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Love Life and Labels

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Pour a glass of wine & Join Lei & Esh as they discuss all of the truths and complexities of life and love as proud queer black women. Each episode they will talk their way through dating and marriage as black queer millennials. Having been together nearly a decade Lei & Esh are two black women loving each other unapologetically. This too is black love. Keep up with Love life and labels on Instagram @_lovelifeandlabels & youtube @lovelifeandlabelsSubmit listener letters via email [email protected] voice messages https://anchor.fm/lovelifeandlabels/message

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Episodes

  1. Marriage and partnership

    If marriage is simply a piece of paper, a contract; why aren’t we taking seriously the consequences of entering into this partnership? Why is it so important to understand partnership especially in lesbian marriages? This week Lei & Esh discuss the lack of emphasis placed on partnership in…

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  2. Infidelity and Accountability

    When dealing with infidelity who’s truly to blame? Should your frustrations be directed towards the woman on the side or your girlfriend/ wife? Is it fair to place the blame on the side chick? How much responsibility does she have in the situation? Or, is your wife solely to blame? Who do we hold...

  3. Too aggressive to be feminine

    We’re unpacking what is expected of feminine women in the LGBTQIA community. Women are more than one thing but can feminine women be assertive or aggressive and still be a catch? How do we combat the patriarchy and fight misogyny in a community full of women? Submit your listener letters to...

  4. The power of No

    Saying no and standing firm in that decision has been one of the toughest journeys we’ve embarked upon as a couple. Finding the balance between being true to yourself and setting boundaries can be challenging. How has the ability or inability to say no affected you and your relationships with...

  5. Centering Alone Time

    Is it healthy to demand your woman spend every waking moment with you? How do you navigate talking about alone time? How important is autonomy in a relationship? This week we're discussing toxic controlling behavior and the importance of privacy and identity in marriage and dating. please rate...

  6. Surviving 2020

    2020 changed everything for us. Our household income was reduced. We started a business. We conceived a child. The pandemic showed us so much about not only ourselves but it opened our eyes to the world around us and forced us to really take in what we saw. This is what 2020 taught us. Was 2020…

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  7. 18 And Engaged

    is 18 too young to be married and how do you handle unreasonable in laws? Whew it gets real as we discuss the affects of Covid on our lives and welcome you all back to a new era of Love life and labels. instagram _lovelifeandlabels YouTube Love life and labels amazon.com/shop/lovelifeandlabels

  8. Corona Chronicles

    corona chronicles ya'll! This is our first recap our gay ass quarantine season. We've got all the tea on our corona shenanigans. Visit www.Audibletrial.com/lovelifeandlabels for your free audioook. Hum vitamins https://www.shareasale.com/r.cfm?b=1112986&u=2359993&m=76159 Email:...

  9. Lovers And Friends

    Are you friends with your ex? Can lesbians truly be friends with an ex while in a new relationship? Submit your topic suggestions and requests for advice to [email protected] Find us on Instagram @_lovelifeandlabels

  10. Keep It Spicy Y’all.

    We're unpacking sex in long term relationships. we know lesbians can move quickly, and sometimes the fire burns out even quicker. How do you keep the sex good after being together for a while?

  11. What Is Good Sex?

    what is Good sex? what makes sex good? on this episode of the podcast we're talking about what makes sex good and what makes sex great. We all know lesbians talk a good game when it comes to bedroom action , well these married lesbians are going to give you our take on good sex.

  12. Catching Feelings

    sex minus emotions, is it real?

  13. How About The First Time

    It's the month of love and we're talking SEX baby! submit your questions and requests for advice to [email protected] follow us on Instagram @lovelifeandlabels

  14. Happy Wife Happy Life

    Does a Happy wife truly equal a happy life? well what happens when there are two wives? Does carrying the responsibility for your wife's happiness cause problems long term? Let's unpack this idea

  15. Too Pretty To Be Butch

    it's time to re examine what's masculine and what's feminine

  16. First Impressions

    Did we live up to our first impressions?

  17. Light Skin Is The Right Skin?

    Is light skin "IN"??? Has colorism made its way into the black lesbian community?

  18. Where's The Meat

    We don't need your Dick.

  19. Why did I get married?

    We're celebrating our 2 year anniversary and reflecting on our journey to the altar to answer the age old question...Why the hell did I get married???

  20. Bringing Sand To The Beach

    It's pride month and we celebrated in a huge way! Tune in to find out how we showed our pride.

  21. Is She The One

    Is it always obvious when you've found "The one". we love and appreciate your support! meet us over at Luvlifeandlabels on IG and theSWEETlife on youtube! Head over to Amillilittlethings.com for all of your all natural handmade body care

  22. Pillow Talk Pt2

    Caramel is Golden Brown! Thank you all for listening. We appreciate your support in growing our community here. Please feel free to subscribe, share and rate our podcast. You can also follow our shenanigans on our other platforms. Instagram @Luvlifeandlabels Youtube.com/lovelifeandlabels Facebook...

  23. Zebra Head

    are you down with the swirl? Have you ever dated a white girl? Are you open to dating outside of your race? Tune in to find out I we've ever been down with the swirl. Engaging with you all is the best part of doing this show, we are so grateful for your love and support. Lets keep the…

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  24. Pillow Talk

    We're answering Listener Questions and having a little pillow talk this week. We will have a pillow talk episode once a month so please feel free to write in and submit your questions, dilemmas funny stories and everything in between. Engaging with you all is the best part of doing this show, we...

  25. What's your Love Language?

    Do you have a hard time communicating love to your wife? Or maybe you aren't feeling the love from your wife the way you used to. Are you falling out of love? that could be, but maybe you aren't speaking your wife's love language. Let's talk about it. To submit your listener questions or topic...

  26. She comes first

    the gender gap, also known as the orgasm gap is an issues in many women but does it effect the lesbian community? We're talking about all the things and getting to the bottom of it. Thank you for your continued support and love! please share and tell your friends and please don't forget to like,...

  27. Daddy Issues

    how are you dealing with your past traumas? We've sat down and we're unpacking some serious emotional baggage. Get your tissues ready because this one is a doozy. We're getting personal and taking a seat on the couch, grab your wine it's time to come to grips with our childhood traumas. If you...

  28. the bounce back

    It has been one of those weeks ya'll! There was calamity left right and sideways. We made it through though. Here's a recap of the past week of being young black lesbian and married. please don't forget to follow us on IG @Luvlifeandlabels to keep up with us and join the conversation and be sure…

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  29. Having your cake and eating it too

    What's the deal with Lesbians who don't date bisexuals? Is it really that big of a deal? We're talking about it join the conversation and please don't forget to follow us on IG @Luvlifeandlabels

  30. 50 shades of greedy

    can there be reconciliation after infidelity? Is Cheating the end all be all or can relationships last. Let's discuss, Please don't forget to rate, comment and subscribe for new content. New episodes every Monday! Follow us online IG @luvlifeandlabels and youtube @TheSweetLife

  31. Did you pack your raincoat?

    Let's talk about sex Baby! Why is the conversation surrounding safe sex taboo in the lesbian community? Why are we so uncomfortable discussing boundaries and expressing our needs? Well, we're talking about it and we're gonna get to the bottom of things?

  32. How we met

    We're spilling all the Tea and telling you how we met and where it all started. We've known each other for ten years and have seen each other through some interesting times, we're discussing everything from exes, to recognizing "the 1" to being "flewed out" Tune in to find out how we made it. To...

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

Pour a glass of wine & Join Lei & Esh as they discuss all of the truths and complexities of life and love as proud queer black women. Each episode they will talk their way through dating and marriage as black queer millennials. Having been together nearly a decade Lei & Esh are two black women loving each other unapologetically. This too is black love. Keep up with Love life and labels on Instagram @_lovelifeandlabels & youtube @lovelifeandlabelsSubmit listener letters via email [email protected] voice messages https://anchor.fm/lovelifeandlabels/message

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Pour a glass of wine & Join Lei & Esh as they discuss all of the truths and complexities of life and love as proud queer black women. Each episode they will talk their way through dating and marriage as black queer millennials. Having been together nearly a decade Lei & Esh are two black women...

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