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Skye and James of unikink.com share the story of how their partnership—both personal and professional—grew out of a single six-hour photo shoot that changed everything. We talk about the spiritual and therapeutic dimensions of Shibari, the art of untying as aftercare, teaching all-levels workshops around the world, navigating the vulnerability of being a switch, finding the right rope for your practice and a ton more.

A conversation with Cat and Joshua of the Kink Collective where we get into their origin stories of discovering kink at a young age and the shame that came with it. Joshua shares his path from the Marines to professional domination and how he realized helping people through kink was his calling. They talk about connecting through the NYC scene and discovered they shared the same philosophy about hosting events. We dig into their”People Before Kink” approach, removing hierarchy at events, rule readings as a filtering mechanism, and their zero-strike policy for bad actors. We discuss separating sex from BDSM as an exercise, how pairing unlikely partners together for practice leads to breakthroughs, service submission and so much more. Find out about the amazing work they do and their upcoming events at https://kinkcollective.net

A conversation wth Emily Letts, a therapeutic kink specialist, where we chat about how she discovered exploring kink in a therapeutic way, the connection between suppression of desires and toxic behavior, how she helps people explore and accept parts of themselves they may normally suppress, her classes, and lots more. Find her at soulkink.com where you can find all of her links to her podcast, youtube, tiktok and more Her video on the Wheel of Consent https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OsAWZhOeJuo

Natasha Gornik is back! We dive into her journey away from sex work, choosing sobriety, and the beautiful story of her marriage. Natasha shares how breast cancer transformed her outlook on life, the power of friendship and support, and her evolving relationship with sexuality and desire

Petter Tupper is back to talk about this hsitory of BDSM. We discuss the fetishization of facist imagery, how scary and anxiety-inducing things become fetishized including COVID, how the fear of gender idenity manfiests, how depictions of bdsm have changed over the years but a common thread lines though many of them, why we no longer need to rely as heavily on mainstream media for positive depictions as other groups have needed to in the past. How he approaches lookikng at a new form of media's depiction of kink, Find his blog at http://petertupper.com and he writs about this history of kink at https://historyofbdsm.com

A conversation with Knotty Chris where we discuss his interest in bondage, why kink and neurodiversity often go hand in hand, poly, exploring the scene and making spaces more friendily to people on the spectrum, the appeal of different kinds of rope and a dive into mummification. You can find him on fetlife at Knotty_Chris and read his writings where he reflects about his experiences.

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A conversation with filmmaker Hilton Ariel Ruiz about his documentary series on erotic art, highlighting its evolution over the past 20 years. We discuss his first documentary, "Art of Erotica: The Outsider," his collaboration with artist Barbara Nitke, the shift from male to female creators, the impact of digital technology, and the changes in societal attitudes towards eroticism. Hilton shares insights on his upcoming sequel, emphasizing how contemporary artists, influenced by platforms like OnlyFans, express themselves with greater freedom and openness. Where to watch and follow Hilton: Watch "Art of Erotica: The Outsiders": - On Amazon: Search for "ART OF EROTICA" - Free on the FAWESOME app: Download fawesome.tv and search "ART OF EROTICA" Follow Hilton: IMDB: https://www.imdb.com/name/nm2081348/ Instagram: @hiltonarielruiz Twitter/X: @hiltonarielruiz

A conversation with Mistress Sato takes us on their personal journey through the world of kink and BDSM. From doodling erotic art as a child to exploring the early internet, Sato shares how they developed their dominant personality long before understanding what BDSM even was. We dig into Purgatory, the revolutionary collective Sato co-founded with Mistress Kiki, created specifically to uplift BIPOC, queer, and trans people. Rather than following the traditional dungeon model, Purgatory operates as a supportive community where members share skills, resources, and political values. We dig into consensual non-consent to the economics of male dominants in the industry, all while emphasizing how Purgatory's anti-capitalist approach creates a more just and sustainable environment for peopl from all backgrounds. Find purgatory at https://purgatorynyc.org https://www.x.com/PurgatoryNyc https://www.instagram.com/purgatorynyc_ https://www.facebook.com/105282052534165

A chat with Foxie Lou about their early experiences with kink, the appeal of degradation from both the top and bottom, primal play and letting go safely, the fun part of adding to your kinky toolbox, clowns, mannequins, face flogging, positive and negative changes in the bdsm community pre and post pandemic, being a kinky coach to help people discover and accept areas of themselves, the difference between coaching and therapy, expressing ones desires and a whole lot more. Learn more about their coaching at https://www.foxieloucoaching.com and find them on IG at https://www.instagram.com/mxfoxielou/

A conversaton with SheMagick about SheMagickEvents, how she went from erotica to her first munch to making her own kink space, the wrong way to approach a dominant if you're interested, her ideal service scene, d/s and lots more. Find SheMagickEvents on fetlife here https://fetlife.com/users/12712095 on IG here https://www.instagram.com/shemagickevents/, sign up for the mailing list here https://mailchi.mp/4591d1985c04/shemagick-events and if you'd like to be vetted for events fill out this handy form https://docs.google.com/forms/u/3/d/19sGpzM1gDfny9MJO1kiq4um47SJ695y6Kz-eTf2sG90/edit

A chat with Emilie P Bush author of Fables in the Key of Kink: An Inappropriate Picture Book. We talk about her experience in non-monogamy, the kink community, her experience as a parent of an LGBTQIA+ kid while living in a traditionaly conservative part of the world, the organization she started to support families like hers (LILBURNPride.com ) and of course her book Fables in the Key of Kink, her life experiences behind the book and more. You can buy book now on amazon here https://www.amazon.com/dp/0984902856

A chat with Goddess Ashley about growing up and discovering kink in singapore, what it's like exploring for the first time as a sub and her evolution into domination. Kinks from around the world and what it's like when she's on tour. Learn more on her website www.Singapore-BDSM.com Twitter http://www.twitter.com/_GoddessAshley and IG http://www.instagram.com/bygoddessashley

Our first conversation was in 2009 so we have a lot of catching up to do. We talk about the changes in the NYC scene pre and post pandemic, inclusive spaces, dealing with health issues, submissive men and so much more. Find Coko on Fetlife at https://fetlife.com/users/15814 TES (She's back on the board of TES since this recording https://fetlife.com/groups/2720 ) SheMagick Events https://fetlife.com/users/12712095?sp=2

A great conversation with Madam Director where we talk about her process of making kink videos, what she looks for in play parnters depending on her mood, trends in the NYC kink scene post pandemic and so much more. Find her at madamdirector.net Her amazing and insightful blog at madamdirectorlola.wordpress.com Her kink videos available at www.clips4sale.com/studio/129395/madam-director Membership Streaming: www.manyvids.com/Profile/1001983878/Madam_Director/Store/Videos Live weekly shows every Friday at 4 pm EST: onlyfans.com/that_lola Wishlist (currently crowdfunding a pair of Louboutins) www.wishtender.com/madamdirector

Peaches jumps on the show (been way too long since a fellow submissive guy was on the show) to talk about how he got his nickname, spaking and impact play, humiliation, chastity and a lot more. Find peaches online at https://www.clips4sale.com/studio/188875/simply-discipline https://fetlife.com/users/172906 https://twitter.com/Peaches1NYC

Mistress Kayla and Sorceress Bebe jump on the podcast to talk about their early kink experiences, the kink scene in California, walking the fine line of having a personal sub to something more romantic, their experiences during covid and their new female run multipurpose kink space Venus In Bells. Find Kayla at Mistresskaylabdsm.com Bebe at SorceressBebe.com and learn more about Venus in Bells at Twitter.com/venusinbells

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Part 2 of our conversation with Bruce and Shermie

Part 1 of a conversation with Bruce and Shermie, two people who have been in the kink community in NYC for decades. They talk about how they met in the scene, the changes they’ve seen over the years, how the internet changed things and more

Stephen Elliott is back and we talk about covid, motivations for working out and getting in shape for kink reasons, poly relationships, lessons learned from getting older, being objectified and more

Ferns (who currently ranks among the top ten of all australians to appear on the podcast) is back to talk about her experiences during the pandemic, why saying "just communicate" is silly, dating kinky, her popular femdom group on fetlife, her writing, patreon, pushing limiits, fear of femdom fantasies and more. Support Ferns and get early audiobook chapters here https://www.patreon.com/DommeChronicles and of course read and listen to Ferns here https://www.domme-chronicles.com

This episode was recorded several months ago after Miss Mae Ling reached out to volunteer for an interview. We talk about working during covid, Vegas, exploring new kinks, how she first discovered her interests, the process of recording kink videos and 3D printing sex art. Find her online at missmaeling.com and buy a dildo dino at playmaterials.net

A casual chat with Mistress Veronica where we cover Covid, her porn preferences, why she'd make a good porn director, the kink scene after covid, music videos that influenced our kinky selves and more

Ha, made you look! Mistress Alex now goes by Dr. Dulcinea Alex Pitagora aka Kink Doctor. As you may have heard on the grapevine, Alex retired from professional domination to become a psychotherapist and sex therapist, and they now have a private practice in NYC. We talk dealing with COVID, the process of changing careers and a lot more

Ferns is back for another triumphant episode. She talks about vanilla dating, how she can get 80% of what she wants from a vanilla man (and what that 20% is), how she brings the subject of her popular blog and podcast (or doesn't bring it up), her writing and a whole lot more. Find Ferns on twitter at https://twitter.com/ferns__ Her blog https://www.domme-chronicles.com/ Find her books at https://www.amazon.com/Sharyn-Ferns/e/B00HC1RUB2/ref=dp_byline_cont_ebooks_1?tag=dommechron-20 And her podcast https://itunes.apple.com/podcast/domme-chronicles/id1028948882

Megan McCord and Elena De Luca are on to talk about hiring male sex workers, becoming kinky, twitter questions and a lot more

A conversation with Princess Marx on her origin story, anti-capitalism, sexworkers rights and a whole lot more. Find her at https://princessmarx.ch

Kali is back and we catch up after years to discuss what she's been up to, her latest projects, many areas of kink education and of course her work on erotic humiliation. Find her at http://www.enoughtomakeyoublush.com/

A conversation with Justine Cross where we talk about her persona history, how she got into kink personally and professionally, parties, FOSTA-SESTA and a whole lot more

A conversation with Papa Tony about being in the military, his expereince in the gay leather community before and during the AIDS crisis, building community and more You can find his amazing writing http://tribalvibept.blogspot.com/

It's been a long long time but the podcast is back. I recorded a few interviews over the summer and the first person I talked to was one of the first people I had on the show. Sinclair from sugarbutch.net. We catch up and have a casual conversation about D/s, writing, the sex blogging world and more.

Orion Stephanie Johnstone jumps on to talk about KinkedIn, a new social platform for the kinky. We talk about their early explorations in kink, how the inspiration for a new social site came to be and a whole lot more. Find out more at TryKinkedIn.com Sexandrelationshipscoaching.com Orionjohnstone.com

Sheefchah emailed me over a year ago and volunteered to come on the show to talk about Gor, how it has helped her grow, how she incorporates it in religion, the Gor community in Chicago and a lot more. You can find her on fetlife at https://fetlife.com/users/41407

A conversation with Hilton from Purple Passion, one of the longest running kink stores in NYC. We talk about the history of the kink scene in New York and how it’s changed over the years, how he got started selling fetish wear and sex toys, what the difference is between a good and bad quality sex toy and a lot more. Find out more at purplepassion.com

It's been a long time but we're back for a conversation with Maid Rosie. We talk about crossdressing, maids, coming out to a partner, play parties, acts of service and a lot more.

Kali is back to talk about her new book Enough To Make You Blush about Erotic Humiliation, what it is about humiliation that gets people off, how to explore it safely and things both dominants and submissives should consider when exploring it.

We've had Lolita on the show, we've had Nayland on the show, but now we've got two for the price of one. They talk about their relationship, how they started it, the rules they put in place to keep communication open, how they rally for one another and their partners.

Troy Orleans returns yet again to talk about how she took a break from work, her new space a so much more. Visit http://www.troyorleans.com to learn more about Troy

This week we've got two listener emails and a great conversation with Godsire. We talk about his experiences in the gay BDSM scene in DC, flakey submissive men, odd things people say at play parties, finding a mentor, service and a whole bunch more. Find more at masocast.com

Eve Minax jumps on the show to talk about being a Sex Educator and Pleasure Artist, fetish, how someone's pain threshold is relative, her stint as a porn reviewer, her one-on-one classes, advice to masochists and lots more. Find Eve online at eveminax.com and mistressminax.com and find her on Twitter @EveMinax Find more at masocast.com

Chelsea and Parker from the New York Toy Collective are back with a vengeance. If you haven't heard their first episode I'd suggest you go back and take a listen. This episode we catch up on how business is treating them. They talk about making new products, adventures at the post office, no-fail business advice from family (hint: start with a million dollars), lesbian spring break, enticing new business with free candy and a whole bunch more. It's hard not to laugh when Chelsea and Parker are laughing so I know you'll enjoy this episode. Special thanks to the listener from Denmark who donated to the show this month. Find more at masocast.com

In this episode I shell out more details on how you can submit your own episodes to air on the Masocast plus Ferns is back on the show. We talk about her new book Domme Chronicles: Erotic Tales Of Love, Passion, & Domination, how a guy should properly display photos of himself on dating sites, being an introvert, emotional fearlessness, her blog and a load more. Find more at masocast.com

Sinclair Sexmith jumps on the show to talk about Submissive Playground submissiveplayground.com , breakups, DS and MS and I start the long begging process to get Sinclair to move back to NYC. Find out more at masocast.com

This episode it's Sermie and Leatherwings. It's always great to have such good friends on the show together, they feed and riff off each other in a way that makes you want to just sit back and let them roll. We talk about their friendship, how each of them found BDSM. Shermie talks about how he negotiates before playing, Leatherwings talks about being blind in the scene. We talk about switching, how events can better cater to the disabled and a ton more.

Jeff Mach jumps on the show to talk about planning kink events. Geeky Kink is a hugely successful kink event that's really taken off. We discuss the brilliant idea of combining a sex event and things that are nerdy, why there are so many of us who would identify as geeks in the kink community, his early experience with events, the secret to a good event and a whole lot more. Find out more at http://www.masocast.com/2015/10/25/geeky-kink/

Casey Calvert jumps on the show to talk about her start in kink, bdsm porn, her new documentary about the best porn stars of all time and much more. More at masocast.com

Sinclair Sexmith returns and we're talking about inspriation for writing, becoming a better sex citizen, Sinclair's tatoo, our love for New York Toy Collective, Submissive Playground and more

A talk with Peter Tupper who writes an incredible blog on the history of BDSM. We talk religion, people with BDSM relationships from yesteryear, how common kink was in literature and even how sex workers would specialize their practice for their clients long ago. You can find his blog at http://historyofbdsm.com/

In this episode I talk with Ferns about living in Australia, her early experiences with kink, cybersex, D/s relationships and a whole lot more. You can find her website at domme-chronicles.com Special Note: If you’ve donated $25 or more and have not received an email with information on getting bonus episodes, please email [email protected]