Modern Parenthood with Dr. Dorette Noorhasan

Dr. Noorhasan sits down with Haley and Abby to share their journey as a same-sex couple navigating fertility treatments, family dynamics, and the challenges of building a family in Arkansas. From coming out and finding support to becoming parents and creating the life they always dreamed of, they offer an honest, heartfelt look at LGBTQ+ parenthood.Whether you're exploring your own path to parenthood or simply looking to better understand the experiences of LGBTQ+ families, this conversation is full of insight, hope, and practical advice.#ModernParenthood #PrideMonth #LGBTQParenting #FertilityJourney #TwoMoms #FamilyBuilding #ParenthoodJourney #LGBTQFamilies #FamilyPlanning #ModernParenthoodPodcast

Infertility impacts more than just your body, it can take a major toll on your mental health.In this episode, we discuss how anxiety, depression, grief, and stress affect patients navigating fertility treatment. They explain when therapy may be enough, when medication should be considered, and why Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) is often one of the most effective tools for managing infertility-related stress.You'll also learn about Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), EMDR for trauma, mindfulness techniques, and how setting realistic expectations can help protect your emotional well-being throughout your fertility journey.00:00 Introduction: Therapy vs. Medication for Fertility Stress00:51 When Mental Health Symptoms Require More Support01:54 Why Therapy and Medication Together Often Work Best02:24 What Is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)?04:10 The Importance of Realistic Expectations in Fertility Treatment05:51 Can Therapy Improve Pregnancy Outcomes?06:25 Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) Explained08:18 How EMDR Helps Process Trauma and Loss08:54 Mindfulness for Fertility Stress and Anxiety09:26 Biofeedback and Neurofeedback Therapies10:02 Which Therapy Works Best for Most Patients?11:01 Final Mental Health Advice for Fertility Patients

This Mental Health Awareness Month we welcomed Dr. Kathy Raju on the show. Dr. Raju is a board-certified psychiatrist with over 27 years of experience and she came on the show to discuss the intersection of mental health and infertility. So let’s start by just taking a look at stress:Understanding the Layers of StressInfertility treatments can introduce unique types of chronic stress that can take a heavy toll on individuals and couples. These are: Emotional Stress: This often stems from the intense longing for a child and the self-imposed expectations patients place on themselves throughout the process.Relationship Stress: The process can lead to feelings of guilt, misunderstandings between partners, and a sense of being "less than".Financial Stress: For many, treatments are not fully covered by insurance, leading patients to take out second loans to afford laboratory work, appointments, and procedures.Workplace Stress: Approximately 84% of Americans report work stress, which is often compounded by the need to miss work for frequent medical appointments.A particularly grueling period is the 10-to-14-day "waiting period" between an embryo transfer and a pregnancy test, which many patients describe as the most stressful phase of treatment. It may surprise you to hear that studies have shown that the stress levels of women undergoing fertility treatments are comparable to those undergoing treatment for cancer or cardiac rehabilitation.While stress is common, it is vital to recognize when it evolves into clinical anxiety or depression. Statistics show that 80% of infertile women report symptoms of depression or anxiety, yet less than 7% of those experiencing suicidal thoughts seek treatment.Medical professionals use specific criteria to identify these conditions:Generalized Anxiety Disorder: Excessive daily worry occurring for at least six months that impacts daily functioning and causes physical symptoms like muscle tension, headaches, or changes in sleep and appetite.Major Depression: Often identified by the mnemonic SIGECAPS:Sadness or melancholy.Interest loss (anhedonia).Guilt or worthlessness.Energy (typically low energy).Concentration difficulties.Appetite or weight changes.Psychomotor agitation (restlessness) or retardation (feeling slowed down).Suicidality.Coping Strategies and SupportManaging the psychological impact of infertility requires a holistic and self-compassionate approach. There are a number of ways as discussed by Dr. Raju: Setting Boundaries: It is healthy to decline invitations to events that may be triggering, such as baby showers or holiday parties where questions about family planning are likely.Practicing Responses: Having rehearsed phrases for intrusive questions can help couples feel more in control during social interactions.Self-Care and Connection: Focusing on mindfulness, yoga, healthy living, and finding small "victories" or joys can help maintain a sense of gratitude.Seeking Professional Help: It is crucial to maintain an open dialogue with medical providers regarding emotional health and to seek professional psychiatric or counseling support when symptoms impact daily life.The challenges of reproductive health are considered "reproductive trauma," and acknowledging the accompanying grief is an essential step toward healing. Whether the path leads to spontaneous pregnancy, successful IVF, or other forms of parenthood like adoption, prioritizing mental health remains a vital component of the process, and something I recommend to all my patients.As always, I want to remind you: you’re not alone.If you're navigating your own fertility journey and would like a private consultation from Dr. Noorhasan, you can email her at [email protected] DR. NOORHASAN:IG:   www.instagram.com/dorettemd  TikTok:   www.tiktok.com/dorettemd  Youtube:    www.youtube.com/fertilitydoctordorettenoor5273  Facebook:   www.facebook.com/dorettemd  X: www.x.com/DoretteMDWORK WITH DR. NOORHASAN:themodernparenthoodpodcast@gmail.comthemodernparenthoodpodcast.com#IVF #FertilityMyths #EmbryoTransfer #IVFMyths #OldWivesTales #FertilityDoctor #ReproductiveHealth #IVFJourney #FertilityTips #OvarianHyperstimulation

Any expectant mom wants to do the best they can for their future baby by optimizing their health physically. But what about mentally? Today we have Dr. Raju to discuss the often-ignored topic of mental health for those hoping to expect.DISCLAIMER: Please note that the content of this podcast does not establish a physician-patient relationship and I encourage you to speak with your treating provider.If you have questions you'd like Dr. Noorhasan to address, drop her a line at [email protected] you're navigating your own fertility journey and would like a private consultation from Dr. Noorhasan, you can email her at [email protected] DR. NOORHASAN:IG: https://www.instagram.com/dorettemd/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dorettemdYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@fertilitydoctordorettenoor5273Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DoretteMD/X: https://x.com/DoretteMDWORK WITH DR. NOORHASAN:themodernparenthoodpodcast@gmail.comthemodernparenthoodpodcast.com

What does it look like to test for sperm and do a semen analysis? Why is it important? These are some of things we look at in today's episodeDISCLAIMER: Please note that the content of this podcast does not establish a physician-patient relationship and I encourage you to speak with your treating provider.If you have questions you'd like Dr. Noorhasan to address, drop her a line at [email protected] you're navigating your own fertility journey and would like a private consultation from Dr. Noorhasan, you can email her at [email protected].

Male infertility is more common than most people think — and it IS treatable. In this episode of the Modern Parenthood Podcast, Dr. Dorette Noorhasan is joined by urologist and male infertility specialist Dr. Andrew Sun to break down exactly what treatment options are available after a diagnosis.Over 50–60% of infertility cases involve a male factor. The sooner both partners are evaluated, the better — and this episode is your guide to understanding what comes next.DISCLAIMER: Please note that the content of this podcast does not establish a physician-patient relationship and I encourage you to speak with your treating provider.If you have questions you'd like Dr. Noorhasan to address, drop her a line at [email protected] you're navigating your own fertility journey and would like a private consultation from Dr. Noorhasan, you can email her at [email protected].

Think infertility is just a women's issue? Think again. In this eye-opening episode of the Modern Parenthood Podcast, Dr. Dorette Noorhasan is joined by Dr. Andrew Sun. A trained urologist who specializes exclusively in male infertility and sexual medicine to break down everything men need to know about their reproductive health.From decoding a semen analysis to understanding how testosterone therapy can secretly destroy sperm production, Dr. Sun explains the science in plain language. They cover hormones, genetics, lifestyle factors, heat exposure, anti-sperm antibodies, and why that T-clinic down the street might be working against your fertility goals.Whether you're just starting your family planning journey or have been trying for years, this episode is essential listening for both partners.DISCLAIMER: Please note that the content of this podcast does not establish a physician-patient relationship and I encourage you to speak with your treating provider.If you have questions you'd like Dr. Noorhasan to address, drop her a line at [email protected] you're navigating your own fertility journey and would like a private consultation from Dr. Noorhasan, you can email her at [email protected] DR. NOORHASAN:IG: https://www.instagram.com/dorettemd/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dorettemdYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@fertilitydoctordorettenoor5273Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DoretteMD/X: https://x.com/DoretteMDWORK WITH DR. NOORHASAN:themodernparenthoodpodcast@gmail.comthemodernparenthoodpodcast.com

Think egg donation depletes your eggs? Worried your baby might look like the surrogate? Concerned surrogates are only doing it for the money? Think again.In this episode, board-certified reproductive endocrinologist Dr. Noorhasan tackles the biggest myths surrounding donor eggs, donor sperm, and gestational surrogacy drawing on nearly two decades of practice and her personal journey as a parent through surrogacy.You'll learn how egg donation actually works, why genetics are determined by the egg and sperm (not the carrier), how bonding after surrogacy really unfolds, and how to navigate the decision of telling your child about their conception story. An honest, warm, and empowering conversation for anyone navigating the world of third-party reproduction and IVF.DISCLAIMER: Please note that the content of this podcast does not establish a physician-patient relationship and I encourage you to speak with your treating provider.If you have questions you'd like Dr. Noorhasan to address, drop her a line at [email protected] you're navigating your own fertility journey and would like a private consultation from Dr. Noorhasan, you can email her at [email protected] DR. NOORHASAN:IG: https://www.instagram.com/dorettemd/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dorettemdYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@fertilitydoctordorettenoor5273Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DoretteMD/X: https://x.com/DoretteMDWORK WITH DR. NOORHASAN:themodernparenthoodpodcast@gmail.comthemodernparenthoodpodcast.com

Have questions about donor egg, donor sperm, or surrogacy? In this episode of Modern Parenthood, fertility doctor and author of Miracle Baby, Dr. Noorhasan  shares everything you need to know about third party reproduction. Including her own personal journey through IVF, donor sperm, and gestational surrogacy.Whether your doctor has recommended donor eggs, you're considering donor sperm for IUI or IVF, or you're exploring gestational surrogacy, this episode walks you through every step of the process with clarity, compassion, and zero judgment.DISCLAIMER: Please note that the content of this podcast does not establish a physician-patient relationship and I encourage you to speak with your treating provider.If you have questions you'd like Dr. Noorhasan to address, drop her a line at [email protected] you're navigating your own fertility journey and would like a private consultation from Dr. Noorhasan, you can email her at [email protected] DR. NOORHASAN:IG: https://www.instagram.com/dorettemd/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dorettemdYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@fertilitydoctordorettenoor5273Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DoretteMD/X: https://x.com/DoretteMDWORK WITH DR. NOORHASAN:themodernparenthoodpodcast@gmail.comthemodernparenthoodpodcast.com

Are pineapple cores, McDonald's French fries, and Brazil nuts really the secret to IVF success? Fertility specialist Dr. Noorhasan sets the record straight on the most common IVF myths and old wives tales.In this episode you'll learn the truth about: Pineapple core and bromelain for embryo implantation McDonald's French fries and ovarian hyperstimulation syndrome Brazil nuts and selenium for fertility Lucky socks and lucky underwear for embryo transfer Bed rest after embryo transfer or IUI Stop stressing about what you did or didn't do. If it's going to work, it works because of the science.DISCLAIMER: Please note that the content of this podcast does not establish a physician-patient relationship and I encourage you to speak with your treating provider.If you have questions you'd like Dr. Noorhasan to address, drop her a line at [email protected] you're navigating your own fertility journey and would like a private consultation from Dr. Noorhasan, you can email her at [email protected] DR. NOORHASAN:IG: https://www.instagram.com/dorettemd/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dorettemdYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@fertilitydoctordorettenoor5273Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DoretteMD/X: https://x.com/DoretteMDWORK WITH DR. NOORHASAN:themodernparenthoodpodcast@gmail.comthemodernparenthoodpodcast.com

Confused about fertility treatments? This episode breaks down IUI, ovulation induction, and IVF in plain language. Including who each treatment is right for, what genetic embryo testing really means, and the biggest IVF myths debunked. Stop waiting and start understanding your path to parenthood.DISCLAIMER: Please note that the content of this podcast does not establish a physician-patient relationship and I encourage you to speak with your treating provider.If you have questions you'd like Dr. Noorhasan to address, drop her a line at [email protected] you're navigating your own fertility journey and would like a private consultation from Dr. Noorhasan, you can email her at [email protected] DR. NOORHASAN:IG: https://www.instagram.com/dorettemd/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dorettemdYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@fertilitydoctordorettenoor5273Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DoretteMD/X: https://x.com/DoretteMDWORK WITH DR. NOORHASAN:themodernparenthoodpodcast@gmail.comthemodernparenthoodpodcast.com

Wondering when to see a fertility specialist or what happens when you do? Dr. Noorhasan breaks down exactly who should seek help and when, walks through the 3 key tests used to evaluate your reproductive tract and reminds you that you're not alone on this journey. Whether you're just starting to ask questions or ready to take action, this episode gives you the answers you need.DISCLAIMER: Please note that the content of this podcast does not establish a physician-patient relationship and I encourage you to speak with your treating provider.If you have questions you'd like Dr. Noorhasan to address, drop her a line at [email protected] you're navigating your own fertility journey and would like a private consultation from Dr. Noorhasan, you can email her at [email protected] DR. NOORHASAN:IG: https://www.instagram.com/dorettemd/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dorettemdYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@fertilitydoctordorettenoor5273Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DoretteMD/X: https://x.com/DoretteMDWORK WITH DR. NOORHASAN:themodernparenthoodpodcast@gmail.comthemodernparenthoodpodcast.com

 Struggling to get pregnant? You're not alone. Learn when to see a fertility specialist, what your first appointment looks like, and what tests reveal about your reproductive health. Chapters:00:00:00 - Introduction: Amber's Story00:01:28 - When Should You See a Fertility Specialist?00:02:51 - How to Choose the Right Fertility Doctor00:03:47 - What to Expect at Your First Appointment00:06:34 - Egg Quantity & Quality Explained00:09:07 - How to Know If You're Ovulating00:11:39 - Understanding Sperm & Semen Analysis00:14:21 - DNA Fragmentation: What It Means00:15:27 - Testing the Reproductive Tract00:17:10 - Saline Infusion Sonogram & Uterine Abnormalities00:22:10 - How Thyroid Health Affects Fertility00:23:24 - Closing: You Are Not AloneIf you’re struggling to conceive, curious about IVF and fertility, or looking for answers as you start your journey to building your family, Dr. Dorette Noorhasan is a fertility specialist who's ready to help you learn about your reproductive health.Whether you're an established member of the TTC (Trying To Conceive Club) or are just starting out on your journey to having a family, you don't have to navigate infertility alone; Dr. Noorhasan offers the expert infertility support and medical guidance you’ve been searching for.Dr. Noorhasan combines compassionate care with deep expertise in ovulation induction, Preimplantation Genetic Testing (PGT), gestational surrogacy, and reproductive endocrinology so you can empower your path to parenthood.And not only is Dr. Noorhasan an expert, she's been in your shoes. After five cycles of IVF before ultimately becoming a parent through gestational surrogacy, she knows what the disappointments and joys look like on the path to conceiving your miracle baby.Whether you're looking for an introduction into infertility, egg freezing and modern fertility preservation or you're interested in deeper topics like advanced IVF protocols, IUI and ICSI treatments, or AI-guided embryo selection, Dr. Noorhasan provides the evidence-based support so you can make informed decisions with your healthcare providers about your fertility journey.DISCLAIMER: Please note that the content of this podcast does not establish a physician-patient relationship and I encourage you to speak with your treating provider.If you have questions you'd like Dr. Noorhasan to address, drop her a line at [email protected] you're navigating your own fertility journey and would like a private consultation from Dr. Noorhasan, you can email her at [email protected] DR. NOORHASAN: IG: https://www.instagram.com/dorettemd/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dorettemdYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@fertilitydoctordorettenoor5273Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DoretteMD/X: https://x.com/DoretteMDWORK WITH DR. NOORHASAN: themodernparenthoodpodcast@gmail.comthemodernparenthoodpodcast.com

Ever wondered when the best time to conceive actually is? In this episode, Dr. Dorette Noorhasan breaks down the menstrual cycle in simple terms. explaining the two key phases, how to pinpoint your ovulation window. She also covers why your lifestyle habits like sleep, diet, and avoiding substances matter more than you might think, and how the health of both your eggs and your partner's sperm plays a role in conception. DISCLAIMER: Please note that the content of this podcast does not establish a physician-patient relationship and I encourage you to speak with your treating provider.If you have questions you'd like Dr. Noorhasan to address, drop her a line at [email protected] you're navigating your own fertility journey and would like a private consultation from Dr. Noorhasan, you can email her at [email protected] DR. NOORHASAN:IG: https://www.instagram.com/dorettemd/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dorettemdYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@fertilitydoctordorettenoor5273Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DoretteMD/X: https://x.com/DoretteMDWORK WITH DR. NOORHASAN:themodernparenthoodpodcast@gmail.comthemodernparenthoodpodcast.com

In this podcast episode, fertility specialist Dr. Dorette Noorhassan shares her personal journey through infertility, detailing her experiences with egg retrieval, surrogacy, and the emotional challenges faced along the way. She emphasizes the importance of understanding the menstrual cycle, making lifestyle changes to enhance fertility, and debunking common myths surrounding conception. The episode aims to educate listeners on reproductive health and provide support for those navigating similar struggles.00:00:00 - Introduction to Reproductive Health00:00:47 - Personal Journey Through Infertility00:04:12 -The Challenges of Egg Retrieval and Surrogacy00:06:56 - Finding the Right Surrogate00:10:02 - Understanding the Menstrual Cycle00:13:46 - Lifestyle Changes for Fertility00:16:52 - Debunking Fertility MythsIf you’re struggling to conceive, curious about IVF and fertility, or looking for answers as you start your journey to building your family, Dr. Dorette Noorhasan is a fertility specialist who's ready to help you learn about your reproductive health.Whether you're an established member of the TTC (Trying To Conceive Club) or are just starting out on your journey to having a family, you don't have to navigate infertility alone; Dr. Noorhasan offers the expert infertility support and medical guidance you’ve been searching for.Dr. Noorhasan combines compassionate care with deep expertise in ovulation induction, Preimplantation Genetic Testing (PGT), gestational surrogacy, and reproductive endocrinology so you can empower your path to parenthood.And not only is Dr. Noorhasan an expert, she's been in your shoes. After five cycles of IVF before ultimately becoming a parent through gestational surrogacy, she knows what the disappointments and joys look like on the path to conceiving your miracle baby.Whether you're looking for an introduction into infertility, egg freezing and modern fertility preservation or you're interested in deeper topics like advanced IVF protocols, IUI and ICSI treatments, or AI-guided embryo selection, Dr. Noorhasan provides the evidence-based support so you can make informed decisions with your healthcare providers about your fertility journey.DISCLAIMER: Please note that the content of this podcast does not establish a physician-patient relationship and I encourage you to speak with your treating provider.If you have questions you'd like Dr. Noorhasan to address, drop her a line at [email protected] you're navigating your own fertility journey and would like a private consultation from Dr. Noorhasan, you can email her at [email protected] DR. NOORHASAN: IG: https://www.instagram.com/dorettemd/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dorettemdYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@fertilitydoctordorettenoor5273Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DoretteMD/X: https://x.com/DoretteMDWORK WITH DR. NOORHASAN: themodernparenthoodpodcast@gmail.comthemodernparenthoodpodcast.com

If you’re struggling to conceive, curious about IVF and fertility, or looking for answers as you start your journey to building your family, Dr. Dorette Noorhasan is a fertility specialist who's ready to help you learn about your reproductive health. Whether you're an established member of the TTC (Trying To Conceive Club) or are just starting out on your journey to having a family, you don't have to navigate infertility alone; Dr. Noorhasan offers the expert infertility support and medical guidance you’ve been searching for. Dr. Noorhasan combines compassionate care with deep expertise in ovulation induction, Preimplantation Genetic Testing, gestational surrogacy, and reproductive endocrinology so you can empower your path to parenthood. And not only is Dr. Noorhasan an expert, she's been in your shoes. After five cycles of IVF before ultimately becoming a parent through gestational surrogacy, she knows what the disappointments and joys look like on the path to conceiving your miracle baby.   Whether you're looking for an introduction into infertility, egg freezing and modern fertility preservation or you're interested in deeper topics like advanced IVF protocols, IUI and ICSI treatments, or AI-guided embryo selection, Dr. Noorhasan provides the evidence-based support so you can make informed decisions with your medical professionals about your fertility journey.If you’re struggling to conceive, curious about IVF and fertility, or looking for answers as you start your journey to building your family, Dr. Dorette Noorhasan is a fertility specialist who's ready to help you learn about your reproductive health. Whether you're an established member of the TTC (Trying To Conceive Club) or are just starting out on your journey to having a family, you don't have to navigate infertility alone; Dr. Noorhasan offers the expert infertility support and medical guidance you’ve been searching for. Dr. Noorhasan combines compassionate care with deep expertise in ovulation induction, Preimplantation Genetic Testing, gestational surrogacy, and reproductive endocrinology so you can empower your path to parenthood. And not only is Dr. Noorhasan an expert, she's been in your shoes. After five cycles of IVF before ultimately becoming a parent through gestational surrogacy, she knows what the disappointments and joys look like on the path to conceiving your miracle baby.   Whether you're looking for an introduction into infertility, egg freezing and modern fertility preservation or you're interested in deeper topics like advanced IVF protocols, IUI and ICSI treatments, or AI-guided embryo selection, Dr. Noorhasan provides the evidence-based support so you can make informed decisions with your healthcare providers about your fertility journey.If you have questions you'd like Dr. Noorhasan to answer on the podcast, you can drop her a line at [email protected].