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ManTalks Podcast

by Connor Beaton

The ManTalks podcast features conversations between one of the leading men’s work facilitators, Connor Beaton, and world class guests with expertise in mindset, life purpose, psychology, relational communication, sexual intimacy, business and spirituality. For more information about ManTalks go to: http://www.mantalks.com

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Episodes

  1. How To END Self-Abandonment (With Clear, Actionable Steps)

    I dive deep into the root causes of the abandonment wound and how childhood disconnection leads directly to chronic self-abandonment in adulthood. I break down common side effects like people-pleasing, oversensitivity to criticism, and internalizing shame, which can quietly sabotage your...

  2. How to Raise Strong, Unshakable Boys in Today's Culture, with Dr. Shefali Tsabary

    I sit down with Dr. Shefali to tackle the complex realities of raising boys in a culture that often sends them conflicting messages about masculinity. We dive into why young men are being drawn to the manosphere, the crucial role of physical movement in a boy's emotional regulation, and how we as...

  3. Lacking Purpose Leads to Obsessing About Women

    I share my personal journey of navigating my late teens and early twenties without a clear sense of direction, which ultimately led to an unhealthy obsession with women. I explore Carl Jung's concept of the anima to explain how an absence of a true mission causes men to become possessed by their...

  4. The 3 Mountains of Leadership: Finding Purpose Beyond Yourself

    To celebrate 11 years of the podcast, I brought back my very first guest, Philip McKernan, for an incredibly raw conversation about leadership, storytelling, and true human connection. We dive deep into why so many men are exhausted from running on "fuck you" energy, and how accepting the darkest...

  5. You’re Not Crazy - People Aren’t Ok. Here's Why

    I explore why so many people seem increasingly disconnected, self-censoring, polarized, and unable to have meaningful conversations. I look at the role of social media, political ideology, nihilism, and the growing battle over narrative and “reality,” and how these forces can affect our...

  6. Is It Anxiety or CPTSD? The Real Root Cause of Your Mental Struggles, with Tim Fletcher

    I sit down with Tim Fletcher to take a deeper look at complex PTSD, relational trauma, shame, and the survival patterns that can shape our relationships and identity. We explore how fawning, people-pleasing, and shame-based motivation can drive achievement while leaving us disconnected from...

  7. How To Be a Desirable Man

    I break down what makes a man desirable - and the behaviors that can quietly erode desire in a relationship. I explore why being infinitely available, constantly seeking validation, avoiding your partner’s emotions, and allowing resentment to build can undermine attraction and connection. I also...

  8. How Men Can Reclaim Potency & Emotional Leadership, with Luke Bateman

    I sit down with Luke Bateman to explore the evolving narrative around masculinity, emotional literacy, and why a man's worth isn't solely defined by his productivity or status. We dig into the realities of the modern gender war, the vital strength found in vulnerability, and how emotional...

  9. How To Stop Hating Yourself

    I break down the difference between self-esteem and self-worth, and why becoming more successful, capable, or accomplished may not resolve the deeper feeling that something is wrong with you. I explore how shame, neglect, abandonment, and other early experiences can shape our sense of worth and...

  10. High Libido or Hypersexuality? The Neuroscience Behind Porn Addiction, with Dr. Trish Leigh

    I sit down with Dr. Trish Leigh, a cognitive neuroscientist and neurofeedback clinician, to unpack what pornography and screen compulsions can do to the brain, from dopamine dependency and hypersexuality to sexual dysfunction and impaired self-regulation. We explore why so many men struggle to...

  11. 3 Things to Stop Doing in Your Relationship In 2026

    I break down three major behaviors men need to stop doing this year if they want to build genuine intimacy and peace in their relationships. I unpack why pretending you are "fine" breaks trust, how shifting from logistical fixing to emotional understanding changes everything, and why you must…

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  12. Why Doing THIS Instantly Lowers Your Stress

    I sit down with author Michael Easter to explore how modern life's endless comforts and technological conveniences are quietly making us weaker. We discuss how intentionally embracing short-term discomfort, getting out into nature, and finding our personal edge can build deep psychological...

  13. Why You Feel So Lost as a Man

    For years, I struggled with what it truly meant to be a man, trying on different masks and pushing extreme boundaries just to figure out who I was. It was not until I hit a self-induced rock bottom and experienced the overwhelming responsibility of fatherhood that I began to understand the real...

  14. Why Self-Esteem Fails (And How to Build Real Self-Worth)

    I sit down with psychologist and bestselling author Dr. Marisa Franco to break down the crucial differences between fragile self-esteem and true, lasting self-worth. We explore why traditional self-help advice often backfires, how unresolved "open" memories quietly drive present-day reactivity…

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  15. A Man's Guide to Breaking Anxious Attachment - Tell Her What You Want

    I dive deep into the struggles of anxious attachment and how it holds us back in romantic relationships. I share my own personal experiences with this dynamic and break down actionable steps you can take to stop overthinking and start communicating clearly. By learning how to confidently tell…

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  16. 33% of Schizophrenia Cases Come From THIS, with Chris Palmer

    I sit down with Harvard psychiatrist Dr. Chris Palmer to dive into his groundbreaking research on how mental disorders are fundamentally metabolic disorders of the brain. We unpack why traditional chemical imbalance theories fall short and explore how everyday lifestyle factors like diet, chronic...

  17. Lessons Every Son Needs to Learn From His Father (That You Might Not Have Learned)

    I explore five essential lessons that every son needs to learn from his father, especially the lessons that may not have been modeled for us growing up. I talk about how to face fear without letting it control you, how to understand and contain anger, and why learning to lose and fail is so...

  18. How to Survive "The Long Dark", with Francis Weller

    I sit down once again with Francis Weller to explore the cultural collapse we are living through and what it means to navigate "the long dark". We delve into how modern individualism and market-driven growth strip us of primary soul satisfactions, leaving us increasingly abstracted from nature,...

  19. A Man's Guide To Dating After Divorce (Or Long Term Relationship)

    Navigating the dating world after a divorce or the end of a long-term relationship can feel overwhelming and confronting. I share essential, practical guidance for men re-entering the dating scene after being out of it for years. From allowing yourself to grieve before jumping back in, to leading...

  20. Unpacking the Complex Crisis of Male Suicide

    In this episode, I'm joined by male suicide researcher Susie Bennett to explore the hidden crisis facing men today and the cultural forces driving it. We dive deep into the empathy gap surrounding male mental health, how childhood trauma shapes adult pain, and why standard therapy often fails…

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  21. You Can't Heal from Narcissist : Addict Until You Accept This Hard Truth

    Healing from a narcissistic relationship begins when I stop waiting for the other person to admit they were wrong. I explain why narcissists and addicts share similar psychological patterns, why trying to make them see the truth only keeps me trapped, and the hard truth that finally creates real...

  22. Breaking the Cycle of Men’s Sexual Anxiety, with Kate Moyle

    **SHOW NOTES** Why does sex become more difficult the more we care about someone? In this conversation, I sit down with psychosexual and relationship therapist Kate Moyle to unpack the psychology behind performance anxiety, modern sexual culture, and why so many men feel pressure to perform…

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  23. A Man's Intro To The Anima - How The Woman Inside Is Running Your Life

    In this episode, I introduce Carl Jung's concept of the Anima and explore how the inner feminine influences a man's emotions, relationships, and sense of self. I explain how the Anima develops, why we unconsciously project it onto others, and what happens when it remains unconscious. I also…

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  24. Why Porn Is an Intimacy Disorder (Not Just a Sex Problem), Sathiya Sam

    What if pornography isn't really about sex at all, but about the search for connection? In this episode, I sit down with recovery coach and author Sathiya Sam to explore the deeper roots of porn addiction, the role of shame, identity and intimacy, and why so many men feel disconnected in today's...

  25. 11 Lessons From 11 Years of Podcasting

    What have 11 years behind a microphone taught me about building a podcast, creating meaningful conversations, and staying consistent when the excitement wears off? I share the biggest lessons I've learned from over a decade of podcasting, from finding my voice and connecting with an audience to...

  26. How to Spot a Narcissist Before It's Too Late, with Bill Eddy

    I sit down with Bill Eddy to unpack the patterns behind high conflict personalities and how they can impact our relationships. We explore the warning signs that are often overlooked, why so many people ignore red flags, and practical ways to make healthier decisions when dating or navigating...

  27. Why Fixing Your Self-Worth Will Fix Your Attachment (And the first 3 steps)

    What if the way you value yourself has less to do with confidence and more to do with your earliest relationships? I explore how your attachment style shapes your sense of self-worth, why insecure attachment can leave you constantly seeking validation, and how secure attachment creates a…

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  28. When Shame Becomes Your Identity - Live Coaching Session

    I sit down with Charles as he opens up about a lifetime of searching for belonging after growing up without consistent parental support. Together, we unpack the shame he carries from past decisions, the emotional wounds that kept him looking for community in all the wrong places, and why true...

  29. The Psychology of Respect - Why Women Choose Strength Over Emotional Compliance

    I explore why respect cannot be earned through approval-seeking or emotional compliance, and why genuine attraction is rooted in strength, integrity, and self-respect. I unpack the psychology behind why people lose respect when they abandon their own values in an effort to please others. We also...

  30. Avoiding The Lonely Dad Trap: Why Modern Fathers Are Burning Out in Isolation, with Jon Gustin

    I sit down with Jon Gustin, creator of Tired Dad and author of The Tired Dad, to talk about the realities of modern fatherhood. We explore what it means to be an emotional provider, why repair and vulnerability matter more than perfection, and how dads can avoid isolation while raising resilient...

  31. Surviving The Collapse Of The Modern Psyche

    I explore what I believe is one of the defining challenges of our time: the collapse of the modern psyche. I examine the forces contributing to rising anxiety, depression, loneliness, and meaninglessness, from technology and social media to ideology, attention economics, and the erosion of shared...

  32. The Worst Ages for Kids to Experience Divorce, with Erica Komisar

    I sit down with Erica Komisar to talk about divorce, attachment, parenting, and the values shaping modern family life. We explore what current research says about separation and child development, why timing matters when divorce happens, and how early relationships influence who we become as...

  33. How To Lead Your Relationship (Without Creating Problems or Pushback)

    This episode is about something that gets misunderstood all the time: leading in your relationship without becoming controlling, reactive, or creating unnecessary resistance. I break down what relational leadership actually looks like, why trying to force outcomes often backfires, and how trust,...

  34. Fixing Anxiety and Addiction from Childhood Confusion - Live Coaching Session

    What happens when you’ve done everything right on paper but still feel disconnected, restless, and not enough? In this coaching session, I sit down with Sean as he opens up about addiction, childhood emotional neglect, self-worth, and the internal pressure that followed him into adulthood....

  35. This ONE THING Blocks You From Your Potential And Growth

    In this episode, I explore the one thing I believe quietly blocks most men from reaching their potential - not a lack of ambition, but the refusal to confront what’s beneath the surface. Using the alchemical principle of “as below, so above,” I talk about why growth requires periods of descent,...

  36. Why Successful Men Feel Completely Empty Inside, with David Deida

    In this episode of the Man Talk Show, I am joined by the legendary author David Deida to explore his profound new book, The Man of Zero. We dive deep into the concept of "zero"—a unique phase of emptiness, purposelessness, and outgrowing standard adulthood that many successful men eventually...

  37. Why You Justify Bad Behavior and Sabotage Momentum

    Why do we justify behaviors we know are pulling us away from the person we want to become? I unpack the hidden patterns that make us feel like we’ve earned shortcuts, excuses, and decisions that quietly sabotage our momentum. We talk about moral licensing, identity-based habits, and why doing the...

  38. How To Overcome Sabotage (LIVE COACHING)

    I sit down with Silvi Carter to explore the roots of self-doubt, emotional intensity, and the feeling of never being enough. Together, we unpack how childhood experiences, fatherhood, and the possibility of ADHD have shaped the way he relates to himself and his own energy. We discuss why so many...

  39. The Easiest Men to Manipulate in a Relationship

    I break down the four types of men who are the easiest to manipulate in relationships - and why these patterns usually start long before the relationship itself. I talk about the hidden wounds behind shame, over-functioning, fear of conflict, and putting women on a pedestal, and how those…

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  40. Why People Can't Handle Disagreement Anymore, with Thomas Hübl

    I sit down with Thomas Hübl to explore why modern society feels increasingly polarized, emotionally fragile, and disconnected. We unpack how collective trauma, ancestral pain, and unresolved wounds from previous generations continue to shape our relationships, politics, and inner lives today....

  41. Mother Hunger - The Hidden Wound Driving Men's Need for Female Approval

    I dive into the concept of “mother hunger” - the hidden emotional wound that drives many men to seek constant approval, validation, and reassurance from women. I explore how early experiences with emotional neglect, inconsistency, or disconnection from our mothers can quietly shape our identity,...

  42. Emotional Avoidance in Modern Men - Live Coaching Session

    I sit down with Scott to talk about grief, addiction, emotional suppression, and the long process of healing. We explore how unresolved pain can shape a man’s identity, relationships, and sense of self for years without him fully realizing it. Scott shares parts of his personal journey through...

  43. Why Men Who Want Love the Most Run From It the Hardest - Dismissive Avoidant Men

    I explore why dismissive avoidant men often crave love deeply while simultaneously pushing it away. I break down the mother wound and emotional conditioning that can lead men to associate intimacy, closeness, and vulnerability with danger instead of safety. I also talk about why healthy...

  44. Why Society is Creating Weak Men, and Angry Women, with Jaguar Heart

    I sit down with Jaguar for a deep conversation about the growing crisis facing modern men. We unpack fatherlessness, rites of passage, emotional development, mother enmeshment, masculinity, relationships, and the cultural forces shaping male identity today. We also explore why so many men feel...

  45. The Hidden Cause of Your Shitty Decisions and Lack of Confidence.

    I break down how confusion - especially from childhood - can quietly drive your bad decisions, low confidence, and repeated patterns. I share how unpredictability and chaos shape your identity and why your brain keeps choosing what’s familiar, even when it’s harmful. I also walk you through...

  46. Why You Don’t Trust Yourself (and How to Fix it)

    I sit down with Tim Ross to unpack why so many of us struggle to trust ourselves and how that lack of self-trust impacts our decisions and confidence. We explore the deeper roots of self-doubt, from past experiences to internal narratives that quietly shape how we show up. Tim shares powerful...

  47. Does She Have Daddy Issues - The Father Wound Most Women Never Heal

    I break down what people really mean when they talk about “daddy issues” and the deeper father wound that often goes unspoken. I explore how a woman’s relationship with her father can shape the way she experiences love, trust, and validation in adulthood. We look at the patterns that emerge - not...

  48. Trusting Yourself Again After Trauma (Part 2): Rebuilding Inner Safety - Coaching Session

    I sit down with Josh to continue unpacking what it really takes to rebuild self-trust after trauma. We dive into the patterns that keep him stuck, how past experiences still shape his reactions, and why self-doubt lingers even when you’re aware of it. Together, we explore what it means to feel…

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  49. The Psychological Trap Crushing You and Most Men

    I dive into the "dragon of suppression," a psychological trap that far too many men mistakenly use as a methodology for building strength. I explore how hiding your pain and needs actually fuels a "shadow" identity that sabotages your goals, health, and relationships. By identifying what you’ve...

  50. The Mother Wound Destroying Most Men's Relationships

    I break down why so many men feel like they’re “bad at relationships” and reveal the deeper truth behind that belief. I explore how your earliest experiences with your mother shape your patterns in love, from emotional unavailability to people-pleasing and chaos. I walk you through the core types...

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

The ManTalks podcast features conversations between one of the leading men’s work facilitators, Connor Beaton, and world class guests with expertise in mindset, life purpose, psychology, relational communication, sexual intimacy, business and spirituality. For more information about ManTalks go to: http://www.mantalks.com

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