Life Lived Better

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,In this episode, we are discussing - LossYou can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know. Email us at ⁠⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠ We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

They are back!!! Joseph and Paula return with a long episode to discuss how making friends as an adult can feel surprisingly difficult. Between busy schedules, life transitions, past hurts, social anxiety, and the fear of rejection, many people quietly wonder why connection feels harder than it used to.In this episode, Paula and Joseph explore the emotional reality of adult friendship—why it matters, what gets in the way, and how meaningful connection can still be built at any stage of life. They discuss loneliness, vulnerability, boundaries, friendship changes, and the courage it takes to reach out.Whether you are starting over, rebuilding your social circle, navigating a new season of life, or simply wanting deeper friendships, this conversation offers practical encouragement and compassionate insight.Because friendship is not just something we find—it is something we build.Questions? If you have questions, you would like Joseph and Paula to address during an upcoming episode of Questions for Counselors, feel free to reach out through the website at www.lifelivedbetter.net or email them directly at [email protected]    You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: www.lifelivedbetter.net.    Just a reminder - Anything shared during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice - it is solely our opinion. Information shared does not represent our employers or profession.  We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us.  And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.   Resources used to create the episodes on this topic: How to Make Friends as an Adult: The Complete 2025 Guide - Feelset 7 Secrets to Making Friends as an Adult | Psychology Today How to Make Friends as an Adult (Science-Backed Tips) How to Make Friends as an Adult How To Make New Friends as an Adult: 102 Ways to Try - Parade 

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,In this episode, we are discussing - The Psychology of Happiness. You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know. Email us at ⁠[email protected]⁠ We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,In this episode, we are discussing - Mental Health and Nutrition. You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know. Email us at [email protected] We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,In this episode, we are discussing - Healing Requires AccountabilityYou can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know. Email us at [email protected] would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us.And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,In this episode, we are discussing - Not Everything Needs to be Healed!You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know.We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,In this episode, we are discussing - Healing isn't always peaceful!You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know.We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

In this episode, Joseph and Paula explore ibogaine, an increasingly discussed and controversial substance in addiction treatment. They break down what ibogaine is, what it claims to do, and the current realities surrounding its use, including risks, legal status, and ethical considerations. With a focus on both curiosity and caution, this conversation invites counselors and listeners alike to think critically about emerging treatments and the evolving landscape of recovery. Questions? If you have questions, you would like Joseph and Paula to address during an upcoming episode of Questions for Counselors, feel free to reach out through the website at www.lifelivedbetter.net or email them directly at [email protected]    You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: www.lifelivedbetter.net.    Just a reminder - Anything shared during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice - it is solely our opinion. Information shared does not represent our employers or profession.  We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us.  And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.   Resources used to create this episode: ANR Clinic - Advanced Opioid Dependency Treatment Centers Frontiers | Ibogaine Detoxification Transitions Opioid and Cocaine Abusers Between Dependence and Abstinence: Clinical Observations and Treatment Outcomes Ibogaine - Partnership to End Addiction Psychoactive drug ibogaine effectively treats traumatic brain injury in special ops military vets Safety of ibogaine administration in detoxification of opioid‐dependent individuals: a descriptive open‐label observational study - PMC Study Details | NCT05029401 | A Study of Oral Ibogaine in Opioid Withdrawal | ClinicalTrials.gov Trump takes page out of Texas lawmakers' book, signs executive order on ibogaine UTHealth Houston, in collaboration with UTMB Health, awarded $50 million by the state of Texas to lead ibogaine clinical trials - UTHealth Houston 

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,In this episode, we are discussing - You can't manifest your way out of trauma!You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know.We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

This episode marks the closing conversation in our series on addiction — and it’s a little different from previous discussions.Throughout this series, Joseph and Paula have explored addiction from many angles: what it is, what it isn’t, how it develops, and why it is so often misunderstood. But some of the most important aspects of addiction don’t fit neatly into a single topic.In this episode, Joseph and Paula take a deeper, more integrated look at the lived realities of addiction and recovery.They unpack one of the most emotionally charged concepts in recovery: relapse. The conversation explores how the meaning we attach to relapse can shape outcomes — influencing shame, resilience, disengagement, or growth.They also take a look at cravings, urge and the neurobiological, emotional, and psychological layers that make urges feel urgent, intrusive, and often misunderstood by others.Joseph and Paula then turn their attention to the brain itself. Together, they explore how addiction involves competing brain systems, habit circuitry, reward pathways, stress responses, and emotional regulation — revealing why insight alone is rarely enough to change behavior.Throughout the episode, listeners are invited into a more compassionate, realistic understanding of addiction, recovery, setbacks, and resilience.As always, this conversation blends clinical insight with real-world understanding — offering clarity for those navigating recovery and for those supporting someone they love.Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠I⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Resources for this episode: Drugs, Brains, and Behavior: The Science of Addiction: Preface | NIDAThe CENAPS Model by Terry GorskiSAMHSA - Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,In this episode, we are discussing - Changing Procrastination!You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know.We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

An old listener favorite! Episode 29: Boundaries. Back when the hosts were still green but eager. Feeling suffocated? Intruded upon? You may be having your boundaries violated. In this episode, Joseph and Paula talk about boundaries - what they are, the reason they are needed, and how to set them. If you have a question, you would like Joseph and Paula to answer during an episode of Questions for Counselors, feel free to reach out through the website at ⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠ or email them directly at ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠  You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠.  Paula’s Blog is often updated with information from the show. You can find it at ⁠PaulaHellerGarland.BlogSpot.com⁠  Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession. We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better. 

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,In this episode, we are discussing - Defining Procrastination!You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know.We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

Loving Without Enabling: Supporting Someone Through AddictionIn this episode of their series on addiction, Joseph and Paula focus on enabling—one of the most misunderstood and emotionally complex dynamics surrounding substance use. Because addiction remains highly stigmatized, this conversation is rooted in providing clarity, compassion, and accurate information rather than blame.The hosts explore the structural necessity for addiction to be enabled and examine how enabling addiction stabilizes the addiction just enough to prevent change. Questions? If you have a question, you would like Joseph and Paula to answer during an episode of Questions for Counselors, feel free to reach out through the website at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠or email them directly at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [email protected]   ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And don’t forget that Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Resources used in the development of this episode: Addicted.org - Supporting vs. Enabling: How to Help Someone with Addiction EffectivelySequoia Behavioral Health - Codependency vs. Enabling WebMD - Are you enabling a loved one’s addiction? 

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,In this episode, we are discussing - Professional Networking!You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know.We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

Addiction - Impact, Treatment, and SupportAddiction is often misunderstood, surrounded by stigma, and deeply complex. In this episode, Joseph and Paula are reflecting on their professional and personal experiences to shed light on the realities of addiction—what it is, what it isn’t, and how we can better support those affected by it.Join us as we discuss:The facts about addiction and why it is not just about willpowerThe common misconceptions about addictionThe impact addiction has on the individual and their loved onesEffective treatment approaches Some of the pathways to recovery How to offer support without enabling Whether you or someone you love has been affected by addiction, or you simply want to understand it better, this episode is for you. Tune in for an open and compassionate conversation that challenges myths and encourages healing.Listen now, and don’t forget to subscribe and share—this is a conversation that could change lives!Questions? If you have a question, you would like Joseph and Paula to answer during an episode of Questions for Counselors, feel free to reach out through the website at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email them directly at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [email protected]  ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Sources used in the development of this episode include:The Top 10 Things You Need to Know About Addiction - Self RecoverySubstance Use Statistics Sources NIH: Global Burden of Drug use disorder SAMHSA’s Statistics about Addiction in the USAThe Economist World Report 2024World Health Organization Reports Over 3 million annual deaths related to addiction Worldwide Treatment versus Need for Treatment 

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,In this episode, we are discussing - Digital Detox!You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know. We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

Addiction - More Than a PersonalityTheir series on addiction continues with this episode where the hosts explore whether the idea of an “addictive personality” is real and what actually drives addiction. Joseph and Paula review global and U.S. addiction statistics:​Tens of millions worldwide have drug use disorders.​Hundreds of millions have alcohol use disorders.​Combined, hundreds of millions globally meet criteria for substance use disorders, contributing to over 3 million deaths annually.​In the U.S., about 1 in 6 people aged 12+ meet criteria for substance use disorder each year.Despite the scale of the problem, treatment access is extremely limited:The key takeaway: most people who don’t receive treatment are not refusing help—they are scared, overwhelmed, unsupported, or stuck in survival mode. Addiction is complex, human, and deeply tied to both emotional pain and systemic barriers, not a flawed personality.Listen now, and don’t forget to subscribe and share—this is a conversation that could change lives!Questions? If you have a question, you would like Joseph and Paula to answer during an episode of Questions for Counselors, feel free to reach out through the website at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email them directly at⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ [email protected]  ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Sources used in the development of this episode include:The Top 10 Things You Need to Know About Addiction - Self RecoverySubstance Use Statistics Sources NIH: Global Burden of Drug use disorder SAMHSA’s Statistics about Addiction in the USAThe Economist World Report 2024World Health Organization Reports Over 3 million annual deaths related to addiction Worldwide Treatment versus Need for Treatment 

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,In this episode, we are discussing - how mindfulness can support our mental health.You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know. We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

We are honored to announce that we are the official podcast of the 2026 DFW Behavioral Health Symposium.That means we will be at the symposium - in person—joining clinicians, educators, and behavioral health professionals from across the region.The symposium is March 25 through the 28th, 2026.We will have the opportunity to meet all of you who attend, and we will be recording on-site, doing spontaneous interviews, having real conversations, and even broadcasting directly from the conference floor.If you haven’t registered yet, go to their website and get that taken care of - DFW BHS. While you are there, come find us to say hello. You might even find yourself behind the mic.And if you can’t attend, don’t worry—we’ll be bringing the conversations, insights, some speakers, and the energy of the symposium straight to you through the podcast.Join us at the DFW Behavioral Health Symposium at the DFW SHERATON AIRPORT HOTEL in Irving and keep listening to the Life Lived Better podcast—where learning, connection, and professional growth come together.And don’t forget that Knowledge Leads to a Life Lived Better. 

Addiction Series, Part 1: Separating fact from fiction.In the first episode of their series on addiction, Joseph and Paula dig into one of the most important topics they explore on the show: addiction — what it really is, what it isn’t, and why compassion matters so much. They break down common misconceptions, unpack the ongoing debate about whether addiction is a disease, and explore the many factors that contribute to it, including brain changes, genetics, trauma, environment, and social influences. Above all, the hosts emphasize that addiction is not a moral failing, but a complex human condition — and that recovery is absolutely possible.They will continue the conversation in the next episode as they look deeper into the important aspects of addiction, recovery, support, and what healing can truly look like.Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠I⁠[email protected]⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Resources for this episode: Addiction Center: Definitions Of Addiction: Historical Views Versus Today’s ViewsCleveland Clinic: What Causes Addiction? Psychology Today: The 10 Most Common Myths About Addiction 

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,In this episode, we are discussing - Sitting with Uncomfortable Feelings - without fixing them!You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know. We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

In this episode of The Life Lived Better Podcast, Joseph and Paula dive into the fascinating world of attachment styles and explore how the patterns we learned early in life shape the way we connect, communicate, and build relationships today. Join us as we break down the four major attachment styles—secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized—and discuss what each one looks like in adulthood.The co-hosts will talk through how these styles develop, the common traits associated with each, and the subtle ways they show up in modern relationships. You’ll also learn how to identify your own attachment style, the physical and emotional cues to look for, and practical steps you can take to move toward a more secure, grounded way of relating.Whether you’re curious about your patterns, navigating a relationship dynamic, or simply exploring personal growth, this episode offers insight, clarity, and empowering tools. Tune in to deepen your understanding of yourself and the people you love.Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected] ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Resources used or mentioned in this episodeBlah, Blah, Blog Entry: Attachment Styles QuizThe Attachment Project The Attachment Project: Learn Attachment Theory from ExpertsVerywell Mind Can Your Attachment Style Change? Verywell Mind What is Emotional Attachment and Whether Yours Is Healthy 

In this episode, Joseph and Paula are diving into one of the most discussed mental health topics of our time: ADHD — and the increasingly common question, “Do I have ADHD, or am I just overwhelmed?”With constant notifications, fast-paced routines, and pressure to stay plugged in, many of us struggle to focus. We break down what ADHD actually is, how it differs from everyday distraction, and why modern life makes concentration so challenging. We’ll talk through symptoms, the diagnostic process, when it may be time to seek support, and the surprising ways ADHD shows up differently in children and adults.Paula shares her own ADHD experience, including what life looked like before her diagnosis, while Joseph walks us through eye-opening statistics and clinical definitions that help bring clarity to a confusing topic.We also explore situational distraction—the temporary, environment-based overstimulation so many people mistake for ADHD—and how to tell the difference. From tracking your personal patterns to understanding lifelong traits, we offer insight into when distraction might be something deeper.To help you manage focus in a busy world, we share practical tools anyone can use: environmental tweaks, body and mind practices, digital boundaries, the Pomodoro technique, and habits backed by Harvard Business Review research. You’ll learn about energy patterns, active listening, meaningful breaks, and strategies for emotional regulation.At the heart of this episode is a simple truth: understanding your brain is an act of self-awareness, not weakness. When you recognize your limits, strengths, and patterns, you can work with your mind—not against it.Whether you live with ADHD, think you might, or just feel chronically distracted, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and actionable support to help you move through your days with more focus and ease.Resources used or mentioned in this episode: Adult ADHD: The Latest & Greatest Stats for 2025Data and Statistics on ADHD | Attention-Deficit / Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) | CDCThe Pomodoro Technique — Why it works & how to do it7 Habits to Stay Focused in a World Full of Distractions from the Harvard Business Review

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,In this episode, we are discussing - The Impact Social Media Has on Mental Health. You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know. We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

The Life Lived Better Podcast will return next Thursday.In this New Year message, Life Lived Better welcomes listeners into 2026 with warmth, encouragement, and hope. We reflect on growth—not by becoming a “new you,” but by gently becoming more of who you already are. This year, the podcast will dive into topics like burnout recovery, confidence after setbacks, self-compassion, boundaries, nervous system regulation, healthy routines, relationships, purpose, and staying grounded when life feels uncertain. The goal? To offer a soft place to land and remind you that small steps forward truly matter. Here’s to presence over perfection, gentle expectations, and another year of living life a little better. Happy New Year! ⁠⁠The Life Lived Better Podcast Website

As we move through this holiday season, we just want to take a moment to thank you for being here with us. No matter what you celebrate—or if this time of year feels joyful, complicated, quiet, or heavy—we hope you find small moments of peace, connection, and rest. Thank you for listening, for showing up for yourself, and for being part of this community. We’re wishing you warmth, kindness, and a gentle close to the year, and we’re so grateful to carry these conversations with you into the days ahead.The Life Lived Better Podcast thanks you for being part of our community. And again - Happy Holidays!⁠The Life Lived Better Podcast Website

In this heartfelt episode of The Life Lived Better Podcast, Joseph and Paula explore one of the most challenging — yet most transformative — aspects of emotional healing: forgiveness. Whether it’s forgiving someone who hurt you or learning to forgive yourself, this conversation unpacks why forgiveness matters, what holds us back, and how to move toward freedom and peace.In this episode, you’ll discover:The psychology of forgiveness and why it’s vital for mental, emotional, and physical healthThe emotional weight of holding onto anger, resentment, or guilt — and how it affects stress, relationships, and self-worthCommon myths that make forgiveness harder (“Forgiving means forgetting,” “If I forgive, it means it’s okay”)Why self-forgiveness is often more difficult than forgiving others — and how to begin the process with compassionThe stages of forgiveness: awareness, processing emotions, setting boundaries, and releaseHow boundaries and forgiveness can coexist, allowing healing without tolerating harmThrough practical tools like journaling prompts, therapy, and mindfulness, Joseph and Paula guide listeners toward a balanced understanding: forgiveness isn’t about excusing the past — it’s about releasing its hold on your future.Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠I⁠[email protected] ⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Resources for this episode: 24 Forgiveness Activities, Exercises, Tips and WorksheetsForgiveness can improve mental and physical healthForgiveness: Letting go of grudges and bitterness - Mayo ClinicThe power of forgiveness - Harvard Health

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,In this episode, we are discussing - Burnout. You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know. We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

In this episode of The Life Lived Better Podcast, Joseph and Paula slow things down to talk about something nearly all of us face this time of year: holiday stress. While the season promises joy, connection, and celebration, it often brings pressure, overwhelm, and exhaustion instead. You’re not alone—research shows that nearly 9 in 10 Americans feel stressed during the holidays, and for many, emotional well-being takes a hit.Paula and Joseph unpack why the holidays can feel so heavy—family expectations, financial strain, loneliness, grief, overpacked schedules, workplace pressure, and the myth of the “perfect” season. They also explore how mental health conditions, substance use challenges, and seasonal depression can intensify this time of year.But this episode isn’t just about naming the stress—it’s about easing it. Drawing from expert guidance and real-life experience, your hosts share practical strategies for navigating the season with more intention and compassion. You’ll hear helpful tips on setting boundaries, simplifying travel, mindful gift giving, staying grounded with food and alcohol choices, protecting your time, honoring grief, and reaching out for support when you need it.Whether the holidays fill you with excitement, dread, or a complicated mix of both, this conversation is here to help you breathe a little easier. The season doesn’t have to drain you—it can still fill you up, one conscious choice at a time.Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected] ⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Resources used or mentioned in this episode10 tips to reduce stress and take care of yourself during the holidays | Cultivating Health | UC Davis Health4 Mindful Tips to De-Stress This Holiday Season | Johns Hopkins Medicine16 Easy Tips to Relieve Stress and Reduce Anxiety9 Causes of Holiday Stress and How to Manage Them 

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,In this episode, we are discussing - Comparison. You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know. We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

It is Thanksgiving Day in the United States. The Life Lived Better Podcast will return next Thursday with a new episode. This Thanksgiving, we want to take a moment to express our gratitude—to our listeners, our followers, and everyone on the journey of living better every day. Your curiosity, openness, and willingness to grow inspire us to keep exploring the topics that matter most: wellness, resilience, relationships, and living life fully.As you gather with loved ones (or take some quiet time for yourself), we hope your day is filled with warmth, laughter, and a mindful appreciation of the small moments that make life meaningful.The Life Lived Better Podcast thanks you for being part of our community. And again - Happy Thanksgiving!The Life Lived Better Podcast Website

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,In this episode, we are discussing - Grief & Loss. You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know. We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

In this deeply insightful episode of The Life Lived Better Podcast, Joseph and Paula unpack two powerful — and often misunderstood — relationship dynamics: codependency and counterdependency. Though they seem like opposites, both are rooted in the same place — fear, unmet attachment needs, and a longing for safety and connection.In this episode, the hosts explore:Where codependent and counterdependent patterns come from.How they show up in everyday relationships — from family to friendships to romance.What happens when these two dynamics collide (spoiler: it’s common and messy).How to begin healing and move toward healthy interdependence.You’ll learn how awareness, boundaries, self-compassion, and vulnerability pave the way for genuine connection — without losing yourself in the process.Whether you recognize yourself as someone who clings or someone who pulls away, this episode isn’t about judgment — it’s about understanding. It’s about learning new ways to relate that feel secure, balanced, and authentic.Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected] ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Resources for this episode and topic: Mental Health AmericaCo‑Dependents Anonymous (CoDA)“What Is Codependency? 20 Signs & Symptoms”  PositivePsychology.comFree worksheets and tools Universal Coach Institute Codependency Library Live Well with Sharon Martin

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,In this episode, we are talking Resilience. You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  If you have a topic, you would like us to address in a future Mental Health Moment, let us know. We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

Join Joseph and Paula for another episode of a listener favorite - Questions for Counselors. In this episode they take on a variety of questions, including asking our co-hosts if they have ever used substances, what they had to do to become counselors, if counselors see counselors, and how to get over a breakup. Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected] ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠. Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Resources mentioned on the episode:Episode 113: Failing RelationshipsEpisode 114: After the Relationship Ends Episode 137: Romantic Relationships, Part 1Episode 138: Romantic Relationships, Part 2

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,In this episode, we areTaking Mental health to Work.You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

In this episode Joseph and Paula complete their exploration the difference between healthy and unhealthy romantic relationships. From communication styles and trust to red flags and boundaries, we break down what helps love thrive and what can slowly erode it. Whether you’re currently in a relationship or reflecting on past experiences, this conversation will give you practical insights to better understand what healthy love looks like—and how to spot when things may be turning unhealthy.Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer now or during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]  ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  Please consider rating, reviewing, and sharing our show with others. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Previous Episodes Mentioned: Episode 125: The Power of BoundariesEpisode 20: The 5 Love LanguagesResources used to create this episode: Harvard-trained couples therapists married nearly 50 years: 5 things people in happy, successful relationships don't doHow to Prepare Yourself for a Healthy Relationship: 12 Key StepsMarriage.com

In this episode Joseph and Paula explore the difference between healthy and unhealthy romantic relationships. From communication styles and trust to red flags and boundaries, we break down what helps love thrive and what can slowly erode it. Whether you’re currently in a relationship or reflecting on past experiences, this conversation will give you practical insights to better understand what healthy love looks like—and how to spot when things may be turning unhealthy.Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer now or during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]  ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  Please consider rating, reviewing, and sharing our show with others. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Previous Episodes Mentioned: Episode 125: The Power of BoundariesEpisode 20: The 5 Love LanguagesResources used to create this episode: Harvard-trained couples therapists married nearly 50 years: 5 things people in happy, successful relationships don't doHow to Prepare Yourself for a Healthy Relationship: 12 Key StepsMarriage.com

In this episode, we finish up our conversation with Collier Landry. We were privileged to have Collier Landry join us on the podcast. You might know Collier from the documentary, originally aired on ID TV and now on Prime, called A Murder in Mansfield. Collier was the main subject of that documentary. At 11-years old, Collier was witness to the murder of his mother and at 12 he testified for the defense against his father. His father, Dr. Jack Boyle was convicted and sentenced to life in prison.Collier is a cinematographer and filmmaker. His work is featured The NY Times, Variety, Esquire, USA Today, The Daily Mail, and The NY Post. He has been a TEDx Speaker and a guest on The Dr. Phil Show. Collier has a podcast called Moving Past Murder, which you can find on the major platforms, and you can watch it live on YouTube.Visit Collier's ⁠website⁠, find information about his podcast, ⁠Moving Past Murder⁠, and access his Ted Talk, ⁠What Happens When the answers we seek are not what we find⁠ or go to his ⁠YouTube Channel⁠. Collier can be found on most social media platforms, like ⁠Twitter⁠, ⁠Instagram⁠, ⁠Facebook⁠, and ⁠Tik Tok⁠.Please Note: The content and language in this episode is for adults. Please use discretion when listening.If you have a question, you would like Joseph and Paula to answer during an episode of Questions for Counselors, feel free to reach out through the website at ⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠ or email them directly at ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠  You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠.  Paula’s Blog is often updated with information from the show. You can find it at ⁠PaulaHellerGarland.BlogSpot.com⁠  Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession. We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better. #lifelivedbetter #counseling #therapy #podcast #love #education #lifestyle #wellness #psychology #love #education #drphil #drphilshow #murder #murderinmansfield #collierlandry #TEDx #NYTimes #Variety #esquire #USAToday #TheDailyMail #nypost #movingpastmurder #trauma #recovery #grief #advocacy #survivor

We were privileged to have Collier Landry join us on the podcast. You might know Collier from the documentary, originally aired on ID TV and now on Prime, called A Murder in Mansfield. Collier was the main subject of that documentary. At 11-years old, Collier was witness to the murder of his mother and at 12 he testified for the defense against his father. His father, Dr. Jack Boyle was convicted and sentenced to life in prison. Collier is a cinematographer and filmmaker. His work is featured The NY Times, Variety, Esquire, USA Today, The Daily Mail, and The NY Post. He has been a TEDx Speaker and a guest on The Dr. Phil Show. Collier has a podcast called Moving Past Murder, which you can find on the major platforms, and you can watch it live on YouTube. Visit Collier's ⁠website⁠, find information about his podcast, ⁠Moving Past Murder⁠, and access his Ted Talk, ⁠What Happens When the answers we seek are not what we find⁠ or go to his ⁠YouTube Channel⁠. Collier can be found on most social media platforms, like ⁠Twitter⁠, ⁠Instagram⁠, ⁠Facebook⁠, and ⁠Tik Tok⁠. Please Note: The content and language in this episode is for adults. Please use discretion when listening. If you have a question, you would like Joseph and Paula to answer during an episode of Questions for Counselors, feel free to reach out through the website at ⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠ or email them directly at ⁠⁠[email protected]⁠⁠  You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠.  Paula’s Blog is often updated with information from the show. You can find it at ⁠PaulaHellerGarland.BlogSpot.com⁠  Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession. We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better. #lifelivedbetter #counseling #therapy #podcast #love #education #lifestyle #wellness #psychology #love #education #drphil #drphilshow #murder #murderinmansfield #collierlandry #TEDx #NYTimes #Variety #esquire #USAToday #TheDailyMail #nypost #movingpastmurder #trauma #recovery #grief #advocacy #survivor

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,In this episode, we are talking organization.You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

In this episode Joseph and Paula continue their Relationship series by diving into the important topic of healthy versus unhealthy family relationships. Families can be a source of love, support, and belonging—but they can also create stress, conflict, or even harm when dynamics become unhealthy. We’ll explore the signs of a supportive, nurturing family system, as well as red flags that may point to toxic patterns. Together, we’ll discuss practical strategies for setting boundaries, fostering open communication, and building healthier connections with loved ones. Whether you’re reflecting on your childhood, navigating current family dynamics, or looking to create a positive home environment, this episode offers insights and tools to help you understand and strengthen your family relationships.Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer now or during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]  ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  Please consider rating, reviewing, and sharing our show with others. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Resources used to create this episode: 11 Things Parents Should Never Say To Adult Children If They Want A Real Relationship With Them

Thank you for listening to another Mental Health Moment, from the Life Lived Better podcast, where we quickly provide insight into issues that affect most of us,In this episode, we are talking cyberbullying.You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

In this episode Joseph and Paula explore what it means to have a healthy relationship with yourself—and why it matters. The co-hosts break down the key elements of self-respect and emotional well-being. Our hosts share personal reflections, expert insights, and practical tips to help build a more supportive and nurturing inner dialogue. Whether you’re working on healing, growing, or simply learning to show up for yourself, this episode is a reminder: the most important relationship you’ll ever have is the one you have with you.Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer now or during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]  ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  Please consider rating, reviewing, and sharing our show with others. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Past Episode mentioned Life Lived Better Podcast Episode 96: Inner Dialogue Resources used to create this episode: Greater Good Science Center (UC Berkeley)Kristin Neff’s Self-CompassionPsychology TodayBooks of Interest on this TopicThe Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown Radical Acceptance by Tara Brach Set Boundaries, Find Peace by Nedra Glover Tawwab Self-Compassion by Kristin Neff

We are excited to let you know about a new addition to our format. We are calling Mental Health Moment, where we will provide insight into issues that affect most of us…but it will be done quickly…with the intention of dropping a nugget in between our more involved episodes. We hope you enjoy them.In the inaugural episode, we are talking about something that shows up for everyone — stress.You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared in this, and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.

In this episode Joseph and Paula explore the dynamics of social relationships—the good, the bad, and everything in between. What makes a friendship truly supportive? And how can you tell when a relationship is starting to become emotionally draining or toxic? From red flags like manipulation, competition, and one-sided effort to green flags like mutual respect, trust, and accountability, the co-hosts break down the key differences between healthy and unhealthy social bonds. They also share practical tips on setting boundaries, recognizing when to walk away, and how to prioritize your well-being in your social life.Whether you're questioning a long-time friendship or learning how to build better connections, this episode offers insight and guidance you won’t want to miss.Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer now or during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]  ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  Please consider rating, reviewing, and sharing our show with others. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Resources used to create this episode: Friendship: The Evolution, Biology, and Extraordinary Power of Life’s Fundamental Bond by Lydia Denworth Greater Good Science Center – UC Berkeley https://greatergood.berkeley.edu Mental Health America (MHA) www.mhanational.orgThe Gottman Institute www.gottman.comApps You Might Want to Check Out: Peanut (for women seeking community and friendship)Meetup (find local interest groups and events)Hey! VINA or Friender (apps to make platonic connections)Circles (group support for people going through similar life experiences)

In this episode, Joseph and Paula continue their series on relationships by taking a look at the essential elements of healthy professional relationships—what they look like, why they matter, and how to build them. From setting boundaries and fostering mutual respect to communicating effectively and navigating workplace dynamics. The co-hosts explore how strong professional connections can lead to personal growth and career success. Whether you're new to the workforce or looking to strengthen your current work relationships, this conversation offers practical insights and information to help you thrive professionally while staying true to yourself.Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]  ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Previous Episodes Mentioned: Episode 78: Emotional Intelligence Resources Used in the Creation of this Episode: Crucial Conversations by Patterson, Grenny, McMillan, and SwitzlerDare to Lead by Brené BrownHarvard Business Review (HBR) www.hbr.orgMindTools www.mindtools.comThe Center for Creative Leadership (CCL)  www.ccl.org

Welcome to the kickoff of our new series on Relationships. Join Joseph and Paula as they wade into discussions on what it really means to build and maintain meaningful, supportive connections in every area of life. In this series introduction, the co-hosts lay the foundation for upcoming conversations about professional relationships, friendships, family dynamics, parent-child connections, romantic partnerships, and even the relationship we have with ourselves. Join us as the key ingredients of healthy relationships are explored —like trust, boundaries, communication, and accountability—and why they matter now more than ever. Whether you're looking to strengthen a bond or heal from past patterns, this series is for you.Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer now or during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]  ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  We would love for you to rate & review our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.Previous Episodes Mentioned in this one: Link to Episode 125: The Power of BoundariesResources used to create this episode: 10 Psychological Signs You're in a Healthy and Balanced RelationshipThe Foundation of Healthy Relationships | Psychology TodayHeller Garland, P. (2024, April). Basic Communication Skills. Addiction Studies Program. Denton; University of North Texas. #Relationships #Podcast #Wellness #SelfHelp #Improvement #SelfImprovement #Healthy #Communication #Counselors

Join us every other Thursday for a new episode!In this episode, Joseph and Paula are breaking down the mystery of what actually happens in therapy. Whether you're considering therapy for the first time or just curious about the process, the co-hosts will walk you through what to expect in a typical session—from the initial intake to building trust with your therapist and setting goals. They will also talk about different styles of therapy, theories of practice therapists might use, and why it’s okay if it feels awkward at first. Tune in as they demystify therapy and help you feel more prepared and confident about taking that first step toward mental wellness.Do you have any questions? If you have a question for Joseph and Paula to answer during a future episode of Questions for Counselors, reach out through the website at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or email ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠[email protected]  ⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠You can find information about this and other episodes on the website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.lifelivedbetter.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Just a reminder - anything shared by the pair during this and all other episodes is based on personal experiences and opinions. It is not to be viewed as professional counseling or advice and is solely the opinion of the individual and does not represent their employers or profession.  We would love for you to rate our show and tell others about us. And remember, Knowledge leads to a Life Lived Better.The link they promised for finding a therapist on Psychology TodayFind a Therapist, Psychologist, Counselor - Psychology TodayResources used to develop this episode:Cognitive Behavioral Therapy: Does CBT Work?Group Therapy: Definition, Types, Techniques, and EfficacyWhat is Family Therapy and Systemic Practice? - Association for Family Therapy and Systemic Practice