Love Isn't Enough
by Joree Rose
Love Isn't Enough, hosted by partners in life and love, Joree Rose, LMFT and Dr. John Schinnerer, answers the question of what to do when your love isn't enough to carry you through the inevitable challenges of relationships.This podcast will inspire you to learn, grow and cultivate the awareness and the tools to create and maintain the fulfilling, thriving relationship you desire and deserve. Tune in each Tuesday morning for an intimate view into the raw and profound inner-workings of relationships, where you will feel seen and validated in hearing your story mirrored in the lives of others. Each episode features vulnerable and honest conversations between Joree and John, along with esteemed guests in the fields of psychology, relationships, and academia. Visit us at www.loveisntenough.net for more info and how to work with us.
Episodes
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From "Never Again" to "I Do": Our Relationship Healing Journey
Just days before their wedding, Joree and John sit down to reflect on how they transformed their insecure attachment - hers anxious, his avoidant - into a secure partnership. They share what it looked like to move from fear and defensiveness to trust and safety, and why the work of healing old...
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Finding a Psychologically Rich Life…in Portugal!
In this intimate, story-driven episode, Joree and John explore three complementary paths to a good life: pleasure (hedonic happiness), purpose (meaning), and the often-overlooked third path: psychological richness. Drawing on positive psychology research from Dr. Shigehiro Oishi's "Life in Three...
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Dating Post-Divorce Part 2: Green Flags to Look For
In this episode of Love Isn't Enough, Joree and John continue sharing the dating advice they followed in their own journey, along with the tips they give their clients on how to find - and maintain - the love you're looking for. While some of this episode is for those dating later in life, and...
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Dating Post-Divorce, Part 1: How To Identify Red Flags
Dating after divorce is a whole new game, with real wounds, real wisdom, and (yes) real hope. In this straight-talking, compassionate episode, John and Joree share their own post-divorce dating stories and how they guide their clients: what to put on your dating profile, how to spot genuine...
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Do Love Languages Really Matter?
What makes you feel loved might not be what your partner needs to feel loved - and that's where so many couples miss each other. In this playful, practical episode (yes, complete with Joree's giggles and Dr. John's faces 🙃), we revisit Gary Chapman's five love languages - Words of Affirmation,...
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The Ways Vulnerability Breeds Connection, and How to Practice It
Intimacy isn't just physical, it's the courageous act of sharing your inner landscape: the thoughts, feelings, fears, and messy in-between moments most of us keep tucked away. In this candid, funny, and deeply vulnerable episode, John and Joree unpack why so many couples get stuck in…
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Inside the Fight: How Attachment Styles Play Out in Real Time
In this 3rd episode in our series on attachment styles, Joree and John take attachment theory off the page and into real life, breaking down patterns into tangible examples of how anxious and avoidant patterns play out in the middle of an argument. As we know, arguments in love are never just…
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The #1 Thing to Practice to Feel Safe and Secure in Your Relationship
What happens when someone who feels "too much" falls in love with someone who feels "not enough"? For years, that was us - Joree, the anxious partner, and John, the avoidant partner - stuck in the push–pull dance neither of us fully understood. It created disconnection, frustration, and the same...
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From Reactive to Relational: How We Healed Our Attachment Wounds
In this heartfelt and vulnerable joint episode, we share our personal journey of healing from deep-rooted attachment wounds. We open up about the patterns we carried into our relationship—especially the anxious/avoidant dynamic that kept us stuck in cycles of disconnection—and how we consciously...
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How to Support One Another When Life Gets Hard
In this honest episode, Joree and John share vulnerably (once again - they're always being vulnerable!) how they've been feeling lately. It's been a mixture of grief, sadness and fear about the state of the world, dealing with aging parents, being in physical pain, stress and navigating difficult...
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I Thought I Was Being a Good Partner… Until I Burned Out
On this raw and revealing episode of Love Isn't Enough, Joree opens up about a powerful realization that shook her to the core: she's a high-functioning codependent. Together, John and Joree explore what high-functioning codependency actually looks like—especially in women who seem to have it all...
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The #1 Thing You Need for a Successful Relationship
Your mindset shapes your relationship more than you might realize. In this episode of Love Isn't Enough, we unpack the powerful research on mindset and how your beliefs about growth, change, and learning directly influence the success of your relationship. Do you believe yourself or your partner…
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The Silent Damage of Contempt and Stonewalling
In this episode of Love Isn't Enough, we're diving deep into the final two of Gottman's Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse—contempt and stonewalling—and exploring why these are the most damaging dynamics in relationships. We break down what they look like, why they show up, and how they silently…
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The Four Horsemen: How Defensiveness & Criticism Damage Relationships
In this episode of Love Isn't Enough, Dr. John Schinnerer and Joree Rose take a deep dive into two of the biggest relationship killers: defensiveness and criticism. These behaviors, identified by Dr. John Gottman as part of the "Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse," are major predictors of…
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From Contest to Connection: How Evin Rose & Alex Terranova Found Love in an Unexpected Way
What if your love story started with a contest? In this episode of Love Isn't Enough, we're joined by Evin Rose and Alex Terranova, a couple whose unique journey to love is anything but ordinary. Alex, a coach and podcast host, decided to run a contest to find a date to bring to Tulum, Mexico—and...
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Breakup with Stress, Not Your Partner with Elizabeth Earnshaw
In this episode of Love Isn't Enough with Joree Rose and Dr. John Schinnerer, we are joined by therapist, relationship expert, and author Elizabeth Earnshaw to discuss how stress impacts couples and what we can do about it. Elizabeth's new book, Till Stress Do Us Part, explores how daily...
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Let's Talk About Sex: Breaking the Silence in Relationships
Sex is one of the most important aspects of a relationship—and yet, for so many couples, it's one of the hardest topics to talk about. In this episode of Love Isn't Enough, Dr. John Schinnerer and Joree Rose dive deep into the reasons why couples struggle to communicate about sex, the unspoken...
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Honest Sex for Deeper Connection, with Shana James
In this episode John and Joree interview Shana James, a relationship coach with 20 years of experience who specializes in helping men with their love and sex lives. Shana discusses her work, including insights from her podcast, 'Man Alive,' and her book, 'Honest Sex.' Topics covered include the...
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The Crisis Facing Our Boys: A Deep Dive into Netflix's Adolescence
In this powerful episode of Love Isn't Enough, Dr. John Schinnerer and Joree Rose unpack the timely and troubling themes presented in Netflix's Adolescence, a docuseries that explores the hidden struggles of modern teenage boys. From bullying and isolation to the rise of poisonous online…
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How to Be Resilient When Sh*t Hits the Fan
Joree & John share the story of how John lost his vision in his left eye while in Portugal, why they were the cause of an emergency airplane landing, and how these tribulations actually brought them closer together. So often when the sh*t hits the fan, it can feel easy to want to give up or…
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Get Through the Holidays with Less Stress
Inevitably, the holidays are a stressful time of year, and this can easily turn into unintended arguments with your partner. In this episode of Love Isn't Enough, Joree and John talk through common challenges couples face and give helpful tools on how to navigate stress with greater awareness,...
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Harnessing Gratitude: The Secret to Lasting Love
In this episode of 'Love Isn't Enough,' Dr. John Schinnerer and Joree Rose, LMFT, discuss the importance of appreciation and gratitude for loving, thriving relationships. They explore how many couples tend to neglect these practices, despite their effectiveness in fostering positive emotions and...
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How to Talk So Your Partner Will Listen
Almost everyone we've ever worked with needs help learning how to communicate better with their partner. So why is this such a ubiquitous relationship challenge? There's lots of reasons: we often are not role modeled healthy or effective communication strategies, many times we don't know what we...
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How to Stay Connected When You Have Opposing Views or Beliefs
In this timely conversation in the face of the election, Joree and John talk about how couples can navigate staying connected and how to get along when they have differences in their values or beliefs. We know from research that 67% of relationship challenges are not solvable, so then what? Not...
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Everybody Wants This
In this engaging episode, John and Joree explore what makes a healthy, thriving relationship by dissecting the themes from the Netflix hit show Nobody Wants This. Using the show's rare portrayal of a healthy relationship as a starting point, they identify the common pitfalls couples fall into and...
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Why Love Isn't Enough for a Fulfilling Relationship
In this premier episode of a new joint podcast with partners in life and love, Joree Rose, LMFT and Dr. John Schinnerer, you'll hear about the happy, thriving relationship they now have and the vulnerable story it took to get there. They went from bliss to breakup, and back again, and they share...
About this show
Love Isn't Enough, hosted by partners in life and love, Joree Rose, LMFT and Dr. John Schinnerer, answers the question of what to do when your love isn't enough to carry you through the inevitable challenges of relationships.This podcast will inspire you to learn, grow and cultivate the awareness and the tools to create and maintain the fulfilling, thriving relationship you desire and deserve. Tune in each Tuesday morning for an intimate view into the raw and profound inner-workings of relationships, where you will feel seen and validated in hearing your story mirrored in the lives of others. Each episode features vulnerable and honest conversations between Joree and John, along with esteemed guests in the fields of psychology, relationships, and academia. Visit us at www.loveisntenough.net for more info and how to work with us.
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