Love and Orgasms

You’d be surprised how early I learned that asking for money can be your biggest asset… and how I stole hundreds without anyone noticing. From as young as 8, I learned that confidence isn’t begging, it’s asserting your worth. Whether you’re saving, investing, or negotiating, money is a mindset, and what you believe you deserve shapes your life.

This episode explores what women really want from men in the bedroom by redefining masculinity beyond stereotypes like dominance and physical strength. It highlights the power of emotional safety, confidence, playfulness, communication, empathy, and vulnerability in creating deeper intimacy and a more fulfilling sex life. Whether you’re single, dating, or in a long-term relationship, you’ll learn practical ways to build trust, strengthen connection, and make every encounter more passionate, meaningful, and satisfying.

I delve into the complex emotions and societal pressures surrounding marriage and parenthood. I challenge traditional norms, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and intentional decision-making. By exploring financial stability, personal growth, and cultural expectations, the episode encourages listeners to reflect on their true desires and motivations. It offers practical tools for approaching marriage thoughtfully, highlighting the significance of aligning personal values with life choices. This candid conversation empowers individuals to define happiness on their own terms, making it essential for anyone questioning societal norms or contemplating major life decisions.

Feeling overwhelmed or forging your own path?Drop a 💭 if you’ve ever felt like your mind is racing butyour body needs a break — I’ve been there. I’ve realized that rest and mentalhealth go hand in hand, yet society rarely values emotional downtime —especially for women.This year, I’ve been through a lot: from hormonal lows, grief over loved ones,to fighting societal expectations on productivity and success.But I’ve also learned that loving myself means honoring those quiet moments —the tears, the exhaustion, the need to pause. It’s okay to not always be okay.Prioritize your mental peace and love yourself through the highs and lows.What’s one small thing you’re doing today to nurture your mind or body?Let's normalize self-care and honest vulnerability — we’re in this together.Full episode link in bio — let’s talk honestlyabout mental health and embracing ourselves.#SelfLove #MentalHealthMatters#HonestVibes #SelfCareJourney #AuthenticLiving 

Being first born child comes with a lot of weight that has left me having to unlearn all my terrible traits, what are some of the annoying ways you act that you feel the need to improve?

Have you ever been conned in this Nairobi? They are bringing it into relationships now, stay vigilant!https://loveandorgasms.com/the-broke-politician-a-story-about-ovulation-horniness/

Sometimes I think I want to get married; but when it starts actualizing, I get so afraid. Here's a story about the last time someone proposed to me...

The year is over and it's time to think about how it has been so far. Are you happy with the person you've become this year?

A lot of the advice online about how to get over a breakup revolves around suppressing emotions, looking tougher and doing fitness stuff... but, what if this doesn't work because you do all these and healthier coping mechanisms already? Let's talk about it.

How did you settle for the method of contraception that you are currently using? Are you even using any? Do you even know about contraceptives? Let's learn together!

The price for community is sacrifice - How are you making sure you maintain great relationships while growing through life?

What does being feminine mean to you? Did you know that being your authentic self is a superpower? Here's how I use my power to receive everything I need.

Often, we downplay the crucial role that holding space for emotion in our daily lives plays, it is essential to purpose to balance both in a healthy way for a more fulfilling life. You deserve to feel freely!

Here's a life update on being 29 years old!

Have you ever heard of PMS and PreMenstrual Dysphoric Discorder? Have a listen, maybe you'll find an explanation here. https://youtu.be/YDx8xt9M18E?si=kD5siVw6NRR6SORQ

There are different ways to express intimacy in different relationships besides physical. Emotional, Spiritual and Mental - let's explore. https://youtu.be/eOW9Awmg3xo?si=mOjg4XffwwxqlVjB

I turned 29 and felt relief. It feels different up here. Was turning 30 scary for you?

Have you ever thought about what makes you feel safe before, during and after sex?sex in long term relationships: https://youtu.be/AjMrcozIQNA?si=Q3QBqhbkwfNMQI8jAftercare: https://loveandorgasms.com/where-is-the-aftercare/

It's the start of a new relationship and the man keeps borrowing money. Are you staying or leaving?

Here's some of the steps I take towards improving my speaking skills. EnjoyFollow: loveandorgasms.comBook me here: Appointy

It's been a great year and I'm grateful to you for being part of it. Thank you for the love and loyalty. Enjoy your holidays and see you next year!

Have you thought about what traits you'd look out for in a romantic partner? Here's what I think...

Here's how I fixed my relationship with my parents. Is this something you are willing to try?

It's important that I'm honest with myself so that I can grow. here's what I've been up to...

I know he's told you he likes you, but do you really feel it?

Most times we don't realize how grave the responsibility to heal self is. I hope this episode prompts you to forgive yourself!

Having discussions around money improves your quality of life, it's time to heal that trauma!

How old were you when you realized that you've been taken advantage of sexually before? Grooming is not always violent, sometimes it shows up disguised as 'love and care'. It is always important to remember that sexual relationships should be consensual and comfortable!

This is the episode where I remind you to use condoms. I know raw sex feels better, but are you ready to deal with the consequences of not implementing better precaution?

Did you know that your body knows if you feel safe sexually, and can reject the wrong partner?

Every day, women are murdered and abused by men; for being women. It's time to END FEMICIDE!

I've noticed a huge difference between the kind of people I used to surround myself with when I was insecure and desperate vs now. Even my dating life has changed! Becoming A CEO - https://youtu.be/xk8yq_jix6s?si=iriW64XCuG-caafp broke boys don't deserve no p$ssy - https://loveandorgasms.com/broke-boys-dont-deserve-no-pssy/

Is the male G spot really in the anus? Where is the clit? In this episode, I explain what orgasms are, how to achieve and enhance them. Anal sex: https://spotifyanchor-web.app.link/e/wiAx9VZ7eMb

https://youtu.be/prWjjObh-W4?si=BNbtN6vVYazXtFY1 learn more about attcahment styles and how they affect our relationships as adults.

I feel like I just hit a second puberty, and it is changing my life, let's talk about it!

Here’s what I think about starting an Onlyfans account…https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms

Here’s what you need to know about squirting 👋🏾

Have you been screened ? Do you know about STIs?

Do you remember how you were first introduced to porn? How has it impacted your life ? Let’s talk about it ☺️

What does foreplay mean to you ? Is it important at all ???

Nothing shakes your whole world like seeing your mother go through sickness. It changes something in you. I had a chat with my mom about her emotions during this period and got to hear from her for the first time while recording this. I’d love for you to learn from her today ❤️ Family Tv interview: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C6BykwdoNZn/?igsh=czg3ZGM5Ym0wd290

There was a lot of questions about where I meet ‘amazing’ lovers and here’s an explanation in detail of how I do it 👌🏾 read more on loveandorgasms.com , follow https://booking.appointy.com/RoberttaBobbie to book me for a session on intimacy and relationships

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Did anyone ever mention the grief that comes with elevating your life ? I think I’m mourning the person I used to be . Follow: loveandorgasms.com / https://onlyfans.com/loveandorgasms

Dating for me has always been so scary because of my traumas around relationships ( that I’m working on) but I have to ask , have you ever cheated for revenge?

Does size/ time matter ??? https://loveandorgasms.com

Do you remember who taught you how to take care of your vagina ? Here’s a lesson ! For bookings reach me here : https://booking.appointy.com/RoberttaBobbie

Nobody prepared me for the grief I would feel after the loss of a job, especially while going through other worse stuff. I am intentionally trying to build myself from love and prepare myself for it ! Bookings : https://booking.appointy.com/RoberttaBobbie , loveandorgasms.com Art by : Okal Lucy

I was chatting with my brother and he made me think about how almost all human interaction has the lingering presumption of SEX . What do you think ? Read more : loveandorgasms.com