – Cliff Vesting: The 20-Year Rule 04:30 – Active Duty vs. Reserve Retirement 07:00 – How Military Pensions Are Calculated (High-36 Explained) 10:00 – The Blended Retirement System vs. the Old System 13:30 – The 10-10 Rule: What It Actually Means 17:30 – When DFAS Pays the Former Spouse Directly 20:00 – Common Drafting Mistakes in Military Divorce 24:00 – Offsetting the Pension Instead of Dividing It 27:00 – Why Military Pension Language Must Be Precise 28:30 – Closing Thoughts🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/qMYIukopyrc or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Should lawyers prepare their clients for testimony? Absolutely.But preparation does not mean telling someone what to say.In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve, Patty, Jimmy, and Alexa break down what real trial preparation looks like — and why it starts long before you ever step into a courtroom.From correcting language habits in the very first consultation to organizing emails months before trial, the team shares practical strategies that separate prepared attorneys from those who simply “wing it.”They also discuss:Why clients revert to their “lowest level of training” under stressThe dangers of waiting until the courthouse steps to preparePreparing witnesses remotely vs. in personHow to structure testimony in clear, logical chaptersWhy you should always practice cross-examination with your own clientAnd what happens when lawyers call witnesses they’ve never spoken toIf you’re a client heading toward court — or a younger attorney learning the ropes — this episode offers real insight into how strong trial preparation wins cases.Because surprises in court are expensive.⏱️ Chapter Markers 00:00 – Introduction 01:41 – Should Lawyers Prepare Witnesses? 03:00 – When Trial Preparation Really Begins 04:08 – Breaking Bad Language Habits Early 06:00 – Reverting to Your Lowest Level of Training 09:05 – Organizing Emails & Building Trial Strategy Early 12:46 – In-Person vs Remote Witness Preparation 17:00 – Zoom Hearings & Technology Pitfalls 21:47 – Why You Must Prepare Every Witness 24:25 – How to Structure Direct Examination (Chapters & Topics) 29:02 – Repetition, Drilling & Reducing Surprises 31:59 – Preparing Clients for Cross-Examination 🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/RZbNPK0NvSA or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]| (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

What happens when a marriage becomes a zero-sum game - and what does it really cost to “win”?In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve and Patty Shewmaker and Jimmy and Alexa Lewis put the 2025 remake The Roses on trial, comparing it to the original War of the Roses and examining what both films reveal about marriage, power, identity, and conflict.Unlike the original, which focused heavily on divorce and courtroom warfare, The Roses reframes the story as a study of marriage itself - career imbalance, resentment, sacrifice, and the quiet ways couples lose each other long before lawyers get involved.The panel explores how modern dynamics—dual careers, public humiliation, social media, and shifting power - reshape the story, and why the most revealing moments don’t happen in court at all.Topics include:How The Roses differs from War of the Roses in focus and messageWhy this remake is about marriage more than divorcePower shifts when one spouse’s career collapses as the other’s explodesThe role of resentment, sacrifice, and unspoken expectationsWhat Amy and Barry reveal about “surviving” marriageWhy the house becomes the ultimate battlegroundHow social media accelerates marital destructionThe lone legal scene—and what it gets right and wrongWhy “winning” often leaves everyone worse offWhether you’re married, divorced, or advising clients in conflict, this episode offers a surprisingly sharp lens on how relationships unravel—and why the most dangerous fights are rarely about the law.⏱️ Chapter Markers00:00 – Podcast introduction and show overview 00:00:40 – Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards 00:01:15 – Introducing The Roses and its connection to War of the Roses 00:03:02 – Why remakes often fail—and why this one works 00:05:10 – Divorce movie vs. marriage movie: the key distinction 00:06:57 – Career collapse, career explosion, and shifting power 00:09:14 – Resentment, sacrifice, and the “altar of marriage” 00:11:32 – Amy and Barry: the most honest take on marriage in the film 00:14:02 – When friends see the cracks before the couple does 00:15:48 – The house as leverage, identity, and weapon 00:18:06 – Social media, public humiliation, and modern conflict 00:20:11 – The dinner party scene and performative cruelty 00:22:34 – Destruction as communication: escalation without brakes 00:24:41 – The lone legal scene: mediation, lawyers, and realism 00:27:03 – Why “winning” becomes the real loss 00:28:52 – Final thoughts: marriage, mortality, and what the ending means🔔 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, relationships, and the legal system - without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Watch here: https://youtu.be/RZbNPK0NvSA  or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected] | (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez – Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

What really happens inside Temporary Protective Order (TPO) court, and how do judges separate real danger from strategic filings?In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve and Patty Shewmaker and Jimmy and Alexa Lewis sit down with Fulton County Magistrate Judge Alex Manning for an unfiltered conversation about life on the bench, domestic violence hearings, and the realities judges face every day in TPO court.Judge Manning pulls back the curtain on how credibility is evaluated, why volume does not equal truth, and how TPOs can be misused during divorce and custody disputes. She also shares unforgettable courtroom moments, lessons learned during COVID-era virtual hearings, and the emotional weight judges carry long after the courtroom clears.This episode blends humor, hard truth, and professional insight into one of the most misunderstood areas of family law.Topics include:• What really happens in TPO court • How judges assess credibility and firsthand knowledge • Common mistakes attorneys make in protective order hearings • Strategic misuse of TPOs in divorce cases • Why judges talk and patterns matter • COVID courtroom chaos and virtual hearing disasters • The emotional toll of domestic violence cases • Why in-person hearings matter for credibility • Lessons lawyers and litigants should take into every courtroomIf you practice family law, handle protective orders, or want an honest look at how decisions are made from the bench, this episode delivers rare perspective straight from the judge’s chair.⏱️ Chapter Markers00:00 – Podcast introduction and show overview 00:00:40 – Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards 00:01:15 – Introducing Judge Alex Manning 00:02:45 – What magistrate judges really do 00:04:30 – Inside TPO court and why it’s misunderstood 00:06:10 – Spotting weak and strategic TPO filings 00:08:05 – Credibility, firsthand knowledge, and facts vs. noise 00:10:12 – “I cannot unsee that”: courtroom rules and phone evidence 00:12:10 – COVID-era hearings and virtual courtroom chaos 00:14:40 – Why in-person hearings matter 00:16:20 – Judges talk: strategy, patterns, and consequences 00:18:15 – When TPOs intersect with divorce and custody cases 00:20:30 – The emotional toll of domestic violence cases 00:22:45 – Managing stress, perspective, and burnout on the bench 00:24:40 – Judge Manning’s background and path to the bench 00:27:30 – Final thoughts and closing remarks🔔 Subscribe for honest conversations about family law and the legal system without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis🎧 Listen or Watch Watch on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/qLVEoh0xuaw or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected] or call (770) 939-1939🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards📺 Subscribe for candid conversations about family law, custody, mediation, and courtroom reality.🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez at Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Military Divorce Pitfalls: The Survivor Benefit Plan ExplainedWhat happens to a military pension after divorce, and what happens if the service member dies?In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve and Patty Shewmaker and Jimmy and Alexa Lewis break down one of the most misunderstood and high-risk issues in military divorce: the Survivor Benefit Plan (SBP).SBP can determine whether a former spouse continues receiving income after a service member’s death, but it is governed by strict federal statutes, unforgiving deadlines, and complex election rules. Miss one step or one window, and the benefit can be lost permanently.The panel explains how SBP works, when it must be elected, who can receive it, and the common traps that catch both attorneys and families off guard.Topics include:• What the Survivor Benefit Plan is and what it is not • How SBP differs from private pensions • Election windows for active duty and reserve service members • Why SBP can disappear after divorce if deadlines are missed • The one-year “deemed election” rule and why it matters • What happens when a former spouse remarries before age 55 • Why SBP is often the biggest malpractice risk in military divorce casesIf you or your client is dealing with a military divorce, this episode explains why SBP cannot be treated as an afterthought.⏱️ Chapter Markers00:00 – Podcast introduction and show overview 00:00:40 – Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards 00:01:20 – Introducing the Survivor Benefit Plan (SBP) 00:03:28 – Why SBP matters in military divorce 00:04:22 – How military pensions differ from private pensions 00:05:44 – What happens to pension benefits after death 00:06:47 – When and how SBP must be elected 00:07:52 – Active duty vs. reserve SBP election windows 00:09:27 – Why SBP is a “unitary benefit” 00:11:04 – Who can and cannot receive SBP 00:13:48 – SBP costs and premium structure 00:15:41 – Common pitfalls and malpractice risks 00:16:34 – The one-year deemed election deadline 00:18:04 – King v. King and real-world consequences 00:19:53 – When SBP is lost forever 00:21:57 – Remarriage before age 55 and SBP termination 00:24:29 – Final thoughts and closing remarks🔔 Subscribe for honest conversations about family law and the legal system without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis 🎧 Listen or Watch Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/joBxzR8F6pQ or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected] or call (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards📺 Subscribe for new episodes and candid conversations about family law, custody, mediation, and conflict resolution.🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez at Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

What does a County Solicitor actually do, and why does it matter if you’re charged with a misdemeanor?In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve Shewmaker and Alexa  & Jimmy Lewis talk with Gwinnett County Solicitor Lisa Marie Bristol about her role, her office, and how misdemeanor cases are handled in Georgia courts.From traffic offenses to more serious misdemeanor charges, the Solicitor’s Office is often the first and most important stop in the criminal justice system. Lisa Marie Bristol explains how charging decisions are made, what discretion prosecutors have, and what defendants often misunderstand about misdemeanor cases.Topics include:The difference between a Solicitor and a District AttorneyWhat types of cases the Solicitor’s Office handlesHow prosecutors evaluate cases and negotiate resolutionsThe realities of high caseloads and courtroom decision-makingWhat people should know before walking into misdemeanor courtIf you want a clearer understanding of how misdemeanor prosecution works in Gwinnett County and beyond, this episode delivers real insight straight from the source.⏱️ Chapter Markers:00:00 – Podcast introduction and show overview00:00:40 – Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards00:01:12 – Introducing a new podcast series: elected officials00:01:46 – Introducing Gwinnett County Solicitor General Lisa Marie Bristol00:02:10 – Gwinnett County background and scope of the Solicitor’s role00:03:14 – How Lisa Marie Bristol prefers to be addressed00:03:21 – Career lineage and Gwinnett Solicitor’s Office history00:04:18 – When Lisa Marie Bristol took office as Solicitor General00:04:33 – Her early career and full-circle moment in prosecution00:07:10 – What the Gwinnett County Solicitor’s Office prosecutes00:11:05 – Difference between the Solicitor and the District Attorney00:15:40 – Prosecutorial discretion and charging decisions00:20:10 – Common misconceptions about misdemeanor cases00:24:55 – What defendants should understand before court00:29:20 – Balancing fairness, accountability, and public safety00:33:45 – Advice for attorneys and defendants navigating misdemeanor court00:37:10 – Final thoughts and closing remarks🔔 Subscribe for honest conversations about law, courts, and the legal system without the billboards.🎙️ Hosts:Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa LewisShewmaker & Lewis – Atlanta, GA🎧 Listen or WatchWatch on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/HEDdKvLpXlw or listen on your favorite podcast platform – Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected] or call (770) 939-1939 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards📺 Subscribe for new episodes and candid conversations about family law, custody, mediation, and conflict resolution.🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez at Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

The holidays are supposed to be joyful - but in family law, they’re often a flashpoint for conflict.In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve, Patty, Jimmy, and Alexa break down why holiday parenting time creates so many disputes, how courts actually divide holiday schedules, and the drafting mistakes that turn manageable situations into annual blowups.From Christmas and New Year’s to birthdays and school breaks, the team explains what judges expect, why overly complicated schedules fail, and how clear parenting plans can prevent years of unnecessary conflict.If you’ve ever wondered why “we’ll just figure it out” almost never works - this episode explains exactly why.⏱️ Chapter Markers00:00 – Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards 01:45 – Why Christmas (and holidays) cause the biggest parenting fights 04:30 – How courts usually divide holiday parenting time 07:10 – Why vague or “flexible” holiday plans backfire 09:45 – The problem with splitting Christmas Eve and Christmas Day 12:30 – Why travel and future plans matter more than you think 15:10 – Real-world examples of holiday parenting disputes 18:30 – Defining “release of school” and other drafting pitfalls 21:40 – When parents agree… until they don’t 24:15 – Birthdays, parent birthdays, and why kids don’t care 27:10 – Final thoughts on preventing holiday conflict 28:00 – Closing and New Year's wishes🎙️ Hosts:Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa LewisShewmaker & Lewis – Atlanta, GA🔔 Subscribe for real talk about law, courts, and culture.🎧 Listen or WatchWatch on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/WL6KDAJ8JaU or listen on your favorite podcast platform – Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards📺 Subscribe for new episodes and candid conversations about family law, custody, mediation, and conflict resolution.🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez at Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve, Patty, Jimmy, and Alexa kick off a new series on national cases of note with a deceptively simple question:Can you sue the person your spouse cheated with?The answer depends entirely on where you live.The team breaks down the rarely used - but very real - tort of alienation of affection, a law that still exists in only a handful of states and has produced some eye-popping jury verdicts.They unpack:What alienation of affection actually is and where it still appliesThe recent North Carolina case involving a social media influencer and a $1.75 million verdictWhy Georgia (and most states) abolished this claim decades agoWhether it makes sense to blame the third party instead of the cheating spouseHow damages are calculated - including the role of social media and monetizationWhy judges generally hate this cause of actionAlong the way, the episode delivers the usual Lawyers Without Billboards mix of legal insight, history, sarcasm, and brutal honesty.If you’re curious how an affair can turn into a full-blown lawsuit - or why most states decided this law should die - this episode explains it all.👇 CHAPTERS 👇 00:00 – Intro: Lawyers Without Billboards 00:45 – New series: National cases of note 01:25 – Pop quiz: “If you’re defending, you’re spending” 03:00 – Can you sue the person your spouse cheated with? 04:00 – What is alienation of affection? 05:00 – Which states still allow these lawsuits 06:15 – Is alienation of affection old law or new trend? 07:10 – The North Carolina influencer case explained 10:45 – What must be proven to win an alienation claim 12:30 – The $1.75 million verdict and damage breakdown 14:45 – Should the third party really be blamed? 16:30 – Why most states abolished alienation of affection 18:15 – Massive verdicts and jury behavior 19:45 – Final takeaways and lessons learned ?🎙️ Hosts:Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa LewisShewmaker & Lewis – Atlanta, GA🔔 Subscribe for real talk about law, courts, and culture.🎧 Listen or WatchWatch on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/uEv-U-ZbT64 or listen on your favorite podcast platform – Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards📺 Subscribe for new episodes and candid conversations about family law, custody, mediation, and conflict resolution.🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez at Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Is Legally Blonde a feminist legal masterpiece… or courtroom fiction?In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, real attorneys Steve Shewmaker and Alexa Lewis review Legally Blonde, breaking down what the movie gets right, what it gets wrong, and why it still resonates more than 20 years later.From law school stereotypes to courtroom theatrics, this episode blends legal insight with humor and honesty.👇 CHAPTERS 👇 00:00 – Intro: Why Legally Blonde Still Matters 02:15 – Elle Woods: Law School Myth vs Reality 06:40 – Courtroom Drama vs Real Litigation 12:05 – Confidence, Competence, and Credibility 17:30 – What Hollywood Gets Right (Surprisingly) 22:10 – What Would Never Happen in Real Court 28:45 – Final Verdict: Is Legally Blonde Good Law?🎙️ Hosts: Steve & Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy & Alexa Lewis Shewmaker & Lewis – Atlanta, GA🔔 Subscribe for real talk about law, courts, and culture.🌐 https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Listen or WatchWatch on YouTube here: https://youtu.be/rj3djV1CbpI or listen on your favorite podcast platform – Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards📺 Subscribe for new episodes and candid conversations about family law, custody, mediation, and conflict resolution.🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez at Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

Phil McCurdy on Au Pairs, Divorce, and 37 Years of Family LawIn this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve, Patty, Jimmy, and Alexa sit down with longtime Georgia family law attorney Phil McCurdy, bringing more than 37 years of courtroom experience to one deceptively simple question:Is hiring a live-in au pair ever a good idea?From real divorce cases to power imbalances, courtroom consequences, and judgment calls that unravel marriages, Phil breaks down what actually happens when help at home becomes a legal nightmare.Along the way, the conversation takes its usual unscripted turns, blending sharp legal insight with humor, war stories, and a brand-new game.In this episode, we cover:Why au pairs are rarely the solution people think they areHow live-in help can accelerate divorce, custody fights, and financial disputesPower imbalance issues when employment, housing, and immigration overlapWhat courts actually care about when au pairs become part of the caseReal-world cases involving au pairs from the U.S. and abroadWhen poor judgment matters more than infidelityA new recurring segmentEpisode Chapters:00:00 - Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards 02:29 - Introducing Phil McCurdy and 37 years of family law 08:58 - The au pair question and why it keeps showing up in divorce cases 12:36 - Power dynamics, employment, and legal risk 17:14 - When judgment matters more than adultery 20:26 - So should you ever hire an au pair? 22:52 - **** Jimmy Doesn’t Know (new segment debut) 26:41 - Final takeaways and closing thoughts🎧 Subscribe for more real-world family law conversations with no gimmicks, no legal jargon, and no billboards.🎧 Listen or WatchWatch on YouTube here; https://youtu.be/AhyULGK9keE or listen on your favorite podcast platform – Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards📺 Subscribe for new episodes and candid conversations about family law, custody, mediation, and conflict resolution.🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez at Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve, Alexa and Jimmy sit down with Erica McCurdy, a nationally recognized Master Coach, mediator, and founder of McCurdy Solutions - known for helping families, executives, and high-conflict individuals navigate some of life’s most complicated challenges.Erica brings decades of experience working with blended families, co-parents, divorcing spouses, entrepreneurs, and professionals in crisis. Her work centers on building emotional intelligence, restoring communication, and helping people take responsibility for their part in a conflict - even when they believe the other side is the problem.This powerful conversation pulls back the curtain on:• What emotional intelligence really means in family conflict • Why highly educated people still make disastrous decisions in divorce • How Erica helps clients move from “reactive mode” to clarity • The difference between therapy, coaching, and mediation - and when each is appropriate • How families sabotage themselves by outsourcing emotional work to lawyers • Raising resilient teens in a world that doesn’t teach resilience • Co-parenting mistakes that escalate cases (and how to stop them) • Why some people “won’t hear you” until they develop internal accountability • The psychology behind high-conflict personalities • The myths parents believe about custody battles • How to prepare a child emotionally for divorce without weaponizing them • Why doing the inner work often changes the entire legal trajectoryErica offers practical tools, honest insights, and a refreshingly direct approach to helping families break destructive patterns - and create healthier outcomes inside and outside the courtroom.🕒 Chapters00:00 – Intro00:43 – Welcoming Erica McCurdy02:00 – What Is a Master Coach?04:00 – The Most Common Emotional Roadblocks in Family Conflict06:00 – High-Conflict Behaviors: Why They Happen08:00 – Therapy vs. Coaching vs. Mediation11:00 – When Clients Outsource Emotional Work to Lawyers13:00 – Raising Resilient Kids in a Fragile Culture15:00 – Coaching Teens Through Change17:00 – Co-Parenting Mistakes & Emotional Sabotage20:00 – Accountability: Why Some Clients Get “Stuck”23:00 – Helping Clients Create a New Narrative26:00 – What to Do When Only One Parent Will Do the Work 29:00 – How Erica Prepares Families for Mediation 32:00 – The Surprising Role of Self-Awareness in Custody Outcomes 35:00 – What Erica Wishes Every Parent Knew Before Divorce 38:00 – Closing Insights🎧 Listen or WatchWatch on YouTube or listen on your favorite podcast platform – Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected] 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards📺 Subscribe for new episodes and candid conversations about family law, custody, mediation, and conflict resolution.🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez at Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve, Patty, and Alexa sit down with Judge Tangela Barrie of the DeKalb County Superior Court - the youngest judge ever elected in DeKalb and a former Prosecuting Attorney of the Year.Judge Barrie pulls back the curtain on what really happens behind the bench:• How judges navigate high-conflict custody cases • Why courtroom decorum matters more than you think • The rise of sovereign citizens in family and criminal cases • Pro se chaos: the wildest things she’s seen litigants do • Attorney professionalism and the quickest ways to get on a judge’s bad side • How judges decide what makes your case different from every other case • Why “respect” is the currency of the courtroom • When she chooses to rule from the bench vs. taking a matter under advisementJudge Barrie also shares personal stories from her path through private practice, criminal prosecution, and ultimately to the Superior Court bench - and what she wishes every party and every lawyer understood before they walk into her courtroom.This is one of our most insightful judge interviews yet, offering rare, candid advice for attorneys, litigants, and anyone trying to understand how family court really works.🕒 Chapters00:00 – Intro 00:43 – Welcoming Judge Tangela Barrie 02:00 – From Prosecutor to Judge 05:00 – What Makes a Case “Different” 07:10 – Handling High-Conflict Custody Cases 12:00 – Guardian ad Litem or Not? 13:50 – Wildest Pro Se Moments 15:10 – The Rise of Sovereign Citizens 17:00 – Attorney Behavior: The Good, The Bad & The Unprofessional 22:50 – Respect, Decorum & Courtroom Culture 27:00 – How Judges Want Lawyers to Present Cases 32:00 – Writing Orders & Behind-the-Scenes Work 34:00 – Chief Judge Duties & E-Filing Evolution 35:00 – Judge Barrie’s Favorite Movies 37:00 – Final Insights: Mediation, Resolution & Perspective 40:00 – Closing Thoughts🎧 Listen or WatchWatch on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_GruHuWgyWA or listen on your favorite podcast platform - Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected]🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards📺 Subscribe for new episodes and candid conversations about family law, custody, and criminal defense.🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez at Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

What happens when a client hands Alexa a vintage 1978 issue of Playboy… complete with a “Divorce Manual for Men”? In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve, Patty, Jimmy, and Alexa flip through the old-school advice and break it all down - the tips that aged well, the ones that aged terribly, and the ones that are so outrageous they’re genuinely hilarious.The team reacts to guidance like: • “Close all joint accounts.” • “Hide your financial records.” • “Don’t agree to alimony… ever.” • “Fight off sentimentality — you’re not a leper.”You’ll hear:why some of these 1978 strategies would get you scorched in court todayhow modern family law handles the same issueswhat judges actually look for nowhow attorney advice has changed (and hasn’t) across 47 yearsA funny, fascinating look at how far divorce law has come - and how much is still the same.🕒 Chapters00:00 – Intro00:42 – The surprising origin of the Playboy magazine02:10 – Enter: “The Divorce Manual for Men”03:11 – The first piece of terrible advice04:18 – Why closing joint accounts is a disaster today05:35 – “Hide your financial records” – legally absurd06:55 – The few pieces of advice that actually hold up08:30 – The team breaks down what lawyers really tell clients 10:05 – Don’ts from 1978 that still apply today 12:20 – The rise of modern divorce norms vs. 1970s expectations 14:30 – How the law shifted in the 1980s and forward 16:10 – Final thoughts: what’s timeless and what’s not 17:11 – Outro🎧 Listen or WatchWatch on YouTube or listen on your favorite podcast platform - Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, and more.📩 Contact: [email protected] 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 📺 Subscribe for new episodes and candid conversations about family law, custody, and criminal defense.🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez at Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

How do you actually pick the right lawyer without getting misled by billboards, online noise, or empty promises?In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve, Patty, Jimmy, and Alexa walk through the smartest (and safest) ways to find an attorney who genuinely fits your case.From why “phone a friend” still works better than Google, to the danger signs of attorneys who guarantee outcomes, to what intake calls should sound like, this episode breaks down the real-world process of hiring a lawyer the right way.You’ll hear insider insights on referrals, reviews, pricing models, red flags, and the questions clients rarely ask - but absolutely should.🕒 Chapters:00:00 – Intro 00:42 – How Most People Start the Attorney Search 02:12 – Why “Phone a Friend” Still Works 04:02 – Google vs. Real Referrals 06:15 – Billboards & Advertising: Does It Matter? 08:05 – Using the State Bar to Find Lawyers 09:46 – What Happens When You First Call a Law Firm 11:34 – Red Flags: Promises, Guarantees & “I Never Lose” 14:58 – Flat Fees vs. Hourly Billing 17:15 – Professionalism: Talking Trash About Other Lawyers 19:50 – Fit Matters: Hiring the Attorney You Actually Connect With 22:30 – Online Reviews: What They Really Mean 25:00 – Great Questions Clients Should Be Asking 27:45 – The Strangest Intake Questions Attorneys Have Heard 30:40 – Final Thoughts: Hire Smart, Not Fast📌 Key Takeaways:Referrals from trusted people are still the most reliable way to find good counsel.Be wary of attorneys who guarantee results—they can’t.Flat fees in family law often create conflicts of interest; hourly billing is usually fairer.Reviews matter, but extremes (great or terrible) need context.Hiring a lawyer is personal—fit and communication style matter more than marketing.Smart clients ask about process, expectations, experience, and who will actually handle the case.Lawyers Without Billboards is hosted by Steve Shewmaker, Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy Lewis, and Alexa Lewis, partners at Shewmaker & Lewis — a family law firm based in Atlanta, Georgia.📺 Episode also available on YouTube: https://youtu.be/XcgYdFvusws📩 Contact: [email protected] 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards📺 Subscribe for new episodes and candid conversations about family law, custody, and criminal defense.🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez at Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

What does it really mean to be held in contempt of court?In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, Steve, Patty, Jimmy, and Alexa break down one of the most misunderstood parts of family law - contempt.From unpaid child support to denied visitation and even showing up late with the kids, the team explains when a judge might send someone to jail, when a simple fine will do, and how lawyers can defend (or prove) a contempt case.You’ll hear real-world examples, courtroom stories, and practical advice about the difference between civil vs. criminal contempt, hard vs. nebulous contempts, and the kinds of mistakes that drive judges crazy.🕒 Chapters:00:00 – Intro 00:46 – What is Contempt of Court? 02:06 – Civil vs. Criminal Contempt 03:21 – Real-Life Case: Jail for Unpaid Payments 04:55 – Hard, Nebulous & “Bull****” Contempts 07:10 – Attorney’s Fees & Defenses 09:04 – The “Unclean Hands” Argument 12:01 – Willful vs. Accidental Violations 13:18 – Keeping Records & Building Evidence 15:41 – Parenting Time and Denial of Visitation 18:10 – What Judges Really Think of Contempts 21:00 – Interest, Sanctions & Money Judgments 25:10 – Letters, Compliance, and Fixing It Before Court 27:00 – Why Contempt Cases Can Backfire 30:20 – Final Thoughts: Fix It, Don’t Fight It📌 Key Takeaways:Civil contempt seeks compliance — criminal contempt punishes.“Hard” contempts (like unpaid support) are easier to prove than nebulous ones.Judges hate petty contempt cases — bring clear evidence and good faith.The best defense: show effort, ability limits, or unclean hands.Keep a journal of violations to build a solid case later.Lawyers Without Billboards is hosted by Steve Shewmaker, Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy Lewis, and Alexa Lewis, partners at Shewmaker & Lewis — a family law firm based in Atlanta, Georgia.📩 Contact: [email protected]🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards📺 Subscribe for new episodes and candid conversations about family law, custody, and criminal defense.🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez at Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc.🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, the crew welcomes longtime friend and mentor - Attorney Kim Dymecki for a candid conversation about the blurred lines between family law and criminal law.From hacking emails to planting recording devices and tracking spouses with AirTags, the group dives into the messy intersection of privacy, technology, and relationships. Kim, who began her career in criminal defense before moving into domestic cases, shares stories that range from jaw-dropping to laugh-out-loud — including her first day visiting the Fulton County jail.They also unpack Georgia’s one-party consent recording law, discuss when recordings cross into illegality, and share real-world advice for clients tempted to “dig up dirt” the wrong way.🎙️ Highlights: 00:00 – Intro 02:00 – Kim Dymecki’s path from criminal defense to family law 05:00 – Her unforgettable first day at the Fulton County jail 09:00 – When family law meets criminal law: domestic disputes gone wrong 10:00 – Hacking, hidden cameras, and invasion of privacy in divorce 15:00 – Georgia’s one-party consent law explained 18:00 – Can you record FaceTime calls with your child? 20:00 – Tracking devices, AirTags, and where the line gets blurry 23:00 – Why judges rely on experts in abuse allegations 26:00 – Mentorship, growth, and staying grounded in a tough profession👩‍⚖️ About Kim Dymecki: Attorney Kim Dymecki has practiced law in Georgia for more than 35 years, spanning both criminal defense and domestic litigation. She’s known for her sharp insight, compassionate advocacy, and sense of humor that’s kept her grounded through some of the toughest cases imaginable.Lawyers Without Billboards is hosted by Steve Shewmaker, Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy Lewis, and Alexa Lewis, partners at Shewmaker & Lewis — a family law firm based in Atlanta, Georgia.📩 Contact: [email protected] 🌐 Website: https://www.shewmakerandlewis.com 🎧 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 📺 Subscribe for new episodes and candid conversations about family law, custody, and criminal defense.🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez at Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by: Bleeding Edge, Inc. 🎬 Audio & Video Production: Rob Burgner 📍 Recorded at: Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta, GA

What’s it really like to move from prosecutor to judge — and preside over Georgia’s toughest family law cases?In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, the Shewmaker & Lewis team sits down with Judge Alice Benton of the Fulton County Superior Court for a candid conversation about what really happens behind the bench. From evidentiary objections to unrealistic expectations, Judge Benton pulls no punches about what lawyers get wrong (and right) in her courtroom.She shares how her years as a prosecutor shaped her approach to fairness, why she’s passionate about courtroom preparation, and the one thing every family lawyer should do before trial. The team also dives into topics like affidavits of election, attorney’s fees, pre-trials, and the evolving role of judges in family court.Whether you’re an attorney looking for insight or just curious how judges see the process, this episode offers rare, real-world perspective from the other side of the bench.🎙️ Hosts: Steve Shewmaker, Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy Lewis, Alexa Lewis 👩‍⚖️ Guest: Judge Alice Benton, Fulton County Superior Court 👨‍💼 Hosted by: Shewmaker & Lewis — Atlanta-based attorneys helping families navigate divorce, custody, and criminal defense with zero billboards and zero BS.📍 Chapters00:00 — Welcome and introduction 01:00 — Meet Judge Alice Benton 03:00 — From prosecutor to judge: lessons from both sides 06:00 — Adjusting to life on the bench and ensuring fair trials 08:00 — Evidence, objections, and trial strategy 11:00 — Why family law attorneys need an evidence refresher 13:00 — Preparation, balance sheets, and managing client expectations 16:00 — When judges award attorney’s fees 17:00 — How and when to request a pre-trial 19:00 — Affidavits of election and co-parenting challenges 22:00 — Modern realities of alimony in Georgia 25:00 — The courtroom mistakes judges see most often 28:00 — Trial prep tips and final advice from Judge Benton 👉 Have a question or topic idea? Visit shewmakerandlewis.com 🔗 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎧 Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more. 📺 Video version on YouTube: https://youtu.be/musFiCIGIaM 📩 Contact: [email protected] 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez at Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by Rob Burgner at Bleeding Edge in Atlanta, GA

What’s it really like to sit on the bench -and what do judges wish lawyers knew?In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, the Shewmaker & Lewis team sits down with Judge Kimberly Childs of Cobb County Superior Court for a candid, insightful, and often hilarious look at life from the other side of the courtroom.From her early days working as a jail guard during Freaknik to presiding over high-stakes domestic and criminal cases, Judge Childs shares how her journey shaped her approach to fairness, empathy, and keeping perspective on the bench.The conversation dives into:⚖️ What keeps judges up at night👩‍⚖️ How her time in jail inspired her to pursue law💼 Lessons from running her own firm before joining the bench🧠 The importance of letting clients feel heard💬 Her biggest pet peeves (and favorite traits) in lawyers 🎶 And yes — a few Taylor Swift references along the wayWhether you’re a lawyer, law student, or just curious what judges think when you’re arguing a case, this episode offers a rare glimpse into the mind (and heart) of a judge who truly cares about justice and humanity in the courtroom.🎙️ Hosts: Steve Shewmaker, Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy Lewis, Alexa Lewis 👩‍⚖️ Guest: Judge Kimberly Childs, Superior Court of Cobb CountyHosted by Shewmaker & Lewis — Atlanta-based attorneys helping families navigate divorce, custody, and criminal defense with zero billboards and zero BS.📍 Chapters 00:00 — Welcome and introductions 01:15 — Meet Judge Kimberly Childs 04:00 — From jail guard to Georgia State Law 08:00 — Lessons from the courtroom and beyond 13:00 — Running for judge (and winning) 18:00 — What judges wish lawyers understood 24:00 — Inside Cobb County Drug Court 28:00 — How judges really see your case 36:00 — Humor, humanity, and Taylor Swift 45:00 — Final thoughts👉 Have a question or topic idea? Visit shewmakerandlewis.com🔗 Podcast Library: shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎧 Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more. 📺 Video version on YouTube: https://youtu.be/6_DWxsH64wc 📩 Contact: [email protected]🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez at Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by Rob Burgner at Bleeding Edge in Atlanta, GA

What exactly does a Guardian ad Litem do - and how do they shape custody cases in Georgia?In this episode of Lawyers Without Billboards, the Shewmaker & Lewis team sits down with longtime mentor, mediator, and guardian ad litem Jim Holmes to pull back the curtain on one of the most misunderstood roles in family law.From how guardians are selected to what “best interest of the child” really means, Jim shares decades of insight, humor, and hard-won experience from hundreds of cases. The team dives into what makes a great guardian, why judges trust certain ones over others, and how lawyers should (and shouldn’t) interact with them.Whether you’re an attorney, a parent, or just curious how custody decisions are made, this conversation sheds light on a crucial—but often unseen—part of the courtroom process.🎙️ Hosts: Steve Shewmaker, Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy Lewis, Alexa Lewis 👨‍⚖️ Guest: Jim Holmes, Guardian ad Litem, Mediator, and Of Counsel to Shewmaker & LewisHosted by Shewmaker & Lewis - Atlanta-based attorneys helping families navigate divorce, custody, and criminal defense with zero billboards and zero BS.📍 Chapters00:00 — Welcome and introduction 01:00 — Meet guest Jim Holmes 04:00 — What is a Guardian ad Litem? 08:00 — Representing the child’s best interests 10:30 — How guardians are chosen (and who really picks them) 13:00 — Judges, guardians, and credibility 16:00 — Why hearsay rules don’t apply to guardians 18:30 — When you need (and don’t need) a guardian 20:00 — Bias, experience, and collaboration in GAL work 25:00 — How guardians investigate cases 28:00 — When judges disagree with the guardian’s recommendation 30:00 — Tips for attorneys working with guardians 36:00 — Final thoughts from Jim Holmes👉 Have a question or topic idea? Visit shewmakerandlewis.com🔗 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards🎧 Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more.📺 Video version on YouTube: https://studio.youtube.com/video/aGUoteDzLUQ/edit 📩 Contact: [email protected]🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez at Dragonsong Productions🎥 Produced by Rob Burgner at Bleeding Edge in Atlanta, GA

Think My Cousin Vinny is just a comedy? Think again. In Part 2 of Legal Movies on Trial: My Cousin Vinny, the Shewmaker & Lewis team dives deep into one of the most entertaining, and surprisingly accurate, courtroom movies ever made. From opening statements to expert testimony, they unpack what Vinny gets right (and wrong) about real trial work.Learn why opening statements make or break a case, how cross-examinations can unravel witnesses, and what every lawyer can take from Vinny’s “grits” moment. It’s both hilarious and educational. Proof that sometimes Hollywood gets it right.🎙️ Hosts: Steve Shewmaker, Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy Lewis, Alexa Lewis 👨‍⚖️ Hosted by Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta-based attorneys helping families navigate divorce, custody, and criminal defense – with zero billboards and zero BS.🔍 You’ll Learn: • Why opening statements often decide the verdict before closing arguments ever happen • The “don’t ask what you don’t know” rule of cross-examination • How investigative work and evidence collection can change the course of a trial • Why tone and jury perception matter as much as facts • How expert witnesses, like Mona Lisa Vito, can save a case📌 Chapters: 00:00 – Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards 01:00 – Picking Up Where Part 1 Left Off 03:30 – The Power of Opening Statements 06:10 – What NOT to Do in Court (Falling Asleep & Bad Openings) 09:00 – Cross-Examination Lessons: Know the Answer Before You Ask 10:30 – The Grits Scene: Vinny’s Moment of Brilliance 12:00 – On-the-Spot vs. Planned Impeachment 14:00 – Jury Perception and Tone: When Humor Hurts Your Case 15:50 – Identical! Tire Tracks and Expert Testimony 17:00 – Introducing Mona Lisa Vito: The Ultimate Expert Witness 20:00 – How She Saved the Case 22:00 – Realism in My Cousin Vinny vs. Real Courtrooms 24:00 – Favorite Moments from the Film 26:00 – What Lawyers Can Learn from Hollywood👉 Have a question or topic idea? Visit shewmakerandlewis.com🔗 Podcast Library: https://shewmakerandlewis.com/lawyers-without-billboards 🎧 Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more. 📺 Video version on YouTube: https://youtu.be/YBW6MUsA8A4 📩 Contact: [email protected] 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez at Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by Rob Burgner at Bleeding Edge in Atlanta, GA

Think My Cousin Vinny is just a hilarious courtroom comedy? Think again. In this new mini-series from Lawyers Without Billboards, the Shewmaker & Lewis team puts Hollywood’s most iconic legal movies on trial—starting with My Cousin Vinny.From Joe Pesci’s unforgettable performance as Vinny Gambini to Marisa Tomei’s Oscar-winning turn as Mona Lisa Vito, this film has long been celebrated for its humor. But how much of it holds up when real lawyers break down the legal details?Join Steve, Patty, Jimmy, and Alexa as they dive into the movie scene by scene—exploring what’s realistic, what’s just Hollywood, and what unexpected legal lessons lawyers (and clients) can take away. From grits to arraignments, courtroom attire to cross-examinations, they uncover the surprising accuracy (and absurdity) of this 90s classic.🎙️ Hosts: Steve Shewmaker, Patty Shewmaker, Jimmy Lewis, Alexa Lewis 👨‍⚖️ Hosted by Shewmaker & Lewis, Atlanta-based attorneys helping families navigate divorce, custody, and criminal defense – with zero billboards and zero BS.🔍 You’ll Learn: • How realistic My Cousin Vinny is as a legal film • Why Vinny Gambini’s courtroom mistakes mirror real-life rookie errors • What lawyers can learn about listening, mentorship, and cross-examination • Why grits might be the most important legal lesson in the movie • How Hollywood sometimes gets closer to the truth than you think📌 Chapters: 00:00 – Welcome to Lawyers Without Billboards 01:00 – Kicking Off the Legal Movies Mini-Series 03:00 – Why My Cousin Vinny Still Resonates with Lawyers 07:00 – The Arrest, Arraignment & Rookie Mistakes 12:00 – Courtroom Attire and Contempt of Court 18:00 – Cross-Examination Lessons: The Grits Scene 22:00 – Public Defenders, Mentors & Misconceptions 28:00 – Preparation, Suits, and “Two is One, One is None” 32:00 – Wrapping Part 1 & Previewing Part 2👉 Have a question or topic idea? Visit shewmakerandlewis.com🔗 Podcast Library: Lawyers Without Billboards 🎧 Available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcasts, and more. Search Lawyers Without Billboards. 📺 Video version on YouTube: https://youtu.be/3atPSkBj7fU📩 Contact: [email protected] 🎼 Music by Ben Hernandez at Dragonsong Productions 🎥 Produced by Rob Burgner at Bleeding Edge in Atlanta, GA.