Miss Me?
by BBC Sounds
Join longtime friends Miquita Oliver & Jordan Stephens for their twice a week catch-ups, discussing everything from the highs and lows of their lives to the biggest cultural moments of the week. Every Monday, Miquita and Jordan will throw the show open and invite questions on a theme; indie sleaze, orgasms, lies… Then on Thursdays, they’ll pick apart the world around them with unfiltered conversation on everything from intimacy to interiors, from exercise to elections. Email: [email protected]: 08000 304 090 (+44 8000 304 090 from outside the UK) Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds
Episodes
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Listen Bitch! Class… Can you ever REALLY move?
Miquita and Jordan answer your questions on CLASS. Working class, middle class, upper class, and everything in between. They discuss when they realised what class they were born into and how that’s changed throughout their lives. And… do celebrities consider themselves a class of their own? They...
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What’s my age (gap relationship) again?
Good news - Lena Dunham’s Girls is coming back! Bad news - are women ‘broken’? Miquita and Jordan have a lot to say on both these topics. From being inspired by the TV antics of female friendships in New York, to being curious about the words Smashing Pumpkins’ Billy Corgan used to discuss his...
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Listen Bitch! Cartoons... Lola Bunny is a BABE
Miquita remembers how Pinocchio scarred her for life, and Jordan is shocked to learn the original fairytales were even darker. Jordan is also back on his Space Jam bullshit and deep dives how the show changed the course of his life. He reflects on what Lola Bunny taught us about strong…
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Divorce, empaths and ethical porn
Miquita shares how she helped Lily through a high-stakes divorce. They’re hard. And horrible. So Jordan asks why it’s easier to get married than go through the legal drama of separation. And a heads up that in this episode we talk about sexual themes you might find distressing. Do take care when...
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Listen Bitch! TV Series - Which character would you be?
Miquita and Jordan gleefully chat about their favourite TV series moments whilst answering your questions. They discuss the shows that raised us, the ones that aged like milk, and why our perspectives completely shift when we watch them through adult eyes. They get brutally honest about Sex and…
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Amy Winehouse & Oasis: Double standards of sex & drugs & rock’n’roll
Miquita and Jordan do not hold back on how the press vultures came at Amy, more so because she happened to be a female pop star. Oasis did not suffer the same scrutiny. Yet the raw genius of Amy Winehouse's Back to Black still stands, 20 years on. She deserved better. Jordan gets Ally of the Year...
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Listen Bitch! Lies - Have you ever panic lied?
Is lying ever kind in relationships? If you were being cheated on, would you want to hear the truth? Miquita and Jordan assess how that’s played out in their past relationships. And - be honest now - did you just make up an excuse not to go out? Does that even count as a lie? Miquita Oliver and...
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Dissecting Celebrity Traitors, and the Cornell 7 Story
Celebrity Traitors, thank you. Oh, the unbridled joy of watching people actively deceive each other for entertainment in a Scottish castle, even if one of those celebs (Amol) blatantly disregarded the advice that Jordan texted him. Needed that lightness though to counteract the heaviness of the...
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Listen Bitch! Death - Grief is a language we all speak
In this Listen Bitch! Q&A episode, Miquita and Jordan answer your questions about death. Sounds heavy we know, and it does get emotional, but as we all face the inevitable together there’s so much joy and wisdom to be felt too. Get bonus content and recommendations for things to watch or read or...
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We May Destroy the BBC
Look, relationships are complicated. Yes, we had a thing with the BBC, then we left the BBC, but we never stopped loving the BBC. Miquita and Jordan get into the implications for TV culture with this latest round of BBC cuts. They also talk about why reading is the most dangerous thing you can do...
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Listen Bitch! Do We Have Chemistry?
Is it a spark? Something to be wary of? Or simply science? Miquita and Jordan answer your questions about ‘chemistry’ in any way you felt like interpreting it. Is that feeling when you click with someone pure chemistry to be trusted, or something else? And will the periodic table even get a…
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Sheeran, Strictly & SNL UK
There’s apologies, and then there’s apologies… Jordan and Miquita debate the politics around Ed Sheeran saying sorry on stage after his support acts left his Loop tour in solidarity with Macklemore, who was previously removed from Ed’s line-up by US stadium owner Robert Kraft. There’s been a lot...
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Listen Bitch! What’s Your Best Era?
We really didn’t know where this one would go but thanks Miss Me? listeners, as ever the questions being asked on ‘eras of time’ are iconic. From whether the 90s really were the best, to whether calling everything an ‘era’ now has diluted the power of that word. Somewhere along the way Miquita…
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Macklemore & Ed Sheeran Situation
NB: This episode was recorded before Ed Sheeran released this statement about Macklemore leaving his current tour https://www.instagram.com/p/DdT-6KGAtuI/?img_index=1 In the week that a US stadium owner had Macklemore removed from Ed Sheeran’s tour, Jordan (who’s known Ed for years) and Miquita…
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Men, Misogyny and the Manosphere | Live at LushFest
This bonus episode of Miss Me? Is brought to you by Lush. Jordan and Miquita take to the stage for a special live recording of Miss Me? at Lush Fest 2026 - https://lushfest.lush.com , exploring the rise of the manosphere, misogyny online and what it's doing to the way we connect with one another....
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Listen Bitch! Games
This week Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens go deep on your questions around games, covering many different meanings of the word. Do you play well? Does your family play well together? Is love a game to be played? Don’t panic, of course Monopoly gets mentioned as does its surprising origin…
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An Appreciation of Fearne Cotton and Monty Don
An apology on Miss Me? led to Miquita joining Fearne Cotton for her latest Happy Place festival, plus Jordan and Keets react to Monty Don’s decision to leave Gardener’s World. And why was it the books we consider children’s classics all got written around about the same time? Miquita Oliver and...
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Are Rites of Passage Right?
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about rites of passage. From that first rave, that first trying to talk your way into a club underage, to losing your virginity. As always your questions take the lead, and get all of us thinking about how we mark time and if we’ve got our...
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Pets are Family
The painful truth of loving a pet gets explored as Miquita Oliver returns from holiday to join Jordan Stephens for their weekly catch-up. Alongside the pain is the utter soul-soothing balm of having a pet as part of the family. Plus is carnival actually Black Christmas? Jordan and Miquita had...
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Listen Bitch! What Even is a Beauty Standard? (with Sabrina Elba)
Jordan Stephens and Sabrina Elba are back to dissect what society deems to be beauty. Is it subjective? Do we just mean healthy? How much have social media filters skewed what we think of how we look? As always, there’s a lot to unpack. Next week Miquita is back with Jordan and after your voice...
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A Guide to Cinema Etiquette (with Sabrina Elba)
Jordan Stephens calls up his friend Sabrina Dhowre Elba to swap tales about people who just don’t shut up in the cinema, and if there can be anything more effective than shhh. They also share their experience of watching The Odyssey (not in IMAX), and go into what led Sabrina to swap a potential...
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Listen Bitch! Sorry I’m Late (with Zawe Ashton)
Jordan Stephens and Zawe Ashton get into your questions about being on time. Is it something you stress about if you’re always running late, or does it bug you if people don’t show up on time? Jordan talks about how time blindness is an aspect of his ADHD that has impacted his life, while Zawe...
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What Your Birth Story Says About You (with Zawe Ashton)
Jordan Stephens and Zawe Ashton share everything they know about how they came into the world, the silence and the screams, and the surprising similarities between their birth stories. They talk about how their birth impacted them in adulthood, and whether certain traits can be linked back to…
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Listen Bitch! Is Everything OK With Your Meal?
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions on RESTAURANTS. From when it’s OK to complain or not, and what they’d change about the dining out experience. And is it about time we normalised that table for one? Next week the theme is BEING ON TIME with Zawe Ashton guesting with Jordan....
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Has Festival Season Turned to Dust?
Have you ever been visited by an incubus? The sleep sirens come out to play as Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens discuss the effects of insomnia, and how sleep paralysis has haunted them both. And as we slide into another heatwave, they take in the changing dusty landscapes of some festivals,...
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Listen Bitch! I’m Not Doing That Anymore
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens get into why culture glamorises some bad habits, and not others, and when things get embarrassing should you stay home? Oh, and then there was that time Jordan threw a fish at Jason Derulo and still asked to be one of his back-up dancers. Next week the theme is...
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Celebrity Culture From Both Sides
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens talk about celebrity fandoms, and whether it’s normal to idolise certain people. Miquita discusses her night out with Lily Allen seeing The Oresteia, while Jordan talks about Christoper Nolan’s The Odyssey. They also go into which singers and bands they obsessed...
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Listen Bitch! Alcohol is the Worst One
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens debate your questions around the substances people take to escape from the world at times, and Miquita reveals she only recently dated soberly for the first time. They get into why alcohol is legal while other mind-altering things are not, and why many of us can...
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Unschool Yourself
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens reflect on the weirdness of making a podcast at times, and what they think schools should actually teach. They also get into why school didn't work for them and the lessons that could've made it better. Producer: Natalie Jamieson Technical Producer: Oliver...
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Listen Bitch! Do You Believe in Magick?
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about magic, delving into all its meanings and interpretations and wonder. Abracadabra doesn't mean what you maybe think it does… Next week the theme is DRUGS. Send your voice note questions on WhatsApp https://wa.me/447849030711 Follow the...
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When Life Gets Peak, Head to Them
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens discuss why he's been wild camping this week, and the mixed emotions he felt walking in the heart of the British countryside. They also debate why football offers a different aspect to male friendships, and they pick apart the best and worst things the 2026…
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Listen Bitch! Fingering the Void
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about foreplay. Expect sexual language and imagery, and frankly a very useful surfing analogy. Next time the topic is MAGIC so send your voice note questions to https://wa.me/447849030711 Find us on Instagram and TikTok @missme.4eva Explore...
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The Great Forgetting
An apology to Fearne Cotton from Miquita and a reassessing of Ali G from Jordan and some love all round for Jude Bellingham. Find us on Instagram and TikTok @missme.4eva Explore the Miss Me? Library of culture recommendations & more at patreon.com/missme Producer: Natalie Jamieson Technical...
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Listen Bitch! Clappers & Anthems
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about those songs that make a summer. Find us on Instagram and TikTok @missme.4eva Next week we'd love your voice note questions on FOREPLAY send them here https://wa.me/447849030711 Explore the Miss Me? Library of culture recommendations &...
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You’ve Done Nothing Wrong (with Simon Amstell)
Simon Amstell joins Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens as they reminisce about friendship, career validation and vanity. Plus the Miss Me? Library is now open for subscribers - go to Patreon.com/missme Producer: Natalie Jamieson Technical Producer: Danny Pape Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid...
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Listen Bitch! Is This Cultural Terrorism?
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about stag and hen do’s. Producer: Natalie Jamieson Technical Producer: Danny Pape Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Video Editor: Danny Pape Production Coordinator: Tom Jackson Executive Producers: Ellie Clifford & Dino Sofos Miss Me? is…
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The Rejection Olympics
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens share their gig reviews of Lily’s West End Girl and Harry Styles’ residency at Wembley, plus is ghosting the new rejection olympics? On socials @missme.4eva Producer: Natalie Jamieson Technical Producer: Danny Pape Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Video…
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Listen Bitch! Everything is an Invitation
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about invitations. Producer: Natalie Jamieson Technical Producer: Jasper Fell-Clarke Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Video Editor: Danny Pape Production Coordinator: Tom Jackson Executive Producers: Ellie Clifford & Dino Sofos Miss Me?…
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Sommar Solstice
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens celebrate Dua & Callum’s love story, fatherhood and they go deep on Myles Smith’s fame. Producer: Natalie Jamieson Technical Producer: Oliver Geraghty and Jasper Fell-Clark Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Video Editor: Danny Pape Production Coordinator: Tom...
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Listen Bitch! Confidentially Incompetent
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about confidence. New link to send us your Listen Bitch voicenote questions! https://wa.me/447849030711 Weekly topic reveals now @missme.4eva on instagram Producer: Natalie Jamieson Technical Producer: Oliver Geraghty Assistant Producer:...
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Multiple Rafikis
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens welcome everyone into a new era of Miss Me? & look at cultural new beginnings. Producer: Natalie Jamieson Technical Producer: Oliver Geraghty Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid Video Editor: Jack Boswell Production Coordinator: Tom Jackson Executive Producers:...
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Listen Bitch! Colour Outside The Lines
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about hobbies. Next week, we want to hear your questions about CONFIDENCE. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: [email protected]. This episode contains very strong language and adult...
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A New Era
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens reveal the next Miss Me? evolution plus memorable cultural exits. This episode contains very strong language and adult themes. Credits:Producer: Natalie JamiesonTechnical Producer: Danny Pape Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaid and Scarlett HuttonProduction...
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Listen Bitch! Boundaryless
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about boundaries. Next week, we want to hear your questions about HOBBIES. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: [email protected]. This episode contains very strong language and adult...
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Joseph’s Fiennes Now
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens discuss Lily and JADE at Mighty Hoopla, Dear England & actionable change. This episode contains very strong language, adult themes, and maternal death in childbirth. Credits:Producer: Natalie JamiesonTechnical Producer: Oliver Geraghty Assistant Producers…
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Listen Bitch! Taste Buds
Miquita Oliver and Zawe Ashton answer your questions about taste. Next week, we want to hear your questions about BOUNDARIES. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: [email protected]. This episode contains very strong language and adult themes....
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Connell’s Chain
Miquita Oliver and Zawe Ashton discuss making sex seem real on screen, and how much football means to them. This episode contains very strong language and adult themes. Credits:Producer: Natalie JamiesonTechnical Producer: Oliver Geraghty Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaidProduction Coordinator:...
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Listen Bitch! Roof Rack Envy
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about cars. Next week, we want to hear your questions about TASTE. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: [email protected]. This episode contains very strong language and adult themes....
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Just Take a Lover
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens discuss dating apps, Monty Don, flowers and Loose Men. This episode contains very strong language and adult themes. Credits:Producer: Natalie JamiesonTechnical Producer: Oliver Geraghty Assistant Producer: Caillin McDaidProduction Coordinator: Rose…
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Listen Bitch! Rizzle-elagwan
Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about languages. Next week, we want to hear your questions about CARS. Please send us a voice note on WhatsApp: 08000 30 40 90. Or, if you like, send us an email: [email protected]. This episode contains very strong language and adult…
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About this show
Join longtime friends Miquita Oliver & Jordan Stephens for their twice a week catch-ups, discussing everything from the highs and lows of their lives to the biggest cultural moments of the week.
Every Monday, Miquita and Jordan will throw the show open and invite questions on a theme; indie sleaze, orgasms, lies… Then on Thursdays, they’ll pick apart the world around them with unfiltered conversation on everything from intimacy to interiors, from exercise to elections.
Email: [email protected]: 08000 304 090 (+44 8000 304 090 from outside the UK)
Miss Me? is a Persephonica production for BBC Sounds
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