Marriage By Design Podcast

Is it possible to build a bridge while the storm is still raging? We often think of trust as something that only grows in "good weather," but biblical trust is forged in the fire. In this episode, Nathan and Andrea Warnock get raw about the "Maintenance Phase" of marriage, that is, those seasons where intimacy feels thin and the ground feels shaky. How do you rebuild reliability when the "Blueprint" has been ignored? We’re discussing the move from "Suspicion to Stewardship," the power of small "Micro-Leads," and why trust isn't a feeling you wait for, but rather it’s a structure you build, one stone at a time. Listen to the new episode: 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Can you find marital wisdom outside of the Sunday morning pews? In this Midweek Check-in, Andrea takes the mic to answer a surprising listener question: "What is the best 'non-Christian' marriage advice you would give?" While we always start with the Blueprint, there are practical, "common grace" habits that help a household hum. Andrea shares her top pick for a secular principle that actually aligns with biblical stewardship and why even the best advice fails if it’s not anchored in the right Mission. Check out the full Midweek Check-in here: 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com.   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Is your marriage running on empty? 🎧 If you missed yesterday’s premiere, you missed a masterclass on spiritual fuel. We’re moving past "Check-the-Box" Christianity to show you how a Shared Rhythm in the Word actually fuels the mission of your home. Catch the highlights in this trailer and then dive into the full 34-minute episode. 🔥 Listen now: 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Is your marriage building on a solid foundation or shifting sand? Most couples want a "Godly marriage," but they try to build it without reading the Manual. In this episode, Nathan and Andrea Warnock explore the vital discipline of Bible study...not as a religious chore, but as a strategic necessity. We discuss the move from "Check-the-Box" Christianity to a "Living Liturgy," the importance of personal spiritual intake for both the Head and the Ezer, and how to overcome the "awkward gap" to study effectively as a team. If you want your home to be a mission instead of a management crisis, it’s time to get bound by the Book. Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Is your Bible study a chore or a conversation? Most of us know we should read the Word, but few of us know how to study it—especially as a couple. In this episode, Nathan and Andrea Warnock pull back the curtain on their personal and shared rhythms. We’re moving past "Check-the-Box" Christianity and into the "Liturgy of the Word." Whether you’re a seasoned student or just cracking the spine for the first time, we discuss practical tools for individual growth and how to bridge the gap into studying together without it feeling forced or awkward. It’s time to move the Bible from your coffee table to the center of your marriage. Listen to the new episode: 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Are we teaching our kids to follow the culture or the Creator? In this Midweek Check-in, Nathan tackles a heavy-hitting question from a listener: "Should we be teaching our children to accept or reject 'gender roles' in marriage?" Nathan argues that when we swap the "Blueprint" for modern "Fluidity," we aren't giving our children freedom—we’re giving them confusion. We’re discussing why distinct, God-ordained roles are essential for a flourishing home and how to model the beauty of the Ezer and the Head to the next generation. Check out the full Midweek Check-in here: 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com.   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Are you building for the weekend or the century? 🎧 If you missed yesterday’s premiere, you missed a foundational shift in how we view parenting. We’re moving past "Survival Mode" to explore the Legacy Architect mindset—the blueprint every family needs to outlast their lifetime. Catch the highlights in this trailer and then dive into the full episode. 🔥 Listen now: 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Are you parenting for the weekend or for the next century? Most parents are stuck in "Management Mode"—just trying to survive the daily chaos of schedules, chores, and school runs. But God’s design for the home isn't just about survival; it's about Architecture. In this episode, Nathan and Andrea Warnock discuss shifting from a short-term "Survival Mindset" to a "100-Year Vision." We explore why your marriage is the primary classroom for your children, how to avoid the "Lentil Soup Trap" of choosing convenience over character, and how to draft a family mission that outlasts your lifetime. It’s time to stop managing a household and start building a legacy. Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Are you parenting for the weekend or for the next century? It’s easy to get caught up in the "survival mode" of schedules, sports, and school runs. But God’s design for parents isn't just to manage a household—it's to architect a legacy. In this episode, Nathan and Andrea Warnock discuss what it means to be truly "Legacy Minded." We’re moving past the "Liturgy Trap" of just getting by and looking at how our daily discipline, our marriage dynamic, and our spiritual consistency are carving a path for our children’s children. Join us as we discuss the "Multi-Generational Blueprint" and how to parent with the end in mind. Listen to the new episode: 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Does the Gospel need a sidekick? In this Midweek Check-in, Nathan reacts to a t-shirt he recently spotted that read "Jesus + Therapy." While the world—and even much of the modern church—embraces this duo, Nathan argues that this "ampersand theology" actually undermines the sufficiency of Christ. We’re discussing why suggesting we need "Jesus plus something else" for human flourishing is a dangerous departure from the Blueprint. Is Christ the Great Physician, or just a consultant in the room? Check out the full Midweek Check-in here: 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com.   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Still holding onto that debt? 🎧 If you missed yesterday’s premiere, you missed a vital conversation on the "slow-acting poison" of bitterness. We’re breaking down why your "right to be angry" is actually a prison cell. Catch the highlights in this trailer and then head over to the full episode to start the healing process. 🔥 Listen now: 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Is a hidden debt bankrupting your intimacy? Unforgiveness is the only debt that destroys the collector more than the debtor. In this episode, Nathan and Andrea Warnock take a sobering look at the devastating effects of bitterness—the "slow-acting poison" that can turn a home into a prison. We often hold onto our "right" to be angry as a shield, but it eventually becomes a cage. Join us as we discuss how to identify the "Root of Bitterness," the high interest rate of a hardened heart, and the radical, life-giving power of biblical forgiveness. It’s time to stop letting yesterday’s wounds dictate tomorrow’s legacy. Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Is there a slow-acting poison in your marriage? Unforgiveness is the only debt that destroys the collector more than the debtor. In this episode, Nathan and Andrea Warnock take an honest, sobering look at the devastating effects of bitterness. We often hold onto our "right" to be angry, not realizing that we are building a prison and locking ourselves inside. Join us as we discuss the spiritual and emotional consequences of a hardened heart, how bitterness acts as a "Lentil Soup Trap" for our peace, and the radical, life-giving power of biblical forgiveness. It’s time to stop letting yesterday’s wounds dictate tomorrow’s legacy. Listen to the new episode: 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Are you standing next to the fire, or are you actually warm? In this Midweek Check-in, Nathan unpacks a sobering comment from his pastor: "Familiarity with Jesus does not equal salvation." We explore the "Judas factor"—the reality that you can walk with Him, talk like Him, and even do ministry in His name, yet never actually belong to Him. Nathan discusses the danger of "Moral Proximity" and why a religious "Liturgy" can often mask a heart that has never truly surrendered. Check out the full Midweek Check-in here: 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com.   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Missed the premiere? The Blueprint is waiting. 🎧 If you didn't catch yesterday's episode, you missed a foundational shift in how we view the role of a wife. We’re moving past the "doormat" myths and diving into the Ezer calling—the strong rescue every marriage needs. Catch the highlights in this trailer and then dive into the full 30-minute-deep dive. 🔥 Listen now: 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Are you just along for the ride? In many circles, the word "helper" has been watered down to mean a silent assistant or a passive passenger. But in the original Hebrew, the word is Ezer—a term used for a "strong rescue" or "vital power." In this episode, Nathan and Andrea Warnock move past the "doormat" stereotypes to explore the high-stakes calling of a Godly wife. A Godly wife isn't a passenger in the marriage; she is a strategic partner whose wisdom, spiritual intuition, and strength are essential to the mission. Join us as we discuss how to move from passive compliance to active, life-giving partnership. Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Strength and honor are her clothing. 🌿 In a culture that often views "submission" with suspicion or "femininity" as a weakness, what does the Bible actually say about being a Godly wife? In this episode, Nathan and Andrea Warnock move past the stereotypes to look at the powerful, proactive role God designed for women. A Godly wife isn’t a silent observer; she is a "Helper" in the truest sense of the Hebrew word Ezer—a strong rescue and a vital partner. Join us as we discuss how a wife’s wisdom and spiritual intuition serve as the heartbeat of the home, and how her partnership is the "secret weapon" that allows the entire family to flourish. Listen to the new episode: 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

The aisle isn’t just a path to a party; it’s a path to a grave. In this Midweek Check-in, Nathan reflects on a powerful video that challenges our modern view of weddings. When we walk down that aisle, we aren't just walking toward a new life; we are walking toward a death—a daily death to our own selfish desires, our "Lentil Soup" cravings, and our "Boss" mentalities. Nathan discusses why this "death to self" isn't a tragedy, but the only way to bring true, supernatural life to your marriage. Check out the full Midweek Check-in here: 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com.   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

A "Boss" demands service; a "Biblical Head" provides it. 🏛️➡️✝️ Nathan and Andrea are untangling the lies of toxic authority in our latest episode. If you have to remind her you're the boss, you’ve already lost the lead. It’s time to trade the gavel for the basin. 🔥 Listen now: 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Is your leadership built on a throne or a cross? In a culture that fluctuates between toxic dominance and total passivity, the biblical concept of "Headship" is often the most misunderstood part of marriage. In this episode, Nathan and Andrea Warnock dismantle the "Boss" mentality—where authority is used for control—and reveal the beauty of the "Biblical Head."  Being a husband is about being three things - a Servant, a Pursuer, and a Rock. We’re untangling the lies that have led many men to rule their homes with a gavel rather than serving them with a basin. Join us as we discuss the "Flourishing Metric" and how a husband’s sacrifice creates the safest, most vibrant environment for his wife and family to thrive. Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

What does it actually mean to lead your home? In a world that oscillates between toxic passivity and toxic dominance, the biblical definition of a "Godly Husband" often gets lost in the noise. In this episode, Nathan and Andrea break down the architecture of biblical manhood. It isn’t about being the loudest voice in the room or the one with the final say on every nickel spent; it’s about being the first to sacrifice and the last to leave the gap. Join us as we discuss the "Blueprint of a Godly Husband," moving past the checklists and into a heart of service that reflects Christ’s love for the Church. Listen to the new episode: 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Why is sin so tempting? In this Midweek Check-in, Nathan tackles a question we often avoid: if sin is so destructive, why does it feel so good in the moment? From the "Lentil Soup Trap" to the "Counterfeit Covenant," we explore the biblical reality of the allure of sin. Nathan discusses how to move past the shame of being tempted and start understanding the spiritual mechanics of why our hearts wander—and how to find a better satisfaction in Christ’s design. Check out the full Midweek Check-in here: 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com.   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

You can say all the right words and still be worlds apart. 🗣️💔 In our latest episode, we’re exposing "The Liturgy Trap"—the danger of letting marital routines replace true intimacy. Stop "sleepwalking" through your covenant and start reclaiming the fire. 🔥 Listen now: 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Is your marriage on spiritual autopilot? It’s easy to build a life out of "good" rhythms—the way you say goodbye, the way you pray before meals, or the way you attend church every Sunday. But sometimes, the liturgy of our marriage becomes a mask for a lack of intimacy. In this episode, Nathan and Andrea Warnock dive into "The Liturgy Trap," exploring the dangerous gap between going through the motions and truly connecting with your spouse’s heart. Join us as we discuss how to identify "dead forms" in your relationship and provide practical steps to move from a scripted performance to a raw, God-designed fire. Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

You can say the right words and still be worlds apart. 🗣️💔 Nathan and Andrea dive into the danger of letting "religious" or "marital" liturgy replace true, raw intimacy. Is your routine a bridge or a barrier? Listen to the new episode: 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

"It’s just five dollars..." until it isn't. 📉 Nathan shares some post-Super Bowl thoughts on the subtle trap of gambling apps. We talk a lot about "Marriage By Design," and God’s design involves protecting the resources He’s given us to care for our wives and children. Don't let a "game" create a real-life crisis in your living room. Check out the full Midweek Check-in here: 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com.   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Hunger makes for terrible decisions. 🍲 Esau traded his entire inheritance for one meal because he felt "starving" in the moment. Are you trading your marriage's future for a "bowl of soup" today? Nathan & Andrea discuss how to protect your birthright from the Lord in marriage.   Listen now: 👇   MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Would you trade your family's future for a bowl of soup? 🥣 It sounds extreme, but we do it every time we prioritize a "right now" craving over a "forever" covenant. In our latest episode, Nathan and Andrea look at the story of Esau to uncover the "Lentil Soup Traps" in modern marriage—like choosing to win an argument over winning your spouse's heart. Stop trading your birthright for a temporary fix. Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Would you trade your future for a bowl of soup? 🥣 It sounds crazy, but in our latest episode, we look at the story of Esau and Jacob to uncover a startling truth about modern marriage. We often trade the "birthright" of a deep, lifelong covenant for the "lentil soup" of temporary comfort, instant gratification, or winning an argument. Are you choosing what’s hot now over what’s holy forever? 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Is "Bible-believing" just a buzzword? 🤔 Nathan explains why it’s about more than just owning a Bible—it’s about the authority of Scripture in every area of life. Watch the new Midweek Check-in here: 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com.   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Pornography promises intimacy but delivers isolation. 🛑 It’s a counterfeit that steals the "mental real estate" meant for your spouse. Nathan and Andrea discuss the real heart issues driving the addiction in our new episode.   Listen now: 👇   MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

It’s not just a "private struggle." 💔 Pornography is a counterfeit intimacy that promises connection without cost, but it always leaves a trail of wreckage in its wake. In our latest episode, Nathan and Andrea pull back the curtain on why this is a marital crisis—and why treating it as a simple "bad habit" keeps us from the heart of the issue. Step out of the dark and into the light of God’s design. Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

It’s more than just a "bad habit." 💔 Pornography isn't just a struggle with self-control; it’s a devastating counterfeit for the intimacy God designed for marriage. Nathan and Andrea are getting raw and honest about the wreckage it leaves behind and, more importantly, the real spiritual issues driving it. Find out why transparency is the only path to true freedom. 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

"Men should touch their wives as much as they touch their phones." 📱👀 Andrea heard this quote recently, and it stopped us in our tracks. This Midweek Check-in is a bit more personal as we discuss the reality of digital distraction. We're talking about the power of physical presence and why a thumb-swipe can never replace a hand-hold. Are we giving our screens more "reach" than our spouses? 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com.   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Your spouse isn't a product and your marriage isn't a subscription service. 🛑 If you have an "I want it fixed NOW" mentality, you're treating a covenant like a consumer choice. Nathan & Andrea discuss the "Amazon Prime" trap in the latest episode.   Tune in: 👇   MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Is your marriage stuck in "Same-Day Delivery" mode? 📦 In a world of instant gratification, we’ve accidentally started expecting our marriages to be fixed with the click of a button. But Nathan and Andrea are diving into the danger of The Amazon Prime Marriage. If you’re demanding an instant resolution to every conflict, you might be missing the deep, slow growth God has for you. Discover why the best things in marriage aren't delivered in 48 hours. Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Marriage isn't a drive-thru. 🍟 If you’re approaching your relationship with an "I want it fixed NOW" attitude, you’re setting yourself up for frustration. Nathan & Andrea discuss how consumerism is poisoning modern marriages in our latest episode. MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Midweek Check-in. 🛑 This week, Nathan is answering a heavy and deeply personal question: "My spouse and I got married before we became Christians. Does that mean we can get a divorce?" It’s a common struggle for those who found faith after their "I do’s." Nathan dives into what Scripture says about the sanctity of the marriage covenant, regardless of when it started. Watch for a perspective rooted in grace and commitment. MarriageByDesignPodcast.com.   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Is your spouse a partner or a project? 🧐 If you're exhausted from trying to "fix" things through sheer willpower, it's time for a different approach. Nathan & Andrea dive into the power of God's design in "The Behavior Trap."   Tune in: 👇   MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Are you stuck in the "Behavior Trap"? 🛠️ Most of us try to fix our marriages by changing what we do—nagging less, helping more, or following a checklist. But if the heart doesn't change, the "improvement" won't last. Nathan and Andrea discuss why behavior modification is a dead end and how true submission to God's design is the only way to lasting transformation. Stop managing symptoms and start healing the root. Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

You can’t "life-hack" your way to a holy marriage. 🛑 Behavior modification might change the symptoms, but only submission to God's design heals the root. Nathan & Andrea discuss the danger of the "fix-it" mentality in their upcoming episode. Be encouraged this coming Monday! MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Midweek Check-in. 🛑 If you feel like your marriage has become one long, exhausting argument, you aren't alone. Today, Nathan tackles the heavy question: "How do we actually stop the constant fighting?" He shares the first step to breaking the cycle and moving toward peace. Watch for the strategy to change the temperature in your home! 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com.   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Ready for 2026? 🥂 Nathan & Andrea reveal their Top 5 things they are looking forward to in the year ahead! Get inspired to build your best year yet.   Listen now: 👇   MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

New Year, New Focus! ✨ As we step into 2026, Nathan and Andrea are sharing the Top 5 things they are looking forward to this year for their marriage, family, and ministry. Get a glimpse into their vision and get inspired to set your own intentional focus! What's your biggest focus for 2026? Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

2026 is officially here! 🥂 Nathan & Andrea are sharing their Top 5 list of things they're looking forward to this year. Get inspired to set your own vision for 2026! Be encouraged this coming Monday! MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Midweek Check-in. 🛑 It’s one of the most debated questions in marriage: Can you—and should you—have close friends of the opposite gender once you are married? Nathan dives into the complexities of emotional intimacy, protection, and the "why" behind your friendships in today's midweek connection. Watch for his take on protecting your primary connection! 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com.   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

How did God turn our marriage around? 🙏 In The Pivot Point (Part 2), Nathan & Andrea share the miraculous intervention and lessons learned. Here is some hope for your marriage!   Listen here:  👇   MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

The Pivot Point (Part 2)! ✨ Last week, we shared the depths of our crisis. This week, in the powerful conclusion of our 20th Anniversary Series, Nathan and Andrea reveal how God met them in their darkest hour and engineered the pivot that transformed their marriage. Discover the grace and truth that brought redemption. Listen to the full redemption story now! Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Part 2: The Redemption Story! ✨ Last week, Nathan and Andrea shared the "8-Year Nightmare." This week, they celebrate 20 years of marriage by focusing on God's incredible redemptive power and the most crucial lessons they've learned over the last 10-12 years of healing and growth. If you are clinging to hope, this episode is your fuel! Be encouraged this coming Monday! MarriageByDesignPodcast.com   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!

Midweek Check-in. 🤔 Nathan is responding to a New York Times article, "The Case for Ending a Long, Mostly Good Marriage." In this response, he tackles the dangerous premise that personal autonomy means a marriage can (and should) be ended if one of the parties no longer finds fulfillment in the marriage.  It is time to recognize that commitment goes deeper than fleeting satisfaction. If you've ever questioned your "good enough" marriage, this is a must-watch. Watch his full response now! 👇 MarriageByDesignPodcast.com.   Marriage By Design is a channel dedicated to digging into God's design for marriage and family - as well as talking practically live that out in our marriages and families. Our goal is to leave you encouraged that you CAN do marriage and family by God's design and to give you HOPE that God IS FOR YOUR MARRIAGE AND YOUR FAMILY!!! Want to respond?  Holler at us at any of the social spots below!   Facebook  /  Instagram  /  Twitter  /  YouTube   Want to support us financially? Click below!