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Marriage Puzzle
by Juli & Thomas Hobby
Marriage is a lot like putting together a brand new puzzle. You see the picture on the box and think "I can do that!" or "That would be fun to put together." But once you open the box you realize how much work is involved in turning over all the pieces, finding the edges and what fits in the middle. In marriage, you are constantly turning over new pieces to find out where they go. We'll be talking about our marriage in an attempt to pass along any wisdom we can to others. We hope you'll join us on the journey where together we'll work on marriage, one puzzle piece at a time.
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Work Spouses: Harmless Friendship or Emotional Affair?
Have you ever heard someone refer to a coworker as their "work wife" or "work husband"?Many people see work spouses as harmless workplace friendships, but could these relationships be creating emotional distance in a marriage?In episode 100 we discuss the growing trend of "work spouses", how emotional affairs often begin, warning signs couples should watch for, and practical boundaries that can help protect your marriage.Thomas shares a real-life story from his workplace that demonstrates how innocent interactions between coworkers can sometimes create tension in a marriage and why it's important to guard your heart, communicate openly with your spouse, and establish healthy workplace boundaries.Whether you're married, engaged, dating, or simply want stronger relationship boundaries, this conversation will help you navigate workplace relationships in a way that honors your spouse, fiancee, or significant other, and strengthens your relationship.Subscribe for more conversations about marriage, communication, intimacy, finances, and faith.Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzleInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzleTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marriage.puzzleWebsite: https://www.marriagepuzzle.com
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Marriage Rhythms: Rebuilding Connection Through Busy Seasons
After an 18-month break, we’re finally back behind the microphones.In this episode, we open up about the season that pulled us away from the podcast, the challenges our family has been navigating, and what life has looked like behind the scenes during our time away.We also share the weekly and monthly marriage rhythms that have helped us stay connected through busy, stressful, and unpredictable seasons of life. From communication and quality time to intentional check-ins and protecting our priorities, we talk honestly about what has been working for us and what we’re continuing to learn along the way.Whether your marriage feels strong right now or you’re simply trying to stay connected in the middle of real life, we hope this conversation encourages you to create rhythms that bring consistency, peace, and connection to your relationship.Thanks for sticking with us while we were away. We’re excited to be back.Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/marriagepuzzleInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/marriagepuzzleTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@marriage.puzzleWebsite: https://www.marriagepuzzle.com
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Never Give Up: The Key to a Lasting Marriage
In this episode, we explore the final chapter of From This Day Forward by Craig and Amy Groeschel, titled Never Give Up. Marriage is a commitment that requires perseverance, especially when times get tough. We discuss practical ways to stay committed, navigate challenges, and build a relationship that stands the test of time. Whether you’re facing struggles or simply looking to strengthen your bond, this episode will inspire you to fight for your marriage and never give up. 💍❤️ 👉 Don’t f...
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Protecting Your Marriage from Infidelity
💍 Can you truly protect your marriage from infidelity? In this episode, we explore practical ways to safeguard your relationship emotionally and physically, inspired by Chapter 4, Stay Pure, from Craig Groeschel's book From This Day Forward. We’ll share actionable tips to help you: - Set boundaries that build trust. - Avoid emotional and physical temptations. - Stay connected with your spouse daily.Whether you're repairing trust, protecting a strong bond, or simply wanting to d...
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Keeping the Spark Alive: The Art of Having Fun Together
In this episode, we explore how to keep the spark alive by having fun together. Inspired by Craig Groeschel’s From This Day Forward, we share simple ways to bring more laughter and joy into your marriage.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discovery Call with Juli & Thomas to learn how to solve the complex m...
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Fight Fair
We are reading the book: From This Day Forward by Craig & Amy Groschel. In this episode we're talking about tips we learned from the second chapter.Check out the video from our friends Jonathan & Kim Portillo regarding their upcoming mission trip to South AfricaCheck out the To Be Men Podcast by my friend JonathanDo you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your...
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From This Day Forward
We are reading the book: From This Day Forward by Craig & Amy Groschel. In this episode we're talking about tips we learned from the first chapter.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discovery Call with Juli & Thomas to learn how to solve the complex marriage puzzle to go from being overwhelmed to being ...
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3 Things We Wish We Knew As Newlyweds
In this episode we are talking about 3 things we would go back and tell ourselves as newlyweds.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discovery Call with Juli & Thomas to learn how to solve the complex marriage puzzle to go from being overwhelmed to being secure in your marriage. Facebook: @marriagepuzzleInstag...
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Navigating Temptation: Biblical Wisdom for Modern Marriages
In this episode, we dive into the stories of Joseph and Potiphar’s wife from Genesis 39 and David and Bathsheba from 2 Samuel 11. Drawing from the insights of Bob Reccord’s Beneath The Surface, we explore how these two biblical figures handled temptation differently and the lasting impact on their lives. Discover practical lessons on guarding your thoughts, actions, and emotions to protect your relationship from the dangers of temptation.Check out our partnership with Romantic Blessings and u...
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Is Social Media Hurting Your Marriage?
In this episode, we dive into how social media can shape your marriage, highlighting both its benefits and challenges. Tune in for practical strategies to use social media in a way that strengthens your relationship and fosters deeper connection.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discovery Call with Juli & ...
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Sex Talk: 6 Questions Every Married Couple Should Ask
We're giving you 6 questions to spark conversation with your spouse around the topic of sex in your marriage. Subscribe to the podcast to make sure you're notified when a new episode is released. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discovery Call with Juli &...
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Top Reasons Why Our Marriage Works
We each wrote a list of some reasons why we think our marriage works well, then shared them with each other for the first time on this podcast episode.Subscribe to the podcast to make sure you're notified when a new episode is released. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Sche...
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Money Talks: Navigating Financial Harmony with Your Spouse
We're giving you some practical tips on managing your money together as a couple.Subscribe to the podcast to make sure you're notified when a new episode is released. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discovery Call with Juli & Thomas to learn how to solve the...
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Having An Attitude Of Gratitude Towards Your Spouse
We're teaching you some ways that you can show and express gratitude towards your spouse.Subscribe to the podcast to make sure you're notified when a new episode is released. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discovery Call with Juli & Thomas to learn how to s...
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What Will You Say At Your Spouse's Funeral?
In this episode we're talking about examining your relationship to determine if you will truly have good things to say about your spouse at their funeral.Also be sure to check out our episode called Remember Your Why, which we referenced in this episode.Subscribe to the podcast to make sure you're notified when a new episode is released. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when...
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Our Worst Date Ever
In this episode we're going to be telling you about our worst date ever and what we learned from it so we could have better future dates.Subscribe to the podcast to make sure you're notified when a new episode is released. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discove...
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Marriage Culture
In this episode we're going to be talking about what the culture of a marriage looks like, and how you either create it or make it better.The book we are going through on the podcast is "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman. We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it com...
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Overcome Gridlock
In this episode we're going to be talking about ways you can overcome gridlock surrounding a conflict in your marriage.The book we are going through on the podcast is "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman. We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...o...
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Problem Solving
In this episode we're going to be talking about 5 steps for problem solving in your marriage.The book we are going through on the podcast is "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman. We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different pa...
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Let Your Spouse Influence You
In this episode we're going to be talking about how to let your spouse influence you.The book we are going through on the podcast is "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman. We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from ...
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Turn Toward Your Spouse
In this episode we're going to be talking about how to turn toward your spouse in their times of need rather than away from them.The book we are going through on the podcast is "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman. We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to int...
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Fondness & Admiration
In this episode we're going to be talking about how to Nurture Your Fondness & Admiration toward your spouse. The book we are going through on the podcast is "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman. We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you...
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Enhance Your Love Map
In this episode we're going to be talking about how to Enhance Your Love Map with your spouse by learning more about your spouse.The book we are going through on the podcast is "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman. We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to int...
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The Four Horsemen
In this episode we're going to be talking about the "Four Horsemen" that can cause problems in your marriage.The book we are going through on the podcast is "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman. We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're o...
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Friendship vs. Fighting
In this episode we're going to be talking about how to develop your friendship with your spouse and why that should be at the foundation of your marriage.The book we are going through on the podcast is "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman. We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the s...
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Love Has A Speed
Sometimes you just have to slow down in order to get your life to start to balance out. Tune in to hear a quick update of where we've been after a podcast break and why we now know that love has a speed.The book we are going through on the podcast is "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman. We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...y...
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Marriage Check Up
Do you have a marriage check up? Marriages need regular maintenance too. If your check engine light comes on in your car, you get it checked out. So when you start feeling like things might be a little off in your marriage you need to do a check up to see what is going on. Tune in for some tips from Juli on how to do this.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?....
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Weekend Expectations In Marriage
Wife has one idea in her head of how the day is going to go; husband has another idea … but neither expresses their ideas/expectations out loud verbally. We've got a personal story about this, so tune in to hear what happened.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you...
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Sleep and Sex
Is the amount of sleep you get affecting your sex life? The answer is yes. In this episode, find out what you can do about it. The answer will shock you.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a ...
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What The NICU Taught Us About Marriage
For the past nearly 5 months, we spent every day visiting our fourth child in the NICU because he was born almost 4 months early. That time was very trying on our family and especially our marriage. We had to dig deep and figure out some things to focus on in our marriage to help keep things going the best we could. We're going to give you some of the tips we came out of this time with.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on s...
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Lack of Trust
Have you experienced broken trust in your marriage? Have you been the one to break your spouses trust? We've got some tips for both sides of this, so join us for this week's episode.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it c...
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Lack of Sex
Are you experiencing a "dry spell" in your sex life with your spouse? We've got some practical tips and resources to help you get back on track, and stay on track.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Resources mentioned in this episode:Intimately Us AppRomantic Blessings Adult Intimacy Online Store - Use Code MPUZ15 for 15% off at checkout.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your commun...
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Lack of Prioritization
When you don't prioritize things properly in your life, you can get out of balance. The same thing can happen in your marriage. When things get out of balance, damage can be caused. Check out this episode to hear a some areas you need to make sure you prioritize correctly.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've los...
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Lack of Forgiveness
Are you having trouble forgiving your spouse for something? We're going to talk about how this will affect you personally as well as your marriage, and some tips on how to have breakthrough.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse w...
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Lack of Affirmation
Join us for a discussion about Affirmation & Appreciation, why it is needed and why we don't do it enough.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discovery Call with Juli & Thomas to le...
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Lack of Attention
Does it feel like you've lost, or are losing, your spouse's attention? Join us as we talk about some of the reasons why this can happen, and some things you can do to get it back.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it come...
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Money, Spouses, And How To Agree
Are you and your spouse on the same page with money? Do you find yourself frequently arguing about money? In this episode, check out the 3 ways on how to get on the same page.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to...
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Low Self-Esteem In Marriage
Do you feel like you or your spouse may have low self-esteem? Low self-esteem can have a negative impact on your marriage. In this episode, we'll let you know some ways to spot it, and work through it.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from yo...
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"The Argument Hangover" with Special Guests The Freemans
We are so excited to have special guests Aaron & Jocelyn Freeman on talking about their book The Argument Hangover. They give us some great tips from their book on how to reconcile from an argument. Don't miss this episode!You can find The Argument Hangover on our website at www.marriagepuzzle.com/booksGo check out The Freemans here:Instagram: @meet_thefreemansWebsite: www.meetthefreemans.comWe release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check u...
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Jealousy In Marriage
Have you ever felt jealousy in your marriage? Join us as we chat about why that happens and what can be done about it.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discovery Call with Juli & Thom...
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Empathy & Encouragement
When going through a stressful or traumatic situation your spouse needs you more than ever. In this episode we're going to talk about how to show your spouse empathy and encouragement when they need it most.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page f...
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3 Reasons You're Failing At Communication
Do you feel like your communication is slipping, just a little off, or completely lacking? Check out these reasons why that might be happening along with some tips to help you improve your communication.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from ...
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Let's Talk About Sex
The title says it all. We're talking about the frequency of sex, different sex drives in a marriage, and how sex can either bring you together, or how the lack of it can drive a wedge between the two of you. We've also got a great actionable takeaway in this episode too.We've also partnered with a the Intimately Us App and the Romantic Blessings Online Store, to help you out with the topics of this episode. Make sure you go check them out at the links above, or on our website at www.marriagep...
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Meals, Money & Marriage
In seasons of chaos in your life it can be very easy for your finances to get chaotic as well. Tune in for some practical ways to help stabilize your finances in a time of chaos.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes...
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Distractions In Marriage
Are distractions impacting your marriage? This episode gives you three achievable "distraction-free" times each day. We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different page from your spouse when it comes to finances? Schedule a Discovery Call with Juli & ...
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Fighting Fair
Have you ever gotten into a big fight with each other? Of course you have! Conflict is a natural part of marriage that can be embraced if done fairly. Listen in for some tips on how to fight fair in your marriage.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intimacy?...or you're on a different ...
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A Prioritized Marriage
In this episode we have a special guest joining us. Amberly from A Prioritized Marriage joins the podcast to continue our discussion from last week about building the foundation of your marriage by making it a priority. Go check out A Prioritized Marriage here:Facebook: @aprioritizedmarriageInstagram: @aprioritizedmarriageWebsite: www.aprioritizedmarriage.comWe release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel ...
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Building A Marriage Foundation
In this episode we're talking about why it is important to put in the hard work early for your marriage. Small things can have a big impact on your relationship if you haven't been doing the routine maintenance. So what could happen if something major happens in your lives?We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the...
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Marriage Puzzle One Year Later
One year ago the Marriage Puzzle Podcast was released. This is our 52nd podcast episode, and we talk about Marriage Puzzle one year later. We'll provide a quick family update now that Juli is home after our fourth child was born 15 weeks early.We release a new episode every Monday, so subscribe and stay tuned for more. Make sure you check us out on social media too.Do you feel like roommates instead of soulmates?...your communication is lacking?...you've lost the spark when it comes to intima...
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How To Be Married And Still Be Friends
As we mentioned in Episode 48, we've had some major life events happen in the last few weeks that are causing the podcast to look different right now. This week, we had an amazing couple give us some tips on what it means to maintain a friendship with your spouse inside your marriage. Chris & Jamie from Expedition Marriage join us this week. Don't miss this episode.Go check out Expedition Marriage here:Instagram: @expedition_marriageWebsite and Podcast: expeditionmarriage.orgWe release a ...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Marriage is a lot like putting together a brand new puzzle. You see the picture on the box and think "I can do that!" or "That would be fun to put together." But once you open the box you realize how much work is involved in turning over all the pieces, finding the edges and what fits in the middle. In marriage, you are constantly turning over new pieces to find out where they go. We'll be talking about our marriage in an attempt to pass along any wisdom we can to others. We hope you'll join us on the journey where together we'll work on marriage, one puzzle piece at a time.
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