PODCAST · education
Marriage Rehab: Exposing Narcissistic & Emotional Abuse
by Marriage Recovery Center / Dr. David B. Hawkins
Are you struggling with a toxic or emotionally abusive relationship? Best-selling author and clinical psychologist Dr. David Hawkins explores the complex dynamics of narcissism, emotional abuse, trauma, and toxic relationship patterns. Each episode provides insight and practical tools to help you find clarity, healing, and hope.Dr. Hawkins tackles the issues many couples face but rarely find effective help for, including narcissistic abuse, spiritual and financial abuse, secondary abuse in the church, sex addiction, divorce, and separation. Whether you’re trying to rebuild your relationship or recover from emotional harm, this podcast offers professional guidance and encouragement for your journey to healthier connections.
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Ep72:Autism, Neurodiversity, or Narcissism? The Critical Differences in Marriage-Dr Stephanie Holmes
In this episode of Marriage Rehab, Dr. David Hawkins interviews Dr. Stephanie Holmes about neurodiversity, autism spectrum disorder, rejection sensitivity, emotional immaturity, and relationship challenges. Learn how autism differs from narcissism, why feedback becomes conflict in neurodiverse marriages, and how couples can build emotional awareness, resilience, and a healthier connection.
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Ep 71: Betrayal Trauma: Why You Can’t “Just Move On” After Emotional Abuse or Infidelity
What if your anxiety, confusion, hypervigilance, exhaustion, or emotional shutdown after betrayal is not weakness—but trauma?In this powerful episode of Marriage Rehab, Dr. David Hawkins and betrayal trauma specialist Katie Wenger unpack the devastating effects of betrayal trauma—including emotional abuse, infidelity, dishonesty, emotional invalidation, financial secrecy, broken trust, and repeated emotional harm in marriage.You’ll learn why your body reacts the way it does after betrayal, how emotional abuse can create trauma even without an affair, why traditional couples counseling can sometimes worsen betrayal trauma, and what emotional safety and true trust repair actually require.This episode is for anyone who feels emotionally exhausted, confused, or stuck in a marriage where trust has been repeatedly broken and wants a clearer path toward healing.
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Ep 70: When Faith Is Used to Control: Spiritual Abuse & Gaslighting in Marriage -Dr. John Hudson
What happens when faith is used to control instead of heal?In this Marriage Rehab episode, Dr. David Hawkins and Dr. John Hudson unpack spiritual abuse in marriage—how scripture can be twisted into power, how gaslighting becomes “biblical,” and why many victims are dismissed by well-meaning church leaders.You’ll learn how partial-scripture manipulation works, why spiritual maturity and emotional maturity are not the same, what servant leadership actually looks like, and how to pursue safety, advocacy, and support without abandoning your faith.If you have felt silenced, confused, or blamed in the name of faith, this conversation offers language, clarity, and a next step.
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Is It Narcissism? Or Emotional Immaturity? Why Men Struggle to Grow Up-Pt. 2 (Dr. Eddie Capparucci)
Is your partner truly narcissistic—or could it be emotional immaturity?In this powerful episode of Marriage Rehab, Dr. David Hawkins sits down with Dr. Eddie Capparucci to challenge one of the most common—and potentially harmful—labels in relationships today.Drawing from years of clinical experience and assessment data, Dr. Capparucci reveals a surprising truth: only a small percentage of men meet the criteria for narcissistic personality disorder. Instead, many struggle with emotional immaturity, poor regulation, and deeply ingrained self-protection patterns.In this episode, you’ll discover:Why “narcissism” may be overused—and what’s actually happening beneath the surfaceThe critical difference between narcissistic disorder vs. emotional underdevelopmentHow emotional immaturity shows up as defensiveness, withdrawal, and controlWhy many men cannot tolerate emotional discomfort—and how that drives harmful behaviorThe role of self-protection, fear, and shame in relationship breakdownPractical, real-time tools for emotional regulation and nervous system resetHow true change begins—not with insight—but with regulation and consistencyThis conversation offers both clarity and hope: when the problem is emotional immaturity—not fixed personality disorder—real growth is possible.If you’re stuck asking, “Is this narcissism… or something else?”—this episode will help you see your relationship with new understanding. If you want clarity on your relationship dynamic and a path forward, we’re here to help.👉 Visit: marriagerecoverycenter.com📞 Call: 206-219-0145You are not alone—and change is possible.
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Ep 68: Emotional Abuse vs Narcissism: Why He Doesn’t Change | Lundy Bancroft
What if the real issue isn’t narcissism—but entitlement, control, and emotional abuse?In this Marriage Rehab episode, Dr. David Hawkins sits down with Lundy Bancroft, author of Why Does He Do That?, to unpack one of the most confusing questions women ask: Why does he act this way—and why doesn’t he change?They explore the difference between narcissism, emotional immaturity, and abusive behavior; why traditional couples counseling can make things worse; why apologies and promises are not enough; and the red flags that reveal when power and double standards are driving the relationship.In this episode, we discuss:• Emotional abuse vs narcissism: what actually matters• Why abuse is not a “two-way street”• Why boundaries alone usually don’t fix abuse• The role of entitlement, payback, and double standards• Why exhaustion is often the clearest warning sign• What real change would actually have to look likeIf you’re asking:Is he abusive or just emotionally immature?Why do I feel exhausted, confused, and like I can’t do anything right?Can an abusive partner really change?This conversation gives language, clarity, and next steps.Take the Marriage Recovery Center Relationship Assessment:https://marriagerecoverycenter.com/assessment/Lundy Bancroft:https://lundybancroft.comBook: Why Does He Do That? Amazon: https://a.co/d/0jdqkj1C
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Ep. 67:Betrayal Trauma After an Affair: Why Apologies Aren’t Enough to Rebuild Trust | Rick Reynolds
Betrayal trauma after infidelity can feel overwhelming—especially when apologies don’t bring real healing.In this episode of Marriage Rehab: Exposing Narcissistic and Emotional Abuse, Dr. David Hawkins sits down with Rick Reynolds, founder of Affair Recovery, to explore why betrayal trauma runs so deep—and why saying “I’m sorry” rarely restores trust after an affair.If you’re struggling with infidelity, trickle truth, broken trust, or repeated emotional betrayal, this conversation explains what’s really happening beneath the pain—and what real recovery actually requires.In this episode, we discuss:• Why betrayal trauma after an affair can feel like developmental trauma• The damage of trickle truth and hidden secrets after infidelity• Trauma bonds and why couples get stuck in the pain → relief → repeat cycle• The role of shame, emotional immaturity, and defensiveness after cheating• Why many apologies fail (remorse vs. real grief)• Why healing often requires community support and structured recovery• The real process of rebuilding trust after betrayalIf you’re asking:Can a marriage survive infidelity?Why do I still feel traumatized after my partner’s affair?Why doesn’t their apology make the pain go away?This episode offers a clear framework for understanding betrayal trauma and how couples rebuild trust after cheating.Take the Marriage Recovery Center Relationship Assessment:https://marriagerecoverycenter.com/assessment/
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Ep 65:CAC: He Says He Loves You—So Why Does He Keep Hurting You? Emotional Immaturity Explained
Why does a man say he loves you—yet still leave you feeling alone, unheard, and emotionally unsafe?In this Clarity After the Conversation episode of Marriage Rehab, Dr. David Hawkins unpacks one of the most painful questions women ask: How can he say he loves me and still hurt me the same way over and over again?Building on the conversation with Dr. Eddie Capparucci, Dr. Hawkins explains why many men sincerely believe they are loving well while operating from emotional immaturity. You’ll hear why men often define love through staying, providing, or doing helpful tasks—but still fail to attune to their partner’s pain.Dr. Hawkins breaks down why emotionally immature men hear criticism instead of pain, why defensiveness instantly destroys connection, why explanation is not an excuse, and why boundaries matter when a woman is carrying the emotional weight of the relationship alone.If you are trying to discern emotional immaturity, emotional abuse, or narcissistic behavior, this episode offers clarity, language, and a next step.Related Episode: Why Men Struggle to Love (Episode 63) with Dr. Eddie Capparucciinnerchild-sexaddiction.comMarriageRecoveryCenter.com | 206-219-0145Comprehensive Relationship AssessmentMen’s Programs • Couples Intensives
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62:Why He Gets Defensive: Narcissism, Emotional Abuse & What’s Really Underneath-Dr Tori Olds
Why do we get so defensive in relationships—and can narcissistic or emotionally abusive patterns really change?In this episode of Marriage Rehab, Dr. David Hawkins sits down with psychologist Dr. Tori Olds to explain Internal Family Systems (IFS), also called parts work, and how protective “parts” can drive defensiveness, domination, dismissiveness, shutdown, and painful conflict cycles.They explore why the brain runs automatic predictions, why criticism can feel unbearable, how “protectors” form around old wounds, and why accountability without shame creates more lasting change than white-knuckling behavior.In this episode:• What IFS is: parts, protectors, wounded places, and the grounded “Self”• The 3 D’s of conflict: defensiveness, domination, dismissiveness• Why narcissistic patterns can be protective strategies—not excuses• The key question: “What are you afraid would happen if you didn’t react?”• How couples escalate when parts trigger parts• How compassion, curiosity, and boundaries can work together• Why healing the root changes the pattern
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Ep 64:Emotional Abuse in Christian Marriage: When Boundaries Are Necessary | Bob Paul
Why do Christian couples drift apart—even when they love God and want their marriage to work? What do you do when emotional abuse, defensiveness, or disconnection quietly take over a Christian marriage?In this episode of Marriage Rehab: Exposing Narcissistic and Emotional Abuse, Dr. David Hawkins sits down with Bob Paul of Focus on the Family’s Hope Restored to talk about why even faith-based marriages lose connection, what keeps couples stuck, and how emotional safety, boundaries, and humility create the foundation for real reconnection.Together, they explore why “trying harder” isn’t enough in marriage—because healthy relationships require training, skill-building, and personal responsibility. Bob also speaks directly to Christian couples navigating emotional abuse, explaining why boundaries are not unloving and why protecting emotional, spiritual, and mental safety can be a deeply godly act.In this episode, you’ll learn:Why Christian couples drift apartWhy love and faith alone are not enough without relationship skillsThe difference between trying and trainingHow statements like “I feel like…” often hide judgment and trigger defensivenessWhy humility and self-reflection are essential to healthy intimacyHow emotional abuse damages safety in marriageWhy boundaries in Christian marriage can be biblical and necessaryWhat real reconnection requires after distance, pain, and repeated hurtIf you’ve been asking:Why does my Christian marriage feel emotionally disconnected?Can I set boundaries in a Christian marriage?What does God-honoring safety look like in an emotionally abusive relationship?How do couples rebuild trust and connection after years of hurt?This conversation offers practical, biblical insight for couples who want more than surface-level advice. It offers a clearer path toward safety, truth, responsibility, and reconnection.Learn more about Hope Restored:focusonthefamily.comLearn more about Marriage Recovery Center:marriagerecoverycenter.com
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60.Adult Children of Narcissistic Parents: Stop Pretending, Break the Cycle
Growing up with an emotionally abusive or narcissistic parent doesn’t stop impacting you when you turn 18—it often shows up as guilt, anxiety, people‑pleasing, and painful family estrangement. In this episode of Marriage Rehab, Dr. David Hawkins is joined by Ernest Hart (family interventionist) to unpack what happens to adult children inside a family culture built on denial, image management, and “pretending everything is fine.”You’ll hear why many families get trapped in a shared fantasy—quickly moving past hurt to “let’s have lunch” while real pain goes unacknowledged—and how that shapes emotional maturity, emotional vocabulary, boundaries, and future relationships. Ernest explains what it looks like to rally a family around truth, raise emotional safety, and rebuild connection through authentic expression, acknowledgement, and clear rules that stop coercion, gaslighting, and rage.If you’re trying to protect the next generation, untangle obligation, or finally name what you lived through, this conversation offers a practical, hope‑filled path forward—including how faith‑based families can pursue truth and healing without confusing it with dishonor. Schedule a comprehensive assessment now to get help with a clear path forward to healing and repair.www.marriagerecoverycenter.com/assessment/(206) 219-0145
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63.Why Men Struggle to Love: Relational Blind Spots, Fear, and Emotional Intimacy- Eddie Capparucci
Why do so many men believe they love their partner—yet she feels emotionally alone?In this Marriage Rehab episode, Dr. David Hawkins talks with counselor and author Dr. Eddie Capparucci about the “relational blind spots” that keep men stuck in emotional immaturity, defensiveness, and shutdown.You’ll learn why fear and emotional discomfort drive avoidance, why many men connect as “doers” or through physicality instead of emotional intimacy, and how attachment wounds from the family of origin can show up as minimizing, fixing, or dismissing.If you’re tired of the cycle—her needs → his defensiveness → disconnection—this conversation gives language, insight, and a practical path forward.You can find Dr. Eddie Capparucci @ https://abundantlifecounselingga.comhttps://a.co/d/aMQakJV
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61. CAC - Adult Children of Narcissistic Families: Why You Learned to Pretend (And How to Stop)
Adult children of narcissistic or emotionally abusive families often learn to survive by pretending everything is fine. In this Clarity After the Conversation episode, Dr. David Hawkins explains why guilt, self-doubt, and silence take root—and the first boundary that helps you stop the cycle.This episode focuses on three core patterns many listeners recognized in their own families:- Pretending (acting as if nothing happened)- The “shared fantasy” of a happy image- Learning to make yourself small to surviveIf you’ve ever wondered:“Am I being disrespectful—or finally being honest?”“Why do I feel guilty for telling the truth?”“Can I love my family and still name what hurt?”This episode helps you understand why pretending trains children to doubt their own reality—and offers one grounded next step that does not require confrontation.Clarity comes before action. This is about truth, safety, and emotional maturity.Resources:marriagerecoverycenter.comCall: 206-219-0145
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59. Married for the Wrong Reasons: When Marriage Is Built on Obligation, Not Love; Abuse Can Happen
What happens when your spouse looks like a “good guy” at church—but at home, you’re ignored, invalidated, and left carrying the whole family? In this powerful Marriage Rehab episode, Dr. David Hawkins sits down with Angela Coblentz (nurse and lay counselor) to share a 25‑year story of covert narcissism, emotional neglect, and the slow accumulation that finally becomes “neon.”Angela describes early deception and spiritual cover‑ups, a marriage marked by absentee parenting and chronic ignoring, and the moment she realized her children were being sacrificed on the altar of a marriage that refused accountability. You’ll hear what emotional neglect can look like (hovering, shutdown, weaponized incompetence, image management), why over‑functioning wives burn out, and how church pressure to “forgive and move on” can unintentionally enable harm.If you feel unseen, trapped by vows, or unsupported by faith communities, this conversation offers clarity, validation, and a safety‑first path forward—especially when kids are affected.
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58: Emotional Immaturity, Boundaries and Rebuilding Intimacy in Marriage (Chuck & Ashley Elliott)
What happens when a marriage becomes emotionally entangled—one partner over-functions, the other under-functions, and both lose their sense of self? In this episode of Marriage Rehab, Dr. David Hawkins sits down with relationship specialists Chuck & Ashley Elliott to unpack emotional enmeshment, identity loss, and the “cardboard cutout” spouse dynamic (emotionally present in name only).You’ll learn practical, actionable tools to rebuild connection—like how to save emotional energy for home, expand emotional language (especially for men), and interrupt conflict cycles with the Elliott’s “3 A’s to Change” (Awareness → Assess → Act). Plus, Chuck shares the powerful “buffalo vs. the storm” metaphor for leaning into hard conversations with humility and regulation—so couples can move from resentment and detachment toward healthy emotional intimacy (connection without losing individuality).
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57. "How to Recognize Gaslighting: Signs, Scripture Twisting, and Support (w/ Laurel Slade-Waggoner)”
In this episode, Dr. David Hawkins sits down with counselor and author Laurel Slade-Waggoner to unpack gaslighting in everyday relationships—not only in marriage, but also in families, churches, friendships, and workplaces. Laurel shares her story, defines the “crazy cycle” (love bombing → manipulation → blow-ups → apologies → repeat), and explains why many survivors become trauma-bonded to the cycle.You’ll learn how to spot future faking, the crucial difference between mere regret and authentic repentance, and why consistency and accountability—not box-checking—signal real change. Laurel and Dr. Hawkins outline faith-safe boundary strategies (internal and external), how to exit escalating conflicts without fueling them, and practical first steps for those who feel stuck, foggy, or frozen.They also address spiritual abuse and unhelpful “stay and pray” advice, offering language to seek support wisely and rebuild a healthy inner circle. If you’re navigating narcissistic traits in a spouse, co-parent, or family member—and wondering what’s changeable and what isn’t—this conversation brings clarity, compassion, and a structured path forward.Resources mentioned:• Laurel’s books: Don’t Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy; Don’t Let Their Crazy Make Your Kids Crazy• Marriage Recovery Center programs for narcissistic & emotional abuseNeed help now? Visit Marriage Recovery Center to explore assessments, intensives, and the Comprehensive Healing Pathway.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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56. From Fawn to Full Voice: Trauma-Informed Healing from Emotional & Narcissistic Abuse w/ Kathy Young
When abuse shrinks you, how do you take up space again? In this episode of Marriage Rehab: Exposing Narcissistic and Emotional Abuse, clinical psychologist and bestselling author Dr. David B. Hawkins sits down with Kathy Young, a trauma-informed coach and survivor of a 35-year emotionally abusive marriage. Together, they unpack the survival strategy of “playing small,” the nuances of fawning, when gray rocking helps (and when it harms), and the trauma science (nervous system, polyvagal, complex trauma) behind exhaustion, hypervigilance, and losing your voice.You’ll learn:What “playing small” looks like and how it forms under power & controlWhy fawning and gray rocking emerge as short-term survival toolsBig-T vs. little-t trauma and how chronic micro-traumas “stack” neurologicallyThe body cost of abuse (fight/flight/freeze/fawn/collapse) and first steps to reclaim choice & voicePractical, low-risk ways to take up space againGuest: Kathy Young — trauma-informed coach & educatorWebsite: kathymcateeyoung.comPrograms & Support:Marriage Recovery Center – Women’s Core & more: marriagerecoverycenter.comIf this episode resonates, you’re not alone. Healing is possible—one clear choice, one safe step, one reclaimed word at a time.For more on Kathy’s work, visit her website at www.kathymcateeyoung.com or follow her on Instagram @kathyyoungcoaching. This episode offers invaluable insights and encouragement for anyone seeking hope and transformation.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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55. Dr. Hawkins' Reacts! Exploring Therapist Client Dynamics
In this episode of Mad.In.Love, Dr. David Hawkins and Jonathan Glover tackle the dynamics of therapist-client relationships in a special installment of "Dr. Hawkins’ Reacts!" With Katie Buckley as the producer, they dive into real-life Reddit stories that highlight common struggles in therapy, including clients repeatedly canceling sessions, the concept of therapist neutrality, and maintaining healthy boundaries between clinicians and clients.Dr. Hawkins and Jonathan share their professional insights, offering guidance on how both therapists and clients can navigate these dynamics effectively to foster growth and trust. This episode provides a thoughtful exploration of the complexities in therapy relationships and offers valuable lessons for clinicians and clients alike.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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54. The Great Sex Rescue with Sheila Gregoire
In this episode of Mad.In.Love, Dr. David Hawkins welcomes Sheila Wray Gregoire, author of The Great Sex Rescue, for an impactful conversation on challenging harmful evangelical teachings about sex and marriage. Sheila shares her journey into this work, including what inspired her to conduct the largest-ever study on evangelical women’s marital and sexual satisfaction.Together, they delve into troubling beliefs uncovered by Sheila’s research, explore how these teachings contribute to harm and dissatisfaction in relationships, and discuss actionable strategies for reclaiming sexual wholeness—particularly for survivors of narcissistic and emotional abuse. Sheila also highlights key principles from her book that empower couples to build deeper intimacy and fulfillment in their relationships while fostering a broader cultural shift within the evangelical community.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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53. How Narcissism Affects Families
In this episode of Mad.In.Love, Dr. David Hawkins is joined by Ernest Hart, a seasoned clinician at the Marriage Recovery Center, to explore the complexities of family interventions in the context of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) and emotional abuse. Together, they discuss the unique challenges families face when attempting to confront destructive dynamics and the essential steps to stage a successful and compassionate intervention.Ernest shares insights from his extensive experience working with families, offering practical advice on how to approach intervention with clarity, empathy, and firmness. This episode provides valuable tools for families seeking to create change and foster healthier relationships in even the most difficult circumstances.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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52. Empowering Women in Emotionally Abusive Marriages, Part 2
In this episode of Mad.In.Love, Dr. David Hawkins welcomes back Karla Downing, award-winning author, speaker, and founder of ChangeMyRelationship.com. In her previous episode, Karla shares powerful insights from her book 10 Lifesaving Principles for Women in Difficult Marriages, offering practical tools and wisdom for women navigating challenging relationships. In Part 2, Dr. Hawkins and Karla continue their conversation as they dive deeper into the topics they did not get to in the Part 1. Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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51. Navigating Sexual Wholeness with Dr. Carol Tanksley
In this episode of Mad.In.Love, Dr. David Hawkins is joined by Dr. Carol Tanksley, author of Sexpectations, and MRC clinician Jill Stenerson to discuss the intersection of sexual intimacy, emotional abuse, and narcissistic behaviors in relationships. Together, they explore what healthy intimacy looks like, how to heal from sexual harm caused by abuse, and practical steps toward sexual wholeness. Whether you're recovering from past trauma or navigating challenges in your current relationship, this episode offers hope and guidance for your journey.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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50. Marriage Intensives - Do They Really Help?
In this episode of Mad.In.Love, Dr. David Hawkins is joined by Dr. John Hudson and Ernest Hart to explore the Marriage Intensive Programs offered at the Marriage Recovery Center. These intensive sessions provide high-conflict couples with focused, in-person work over the course of three transformative days. The conversation highlights the importance of setting realistic expectations, reviewing the Couple’s Readiness Document, and preparing for a productive experience. The team also addresses the common misconception that all relationship issues can be resolved in a single weekend, while explaining what clients can expect during and beyond an Intensive. Tune in to learn more about this powerful approach to healing relationships!Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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49. Empowering Women in Emotionally Abusive Marriages, Part 1
In this episode of Mad.In.Love, Dr. David Hawkins welcomes Karla Downing, award-winning author, speaker, and founder of ChangeMyRelationship.com. Karla shares powerful insights from her book 10 Lifesaving Principles for Women in Difficult Marriages, offering practical tools and wisdom for women navigating challenging relationships. Together, they explore transformative principles such as "changing yourself, not them," "detaching with love," and "speaking your truth in love." Karla also addresses the complexities of setting healthy boundaries and debunks common scriptural misconceptions that can hinder personal growth and relational health. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking hope and guidance in the midst of marital challenges.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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48. The Complexities of Neurodivergence and Emotional Abuse
In this episode of Mad.In.Love, Dr. David Hawkins sits down with special guest Dr. Stephanie Holmes, a psychologist and counselor specializing in neurodiverse relationships. Together, they explore the intersection of autism, neurodivergence, and emotionally abusive traits within intimate relationships.Dr. Holmes shares insights into common patterns and challenges neurodivergent couples face, often misunderstood as emotionally abusive behaviors. She highlights therapeutic strategies, the role of empathy in bridging gaps between neurotypical and neurodivergent partners, and practical advice for fostering healthier, more understanding relationships. Whether you're navigating a neurodiverse relationship or looking to better understand these dynamics, this episode offers encouragement and tools for growth.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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47. “How Divorce and Narcissistic Abuse Impact Adult Children | with Kent Darcie”
What is the long-term impact of divorce and narcissistic abuse on children once they grow into adults? In this episode, Dr. David Hawkins speaks with Kent Darcie, founder of Adult Children of Divorce Ministries and author of Choose a Better Path: Overcoming the Impact of Your Parents’ Divorce.Together they explore:How unresolved family trauma shapes adult relationships and parentingThe connection between divorce, narcissistic abuse, and emotional woundsPractical strategies for breaking generational cycles of dysfunctionFinding hope, resilience, and healing after family breakdownThis episode offers encouragement and tools for anyone recovering from childhood trauma, divorce, or abuse.👉 Learn more about narcissistic abuse recovery and counseling at https://www.marriagerecoverycenter.com Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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46. Dr. Hawkins' Reacts! Is It Emotional Abuse?
In this episode of Dr. Hawkins' Reacts, Dr. David Hawkins and Jonathan Glover join Katie Buckley as she reads real-life relationship stories found online. These accounts detail complex situations, and Dr. Hawkins and Jonathan weigh in to determine if there are signs of emotional abuse. With their expert analysis and compassionate approach, they break down the behaviors, offer insights into what emotional abuse looks like, and provide guidance for anyone facing similar challenges. This episode is an eye-opening and thought-provoking exploration of how toxic dynamics can manifest in relationships—and how to recognize them. Tune in for valuable advice and practical takeaways!Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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45. The Impact of Anxiety and Addictions on Relationships
In this episode, Dr. David Hawkins is joined by Dr. Gregory Jantz, a renowned expert in mental health, to discuss the powerful intersections of anxiety, trauma, and social media. Together, they unpack how social media shapes perceptions of emotional abuse, often distorting reality and amplifying feelings of insecurity and fear. Dr. Jantz and Dr. Hawkins explore the ways anxiety and unresolved trauma can influence how individuals experience and respond to emotional abuse, as well as how the digital age complicates these dynamics. With practical insights and actionable advice, this episode sheds light on navigating these challenges in a hyperconnected world. Don't miss this timely and insightful conversation!Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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44. Dr. Hawkins' Reacts! Responding to Your Emails
In this episode of Dr. Hawkins' Reacts, Dr. David Hawkins and Jonathan Glover tackle a heartfelt and thought-provoking email sent in by one of our listeners. Katie Buckley reads the email aloud, sharing the listener's personal story and struggles, prompting Dr. Hawkins and Jonathan to provide their expert insights and practical advice. Together, they unpack the emotional dynamics at play, addressing key questions about narcissism, emotional abuse, and steps toward healing. With their compassionate and informed responses, this episode offers listeners valuable tools for navigating high-conflict relationships. Don’t miss this candid and impactful discussion!Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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43. Exploring Couples Conflict Through the Lens of Internal Family Systems
In this insightful follow-up episode, Dr. David Hawkins is joined once again by Lucas Forstmeyer to explore a high-conflict case through the lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS). Together, they dive into the complexities of navigating toxic relationship dynamics, breaking down how IFS can help uncover the internal parts at play in both partners. Dr. Hawkins and Lucas provide a detailed and compassionate analysis, highlighting how self-awareness and accountability are key to breaking the cycle of emotional conflict. Whether you’re new to IFS or looking for fresh insights on high-conflict relationships, this episode is packed with practical tools and profound takeaways. Don’t miss it!Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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42. Dr. Hawkins' Reacts! Assessing Fictional Characters
In this episode of Dr. Hawkins' Reacts, Dr. David Hawkins and Jonathan Glover dive into a fascinating discussion as Katie Buckley presents fictional character personality traits for their analysis. Together, they explore whether these characters exhibit narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) traits or simply display toxic or emotionally abusive behaviors. Through their expert insights, Dr. Hawkins and Jonathan break down the complexities of narcissistic tendencies versus full-blown NPD, providing listeners with valuable tools for identifying and understanding these patterns in real life. Packed with humor, expertise, and practical takeaways, this episode offers a unique and enlightening perspective on the challenges of recognizing unhealthy traits in relationships. Tune in for an informative and entertaining conversation!Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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41. Narcissism, Emotional Abuse, and Internal Family Systems
In this episode of the Mad.In.Love podcast, Dr. David Hawkins is joined by Lucas Forstmeyer, a renowned practitioner and course creator specializing in Internal Family Systems (IFS). Together, they explore the complex dynamics of narcissism, emotional abuse, and how specific patterns of behavior impact relationships.Lucas and Dr. Hawkins dive into the nuances of the term "narcissism," discussing when it's helpful to label behaviors and when it might be more effective to focus on specific patterns instead. They explore the concept of "Protective Parts" within IFS, which are often responsible for seemingly negative behaviors as a means of shielding vulnerabilities or exiled parts of ourselves. Lucas emphasizes the importance of approaching these protective mechanisms with compassion while maintaining healthy boundaries.The episode further unpacks the distinctions between the "Self," individual parts, and the "Healthy Adult"—a state that combines the Self with developed skills and mature aspects of one's personality. Lucas and Dr. Hawkins share practical examples and strategies on how this understanding can lead to better emotional regulation and healthier relationship dynamics.Lastly, they address the role of inherent temperament, such as being naturally agreeable or disagreeable, and how these temperamental differences influence our perceptions of behaviors often associated with narcissism. Lucas offers insights on balancing respect for inherent traits while addressing problematic behavior patterns.Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of how IFS can be used to navigate complex relationship challenges, and learn strategies for fostering compassion towards yourself and others.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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40. Dr. Hawkins' Reacts! What Does Success Look Like?
In this insightful episode of the Mad.In.Love podcast, producer Katie Buckley brings real-life stories and questions from Reddit to the table, all centered around the theme of success in therapy. Joined by Dr. David Hawkins and Jonathan Glover, Katie reads a variety of posts from individuals seeking clarity on what to expect from therapy and what success should truly look like.Dr. Hawkins and Jonathan offer their professional perspectives, drawing from years of experience as clinicians, to react to these stories. They discuss the markers of successful therapy, realistic expectations, and the unique journeys that each client may experience. Whether you're currently in therapy or curious about what the process entails, this episode provides valuable insights and guidance on how to define and recognize success in your own therapeutic journey.Tune in for a thoughtful discussion on what it means to achieve success in therapy and how to set yourself up for meaningful progress.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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39. Dr. Hawkins' Reacts! Responding to your Comments
In this engaging episode of the Mad.In.Love podcast, Katie Buckley is joined by Dr. David Hawkins and Jonathan Glover to dive into stories and comments shared by our listeners. Katie reads aloud a selection of heartfelt and thought-provoking stories submitted by our audience, prompting Dr. Hawkins and Jonathan to provide their expert insights and reactions. Whether you're looking for guidance or simply curious to hear different perspectives, this episode offers valuable takeaways for anyone navigating the complexities of love and relationships.Tune in to hear Dr. Hawkins and Jonathan tackle real-life scenarios with empathy, wisdom, and a touch of humor!Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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Episode 38: Overcoming Loneliness with Jack Eason
In this episode of Mad.In.Love, Dr. David Hawkins explores the pervasive issue of loneliness in the modern world, a concern that has become increasingly prominent in the aftermath of the global pandemic. Joining him is Jack Eason, a seasoned speaker and advocate for the power of genuine human connections, who also serves as the Executive Director of Crossover CUPS Mission, making significant strides in bettering the lives of families and children across various countries.Jack shares his extensive experience and observations on loneliness, addressing the common misconceptions about who it affects and highlighting its relevance in today's society, where digital interactions often replace face-to-face connections. The conversation delves into the evolution of friendship in the age of technology and the challenges it poses in forming meaningful relationships.Dr. Hawkins and Jack discuss practical strategies for overcoming the barriers to true connection, particularly for those navigating the path to recovery from emotional abuse or managing NPD tendencies. They emphasize the importance of fostering authentic bonds and the transformative power of community and togetherness in combating the profound sense of isolation that many individuals face.This episode is a deep dive into understanding loneliness beyond surface-level perceptions, offering hope and actionable advice for anyone seeking to rebuild their social landscape and embrace the warmth of genuine human connection.If you're interested in reading books written by Jack Eason, please visit: https://www.jackeason.org/booksFounded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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Episode 37: Defend Young Minds
In this episode of Mad.In.Love, Dr. David Hawkins invites Kristen Jenson, the founder of Defend Young Minds and the acclaimed author behind a movement to protect children in the digital age. Kristen's commitment to safeguarding young minds from the dangers of internet pornography is both inspiring and essential in today's tech-savvy world.Kristen opens up about the compelling reasons that drove her to address such a challenging topic through her literature, aimed at empowering children with knowledge and resilience. She underscores the importance of parents initiating conversations about internet safety early on, providing practical advice on how to approach this delicate subject without inciting unnecessary curiosity.As digital devices become increasingly ubiquitous in children's lives, Kristen emphasizes the critical role of filters and vigilance in preventing exposure to harmful content. She also confronts the stark reality of pornography addiction among youths, drawing parallels to chemical dependencies and highlighting the broader spectrum of negative impacts, from psychological harm to the potential for increased aggression.Delving deeper, Kristen explores the disturbing connections between pornography and grave issues like child sexual abuse and trafficking, offering insights into the dark underbelly of easily accessible online content. For parents facing the aftermath of exposure, she advises on constructive steps to mitigate the damage and fortify their children's mental and emotional defenses.Kristen introduces the Brain Defense: Digital Safety curriculum, a comprehensive educational toolkit designed to arm children with the skills to navigate the online world safely. Beyond her books and curriculum, Kristen reveals additional resources available on DefendYoungMinds.com, aimed at supporting parents and educators in their quest to create a safer digital environment for children.This episode is a must-listen for parents, educators, and anyone invested in the well-being of the next generation, offering valuable strategies, resources, and hope in the face of daunting digital challenges.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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Episode 36: I Used To Be with Chuck and Ashley Elliott
In this episode of Mad.In.Love, we are honored to host Chuck and Ashley Elliott, a couple whose life work has touched many hearts through their engaging content and impactful collaborations with platforms like YouVersion and RightNow Media. As a pastor and a licensed counselor, respectively, their journey is one of faith, resilience, and profound insights into relational success and navigating grief.Today, Chuck and Ashley open up about the inspiration behind their poignant book, 'I Used to Be___,' sharing personal stories of vulnerability, including their own experience with miscarriage, and the challenging path towards healing and trust in God amidst profound loss. They delve into the complexities of grief, addressing the deceptive nature of grief-induced lies, and offering solace through the power of God's Word.The discussion explores the concept of 'switch theory' as a tool for managing grief, alongside practical advice for those struggling to find their way after a loss. Ashley provides professional guidance on supporting grieving loved ones, while Chuck shares pastoral wisdom on moving forward with faith.Further, the Elliotts discuss the importance of vulnerability in healing, the impact of grief on intimate relationships, and the necessity of developing new skills to navigate loss. They emphasize the often-overlooked lasting effects of grief and provide listeners with strategies to recognize and address these impacts.If you're seeking a path through grief or looking to support someone in their journey, this episode offers invaluable insights and encouragement. Chuck and Ashley's final words of encouragement and information on how to connect with them and access their book promise to leave listeners with hope and practical steps for moving forward.Join us on Mad.In.Love for an episode that promises not just to inform but to transform your approach to grief and healing.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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Episode 35: Dr. Hawkins' Reacts! Unraveling Family Boundaries
Join us in another episode of Mad.In.Love with your host Dr. David Hawkins, alongside Jonathan Glover, Jill Stenerson, and producer Katie Buckley, as they delve into real-life stories sourced from Reddit. This episode focuses on the intricate dynamics of family boundaries, a topic that resonates with many. Dr. Hawkins, Jill Stenerson, and Jonathan Glover engage in a thoughtful discussion, offering insights into the importance of maintaining personal boundaries within family relationships. They provide practical advice and healthy strategies for responding to situations where these boundaries are overlooked or violated by family members. Tune in for an enlightening conversation that sheds light on navigating boundary challenges with wisdom and empathy.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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Episode 34: Unlocking Confidence and Charisma with Kimmy Seltzer
In this episode of Mad.In.Love, hosted by Dr. David Hawkins, we're thrilled to introduce Kimmy Seltzer, a renowned Confidence Therapist, Authentic Dating Strategist, and Image Expert. Kimmy's groundbreaking "confidence makeover" process has revolutionized the way individuals approach dating and relationships, helping countless people around the globe find true love and connection.Join us as Kimmy delves into her unique methodology, sharing the development of "The Charisma Quotient" and offering actionable tips to enhance self-confidence and allure in dating and beyond. She explores the profound impact of personal style and wardrobe on one's self-image and appeal, shedding light on the pivotal role of body language and first impressions in social interactions.Throughout the episode, Kimmy recounts her extensive experience as a speaker, dating coach, and matchmaker, highlighting key factors that forge lasting and meaningful bonds. She reflects on her journey to becoming a recognized authority in her field, from captivating appearances in media and publications to her engaging podcast, "The Charisma Quotient."Drawing from her involvement in dating shows and radio segments, Kimmy reveals how these platforms have enriched her work and connection with her audience. In closing, she offers invaluable advice for those aspiring to invigorate their dating life and forge enduring relationships, along with recommended resources and strategies.Don't miss this insightful episode, where Kimmy Seltzer shares her expertise on building confidence, navigating the dating world, and creating authentic connections.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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Episode 33: Restoring Hope with Dr. Robert Burbee
In this episode, we were honored to have Dr. Bob Burbee, a seasoned licensed psychologist with over 37 years of experience. Specializing in working with individuals, couples, families, and groups, Dr. Burbee brings a wealth of knowledge and insight into the dynamics of relationships.As a key therapist at the Focus on the Family Marriage Institute (FMI), he leads both Group and Private Marriage Intensives, in addition to training other therapists in Focus Marital Therapy. His involvement in Intensive programs dates back to 2000, making him a pioneer in this area. Dr. Burbee has also been an educator, teaching both undergraduate and graduate courses in psychology.Marriage and family issues are Dr. Burbee’s forte, and he frequently shares his expertise through seminars, retreats, and workshops. Alongside his professional endeavors, he and his wife, Mary Jo, are deeply invested in their church's children and family ministries, and they also facilitate adult education sessions. They are proud parents of four grown children and currently reside in Springfield, Missouri.Join us in this enlightening episode as Dr. Burbee shares his invaluable perspectives on marriage, family, and the power of intensive therapy.https://hoperestored.focusonthefamily.com/Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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Episode 32: Adult Children Who Break Your Heart
In this episode of Mad.In.Love, hosted by Dr. David Hawkins from the Marriage Recovery Center, we welcome back Dr. David Clarke, a Christian psychologist with over 35 years of experience. Dr. Clarke joins us to discuss his latest book, 'Adult Children Who Break Your Heart,' a follow-up to his renowned work, 'Enough is Enough!'Throughout the episode, Dr. Clarke delves into the intricate dynamics of dealing with adult prodigals. He begins by defining what constitutes a prodigal in today's context and explores the reasons behind the increasing number of adult prodigals. Addressing the challenges faced by many parents, Dr. Clarke offers insights into overcoming guilt and managing relationships with unsupportive spouses in the face of familial strife.Dr. Clarke introduces 'Strategic Truth Statements,' a tool for parents to navigate the emotional and psychological challenges they face. The episode rounds off with an overview of the 10 specific prodigal scenarios covered in his book, providing listeners with practical guidance and hope for reconciliation and healing.For anyone grappling with the pain and complexity of strained relationships with adult children, this episode offers a blend of empathy, practical advice, and spiritual wisdom.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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Episode 31: Dr. Hawkins' Reacts! Families are Hard
Welcome to the latest episode of 'Dr. Hawkins Reacts!' hosted by Dr. David Hawkins, alongside Jonathan Glover and our producer, Katie Buckley.In this episode, Dr. Hawkins and Jonathan delve into compelling stories from Reddit that explore the intricate layers of family dynamics, the nuances of communication, and the challenges of judgment within relationships. They also discuss practical DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) tools, offering insightful ways to reframe conversations and enhance understanding in complex familial situations.Join us for an engaging journey through real-life scenarios, where Dr. Hawkins and Jonathan provide expert analysis and helpful strategies for navigating the often turbulent waters of family interactions.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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Episode 30: Spiritual Bypassing
Join us in Episode 9 of 'Mad.In.Love' with your host Dr. David Hawkins from the Marriage Recovery Center and Emotional Abuse Institute. In this episode, we welcome Sharmen Kimbrough, one of our distinguished clinicians, as we delve into the intricate and often misunderstood concept of 'Spiritual Bypassing.'Sharmen brings her expertise and enthusiasm to the table, unpacking what spiritual bypassing truly means. Through a series of examples and anecdotal stories, we explore how this phenomenon can unintentionally hinder the counseling process and obstruct therapeutic change.The discussion also navigates the differences between spiritual bypassing and spiritual abuse, providing clarity on these closely related yet distinct concepts. Additionally, Sharmen shares valuable tools and strategies for effectively confronting and dealing with spiritual bypassing.This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in understanding the subtle complexities of spirituality within the therapeutic context. Tune in for an insightful journey into the realm of spiritual health and emotional well-being.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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Episode 29: Dr. Hawkins' Reacts! Are Video Games Addictive?
Dr. David Hawkins and Jonathan Glover are back with Katie Buckley for another Dr. Hawkins' Reacts! episode! Dr. Hawkins and Jonathan discuss how video game addiction (and other behavioral process addictions) can lead towards emotional neglect in relationships. Listen to Dr. Hawkins and Jonathan suggest helpful tips in how to engage in clear, vulnerable, and helpful communication. Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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Episode 28: Comprehensive Core Program for Narcissism Recovery
In the latest episode of Mad.In.Love, we dove deep with our Core Program facilitators to explore the multi-faceted approach to emotional healing that is at the heart of the Comprehensive Core Program. Lee Kaufman, Jill Stenerson, Jonathan Glover, Dr. John Hudson, and Dr. David Hawkins gave us valuable insights into the progressive stages of this transformative program.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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Episode 27: Dr. Hawkins' Reacts! Boundary Violations
Dr. Hawkins and Jonathan Glover are back with another Dr. Hawkins' Reacts! episode to discuss boundary violations. Katie Buckley shares posts found on Reddit for Dr. Hawkins and Jonathan Glover to react as trained clinicians and provide valuable insight on how to handle difficult situations. Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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Episode 26: So She Called You a Narcissist
Dr. David Hawkins and Dr. John Hudson are interviewed by producer, Katie Buckley, about their upcoming book! Listen in to hear their goals for the book and how it can fill the gap for resources those with NPD traits need for their healing. Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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Episode 25: Dr. Hawkins' Reacts! Therapists vs. ChatGPT Part 2
In Part 1 of the last Dr. Hawkins' Reacts! episode, Dr. Hawkins and Jonathan Glover discussed their reactions to ChatGPT's answers to the common question "Is there hope for my relationship if there's emotional or narcissistic abuse?". In Part 2, Dr. Hawkins and Jonathan discuss how financial abuse plays into the relationship. Listen to hear their reactions to what ChatGPT's information. Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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Episode 24: Narcissism and Sex Addiction
Welcome to the Mad.In.Love podcast! For those who are new, I’d like to quickly introduce myself. I’m Dr. David Hawkins, I'm the Clinical Director of The Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute. I am passionate about helping individuals and couples overcome emotional abuse to engage in healthy relationships. Over the years as a therapist, I’ve worked with a lot of couples who struggle with emotional intimacy and sex addiction. My field happens to specialize in clients with narcissistic traits and I’m finding that a vast percentage of those clients tend to struggle with sex addiction. I want to spend some time today discussing this idea of Narcissism and Sex Addiction, so I’ve invited a special guest to help navigate this conversation. Today we are joined by Dr. Greg Miller from the Faithful and True counseling center that specializes in the treatment of sexual addiction! He is the director of the Men’s Journey Workshops and is the host of the Faithful and True Podcast. Welcome Dr. Greg Miller! Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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Episode 23: Dr. Hawkins' Reacts! Therapists vs. ChatGPT Part 1
Dr. Hawkins and Jonathan Glover are back with producer Katie Buckley, for another season of Dr. Hawkins Reacts! a series in which they respond and react to stories of toxic relationships posted by real people on various forums like Quora and Reddit. We are starting this season off with something a little different by having Dr. Hawkins and Jonathan go head to head with AI! Join us for a fun hour as Dr. Hawkins and Jonathan share their reactions to ChatGPT's answers to common questions that we get asked by people who call in to the Marriage Recovery Center. Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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Episode 22: Interventions with Ernest Hart
Welcome back to Season 2 of Mad.In.Love. I'm thrilled to be joined today by Ernest Hart, our Intervention Specialist at The Marriage Recovery Center. We are talking today about one of my favorite topics - interventions! Find out what an intervention is in the context of relationships, and why it is one of the most powerful tools we use to bring about transformative change in the most difficult and challenging relationships, especially in cases involving narcissism and emotional abuse. If you would like to learn more about interventions and how it can help your relationship, visit our website www.marriagerecoverycenter.com or give us a call at 206-219-0145.Founded by Dr. David Hawkins, the Marriage Recovery Center is the leading authority on the treatment of narcissistic and emotional abuse. To schedule your in-person or video session, call our team at (206) 219-0145 or email [email protected] ***Please note that Mad.In.Love welcomes guests with diverse viewpoints. Their beliefs do not necessarily reflect our mission at the Marriage Recovery Center and the Emotional Abuse Institute, but we value open dialogue and exploration.***
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Are you struggling with a toxic or emotionally abusive relationship? Best-selling author and clinical psychologist Dr. David Hawkins explores the complex dynamics of narcissism, emotional abuse, trauma, and toxic relationship patterns. Each episode provides insight and practical tools to help you find clarity, healing, and hope.Dr. Hawkins tackles the issues many couples face but rarely find effective help for, including narcissistic abuse, spiritual and financial abuse, secondary abuse in the church, sex addiction, divorce, and separation. Whether you’re trying to rebuild your relationship or recover from emotional harm, this podcast offers professional guidance and encouragement for your journey to healthier connections.
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