Milkweed & Monarchs

Some stories break your heart a little, but somehow leave it bigger than before. Today’s episode is one of those. It’s a reminder that even in the hardest moments, people show up for one another in ways that are quiet, unexpected, and deeply human. This isn’t a story about perfection or happy endings. It’s a story about kindness, about the way we carry each other, and about the beauty that can rise out of something painful. I’m grateful to share it with you. Chapters (00:00:01) - A Survivor's Story of Brain Cancer(00:07:28) - The Cancer Patient Who Got Married Without Treatment(00:13:57) - One patient's brain surgery misstep(00:20:31) - A patient's decision to have the baby

Some people enter our lives as teachers. Others as companions. And then there are the ones — like my brother — who arrive as walking, talking tests of patience. Growing up with him was… a lot. He could push every button I had, sometimes just by breathing in my direction. I spent years thinking he was simply determined to make my life harder. But as I got older, I began to see the currents underneath his behavior — the expectations placed on him, the pressure he carried, and the unspoken rules of our household that shaped us both in ways we didn’t understand at the time. This episode is about that journey: the exasperation, the unraveling, and the unexpected compassion that comes when you finally understand the “why” behind someone’s chaos. Chapters (00:00:01) - My Sister and The Secret Life of Mothers(00:08:03) - Favorite childhood memories of my brother(00:14:11) - My Brother Did A Lot Of Wrong Things(00:21:07) - He took my mom's brass from her house(00:27:51) - The Secret Life of A Step-Brother

There are some stories that sit in two places at once—where your heart aches and softens at the same time. This episode is one of those. It’s a chapter filled with endings and beginnings, with the kind of tenderness that only shows up when life asks you to hold joy in one hand and grief in the other. Today, I’m sharing something that’s both sad and good, heavy and hopeful. It’s a reminder that we don’t get to choose the shape of our seasons, but we do get to choose how gently we move through them. And sometimes, even in the hardest moments, there’s a small light that finds its way in. So take a breath with me. Settle in. This is a story about loss, love, and the quiet beauty that rises when we let ourselves feel all of it. Chapters (00:00:01) - A terminal brain cancer patient's story(00:09:34) - The end of life of a neurosurgeon(00:16:33) - One patient's end-of-life care

Some stories don’t start with sunshine — they start with rain clouds rolling in over Lake Michigan, muddy shoes, frizzy hair, and a husband with a stubborn streak of optimism. Today’s episode is one of those stories. In this chapter of Milkweed & Monarchs, I’m taking you with Craig and me on a lighthouse adventure up the northern coast — the kind of day that begins as a simple escape from a long winter and slowly unravels into something much more memorable. You’ll hear about tiny lighthouses and towering ones, the history tucked inside their walls, and the way Michigan’s shoreline can surprise even a lifelong New Englander. But the heart of this story isn’t the lighthouses. It’s what happens when you’re soaked to the bone, covered in sand, convinced you look like a disaster… and the person across the table sees Tina Turner instead. This is a story about partnership — the push and pull, the steady and the wild, the moments when someone loves you not despite the mess, but because of it. It’s about finding beauty in the unexpected, humor in the uncomfortable, and grace in the places you least expect it. So settle in. Let’s head north together. Chapters (00:00:01) - The Story of Craig and Michigan(00:03:07) - Camps and Lighthouses in Michigan(00:07:29) - Small Lighthouse Visits in Michigan & Maine(00:13:38) - The Night They Drag Me To Stella's Restaurant(00:19:18) - The Moment I Learned To Love My Hair(00:22:30) - Stella's Lighthouse Dining

Welcome to Episode 71 — which feels impossible, because somehow we’ve arrived at that number one story, one lesson, one wild detour at a time. Today’s episode is one of those stories that didn’t wait its turn or arrive neatly wrapped. It barged in, made itself comfortable, and demanded to be told. And honestly? I’m glad it did. This chapter is messy in the most human way — full of unexpected turns, emotional curveballs, and the kind of hindsight humor that only shows up once the dust has settled. But underneath the chaos is something real: a reminder that life rarely unfolds according to our plans, yet somehow it still manages to hand us exactly what we need to grow. So settle in with me for Episode 71. Let’s step into this story together — the laughter, the lessons, and the little moments of grace tucked between the lines. Chapters (00:00:00) - Deciding to Retire from Maine to Michigan(00:08:59) - I wrote part of the Magnet documentation at Maine Medical Center(00:17:36) - In the Elevator: Shared Leadership(00:27:08) - A few moments in the life support classroom(00:28:56) - The challenges of working in a union hospital

Some stories arrive gently. This is not one of those stories. Today’s episode is a full‑tilt ride through one of the most chaotic chapters of my life — a time when I was juggling graduate school, managing an oncology unit, navigating the emotional hurricane of IVF, and trying to plan a trip to Wales for a wedding I was genuinely thrilled to attend… until life, hormones, and fate had other plans. What begins as a sweet friendship and an international adventure quickly turns into a saga of canceled flights, disappearing refunds, and one very patient husband who underestimated just how long my fuse would burn before it finally snapped. And when it did? Well… let’s just say a certain travel agent in Texas learned that you do not string along a woman who has just survived IVF and lived to tell the tale. This is a story about disappointment, resilience, and the moment you realize you’re done being polite and ready to get your money back — with interest if necessary. It’s messy, it’s honest, and if you know me at all, you’re probably already laughing. So settle in. This one’s a ride. Chapters (00:00:01) - The Nurses' Wedding in Wales(00:04:18) - One In-Vitro Mother's Attempt To Get Preg(00:09:50) - One woman's experience with in-vitro fertilization(00:16:54) - How To Get Your Wedding Ticket Refunded

Every adventure has a beginning, though it rarely announces itself with fanfare. More often, it starts in the middle of an ordinary day—when a question lingers a little longer than usual, or a small shift inside nudges us toward something new. This story begins in that familiar place, where life is still happening around us, but something in us knows it’s time to pay attention. This isn’t an escape from real life; it’s an extension of it. The kind of adventure that asks us to stay present, to notice what’s right in front of us, and to trust that clarity comes from moving forward, not waiting for perfect conditions. There will be moments of uncertainty, moments of quiet courage, and moments that remind us why we chose to begin at all. So here we are—standing at the edge of what comes next. Not rushing. Not dramatizing. Just taking the first honest step into a journey that’s as real and grounded as the life we’re already living. Chapters (00:00:01) - A Personal Life Lesson(00:08:26) - The Time He Should've Hiked Up The Mountain(00:15:11) - Unbelievable Moose and Baby Moose(00:23:27) - A Moose and His Family

Every adventure begins with a moment—small, almost forgettable—when something inside us whispers that life is about to shift. Sometimes it’s a choice. Sometimes it’s a chance. And sometimes it’s simply the feeling that the ground beneath us is nudging us forward, asking us to trust what we can’t yet see. In today’s episode, I’m inviting you into one of those journeys. It’s a story shaped by curiosity, by the unexpected, and by the quiet bravery it takes to follow a path without knowing where it leads. Along the way, there are detours, discoveries, and the kind of moments that stay with us long after the adventure ends. So settle in. Let’s step into this together—one breath, one mile, one unfolding moment at a time. Chapters (00:00:01) - What I Learned From Camping With My Ex-Husband(00:08:38) - What I Wish I Knew About Backpacking(00:18:32) - Camping at the Grand Canyon(00:20:55) - Backpacking Trips

Looking Ahead: The Future of Milkweed and Monarchs Chapters (00:00:01) - No More Milkweed and Monarchs Podcast

Some stories arrive softly, and others enter our lives like a storm — disorienting, humbling, and transformative all at once. When my daughters first came to the United States, we stepped into a season filled with new language, new routines, and new fears we didn’t yet have words for. Those early days were tender and chaotic, threaded with moments that tested my resolve and revealed just how much courage two young girls carried inside them. In today’s episode, I’m taking you back to those first weeks — to the dentist visits that shook us, the school moments that pushed me into full mama‑bear mode, and the unexpected lessons that taught all three of us what it means to belong to one another. These stories aren’t polished. They’re real, vulnerable, and foundational to who we became as a family. So settle in. This is a chapter about resilience, advocacy, and the quiet beginnings of trust — the early days with our girls. Chapters (00:00:01) - The Journey of Bringing a Daughter to the US(00:08:45) - The Romanian school system's failure to help parents(00:18:12) - An American Parent's role in teaching her daughter to swim

Welcome back to Milkweed & Monarchs. I’m Dawn Klem, and today’s episode invites you into one of the most unforgettable patient journeys I witnessed during my years in the brain tumor clinic. This story isn’t just about illness—it’s about the human spirit, the ways we cope with devastating news, and the quiet strength that carries families through the unthinkable. Before we meet the patient we came to lovingly call “the mayor,” we’ll take a moment to explore the five stages of death and dying—those emotional currents that shape the experience of anyone facing a terminal diagnosis, as well as the loved ones who walk beside them. These stages aren’t neat or predictable, but they are deeply human, and they form the backdrop for the story you’re about to hear. In this episode, you’ll meet a man whose warmth and charisma lit up every hallway he walked down, and a wife whose fierce devotion became both his anchor and his shield. Their journey is one of hope, denial, courage, and love—and ultimately, a reminder of how fragile and precious our time together truly is. Let’s begin. Chapters (00:00:00) - The 5 Stages of Death and Dying(00:08:26) - One patient's battle with a terminal brain tumor(00:19:54) - The Death of a Cancer Patient on a Tropical Island

Welcome back to Milkweed & Monarchs! In today’s episode, Dawn Klem takes us on a heartfelt journey through the everyday habits that shaped her childhood and continue to inspire her life today. From her mother’s bowling league nights that offered a glimpse into women’s camaraderie and teamwork, to her father’s passion for keeping nature clean and instilling responsibility, Dawn shares how these simple routines became powerful lessons in balance, community, and stewardship. You’ll hear stories of family traditions, unexpected treasures found in the woods, and how these practices have carried forward across generations. This episode is a reminder that the habits we nurture—whether playful or purposeful—can ripple outward to create lasting impact. Chapters (00:00:01) - Both of My Parents Bowled For Years(00:09:48) - Living With My Dad For A Week(00:17:39) - Growing Up on a Trash Pickup Team(00:24:37) - Pick Up the Trash

"Welcome back to Milkweed & Monarchs. In today’s episode, we’re setting sail into one of the most unforgettable chapters of my time on Guam. What began as a simple afternoon of sailing with friends quickly turned into a harrowing encounter with the raw power of the Pacific. It’s a story of beauty, fear, resilience, and the kind of memories that stay with you for a lifetime. Join me as I revisit the day we ventured beyond the safety of the harbor—and discovered just how small we can feel against the vastness of the sea." Chapters (00:00:01) - I lived on Guam for 4 years(00:09:29) - What I Wish I(00:16:50) - A Severe Squall Forces the Boat Back Into the Harbor(00:25:07) - How to Tell a True Story

Sometimes the smallest choices—like what we order for lunch—can lead to the biggest twists in our lives. In this episode of Milkweed & Monarchs, I take you back to my 18-year-old self, a waitress at the Old 99, navigating work, friendships, and the excitement of a simple Quarter Pounder with cheese. What started as an ordinary day turned into an unforgettable lesson about fate, resilience, and the way life can surprise us when we least expect it. Join me as I share the story of how one meal, one night, and one unexpected hospital stay shaped the way I see food, friendship, and the fragility of health.   Chapters (00:00:01) - Waitress: Fate or Hard Work?(00:08:13) - Symptoms of appendicitis after vomiting for hours(00:15:54) - Appendixitis Survivor Never Ate Quarter Pounder With Cheese Again

Hi friends, and welcome back to Milkweed & Monarchs. I’m your host, Dawn Klem, and today I’m inviting you into a memory that’s etched into my heart—a story of childhood innocence, unexpected friendships, and the quiet magic of growing up in a simpler time. In this episode, I take you back to the early 1960s, to a hill overlooking the football field at Hillsdale College, where my little brother and I found joy, freedom, and connection in the most unexpected of places. It’s a story about community, about how children see the world without filters, and about how a shared Coke bottle became a symbol of something much bigger. So grab a cup of something warm, settle in, and let’s journey together to a time when the world felt just a little more open, and a lot more kind.   Chapters (00:00:00) - Growing Up With My Brother(00:09:44) - The African-American Parents of Detroit Lions and Tiger baseball(00:17:54) - Black and White at Hillsdale College

Welcome back to Milkweed & Monarchs, where stories bloom with heart and humor. In this episode, Dawn takes us deep into the soul of Michigan football culture—from high school championships and family traditions to the unforgettable clash between Michigan State and Notre Dame. What starts as a joyful reunion with Midwest sports fervor quickly turns into a passionate tale of fairness, fandom, and one very vocal Libra in the stands. Whether you're a die-hard football fan or just love a good story about community, rivalry, and personal conviction, this episode will have you laughing, nodding, and maybe even cheering along. Chapters (00:00:01) - Michigan Football Fan Dawn Klemm on The Podcast(00:10:22) - My First Michigan State vs Notre Dame Game(00:16:33) - I Cheated My Way Through The Notre Dame vs Michigan Game(00:23:31) - A Little Something For Michigan State Fans

There are moments in life when everything shifts—quietly, unexpectedly, like the hush before a monarch takes flight. In today’s episode, we explore one of those turning points. It’s a story stitched together with vulnerability, courage, and the kind of grace that only comes from weathering the storm. Whether you’re in the middle of your own metamorphosis or simply seeking a reminder that change is possible, this conversation is for you. So settle in. Let’s wander through the milkweed and see what emerges. Chapters (00:00:01) - Divine Intervention in My(00:08:06) - The Life Insurance Plan For My(00:15:34) - The Secret To A Death Certificate(00:23:38) - A Mother's Help with the Insurance(00:24:22) - One More Thing For Your Mom

Welcome back to Milkweed & Monarchs, where stories bloom with resilience, connection, and the quiet power of transformation. I’m your host, Dawn Klem. Today’s episode is a tribute—raw, personal, and deeply human. It’s about my Aunt Sue: a woman whose life was stitched together with compassion, quiet strength, and an unwavering devotion to others. From her years as a social worker to her porch-side coffee chats with my mom, Aunt Sue embodied the kind of everyday grace that often goes unnoticed—but never unfelt. This story isn’t just about memory. It’s about the heartbreak of loss, the frustration of bureaucracy, and the ache of not being able to say goodbye the way we hoped. It’s also about love—the kind that persists through distance, silence, and even death. So settle in. This one’s for Aunt Sue, and for anyone who’s ever tried to honor someone they loved in a world that didn’t make it easy.     Chapters (00:00:02) - Aunt Sue(00:09:17) - A Woman's Obituary Was Posted Months Later(00:15:58) - Aunt Sue's Obituary Got Posted In The Wrong

Welcome to Milkweed & Monarchs – Episode 57: The Limousine Hi everyone, I’m Dawn Klem, and today I’m taking you on a ride—literally and emotionally. In this heartfelt episode, I share the story of how Craig and I celebrated our first wedding anniversary in a way that completely defied my “plain Jane” nature. From cryptic clues and single roses to a surprise limousine ride and a pearl necklace, this episode is a tribute to unexpected romance, thoughtful gestures, and the beauty of being loved just as you are. Whether you’re someone who prefers jeans over jewels or you live for grand romantic gestures, this story will warm your heart and maybe even inspire your own celebration. Buckle up—this limousine ride is one for the memory books. Chapters (00:00:01) - I Got Married To A Plain Jane(00:07:08) - Married RN on the Nursing Home Floor(00:10:04) - The Surprise for His First Year Anniversary(00:17:17) - The Secret to A Fancy Prom Dress(00:21:22) - 5 Mind-blowing Anniversary Plans

Welcome to Milkweed & Monarchs — the podcast where stories bloom and quirks are celebrated. I’m your host, Dawn Klem, and today we’re diving into a tale that’s equal parts hilarious and heartfelt. In this episode, The Periscope, I reflect on the beauty of embracing our oddities — those little quirks that make us uniquely ourselves. From childhood insomnia to toe-wiggling anxiety, I share a story that starts with a quiet morning and ends with a laugh-out-loud realization involving a toy submarine, a periscope, and yes… my big toe. It’s a lighthearted reminder that sometimes, the things we fear most turn out to be parts of ourselves we hadn’t yet learned to love. So settle in, smile, and let’s take a peek through the periscope together. Chapters (00:00:01) - Accepting Your Unique Quicksies(00:03:30) - I Was Scared Of My Own Shadow(00:12:08) - I Scared My Big Toe Out Of My Mind

In this episode of Milkweed and Monarchs, I invite you into one of the most defining moments of my nursing career—a story that captures the grit, heart, and sometimes the fire it takes to truly advocate for a patient. Over four decades in health care taught me many things, but nothing more enduring than the responsibility to speak up when others can’t. Today, I share a raw and honest account from my time on the inpatient oncology unit—a day when frustration collided with purpose, and a fierce commitment to care broke through resistance. It’s a story of tension, transformation, and ultimately, connection. For every nurse who’s ever had to fight to be heard, this one’s for you. Chapters (00:00:03) - A Nurse's Passion for Patient Advocacy(00:02:40) - The Inpatient Oncology Unit(00:12:32) - One of the nurses on the unit(00:22:58) - I Should've Flipped The Nurse The Bird

Welcome back to Milkweed and Monarchs, where stories bloom with resilience and connection. I’m Dawn Klem, and today I’m inviting you into one of the most profound chapters of my nursing career—the moment I stepped into the role of a brain tumor navigator. This wasn’t just a job change. It was a soul-shifting experience that arrived late in my professional journey, yet left the deepest imprint. From navigating uncertainty in a new clinic to forging bonds with patients and families facing unimaginable challenges, this role taught me more about life, empathy, and human strength than I ever expected. In this episode, I’ll share how I found myself in a position I never anticipated, how three unforgettable patients helped shape my decision to retire, and why this final chapter became the most meaningful one of all. These stories aren’t just about medicine—they’re about transformation, grace, and the quiet power of showing up. So settle in. Let’s begin with how the best came last. Chapters (00:00:01) - I Became a Brain Tumor Navigator(00:09:43) - The navigator who screwed up(00:18:30) - One patient's journey through brain cancer treatment(00:22:10) - The Impact of the Brain Tumor Navigators

The Fire Hydrant: There are stories we tell because they make people laugh—and then there are stories we carry, quietly, because they remind us who we were and how far we’ve come. This one happens to be both. In today’s episode of Milkweed & Monarchs, I’m sharing a tale I’ve never been proud of, one that still makes me cringe and laugh in equal measure. It begins with an anxious sixteen-year-old behind the wheel for the first time, and ends with a Camaro, a fire hydrant, and a very patient friend named JD. It’s a story of reckless youth, hard truths, and the grace that sometimes finds us in the most unlikely places. So buckle up—literally and figuratively—as we take a ride through a chapter that just might remind you of your own fire hydrant moment. Chapters (00:00:01) - I Had Never Been Behind the Wheel Of A Car Before I Turn(00:07:52) - Driving When You're 19 Years Old(00:15:04) - What Happened After I Crashed My Friend's Car(00:22:09) - Whole Story: Driving Drunk in High School

The Journey In this episode, we explore what it means to truly move forward—not just across miles, but through moments that shape us. It’s the story of letting go, reaching back, and learning to hold both joy and uncertainty in the same hand. From the quiet ache of change to the unexpected beauty found along the way, this is a reflection on resilience, belonging, and the invisible threads that carry us from who we were to who we’re becoming. Chapters (00:00:00) - My Religious and Spiritual Journey(00:08:47) - Married Christian woman's spiritual journey(00:15:44) - I Was Not Baptized Until I Was Married (My Story)(00:22:22) - The Journey of a Jehovah's Witness(00:30:36) - A Taste of The Passion of Christ

In this episode of Milkweed & Monarchs, I take you on a journey that begins on a quiet soybean farm in northern Ohio and winds through hospital corridors, hunting trails, and the sacred spaces of human connection. "The Hunter" is more than a story about one man's diagnosis—it's about dignity, purpose, and the heartbreaking choices we sometimes face in the face of loss. This one changed me, and I hope it stays with you too. Chapters (00:00:01) - The Story of Matt's Brain Cancer(00:12:26) - One cancer patient's dream to go hunting!(00:20:59) - My cousin's suicide message(00:24:46) - A nurse navigates her patient's suicide

This episode of Milkweed & Monarchs, titled "Divine Intervention," is an intimate and heartfelt reflection on friendship, redemption, and fate. Dawn Klem, the host, recounts her deep bond with a tight-knit group of friends from Hillsdale, Michigan, and the ways life inevitably pulled them in different directions. She shares a touching story of her attempt to reconnect with her old friends by organizing a special lobster dinner for their 50th birthday celebration. However, an unexpected health scare involving one of her friends' husbands leads to an urgent trip to the emergency room—an event she later describes as a moment of divine intervention. Through this experience, she reflects on the importance of maintaining close friendships despite the years and distance, and the realization that these lifelong relationships remain an essential part of her life. Chapters (00:00:01) - A Story of Redemption and Divine Intervention(00:09:30) - A 50th Birthday Party With a Lobster(00:15:50) - Stroke warning at Sam's Club(00:21:05) - A Friends' Lobster Dinner

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs. I’m Dawn Klem, and today, I share the story of Kate—a patient who became a friend, a fighter who defied expectations, and a presence that lingers long after she’s gone. Kate’s journey began in an elevator, where a simple exchange turned into an unforgettable connection. Months later, I found myself sitting across from her in a hospital room, delivering news no one should ever have to hear. Diagnosed with a rare midline brain tumor, she faced the impossible with grace, resilience, and an unwavering determination to live. This episode is about the moments that shaped our friendship—the weekly visits, the conversations that blurred the line between patient and caregiver, and the heartbreaking reality of watching someone you love fight for time. But it’s also about something more—the inexplicable, the unexplainable, the messages that come when we least expect them. Join me as I recount Kate’s story, the lessons she taught me, and the goosebumps that remind me she’s still here.

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs. I’m Dawn Klem, and today, I take you back to an unforgettable experience—the 99th running of the Indianapolis 500. For my husband, Craig, cars have always been more than just machines—they’re a passion, a lifelong fascination that started with childhood trips to stock car races and evolved into a love for Formula One and IndyCar. So when our daughters surprised him with tickets to the Indy 500 for Christmas, it was a dream come true. We planned the perfect weekend—hotel reservations, a nice dinner, and the excitement of witnessing one of the most iconic races in history. But life had other plans. What should have been a thrilling day at the track turned into a battle with food poisoning, forcing me to navigate the event in a way I never expected. This episode is about resilience, about making the best of an imperfect situation, and about the joy of seeing someone you love experience a moment they’ve always dreamed of. Join me as I recount the highs and lows of that weekend, the unexpected challenges, and the lasting memories of the 99th running of the Indy 500.

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs. I’m Dawn Klem, and today, I share the story of how I unexpectedly became a runner—motivated not by personal ambition, but by the desire to encourage my daughters to embrace team sports. Growing up, I never considered myself an athlete. I was a cheerleader, but I always wished my mother had pushed me toward something more—perhaps cross country or track. When my daughters reached middle school, I saw an opportunity to give them what I had missed. They loved the outdoors, but hesitated to join a team. So, I made a bold decision: I would start running myself. With the help of my colleague Lois—a seasoned marathon runner—I embarked on a journey that tested my endurance, reshaped my mindset, and ultimately led me to my first 5K race. From training in freezing temperatures to overcoming self-doubt, every step brought new challenges and unexpected rewards. This episode is about perseverance, about stepping outside your comfort zone, and about the surprising ways in which personal growth can inspire others. Join me as I recount the highs and lows of my first 5K run and the lasting impact it had on my family.

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs. I’m Dawn Klem, and today, I dedicate this episode to the teachers who shape lives in ways they may never fully realize. Teachers often don’t get the appreciation they deserve. Behind the scenes, they work tirelessly to guide, encourage, and uplift students, sometimes in ways that go unnoticed. But for me, three teachers stand out—three women who made a lasting impact on my journey. From my first-grade student teacher, Ms. Lloyd, who saw something in me worth studying, to my high school English teacher, who believed in my potential even when I didn’t, to the college professor who challenged me in ways that ultimately led to one of my proudest academic moments—each of these women shaped my path in profound ways. This episode is a reflection on their influence, the lessons they taught me, and the power of educators to change lives. Join me as I share their stories and celebrate the incredible work teachers do every day.

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs. I’m Dawn Klem, and today, I take you back to a childhood moment that shaped my imagination and curiosity in unexpected ways. Growing up in Hillsdale, Michigan, I was surrounded by stories—ones my mother read to me, ones I saw on television, and ones I created in my own mind. Two stories in particular stuck with me: The Princess and the Pea and Family Affair. One was a fairy tale about proving royalty, the other a show about an uncle raising his nieces and nephew. Somehow, my young mind wove them together into a grand experiment—one that involved grape seeds, badminton shoes, and a secret test to confirm whether my father was truly my father. This episode is about childhood wonder, the power of storytelling, and the hilarious lengths I went to in pursuit of answers. Join me as I recount the details of my experiment, the anticipation leading up to it, and the moment my dad unknowingly validated my theory—proving, in his own way, that he was exactly who I thought he was. Let’s dive into the world of childhood imagination and the unexpected ways in which stories shape our understanding of the world.

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs. I’m Dawn Klem, and today, I share a story about childhood, friendship, and the unexpected ways in which lost things find their way back to us. Growing up in Hillsdale, Michigan, my neighborhood was filled with adventure—blanket forts, backyard baseball, and long summer days spent with my best friend, Marianne. We did everything together, including playing with our beloved Barbie dolls. But one day, mine disappeared. Decades later, a package arrived in the mail. Inside was my original Barbie, dressed exactly as I remembered her, along with a note from Marianne explaining how she had ended up in her grandmother’s house all those years ago. This episode is about nostalgia, about the objects that hold memories, and about the friendships that withstand the test of time. Join me as I recount the journey of my lost Barbie and the unexpected joy of its return.

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs. I’m Dawn Klem, and today, I take you back to the beginning of my journey in healthcare—the rigorous training that shaped me into the nurse I would become. At 19, fresh out of boot camp, I arrived at Great Lakes, Illinois, for hospital corpsman training. I had never cared for a patient before, never set foot in a hospital beyond my own childhood surgeries. But over the next ten weeks, I learned the fundamentals—how to make a bed with tight corners, how to lift and ambulate patients, and how to measure intake and output. The training was hands-on, sometimes uncomfortably so. We practiced on each other—giving injections, learning to draw blood, and even performing procedures that pushed the boundaries of what I thought I could handle. It was a trial by fire, but it prepared me for the real world of patient care. This episode is about those early lessons, the challenges of learning on the job, and the moments that made me question everything—only to emerge stronger. Join me as I recount the experiences that shaped my path in nursing.

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs. I’m Dawn Klem, and today, I take you back to the early days of parenthood—when my husband Craig and I brought our daughters home from Romania and began the journey of adoption. Adjusting to life as a family was filled with surprises, laughter, and plenty of learning curves. From navigating language barriers with a Romanian dictionary to figuring out meals that felt familiar yet new, every day brought a new challenge. The girls’ excitement for school, their fascination with cereal, and their insistence on wearing patent leather shoes in the snow made for unforgettable moments. This episode is about adaptation—how we learned to embrace the unexpected, how the girls found their place in a new country, and how small moments, like singing Yankee Doodle Dandy in the driveway, became cherished memories. Join me as I reflect on those first few months, the lessons we learned, and the joy of building a family through love, patience, and a whole lot of humor.

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs. I’m Dawn Klem, and today, I reflect on the defining moments of my 45-year career in healthcare—moments that shaped my understanding of medicine, humanity, and the unexpected intersections of politics and patient care. Two events stand out: the AIDS epidemic, which marked the beginning of my career, and COVID-19, which brought it to a close. Both crises forced healthcare professionals to navigate uncertainty, fear, and evolving science, often without clear answers. In this episode, I recount the heartbreaking story of a young man in San Diego, isolated and alone, as we struggled to understand the mysterious illness that would later be identified as AIDS. I also share the deeply personal experience of caring for a woman in Cape Cod, whose diagnosis challenged my own fears and assumptions. Fast forward to COVID-19, and I found myself once again facing an unknown virus—this time, with patients already battling terminal illnesses. From the impossible decisions families had to make to the devastating reality of patients dying alone, I explore the emotional toll of healthcare in crisis. Join me as I share these stories, reflect on the lessons learned, and consider how we can do better in the future. Because healthcare, at its core, is about people—and we owe it to them to get it right.

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs. I’m Dawn Klem, and today, I share the story of Jeanne—a leader, a mentor, and a woman whose wisdom shaped my understanding of healthcare and leadership. During my years at the Barron Center, I had the privilege of working alongside Jeanne, whose approach to leadership was both refreshing and impactful. She wasn’t just a director—she was a true guide, someone who understood the complexities of healthcare and embraced the responsibility of ensuring quality care for every resident. Jeanne’s ability to balance strength with humility made her stand out. She knew her limitations, sought knowledge, and led with integrity. Whether it was navigating state inspections, offering words of wisdom during stressful moments, or simply sharing laughter with colleagues, she created an environment where people felt supported. In this episode, I reflect on the lessons Jeanne taught me—about resilience, humor, and the importance of knowing when to step back and learn. Join me as I honor her legacy and explore the profound impact of compassionate leadership.

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs. I’m Dawn Klem, and today, I share the story of Ed—a man whose infectious joy, larger-than-life personality, and unwavering support shaped my journey in ways I never expected. Ed was the first person I met at the Barron Center, and from the moment I sat down for my interview, I felt like I was reconnecting with an old friend. He had a way of making everyone feel seen, valued, and uplifted. His booming laughter, flamboyant charm, and deep commitment to the residents made him unforgettable. In this episode, I reflect on the lessons Ed taught me—about leadership, resilience, and the importance of showing up for others. I recount the moments that defined our friendship, from navigating the challenges of nursing home care to the simple conversations that turned into lifelong memories. Join me as I honor Ed’s legacy, celebrate his impact, and share the stories that remind us why kindness, humor, and unwavering support matter.

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs. I’m Dawn Klem, and today, I share the story of Wanda—a dear friend, a mentor, and a woman whose resilience shaped my understanding of life, loss, and advocacy. Wanda’s journey was one of strength. Raised in the projects of Boston, she and her sister navigated hardship early, losing their father in middle school and watching their mother battle multiple sclerosis. Despite the challenges, Wanda pursued nursing, determined to ensure that patients—especially those in senior care—received dignity and respect. Our friendship began at the Barron Center in Portland, Maine, where she worked as the Assistant Director of Nursing. Her directness, humor, and unwavering commitment to quality care made her unforgettable. But beyond her career, Wanda had a deep love for animals, rescuing dogs and cats, and eventually opening her own dog grooming business. In this episode, I reflect on the impact she had on my life, the lessons she taught me, and the heartbreaking moment when she was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer. Her fight was fierce, but her spirit remained unshaken. Join me as I honor Wanda’s legacy, recounting the moments that defined her, the laughter we shared, and the profound ways in which she influenced my path.

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs. I’m Dawn Klem, and today, I take you back to a milestone moment—the first anniversary of my daughters’ arrival in the United States. What started as a simple gathering quickly turned into something much bigger. Friends, colleagues, and an entire community came together to celebrate, filling our home with laughter, support, and unexpected surprises. My mother, ever the hostess, insisted on making it special—crystal serving dishes, fresh flowers, and a spread that reflected both American and European traditions. But the real magic happened when the invitations went out. What I thought would be a small party turned into an event that brought over 150 people to our home—teachers, neighbors, and even the school principal. The kids turned our muddy backyard into a playground, sliding down hills and running through fields, while the adults embraced the chaos with open arms. This episode is about community, about the power of showing up, and about the moments that remind us why we need each other. Join me as I reflect on that unforgettable day and the lessons it taught me about love, support, and the beauty of shared celebration.

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs. I’m Dawn Klem, and today, I share the story of Theona—a neighbor who became family, a mentor who shaped my perspective, and a woman whose simple, steadfast way of life left an unforgettable mark on mine. When Craig and I lived in North Yarmouth, Maine, Theona was more than just the woman next door. She was a true Mainer—resilient, resourceful, and deeply connected to the land she called home. In her tiny three-room house, she raised seven children, tended breathtaking gardens, and lived with a quiet strength that I came to admire. Our friendship grew through daily interactions—walking my dog past her home, sharing stories, and eventually trusting her with our beloved golden retriever while we traveled to Romania to adopt our daughters. She was one of the first people to welcome them home, and for a time, they even called her Mamaya, the Romanian word for grandmother. This episode is about the lessons Theona taught me—about simplicity, loyalty, and the beauty of a life well-lived. It’s about cinnamon rolls that never quite taste the same when made by someone else, the wisdom of a woman who never needed much, and the enduring power of human connection. Join me as I reflect on the years spent next door to Theona, the moments that shaped our bond, and the lasting impact of a neighbor who became so much more.

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs. I’m Dawn Klem, and today, I share one of the most defining moments of my life—the day I became a mother. November 14th is our Gotcha Day, the anniversary of the day my husband and I brought our daughters home from Romania. Adoption is a journey filled with hope, uncertainty, and profound love, and ours was no exception. From navigating infertility treatments to facing the complexities of the adoption process, every step led us to the moment we met our daughters for the first time. In this episode, I recount the challenges, surprises, and emotions that shaped our adoption story. I reflect on the obstacles we faced in the U.S. adoption system, the unexpected turn that led us to Romania, and the incredible series of events that made it all possible—including a flood of letters from senators and representatives that helped us secure approval. Join me as I revisit the day our family truly began, the joy of welcoming our daughters into our home, and the lasting impact of Gotcha Day—a celebration of love, resilience, and the beautiful journey of adoption.

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs. I’m Dawn Klem, and today, I share a story of resilience, love, and the unexpected ways in which people find each other. This episode centers on Bud and Mary—a couple whose journey began with a simple phone call and grew into a lifelong partnership. Bud, a pilot with Wings of Mercy, dedicated his life to helping patients reach medical care they otherwise couldn’t access. Mary, a single mother in need of treatment at the Mayo Clinic, was one of those patients. What started as logistical coordination turned into something much deeper—a connection that led to marriage, advocacy, and unwavering support through life’s toughest challenges. Mary’s diagnosis of a grade four glioblastoma tested their strength, but Bud remained by her side, caring for her until the very end. Their story is one of perseverance, faith, and the power of human connection. Join me as I recount their remarkable journey and reflect on the lessons they taught me—about love, service, and the impact of standing by someone when it matters most.

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs. I’m Dawn Klem, and today, I share a lighthearted story about unexpected companionship, mystery, and the quirks of a mischievous pet. In the fall of 2014, I found myself navigating the bittersweet transition of becoming an empty nester. My youngest daughter had just left for college, and the house felt quieter than ever. That’s when fate—or perhaps sheer coincidence—led me to two tiny black kittens in need of a home. What followed was a journey of surprises, laughter, and one particularly puzzling mystery involving a Christmas tree skirt and a wool rug. For weeks, unexplained events had us questioning everything—until one unforgettable moment revealed the culprit in action. Join me as I recount the hilarious antics of Sammy, the black cat who turned our home into a stage for his unexpected tricks. This episode is a reminder that sometimes, the smallest creatures bring the biggest joy.

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs. I’m Dawn Klem, and today, I share a story that brings together love, tradition, and the lasting impact of holiday memories. Christmas has always been a time of reflection for me, especially when I think about my mother, Betty. She adored the holiday, filling our home with warmth, decorations, and the kind of joy that made every Christmas feel magical. Even when life changed—when my brother and I grew up, when my father passed, and when she moved in with me—her love for Christmas remained constant. In this episode, I take you back to one of the most special Christmases we shared—the year we returned to Hillsdale, my hometown, to celebrate in her house. It was the first time my daughters experienced Christmas at Grandma’s, and true to her spirit, she made it unforgettable. From the beautifully decorated tree to the heartfelt traditions, she created a holiday filled with love and meaning. I also reflect on a quiet, snowy morning years later, when I made the decision to stay home from work and spend the day decorating a Christmas tree with her—just the two of us. That day became one of my most cherished memories, a reminder that sometimes, the simplest moments hold the deepest significance. Join me as I honor my mother’s legacy, celebrate the traditions she passed down, and reflect on the ways in which love and remembrance shape the holiday season.

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs. I’m Dawn Klem, and today, I take you back to one of my favorite times of the year—fall. Growing up in Michigan, I cherished the crisp air, the changing leaves, and the traditions that made autumn special. Halloween was a highlight, filled with simple joys—homemade popcorn balls, caramel apples, and the excitement of filling pillowcases with candy. It was a time before trunk-or-treat events, when neighborhoods felt close-knit and traditions were passed down. But the most unforgettable Halloween? The first one with my daughters. Adopting them from Romania meant introducing them to American customs, and explaining Halloween to two little girls who barely spoke English was no easy task. Their confusion turned into excitement as they realized the magic of trick-or-treating—running from house to house, collecting candy, and embracing a tradition they had never known. This episode is a reflection on nostalgia, family, and the joy of sharing traditions with the ones we love. Join me as I recount the laughter, surprises, and heartwarming moments that made this Halloween one to remember.

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs. I’m Dawn Klem, and today, I continue the story of how I met my husband, Craig. In the last episode, I shared how I moved into his home, rearranged everything—including his dishes—and unknowingly set the stage for something unexpected. What started as a simple roommate arrangement soon evolved into something deeper. Craig, an engineer with long work hours, appreciated my active lifestyle—whether it was biking through the countryside, walking his dog, or helping him build a picnic table. But the moment that changed everything? A dirt bike ride that made him realize I was different from anyone he’d met before. This episode is about the small moments that shape relationships—the conversations, the shared experiences, and the unexpected twists that lead to something lasting. Join me as Craig shares his side of the story, revealing details I never knew until years later. It’s a reminder that life’s best surprises often come when we least expect them.

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs! I'm Dawn Klem, and today, I’m sharing the story of how I met my husband—from my perspective. Next time, you’ll hear the story from his point of view. But before we get to that moment, I want to take you back to my early days in Portland, Maine. It was a time of transition, self-discovery, and new beginnings. After moving into my own apartment, I found myself truly living alone for the first time—learning who I was outside of the military, outside of marriage, and outside of everything I had known before. From long walks along the Eastern Promenade to unexpected adventures—like signing up for acting lessons—I embraced the chance to explore new possibilities. And little did I know, one decision would lead me straight to the person who would change my life forever. So join me as I reflect on those pivotal moments, the lessons learned, and the journey that brought me to where I am today.

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs! I'm Dawn Klem, and today, I’m sharing a story about resilience, change, and the unexpected twists that shape our lives. Thirty years ago, I married my husband, I posted a handmade wedding invitation—a reminder of a milestone anniversary. That simple post sparked a flood of questions: How did you meet your husband? It’s a story worth telling, but before I can share that chapter, I need to take you back to an earlier one—the moment I knew I had to leave my first marriage and start over. This episode is about that turning point. It’s about moving to Cape Cod, finding strength in the incredible nurses who became my support system, and making the difficult decision to walk away. It’s about the journey to Portland, Maine, where a chance encounter in a hospital gift shop led to a new job, a new home, and a fresh start. And, of course, there’s the unexpected twist—four weeks of roses from someone who wasn’t ready to let go. So join me as I reflect on the lessons learned, the people who helped me along the way, and the power of tenacity in shaping our lives.  

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs! I'm Dawn Klem, and today, we’re continuing the story of my dad, Nicholas Ferro—a man whose resilience shaped not only his own life but mine as well. In part one, we explored his difficult childhood, the loss of his mother, and the struggles he faced growing up. Now, in part two, we follow his journey into adulthood—his decision to enlist in the Army during World War II, his early marriage, and the challenges that came with navigating life after the war. From his deep commitment to his faith to the heartbreak of divorce, my dad’s story is one of perseverance, sacrifice, and unwavering dedication to family. But this episode isn’t just about his hardships. It’s about the ways he found purpose—his involvement in the community, his passion for helping others, and the legacy he left behind. And, of course, there’s the unexpected twist involving my grandfather, the mafia, and a restaurant that mysteriously disappeared overnight. So join me as we dive deeper into my dad’s life, the lessons he taught me, and the moments that still resonate today.  

Welcome to Milkweed and Monarchs! I'm Dawn Klem, and today, we’re diving into part two of my unforgettable year in Iceland—a story of unexpected challenges, personal growth, and a moment that forever changed my perspective. If you listened to part one, you know my time in Iceland was full of adventure—from breathtaking landscapes to friendships that shaped my journey. But not every experience was easy. In this episode, I’ll share the difficult realities of military life, the struggle of navigating an uncomfortable living situation, and a shocking series of events that tested my sense of duty and fairness. From a harrowing glacier hike to the pressures of military regulations, this story sheds light on a different side of my time in Iceland. And, as I reflect on the lessons learned, I can’t help but draw connections to the world we live in today. So join me as I unpack the moments that made an impact—and the perspectives that still resonate, decades later.