Make A Man Podcast

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Brett and RJ explore the importance of objective truth versus feelings, especially in the context of culture, scripture, and scientific evidence. They discuss how biblical truth remains constant, contrast it with subjective feelings, and examine real-world examples like science, morality, and biblical interpretation.Seek scripture as the ultimate standard of truth.Evaluate scientific claims against biblical principles.Engage in respectful biblical discussions focusing on truth.Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Brett and RJ explore the importance of personal Bible study, proper interpretation of scripture, and the dangers of relying solely on institutional teachings. They emphasize the need for direct access to God's word and understanding it through context, original languages, and Christ-centered perspective.TakeawaysPersonal Bible study is crucial for genuine faith.Understanding the original languages and context enhances interpretation.Relying solely on church hierarchy can lead to misinterpretation.All interpretation should be filtered through the lens of Christ.Discernment and personal research protect against false teachings.Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailThis episode tackles the complex issues surrounding church finances, tithing, and the true purpose of church community. With insights from a former pastor, it challenges traditional views on giving, church funding, and spiritual responsibility.Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailThis episode features a deep discussion on biblical truth, church leadership, and the dangers of spiritual deception. Hosts Brett and RJ explore the importance of discernment, accountability, and staying rooted in scripture amidst modern church challenges.Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailThis episode explores the issues within modern churches, biblical principles for church leadership, and the importance of accountability and authenticity in faith communities. Hosts Brett and RJ share personal experiences and scriptural insights to encourage believers to seek true biblical leadership and integrity.Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailWhat if the hardest part of today’s headlines isn’t the shock, but the silence that follows? We step into a charged space—allegations tied to Epstein flight logs, Hollywood abuse stories, and the symbols we’re trained to miss—and ask what it means to protect the vulnerable without losing our heads or our hope. This isn’t a list of links. It’s a frank look at patterns of exploitation, the pitfalls of rabbit holes, and how easily outrage can replace discernment.We share a raw account from the army during COVID mandates—standing in formation, facing discharge rumors, weighing identity against uncertainty. That story opens bigger questions: how do you decide under pressure, live with regret, and rebuild trust in institutions after the dust settles? Rather than replay debates, we search for practical courage—clarifying principles before the next storm, defending conscience without becoming combative, and holding a steady line for the sake of our families.Faith reframes everything here. We talk about spiritual warfare as a working lens for modern chaos, why fruit matters more than slogans, and how subtle signals—a cross, a verse, patient words—can spark honest conversations without turning work or home into battlegrounds. You’ll leave with questions to test your sources, tools to stand firm without turning hard, and a fresh sense of what it looks like to be a Christian man who leads in love.If this resonates, tap follow, share it with a friend who needs a steady voice, and leave a review so more people can find the show.Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailStart with the dust, not the spotlight. Brett sits down with Dallas to trace a year that didn’t go to plan—miscarriages, a hard exit after the Army, a fixer house on 40 acres—and how a family found traction again through small steps on the land and a slow, steady return to faith. What begins with swapping pigs for horses turns into a deeper question: what does it mean to become a man when strength alone won’t carry the load?We move through ranch life the way it actually unfolds: kids trying mini broncs and winning, feed choices and farrier visits, and the quiet math of stacking systems from chickens to cattle. Along the way, Dallas shares why his wife chose a private baptism, why he’s considering rebaptism with intent, and how Sunday messages kept meeting them right on time. The talk turns to Scripture and everyday ethics—Matthew 7’s log and John 7’s right judgment—as we unpack the difference between prideful judgment and humble discernment. Love doesn’t equal approval, and boundaries aren’t betrayal; they’re stewardship.Brett offers a powerful moment with a veteran who doubted God’s mercy after war, and Dallas opens up about two and a half years of sobriety that took more than grit—it took surrender and a circle that tells the truth. Together we map a version of manhood that is less about posing and more about practice: keep your word, protect your family, work your land, confess when you fall, and start again. If you’re rebuilding after a hard season, wrestling with church, or teaching kids to be brave and kind, this conversation was made for you.If the story resonates, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs hope today, and leave a review with the one insight you’re taking with you. We read every word.Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailSome days it feels like evil is winning. We open the door to that honest ache and walk through it together, asking why the wicked seem to prosper and what faithful men can do without feeding bitterness or despair. From the pull of vengeance to the patience of hope, we trace a path that faces hard facts, honors Scripture, and keeps our families grounded when headlines won’t quit.We get practical about the fixer’s instinct—how that drive to solve everything collides with systems you can’t control. Instead of numbing out or spiraling into obsession, we talk boundaries: watching the signs, limiting the doomscroll, and choosing purposeful action. Righteous anger has a place, especially when defending children and calling out hypocrisy, but we draw a firm line against celebrating harm or confusing justice with revenge. Romans 12:19 becomes our guardrail; courage and truth-telling remain our lane.Preparation becomes a form of love. We share ways to steady teens who feel hopeless, build family rhythms that teach courage, and explain what it means to prepare without scaring. Along the way, we reflect on portrayals of Christ’s suffering—from The Passion of the Christ to stage productions—not for shock, but to remember the scale of mercy and the certainty of judgment. Delay is not approval. Eternal justice is unavoidable. That promise frees us to do our daily work: protect our homes, confront lies, teach our kids, and trust the Judge who sees what we can’t.If this conversation helps you stand a little straighter, share it with a friend, subscribe for the next episode, and leave a review with one takeaway you’re putting into practice this week. Your words help more men find a steady path.Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Brett and RJ discuss the current state of the church in relation to pressing societal issues, including immigration and law enforcement. They explore the biblical perspective on division, the responsibility of believers to speak up, and the importance of taking action in faith. The conversation emphasizes the need for truth-seeking and the church's role in addressing moral and ethical challenges in today's world.The church needs to step up in addressing societal issues.Preparation for potential crises is important for individuals.Jesus' teachings often lead to division rather than peace.Believers should actively seek and speak the truth.Religious leaders have a responsibility to address moral issues.The importance of protecting children and vulnerable individuals.Action is necessary in faith; waiting for divine intervention is not enough.The role of the church should be to guide and inform its community.Narcissism can lead to division within religious contexts.Every believer has a role in advocating for justice and truth.Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Make A Man podcast, hosts Brett and RJ discuss the recent release of the Epstein files and the implications for society and the church. They explore the role of the church in preparing Christians for the challenges of modern times, emphasizing the need for pastors to address the realities of good versus evil. The conversation highlights the importance of individual actions in response to societal issues and the potential for transformation in people's lives. The hosts encourage listeners to engage with their communities and challenge the status quo, ultimately advocating for a proactive approach to faith and morality in a troubled world.The Epstein files reveal truths long suspected by many.The church needs to prepare Christians for modern challenges.Good versus evil is a central theme in today's society.Pastors should address societal issues openly and honestly.Individual actions can spark change in communities.Transformation is possible for anyone, regardless of their past.Silence from the church on evil is unacceptable.Believers are called to be the light in dark times.Engagement and challenge within the church are necessary for growth.Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Make A Man podcast, Brett and RJ discuss the complexities of navigating conflict and accountability as men. They explore the balance between grace and accountability, emphasizing the importance of calling out sin in a loving manner. The conversation delves into the concept of tough love, the need for discernment in how to approach others, and the significance of humility and change in relationships. Drawing on biblical examples, they highlight Jesus' model for addressing sin and the necessity of being direct yet compassionate in communication.TakeawaysMen often struggle with how to handle conflict appropriately.There is a balance between being abrasive and overly nice.Calling out unprofessionalism can be done respectfully.Grace should not be an excuse for ongoing sin.Tough love is necessary in certain situations.Discerning how to approach others is crucial.Humility is key when addressing someone's sin.Jesus modeled both harshness and tenderness in his interactions.It's important to hold others accountable while being loving.Not everyone will respond positively to correction.Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Make A Man podcast, Brett and RJ delve into the complexities of modern manhood, focusing on the role of spiritual leadership within the church. They discuss the authority of pastors, the importance of personal responsibility in faith, and the balance between quality and participation in worship. The conversation emphasizes the need for individuals to seek their own understanding of theology through scripture rather than relying solely on church leaders. The hosts also explore the implications of church structures and the necessity of maintaining a genuine connection to faith amidst the noise of modern society.TakeawaysThe role of a pastor is to guide, not to replace God.Spiritual authority should not overshadow personal faith.The church's structure often requires financial support.Worship should be about connection, not performance.Music in worship can be both spiritual and emotional.Participation in worship is more important than talent.Church should not be viewed as a savior.Personal responsibility in faith is crucial.Scripture should be the foundation of theology.Understanding faith requires active engagement with the Word.Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Make A Man podcast, Brett and RJ reflect on the new year, discussing personal updates and resolutions, particularly focusing on spiritual growth and Bible reading. They delve into the concept of church, contrasting the traditional view of church as a building with the biblical understanding of the church as the body of believers. The conversation explores the role of denominations, the importance of unity among believers, and the potential pitfalls of viewing church attendance as a mere obligation. They emphasize the need for genuine discipleship and the experience of God beyond the confines of a church building, ultimately questioning whether Christians are truly being the church or just attending services.The church is more than just a building; it's the body of believers.Denominations can create division rather than unity in the church.Church attendance should not be viewed as a checkbox.Discipleship is essential for spiritual growth and community.Experiencing God should happen daily, not just on Sundays.The modern church often prioritizes entertainment over genuine worship.The importance of community and fellowship among believers.True church exists beyond physical buildings and structures.Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Make A Man podcast, hosts Brett and RJ explore themes of biblical manhood, the role of pastors, and the importance of humility in leadership. They discuss personal fears related to animatronics and how these fears connect to broader themes of control and vulnerability. The conversation transitions into a deeper examination of church leadership, the influence of money, and the expectations placed on pastors. The hosts emphasize the need for humility and service in leadership roles, drawing parallels between the roles of shepherds and pastors. They conclude with reflections on the true meaning of Christmas and the importance of community in the church.TakeawaysUnderstanding your role as a husband and father is crucial.The church should welcome all ideas and people.Pastors must embody humility and service.Money can corrupt church leadership.The role of a pastor is to guide, not control.Humility is essential in leadership roles.Men need to understand their roles in the church.The early church focused on community and guidance.Expectations of pastors should be realistic and fair.Christmas is a time to reflect on humility and service.Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailWhat if the clearest mark of a strong man isn’t control but service? We dig into a vision of biblical masculinity that trades posturing for presence, and ego for accountability. Starting with lighthearted talk about Christmas movies and cultural allegories, we move toward the deeper question: what do men owe their families, churches, and communities when Scripture—not trends—sets the terms?We share why discipling our kids can’t be outsourced, and how small, consistent habits—opening the Bible at home, praying with our children, admitting when we’re wrong—shape a legacy stronger than any platform. We talk candidly about asking for help, building a circle of brothers, and letting our wives speak into blind spots. That kind of humility doesn’t weaken leadership; it clarifies it.Church health matters too. We unpack the strengths of plural eldership, congregational voice, and leaders who are first to serve and first to repent. Headship, rightly understood, looks like headwaters feeding a river: men supply life, stability, and direction by following Christ’s pattern of washing feet and telling the truth. From everyday moments—grabbing a blanket before being asked, showing up for your kid’s interests—to big-picture convictions, this conversation maps a path where courage and kindness live together.If this resonates, share it with a friend who needs encouragement, subscribe for more thoughtful conversations on manhood and faith, and leave a review with one practical way you’ll serve someone this week. Your story might spark another man’s next step.Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, Brett and RJ discuss the importance of standing firm in faith amidst cultural pressures, the nature of sin and redemption, and the balance of truth and grace in addressing sin within the church. They share personal experiences of sharing the gospel and emphasize the call to action for Christians to engage with the world around them, spreading love and truth.TakeawaysIt's important to stand firm in faith despite cultural pressures.Sin is viewed equally in God's eyes, with no hierarchy.We need to approach others with love and the message of Jesus first.Unity in the church does not mean ignoring sin.Christians are called to actively share the gospel.God can use us as catalysts for change in others' lives.Every believer has a role in spreading the message of Christ.Listening to God's call is essential for effective ministry.Personal encounters can lead to significant spiritual conversations.The message of redemption is for everyone, regardless of their past.Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Make A Man podcast, hosts Brett Neilsen and RJ discuss the unexpected challenges of ranch life, the true role of pastors, and the importance of community and compassion within the church. They explore the concept of a pastor's heart, emphasizing the need for genuine care and support for congregants, and critique the modern church's focus on authority and performance over community service. The conversation culminates in a call to redefine ministry as a commitment to loving God and loving people.Chapters00:00Life on the Ranch: Unexpected Challenges03:25The Role of Pastors: A Deeper Dive14:03Shepherding the Flock: Authority and Service18:17The Church's Responsibility: Beyond the Walls19:05The Church's Role in Community Care22:41Balancing Security and Compassion in Worship24:36Qualifications for Church Leadership27:57Experiences with Church Authority and Community31:54The Importance of Community in Church35:47Defining True Ministry and Community SupportSponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailIn this episode of the Make A Man podcast, hosts Brett and RJ discuss their personal journeys over the past year, including significant life changes and the challenges they faced. They delve into the state of the church, exploring issues of leadership, accountability, and the role of tithing. The conversation emphasizes the importance of understanding the true purpose of church and navigating the complexities of modern church dynamics. The hosts share their experiences and insights, aiming to foster a deeper understanding of faith and community.Chapters00:00Welcome Back and Year Recap02:53Life Changes and New Beginnings06:03The State of the Church and Leadership Issues08:52Personal Experiences with Church Dynamics11:43Understanding Church Structure and Accountability14:42The Role of Tithing and Financial Transparency17:38The True Purpose of Church20:51Navigating Modern Church Challenges23:35Conclusion and Future DiscussionsSponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailWe discuss the challenges of parenting.Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailEpisode 11: Integrity – Leading with Honesty and HonorTheme: Integrity forms the foundation of trustworthy leadership. Leaders who walk in integrity inspire confidence and stability in their followers.Key Discussion Points:Defining Integrity: The importance of consistency between words and actions.Long-Term Success: How integrity sustains leadership over time.Testing of Integrity: Navigating moments of moral compromise.Accountability Structures: Building teams that foster transparency.Impact on Community: How leaders with integrity uplift entire organizations.Biblical References:Luke 16:10Psalm 15:2-3Titus 2:7-8Titus 1:6-9Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailEpisode 10: Servant Leadership – Leading by ExampleTheme: True leadership begins with serving others. Great leaders prioritize the needs of their people and demonstrate humility in their actions.Key Discussion Points:Defining Servant Leadership: How serving others fosters trust and loyalty.Christ as the Ultimate Example: Breaking down Mark 10:45 Practical Application: How leaders today can implement servant leadership in business, ministry, and community roles.Cultural Shift: Moving from "command and control" to "serve and inspire."Stories of Servant Leaders: Biblical and modern examples.Biblical References:Mark 10:45Philippians 2:3-4Matt 20:25Matthew 23:11Proverbs 11:25Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailWe look back on the 2024 year and reflect on the ups and downs.Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailIn this episode we continue the discussion of biblical leadership!Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailMerry Christmas, Get two Episodes! in one day!In this episode we look at biblical leadership. Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailIn this episode we discuss what it was like growing up as kids and how we can relate to our kids in this crazy world!Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailIn this episode, we discuss the differences between being a father and a dad. Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailIn this episode we discuss the role of a Father!Nurturing children in the Lord (Ephesians 6:4).Disciplining with love, not anger (Proverbs 13:24).Being a spiritual role model (Deuteronomy 6:6-9).Creating a legacy of faith (Psalm 78:4-6).Balancing work and family time (Ecclesiastes 3:1).Sponsors!https://www.shoptruerwords.com/http://brettneilsenphotography.com/Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailWe continue on the conversation of what does it mean to be a husband!Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailWe deep dive into what is a man's role in a marriage? Sponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel

Send us Fan MailPilot episode where we talk about our backgrounds and initial thoughts of what does it mean to be a manSponsors!http://raptorpromedia.com/https://www.repriseeditorial.com/servicesThank you for listening! FBhttps://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090314082393Music by Outlaw Gospel