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Love In Brief
by ResonantYes
Love in Brief is an ABDL advice podcast focused on love: love of self, love of others, and romantic love. (Note: ABDL is a fetish/kink, and all episodes may contain sexual content).
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LIB 155 - Pee Weirdos
Wetting a diaper is the fuzzy blanket of kink moments… it’s a warm cozy feeling that wraps around you and sure, wearing (and wetting) diapers is a damned good time, but have you ever wondered what it might feel like to skip the diaper and pee elsewhere? Maybe you have tried it solo, peed your pants, or even peed on someone or something else. If so you may have discovered what so many others have found: pee can be fun!! Are you interested in pee? Well urine luck! On this episode of LIB, RY and Lola talk with Amanita ( @Amanitadreams on FL, @Amanitadweams on Bluesky) and Chris ( @pushpainpullplea on FL, @guiltypleasuresforall on Tumblr) about all things pee play! Golden showers, solo play, pantswetting, omo, forced wetting, D/s scenarios, it’s all here.
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LIB 154 - Evolving Your Scene Self (Crossover with Newsie)
We are all constantly growing and changing, but sometimes it’s scary to change how you show up in the ABDL world. Whether you are part of a large friend group, are a content-creator, or just have a handful of online acquaintances, you might fear rejection if you change where, when, or how you show up in the community. And you might fear stepping out into something new! On this In-the-Nook-crossover episode of Love In Brief, RY and Lola talk with Newsie, creator and host of the In the Nook podcast, about what it’s like to change and evolve how you show up in the ABDL world. We discuss what it’s like to change what you’re into, how you show up, what communities and events you choose, what you create for the ABDL world, etc., and we give practical tips for navigating that change, both within yourself and with others. Also, we talk about podcasting, and of course, about what we’re wearing. :). Byeeeeeeeee! Listen to In the Nook: on Spotify.
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LIB 153 - Be the Smut You Wish to See In the World
It’s the end of Summer, so it’s time to drop that waterlogged beach-read back into your swim bag and start turning your eye back toward everybody’s real favorite pleasure-read: ABDL smut. Yes, smut; it’s the script to the theater of the imagination, and man oh man is your imagination clever and gross. On this episode of LIB, RY and Teddy talk to John (afictionalphile on bluesky/twitter/gmail/deviantart) and Kimmy (UsualBet discord, @bby-kimmy on Tumblr) about the process of writing ABDL fiction, the state of ABDL fiction, what makes for great ABDL fiction, and sharing recommendations for where to find really killer ABDL fiction. And a friendly reminder from all of us at LIB to support ABDL writers and artists financially by subscribing/buying stories and art when you can! We all love the free content and stories, but under the ongoing assault of both AI nonsense and major paid platforms shutting artists down, it is more important than ever to support our Makers whenever we can.
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LIB 152 - Summer 2026 Question Round-Up
Yeeee-howdy little cowpokes, grab your lassos it's time for another Question Round-Up! Fortunately we've already hogtied 6 questions and brought 'em into the pen to save you all the consternation, and those little doggies sure did give us a hell of a good time. Here's a list of the topics we covered on this one: The Downsides of ABDL Feeling Truly Little Living in the Middle Diapering Tips n' Tricks Being a Parent of Older Children So saddle up and put on your fancy boots, it's time for our Summer Question Round-Up!
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LIB 151 - Caregiving
There are two sides to the CG/L equation, and in the ABDL world we focus a lot on the "L" side. But what about that other critical half; those caregivers who give love, attention, heart, and the occasional spankin'? On this episode of LIB, ResonantYes and TeddyBear talk with two extraordinary caregivers in long-term CG/L relationships: DD/LG caregiver Arsen (@daddyreadstoyou on IG) and MDLB caregiver Foxie (@foxieandbunny on IG). They discuss different types of caregiving, what motivates and rewards caregivers, how caregiving can show up in large and small ways, and how caregiving can be done everywhere from a full-time dynamic to an occasional "when we can" treat and in a ton of different dynamics. So grab your snuggliest plushie and get ready for a heartwarming love-fest of caring on this all-about-caregiving episode!
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LIB 150 - 2026 Pride Celebration
It’s almost the end of PRIDE MONTH, and we wanted to go out with a bang! On this episode of Love In Brief, the entire LIB hosting crew and three of our guests from previous episodes join forces to form one big proud LBGTQ+ love-fest! RY (our token straight chap) joins Liv (our “L” guest), Tim (our “G” guest), Lola (our “B” host), Lindz (our “T” guest), and Teddy (our “A” host) for lots of queer topics, memories, cheers, and laughs from all colors of the rainbow. We had an absolute blast with our friends making this one, and we hope you have an absolute blast listening to it! So shake up your favorite gay cocktail, pour a tall one, turn on your favorite queer playlist as background music, and crank up the Pod… cause we’re having a gay ol’ time. WHO YOU WILL HEAR— RY - resonantyes (Tumblr, FL, IG) Lola - lolaandthensome (FL), lolaandthens0me (Tumblr) Teddy - teddybearwithme (FL), teddybear_withme (IG) Lindz - sincerely_ripley (FL), Ripley_Diply (IG), denverlittlescrawl (Linktree) Tim - LittleTim5555 (IG), LittleTim55 (FL) Liv - babygirlandmommy496 (Tumblr) THE CAST-ASSEMBLED PRIDE PLAYLIST is here!
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LIB 149 - Bisexuality & ABDL
Do you like iced tea? Do you like lemonade? Well, put 'em together and you've got you an ARNOLD PALMER, one of the best drinks in the world. On this episode of Love In Brief we do our first of two Pride month episodes to explore a vastly under-explored topic -- bisexuality! Imagine loving a good Arnie Palmie in the Summer, and the tea people telling you you don't fit, and the lemonade telling you you're probably just in a tea phase. That can be what being bisexual feels like -- you love all kinds of people, but people in the straight camp think you're gay and people in the gay camp think you're straight, and some real hosers just think you're confused. On the other hand, boy does it have its upsides! Imagine finding people of multiple genders attractive, and seeing opportunities for love and lust all over! On this episode RY and Lola talk to @untraditionalnormal [Reddit, Tumblr, X, BlueSky] and @NorthernLifeAB [FL] about what it's like being bisexual, how it integrates with their ABDL kink, and what makes loving all kinds of people wonderful. SHOW NOTE - Find the list of famous Bi people at the Bi.org famous people list. Bi.org famous people list!
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LIB 148 - Makers Series - 3 Makers (Paci Toy + ABDL Coaching + WeMinder 2.0)
Spring is turning the corner towards Summer, and creativity is in the air! This LIB is the next in our periodic Makers Series, where we highlight neat stuff the people in the ABDL community are making for the ABDL community. In this episode RY talks with three creators: * TinkerKinkers ([email protected]) about a new (and brilliant!) pressure-sensitive toy activator that can quickly turn little time into playtime, and vice-versa * MisterSeaOtter ([email protected], coachseaotter(IG)) about a life coaching service particularly for people with an ABDL kink * Mako (@mako on FL) about an overhaul of his shared discipline and power exchange app, WeMinder. (join the development updates on Reddit at r/weminderapp !) We hope you enjoy getting to celebrate brilliant new inventions and creations in the ABDL community, and that you even get to try out some of them for yourself!
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LIB 147 - Getting Support
Whether you've been at this for 3 months or 30 years, we all need support and opportunities for growth. On this episode of LIB, Teddy and RY talk with Merissa Cope, author, counselor, and social worker who leads the ABDealing support group in Denver and +1's Discord support group. This episode focuses on the ways you can find support with counselors, support groups, peers, and solo resources... as well as how you can start your own support group in your area! You can find Merissa's book, UNPACK & PLAY, and info about the book launch here at ABDLrs website Here is Dr. Rhoda's book, YOU'RE NOT BROKEN And here is the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF)'s Kink-Aware Professionals List .
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LIB 146 - Domination & Submission Dynamics
Have you ever wanted to explore a D/s relationship? Or maybe just some fun play? Playing with power dynamics can be suuuuuuuper fun, but it's helpful to know a bit about how they work, what can make them great, and how to negotiate those dynamics. On this episode of LIB, RY and Lola welcome partners @DynamicDiem (FL) and @subslxt (FL) to talk about their D/s dynamic, the principles by which they practice, and they joy of power exchange (with plenty of ABDL talk wedged in there just to keep your interest, you ol' perv you).
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LIB 145 - Spring 2026 Question Round-Up
On this quarterly Question Round-Up, RY and Lola tackle such diverse topics as when to tell your spouse about trying ABDL, when caregiving turns into codependency, how sub-communities fraction, how to make ABDL friends, how to get over internalized shame, and (just for funsies) a day in the life of a 24/7 diaper-wearer named Lola!
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LIB 144 - Expanding Your ABDL & Kink Horizons
Life gets so much richer with the crazy, exhilarating, deep fun of kink (and especially ABDL) doesn’t it? Have you ever wondered what *else* in the ABDL world and the kink world could be really rewarding? Maybe even wondered if some of your previous self-imposed boxes might be ready for some dismantling? On this episode, RY and Teddy talk to @ComfortablyCrinkly (IG) and @Mrs.BabyPants (IG) about how they have expanded their own boundaries inside of ABDL and outside of it, how they have tried new things to see how they feel, even taken on new roles and dynamics they thought they might never take on. And, more importantly, how their lives have changed as a result.
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LIB 143 - CAPCon 2026 Live Episode
AT LONG LAST, it is here! We have had a two-week radio silence since CAP; there were some technical glitches with the audio, so we had to ship it off to our audio pro friends Mr November (FL) and Dadbaud (IG) to clean it up and make it listenable. And they pulled it off! It was a really, really fabulous live episode with incredible questions and an amazing group of attendees and panel, so we didn't want you to miss it. This live episode recorded at CAPCon 2026 starts with RY, Lola and Teddy reflecting on CAPCon 2026, then into the actual live episode audio. Thanks for bearing with it; I promise it's worth the extra work to listen closely. And a huge thanks to our panel : BabyMisty, Nikki Love, and ComfortablyCrinkly all knocked it out of the park!
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LIB 142 - CAPCon 2026 Preview
It’s almost time, IT’S ALMOST TIME… the biggest ABDL event of the year, CAPCon, is just a couple of weeks away, and we want to give YOU a preview of the fun, some helpful hints for packing and preparing, and some advice on how to have your very best CAPCon Experience. Not going this year? That’s OK, it’s still a fun episode for those who are even considering going in the future! On this episode, RY, Lola, and Teddy talk to Nito and Ruka, two CAPCon staffers and long-time CAPCon organizers, about this year’s festivities and what surprises might be right around the corner. (Aaaand, listen for the “secret handshake” from RY that unlocks a giveaway exclusively for LIB listeners attending CAPCon! [while supplies last])
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LIB 141 - The Nook Crossover (Bridging the Gap Between Mainstream and Gay ABDL Communities)
It's our first crossover episode! On this episode, you get all three LIB hosts -- RY, Lola, and Teddy connect with two of the hosts of In The Nook, Noah and Fancy, to find out what is going on with our community, where the "mainstream" ABDL community (or "straight" community, though that is a bit of a misnomer) and the gay men's ABDL community meet. It's a rich discussion about commonalities, differences, and where we can learn from each other. And most of all it's just 5 ABDL podcast hosts enjoying some chat together. We hope you really enjoy!
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LIB 140 - Hitting Bottom and Bouncing Back - Part 2
In part two of our series on the hardest times in our lives and how we have found our way out of them, RY and Lola pick up with Bradly (FL/Tumblr) and Elektra (Tumblr/FL) to talk about how they found their way back out of the dark spaces and into a new kind of life. This second half of our discussion looks at real, practical paradigm-shifts and next-steps that can be taken when you realize something needs to change, and how to move forward and rebuild after losing the life you knew. We hope for those in a tough spot, this episode gives you both some hope and practical advice on how you can find your own way out. And for those who haven't hit those times, we hope this advice sticks with you in case you find yourself needing to bounce back. Mentioned in this ep: href=”https://open.spotify.com/track/2D4BSm5Z8Hq5zYbSgJwEOh">She Used to Be Mine by Sara Bareilles Crisis hotline in the US: 988
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LIB 139 - Hitting Bottom and Bouncing Back - Part 1
Many of us have had a time in life where we have hit rock-bottom: unexpected life-changes have hit, major life plans haven't worked out, relationships have failed, or we needed to escape an impossible situation with nothing. In those moments where we have bottomed-out, first we needed to survive... and then we needed to find a way back up. In this two-part series, RY and Lola talk with Bradly (FL/Tumblr) and Elektra (Tumblr/FL) about those times where we have hit our absolute lowest point, including what got us there, the truths we needed to tell ourselves, and how we knew it was time for a change (and not the fun kind, the really hard kind). In the next episode, we'll look at how we each found our way out and through to bounce back stronger than ever! If you have been through a rock-bottom, we hope you find a little of your own story in these stories, and we hope this discussion helps you feel seen. And in the next episode, we hope it even helps you begin to find your way out!
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LIB 138 - 2025-2026 New Year's Celebration
It's that time of year again, RY's favorite episode of the year EVERY year: the New Year's Celebration! This year's question was "what are ways in 2025 you took steps toward loving yourself and your ABDL kink more?"... and boy oh boy did the ABDL community respond! This episode features YOUR voices and stories as RY and Lola and Teddy read and listen to how YOU took positive steps toward self-love, self-acceptance, and building relationship and community this year. It feels like payday, and we had more responses than ever this year by a landslide! We hope you relish this long-form celebration, and return to it on the days you feel disheartened or stuck with your ABDL kink. It turns out, there are steps you can take to move forward, and even to fall in love with yourself and your kink.
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LIB 137 - Winter 2025 Question Round-Up (with a special ask!)
Ho ho ho, MERRY CHRISTMAS! It's RY Clause here, sneaking down your chimney to drop one little extra present under your tree -- it's a Winter Question Round-Up! On this episode of LIB, RY and Lola tackle questions about: How to stop the binge & purge cycle Making friends online Finding your everyday rhythm with your little side (even if you don't engage it every day) How to consider consent when you have others living in your home Body image in ABDL participation Boy, that sounds like a lot when you put it that way, doesn't it? But we are leaning on our years of experience talking to others in the community and learning from their expertise, so we promise to get right to it and get you home before Christmas dinner. This episode also comes with a heaping side of *special ask of YOU, the LIB listener* as we prepare for our NYE episode. (Hint hint - we want YOU on the podcast, which is coming out New Year's Day, so jump on it!) Thanks in advance for your help, we can't wait to have you join our New Year's celebration!
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LIB 136 - Makers Series - LNGU
As a part of our Makers Series celebrating those in the ABDL community who step up to make something for all of us to enjoy, Lola and RY talk to Daisy from LNGU (LNGU-ABDL.com), a French diaper company that has been growing by leaps and bounds. Daisy talks about how LNGU got started, how a girls' sleepover night turned into an idea for a new kind of diaper, and how evolution of a diaper brand involves a lot of trial-and-learning while keeping the core spirit of customer want/need alive. So, be a "Happiness Monitor" yourself by tuning in to this episode to meet another fabulous Maker -- LNGU!
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LIB 135 - Demisexuality + ABDL
Really excited to be back with a new episode, and one featuring the fabulous Teddy as co-host! Teddy has been world-traveling and experiencing all kinds of new places, experiences, and Love, and so glad to have him bring all of that back to us so we can learn from him. This week, Teddy and RY have a spiritual-successor to our "Awesome Aces" ep (#46), this time focused on Demisexuality! On this episode, our guests @LilMissPumpkin (FL) and @SlothOnTheRocks (FL) talk with us about their experiences coming to identify as demisexual, what demisexuality is and isn't for them, offer some brilliant tips for navigating your own sexuality, whatever it may be, and dig into what it's like to be both Demi + ABDL. It's a whole lot of learnin' and way more talk about amusement parks than you would expect from a sex podcast. So buckle up (or at least make sure your riding harness is nice and tight) for a fabulous ride into Demisexuality!
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LIB 134 - Switching for Couples
Some of us are Bigs, or Tops, or Dom(mes). Some of us are Littles, or Bottoms, or subs... and some of us (including yours truly) love to be BOTH! This is an episode all about SWITCHING, and Lola and I are proud to welcome our new friends LALady (LALadyinMS on Tumblr) and Carp (carptrout on Tumblr) to talk about finding the weird wonderful world of ABDL switching, how to navigate switching with a partner, and how switching works in our particular couplehoods. Of course, there are as many ways to switch as there are switchy folks and couples, so this is far from the last episode on the subject! But we wanted to bring one couples' perspective together with our own, and we hope you enjoy learning along with us. So turn off the lights (use the switch), may get some warmup domming/subbing in (use the switch), and get ready to talk about SWITCHING!
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LIB 133 - Summer 2025 Question Round-Up
It's Summer Blow-Out Time, and our deals have gotten CRAZY! On this Question Round-Up we cover not our usual six... not seven... but EIGHT questions from you, our listeners! (I figured if I put it in caps it looks more impressive...) We talk about how to do 24/7 when you work in an office, how to experience little space *without* diapers, how to respond to your partner's disgust with your fetish, how to set up a scene, and even the origin story on Lola's "Messy Monday" posts. All that and more, *and* a beautiful testimonial from a listener on the impact of community and self-acceptance on their life. So, come on in to LIB's Big Summer Blow-out (not that kind of blowout) and feel the savings wrapped around you like a warm... well, you know!
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LIB 132 - Cloth Diapers!
Have you ever wondered what a Nappy Nipper is?? Have you always felt a dull, aching longing in your soul for whatever terrycloth toweling is? Did you ever put on a disposable diaper and think, "that was waaaaaay too easy?" If so, you may be ready to try cloth diapers! On this episode of Love in Brief, RY and Lola talk with @ExecBaby (FL) and Liv (@NewbornABDL on IG / babygirlandmommy496 on Tumblr) about all things cloth diapers-- how they work, tips and tricks for using them, and why a big chunk of ABDLs are hopelessly devoted to these awesome diapers. Here are some of the items and videos referenced in today's episode! Leakmaster Flat Cloth Diapers Nappy Nippers Ecoable Cloth Diapers Dependeco Cloth Diapers Terrycloth Towel Diapers Modified Kite Fold How to fold terry squares tutorial Dotty Diaper Company White Cloth Diapers Ecoable All-in-One Diapers
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LIB 131 - Ebbs and Flows
You know how sometimes you really really want to play diapers and play kink and do all sorts of nasty, unseemly things to yourself and/or your partner(s)? And then, kind of inexplicably, a few days or weeks later you could kind of care less about kink or ABDL play? It's easy to get down or hard on ourselves during the times when our kink drive or sex drive wanes, and today's discussion, RY and Teddy talk with Bonsai_Baby (FL/IG) and Blinkxz (FL) about why our kink can ebb and flow, and what to do when that happens. (Hint-- love yourself well, and cut yourself some slack!)
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LIB 130 - Faith & ABDL (Part Deux)
We get a lot of questions about faith and how it interacts (or doesn’t) with kink and ABDL. So we thought it was time to revisit this topic, and we brought along a couple of our beloved friends who are also people with big faith! On this episode, RY and Lola interview TiniestTyrant (FL) and Little-Librarian (FL) on their faith, their kink, and how they have tackled some of the big questions that come up when the two intersect in the same person. Our guests recommend these two resources if you are interested in more! TiniestTyrant recommends ReconcilingWorks.org - A Lutheran program to promote welcome and full participation for all Little Librarian recommends the book “God Didn't Make Us to Hate Us” by Rev. Lizzie McManus-Dail, a book about healing hurt from religious scorn and promote a sense of community.
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LIB 129 - Spring 2025 Question Round-Up!
Can you hear that triangle ringin', little Cowpoke? Well yee-haw, that means it's time for another Question Round-Up! On this episode RY and Lola get into the deep stuff on topics such as trying out Switching, how to love your inner child, tattoos on Littles, how to get involved in your regional community, reciprocating with your partner, and even a bit on tariffs! Also, here are the previous episodes mentioned in this discussion: Episode 126 - Munches Episode 115 - ABDL Retail Stores Episode 51 - Making Friends Episode 23 - Getting Involved
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NEWS - CAPCon Sells Out Rooms in 2 Hours!
Badges and rooms for CAPCon 2026, the world's biggest ABDL convention, went on sale yesterday afternoon... and they sold out rooms at both the host hotel and the secondary hotel in TWO HOURS! But fear not, in this episode of Love in Brief RY and Lola jumped on with Kane (the Convention Lead for CAPCon) and Nito (Deputy Admin Lead) to talk about this record-breaking sell-out, and get information on how to still get access to rooms and badges in the months leading up to CAPCon 2026. It's hot off the press, and just for you! Can't wait to see you next March, tune in to make sure you know how to get your badge!
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LiB 128 - Diaper Positivity (w BumblePree)
Getting to a place of accepting your ABDL side is hard, but imagine turning a corner and not just *accepting* that you like diapers, but *embracing and celebrating* it! ABDL folks aren't the only ones who feel shame about diapers... so do some folks who struggle with incontinence. And whether you want to wear, you need to wear, or both, the journey to self-acceptance and positivity is one of the most important you will ever take. This episode features Pree (@BumblePree on IG), a person living with MS and incontinence who has been featured on Vice and other worldwide media recently as a "diaper influencer" because of her advocacy and encouraging media for those who wear diapers. TeddyBear and RY talk with Pree about her experience turning the corner into accepting and advocacy, and we tackle listener questions and comments about embracing positivity for their want/need to wear diapers.
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LIB 127 - Live at NorthShore Care Supply HQ
On this episode of LiB, RY and Lola stop in at the headquarters of NorthShore Care Supply to talk all things diapers, all things NorthShore, what to look forward to in the future, and even a warehouse tour! If you want to see the inside of the warehouse along with us, click on this link to check out that media! Also, you can now use code LIB10 to save 10% on NorthShore orders! They surprised me with that little nugget right at the end of the podcast! I hope you enjoy, I know I will.
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LIB 126 - Munches
Have you ever wanted to meet other dippy folks in real life, but aren't sure where to start? A MUNCH is the easiest, lowest-risk way to get to know other kinky folk who share your interests. On this episode RY and Teddy talk with munch hosts Lolly and DCDino about the munches they run in their areas, about what munches are, what they are like, and how you can find munches and have a great time engaging in them.
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SPECIAL - LiB At the Beach
It's freezing in the American Midwest, so we did the only thing we could... we saved up our money and got the hell out of there. On this special edition of Love In Brief, we are recording beachside from sunny Mexico, sending warm vibes and sunshine all the way back to the frozen tundra that is most of the Northern Hemisphere. We usually take January off, but since we got rained in for a couple of days, we decided to try something new: an "ask me anything" episode based on listener-submitted questions. So, it's not the usual interview or advice fare, but we hope you enjoy this personal diversion nonetheless, and we'll be back in February with more advice and interviews on Love in Brief!
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LIB 125 - New Year's 2024-2025 Celebration
One of RY's very FAVORITE episodes every year is when we get the chance to ask people what good things their ABDL kink has brought them. In the past we've asked what you're PROUD OF, what made you HAPPY you had an ABDL kink, etc. This year, we asked what you are GRATEFUL FOR with regard to your ABDL kink, and boy did y'all show up! On this episode we'll hear from YOU, our LiB listeners, as you share your own stories and what made you grateful for your ABDL kink. It's the perfect way to ring in the new year!
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LIB 124 - CAPCon SideQuest Preview + What to Expect
Are you going to CAPCon SideQuest? You are??? You lucky dog, you! Welp, we've got some hot info for you; on this episode of LIB, RY and Teddy talk with Nito, the Director of Communications for CAPCon, about all of the last-minute details you'll want to know! Are you NOT going to CAPCon SideQuest? Well, here's a big ol' FOMO warning, but we think it's worth a listen anyway as whatever goes well at SideQuest may become a regular CAP feature! And, RY tells you how YOUR voice can become a part of our annual New Year's celebration, you won't want to miss it!
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LIB 123 - Fall 2024 Question Round-Up (Yeee-haw!)
Howdy Partners! You know we enjoy a good round-up, on this Fall 2024 edition @LolaAndThenSome and I get to not 3, not 4, not 5, but 10 questions in the space of just over an hour! We'll talk about topics like- - What to do when your 'nilla partner shows signs of a Little vibe - DLs finding their way in an AB world - Tips and tricks for ABDL/BDSM scening - A fun near-miss story - How to meet folks online - What to do when your ex knows Plus a quick lightning round (kerchow!) about our relationship, by listener request. So ENJOY, this one is chock full of advice, and some of it may just be a rootin' tootin' good time!
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LIB 122 - CAPCON Sidequest 2025 + Announcement
WHOOOAH, hold onto your butts, it's 3 episodes in three weeks? Yup, we're going crazy over here at LiB Central and EVERYTHING MUST GO! OK, not really, it's just that we had juuuust recorded a CAPCON SideQuest episode when the news dropped about CAP '25. So we thought now seemed a good time to put out this episode, so that those of you who are wracked with disappointment would get to hear about all the cool things happening at the SideQuest in January while tickets are still available. In case you decide to go! Enjoy this detailed conversation with CAPCon Founding Director Ellexy and Convention Director Kane about what Sidequest is all about, what kinds of cool things are new to SideQuest, and what to look forward to with the new digs. All is not lost, it's a great ep, and SideQuest sounds super fun! More info, tickets, and contact the organizers at CAPCON.club
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LIB 121 - Dealing with Loss & Grief
It is so hard to say goodbye to someone you love, whether it is due to a breakup, a change in living situations, a broken friendship, or a death. And how we deal with grief and loss can deeply intersect with our self-care, our sense of intimacy, and our kink life. On this episode, RY talks one-on-one with Mako, the co-creator and co-host of The Big Little Podcast, about loss and grief, and how we can move through and move forward. SHOW NOTES-- The Big Little Podcast Archive The Widow's Handbook The Bookshelf Model The Pinball Machine Model Cloud Atlas (IMDB) When Things Fall Apart (Amazon)
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SPECIAL - Replay - How to Be Super Un-Creepy (IdiotWind Tribute)
Last month we lost another incredible member of the community and a friend to many, IdiotWind. On this special replay episode, RY pays tribute to IdiotWind and replays his 2018 appearance on Episode 6 of LiB. We'll miss you, friend.
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LIB 120 - The Dungeons One
This week on LIB we are exploring the world of BDSM Dungeons, talking about what they are, what to expect from them, and how ABDL folks can go and enjoy some dungeony fun (and even organize your own ABDL events there)! Join @TeddyBearWithMe (FL/IG) and I and our guests @Sincerely_Ripley (FL/IG) and LoveSlave (@denversanctuary - FL) as we talk about the fun and kinky frivolity of the Dungeon scene. Can't wait for your thoughts and experiences with YOUR local dungeons as well!
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LIB 119 - The Pet Play Episode
This is one we have wanted to do ever since CAPCon this year... a deeper dive into PET PLAY & ABDL! @LolaAndThenSome (FL) has been really excited to journey into Pet Play territory, and she suggested we invite @pupscoutpony (FL) and @mschievousmouse (FL) on as they were amazing at CAP. And of course, they were amazing here as well! Here are some of the products they mention in the podcast mr-s-leather.com wruffstuff.com etsy.com amazon.com (look for halloween costumes!)
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BONUS EP - NorthShore's ABDL Ambassador
On this quick-hit bonus episode, we talk to James Frost, the new ABDL Marketing Channel Director for NorthShore Care Supply, a new-to-world (as far as we know) role... yup, a medical/Nilla diaper company hired an ABDL Ambassador! We talk about the role, the goals, and what ABDL folks mean to NorthShore. If you want to hear the other great podcast that tackled this topic, check out this episode of Newsie's Nook!
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LIB 118 - Summer 2024 Question Round-Up
It's time for another round-up of YOUR questions! On this episode, Lolaandthensome and I answer six listener-submitted questions, on topics such as: Coming Out as ABDL Social Media and Face Pics Partner Isn't Interested Safe Power Dynamics Real Life Couple Dynamics Self Acceptance vs Self Love Also, as mentioned in the episode, here is a link to the ABDealing +1 Support Group!
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LIB 117 - Trans & ABDL (Part Deux)
As we wrap up Pride month 2024, we want to talk about what it’s like being trans in the ABDL community! My guests are @ABDLPedro_1925(IG)/Pedro_Luis-DL(FL), @AmanitaDreams (IG/FL) and @hbananer(FL)/hbananer09(IG) and together we dig into topics like the overlap between gender and kink journeys, the intersection of trans and ABDL, issues that trans people in the community face, and what it’s like navigating both a trans identity *and* an ABDL kink at the same time. It’s a fabulous discussion, full of tons of learning and a lot of fun along the way! Here are the resources we reference in this episode— Are Neurodivrse People More Likely to be Kinky? Sex & Psychology Podcast Dr. Liam Wignall - “Kinky In the Digital Age” A Short History of Trans Misogny - Jules Gill-Peterson Come As You Are - Emily Nagoski The Transgender Issue - An Argument for Justice - Shon Faye
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LIB 116 - DD/lb Relationship Stories in Gay Male ABDL Culture
On this long-form episode of Love In Brief, RY is delighted to introduce three brand new voices to LIB, and to focus on a community we don't talk enough about on the podcast: gay men in ABDL! Of course, there are WORLDS of different experiences and topics to cover in that community, we wanted to bring a few to kick off PRIDE month! This episode features some fantastic relationship stories, personal triumphs and losses, and killer advice and wisdom from our three guests -- @LittleTim55 (FL), @bunnyboyjoey (IG), and @puprootbeer (IG). It's a fabulous and heartwarming episode (and at times more than a little bit super adorable)!
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LIB 115 - ABDL Retail Stores
Have you ever wondered what it would be like to walk into a real brick-and-mortar ABDL store? Or to find a whole section of your regional medical supply company dedicated to ABDL stuff? This episode brings us a fabulous discussion with Lora and Bob, owners of two different small businesses: ABDL brick-and-mortar stores that serve their regions. We talk about what it's like to open an ABDL retail store, how they provide confidentiality and safe welcome to their customers, and some tips on engaging an ABDL store as your first real-life contact with the community. Special thanks to TeddyBearWithMe for producing this episode, and to DadBod for the audio fix work and editing!
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LIB 114 - Spring 2024 Question Round-Up
It's time to reach into that mail bag and answer some more LIB listener questions! On this episode RY welcomes his partner @LolaAndThenSome to her first ever Question Round-Up! In this episode we cover-- helping a partner make a sexy connection to diapershow to tell someone their online info is vulnerable how to talk to your vanilla partner about your kink interests (when your last partner blabbed to the world) what other amazing ABDL podcasts to listen to how to get your partner to initiate kinky play with you How to pick a screen name. Wheeeeeew, all that in 50 minutes, so hang on to your (padded) butts! And, for those wondering, here is a list of the podcasts and creators we mention on this episodeDear Jazzy (Jazzy) The Usual Bet (Sophie, Chloe, Kimmie) The Crinkle Club (ComfortablyCrinkly + MissMummy)Cautious Little Heart (Nikki) Newsie's Nook (newsiebabie)The Big Little Podcast (Mako + Spacey biglittlepodcast.info)DiaperPerv's ABDL Podcast (diaperperv)Dream A Little (Lo)
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LIB 113 - Post-Convention First-Timers Review
On this episode, TeddyBearWith Me and RY catch up with two CAPCon first-timers, Kashi and ebabyboy, to get their candid review and reflections on their first big convention experience.
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LIB 112 - CAPCON 2024 Live Episode
CAPCON has just wrapped and we had a fabulous *live* episode with killer questions, amazing panelists, and lots of ridiculous fun. (We'd like to think there is some good advice somewhere in there too ;). On this live episode we tackle dating/meeting others in the ABDL community, activism as an ABDL, how to step out and attend your first event, and MUCH more! A huge thanks to our panelists: TeddyBearWithMe, Carmen Sandiego, Sprite4breakfast, Mako, & Bananer!!
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BONUS - CAPCon 2024 Preview
It's just a week away from CAPCon 2024, and we wanted to give you a preview on what's going down this year! Joining RY for this bonus episode are CAPCon Founding Director Ellexy and Communications Director Incognito for a preview of this year's festivities, important tricks for preparation, and tricks for making the most of your CAPCon time.
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LIB 111 - Discovering the ABDL Community with Your Vanilla Partner
Sharing your ABDL kink with a 'nilla partner can be scary, and getting involved in the ABDL community can be an intimidating prospect to boot...but sometimes getting involved in the community can be exactly what you and your 'nilla partner need to grow closer together! On this episode we talk to @rachandtucks (FL) about how their relationship started, how their early days of navigating kink started out with some real roller coaster events, and how getting engaged with the ABDL community helped bring them closer together. I am joined by this episode's co-host, my partner @lolaandthensome (FL), and together with Rach and Tucks we also talk about tips and tricks for events and community participation!
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