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Marriage Puzzle

Marriage is a lot like putting together a brand new puzzle. You see the picture on the box and think "I can do that!" or "That would be fun to put together." But once you open the box you realize how much work is involved in turning over all the pieces, finding the edges and what fits in the middle. In marriage, you are constantly turning over new pieces to find out where they go. We'll be talking about our marriage in an attempt to pass along any wisdom we can to others. We hope you'll join us on the journey where together we'll work on marriage, one puzzle piece at a time. 

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    Episode 114 | Lifestyle of Love

    Love isn't just a feeling — it's a daily choice. In this episode, we continue our series on Paul David Tripp's "Marriage: 6 Gospel Commitments," unpacking Commitment 4: giving yourselves to a lifestyle of love. We cover the danger of keeping score in marriage, and simple daily habits that build real, lasting love. Practical, faith-based marriage advice for real couples. Christian marriage podcast, gospel-centered relationships.Get a copy of the book at: ⁠⁠https://www.marriagepuzzle.com/books⁠⁠Follow the podcast and share this one with a married friend who needs to hear it. Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriage.puzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Threads: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.threads.com/@marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MarriagePuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.marriagepuzzle.com⁠⁠

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    Episode 113 | Marriage Unity: Why "Two Become One" Doesn't Happen Automatically

    Unity in marriage isn't automatic — it's a daily commitment. In this episode, we continue our series on Paul David Tripp's book Marriage, unpacking Commitment #3: building a marriage of unity. We talk about why proximity doesn't equal unity, how the word "why" quietly creates defensiveness in conflict, and what phone passwords and bank accounts reveal about trust.Get a copy of the book at: ⁠⁠https://www.marriagepuzzle.com/books⁠⁠Follow the podcast and share this one with a married friend who needs to hear it. Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriage.puzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Threads: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.threads.com/@marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MarriagePuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.marriagepuzzle.com⁠⁠

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    Episode 112 | Building a Marriage That Grows Daily - Commitment #2

    We're back with Commitment #2 from Paul David Tripp's Marriage: 6 Gospel Commitments Every Couple Needs to Make — making your marriage's growth a daily commitment. We talk weekly marriage check-ins, love languages, and the 4 types of connection every couple needs.Get a copy of the book at: ⁠https://www.marriagepuzzle.com/books⁠Follow the podcast and share this one with a married friend who needs to hear it. Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriage.puzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Threads: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.threads.com/@marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MarriagePuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.marriagepuzzle.com⁠⁠

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    Episode 111 | Confession and Forgiveness in Marriage - Commitment #1

    Marriage doesn't expose your spouse — it exposes you. We kick off a new series through Paul David Tripp's book Marriage: 6 Gospel Commitments Every Couple Needs to Make, starting with Commitment #1: a lifestyle of confession and forgiveness. We unpack why "I'm sorry, but..." isn't a real apology, why sex should never substitute for reconciliation, and why forgiveness is a decision, not a feeling.Get a copy of the book at: https://www.marriagepuzzle.com/booksFollow the podcast and share this one with a married friend who needs to hear it. Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriage.puzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Threads: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.threads.com/@marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MarriagePuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.marriagepuzzle.com⁠⁠

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    Episode 110 | Healthy Communication: Why You Shouldn't Make Your Spouse Read Your Mind

    Healthy communication is such an integral part of marriage. In this episode, we break down some differences between healthy and unhealthy communication. Practical, honest, and rooted in scripture — real tools for healthy marriage communication.Follow the podcast and share this one with a married friend who needs to hear it. Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriage.puzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Threads: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.threads.com/@marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MarriagePuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.marriagepuzzle.com⁠⁠

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    Episode 109 | Money Q&A: Stay-at-Home Value, Spending Permission & When She Out-Earns You

    We're answering your real marriage money questions: how to value a stay-at-home spouse's contribution, whether you need "permission" to spend money you earned, and what to do when your wife makes more than you. Plus, the life insurance number most one-income families never think to calculate. Honest, practical, faith-filled money talk for married couples.Follow the podcast and share this one with a married friend who needs to hear it. Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriage.puzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Threads: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.threads.com/@marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MarriagePuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.marriagepuzzle.com⁠⁠

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    Episode 108 | Money Tensions in Marriage: Why 'My Money vs. Your Money' Is Wrecking Couples

    In this episode, we dig into one of the most common (and most avoidable) wedges in marriage: finances.If money has ever been a source of tension in your marriage, this episode is for you — and your spouse.Follow the podcast and share this one with a married friend who needs to hear it. Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriage.puzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Threads: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.threads.com/@marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MarriagePuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.marriagepuzzle.com⁠

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    Ep. 107 | Forgiveness 101

    Our 7-year-old daughter taught us more about forgiveness in one bedtime meltdown than any marriage book ever has. In this episode, we unpack the difference between apologizing and forgiving, why pride turns "I'm sorry" into a standoff, and how to set a boundary without creating conditional forgiveness. If this episode helped you, share it with another couple and be sure to follow Marriage Puzzle wherever you listen to podcasts.Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriage.puzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Threads: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.threads.com/@marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MarriagePuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.marriagepuzzle.com

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    Ep. 106 | Part 2 - Pornography, Solo Intimacy, and Marriage

    In episode 106, the second installment of our Q&A series on pornography and solo intimacy, we dig into some of the toughest questions couples wrestle with but rarely say out loud. Does adult content quietly reshape what we expect from sex with our spouse — and can it chip away at attraction over time? Is pornography a bridge that draws a couple closer, or a wall that keeps them apart? And when it comes to toys or adult content in the marriage bed, are we adding something that enhances intimacy, or inviting an invisible third party into the relationship?We explore the tension between a healthy and unhealthy marriage bed, grounded by Jesus' words in Matthew 5:28 — "But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart." For a safe, no nudity, environment to check out ways to spice up the intimacy in your marriage, check out our partners Romantic Blessings. Use this affiliate link to receive a special discount on anything you buy.And for more ways to keep your intimacy spicy, check out our partnership with the Intimately Us app via this affiliate link. This app lets you connect directly with your spouse and only your spouse to answer questions, or send spicy messages to one another without the fear of accidentally sending it to the wrong person. If this episode helped you, share it with another couple and be sure to follow Marriage Puzzle wherever you listen to podcasts.Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriage.puzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠Threads: ⁠⁠https://www.threads.com/@marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MarriagePuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.marriagepuzzle.com

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    Ep. 105 | Pornography, Solo Intimacy, and Marriage

    Is watching pornography cheating, a harmless outlet, or a destructive addiction? In this episode, we tackle one of the most polarizing topics in marriage: solo intimacy vs. shared intimacy, and what happens when one spouse initiates and the other rejects.We ask (and debate) the hard questions:Is it healthy to choose solo satisfaction over your spouse when you're in the mood?Does one spouse's rejection of intimacy justify the other turning to solo intimacy or pornography?Why do men and women often experience desire so differently — and what can couples do about the gap?Is there a double standard between how we view male consumption of pornography vs. female consumption of romance novels/media?We also talk through practical alternatives couples can turn to instead — like how you can still spice up your intimacy through a partnership we have with a safe no nudity website (see info below) — and look at what Scripture says about intimacy and self-control in marriage.1 Corinthians 7:2-5 ESV“But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.”For a safe, no nudity, environment to check out ways to spice up the intimacy in your marriage, check out our partners Romantic Blessings. Use this affiliate link to receive a special discount on anything you buy.If this episode helped you, share it with another couple and be sure to follow Marriage Puzzle wherever you listen to podcasts.Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriage.puzzle⁠⁠⁠Threads: ⁠https://www.threads.com/@marriagepuzzle⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MarriagePuzzle⁠⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.marriagepuzzle.com

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    Ep. 104 | Attachment Styles in Marriage: Connection vs. Space

    When your spouse gets home after work, what do they need most: connection or space?One of the most common marriage conflicts doesn't happen during a major disagreement—it happens during the first few minutes after one spouse walks through the door.In episode 104 of the Marriage Puzzle podcast, we're discussing attachment styles, emotional needs, and why some people recharge through connection while others recharge through solitude. We'll explore how these differences can create misunderstandings, feelings of rejection, and unnecessary conflict when couples assume the worst about each other's needs.You'll learn how to interpret your spouse's behavior through grace instead of fear, create healthy "coming home" rhythms, and build a plan that helps both spouses feel loved and understood.Key Takeaways:• Why some people need connection while others need space after a long day• How attachment styles impact marriage communication• Common assumptions that create unnecessary conflict• How to stop interpreting your spouse's needs as rejection• Practical ways to create a healthy after-work routine• Simple conversations that help both spouses feel valuedThis Week's Challenge:Talk with your spouse about what helps each of you transition from work mode to home mode. Create a simple plan that honors both of your needs and commit to following through."Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others."— Philippians 2:4If this episode helped you, share it with another couple and be sure to follow Marriage Puzzle wherever you listen to podcasts.Facebook: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriage.puzzle⁠⁠Threads: https://www.threads.com/@marriagepuzzle⁠Youtube: ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MarriagePuzzle⁠⁠Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.marriagepuzzle.com

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    Ep. 103 | How to Build a Stronger Marriage With Your Words

    Episode 103 of The Marriage Puzzle PodcastThe way you talk about your spouse might be strengthening your marriage—or slowly tearing it apart.In this episode, we discuss why speaking positively about your spouse is one of the most powerful ways to build a stronger marriage.The words we speak don't just affect our spouse—they shape the way we see them. When we constantly focus on flaws, frustrations, and failures, we create negative filters that influence our perspective. But when we intentionally speak life, gratitude, and encouragement, we strengthen connection and cultivate respect.We'll discuss:• How your words shape your view of your spouse• The power of positive and negative filters• Why spouse-bashing has become socially acceptable• The hidden damage of making your spouse the punchline of a joke• Why "always" and "never" can hurt communication• Practical ways to speak life into your marriage every day1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (NIV)"Love is patient, love is kind... it does not dishonor others... it always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."Facebook: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriage.puzzle⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MarriagePuzzle⁠Website: ⁠⁠https://www.marriagepuzzle.com

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    Ep. 102 | The Invisible Load Part 2: Our Marriage Check-In

    Colossians 4:6 (NIV)"Let your conversation be always full of grace..."Episode 102 of The Marriage Puzzle PodcastLast week, we challenged couples to sit down and ask three simple questions:• What feels heavy right now?• What can I take off your plate?• What responsibilities need to be redistributed?This week, we did our homework.During our weekly marriage check-in, we had a conversation about the invisible load in our own marriage—and it led to a completely different podcast episode than we originally planned.In this episode, we're sharing what happened, what we learned, and how proactive conversations can prevent future arguments before they begin.Many marriage conflicts don't start with big issues. They start with small frustrations that go unspoken until they become resentment.You'll learn:• Why regular marriage check-ins matter• How proactive communication prevents reactive arguments• How to discuss difficult topics with grace• Why "you always" and "you never" damage connection• Practical ways to carry each other's burdens• How healthy couples address tension before it becomes conflictFacebook: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriage.puzzle⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MarriagePuzzle⁠Website: ⁠⁠https://www.marriagepuzzle.com

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    Ep. 101 | Feeling Unseen In Marriage (Carrying The Invisible Load)

    Episode 101 of The Marriage Puzzle PodcastHave you ever looked at your spouse and thought, "How do they not see everything I'm carrying?"Many couples don't argue because one person is doing nothing. They argue because one person feels unseen.In this episode, we discuss the invisible load in marriage—the mental, emotional, and organizational responsibilities that often go unnoticed but keep a household running. From planning meals and managing schedules to remembering appointments and handling everyday responsibilities, carrying the invisible load can leave spouses feeling overwhelmed, unappreciated, and resentful.You'll learn:• What the invisible load really is• Why couples often feel unappreciated• The difference between physical tasks and mental responsibility• How scorekeeping damages marriages• Practical ways to support your spouse without being asked• How to create better communication and teamwork at home• Why marriage isn't always a 50/50 splitSubscribe for weekly marriage advice focused on communication, intimacy, finances, and building a stronger relationship.Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzle⁠Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzle⁠TikTok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriage.puzzle⁠Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@MarriagePuzzleWebsite: ⁠https://www.marriagepuzzle.com⁠

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    Ep. 100 | Work Spouses: Harmless Friendship or Emotional Affair?

    Have you ever heard someone refer to a coworker as their "work wife" or "work husband"?Many people see work spouses as harmless workplace friendships, but could these relationships be creating emotional distance in a marriage?In episode 100 we discuss the growing trend of "work spouses", how emotional affairs often begin, warning signs couples should watch for, and practical boundaries that can help protect your marriage.Thomas shares a real-life story from his workplace that demonstrates how innocent interactions between coworkers can sometimes create tension in a marriage and why it's important to guard your heart, communicate openly with your spouse, and establish healthy workplace boundaries.Whether you're married, engaged, dating, or simply want stronger relationship boundaries, this conversation will help you navigate workplace relationships in a way that honors your spouse, fiancee, or significant other,  and strengthens your relationship.Subscribe for more conversations about marriage, communication, intimacy, finances, and faith.Facebook: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriage.puzzle⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MarriagePuzzle⁠Website: ⁠⁠https://www.marriagepuzzle.com

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    Ep. 99 | Marriage Rhythms: Rebuilding Connection Through Busy Seasons

    After an 18-month break, we’re finally back behind the microphones.In this episode, we open up about the season that pulled us away from the podcast, the challenges our family has been navigating, and what life has looked like behind the scenes during our time away.We also share the weekly and monthly marriage rhythms that have helped us stay connected through busy, stressful, and unpredictable seasons of life. From communication and quality time to intentional check-ins and protecting our priorities, we talk honestly about what has been working for us and what we’re continuing to learn along the way.Whether your marriage feels strong right now or you’re simply trying to stay connected in the middle of real life, we hope this conversation encourages you to create rhythms that bring consistency, peace, and connection to your relationship.Thanks for sticking with us while we were away. We’re excited to be back.Facebook: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriage.puzzle⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MarriagePuzzle⁠Website: ⁠⁠https://www.marriagepuzzle.com

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    Ep. 98 | Never Give Up: The Key to a Lasting Marriage

    In this episode, we explore the final chapter of From This Day Forward by Craig and Amy Groeschel, titled Never Give Up. Marriage is a commitment that requires perseverance, especially when times get tough. We discuss practical ways to stay committed, navigate challenges, and build a relationship that stands the test of time. Whether you’re facing struggles or simply looking to strengthen your bond, this episode will inspire you to fight for your marriage and never give up. 💍❤️ 👉 Don’t f...

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    Ep. 97 | Protecting Your Marriage from Infidelity

    💍 Can you truly protect your marriage from infidelity? In this episode, we explore practical ways to safeguard your relationship emotionally and physically, inspired by Chapter 4, Stay Pure, from Craig Groeschel's book From This Day Forward. We’ll share actionable tips to help you: - Set boundaries that build trust. - Avoid emotional and physical temptations. - Stay connected with your spouse daily.Whether you're repairing trust, protecting a strong bond, or simply wanting to d...

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    Ep. 96 | Keeping the Spark Alive: The Art of Having Fun Together

    In this episode, we explore how to keep the spark alive by having fun together. Inspired by Craig Groeschel’s From This Day Forward, we share simple ways to bring more laughter and joy into your marriage.Facebook: ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠Instagram: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzle⁠⁠TikTok: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@marriage.puzzle⁠⁠Youtube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@MarriagePuzzle⁠Website: ⁠⁠https://www.marriagepuzzle.com

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    Ep. 95 | Fight Fair

    We are reading the book: From This Day Forward by Craig & Amy Groschel. In this episode we're talking about tips we learned from the second chapter.Check out the video from our friends Jonathan & Kim Portillo regarding their upcoming mission trip to South AfricaCheck out the To Be Men Podcast by my friend JonathanDo you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your...

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    Ep. 94 | From This Day Forward

    We are reading the book: From This Day Forward by Craig & Amy Groschel. In this episode we're talking about tips we learned from the first chapter.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discovery Call with Juli & Thomas to learn how to solve the complex marriage puzzle to go from being overwhelmed to being ...

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    Ep. 93 | 3 Things We Wish We Knew As Newlyweds

    In this episode we are talking about 3 things we would go back and tell ourselves as newlyweds.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discovery Call with Juli & Thomas to learn how to solve the complex marriage puzzle to go from being overwhelmed to being secure in your marriage. Facebook: @marriagepuzzleInstag...

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    Ep. 92 | Navigating Temptation: Biblical Wisdom for Modern Marriages

    In this episode, we dive into the stories of Joseph and Potiphar’s wife from Genesis 39 and David and Bathsheba from 2 Samuel 11. Drawing from the insights of Bob Reccord’s Beneath The Surface, we explore how these two biblical figures handled temptation differently and the lasting impact on their lives. Discover practical lessons on guarding your thoughts, actions, and emotions to protect your relationship from the dangers of temptation.Check out our partnership with Romantic Blessings and u...

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    Ep. 91 | Is Social Media Hurting Your Marriage?

    In this episode, we dive into how social media can shape your marriage, highlighting both its benefits and challenges. Tune in for practical strategies to use social media in a way that strengthens your relationship and fosters deeper connection.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discovery Call with Juli & ...

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    Ep. 90 | Sex Talk: 6 Questions Every Married Couple Should Ask

    We're giving you 6 questions to spark conversation with your spouse around the topic of sex in your marriage. Subscribe to the podcast to make sure you're notified when a new episode is released. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discovery Call with Juli &...

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    Ep. 89 | Top Reasons Why Our Marriage Works

    We each wrote a list of some reasons why we think our marriage works well, then shared them with each other for the first time on this podcast episode.Subscribe to the podcast to make sure you're notified when a new episode is released. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Sche...

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    Ep. 88 | Money Talks: Navigating Financial Harmony with Your Spouse

    We're giving you some practical tips on managing your money together as a couple.Subscribe to the podcast to make sure you're notified when a new episode is released. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discovery Call with Juli & Thomas to learn how to solve the...

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    Ep. 87 | Having An Attitude Of Gratitude Towards Your Spouse

    We're teaching you some ways that you can show and express gratitude towards your spouse.Subscribe to the podcast to make sure you're notified when a new episode is released. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discovery Call with Juli & Thomas to learn how to s...Code: ZCYB8K2JAMXMWOLY

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    Ep. 86 | What Will You Say At Your Spouse's Funeral?

    In this episode we're talking about examining your relationship to determine if you will truly have good things to say about your spouse at their funeral.Also be sure to check out our episode called Remember Your Why, which we referenced in this episode.Subscribe to the podcast to make sure you're notified when a new episode is released. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when...

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    Ep. 85 | Our Worst Date Ever

    In this episode we're going to be telling you about our worst date ever and what we learned from it so we could have better future dates.Subscribe to the podcast to make sure you're notified when a new episode is released. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discove...

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    Ep. 84 | Marriage Culture

    In this episode we're going to be talking about what the culture of a marriage looks like, and how you either create it or make it better.The book we are going through on the podcast is "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman. We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it com...

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    Ep. 83 | Overcome Gridlock

    In this episode we're going to be talking about ways you can overcome gridlock surrounding a conflict in your marriage.The book we are going through on the podcast is "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman. We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...o...

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    Ep. 82 | Problem Solving

    In this episode we're going to be talking about 5 steps for problem solving in your marriage.The book we are going through on the podcast is "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman. We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different pa...

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    Ep. 81 | Let Your Spouse Influence You

    In this episode we're going to be talking about how to let your spouse influence you.The book we are going through on the podcast is "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman. We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from ...

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    Ep. 80 | Turn Toward Your Spouse

    In this episode we're going to be talking about how to turn toward your spouse in their times of need rather than away from them.The book we are going through on the podcast is "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman. We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to int...

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    Ep. 79 | Fondness & Admiration

    In this episode we're going to be talking about how to Nurture Your Fondness & Admiration toward your spouse. The book we are going through on the podcast is "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman. We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you...

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    Ep. 78 | Enhance Your Love Map

    In this episode we're going to be talking about how to Enhance Your Love Map with your spouse by learning more about your spouse.The book we are going through on the podcast is "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman. We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to int...

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    Ep. 77 | The Four Horsemen

    In this episode we're going to be talking about the "Four Horsemen" that can cause problems in your marriage.The book we are going through on the podcast is "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman. We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're o...

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    Ep. 76 | Friendship vs. Fighting

    In this episode we're going to be talking about how to develop your friendship with your spouse and why that should be at the foundation of your marriage.The book we are going through on the podcast is "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman. We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the s...

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    Ep. 75 | Love Has A Speed

    Sometimes you just have to slow down in order to get your life to start to balance out. Tune in to hear a quick update of where we've been after a podcast break and why we now know that love has a speed.The book we are going through on the podcast is "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman. We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...y...

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    Ep. 74 | Marriage Check Up

    Do you have a marriage check up? Marriages need regular maintenance too. If your check engine light comes on in your car, you get it checked out. So when you start feeling like things might be a little off in your marriage you need to do a check up to see what is going on. Tune in for some tips from Juli on how to do this.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?....

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    Ep. 73 | Weekend Expectations In Marriage

    Wife has one idea in her head of how the day is going to go; husband has another idea … but neither expresses their ideas/expectations out loud verbally. We've got a personal story about this, so tune in to hear what happened.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you...

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    Ep. 72 | Sleep and Sex

    Is the amount of sleep you get affecting your sex life? The answer is yes. In this episode, find out what you can do about it. The answer will shock you.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a ...

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    Ep. 71 | What The NICU Taught Us About Marriage

    For the past nearly 5 months, we spent every day visiting our fourth child in the NICU because he was born almost 4 months early. That time was very trying on our family and especially our marriage. We had to dig deep and figure out some things to focus on in our marriage to help keep things going the best we could. We're going to give you some of the tips we came out of this time with.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on s...

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    Ep. 70 | Lack of Trust

    Have you experienced broken trust in your marriage? Have you been the one to break your spouses trust? We've got some tips for both sides of this, so join us for this week's episode.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it c...

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    Ep. 69 | Lack of Sex

    Are you experiencing a "dry spell" in your sex life with your spouse? We've got some practical tips and resources to help you get back on track, and stay on track.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Resources mentioned in this episode:Intimately Us AppRomantic Blessings Adult Intimacy Online Store - Use Code MPUZ15 for 15% off at checkout.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your commun...

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    Ep. 68 | Lack of Prioritization

    When you don't prioritize things properly in your life, you can get out of balance. The same thing can happen in your marriage. When things get out of balance, damage can be caused. Check out this episode to hear a some areas you need to make sure you prioritize correctly.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've los...

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    Ep. 67 | Lack of Forgiveness

    Are you having trouble forgiving your spouse for something? We're going to talk about how this will affect you personally as well as your marriage, and some tips on how to have breakthrough.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse w...

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    Ep. 66 | Lack of Affirmation

    Join us for a discussion about Affirmation & Appreciation, why it is needed and why we don't do it enough.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discovery Call with Juli & Thomas to le...

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    Ep. 65 | Lack of Attention

    Does it feel like you've lost, or are losing, your spouse's attention? Join us as we talk about some of the reasons why this can happen, and some things you can do to get it back.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it come...

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Marriage is a lot like putting together a brand new puzzle. You see the picture on the box and think "I can do that!" or "That would be fun to put together." But once you open the box you realize how much work is involved in turning over all the pieces, finding the edges and what fits in the middle. In marriage, you are constantly turning over new pieces to find out where they go. We'll be talking about our marriage in an attempt to pass along any wisdom we can to others. We hope you'll join us on the journey where together we'll work on marriage, one puzzle piece at a time.

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Juli & Thomas Hobby

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