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Love Beyond Limits

by Desire and Purity

Welcome to Love Beyond Limits. We’re your hosts, Desire, a polyamorous submissive, and Purity, a monogamous dominant sadist. Our perspectives may differ, but our goal is the same: we’re all about empowering you to navigate the crazy world of modern dating, so you can get the love you deserve and a sex life that sizzles - with a hint of kink thrown in. Join two friends as they talk about dating dilemmas, steamy sexcapades, and unconventional relationships. Whether you’re curious about poly, dipping your toes in the kinky scene, or just want some real talk on love, sex, and the whole shebang, you’re in the right place. Together, let's break boundaries and redefine what true love really is.

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Episodes

  1. What Really Happens At The Chardmore Society Suited Male And Naked Female Party

    Step into the intriguing world of the Chardmore Society, where the Suited Male and Naked Female parties challenge conventional social norms. Ever wondered what really happens behind those exclusive doors? From the unique dress code (yes, it’s as literal as it sounds) to the eclectic crowd and the...

  2. How To Stop Kink Shaming Yourself

    Ever find yourself feeling shame around your kink? You're not alone. In this episode, we're diving into what kinks and fetishes really are and why the shame you’re feeling likely isn’t coming from where you think it is. You'll get a straightforward 3-step formula to help you stop shaming yourself...

  3. The Healthy Way to Break Up

    Sometimes, ending a relationship is the healthiest choice, but it doesn’t make it any easier. In this episode, we’re unpacking the signs that it’s time to let go, how to navigate the emotional rollercoaster, and ways to handle a breakup with as much respect—and as little mess—as possible. Whether...

  4. Date vs. Dating: Avoiding Misunderstandings in Non-Monogamous Relationships

    You meet someone new, there’s a spark, you’re vibing—and then it hits. What you thought was “a date” is, to them, just “hanging out.” In the world of ethical non-monogamy, even the words we use can get messy fast. Between trying to figure out if it’s a date or just casual, dealing with the twists...

  5. How Women Feel About Casual Sex: Is It Ever Worth It?

    Casual sex gets hyped up as fun, liberating, and carefree, but is it really that simple? In this episode, we explore why many women find themselves engaging in casual sex, even when they aren’t fully on board. We’ll also take a look at the emotional, mental, and physical costs that can come with...

  6. The Dating Edge: How To Stand Out And Attract More Dates

    Get ready to dive into the dating scene like never before! This episode spills the secrets on what really makes you stand out to women. We’ll chat about showcasing your unique qualities, understanding what women want, and shifting your mindset to boost your confidence. Whether you're after a…

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  7. Dominium Vita Social Review: The Most Glamorous Night In The Scene?

    If you’re into glamorous kink socials, then Dominium Vita might just be your vibe. Picture a luxurious venue setting the mood for an elegant and sensual evening. But is it all it’s cracked up to be? Who’s actually attending these events, and what kind of vibe can you expect? Is there a dress…

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  8. Should You Ever Veto Your Partner’s Choices? Here’s What to Do Instead

    Ever heard of veto power? It’s that move where you say “nope, not happening” to something your partner wants to do or someone they want to see. But should you actually be using it? We’ll break down why vetoing might not be the best idea for your relationship and give you better options to handle...

  9. First Dom And Sub Date: Dos And Don'ts

    So, you’ve finally got that first Dom and Sub date lined up—exciting, right? But before you dive in, there are some key dos and don’ts you’ve got to know to make sure things go smoothly. We’re talking about how to ask a sub out the right way, when to bring up your kinks without scaring them off,...

  10. Going To Your First Sex Party? Here's All You Need To Know

    Thinking about going to your first sex party but not sure what to expect? We’re diving into everything you need to know before you step into that world. From choosing the right type of party and figuring out what to wear, to understanding the vibe of the crowd (spoiler: it’s not all models and...

  11. The Dating Transition: Moving from Social Events to Romantic Connections

    In this episode, we explore how to smoothly transition from social events to romantic connections. How do you find events that are filled with people looking for the same thing you are? What’s the secret to picking up on body language cues that scream “I’m interested!”? Is there a right way to…

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  12. Solo Poly: How Is It Different From Being Single?

    In this episode, we’re diving into the world of solo polyamory. Curious about what solo poly actually means and how it differs from being single? We’re breaking it down and sharing what it takes to become solo poly. Desire shares her experience with solo polyamory and whether it’s everything it’s...

  13. The Tribe Experiment: More Than Just A Sex Party?

    In this episode, we're diving into the Tribe experiment, exploring why it’s way more than just a sex party—it's a full-on community. Wondering what Tribe is all about and how to get in on their exclusive socials and parties? We've got the lowdown on the crowd, the venues, and, of course, the…

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  14. 5 Ways To Spot A Fake Dom Every Submissive Should Know

    In this episode, we’re diving into the world of doms and how to tell the real ones from the fakes. Desire shares her wild experiences and why it’s super important for submissives to find the right match, even if someone seems super attractive at first. We’ll talk about what makes a dom legit and...

  15. How Do I Deal With Jealousy In Polyamorous Relationships?

    In this episode, we’re tackling a big one: dealing with jealousy in polyamorous relationships. Ever thought you knew what jealousy is? Think again! We’ll break down why we feel it and why it's not always what it seems. Wondering if all ENM folks feel that warm, fuzzy compersion? Spoiler: not...

  16. The Dating Illusion: Unmasking Hidden Agendas in Poly And Kinky Relationships

    In this episode, we delve into the sometimes murky waters of dating and kink, exploring stories like Purity’s and Desire’s, where romantic dates unexpectedly turned into encounters with fetishists looking for free thrills. Discover the lengths some go to promise kinks without commitment and learn...

  17. How To Talk About Your Kink With Your Partner Without The Awkwardness

    Talking about your kinks with your partner can feel daunting, but it doesn't have to be. Have you ever wondered why so many kinksters hide their desires from their partners? The reasons might surprise you. We'll explore the best time to bring up your kink and share a no-pressure approach to...

  18. London Foot Party - best event for foot fetishists?

    Curious about the London Foot Party, the ultimate event for foot fetishists? We'll dive into what this unique gathering is all about and where it's hosted. Wondering about the crowd? We'll give you a glimpse of who you can expect to meet. Is membership required to attend? We’ll discuss that too....

  19. BDSM Marks In The Summer: Show Off Or Hide?

    BDSM marks: show them off or hide them in the summer? Many subs cherish these marks despite the pain because they’re symbols of intense and intimate experiences. But summer poses a unique challenge. You might not want to sport those marks with all the skin-baring outfits and trips to the beach.…

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  20. Can you find true love on kinky apps?

    Can you find true love on kinky apps? Let's dive into Desire's journey to find out. She joined We Are X two years ago, but a sexy date made her decide to leave them for good. We’ll discuss how to tweak your dating profile to attract better matches and reveal the two words you should never use if...

  21. Reconnecting with a Past Poly Or Kinky Partner: Do’s and Don’ts

    Ever thought about reconnecting with a past poly or kinky partner? It can be tricky. Can you really pick up where you left off? We'll dive into that question and share some real-life stories of reconnecting that didn't quite go as planned—and why they failed. But it’s not all doom and gloom.…

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  22. Is Playing With A Professional Dom Cheating?

    In the world of BDSM and kink, the lines between personal pleasure and partnership fidelity can sometimes blur. Today, we're diving deep into a topic that stirs up plenty of controversy: Is playing with a professional Dom considered cheating? Purity opens up about her encounters with married subs...

  23. How To Create An Irresistible Dating Profile To Attract Poly & Kinky Partners

    Setting up a dating profile that stands out in the poly and kinky communities? Now, while looks are important, they're not the be-all and end-all. There’s something else that significantly influences swipe rates. And speaking of swiping, let’s talk about those subtle red flags in pictures that...

  24. Fox Den Skulk Review: A Social Worth Going To?

    Thinking about hitting up the Fox Den Skulk social? Let's dive into whether it's your next must-go event. How does the venue itself play into this? We'll dive into whether it's just a cool setting or if it really helps you connect. What's the dress code? From casual to extravagant, we’ll tell you...

  25. Opening Lines That Work: Messaging Secrets for Kinky Dating Apps

    Diving right into the digital world of dating, especially on kinky apps, can feel like navigating a minefield. Let's talk about that crucial first message—because yes, it can make or break your chances. Desire has seen it all, from cringe-worthy openers that had her hitting the block buttons…

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  26. Purity's Kinky Adventures In Amsterdam

    So, Purity hit up Amsterdam's Red Light District, and let me tell you, it was a trip. Ever wonder if a solo gal can actually hire a prostitute there? Purity's got the scoop, plus some wild stories about giving unsolicited business tips to pimps and getting mistaken for one of the local working...

  27. Coming Out As Poly? Here Are Some Things To Consider

    Is it time to open up about being poly or exploring kink? Let's dive into Desire's story. After spending six years in a monogamous relationship, she decided it was time to embrace and open up about being poly. If you're sitting on a similar fence, this episode's for you. We're unpacking those...

  28. Living The Kinky Lifestyle: How Expensive Is It?

    Diving into the kinky scene? It's a whole world of excitement and exploration, but it comes with a price tag. What does it really cost to get your kink on? We're going beyond the entry fees of those high-end, glitzy events to uncover the real deal about splurging versus saving in this lifestyle....

  29. Feeld Social Review: Better Success Rate Than On The Dating App?

    Are you getting mixed results on the Feeld app and wondering if you should give their socials a go? In this episode, Desire and Purity delve into the intriguing world of Feeld, exploring the difference between its in-person events and the online dating app. Is the crowd the same? From discussing...

  30. Bad First Impressions And Boundaries Violations On A First Date: Can You Ever Recover?

    Desire had high hopes for her date with the man she met online. Their virtual connection sizzled with anticipation, promising an evening filled with excitement and potential fireworks. But as the night unfolded, what started as a promising encounter quickly took a turn for the uncomfortable. In...

  31. Have You Been Ghosted? What To Do When Your Play Partner Suddenly Goes Cold

    So, picture this: Purity's on cloud nine, vibing with a new submissive who ticks all her boxes. The chemistry? Off the charts. But then, out of the blue, bam! Ghosting or a major boundary breach? Purity's left scratching her head, wondering what went wrong and why her play partner disappeared…

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  32. How To Vet Potential Poly Partners And Find Out If They're The Right Match For You

    Picture this: you're engrossed in a conversation with someone you're considering as a potential polyamorous partner. The chemistry is palpable, and everything seems to be falling into place until you realize you're not looking for the same things in a relationship. It's a frustrating scenario…

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  33. Inside The Mind Of A Female Sadist

    Ever wondered what it truly means to be a sadist? Curious about the world of sadism and its often-misunderstood nature? Well, you're in for a treat! In this episode, we'll take you on a fascinating journey through the experiences of Purity as she navigates the discovery of her own sadistic...

  34. Best Places To Meet Polyamorous Partners

    Wondering where to meet polyamorous people? Now you've had the conversation, opened your relationship, or simply decided solo poly is your ideal relationship style, how do you go about finding potential partners? Since coming out as poly, our host Desire has tried all the dating apps from the…

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  35. Sunday at The London Alternative Market: All You Need To Know

    How would you like to attend a kinky event where you can shop for new BDSM gear with your partner, put on a performance on a stage with your new toys, and meet potential play partners too? Welcome to the London Alternative Market, or LAM for short. Hosted the first Sunday of every month in East...

  36. Inside The Mind Of A Foot Fetishist

    Foot fetish is one of the most common and known fetishes - as Desire happily discovered when her last monogamous partner showed a tremendous interest in her feet. So what makes foot so arousing? And how do you develop a foot fetish? Desire and Purity bring on their friend Mr X, a real life...

  37. Intro To Polyamory

    Curious about polyamory? Are you starting to feel like monogamy isn't for you but you don't know what other options are out there? Ever wondered what swinging, solo poly, hierarchical non-monogamy? In this episode, we break it all down, from friends with benefits to genuine connections that go…

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Welcome to Love Beyond Limits. We’re your hosts, Desire, a polyamorous submissive, and Purity, a monogamous dominant sadist. Our perspectives may differ, but our goal is the same: we’re all about empowering you to navigate the crazy world of modern dating, so you can get the love you deserve and a sex life that sizzles - with a hint of kink thrown in. Join two friends as they talk about dating dilemmas, steamy sexcapades, and unconventional relationships. Whether you’re curious about poly, dipping your toes in the kinky scene, or just want some real talk on love, sex, and the whole shebang, you’re in the right place. Together, let's break boundaries and redefine what true love really is.

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Welcome to Love Beyond Limits. We’re your hosts, Desire, a polyamorous submissive, and Purity, a monogamous dominant sadist. Our perspectives may differ, but our goal is the same: we’re all about empowering you to navigate the crazy world of modern dating, so you can get the love you deserve and a...

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