Men, Sex & Tantra
by TANJA DIAMOND
What parents, porn, and religion never taught you about being a man and having an extraordinary sex life. Tanja Diamond, Life Strategist, Biohacker, Tantra expert, and her fabulous male co-hosts explore everything you want to know about masculine empowerment and sex. To talk with Tanja If you have questions you want to be answered or topics you want me to address, feel free to let me know here https://forms.gle/BTGywNw3XCUbApUF7.
Episodes
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Live Coaching with Robert Part 2
Tanja is back with Robert with candid coaching and dropping into a topic i hear many men deal with. The shame of desiring sex. How to be a good man and own your sexuality when your childhood and early teens programs didn't set you up well. Tanja Diamond, Life Strategist, Biohacker, Tantra expert,...
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Live Coaching Call w/ Robert
A brave listner of Men, Sex and Tantra takes Tanja up on being coached on the podcast. Robert has faced what a lot of good men are facing today... confusion around what women want and why when a man attempts to give them what they ask for, they are rejected. Tanja Diamond, Life Strategist,...
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Yep- Our Friend Vulnerability
Mathias and Tanja dive into the topic of vulnerability and it's most men's least favorite topic... we get it. Some men would say "OK vulnerability is not as important as authenticity. I think authenticity is important! But let's unpack this: in order to be authentic to yourself… First you have to...
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The Importance Of Being Curious About Truth
Some people think about the truth : "you want the truth? You can't handle the truth!!" With a sense of happiness or duty... From a western standpoint, our mind is conditioned to think about things. Especially from a western scientific standpoint, we take things and slice and dice them into…
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Do You Lead And Live With Courage?
J Mathias and I get into the definition and idea of courage. It's my numer 1 value and I use it everyday to make decisions and stay in alignment with my integrity. Is courage a heroic act or something you are driven to by an impulsive action. "Courage is that which is in alignment with a…
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What Are You Doing With Your Life...
My new guest J Mathias Bennett brings a refreshing perspectve to things that make men stand out from the ordinary and become unforgettable. Our next 4 episodes dive into what seems like some familiar topics and yet we deep dive into questions and answers that will leave you rethinking things.…
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Strong Men Don't Need Watered Down Women
Enough of the BS that a masculine man needs a watered down woman. Most strong men I have met are not intimidated nor turned off my a strong woman. Oliver is a badass and his woman is a force of nature. When Oliver gets attacked by a wolf, it's a woman who saves him. Tanja's Last Longer For Sex...
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Sex, Aging and Wolves
Olver Starr is still with us and we explore what can wolves show us about the potency of aging in a world obbsessed with youth. Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com Intro Coaching Session Here Become a Neo Tantra Certified Coach Oliver- - TahoeWolfCenter.org…
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The Females Hold The Pack Together
Oliver expains why the females in the wolf family group are the glue which holds the pack together. We see the same experience in human family groups. Let's see if we gain some wolf wisdom for our own journey. Tanja's Last Longer For Sex Program can be found here lastlongerforsex.com Intro…
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Let's Demystify the Alpha
I have Olver Starr with me to talk about how we got it all wrong when it comes to what an Alpha is. And Oliver should know, he works with wolves and removes mama bears from under houses! In a world where a bunch of men on podcasts are giving you a bunch of BS about the Alpha male... come hear the...
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Why She Got To Be So Vague
Ever felt like you’re not getting a straight answer from a woman? Like her words are wrapped in layers of implication, energy, and mystery? In the realm of sex, intimacy, and tantra, what appears vague is often an invitation to go deeper. I explore why women communicate the way they do, what’s...
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Why you should read what she's reading
Tanja is solo today talking about her work with couples... Couples don't communicate well and when it comes to sex it's usually even more tragic. Why you should read and watch what she does to ask better questions and stop making assumptions. Improve your sex life. Intro Coaching Session Here...
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How To Live Into Your Best Self
People often wonder what happens in your life when you heal your past patterns and wounds and start to move into self care. Is it selffish to put yourself first? Farren joins me again and shares the successes on this journey to being true to youself. Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need…
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Have you found your NO?
In a world where good men don't want to be jerks, the idea of saying no to others can be hard. How can you be true to yourself and not hurt others. Learning to say no, without explanations will be the power you need to get back to living the truth of your life and stop putting yourself last. Hit…
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Divorce Strategies and Trauma
My guest today is Farren West, one of my friends and clients. He shares his path since his divorce 5 years ago and how he was stuck in the nice guy space and suffered unhappiness for many years. Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who…
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Are Your Strategies Working For You
What is the difference between addiction and strategies? Are your strategies working for you or hurting you. Alberto discusses his journey through different addictions. Hit me up to be a guest on the show, no need to be a men's coach or sex expert, just be a man who needs info and wants to share....
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Four Pillars of Self Love
Alberto is with me again and we are tackling the self love dilema. What actually is it and how do you make it happen? There are 4 pillars to self love, self commitement, self trust, self respect and self love. Explore the way to fall in love with yourself and why it matters. Hit me up to be a…
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Neo Tantra Coaching with Alberto
Meet Alberto Bercich who's becoming a Neo Tantra Certifued Coach in my Program. He reveals why he's doing it and what he has learned in the process. Lots of gems dropped in this episode Bandbbotanicals.com https://www.facebook.com/bandbbotanicals?mibextid=wwXIfr&mibextid=wwXIfr...
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Couples, Comedy, and Climbing: Embrace the Chaos!
Hey lovebirds and laughter lovers! 🎙️ Tanja here, and boy, do I have a treat for you! In this episode, we dive into the wild ride of balancing dating, intimacy, and marriage. We chat about those hilarious six-minute comedy sets (yeah, I’m an amateur comedian now!), and the joys and challenges of...
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Sexual Empowerment and Poly Sex
Lukasz and Tanja discuss sexual empowerment and the poly world. Do you need to be sexually open to lots of sex and people to be liberated and sexually healthy? You might be surprised at what two very sex-positive people have to say about it. IG @lukdraki Website www.lukaszdarmosz.com For a low...
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Your Hidden Testosterone and Libido Killers
Lukasz and Tanja tackle the real reason you are flagging in the sex department. How you are inadvertently tanking your testosterone and sex life and what to do about it. Phylates are a big culprit, along with soy and deodorant. IG @lukdraki Website www.lukaszdarmosz.com For a low introductory...
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Avoid Fairyland at all costs
Lukasz and Tanja take a trip to fairyland. Fairyland is the new age blissed-out scene where spiritual seekers go to live in ungrounded unconditional love and high vibration. Is it a great place to hang out? Or should you avoid it at all costs? IG @lukdraki Website www.lukaszdarmosz.com For a low...
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Tattoos and Energy
Lukasz Darmosz is Tanja's new guest, and the conversation about tattoos, energy, hidden messages in water, and the intention you carry surprises them both. Lukasz can be found IG @lukdraki Website www.lukaszdarmosz.com For a low introductory coaching call, click here...
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Visit Shibari Land, Get Knotted
Shibari is the ancient Japanese art of tying knots. Strider is a fan, and this episode has some twists and turns as Tanja weaves the episode into some other considerations when entering the kink world. To contact Strider https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson For a low introductory coaching call,...
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Objectification and Energetic Ethics
Energetic Ethics? What the heck is that when it comes to objectification? Strider has a 5-second rule of looking at someone, and Tanja gets into the nitty gritty of checking someone else out at the gym. To contact Strider https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson For a low introductory coaching call,...
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Erotic Authenticity
Erotic Authenticity - Strider and Tanja break down what this means. Tanja believes that just because it feels good doesn't mean you should do it—what does it mean to be erotically authentic? There is a lot of juice in this episode. To contact Strider https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson For a…
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Masculine Containment
Join me and my new guest, Strider John Peterson, as we explore masculine containment. How to show up as a protective man and not be confused about what that means. Create safety when protecting. Reach Strider here https://linktr.ee/striderjohnpeterson For a low introductory coaching call, click...
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Your Family Relationships Impacted Your Intimacy Skills
It seems straightforward that your family relationships impacted your intimacy abilities, but maybe you have never seen how. James D lets us in on how the relationship with his brother impacted his dating and sex life. A very candid and vulnerable share and interesting look into the complexity of...
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Coaching Yourself When Life Hands You Hardships
Life doesn't always give you a break or even provide you with what you want. Dealing with challenges can leave you feeling angry and frustrated, blaming others for those feelings. The inability to deal with these negative feelings will impact your relationships and career. Rejection can be...
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Learn to Dance Before You Use Weapons
James D and Tanja dive into the idea of the Irish proverb, “You don't give a man a weapon until you've taught him how to dance.” There are so many instances where this is applicable, and of course, sex is one of them. Do you use your penis as a weapon.?.. Learning to balance empty and full is the...
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Family Let You Down? Find Your Way Through
Tanja's new guest is James Deirmendjian https://www.facebook.com/fightfitt Philosopher, and founder of Fit Fight Training, James is a sports-performance coach for BJJ fighters and first responders. I invited him to the show because he had some exciting things to say about men, desire, and...
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The Heart Space and Pleasure
Tanja and Darshan wrap up Sacred masculinity with why you want to access your feelings with a nice little incentive; it's called Feeling MORE sexual and other pleasure. Yes, the 15-30 seconds of pleasure you feel now called ejaculation is such a paltry amount of pleasure you have access to!! Get…
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Men can be clueless and it's not their fault!
Tanja and Darshan believe men can be clueless, but this is a societal and programming problem, not a lack of caring on men's part. Between childhood programming, societal pressures, and ignorance, as a man, you will have to WANT to change things if they aren't working for you. Here are some...
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What is this Sacred Masculine things anyway?
I have a new guest with me Darshan Gregory, and we tackle the topic of Sacred Masculinity. You know how I tend to get picky when it comes to spiritual words just thrown around like we all know what they mean? So check out what happens with the topic of Sacred Masculinity because most of the time,...
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Connection with Women, friendship isn't a bad zone
Tanja and Michiel talk about women and what they want. Call this the Euro version because here we get into the fact being friends is NOT a bad thing and the real meanings behind trust, connection, and intimacy. I've seen men and women struggle with the definitions of these seemingly simple words,...
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Another look at the Polarity topic
Tanja and Michiel tackle polarity because, face it, there can never be enough times we talk about it! So much confusion surrounds the topic, and I think things are getting more extreme and not helping anyone. MIchiel Doorn can be found at https://the2nd.life/ For a low introductory coaching call,...
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Are American Men Juveniles?
Tanja and Michiel get real about how European men and American men differ regarding dating, women, and life. Although you might find this hard to listen to at times, I believe it's critical to understand the dynamics as a man you might be missing. I'd love to know what you think. Are American men...
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What's ego got to do with it
Tanja Talks with a new guest, Michiel Doorn, from 2nd Life Strategies. Tanja and Michiel get together, have some laughs, and talk about a piece of Michiel's Nobel Peace prize, his mission, and some ego banter. Michiel Doorn has authored numerous publications and two books, one in Dutch and one in...
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Tantric sex - demystified
We talked about Tantra last time; let's talk about Tantric sex and get that clear. Is it all medications, eye gazing, and long orgasms, or?? For a low introductory coaching call, click here https://tinyurl.com/tanjadiamond Last longer for sex program Tanja Diamond, Life Strategist, Biohacker,...
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Tantra What it is
Tantra, Tantra, Tantra, so misunderstood and misused. Let's get clarity, shall we? For a low introductory coaching call, click here https://tinyurl.com/tanjadiamond Last longer for sex program Tanja Diamond, Life Strategist, Biohacker, Tantra expert, and her fabulous male co-hosts explore...
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Sex is an activity
What if sex were just an activity, like going to the zoo. Imagine a world where you could say, Hey, want to go to the zoo, and your partner was like... naw it's kinda cold and rainy, I'll stay home> You were totally ok with that and went to the zoo on your own, and everyone was ok. Let's check it...
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Just say No to Porn
Yep, they say every man does it, and it's no big deal, but internet porn is causing so many problems in the bedroom. It's being cited as a big reason for divorces as well. Come hang out and find out the true cost of internet porn. For a low introductory coaching call, click here...
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What's a nice guy and why nice guys should finish last because they're dangerous
What is a nice guy? Why do we think nice guys should finish last? Because they are actually dangerous. Lean in and find out the difference between nice and kind and why one is what women are looking for and the other is what we all hope to avoid. For a low introductory coaching call, click here...
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Masculine Confidence, what is it and how to get it
Sniper and Tanja dive into masculine confidence. Sniper says it's the #1 thing men want to know about and don't want to talk to women about. I certainly get a lot of phone calls from men about it and so I would say men might not want to talk to their interests about it, but they want to know from...
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Dating - Are you overspending?
Dating and especially that first date can be harrowing. What are some of the best do's and don't when it comes to making the date great? Well, I found out a surprising question every man should ask before the first date in this episode. Sniper and Tanja dive into the dating scene. For a low...
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What Bar Kings need to know about moving on
Tanja and Sniper get real about the life of a Bar King and the upside and downsides of this way of scoring women. Are you or so you want to be a King of the Bar scene? Check this out!' For a low introductory coaching call, click here https://tinyurl.com/tanjadiamond Last longer for sex program...
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Hanging with the Intellectual Sniper
Today I have a new guest with me and his moniker is the Intellectual Sniper, or sniper for short. We are dropping into the world of dating, confidence, nice guys, Bar Kings, and more over the next 5 episodes. For a low introductory coaching call, click here https://tinyurl.com/tanjadiamond Last...
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Sexual compatibility... is it important to a great sex life?
I get a lot of questions about sexual compatibility and what it really means. It is definitely important but one of the things that can usually be worked on in a relationship. Sadly most people don't give it much thought until it causes problems for them. Questions - email me…
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Sexual Chemistry. What it really is and why it's so important
We hear about this so-called "spark" but what is it really? Sexual chemistry is not about how someone looks, or a good reason to have a relationship. Understanding sexual chemistry and how it works is vital to a good sex life. Questions you want me to answer email me [email protected] For a...
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Why do women really fake orgasms?
Faking Orgasms, why do women do this, and can men really tell? I think it's pretty sad women do this at the alarming rate they do AND how we can all make a difference in how we approach sex so they don't feel they need to. For a low introductory coaching call, click here...
About this show
What parents, porn, and religion never taught you about being a man and having an extraordinary sex life.
Tanja Diamond, Life Strategist, Biohacker, Tantra expert, and her fabulous male co-hosts explore everything you want to know about masculine empowerment and sex. To talk with Tanja
If you have questions you want to be answered or topics you want me to address, feel free to let me know here https://forms.gle/BTGywNw3XCUbApUF7.
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