Life as a Gringo

What does it really mean to be “the man”? In many Latino communities—and beyond—men are taught that having lots of sexual partners is proof of status, strength, and masculinity. In this special episode, Dramos unpacks that toxic message, sharing personal stories about chasing validation, peer pressure, and the role of machismo culture in shaping harmful expectations. He explores why this obsession with “numbers” can lead to dishonesty, emptiness, and broken trust, and why true masculinity means respect, empathy, and protecting the people you’re intimate with—including their sexual health. Dramos also gets real about what he’s learned from his own past, and why having tough, honest conversations is the foundation of healthy relationships and healthy sexuality.   This episode is brought to you by Healthysexual from Gilead Sciences.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Growing up in a Latino household, real conversations about sex often felt one-sided—or didn’t happen at all. In this special episode, Dramos opens up about how that silence made it harder to talk openly with friends and partners about sex, intimacy, and boundaries. He explores the fears and cultural pressures that make these talks intimidating, from worries about inexperience to the weight of tradition. Dramos also shares why learning to be vulnerable with peers and partners is so important for sexual health and building real trust. From navigating dating and safe sex to getting tested regularly, this episode breaks down why these “hard conversations” matter—and how having them can help protect yourself and others, emotionally and physically.   This episode is brought to you by Healthysexual from Gilead Sciences.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Cultural taboos around sex and sexuality run deep in many Latino households, often shutting down important conversations before they even start. In this special episode, Dramos opens up about how religion, gender roles, and family expectations shaped his own understanding of sexual health—or lack of it. He explores how these cultural norms can leave young people unprepared, misinformed, and anxious about their own well-being. Plus, Dramos shares what he wishes he'd learned growing up, why sexual health is about so much more than just sex, and how we can start having the hard conversations to better support the next generation.   This episode is brought to you by Healthysexual from Gilead Sciences.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

After over three years, Life as a Gringo comes to a close. In this final episode, Dramos reflects on the journey—from launching the show as a passion project to building a platform that gave a voice to the unheard. He opens up about the personal growth, the lessons learned, the community built, and why it’s time to turn the page. Plus, he answers listener questions, sharing what’s next and how this ending is really just the beginning of a new chapter.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Bad Bunny's Debí Tirar Más Fotos World Tour is selling out fast, proving once again that Latino artists are dominating the global stage. This week, we dive into what his massive success means for representation and cultural power. We also spotlight how Latina moms are being celebrated this Mother's Day—not just with gifts, but with recognition for their strength, wisdom, and the iconic phrases that shaped us. And in political news, George Santos has been sentenced to 87 months in prison, closing the chapter on one of the most bizarre fraud cases in recent memory.   https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/news/george-santos-sentenced-87-months/ https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/entertainment/bad-bunny-world-tour-us-canada/ https://fiercebymitu.com/beauty-and-style/latina-moms-shine-bright/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

One week away from the series finale, Dramos takes a moment to reflect on the wild ride that has been Life as a Gringo—from its early beginnings during the pandemic to becoming a platform for unfiltered truth, cultural pride, and connection. He opens up about how the show helped him find his voice, reconnect with his roots, and build a community that felt seen. As he prepares to close this chapter, Dramos shares what he’s learned, what he’s leaving behind, and what’s next in the evolution of his journey.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Three U.S. citizen children were deported—one with stage 4 cancer—while Trump downplays the fallout in a chaotic ABC interview. His national security adviser resigns over a Signal scandal. Women are quietly signaling a recession through canceled appointments and DIY beauty. And Yale launches a Bad Bunny course that’s really about Puerto Rico, colonialism, and cultural power. https://www.msnbc.com/rachel-maddow-show/maddowblog/trump-abrego-garcia-ms-13-abc-news-interview-rcna203688 https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/news/children-citizens-deported/ https://www.msnbc.com/rachel-maddow-show/maddowblog/mike-waltz-out-trump-national-security-adviser-signal-chat-rcna204115 https://fiercebymitu.com/work-and-money/women-spending-recession-signal/ https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/entertainment/bad-bunny-course-at-yale/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this solo episode, Dramos recaps everything we uncovered during Financial Literacy Month—from building wealth without generational money to healing from financial trauma and learning how to shift from survival mode to long-term stability. Whether you’re just starting your money journey or trying to level up, this one’s all about the real talk they don’t teach us: mindset shifts, money mistakes, and what financial freedom actually looks like for our community.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Trump says tariffs on China are coming down, but not disappearing, as major retailers push back against rising costs. Meanwhile, a prisoner swap proposal between Latin American leaders stirs international tension, and a viral debate has Gen Z women asking: is marriage still a good deal? Plus, Pedro Pascal makes a bold statement for trans rights without saying a word.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

For Financial Literacy Month, this week’s episode is with Rita-Soledad Fernández Paulino, former public school math teacher and founder of Wealth Para Todos. Soledad breaks down how she and her husband are on track to retire by 45—not through flashy schemes, but by shifting from survival mode to long-term wealth planning. We talk about the power of financial education in our communities, how Latinos can build wealth without coming from money, and why self-care isn’t just about spa days—it’s about building the life you actually want, one smart decision at a time. Instagram: @wealthparatodos https://wealthparatodos.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What happens when power is ignored, abused, or taken back? In this episode, we break down the deportation of Kilmar Abrego Garcia—a Maryland man sent to a Salvadoran mega-prison despite a court ruling protecting him—and the Trump administration’s outright refusal to comply with a Supreme Court order. Meanwhile, Puerto Rico faces yet another massive blackout, leaving millions without power and prompting artists like Bad Bunny to speak out. And at Coachella, Latino artists are showing up stronger than ever, reclaiming the spotlight on one of music’s biggest stages. From government defiance to cultural power moves, we explore what resistance looks like across courts, islands, and festival stages. https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/news/kilmar-abrego-garcia-deportation-fight-explainer/ https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/entertainment/bad-bunny-puerto-rico-blackout-callout/ https://www.latimes.com/delos/story/2025-04-10/latino-acts-coachella-2025-junior-h-ivan-cornejo-the-marias-rawayana-ca7riel-paco-amorosoSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As part of Financial Literacy Month, we're breaking down the real story behind the gig economy with award-winning leadership consultant Dr. Nika White. From side hustles that build long-term wealth to the burnout and instability that come with hustle culture, this episode explores how people of color are redefining success.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, we dive into a series of heavy-hitting stories shaping our communities: the tragic collapse of Jet Set nightclub in the Dominican Republic that killed over 100 people—including music legend Rubby Pérez and former MLB players—raising urgent questions about safety and accountability. We also unpack a major shift in U.S. immigration policy as the IRS agrees to share taxpayer data with ICE, a move that could send shockwaves through immigrant communities. Plus, we break down the economic chaos following Trump’s latest tariff hikes on China, the record-breaking rise of Latin music in 2024, and why Bad Bunny’s Tiny Desk concert became a powerful love letter to Puerto Rico.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

As a part of Financial Literacy Month, Dramos is joined by Dr. Paul Rivera—co-founder of BeActChange and a man whose journey spans academia, diplomacy, international economics, and strategic coaching. We dive into the harsh realities behind the so-called “American Dream,” especially for Latinos. From financial stress to mental health struggles, we unpack the hidden costs of chasing success in the U.S. and explore whether it’s all even worth it. Dr. Rivera shares his perspective as someone who left the U.S. to start a new life in the Dominican Republic with his family, offering a fresh lens on what real success can look like when you step outside the box and reject the hustle-at-all-costs mindset.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

To kick off Financial Literacy Month, we’re joined by stand-up comedian and Creative Director of Mente World, Luis Galilei. Beyond the laughs, Luis has been on the frontlines of mutual aid work in New York, helping shift the narrative around mental health by first addressing the basic needs of our communities. Mente is building spaces where young Americans can find connection and healing amid the mental health crisis. In this episode, we dive into how financial hardships—from childhood struggles to adult money trauma—shape our mental wellbeing, and how breaking free from limiting beliefs can be a path toward both financial and emotional freedom.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We start with the Alien Enemies Act of 1798—a centuries-old law that’s suddenly back in the conversation. What does it mean, and how could it impact immigrants today? Then, we dive into the rift between Senate Democrats, as Michael Bennet openly criticizes Chuck Schumer’s leadership—what’s behind the tension, and what does it mean for the party moving forward? We also tackle a hard truth: undocumented immigrants pay billions in taxes while billionaires dodge them—how does the system keep letting this happen? Bad Bunny breaking the internet and finally, we’re celebrating Becky G’s latest win as she becomes the first Latina to receive the Pionera award at the Latino Sports Awards, proving once again that she's more than just a music star. https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/news/alien-enemies-act-1978-explainer/ https://thehill.com/homenews/senate/5205304-michael-bennet-chuck-schumer-senate-democrats/ https://fiercebymitu.com/news/undocumented-immigrants-taxes-vs-billionaires/ https://fiercebymitu.com/news/becky-g-pionera-award-latinos-sports/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Success isn’t built in the spotlight—it’s forged in the quiet, uncelebrated grind. In this episode, we dive into the reality of doing the work day in and day out with no immediate results. Kevin Hart talks about how the hardest part of success is showing up every day, even when it feels like nothing is happening. But that’s the price of greatness—patience, discipline, and trust in the process. Because when the moment finally comes, the euphoria of achievement will always outweigh the pain it took to get there. Are you willing to put in the work when no one is watching?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos dives into trending stories including Mahmoud Khalil, a Columbia University protester, is now facing deportation after being targeted for his activism—raising serious questions about free speech and immigration rights. Meanwhile, a racist realtor got fired after celebrating mass deportations online (instant karma). We also get into the latest on Yolanda Saldívar’s possible parole—could Selena’s killer actually walk free? Plus, The Office star Oscar Nuñez is making a comeback, and Bad Bunny is using his music to highlight history and resistance with La Mudanza.   https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/news/marco-rubio-visa-green-card-holders/ https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/news/racist-realtor-fired-trump-deportation/ https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/news/yolanda-saldivar-parole-march/ https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/entertainment/oscar-nunez-returns-the-office-peacock-series/ https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/entertainment/bad-bunny-resistance-history-la-mudanza/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, I’m revisiting a talk I gave at the Just Be Social Club mastermind, breaking down one of the biggest roadblocks we all face—bringing our ideas to life. Too often, we wait for the perfect moment, the right connections, or a clear path forward. But the truth is, the key to success is to be in constant creation. When you keep moving, keep building, and put your ideas out into the world, the right opportunities, people, and bridges will find you.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, we break down the latest in Latino entertainment and politics, from Nicky Jam rethinking his past support for Trump to Daddy Yankee facing a $250 million lawsuit that could impact his legacy. We also dive into reports that Trump allegedly considered making Puerto Rico independent to avoid U.S. financial responsibility and celebrate Zoe Saldaña’s historic Oscars win for Emilia Pérez, a moment of recognition for Latino stories in Hollywood.   https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/entertainment/nicky-jam-trump-comments/ https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/entertainment/daddy-yankee-250-million-lawsuit/ https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14470559/Trump-pressured-make-Puerto-Rico-independent-save-America-eye-watering-617-billion.html https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/entertainment/zoe-saldana-oscars-apology-emilia-perez/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

We grew up believing in the American Dream—the idea that if you work hard enough, you’ll own a home, build wealth, and create a better life. But for many of us, especially as children of immigrants, that dream feels further out of reach than ever. With skyrocketing housing costs, stagnant wages, and an economy that seems stacked against us, is the American Dream even real? Or is it time to redefine success on our own terms? In this episode, we break down the myths, the realities, and what it means to build a future that actually works for us.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Is the White House shutting down press access like never before? Plus, new ICE data shows a surprising trend in arrests—what does it mean for undocumented communities? Also, Trump’s got a new $5 million 'gold card' plan for high-level immigrants—who benefits, and who’s left out? And we wrap up with Zoe Saldaña’s major awards season moment—could she be making history? https://www.msnbc.com/rachel-maddow-show/maddowblog/white-house-takes-another-unprecedented-step-control-press-access-pool-rcna193867 https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/news/ice-undocumented-arrest-no-criminal-record/ https://www.msnbc.com/rachel-maddow-show/maddowblog/trump-eyes-5-million-gold-card-plan-high-level-immigrants-rcna193815 https://www.hola.com/us/celebrities/20250226816773/zoe-saldana-oscar-win-tradition/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week, I’m sharing a dope convo I had on the My First Kicks podcast.. We got into my journey—from rocking kicks as a kid in NYC to working at The Breakfast Club, launching Life as a Gringo, and making the jump from band life to where I am now. Plus, I show off some of my favorite sneakers and drop a few stories you won’t hear anywhere else.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, we break down the chaos at the National Nuclear Security Administration, where mass firings put U.S. nuclear safety at risk, and the tragic story of a young girl driven to suicide after classmates threatened to call ICE. Plus, AOC takes on immigration hardliners without backing down.   https://www.msnbc.com/opinion/msnbc-opinion/elon-musk-doge-nuclear-safety-weapons-danger-rcna192661 https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/news/ice-threats-texas-middle-school-suicide/ https://www.msnbc.com/opinion/msnbc-opinion/aoc-tom-homan-immigration-deportation-latino-voters-rcna192616See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Some of the most legendary comebacks in history came from people who refused to stay in one lane. Kobe Bryant went from NBA icon to Oscar-winning storyteller. Steve Jobs got fired from his own company, only to return and change the world with the iPhone. Robert Downey Jr. went from Hollywood outcast to Iron Man, leading the biggest movie franchise of all time. Reinvention isn’t just about bouncing back—it’s about leveling up. If you’ve ever felt like it’s too late to start over, this episode will change your mind.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos breaks down the latest on Elon Musk and the threats he poses to this country, Google’s surprising move to appease Trump by altering its maps, raising big questions about corporate influence on politics, ICE impersonators are on the rise, and to lighten things up, a list of must-watch Latino-led films for Valentine’s Day.   https://www.msnbc.com/opinion/msnbc-opinion/musk-trump-tesla-openai-doge-democrats-rcna191563 https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/news/gulf-of-mexico-google-changes/ https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/news/ice-impersonations-rising-arrests/ https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/entertainment/latino-led-flims-valentines-day/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

When the biggest stage is in front of you, do you play to the crowd or stay true to yourself? Kendrick Lamar’s Super Bowl halftime show wasn’t about flashy gimmicks or trying to please everyone—it was a pure Kendrick Lamar performance. In this episode, Dramos breaks down why his decision to stay authentically him is a lesson for all of us. Whether in your career, relationships, or personal growth, the real win comes from showing up as yourself, no matter the stage.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos dives into trending stories including how Elon Musk is orchestrating a massive government downsizing, offering federal workers a “once-in-a-lifetime” payout to resign—but is it really a golden parachute, or a loyalty test with hidden consequences? Meanwhile, Trump floats the idea of flattening Gaza and rebuilding it from scratch, pushing the Overton Window on global conflict. Google quietly lifts its ban on AI-powered weapons, opening the door to a future where machines make life-or-death decisions. And Gen Z Latinos are walking away from dating apps, choosing real-life connections over algorithms. https://apnews.com/article/buyout-offer-deadline-trump-federal-workers-ce854b19c41b90cd657f75cf09511e96 https://www.msnbc.com/opinion/msnbc-opinion/trump-gaza-takeover-window-overton-window-rcna190895 https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cy081nqx2zjo https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/culture/gen-z-ditching-dating-apps-for-real-connections/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, I’m sharing a conversation from my guest appearance on the Grow My DJ Business Podcast, where I got to nerd out about my passion for music with two close DJ friends. We dive deep into the art, culture, and business of DJing, but more than anything, it’s a reminder to allow yourself to get lost in what you love. Whether you’re a DJ, creative, or just someone chasing a dream, this episode is about embracing the things that fuel you and letting passion be your guide.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Selena Gomez faced backlash after expressing empathy for immigrants impacted by mass deportations, with a politician even suggesting she should be deported herself. In other news, a Blackhawk helicopter collided with an American Airlines plane over Washington, D.C., raising safety concerns, and designer Willy Chavarria made waves at Paris Fashion Week, bringing Chicano culture to the global stage. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Inspired by The Happy High Achiever, this episode explores the hidden struggles of high achievers, from burnout to self-worth tied to success. Learn how to redefine success, find balance, and create joy in your journey.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos deep dives into trending stories from the week including Trump's first week and what it means for immigrants, an update on the tourist who set fire to businesses in Puerto Rico, Bad Bunny accomplishing ANOTHER crazy feat and more! https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/news/trump-executive-orders-immigration-day-one/ https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/news/know-your-rights-undocumented-protection/ https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/news/white-missouri-woman-puerto-rico-fire-federal-charges/ https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/news/trump-executive-orders-immigration-day-one/ https://www.rollingstone.com/product-recommendations/lifestyle/how-to-buy-bad-bunny-residency-tickets-online-2025-puerto-rico-1235244062/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos shares a powerful interview he recently re-disovered from 2020 with Hip Hop artist Andy Mineo that really shifted his mindset. They discuss rejecting materialism, ownership, faith, legacy and more! See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos deep dives into trending stories including Meta's new policies on misinformation and hate speech, Biden gives his final presidential address, Peso Pluma alleged cartel connection, Mexican firefights arrive in Los Angeles and more! https://www.msnbc.com/opinion/msnbc-opinion/meta-zuckerberg-trans-lgbtq-hate-speech-rcna187696 https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/entertainment/peso-pluma-money-laundering-cartel-accusations/ https://www.msnbc.com/opinion/msnbc-opinion/biden-farewell-address-oval-office-rcna187851 https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/news/mexicos-firefighters-aid-la-wildfires/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos deep dives into messages from Bad Bunny's new album that we can apply to our lives.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos dives into trending stories from the week including the Los Angeles fires, Trump's crazy plans, a tourist who set fire to businesses in Puerto Rico, Bad Bunny drops the album of his career and more!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos talks about the importance of having a theme for your year and the value in setting intentions over goals.  Calm Article: https://www.calm.com/blog/setting-intentionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos dives into trending stories from the last week including AOC failing short to land a new position, a school shooting in Wisconsin, some good news for Puerto Rico's power grid and more! https://www.thedailybeast.com/progressives-up-in-arms-after-aoc-loses-key-committee-seat/ https://www.jsonline.com/story/news/nation/2024/12/18/madison-wisconsin-school-shooting-investigation-california/77077444007/ https://finance.yahoo.com/news/luma-announces-contract-launch-next-134500655.html  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos reflects on the lessons hes taken from the last year, talks about reconnecting with yourself and how achieving goals is just a series of recomittments to ones self.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos deep dives into trending stories from the week including an update from the murder case of the United Health Care CEO, Selena Gomez getting criticized for her Spanish, how to survive the holidays, Juan Soto's big pay day and more!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos discusses a mindset that we must develop in order to not only surive this thing called life, but to eventually thrive in it.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos dives into the biggest story of the week, the assasination of United Healthcare's CEO and what this means about societies growing frustration with the wealth gap, he also talks about Spotify's 2025 wrapped and how Latin artists are dominating globally! https://www.eonline.com/news/1410780/united-healthcare-ceo-murder-case-suspect-wrote-phrases-on-shell-casings-police-say   https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/entertainment/spotify-wrapped-2024-latino-artists-dominate/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos discusses the importance of staying connected to your culture and the positive effect it has on the self-esteem of children and adults.   https://www.cofc.com.au/foster-kinship-care/staying-connected-to-culture/the-importance-of-staying-connected-to-cultureSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos deep dives into trending stories form this last week including new stats about how Latino's voted, Los Angeles protecting its status as a sanctuary city, Puerto Rico trying to hold Luma accounatble and more!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos shares a discussion around checking your limiting beliefs, how we can fool ourselves into not trying, how we often self-sabotage by not beleiving in ourselves and more!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos deep dives into trending stories from the week including Trump's upcoming staff, comedian Kill Tony addressing his joke about Puerto Rico, the drama surrounding Karol G's new song, Latino's in congress and more!   https://www.msnbc.com/top-stories/latest/matt-gaetz-resigns-congress-house-ethics-report-trump-rcna180113 https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/politics/elections/2024/11/12/trump-hires-elon-musk/76199958007/ https://www.politico.com/news/2024/11/12/trump-puerto-rico-garbage-msg-00189038 https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/entertainment/blessd-ryan-castro-defend-57/ https://www.usatoday.com/story/entertainment/music/2024/11/11/karol-g-apology-57-lyric-backlash/76208317007/ https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/news/latino-reps-heading-to-d-c-heres-the-state-by-state-rundown/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos reacts to the results of the election with takeaways, feelings of how to move forward and more!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos shares a personal revelation he had about our blessings often coming in ways that are unexpected and easy to miss.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos dives into the racist remarks made at a recent Trump rally, Kamala Harris' plan for Puerto Rico, Bad Bunny's endorsement and more!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dramos deep dives into trending stories from the week including new allegations against Donald Trump, a push to end Puerto Rico's status as a tax haven for the rich, Selena gets a new honor and more! https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/news/trump-allegedly-refused-to-pay-for-vanessa-guillen-funeral/ https://news.bloomberglaw.com/daily-tax-report-state/house-democrats-renew-effort-against-puerto-rico-tax-incentive https://wearemitu.com/wearemitu/entertainment/selena-quintanilla-national-medal-of-arts/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.