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Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater

by Mr. Pick Me & The Manhater

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Episodes

  1. I Wanna Marry My Mommy!

    A corn star explains that misogyny is women's fault for not being as nice as your mom...and the comments agree? Let's dissect this. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!): https://www.patreon.com/mrpickmeandthemanhater Merch Store:https://www.bonfire.com/store/mr-pick-me--the-manhater/...

  2. 5 First Date Questions To Expose a Misogynist

    Chesko and Regan break down a creator's five questions you can slip into a first date to figure out if the guy across from you is quietly a misogynist. Then Regan introduces Chesko to the term "alpine divorce."Pink Perspective: https://www.instagram.com/the.pink.perspective/Support us on Patreon...

  3. LET ME BUY YOU THINGS!!!

    A "relationship coach" makes a video about a woman who bought her own matcha. Regan and Chesko unpack what's actually going on from the unspoken script, the anger when it isn't followed, and why some men need women to be NPCs. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus...

  4. Fight Me Rumpelstiltskin!

    A rich guy tells women they're too ugly for his club, and Regan and Chesko trace where that kind of confidence actually comes from. As a bonus, we have technical difficulties, a dead AC unit, and four hours of clips that saved to nothing...and that's just the cold open. Support us on Patreon (and...

  5. Not All Men...Like Our Show (Happy 100th Episode!)

    For our 100th episode, Chesko and Regan decide to do something a little different and talk about the men who got "out." A Threads post asked guys who escaped the manosphere to what was the thing that did it and the answers worth checking out. We discuss the answers, what it cost them, and why the...

  6. Insecurefidence

    A guy in sunglasses indoors at night has "five facts women hate," and he wants you to know he's just the messenger. Regan and Chesko break down all five and find the same instruction hiding under every one of them...lower your standards. Along the way: why hypergamy isn't real, why "I could beat...

  7. TeAcHeRs WoRk FoR MEEEEE!!!

    A creator went viral for telling parents they can request IEP meetings during the summer and teachers pushed back. Chesko and Regan break down how quickly a reasonable take became an entitlement spiral, why "I'm the customer" is the wrong frame for literally any classroom, and how...

  8. God of War, Incel of Hate

    Men online are furious about the new God of War installment, where you play as Laufey (Kratos's wife and the character the entire series is built around), so naturally someone made an AI game called God of Laundry where she does dishes and changes diapers. Chesko and Regan connect the outrage to…

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  9. ”Why Doesn’t The Left Care About Men?”

    Chesko and Regan react to a viral clip from Dr. Mike's podcast in which a guest claims the left doesn't care about men's issues (including male loneliness, depression, and declining college enrollment). They push back hard, arguing that these problems are products of patriarchy, that feminists...

  10. Politics Is a Dealbreaker (And It Should Be)

    In this episode, Chesko and Regan dig into a clip from the Modern Wisdom Podcast about men and women's differing political views in relationships, using it as a springboard to discuss how voting reflects core values and morality, the myth that ethics require religion, and why women are…

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  11. Tomorrowland Today, Disney Jail Tomorrow

    Regan and Chesko discuss a viral video of a woman recounting her husband's Disney World meltdown after their stroller went missing. We dig into the red flags, the privilege baked into acting that way without consequences, and the unexpected turn the conversation takes when the poster responds to...

  12. Is This The Most Sexist Article Ever Written?

    Regan and Chesko break down what might be the most sexist article ever written, a New York Post hit piece on Greta Thunberg with a misleading headline implying she’s caught up in a Freedom Flotilla sex scandal she has nothing to do with. The article mocks her “short stint” in Israeli prison after...

  13. Six Foot, Six Figures, Six Excuses

    This week, Regan and Chesko tackle the strange male phenomenon of refusing feedback in the bedroom (and what speech and debate national champions can teach us about taking the note). Then a beach interview goes absurdly wrong when a woman dares to mention she likes scrawny guys, prompting the...

  14. Are You Worth A Coffee Date?

    Chesko and Regan dive into the great "coffee date debate" after a viral clip from the Girls Gotta Eat podcast sparked conversation online. They break down their own opinions as to what it really means when a guy asks you out for coffee, push back on the transactional framing of dating ("are you...

  15. The Bro Cruise (Sort Of)

    Chesko attempts to speed-run the viral "Bro Cruise" saga from Threads (a bachelor trip so chaotic it became internet legend) but naturally, he and Regan end up deep in tangents about holiday magic, parenting, privilege, and egg-laying Easter bunnies. Somehow it all makes sense...hopefully.…

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  16. The Metrosexual Panic of 2004

    This week, Chesko and Regan dive into a fascinating question posed by author Jason Pargin. "Why do women seem to do far fewer double-takes at attractive men in public than men do at women?" The conversations opens up into a discussion about grooming standards, the social pressure on women to...

  17. I Dress You Because I Love You

    Chesko and Regan kick off with some chaotic parent energy (haunted dolls, goblin accusations, and the recycling bin of shame) before diving into a viral video of a husband handing his wife a shirt to cover herself up. They break down why "he dresses you because he loves you" is a gateway to...

  18. Nice In Private, Insufferable In Public

    After some fun cold-open chaos to the show (as per usual) Chesko and Regan dove into the main topic: Timothy Chalamet's repeated, dismissive comments about ballet and opera. They unpacked how his remarks aren't just a bad take in isolation, but fit a broader pattern of men seeking masculine...

  19. U-S-A...MISO-GY-NY!!!

    This episode of Mr. Pick Me and the Man Hater kicks off with Chesko and Regan in a pre-show debate about whether Chesko's appeal is purely personality-based, before diving into their main topic: the US men's Olympic hockey team's gold medal win being overshadowed by misogynistic locker room...

  20. Men Aren’t The Villains...We Are

    In this week's lighter episode, Chesko and Regan take a break from the serious stuff and dive into a fun (and surprisingly self-reflective) conversation about what men find "attractive" in women's hobbies. Along the way, they sidetracked on everything from ghosts and psychics, to the joys and...

  21. Just Catfish Your Girlfriend, Bro

    Chesko and Reagan tackle the bizarre world of "loyalty tests" where dating coaches advise men to catfish their own girlfriends to test fidelity. They dissect why this advice is not just insecure but fundamentally manipulative, explore how influencers profit from terrible relationship guidance…

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  22. Women Made Me Terrible (You’re Welcome)

    Chesko and Regan react to a viral video claiming women are partly to blame for men being toxic because they "reward" bad behavior by sleeping with toxic exes while making "nice guys" wait. They discuss how these men knowingly weaponize manipulation as "dating advice," how the so-called niceness…

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  23. The World Is On Fire

    Chesko and Regan break from their usual format to address the urgent political crisis unfolding in America. They discuss recent ICE actions, the arrests of journalists Don Lemon and Georgia Fort, the killings of Alex Preti and Renee Goode, and the shocking hypocrisy around First and Second...

  24. Started With Proposals, Ended With Fiyero

    Regan and Chesko dive into a viral proposal video and end up debating relationship power dynamics, gender roles in romance, and why traditional gestures make some people cringe. Along the way, they get sidetracked discussing Broadway performers, Wicked, and Phantom of the Opera...because that's...

  25. The Insecure Man Fund

    Chesko and Regan dive into a Reddit "Am I the Asshole" post about financial deception in marriage. They discuss financial abuse, manipulation, entitlement in relationships, and why this husband's behavior is a major betrayal of trust. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):...

  26. You’re Not Like Other Girls (You Let Me Treat You Like Shit)

    In today's episode, Chesko and Reagan eventually get to the main segment that tackles a viral thread asking: "What do men think is attractive but actually gives women the ick?" From "I'm not political" Tinder profiles to unsolicited hunting trophy photos, loud car exhausts, and bragging about...

  27. ”Where Are the Diapers?” A Love Story

    Regan and Chesko tackle the frustrating trend of men who weaponize incompetence in their relationships, and worse, convince their partners to find it endearing. They break down a viral podcast clip where men suggest moms "secretly hope" the house falls apart when they leave, exposing how this...

  28. ”I’m Not Racist, But My Group Chat Is”

    Regan and Chesko dive into the disturbing world of men's private group chats after young Republicans' racist messages leaked online. They discuss why so many guys are suddenly admitting their own group chats would look "pretty bad" if exposed, and what that reveals about toxic masculinity in...

  29. The Episode Where Chesko Becomes a Crypto Bro

    This week, Chesko and Regan tackle what happens when a comedian calls someone out on stage. Was it funny or did it cross a line? Along the way, expect plenty of tangents (so many tangents), from fake radio show phone calls to crypto confessions, and more. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus...

  30. Last Minute Cruise, Long Term Consequences

    Chesko and Regan dissect a viral story about a husband who claims his dad spontaneously gave him three cruise tickets on his birthday, leaving his wife to handle their four kids and her job while he jets off to Mexico for five days. They debate whether the "surprise" cruise was actually planned…

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  31. I Bought Flowers Once and Now I Hate Women

    Chesko and Regan unpack a comment from a guy who swore off buying flowers for women after one bad experience, exploring why some men treat rejection as proof that "all women are evil." They discuss toxic dating advice, the pressure to perform rather than connect authentically, collective…

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  32. Giving Your Girlfriend A Curfew (And Other Red Flags)

    In this episode, Chesko and Reagan dive into the problematic world of men who confuse boundaries with control. They break down a viral video of a self-proclaimed "six-foot-five millionaire" who gives his girlfriend a curfew and compares her to his Lamborghini, sparking a larger conversation about...

  33. Goblin Penises and Shower Boundaries (A Normal Episode)

    In this episode, Chesko and Regan react to a viral video of a husband who "historically hates" when his wife showers without him, dramatically entering the bathroom within seconds of hearing the water run. The hosts dissect why this behavior is concerning, discussing how it represents potential...

  34. Swiping Right...Into Delusion

    In this episode of "Mr. Pick Me and the Man Hater Radio Podcast Hour," hosts Chesko and Regan dissect a viral clip claiming that "women are naturally better at rejecting men." The duo unpacks how this mindset reveals toxic attitudes toward both men and women, exploring how men who complain about...

  35. Bad Men Forsake The Backstreet Boys

    Regan and Chesko start today's episode dissecting a cringe-worthy Backstreet Boys parody where a husband sings about hating marriage and his wife, then examining a controversial podcast clip about husbands giving wives "allowances", and finally breaking down the viral "lunch packing" incident…

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  36. The Happy Song Made My Baby Cry (Thanks, Demons)

    This week, Chesko and Regan dive into the wild world of online conspiracy theories and parenting fears. They discuss viral TikTok videos about "demonic" children's content and discuss the irony of fearing imaginary threats while overlooking real-world dangers, and examine how some religious...

  37. Men Judging Women!? Shocker...

    In this episode, Regan and Chesko react to a viral dating show clip from Provo, Utah, where college-age men cruelly mock Riley (who just wants an adventure buddy) being mocked while hidden behind a sheet during her introduction. The discussion expands into a broader analysis of toxic masculinity,...

  38. Grinding Alone: A Manosphere Love Story

    In today's episode, the Chesko and Regan break down a viral video from a "manosphere" content creator who claims that "25-year-old women are older than 35-year-old men" due to their supposedly privileged experiences. Reagan and Chesko examine the flawed logic behind hustle culture, incel…

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  39. Why Your Dating Strategy Stinks (Like Airplane Tuna)

    This episode is all over the place with Regan and Chesko diving into a grab bag of hot topics. They discuss plane etiquette drama, including a man who refused to give up his $300 seat to a rude family and a flight attendant who unapologetically eats tuna mid-flight while judging passengers for...

  40. 10 Things Men Hate About You

    Regan and Chesko break down a controversial list of the "10 Least Attractive Hobbies of Women According to Men." From video games and true crime to shopping and OnlyFans. They explore the psychology behind why these lists exist, unpack the double standards, and discuss how misogyny shapes what's...

  41. Fellas, Is It Gay to Like Women?

    Regan and Chesko dive into the bizarre world of men who think vaginas are "icky" after watching a cringe-worthy podcast clip of a guy describing women's bodies as gross and smelly. They explore the twisted logic of supposedly straight men who hate the very thing they claim to be attracted to,...

  42. How To Love Like A Cowboy

    This week, Regan and Chesko react to a middle-aged cowboy relationship guru who gives relationship advice that's more horror movie than romance. We dissect why this advice feels genuinely alarming when presented as universal marriage guidance, complete with piercing stares and uncomfortable hand...

  43. Honey, Don’t Disbar Me

    Regan and Chesko dive into a viral courtroom clip where a male lawyer accidentally calls a female judge "honey" in a condescending tone, leading to an awkward exchange that perfectly captures workplace power dynamics and casual sexism. They then share their own cringe-worthy professional moments,...

  44. Manthropology 101

    Join Regan and Chesko as they sit down with Holly Solem, creator and host of "Manthropology TV," to discuss her viral street interview series where she asks men the simple yet loaded question: "Why are you like this?" Holly shares the unexpected journey of how a single post on Threads sparked a...

  45. 18 Holes, Zero Empathy

    Regan and Chesko dive into the world of "golf widows" after discussing a viral TikTok where a husband turned his text exchange with his struggling wife into an AI song. They explore how normalizing this behavior hurts marriages, the difference between actual comedy and cruelty disguised as jokes,...

  46. Kid Rock Can Kick Rocks

    The episode touches on everything from 90s boy bands (with some nostalgic NSYNC vs Backstreet Boys debate) to the importance of taking criticism gracefully when doing social justice work. They also dive into Kid Rock's recent inflammatory comments about declining birth rates in the US, where he...

  47. Men Are Awesome and Women Destroy Everything (No Offense)

    In this episode, Reagan and Chesko dive into the absurd world of "Timmy Bounce Back" and his viral rant about why men are "awesome" and women are supposedly "destroyers." Between fits of laughter, they unpack the toxic mindset behind these kinds of statements, examining the fragility that leads…

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  48. The Patriarchy’s Guide to Acceptable Gym Attire

    In this episode of 'Mr. Pick Me and the Man Hater Show,' Regan and Chesko dive into double standards, bodily autonomy, and the right to exist comfortably in shared spaces as We discuss the viral gym clothing debate currently raging on social media before moving on to discuss broader patterns of...

  49. 100 Mediocre Men Vs. A Silverback Gorilla

    Chesko and Regan weigh in on the viral question sweeping the internet this week regarding 100 men vs. a silverback gorilla and of course connect it to some deeper conversations about red flags and toxic masculinity. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):...

  50. Tiny Hands, Big Excuses

    In this episode, Chesko and Regan analyze viral videos from the man suggesting funeral crashing as a dating strategy to debates about 'dad bods' and why some men refuse to listen to women's actual preferences. Support us on Patreon (and hear bonus content!):...

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