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Luminousz Starr Commentary

by Luminousz Ztarr

Welcome to the Luminousz Starr commentary! I am your host Casondra. Join me on this podcast as I discuss the aftermath of narcissistic and codependent relationships. Perhaps you've noticed that there are signs that you are done with the narcissist! I share tools designed to encourage others like you to heal, grow and thrive past narcissistic codependent relationships. You can find me on various social media platforms such as; YouTube, Twitch, Vimeo, Apple, and Patreon, as an excellent resource for millions who are dealing with the aftermath of narcissistic codependent relationships. Thank you.

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Episodes

  1. Relaxing Music with Sounds of Nature

    Listen to the relaxing sounds of nature with lofi music. Thank you for your support and for listening. If you enjoy this episode don't forget to share and like.

  2. Narcissistic Personality Seem to Have a Sixth Sense About Selecting Safe Victims

    There are some narcissists who unfortunately will seek to prey upon children for source supply. He or she might tag certain children as safe victim as this often poses to be less risky to the narcissist who doesn't want to get caught for their actions or crimes against children. Trigger warning....

  3. Unresolved Daddy Issues of Female Narcissists

    Due to choosing to unconsciously reenact her unresolved childhood trauma and or painful daddy issues, the female narcissist often seeks source supply from romantic partners who remind her of the first man who broke her heart, which is her father. Watch on Youtube:...

  4. Narcissistic Lovers who are Machiavellian

    The Machiavellian spirit of narcissistic false self can cover a number of mask that those with a narcissistic personality can wear. When one is described as, "Machiavellian," he or she is described as a person who is deceptive and crafty. The functionality of the various masks of narcissists...

  5. The Scapegoat Ritual in the Narcissistic Family Structure

    Please understand, and overstand that when a scapegoat ritual is being conducted, there’s a ritualistic sacrifice that’s being done. It’s a form of energy harvesting. Unlike the sacrificial lamb a scapegoat is being offered up by a group for that group as a sacrifice against their will. Your…

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  6. How the Narcissistic Family Scapegoat Child Ends Up Having Future Narcissistic Relationships

    The narcissistic family often teaches, grooms and prepares the scapegoated child for future narcissistic and other types of dysfunctional relationships. Unfortunately, narcissistic relationships can become appealing to those who are scapegoated within a narcissistic family due to it being…

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  7. Narcissistic Family Tree

    The narcissistic family tree functions like a narcissistic family system. A picture of the scapegoated child's family tree turns from a picture of pride to a picture worth a thousand lies. Those who have been scapegoated in a narcissistic family structure might feel cheated out of growing up in a...

  8. The Identified Patient is the Scapegoat Child in a Narcissistic Family System

    Did you know that the identified patient within the dysfunctional family is selected to outsource dysfunction? Narcissistic family scapegoat children are selected for the same reason. The identified patient in a dysfunctional family is often considered the black sheep and this is one of the many...

  9. What Narcissists Really Want You to Bargain

    What narcissists really want you to bargain. Thanks for listening. Stay tuned for more!

  10. When Narcissistic Family Scapegoat Learns the Power of Expression

    When narcissistic family scapegoat child learns the power of expression as he or she grows up, narcissistic parents and or grandparents might perceive him or her as becoming, "too different," to control. The personality structure of scapegoated children is often perceived by NPD parents as a...

  11. Narcissistic Family Scapegoat Child is Treated Like an Outcast

    Narcissistic family scapegoat children are often treated like outcast due to perhaps some family members who wish to remain or get in the good graces of other narcissistic family members. Watch on Youtube: https://youtube.com/@LuminouszZtarrChannel #LuminouszZtarr NARCISSISTIC PARENTS...

  12. The Biggest Lie That Narcissistic Family Told Scapegoat Child

    Ever wonder what the biggest lie told to the child who is selected as scapegoat? The narcissistic family system has to survive at all costs. Narcissistic parents and or grandparents who choose to gain at the expense of scapegoated children unfortunately, becomes a common thing within narcissistic...

  13. Why Narcissistic Parents Lack Remorse for Scapegoating Their Children

    There are some adult children of narcissistic parents and grandparents who might not be clear as to why he or she was selected to play the dysfunctional role of scapegoat while growing up. This confusion can sometimes compound symptoms of narcissistic abuse syndrome. The narcissistic family…

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  14. How Narcissists Use Sex as a Control Tactic

    Narcissists will sometimes weaponize sex as a means to an end, especially if he or she thinks that they must gain control in romantic relationships. Watch on Youtube: #LuminouszZtarr NARCISSISTIC PARENTS https://youtu.be/gIybHnnc9dI Become a member today by joining this channel to get access to...

  15. How Does Overcoming Narcissistic Relationships Work for You?

    How does overcoming narcissistic relationships work for you? It's not a one size fits all when it comes to healing and thriving past dysfunctional relationships like narcissistic relationships. You might have been feeling more stressed lately due to external events compounded by having narcissist...

  16. When the Hoover Attempt of the Narcissist Backfires

    When the hoover attempt of a narcissist backfires it's priceless. Watch on Youtube: #LuminouszZtarr NARCISSISTIC PARENTS https://youtu.be/gIybHnnc9dI Become a member today by joining this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9iGYSCq5eS_mW0toaqAtHg/join BOOK…

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  17. Three Grooming Tactics of the Covert Narcissist

    The ultimate silent treatment is covert narcissism. Watch on Youtube: #LuminouszZtarr WHEN THE NARCISSIST DISCARDS THE FLYING MONKEY (video) https://youtu.be/7riIEQYmlW0 Become a member today by joining this channel to get access to perks:...

  18. When the Narcissists Says Karma Doesn't Exist

    There are times that you hear the expression from people who don't believe that karma exist, while some narcissists seem to believe that luck is real and not karma. Of course they have a right to their thoughts and opinions however, karma is another way of acknowledging that there's such a thing...

  19. How to Deal When the Narcissist Lacks Empathy

    There are some who have testified that their narcissist seems to be oblivious to how others around him or her experiences narcissism in the relationship. It's like a parallel reality, which can seem surreal to everyone except the narcissist. Narcissistic personality types tend to lack empathy. It...

  20. The Value of a Support Base After Narcissistic Relationships

    An effective support base is designed to help you to focus on thriving past narcissistic relationships. An effective support base has focus tools that are designed to help you maintain a no contact lifestyle from past narcissistic relationships, while servinging as a preventative tactic from...

  21. How to Break Narcissist's Abracadabra Codes

    How to break narcissist's abracadabra codes. Watch on Youtube: #LuminouszZtarr WHEN THE NARCISSIST DISCARDS THE FLYING MONKEY (video) https://youtu.be/7riIEQYmlW0 Become a member today by joining this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9iGYSCq5eS_mW0toaqAtHg/join…

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  22. Narcissistic Personality Types Use Abracadabra Codes

    Did you know that narcissists often will use abracadabra codes? Narcissists often know what their intentions are in every situation from day one. He or she can have these imaginary contracts with terms of unrealistic expecations. Sometimes it's a good idea to check the narcissist's…

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  23. Narcissistic Personality Bad Influence or Demonically Possessed?

    How does one tell if narcissistic personality types are demonically possessed or a person who might be a bad influence? Is dealing with a narcissistic relationship a bad case of demon possession or perhaps it's a situation whereas some are being demonically influenced to behave badly? Regardless,...

  24. How to Say, "Goodbye," to Narcissistic Relationships

    How to find the good in the goodbye after the narcissistic relationship is over. It's easy to become stuck by continuing to focus on what you might think your narcissist is doing to get over on you and others. Some narcissistic personality types often focus on the reward of source supply rather...

  25. How to Recognize Past Narcissistic Relationships Creeping Up

    There are many people that can talk to you about how far a narcissist will go in order to experience a successful hoover. He or she might recruit some of their enablers to play the dysfunctional role of flying monkey to help falicilitate hoovering you back into a third-party relationship(s) and...

  26. Narcissists Will Sometimes Discard Those They Recruit as Flying Monkeys

    Learn to spot the signs of flying monkeys before it's too late! There are some who have been recruited by the narcissist to play the dysfunctional role of flying monkey causing a twisted third-party relationship to occur. However, after helping the narcissist to hoover he or she can also…

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  27. How Flying Monkey is First Cousin to the Narcissist

    There are signs that reveal that you're dealing with a person who has been recruited by perhaps your narcissist to play the dysfunctional role of a flying monkey! Narcissists and those who play the dysfunctional role of flying monkey are not like twins, rather they're like first cousins. They…

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  28. How Narcissistic Personality Seem to go the Extra Mile of Discard

    How does the narcissist seem to go the extra mile to discard others? It might seem as if he or she is going over time on the demon time. It's not a case of he or she is just not into you. Usually, the discard masks the narcissist's shame and guilt cycle. He or she might attempt to hoover sometime...

  29. How to Recognize the Perfect Polarity in Narcissistic Relationships

    How does one recognize the perfect polarity that occurs in narcissistic relationships? First, know who and what you're dealing with. Secondly, take off the rose-colored glasses which will help clarify contradictions, falsehood and manipulative tactics that fuel narcissistic relationships. Lastly,...

  30. How to Contemplate Forgiveness of Narcissistic Relationships

    How to contemplate forgiveness of narcissistic relationships and narcissist can be challenging, overwhelming, triggering and can seem impossible to achieve. There are steps that are often overlooked when contemplating forgiveness of narcissistic relationships and those with a narcissistic...

  31. How to Stop Focusing on Your Narcissist and Thrive Forward!

    How to stop focusing on your narcissist and thrive forward. It's about time perhaps that you accept that you're outgrowing the narcissist and changing, while your narcissist might not ever change. There are several strategies that you can apply that can help you to break the habit of focusing too...

  32. It's Time to Stop Focusing on Your Narcissist

    It's time to stop thinking of your narcissist. When you think of the shenanigans that narcissists pull it can perhaps influence you to feel some kind of way. Narcissistic personality types can become some of the coldest in the game of narcissism. It's about time perhaps that you accept that…

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  33. How to Make Peace with Choosing to go no Contact from Narcissistic Family System

    How does one make peace with making the decision to go no contact from narcissistic family? For those who have been selected as scapegoat within his or her dysfunctional family are often traumatized by the experience. When he or she has chosen to go no contact it is usually the last resort to...

  34. When Narcissists Don't Seem to Play Fair

    There's no such thing as a fair bargain in narcissistic relationships. A narcissist might want your attention and energy all while bowing down before them 24/7, but what do you get in return? Some people seem to practically give up their life if not their souls in order to please their…

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  35. How Narcissistic Personality Uses the Reptilian System and Primal Drives of Others

    How narcissistic personality uses primal drives to control. Perhaps it's time to focus on the love connection, which starts with you. We all have primal drives, but when you choose to function from your heart space it can ignite and align every aspect of your essence. Beware of using too much of...

  36. It's Okay to Admit That You Don't Like Your Narcissist's Behavior

    It's okay to admit that there's just some things that you don't like about your narcissist. Most people can name at least three things that they don't like about someone that they love, like, respect, or care about. Let's face it, narcissistic behavior often includes being extremely selfish…

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  37. The Dark Triad Drama in Narcissist Relationships

    The dark triad oven comes with a lot of drama, which can have a negative effect on any relationship, yet alone narcissistic relationships. The dark triad consists of three personality types; narcissistic, machivavillian and psychopathic all rolled into one. There are many on social media and…

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  38. What's the Narcissist's Catch-22?

    What's the narcissist's catch-22? Watch on Youtube: #LuminouszZtarrChannel Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9iGYSCq5eS_mW0toaqAtHg/join BOOK SUGGESTION: Order your E-Book: Break Free from Narcissistic Codependent Relationships Now: The 5 Strategic Steps…

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  39. How to Deal with the Bruised Ego of the Narcissist

    Ever wonder why a narcissistic personality seems to see red when the answer to their unrealistic requests, extreme advances for affection and perhaps their crazy-making is big fat, "No!?" Perhaps you've noticed this behavior in your narcissist? Very often what's taking place is that your…

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  40. Johnny Depp and Ex-Wife Amber Heard Face Off

    Johnny Depp and Amber Heard face off in court. While Johnny Depp faces cross examination, he is suing ex-wife Amber Heard for a $50 million Defamation libel case. Depp is alleging that ex-wife Amber Heard defamed him in an opinion column published in The Washington Post in December 2018. Watch on...

  41. Johnny Depp vs. Amber Heard Defamation Trial

    Sharing my thoughts on Johnny Depp vs. Amber Heard defamation trial as it continues. Did the article that Amber Heard published in the 2018 Washington Post end up hurting Johnny Depp's future opportunities with Disney's Pirates of the Carrabean franchise as character Captain Jack Sparrow? The...

  42. Eligio Bishop is Denied Bond While Ex Carbon Nation Members Speak Out

    Recently, Eligio Bishop who calls himself Th3 3 God is denied bond. Have we really seen the last of Th33 God a.k.a Eligio Lee Bishop? There are some ex Carbon Nation members who are celebrating as they continue to speak out about their experiences while in the cult. It is rumored that some of the...

  43. When They're Gone and You're Feeling Stuck

    After a relationship is over, most people go through the grief of it all. But this does not mean that you have to be stuck. Watch on Youtube: #LuminouszZtarr Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC9iGYSCq5eS_mW0toaqAtHg/join BOOK SUGGESTION: Order your E-Book:...

  44. How Narcissistic Personality can Seem Possessed

    How does narcissistic personality seem possessed? It's easy to confuse signs of possession with signs of narcissistic personality disorder by reading the dignosis criterion in theDSM-V and a by watching horror movies about demon possession. There are some who are and who have reported their...

  45. How to Find the Words When You Know It's Best to Let the Narcissist Go

    The best way to find the good in saying goodbye to narcissist relationships is to come to peace with facing the reality of how your health is probably being compromised. How does one find the words to let go and say goodbye to their narcissist? Sometimes you might find that you are not…

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  46. Ever Wonder if Your Narcissist has Nightmare Too?

    You're not alone! Your narcissist is not immuned to having night terrors, bad dreams and nightmares. Ever wonder what your narcissist's worst nightmare is? There are reasons why you might be having nightmares about your narcissist. But there are several signs to look out for and plenty of things...

  47. Remembering Transgressions of Narcissists in Your Life Doesn't Make You Grudgeful

    Just because you haven't forgotten about some transgressions doesn't mean that you are being mean and holding grudges. Have you ever heard people say that a person can forgive, but not forget? There's usually some truth to that statement. Those who have and continue to be challenged by attempting...

  48. Who Does a Cult Leader Identify as a Safe Victim?

    Who does a cult leader identify as a safe victim? There has been many cult leaders from Jim Jones, Charles Manson, David Koresh and others who have singled out certain people to become a member of their cult. Cultic processes, thought reforms and other cult inducements have been used to control…

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  49. How Dark Personality Types Use Groups for Source Supply

    Those who have a dark personality or a dark triad such as machiavellian, psychopathic and narcissistic all rolled into one can attempt to lead a group or following into ruin by grooming or priming them. False narratives often reflect a perspective of his or her reality yet lacks merit. Perhaps...

  50. How to Deal with the Pressure to Forgive Your Narcissist

    One of the best signs that you are done with the narcissist is that you know how to calm yourself down should you feel pressured to forgive your narcissist. It can become triggering to hear others who might mean well by advising you to forgive your narcissist as you continue to heal from...

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Welcome to the Luminousz Starr commentary! I am your host Casondra. Join me on this podcast as I discuss the aftermath of narcissistic and codependent relationships. Perhaps you've noticed that there are signs that you are done with the narcissist! I share tools designed to encourage others like you to heal, grow and thrive past narcissistic codependent relationships. You can find me on various social media platforms such as; YouTube, Twitch, Vimeo, Apple, and Patreon, as an excellent resource for millions who are dealing with the aftermath of narcissistic codependent relationships. Thank you.

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