PODCAST · kids
Let's Talk Teens
by Cheree Murdock & Abbi Winslow
🎙️ "Let's Talk Teens" – Your Ultimate Guide to Raising Amazing TeenagersWelcome to "Let's Talk Teens," the podcast where certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock, share their expertise on raising exceptional teenagers. As mothers with kids ranging from 28 down to 1 between us and experience both in and out of the classroom, we offer a unique blend of insights and practical advice to help you navigate the complexities of adolescence with confidence.Each week, we dive into topics ranging from the inner workings of the teenage brain to effective communication strategies and emotional intelligence. Our goal is to equip you with the tools and knowledge to foster strong, positive relationships with your teens and make these pivotal years both enjoyable and impactful.Whether you’re seeking guidance on handling challenging situations, tips for supporting your teen’s growth, or simply a fresh perspective on parenting, "Let's Talk Teens"</
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House Manners to Teach Your Teen
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: House Manners to Teach Your TeenWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents raise kind, confident, and capable teenagers.In this episode, we’re talking about the house manners every teen should know—whether they’re visiting a friend’s home, staying with relatives, or welcoming guests into their own. Good manners aren’t about being old-fashioned—they’re about showing respect, gratitude, and consideration for others.We’ll share practical lessons every parent can teach, from greeting adults and offering to help, to cleaning up after themselves, respecting house rules, and being a thoughtful guest. These simple habits not only leave a great impression but also help your teen build stronger relationships and greater confidence in any social setting.Tune in for practical parenting tips that will prepare your teen for life well beyond your front door. 🎧✨
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Teen Choices vs Parent Choices
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Teen Choices vs. Parent Choices — Who Gets to Decide?Welcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents navigate the everyday decisions that shape strong, healthy relationships with their teens.In this episode, we’re exploring one of the biggest balancing acts in parenting—knowing which choices belong to you and which ones belong to your teen. As teens grow more independent, it can be hard to know when to step in, when to let go, and when to let natural consequences do the teaching.We’ll break down the difference between parent choices and teen choices, helping you identify where healthy boundaries belong and where your teen needs the freedom to learn, grow, and make age-appropriate decisions. You’ll walk away with practical tools to reduce power struggles, encourage responsibility, and strengthen your influence without trying to control every outcome.Tune in for a conversation that will help you parent with greater confidence, clarity, and connection as your teen prepares for adulthood. 🎧✨
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House Comparison and how I help my teen
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: House Comparison — Helping Your Teen When They Compare Your Home to OthersWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents navigate the emotional and social pressures teens face today.In this episode, we’re talking about something many teens quietly struggle with—comparing their house, lifestyle, or family situation to everyone else’s. Whether it’s bigger homes, trendier décor, more money, or the “fun house” everyone hangs out at, comparison can leave teens feeling embarrassed, insecure, or like they don’t measure up.We’ll share practical ways to help your teen build gratitude and confidence while also creating a home that feels warm, welcoming, and emotionally safe for teens to gather in—regardless of size, style, or budget. You’ll learn how connection matters far more than perfection, and how small things can make your home a place teens genuinely want to be.Tune in for encouraging perspective shifts and simple ideas to help your teen feel proud of where they come from—and help your home become a place of belonging and connection. 🎧✨
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Holding on: Helping your teen through depression
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Holding On — Helping Your Teen Through DepressionWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents navigate the hardest parts of raising teens with compassion, clarity, and hope.In this deeply important episode, we’re talking about teen depression — what it can look like, how it impacts the whole family, and how to support your teen when they’re struggling to hold on. Depression in teens doesn’t always look like sadness; sometimes it shows up as irritability, withdrawal, exhaustion, numbness, or hopelessness.We’ll walk through practical ways to support your teen emotionally, create safe and open conversations, and recognize when it’s time to seek additional help. Most importantly, we’ll talk about how to stay connected to your teen during a season that can feel isolating for everyone involved.If your teen is struggling, this episode is a reminder that they are not alone — and neither are you. Tune in for encouragement, practical tools, and hope for the road ahead. 🎧✨
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Help! My teen’s self esteem is tanking
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Help! My Teen’s Self-Esteem Is TankingWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents support their teens through the emotional highs and lows of adolescence.In this episode, we’re diving into a concern so many parents are facing—what to do when your teen’s self-esteem seems to be falling apart. Whether it’s comparison, social media, school struggles, friendships, or negative self-talk, teens today are under intense pressure, and it can deeply affect how they see themselves.We’ll talk about the warning signs of low self-esteem, what may be contributing to it, and most importantly, how to help your teen rebuild confidence from the inside out. You’ll learn practical ways to strengthen connection, encourage resilience, and help your teen recognize their worth beyond achievement or appearance.Tune in for an encouraging conversation full of real-life tools to help your teen feel more confident, capable, and secure in who they are. 🎧✨
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Summer unlocked: Making the most of every day
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Summer Unlocked — Making the Most of Every DayWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help families create meaningful connection and growth during every season of the teen years.In this episode, we’re talking about how to truly unlock summer for your teen. While summer can be a time for freedom and fun, it can also quickly turn into boredom, endless scrolling, and wasted days. So how do you help your teen make the most of it without turning into the fun police?We’ll share practical ideas to help your teen create purpose, balance, and memorable experiences throughout the summer. From routines and responsibilities to friendships, adventures, and personal growth, this episode is packed with ways to help your teen enjoy summer while still moving forward.Tune in for simple strategies to help your family create a summer full of connection, confidence, and meaningful moments. 🎧✨
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What to do when your teen is driving you NUTS!
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: What to Do When Your Teen Is Driving You Nuts!Welcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents stay grounded, connected, and confident through the ups and downs of raising teenagers.In this episode, we’re talking about those moments every parent has—when your teen is pushing every button you have. The attitude, the eye-rolls, the arguing… it can feel relentless. But how you respond in these moments matters more than you think.We’ll share practical strategies to help you stay calm, avoid power struggles, and respond in ways that actually improve behavior and strengthen your relationship. You’ll learn how to shift your mindset, set boundaries effectively, and keep connection front and center—even when your patience is running thin.Tune in for real-life tools to help you handle the chaos without losing yourself—or your relationship with your teen. 🎧✨
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Fighting with your siblings, good or bad?
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Fighting with Your Siblings — Good or Bad?Welcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents navigate the real dynamics of family life with teens.In this episode, we’re diving into a question every family faces—is sibling fighting a problem… or part of the process? From constant bickering to full-blown arguments, sibling conflict can feel exhausting—but it can also be a powerful opportunity for growth.We’ll break down when sibling conflict is healthy and when it crosses a line, plus how to coach your teens through disagreements without constantly playing referee. You’ll learn how to teach communication, boundaries, and conflict resolution skills that will serve them for life.Tune in for practical tools to bring more peace (and purpose) to the chaos of sibling relationships. 🎧✨
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Keeping Your Teen from Making Dumb Decisions
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Keeping Your Teen from Making Dumb DecisionsWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents guide teens through real-life challenges with confidence and clarity.In this episode, we’re tackling a concern every parent has—how to help your teen avoid poor decisions without controlling every move they make. From risky behavior to impulsive choices, teens are wired to test limits—but that doesn’t mean they have to learn everything the hard way.We’ll share practical strategies to build your teen’s decision-making skills, strengthen their ability to pause and think, and create an environment where they come to you before things go wrong. You’ll learn how to influence your teen’s choices through connection, clear expectations, and trust—not fear or lectures.Tune in for real-world tools to help your teen think smarter, act wiser, and grow into someone who makes decisions they’re proud of. 🎧✨
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Maycember making it through the last month of the school year–Especially if you have a senior
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Maycember — Making It Through the Last Month of the School Year (Especially If You Have a Senior!)Welcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents navigate the busiest, most emotional seasons of raising teens.In this episode, we’re diving into “Maycember” — that whirlwind final stretch of the school year filled with events, deadlines, emotions, and all the things. And if you have a senior? It’s a whole different level. Between graduation, big transitions, and saying goodbye to this chapter, it can feel exciting, overwhelming, and bittersweet all at once.We’ll share practical ways to manage the chaos, support your teen emotionally, and stay connected during a season that can easily feel rushed and stressful. From setting priorities to soaking in meaningful moments, we’ll help you finish the year feeling grounded instead of burned out.Tune in for real-life tips and encouragement to help your family make it through Maycember—together. 🎧✨
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Teaching your teen about HEALTHY friends vs SO-SO friends
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Teaching Your Teen About Healthy Friends vs. So-So FriendsWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents guide teens through real-life relationship challenges.In this episode, we’re diving into a topic that shapes your teen’s confidence and choices—friendships. Not all friendships are created equal, and helping your teen recognize the difference between healthy friends and so-so friends can be a game-changer.We’ll walk you through what healthy friendships look like (trust, respect, support) versus relationships that drain, pressure, or bring out the worst. You’ll learn how to have these conversations without criticizing your teen’s friends, and how to help your teen build awareness, boundaries, and confidence in choosing who they surround themselves with.Tune in for practical tools and real-life language to help your teen create friendships that lift them up—not hold them back. 🎧✨
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Stop Fixing Your Teen and Their Emotions
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Stop Fixing Your Teen and Their EmotionsWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents build stronger, more connected relationships with their teens.In this episode, we’re diving into a powerful shift—what happens when you stop trying to fix your teen and their emotions. When your teen is struggling, it’s natural to jump in with advice, solutions, or reassurance. But often, what they need most isn’t fixing—it’s feeling seen, heard, and understood.We’ll talk about how to validate emotions without escalating them, how to sit with discomfort (yours and theirs), and how to create space for your teen to process, learn, and grow. You’ll walk away with simple tools to support your teen in a way that builds emotional strength and deeper connection.Tune in for a perspective-changing conversation that will help you show up differently—and more effectively—for your teen. 🎧✨
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Win the morning with your teen!
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Win the Morning with Your Teen!Welcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents create more connection and less chaos in everyday life with teens.In this episode, we’re focusing on one of the most overlooked parts of the day—mornings. From rushed routines and bad moods to missed buses and nagging, mornings can quickly set the tone for stress and disconnection. But what if you could win the morning instead?We’ll share simple, realistic strategies to create smoother mornings, reduce conflict, and start the day with more calm and connection. Learn how to set expectations, build routines, and communicate in ways that help your teen feel capable and supported—before they even walk out the door.Tune in for practical tips that can transform your mornings—and your relationship. 🎧✨
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Letting your teen struggle without rescuing
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Letting Your Teen Struggle Without RescuingWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents navigate the emotional ups and downs of raising teenagers with confidence and clarity.In this episode, we’re diving into a hard but powerful parenting skill—letting your teen struggle without jumping in to rescue. When your teen is hurting, frustrated, or facing consequences, every instinct says to fix it. But real growth happens when teens learn to sit with discomfort, problem-solve, and come out stronger on the other side.We’ll talk about how to support your teen without over-saving them, what to say in emotional moments, and how to build resilience, confidence, and emotional strength over time.Tune in for practical tools and perspective shifts that will help you stay connected while raising a capable, resilient teen. 🎧✨
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How do I know when to let my teen quit a hobby?
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: How Do I Know When to Let My Teen Quit a Hobby?Welcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents navigate the tough decisions that come with raising teens.In this episode, we’re tackling a question many parents wrestle with—when should you let your teen quit… and when should you encourage them to stick it out? Whether it’s sports, music, a job, or another commitment, it can be hard to know if quitting is giving up or making a healthy choice.We’ll break down the difference between burnout and lack of follow-through, how to guide your teen in making thoughtful decisions, and how to use these moments to teach resilience, self-awareness, and responsibility.Tune in for practical tools and mindset shifts to help you support your teen without pushing too hard—or letting them walk away too soon. 🎧✨
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The difference between control and influence in parenting your teen
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: The Difference Between Control and Influence in Parenting Your TeenWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents navigate the balance between guiding and letting go.In this episode, we’re breaking down a powerful mindset shift—control vs. influence. When it comes to parenting teens, trying to control every choice, behavior, or outcome often leads to resistance and disconnection. But learning how to influence your teen? That’s where real, lasting impact happens.We’ll explore what control looks like (and why it backfires), what healthy influence actually means, and how to build trust, respect, and connection so your teen wants to listen—not just comply. You’ll walk away with practical tools to lead your teen with confidence while still giving them the independence they need.Tune in for a perspective-shifting conversation that will change the way you show up as a parent. 🎧✨
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Ideas for Family Connection your teen won’t hate
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Family Connection Ideas Your Teen Won’t HateWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents build stronger, more meaningful relationships with their teens.In this episode, we’re tackling a common struggle—how to connect as a family without eye-rolls, resistance, or forced fun. As teens grow more independent, it can feel harder than ever to find ways to spend time together that they actually enjoy.We’ll share realistic, low-pressure ideas to build connection in ways that feel natural and engaging for your teen—no cheesy activities required. From small daily moments to creative ways to spend time together, you’ll learn how to strengthen your bond without pushing too hard.If you want more connection and less conflict, this episode is full of simple, doable ideas your teen might actually like. 🎧✨
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Sleep and your teenager
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Sleep and Your TeenagerWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents support their teens’ mental, emotional, and physical well-being.In this episode, we’re diving into one of the most overlooked (but critical) parts of teen health—sleep. From late-night scrolling to early school start times, many teens are running on empty, and it’s impacting everything from mood and motivation to academic performance and mental health.We’ll break down why sleep matters so much during the teenage years, what’s getting in the way, and how to help your teen build healthier sleep habits without constant battles. You’ll walk away with practical tools to create routines, set boundaries, and support better rest for your teen.Subscribe, listen, and let’s help your teen get the sleep they need to truly thrive. 🎧✨
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Teen girls and Ozempic
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Teen Girls and Ozempic — What Parents Need to KnowWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we tackle timely, complex topics impacting teens’ mental and emotional health.In this episode, we’re addressing a growing concern many parents are hearing about: teen girls and Ozempic (and similar weight-loss medications). With social media, body image pressure, and diet culture louder than ever, conversations about weight, health, and quick fixes can be confusing for teens.We’ll talk about why these medications are showing up in teen conversations, the emotional and psychological implications for teen girls, and how to talk to your teen about health, body image, and self-worth without shame or fear. You’ll learn how to create open dialogue, spot red flags, and support a balanced, healthy mindset around food and bodies.This is a must-listen episode for parents who want to stay informed, proactive, and emotionally supportive in a complicated cultural moment. 🎧✨
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Walking your teen through a PANIC ATTACK
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Walking Your Teen Through a Panic AttackWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents feel confident supporting their teens through big emotions and hard moments.In this episode, we’re focusing on one of the most frightening experiences for both teens and parents: panic attacks. When your teen is overwhelmed by fear, their body feels out of control, and logic seems unreachable, knowing what to do in the moment matters.We’ll walk you through how to recognize a panic attack, what to say (and what not to say), and simple grounding tools that can help calm your teen’s nervous system. You’ll also learn how to support them after the moment passes and build long-term skills to reduce future episodes.If you’ve ever felt helpless watching your teen panic, this episode will give you calm, clear guidance to help them feel safe, supported, and capable of getting through it. 🎧✨
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Heated Politics and Your Teen
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Heated Politics and Your Teen Welcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents support teens through today’s complex emotional landscape.In this episode, we’re tackling heated politics and the impact it can have on teens’ stress, anxiety, and outlook on the future. With constant news cycles, social media debates, and polarized conversations, many teens feel overwhelmed, discouraged, or even hopeless about what lies ahead.We’ll share practical ways to help your teen stay informed without becoming consumed, develop critical thinking without fear, and hold onto hope in a world that feels loud and divided. You’ll learn how to have meaningful conversations that build resilience, empathy, and optimism — even when opinions differ.Tune in for a grounding, empowering conversation that helps your teen feel steady, thoughtful, and hopeful about their place in the future. 🎧✨
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Teaching Teens the Texting Game
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Teaching Teens the Texting GameWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents navigate the modern realities of raising teenagers.In this episode, we’re breaking down the texting game — the unspoken rules, pressures, and emotional landmines that come with teen communication today. From overthinking response times to misread tone, ghosting, and group chats, texting can have a huge impact on your teen’s confidence, friendships, and relationships.We’ll talk about what healthy texting looks like, common mistakes teens make, and how parents can coach their teens to communicate clearly, respectfully, and confidently — without spiraling into anxiety or drama. You’ll also learn how to have these conversations without sounding out of touch or controlling.If texting seems to be running your teen’s emotional world, this episode will give you tools to help them play the game smarter — and with way less stress. 🎧✨
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How to ease into the pre-tree transition
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: How to Ease Into the Pre-Teen TransitionWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we explore the art and science of raising confident, resilient teens.In this episode, we’re talking about the pre-teen years — that unique and sometimes tricky stage between childhood and adolescence. With changing emotions, growing independence, and shifting social dynamics, this transition can feel overwhelming for both kids and parents.We’ll share practical strategies to help your child navigate this stage with confidence, keep communication open, and foster emotional intelligence. From building self-awareness to setting healthy boundaries and encouraging responsibility, this episode gives you tools to make the pre-teen years a time of growth instead of stress.Subscribe, listen, and let’s help your child step confidently into the teen years — together. 🎧✨
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3 tips to help your teen stop PEOPLE PLEASING
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: How to Help Your Teen Stop People-PleasingWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents guide teens toward confidence, emotional health, and self-respect.In this episode, we’re diving into a common challenge: people-pleasing. Many teens feel pressured to say yes, avoid conflict, or seek approval constantly — but this can lead to stress, burnout, and low self-esteem.We’ll share practical tips to help your teen set healthy boundaries, recognize their own needs, and stop defining their worth by others’ opinions. You’ll learn how to guide them in saying no with confidence, building self-respect, and embracing authenticity without guilt.Subscribe, listen, and let’s help your teen step out of the approval trap and into their own power. 🎧✨
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What if a teacher at school doesn’t like my teen?
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: What If a Teacher at School Doesn’t Like My Teen?Welcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents navigate the real-life challenges of raising teenagers with confidence and clarity.In this episode, we’re tackling a concern many parents quietly worry about: what if your teen feels disliked or targeted by a teacher? When school starts to feel unsafe, unfair, or discouraging, it can deeply impact your teen’s confidence, motivation, and mental health.We’ll break down how to tell the difference between a personality clash and a real problem, how to support your teen emotionally without escalating the situation, and when (and how) to step in as a parent. You’ll also learn how to coach your teen in self-advocacy and resilience when dealing with authority figures.Tune in for practical tools, calming guidance, and empowering strategies to help your teen feel supported — at school and at home. 🎧✨
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How to stop your teen from "Should-ing" on themselves
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: How to Stop Your Teen from “Should-ing” on ThemselvesWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents support their teens’ mental and emotional health.In this episode, we’re addressing a sneaky confidence-killer: “should-ing” on themselves. When teens constantly say “I should be better,” “I should have known,” or “I should be more like them,” it fuels shame, pressure, and burnout — not growth.We’ll break down where these “shoulds” come from, how they impact your teen’s self-worth, and what to say (and not say) when you hear them pop up. You’ll learn simple tools to help your teen replace self-criticism with curiosity, self-compassion, and forward-focused thinking.If your teen is stuck in comparison, perfectionism, or constant self-pressure, this episode will give you practical ways to help them lighten the emotional load and build healthier self-talk.Subscribe, listen, and let’s help your teen trade “shoulds” for confidence and clarity. 🎧✨
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One trick to help your teen be more positive!
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: One Simple Trick to Help Your Teen Be More PositiveWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — helping parents raise emotionally healthy, resilient teens.In this episode, we’re sharing one powerful mindset shift that can dramatically change your teen’s outlook: stop interviewing for pain. Many teens (and parents!) unintentionally keep negativity alive by replaying hurts, disappointments, and frustrations over and over. While validation matters, repeatedly revisiting pain can actually reinforce it.We’ll explain what “interviewing for pain” looks like, how it affects your teen’s mood and mindset, and how to gently help your teen acknowledge hard feelings without getting stuck in them. You’ll learn practical phrases, boundary-setting tools, and ways to redirect conversations toward growth, resilience, and problem-solving.If you want to help your teen become more optimistic — without dismissing their feelings — this episode is a must-listen. Tune in for simple, effective strategies you can start using today. 🎧✨
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Does your teen have an anxious attachment style in relationships?
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Does Your Teen Have an Anxious Attachment Style in Relationships?Welcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we unpack the emotional patterns shaping our teens’ relationships.In this episode, we’re exploring anxious attachment in teen relationships — what it looks like, where it comes from, and how it can show up as clinginess, fear of rejection, people-pleasing, or constant reassurance-seeking. We’ll help you understand whether your teen’s relationship behaviors are typical developmental insecurity or signs of an anxious attachment style.You’ll learn how to support your teen in building emotional safety, confidence, and healthy boundaries — without shaming, minimizing, or pushing them too hard. With practical tools and compassionate guidance, this episode will help you foster more secure, resilient connections for your teen now and in the future.Tune in for an insightful conversation that empowers you to guide your teen toward healthier relationships and a stronger sense of self. 🎧✨
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How to be an “askable” parent
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: How to Be an “Askable” ParentWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we help parents build strong, trusting relationships with their teenagers.In this episode, we’re exploring what it really means to be an “askable” parent — the kind of parent your teen feels safe coming to with hard questions, mistakes, and uncomfortable topics. From relationships and mental health to school stress and boundaries, teens need to know they won’t be met with judgment, lectures, or overreactions.We’ll break down the habits that build trust (and the ones that quietly shut it down), how to respond in the moment when your teen opens up, and simple shifts that make a big difference in keeping communication open.If you want your teen to talk to you before turning to the internet or peers, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in for practical tools, honest insight, and encouragement to become the safe place your teen needs. 🎧✨
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Why parents must “unlearn” and how teens can to
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Why Parents Must “Unlearn” — and How Teens Can TooWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock, where we challenge old assumptions and create healthier ways to parent and connect.In this episode, we’re talking about the power of unlearning — for both parents and teens. Parenting today isn’t the same as it was a generation ago, and many of the beliefs we were raised with no longer serve our families. We’ll explore what parents need to unlearn to better support their teens, and how helping teens unlearn unhelpful thoughts, habits, and expectations can lead to growth, confidence, and resilience.From letting go of perfectionism to rethinking success, discipline, and emotions, this conversation will help you create space for learning, healing, and forward movement — together.Tune in for a refreshing, perspective-shifting episode that will help your family grow with more understanding and connection. 🎧✨
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My teen is dating and I think they are too young!
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: My Teen Is Dating… and I Think They’re Too Young!Welcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — where we dive into the real-life challenges and heart-to-hearts of raising teenagers.In this episode, we’re tackling one of the trickiest parenting moments: when your teen starts dating — and you’re not sure they’re ready. Whether it’s emotional maturity, boundaries, or simply the fact that they’re still so young, this topic brings up a mix of concern, fear, and “not my baby yet!” energy for many parents.We’ll help you navigate this stage with calm confidence — from understanding what’s really motivating your teen to date, to setting age-appropriate boundaries, and having meaningful conversations about values, respect, and emotional safety.If you’re unsure how to respond without pushing your teen away, this episode is for you. Join us for practical strategies, compassionate insights, and honest talk about guiding your teen through early relationships — without losing your connection in the process. 🎧✨
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Is your teen’s self-talk healthy? How to help them stop being an inner critic
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Is Your Teen’s Self-Talk Healthy? How to Help Them Stop Being an Inner CriticWelcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — your go-to guides for navigating the emotional ups and downs of raising teenagers.In this episode, we’re tackling one of the most powerful — yet invisible — parts of your teen’s mental health: their self-talk. The way your teen speaks to themselves shapes their confidence, motivation, and sense of self-worth. But what happens when that inner voice turns critical, harsh, or negative?We’ll help you recognize the signs of unhealthy self-talk, understand where it comes from, and learn how to guide your teen toward a more compassionate and empowering inner dialogue. With practical tools and coaching-based strategies, you’ll walk away ready to help your teen replace self-doubt with self-respect.Tune in for an encouraging, actionable conversation on helping your teen become their own best supporter — not their worst critic. 🎧✨
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How Do I know if my Teen is REALLY a nice kid at school?
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: How Do I Know If My Teen Is Really a Nice Kid at School?Welcome to another episode of "Let’s Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — your trusted guides for raising emotionally intelligent, grounded, and kind-hearted teens.In this episode, we’re unpacking a question every parent wonders at some point: “Is my teen actually nice when I’m not around?” You see them at home — the good, the grumpy, and everything in between — but what about at school, with friends, and in real-world situations?We’ll walk you through practical ways to understand your teen’s social behavior, what clues to look for in their stories and attitudes, and how to foster empathy, respect, and integrity that carry over into every part of their life.From conversations that reveal character to red flags that deserve attention, this episode will help you feel confident that you’re raising not just a successful teen — but a genuinely good human.Subscribe, listen, and join us as we explore what kindness really looks like in the teenage years. 🎧✨
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6 Ways to be more likeable
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: 6 Ways to Be More LikeableWelcome to another episode of "Let's Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock — your go-to source for raising confident, emotionally healthy teenagers.In this episode, we’re diving into a topic every teen (and parent) can relate to — how to be more likeable. From friendships to social confidence, we’ll break down six simple, powerful ways teens can build genuine connections and attract positive relationships without changing who they are.We’ll share practical strategies to help your teen improve self-awareness, empathy, communication, and confidence — all while keeping their authenticity intact. Whether your teen struggles with fitting in or just wants to strengthen their social skills, this episode offers real-life tools and insights that make a lasting impact.Tune in, listen together, and help your teen build the kind of confidence that draws people in — naturally. 🎧✨
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How busy should you keep your teen?
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: How Busy Should You Keep Your Teen?Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock, where we explore the art and science of raising remarkable teenagers.In this episode, we’re diving into a question every parent wrestles with—how busy is too busy for your teen? Between school, sports, activities, friends, and family, it’s easy to either overschedule or under-schedule your teen. We’ll talk about the warning signs that your teen’s plate is too full, the risks of not keeping them engaged enough, and how to find that healthy middle ground.With practical tools and insights, we’ll help you create balance, foster resilience, and ensure your teen has the right mix of structure, downtime, and opportunities for growth.Don’t miss this valuable discussion—subscribe, listen, and let’s find the “just right” level of busy for your teen. 🎧✨
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What to do when your teen procrastinates EVERYTHING
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: What to Do When Your Teen Procrastinates EverythingWelcome to another episode of "Let's Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock, where we dive into the art and science of raising remarkable teenagers.In this episode, we’re tackling a challenge nearly every parent faces—teen procrastination. From homework to chores (and everything in between), it can feel like your teen is putting off life itself. We’ll break down why teens procrastinate, what’s really going on in their brains, and how you can help them build motivation without constant nagging or power struggles.With practical tips, coaching strategies, and real-world examples, we’ll guide you in turning procrastination into progress while teaching your teen responsibility, follow-through, and confidence in their own abilities.Don’t miss this encouraging conversation—because helping your teen take action today sets them up for success tomorrow. Subscribe, listen, and let’s tackle this together. 🎧✨
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What to do when your teen is in BIG trouble
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: What to Do When Your Teen Is in BIG TroubleWelcome to another episode of "Let's Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock, where we dive into the art and science of raising remarkable teenagers.In this episode, we’re tackling one of the scariest parenting moments—when your teen is in BIG trouble. Whether it’s an issue with the school principal, conflict with another family, or even involvement with the police, these situations can feel overwhelming and terrifying. We’ll share practical strategies to help you stay calm, respond wisely, and guide your teen through the consequences while keeping your relationship intact.From setting boundaries and owning mistakes to helping your teen learn and grow from tough experiences, we’ll equip you with tools to handle the storm without losing connection.Don’t miss this empowering conversation—it’s about turning even the hardest parenting moments into opportunities for growth. Subscribe, listen, and let’s walk this path together. 🎧✨
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5 things your teen NEEDS from you but won’t ask for
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: 5 Things Your Teen Needs From You (But Won’t Ask For)Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock, where we explore the art and science of raising remarkable teenagers.In this episode, we’re uncovering the unspoken needs of teens—the things they crave from you as a parent but may never put into words. From validation and healthy boundaries to encouragement, consistency, and a safe space to be themselves, these five essentials can make all the difference in your teen’s confidence and emotional well-being.We’ll share real-life examples and practical tips to help you meet these needs in everyday parenting moments, building stronger trust and connection along the way.Don’t miss this powerful conversation—it’s all about giving your teen what they need most (even when they don’t ask for it). Subscribe, listen, and let’s navigate this journey together. 🎧✨
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How to get your teen to be more independent
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: How to Get Your Teen to Be More IndependentWelcome to another episode of "Let's Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock, where we dive into the art and science of raising remarkable teenagers.In this episode, we’re talking about one of the biggest goals of parenting—helping your teen become more independent. From managing responsibilities to making their own choices, independence is a skill that builds confidence, resilience, and readiness for life beyond high school.We’ll share practical strategies to step back without disengaging, guide without controlling, and empower your teen to take ownership of their decisions. You’ll learn how to balance support with freedom so your teen grows into a capable, confident young adult.Subscribe, listen, and let’s raise teens who are ready to stand on their own two feet. 🎧
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Are you your teens safe space or a stressor?
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Are You Your Teen’s Safe Space or a Stressor?Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock, where we explore the art and science of raising remarkable teenagers.In this episode, we’re asking an important question—are you your teen’s safe space or one of their biggest stressors? Teens need a place where they can land, feel understood, and know they won’t be judged. But sometimes, without meaning to, parents can add pressure, tension, or criticism that makes teens pull away.We’ll help you recognize the difference, uncover small shifts that build trust, and share how to create an environment where your teen feels seen, heard, and supported. When your teen knows you’re their safe space, your relationship becomes a powerful anchor through every high and low.Subscribe, listen, and let’s build homes where teens feel safe to grow. 🎧✨
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5 lies keeping your teen miserable
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: 5 Lies Keeping Your Teen MiserableWelcome to another episode of "Let's Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock, where we explore the art and science of raising remarkable teenagers.In this episode, we’re exposing the 5 common lies that keep teens stuck in negativity, stress, and self-doubt. From “It shouldn't be this hard” to “Everyone needs to like me,” these destructive beliefs can quietly fuel misery and hold your teen back from thriving.We’ll break down each lie, show you how to spot it in your teen’s words and behavior, and share strategies to replace it with healthier, empowering truths. These simple mindset shifts can make all the difference in your teen’s happiness and confidence.Subscribe, listen, and let’s help your teen step out of misery and into resilience. 🎧✨
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Beliefs that sabotage teen confidence
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Beliefs That Sabotage Teen ConfidenceWelcome to another episode of "Let's Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock, where we explore the art and science of raising remarkable teenagers.In this episode, we’re uncovering the hidden beliefs and thought patterns that quietly chip away at your teen’s confidence. From “I’m not good enough” to “Everyone is better than me,” these internal narratives can hold your teen back from reaching their full potential.We’ll share how to identify these limiting beliefs, guide your teen in challenging them, and replace them with empowering truths. With the right tools, you can help your teen build self-trust, resilience, and the courage to step into new opportunities with confidence.Subscribe, listen, and let’s help your teen believe in themselves for real. 🎧✨
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Helping your teen avoid extremes
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Helping Your Teen Avoid ExtremesWelcome to another episode of "Let's Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock, where we explore the art and science of raising remarkable teenagers.In this episode, we’re diving into the world of balance—how to help your teen avoid the trap of extremes. Whether it’s all-or-nothing thinking, overcommitting, withdrawing completely, or swinging between perfectionism and procrastination, extremes can be exhausting and harmful for teens.We’ll share practical strategies to help your teen find their middle ground—building healthy habits, realistic expectations, and emotional stability. You’ll learn how to coach them through challenges without pushing them too hard or letting them check out entirely.Subscribe, listen, and let’s help your teen thrive in a healthy, balanced way. 🎧✨
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4 things every teen needs to know about change
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: 4 Things Every Teen Needs to Know About ChangeWelcome to another episode of "Let's Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock, where we explore the art and science of raising remarkable teenagers.In this episode, we’re talking about a life skill every teen needs—navigating change. Whether it’s moving to a new school, shifting friend groups, starting a first job, or preparing for adulthood, change can feel overwhelming for teens.We’ll walk you through the four key truths every teen should understand about change—how to process it, adapt to it, learn from it, and even embrace it. With practical tips and real-world examples, we’ll help you guide your teen so they can face change with confidence instead of fear.Subscribe, listen, and let’s help your teen turn life’s changes into opportunities for growth. 🎧✨
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When your Teen HATES school
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: What to Do When Your Teen Hates SchoolWelcome to another episode of "Let's Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock, where we explore the art and science of raising remarkable teenagers.In this episode, we tackle a challenge many parents face—when your teen hates school. From constant complaints to skipped assignments (and maybe even skipped classes), school struggles can create stress for the whole family.We’ll break down how to uncover the real reasons behind your teen’s dislike of school—whether it’s academic pressure, social challenges, boredom, or anxiety—and share practical strategies to help them re-engage. You’ll learn how to support their mental health, encourage responsibility, and keep communication open without constant conflict.Subscribe, listen, and let’s turn school from a battle zone into a place for growth—together. 🎧✨
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How to help your teen through disappointment
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: How to Help Your Teen Through DisappointmentWelcome to another episode of "Let's Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock, where we explore the art and science of raising remarkable teenagers.In this episode, we’re talking about one of the most important (and hardest) parenting moments—helping your teen navigate disappointment. Whether it’s a failed audition, a lost game, a broken friendship, or a missed opportunity, disappointment is part of growing up—but that doesn’t make it easy.We’ll share how to show up for your teen with empathy, teach them how to process big emotions, and turn tough moments into powerful growth. You’ll walk away with practical tools to build resilience and emotional maturity while strengthening your connection.Subscribe, listen, and let’s walk through life’s tough moments—together. 🎧✨
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One secret to a better relationship with your teen
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: One Secret to a Better Relationship with Your TeenWelcome to another episode of "Let's Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock, where we explore the art and science of raising remarkable teenagers.In this episode, we’re revealing one simple but powerful secret to improving your relationship with your teen—talking about them positively. That’s right—how you speak about your teen (even when they’re not around) shapes how you see them, how others treat them, and how they feel about themselves.We’ll explore the impact of bragging on your teen’s confidence, how your words reinforce connection or disconnection, and how to shift the narrative—even during hard seasons. Get ready to build more trust, more joy, and a stronger bond through the power of your words.Subscribe, listen, and let’s start speaking life into our teens—together. 🎧✨
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RED FLAGS to look for in teen dating relationships
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: RED FLAGS to Look for in Teen Dating RelationshipsWelcome to another episode of "Let's Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock, where we explore the art and science of raising remarkable teenagers.In this episode, we’re diving into an important and sometimes uncomfortable topic—red flags in teen dating relationships. Whether your teen is just starting to date or already deep in a relationship, it’s crucial they know what healthy love looks like—and what it doesn’t.We’ll talk about warning signs to watch for like control, jealousy, emotional manipulation, and isolation—and how to talk to your teen about them in a way that invites openness, not shutdown. This episode will equip you with the language and tools to help your teen navigate relationships with confidence, clarity, and self-respect.Subscribe, listen, and let’s raise teens who know their worth and choose healthy connections. 🎧✨
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When your teen is going through Friend Group Troubles
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: When Your Teen Is Going Through Friend Group TroublesWelcome to another episode of "Let's Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock, where we explore the art and science of raising remarkable teenagers.In this episode, we’re diving into the emotional rollercoaster of friend group drama. Whether your teen is feeling left out, caught in the middle, or struggling with shifting social dynamics, friend group troubles can feel all-consuming.We’ll share how to help your teen navigate social stress with confidence and emotional awareness—without jumping in to fix everything for them. You’ll learn how to validate their experience, offer perspective, and encourage healthy relationship habits that will serve them for years to come.Subscribe, listen, and let’s help your teen build strong, authentic connections—even through the ups and downs. 🎧✨
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Is your teen looking for a job? Let us help!
🎙️ Let’s Talk Teens: Is Your Teen Looking for a Job? Let Us Help!Welcome to another episode of "Let's Talk Teens!" with certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock, where we explore the art and science of raising remarkable teenagers.In this episode, we’re talking about how to emotionally prepare your teen for their first job. Getting a job is more than just clocking in—it’s a big milestone that comes with responsibility, pressure, and a whole range of emotions.We’ll guide you through how to support your teen through the highs and lows—from excitement and pride to frustration, overwhelm, and maybe even disappointment. Learn how to have meaningful conversations that build resilience, work ethic, and confidence, and how to stay connected as they step into this new phase of independence.Subscribe, listen, and let’s help your teen thrive in their first job—together. 🎧✨
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
🎙️ "Let's Talk Teens" – Your Ultimate Guide to Raising Amazing TeenagersWelcome to "Let's Talk Teens," the podcast where certified life coaches, Abbi Winslow and Cheree Murdock, share their expertise on raising exceptional teenagers. As mothers with kids ranging from 28 down to 1 between us and experience both in and out of the classroom, we offer a unique blend of insights and practical advice to help you navigate the complexities of adolescence with confidence.Each week, we dive into topics ranging from the inner workings of the teenage brain to effective communication strategies and emotional intelligence. Our goal is to equip you with the tools and knowledge to foster strong, positive relationships with your teens and make these pivotal years both enjoyable and impactful.Whether you’re seeking guidance on handling challenging situations, tips for supporting your teen’s growth, or simply a fresh perspective on parenting, "Let's Talk Teens"</
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