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Messy Path

by Ariel & Whitney

The Messy Path navigates through the messiness of doing the work along your personal development, relationship, and soulful journey. Co-hosted by Ariel Arnson, a certified Rapid Transformational Therapist and Whitney Oppenhuizen, an Intuitive Relationship Coach.

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Episodes

  1. Happy Holidays Activation Meditation with Ariel

    My gift to you this winter solstice, holiday season is to enhance the joy and happiness within yourself, reconnect and remember feeling joy and happiness is always available within you. You are magic. This is a brief hypnotic exercise to access a feeling of happiness within you, clear any blocks...

  2. S3. Ep 66. Whitney's Wedding!

    Whitney got married in September 2022 in a beautiful little resort on the backside of the Tetons. It was an intimate, aligned, authentic ceremony and celebration that I was lucky to attend with my partner. In this episode we discuss Whitney's journey in planning their wedding, how she/they stayed...

  3. S3. Ep 65: Witches & Women's Rights

    Tis the season for witches. As Halloween approaches and images of the witch surround us, what do we really know or need to know about the history of witches, how it's intertwined with the oppression of women's rights, and what the affects or influences the witch narrative still has on women…

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  4. S3. Ep. 64: 6 Month Catch Up

    Whitney got married! Ariel got engaged! That and SO much more in this long overdue catch up! What topics are you excited for us to cover? Send us a comment of message! If you're interested in working with either of us, we both offer free consultation calls! To connect with us further, follow:...

  5. S3. Ep 63. Resting on the Path; Slowing, Integrating, Deepening

    Although the path through personal, spiritual and relationship growth and development is messy, and never ending, it does not mean that it is always actively hustling and bustling. Whitney and I are both in phases of deep growth and integration. And both of us keep getting messages from the...

  6. S3. Ep 62. Toxic Positivity

    Toxic Positivity. Maybe you've heard this buzz term floating around lately. We delve into what toxic positivity is, how to not be that person, when it is ok to be that person, and how to help yourself and others not get stuck in the toxic positivity spiral. Emotional Scale References: Image -...

  7. S3. Ep 61. Whitney’s Birthday Reflection:35 Things I’ve Learned in 35 years (Part 2)

    Whitney hit a big milestone birthday in September 2021. Because she is the amazing and inspirational coach that she is, she is sharing the 35 things she's learned in her 35 years around the sun! We're splitting this conversation into two parts so you get the most of Whitney's story sharing,...

  8. S3. Ep 60. Whitney’s Birthday Reflection:35 Things I’ve Learned in 35 years (Part 1)

    Whitney hit a big milestone birthday in September 2021. Because she is the amazing and inspirational coach that she is, she is sharing the 35 things she's learned in her 35 years around the sun! We're splitting this conversation into two parts so you get the most of Whitney's story sharing,...

  9. S3. Ep59: We're Back / We Met!

    Hello old and new Messy Path listeners! Whitney and I are excited to be back for season 3! Today we share the story of how we met for the first time in person during the season break! We share about our relationship journey - of course. And so much more! Let us know what you'd like covered this...

  10. Engagement!

    We have some big news from the mountain! Whitney got engaged! In this episode we share Whitney's engagement story and a lot about her work on herself and relationship that got her to the great place she's in now! This episode is full of great stories and celebrations, as well as lessons! Enjoy!…

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  11. Integration

    You've done it! You recognized your contrast, sent up your rocket of desires, faced your shadows, done the transformational inner work.... you're transformed. You feel freer, more grounded. Now what? That kinda toxic ex keeps hitting you up. You're still at your crappy job. Your bank account...

  12. Transformation

    Transformation comes in many ways and happens at many levels. Rapid Transformational Therapy is a great tool to support healing and transformation at the emotional level. Both Ariel and Whitney have felt a great impact in their lives from using RTT, that's why we are incorporating it in our Messy...

  13. Intentions

    Nothing will change if you don't know how you want it to be different. Appropriately setting intentions is a crucial aspect of manifesting and transformations that isn't given enough care or attention. Whitney and Ariel go through the importance of setting intentions, some tips on how to approach...

  14. That's Not Me Anymore

    One of Ariel's favorite tools in a Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) session is to identify how old scenes, beliefs, and emotions aren't part of you anymore! Within the RTT school, this tool is referred to as "that's not me." Whether done subconsciously through hypnosis - as in an RTT session,...

  15. Introducing the Messy Path Group Course Fall 2021

    Whitney and Ariel are so excited to announce the Messy Path Group Course for fall 2021! Today's episode goes into further detail about our inspiration and intention for this transformative intimate community experience! Join us along with a small group of like-minded womxn to set the intention of...

  16. Whitney's Rib & Modern Expansion

    Whitney broke her ribs recently! So in this episode, Whitney shares her story and we also examine the existential significance of this human experience. Playing off of the biblical mythology that Eve was made from Adam’s rib, we naturally transitioned into the journey of modern creation and...

  17. Halfway and One Step

    Today we explore how you make it through the messy middle!

  18. 50th Episode Q&A

    Wow! We've been doing this for 50 episodes! Whitney and Ariel ask each other fun questions from what magical creature would you own if you could, to if you never had to do the dishes or laundry again which would you choose, to our thoughts on conspiracy theories, and much more! We also have some...

  19. Sexual (R)evolution

    Katie Thurston recently shared her journey to being sex positive in a recent episode of The Bachelorette. This brought forward a conversation between Whitney and Ariel about sex positivity, consent, sexual validation, virginity, and how to reclaim your sexual journey towards empowerment and...

  20. Waiting

    What do you do when the Universe / Inner voice / Inner guidance tells you... 'not right now,' 'just wait,' or '...'? Whitney and Ariel share their experiences from the 'waiting.' News: Join our FREE monthly Women's Circles throughout the summer! More info > here! < If you're looking for another...

  21. Should vs Alignment

    "I should be further in my career by now." "I should be married/have babies by this age." "We've been together this long, we should be married by now." Any of these sound familiar? Whether you are receiving pressure regarding where you "should" be in life at any given time by a direct person in...

  22. Songs of Alignment

    What songs help you get in flow? What songs have helped you through a life transition? Or in manifesting something or calling in a romantic connection? In this episode, Whitney and Ariel take you through a musical journey of songs that have connected, aligned, or moved them through different…

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  23. Double Inner Voice Conversation

    For this week's episode, Whitney and Ariel tried something entirely new! We started the recording after a 5-minute meditation, connecting into ourselves, then began talking and responding from that tranquil, connected place inside ourselves - with each other! So yes, this was like a double inner...

  24. Life Check-in: Ariel + Whitney

    In this week's episode we have an open conversation about where we are at in our messy paths today! Whitney talks through some of her upper limiting beliefs around balancing her career passions, and Ariel works through some of her desires in moving forward in her romantic relationship. We are...

  25. Good to Great

    Why is it harder to go from 'good' to 'great', than it is from 'bad to good'? Whitney and Ariel received this question from a listener and we took off with it! Often this is described as our "upper limiting beliefs" and can come as quite a shock when we feel like "we've been doing the work" and…

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  26. Strengthening your Intuition

    We are all intuitive beings. But thanks to the patriarchy and other human experiences that work to block or disconnect us from our inner knowing, we often don't feel connected. In this episode, Whitney and Ariel share practices at any point of your journey to strengthen your connection to your...

  27. The Mess of Manifesting

    When learning about manifesting a la Abraham Hicks, it often sounds easy and simple. Step 1-2-3-4 *click* manifestation received! But the reality is often Much messier than that. The messiness can be quite discouraging. But it can also be very expansive! In this episode, Whitney and Ariel discuss...

  28. Personal Growth Resources

    We talk a lot about coaching and RTT, but ever wonder what some of the other modalities and resources Ariel & Whitney have used? We share some of the other personal tools, resources, and modalities we have experienced. As we mention in the episode, some of the practitioners we mention, we are no...

  29. Signs: Trail Markers from the Universe; an Exercise in Trust

    Following up from our earlier episode on calling in "signs" from the Universe, messages to help connect and guide you from the ethereal plane, we expand on further questions and experiences in what it's like recognizing and working with signs. What happens if you're not receiving the signs that…

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  30. Akashic Record Reading

    Recently, Ariel has been receiving more and more messages to 'work in the light' which has lead her to learning to read the Akashic Records. However, the Akashic Records, which hold all the information from our soul's journey, can be an overwhelming experience. In this episode, Whitney, who has...

  31. Daddy Issues

    How can we battle the adage 'you fix the issues with your husband that you have with your dad?" Or are your relationships seeking "a bite to match the wound?" As a primary soul contract, it's no surprise that our relationships with our fathers or prominent masculine figures in our lives play a...

  32. The Why and How of Coaching

    What does it mean that Whitney is an "Intuitive Relationship Coach"? How does "coaching" differ from therapy or talking with your friends? Why would someone work with a life/relationship coach? What does working with a coach look like, feel like? How does it benefit you? When would a person...

  33. Believing Others & Choosing Yourself: Lessons in Self-Love

    Maya Angelou teaches us, "When someone tells you who they are, believe them the first time." But what does that mean, what does that look like as it plays out in relationships? How do you battle between knowing when is the right time to stay or go? Whitney and Ariel talk through examples from…

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  34. Transformation Integration

    Faced with the shadows or triggers from past issues - how does your transformed, healed, inner working self now respond? How do you feel? How are you integrating the transformation from self work into your life? What does that look like, feel like? What impact does all this inner work actually…

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  35. Transitions: Out of Covid & Through Inner Work

    As we transition into spring in Northern America, many of are feeling that shift of energy. The emerging of spring, in conjunction to increasing percentages of Covid vaccinated people is giving many of us a glimmer of long anticipated hope for things to "return to normal." But is "back to normal"...

  36. Winds of Change: How long does it take to get to the wind?

    Whitney is hosting her soul sister and family for the week, so I thought it'd be fun to bring in my soul sister as a guest cohost for this week's episode! Joining me today is Hannah Bailey! As we were getting ready to hit record, Hannah commented on how windy it was that day... and it launched…

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  37. Entity Pendulum Clearing

    The one where Ariel talk about clearing an entity from her home with a pendulum, and Whitney guides her through it while also sharing her own ghost story experience. Share with us your entity knowledge, pendulum tips, and any entity or ghost experiences you may have! You can reach us at: Ariel -...

  38. Our Favorite Woowoo Movies

    Movies - there’s nothing like being swept away into the magic of movies. In this episode, Whitney and Ariel share some of their favorite inspirational woowoo-esque movies. Oftentimes, it is helpful to see how other people are experiencing lessons in personal, relationship, and spiritual...

  39. Respect in Relationships

    R-E-S-P-E-C-T - we're talking this week about how it is and mostly how it is NOT showing up in your relationship and what to do about it! In this week's episode, Ariel and Whitney ask hard questions - are you receiving the respect you deserve in your relationship? Are you treating yourself with…

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  40. Ariel's Birthday Flow

    Ariel recently turned 32! 🎉 We're discussing the flow of birthdays, reflections on growth journeys, and so much more. Ariel and Whitney revel in how they both love their two jobs - rather than having a day gig they despise and side hustle that's their passion. We talk about processing our…

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  41. Breaking Conditioning

    We’re breaking through the bulls**t of societal conditioning and grounding into our soul truths. Whitney posted a tiktok video about her former relationship break up and people freaked out about it on the internet! Using that as our stepping off point we touch on some of the societal conditioning...

  42. Stepping into the Unknown

    Another flow of consciousness conversation between Ariel and Whitney, guided by their oracle card pulls around Imrama - a journey of the soul, where we don't know where we are going, but the soul knows the way. We also discuss the theme of Coddiwomple which is the act of traveling in a direction...

  43. Upgrading to Modern Soulful Relationships

    We take a modern look at creating and honoring soulful relationships. As we continuously move to break through antiquated patriarchal suppression in all aspects of our life and societal systems, today we explore what that looks like in terms of relationships. What does it mean and look like to...

  44. Understanding your Soul Potential: Exploring North & South Nodes

    Astrology is a great tool for understanding and connecting further with yourself. Today, Ariel and Whitney take a hobbyist's journey explaining the North and South Nodes in your natal chart and what information can be gathered there. Essentially, your South Node represents your soul's past, the...

  45. What are you really calling in?

    What are you really calling in from the Universe? This week, Ariel and Whitney uncover the light side of unintended manifestations, aka find the good part of the bad things that happen. We recorded this episode right after Thanksgiving when Ariel was a week into having Covid. Throughout the…

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  46. Boundaries

    Positive space boundaries are often one of the most difficult aspects of our lives to set and maintain. With the rise of political tensions surrounding the Trump/Biden presidential race, cultural protests, the pandemic, and all of it being shared through social media, the need for healthy...

  47. Triggers & Growth (Holiday Recap)

    This week’s podcast is DEEP. Ariel and Whitney both had some big changes and shifts happen over the holidays and we’re sharing our messy journeys over the past couple of weeks. We discuss the integration of merging your soul, feeling triggered by family, partners, and upper limiting beliefs,...

  48. Fun Manifestations

    Happy Christmas week! We want to celebrate this transition into the new year by keeping things light-hearted and reflecting on some of our favorite fun manifestations! As growth seeking beings, we're always manifesting desires, but some come with much less resistance than others. This episode is...

  49. Processing Our Relationships

    In this vulnerable episode, we hit record on a conversation processing current challenges in our relationships. We share how we've been been processing our romantic relationships this year, the challenges that have come up and how we have processed and are processing through them, what it means…

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  50. Flowing with your Energy

    Throughout our life, seasons of change, energy cycles, transitions - physical and energetic, menstrual cycles, moon cycles, healing cycles, all of these times of our lives carry different energies and request from us different energy levels. In this episode, we discuss the importance of flowing...

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

The Messy Path navigates through the messiness of doing the work along your personal development, relationship, and soulful journey. Co-hosted by Ariel Arnson, a certified Rapid Transformational Therapist and Whitney Oppenhuizen, an Intuitive Relationship Coach.

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The Messy Path navigates through the messiness of doing the work along your personal development, relationship, and soulful journey. Co-hosted by Ariel Arnson, a certified Rapid Transformational Therapist and Whitney Oppenhuizen, an Intuitive Relationship Coach.

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