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Love by Design
by Polina Solda
Love by Design is the only podcast that teaches women the exact algorithm on how to find your ideal type of man with a proven personality typing system. Dating and Relationship Coach and Eniostyle Expert Polina Solda combines her coaching and personality typing expertise to teach women how to finally solve the problem of “finding the right man” and then create an easy and lasting relationship. You’ll be amazed how quickly you can find the love of your life when you follow Polina’s advice shared in this show.Learn more at www.polinasolda.comBook a free consultation "Attract Your Man" at:https://calendly.com/polinasolda/attract-your-man-now-call-40mins?month=2022-11
Episodes
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The End of the Love by Design Podcast
Can you believe it? It’s the end of the year of 2022 already. And, it’s the end of the Love by Design podcast. I spent two years and paid thousands of dollars to record and produce 85 episodes that thousands of people listened to… and loved. You probably wonder, “WHY???” The answer is simple. My...
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How to Meet Your Man with My Proven System
You CAN meet your man in just a few simple steps. Even if it hasn’t “worked out” in the past. Your current age, location and amount of free time are enough. It isn’t impossible or hard. You don’t have to struggle. In this week’s episode #84 How to Meet Your Man with My Proven System, you’re about...
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High-Quality Dating
How can you create the high-quality dating experience of attracting high-quality men to you? Your thoughts create your results in love—your thoughts about the quality of men, the quality of the dating experience and what's possible for you in love. What you can create in love depends on whether...
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The Six Dating Phases
Have you ever wondered why some women do the exact same things in dating but get completely different results? The simple answer is that they go through different dating phases. Each one creates different experiences, opportunities and results. I came up with these six dating phases based on my...
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Are you struggling with low-quality dating?
If yes, I want to offer you this perspective: It's not what you do in dating. It's not what you say in your online dating profile, texts, or social media pages. It's not whether you reach out to a guy or he reaches out to you. None of these things matter as much as what I’m going to say.. It's…
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Giving with men
Happy Giving… You can think about it from a place of lack or from a place of abundance. The most powerful thing about giving is that you get to create within you. You already have direct, instant access to the unlimited source of energy and love inside of you. You can create energy and love with...
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What you think you know that you don’t
When I was single and dating, my slogan on my online dating profile was, "30 seconds and we both know." But 100+ dates later, I still needed to find out. The way our brain works is that it searches for familiar, repetitive patterns. It loves to repeat the same patterns. If you think about it, our...
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Why you aren’t dating
If you're currently single and not dating . . . If you have a desire in your heart to meet the love of your life, yet you're not taking action . . . Why is that? You want something, yet you need to do something in the direction of your desire. We often come up with some good reasons for doing...
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How Shift from Being Single to Being in a Relationship
Many single women I talk with tell me there are only two reasons why they can’t get into a relationship: not finding the right man, or meeting a man but . . . he doesn’t want to commit. They think it happens to them when a man doesn’t have time for a relationship or changes his mind or…
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The Dual Relationship Pyramid
Would you like to get a glimpse of what’s happening inside Love by Design? And would you like to learn how some of our members get into a dual relationship—an easy, stable and lasting relationship—as quickly as 30 days after joining? Besides learning how to use personality typing and manage their...
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How to think new thoughts in dating
If you feel like you're going around in circles in dating, I get it. It can be extremely frustrating and exhausting to spend so much time, energy and effort in online dating, texting and dating yet see no progress. You may be trapped in the illusion that if you do MORE, you’ll get better and...
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How to Feel Love
So many of us WANT to feel love. But . . . so many of us are not doing the things that would ALLOW us to have it. So many of us have been programmed to think that for us to feel love, there are certain things that need to happen that are outside of our control. We’ve been programmed to believe…
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Overcoming Self-Doubt in Dating
Talking with single women every day, I hear so many stories of women who want to find the love of their life but aren’t dating. They share that they don’t feel confident about putting themselves out there—especially, after taking a long break from dating. They are trying to hide, and continue...
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Invest in yourself & your future relationship
We just got back from a 10-day family vacation to the West Coast. I feel so inspired that I started writing a book. As current members of my flagship program, “Love by Design,” share their wins and results (like start dating their dual partner types within just a couple of weeks of joining), I...
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Overcoming Fear in Dating
As we’re hosting our free 3-part live video training, “Attract Your Man,” I'm aware that so many women want to find love but something gets in their way. Most likely that something is FEAR. Fear of putting yourself out there. Fear of being rejected. Fear of getting hurt (again). Am I right? And I...
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The cost of waiting and staying alone
As I’m taking inspired action in my company (hosting a 3-part live video training starting September 22, hosting a virtual summit in January and publishing a book in March), I’m thinking how many of us smart, professional women approach our personal life differently. When you’re so busy with work...
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Be Honest with Yourself
In this episode today, I want to talk about one quality that I believe is the most important when it comes to creating a healthy and powerful relationship—honesty. That’s exactly what inspired me to create this new episode, #69 🎙️ “Being honest with Yourself”. I truly believe that when you’re...
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Being in an easy relationship
I love to say that a secret to any great relationship is that you always have something to look forward to together—I think it applies to life as well. So what is the secret to a great and long term relationship? The secret—of course—anything very easy is easy to maintain. That’s exactly why I...
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Do you have a "Man Manual?"
A couple of weeks ago, we invited a group of friends boating with us. One of them was a single woman who has what I call a “Man Manual.” She attempted to use it with my husband, which inspired me to create this episode. In this week’s episode, you’ll learn: ✨ What a Man Manual is ✨ How a Man…
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The real reasons why women can’t attract quality men online
“There are no quality men online.” “Online dating doesn’t work.” If you’ve been thinking these thoughts and struggling to attract high-quality men online, you’re going to get the cold, hard facts about what’s really going on—and why—in this episode. In this week’s episode, you’ll learn: ✨ What…
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How to message men so they respond
If You Don’t Know Exactly What Messages Attract the Right Type of Men, How Will YOUR MAN Ever Find YOU? You probably already know that how you message men is what determines whether a guy you met at a friend’s party or on a dating app will respond, ask you out on a date and commit to you. If…
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The do's & don'ts of your online dating profile
You may know that I recently got on Tinder so that I could create real-life case studies for members of my Love by Design program. Going through thousands of online dating profiles of both men and women, what I know for sure is this: The quality of your profile determines the quality of men you...
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Why Exes Come Back?
In what instances do you actually give your ex a chance? 🤷♀️ One of the reasons why I want to discuss this topic is because a lot of newer members in my flagship program, Love by Design, and even some members who've been in the program for a couple of months or longer have experienced a very...
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Do you have a manual for men and relationships?
Hi [First Name], Wouldn’t it be nice if men behaved exactly the way we wanted them to? 😉 After 12 years of working with women, I know for sure that most of us have these unwritten, unspoken instruction manuals for how men should communicate and act. Unfortunately, most of us don’t question and...
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Are You in a Relationship or in the ILLUSION of a Relationship?
This topic was inspired by so many examples of women who’d define their relationship status as “It’s complicated.” The reality is that you might be thinking you are in a relationship, but you're actually not. Because It's just an illusion of a relationship. If you can relate, make sure to listen…
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Relationships by Design vs. Relationships by Default
Did you know that 7 out of 10 couples break up in their 1st year of being in a committed relationship? And, if they pass that 1-year mark and get married, they eventually split up? One of the reasons is because of how you approach your relationship. I believe that there are 2 kinds of...
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Create a Breakthrough in Your Love Life
I am very excited to talk with you about creating breakthroughs in your love life—especially now that things seem to be getting back to normal. It feels like things have changed, and everything is bubbly. Like, I feel so much energy! And this is the time to create breakthroughs in your life, make…
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“Your Relationship with Your Father and Your Love Life”
Happy Father's Day! This is a holiday that I haven’t celebrated for most of my life. Now, however, it’s one of my favorite holidays. In this new episode of the Love by Design podcast, “Your Relationship with Your Father and Your Love Life,” I am sharing: My personal story of my father leaving…
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How to Believe in Love
What do you believe in so much that you’re willing to risk everything—rejection, failing, getting hurt? What do you believe in so much that you’re willing to do anything for it? One woman told me, “I’m not willing to invest money in this thing because I’m not willing to risk my savings.” I said,...
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You’re the Hero on Your Love Journey
I will let you in on an enthralling and unusual topic inspired by what I would call “The Hero's Journey.” If you think about any great story, usually nothing happens until there is this moment . . . there is this big “WHY?” Time flies by so fast. Undertaking the same things like dating a man who...
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You won’t have love without being…
What do you think is the most important quality when it comes to creating a loving relationship that lasts? I believe it’s the quality of being honest. First, be honest with yourself and then with everyone else. Being honest about your true feelings, your deepest desires and your biggest fears....
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The Big Power of Tiny Connections
It's such a joy and honor to present to you a very special guest expert on today's episode. Her name is Jen Nash—a super-connector and masterful storyteller. She also recently wrote an Amazon Best Seller, The Big Power of Tiny Connections, which I highly recommend. We're going to talk about this...
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Can There Be TOO MUCH of a Mother’s Love?
Happy Mother's Day, if you are a mother, and of course Happy Mother's Day to your mom. I want to present an interesting and different perspective—a topic that very few people might talk about—if anyone at all. It’s about too much of a mother's love. There is a specific system of values that…
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The Impact of Friendship on Your Love Life
How do you define friendship? At the very beginning of all friendships, it’s like dating, you don’t know the person that well yet, so you’re not landing softly every time. You show up and you consistently make that effort. And now, we’ve landed in this, like, such comfortable – I feel like I can...
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The Worst Thing You can Do in Dating
If you’ve been dating for any length of time, chances are you’ve been told things like this: Be more____ Be less____ Don’t say______ Say_____ Don’t ever do______ You must do______ And it goes on and on. Most single women think you have to be, do and say certain things to get a man but that might…
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The biggest dating myth that sets you up for a failure in love
Many single women think that Mr. Perfect exists - you just have to find him. But that might be the worst dating advice that can actually keep you in a desperate pattern of searching for “Mr. Perfect” for years (even a lifetime!) without ever finding him. And I get it. Everyone says that Mr.…
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Why there are no “right’ or “wrong men
Have you ever thought about men as “right” or “wrong”? Most single women think that all men can be categorized as right or wrong but that might be the worst dating myth that can actually keep you single. And I get it. Everyone says that there are “right” vs “wrong” men. So it’s easy to believe.…
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The worst dating advice that keeps you struggling in dating
Do you want to know about the worst dating advice that keeps you single and struggling in dating? The biggest problem most single women have in dating is thinking that the same generic strategies for how to attract, communicate and date with men will work with ANY man. And I get it. It’s not your...
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Why searching for someone just like you keeps you single
Have you ever wished to find someone who is just like you? Most single women think that you have to search for someone who is just like you, but that might be the worst dating advice that can actually hurt you. And I get it. Everyone says that like attracts like . . . so it’s easy to believe. But...
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Why dating more men doesn’t mean you’ll find the right one
Have you ever been told to date more men? (As if those 20 or 50 or 100+ dates you’ve already gone on weren’t enough? 🤔) The biggest mistake most single women make is thinking that they have to meet and date a lot of men in order to find the right man. And I get it. Everyone tells you that dating...
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The Tinder Swindler
Have you ever wondered if your relationship with him is real and not made up? I’m thrilled to share with you a very interesting podcast episode that is based on a documentary recently released on Netflix, and so many people are talking about it! In this episode, I’ll be uncovering some of the...
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Your Lovability: How to Attract More Love and Affection
What comes to your mind when you hear the word “lovability”? It’s about AN INTERNAL experience of the emotion and feeling of being loving. It’s invisible on the outside. It can be felt but not necessarily seen and the other person doesn’t even have to know that you love them. You don’t have to…
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How to be “Visible” to Men at Any Age
“I’m too old. It's too late.” Does that sound like you? Do you have any challenges attracting men the same age or younger than you—and are you visible to them? I know that some women feel invisible to men. They ask me why men are not noticing them, not attracted to them, and not approaching them.…
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Loving After Heartbreak with Ellen Keiter
I'm very excited to share with you this special episode because I have a guest, my very good friend, and student—Ellen Keiter. Ellen will share her experience before we started working together, the results she got and her journey to discovering who she really is. Oftentimes we think we know who...
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How to Avoid Challenging Relationships
Spring is coming, and I feel like focusing on relationships—especially since it’s relevant and important to so many people right now. 🙏❤️ But a lot of things could come up—things that could slow you down or block you from creating what you really want. Like the fear of making a mistake, choosing...
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The Secret Ingredients to a Romantic Relationship
Happy Valentine's Day, everyone! The month of February is the month of love. There is that energy and vibration in the air that I feel every year—the excitement of all the holidays. It’s the month of dreaming about having a romantic relationship with your ideal man. If this episode inspired you…
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Why a great relationship can fall apart, inspired by the House of Gucci true story
It’s almost Valentine’s Day and during this special time of gratitude, I want to show my deepest appreciation for you and give you something to improve your dating and love life. 🙏❤️ I want to share with you my insight on a movie. It’s based on a book, The House of Gucci: A Sensational Story of...
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Seven New Beliefs About Love
How do you know if a man really loves you? It depends. Your lovability depends on another person’s ability to love you. If a man’s capacity to love you is huge, then he gets to feel super loving all the time. You don't feel his love; you can only feel your love. You can only feel the expression…
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What your beliefs have to do with your ability to find love
One of the biggest breakthroughs I had when I moved to NYC and started dating after my divorce is I realized that I could believe anything I want about what dating would be like, what kind of men I could attract and what kind of relationship I could have. I realized there were no standards, no...
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Feeling like in a relationship practice
When you shift internally and start putting yourself in that state, you start practicing feeling and thinking what it’s like to be in a relationship—and then everything changes. Now is the perfect time to elevate your energy vibration, your frequency, and your ability to effortlessly attract your...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Love by Design is the only podcast that teaches women the exact algorithm on how to find your ideal type of man with a proven personality typing system. Dating and Relationship Coach and Eniostyle Expert Polina Solda combines her coaching and personality typing expertise to teach women how to finally solve the problem of “finding the right man” and then create an easy and lasting relationship. You’ll be amazed how quickly you can find the love of your life when you follow Polina’s advice shared in this show.Learn more at www.polinasolda.comBook a free consultation "Attract Your Man" at:https://calendly.com/polinasolda/attract-your-man-now-call-40mins?month=2022-11
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