My Wife My Ex-Wife and ME!

You can tell a lot about a relationship by how people fight about chores. Not the big, dramatic fights either, the tiny daily ones: the counter that “was wiped,” the laundry that never makes it out of the basket, the car that somehow always has no gas, and the kid mess that appears five minutes after you cleaned. We sit down as a wife, an ex-wife, and the guy who thought putting both in a studio was a good idea, and we get honest about what household chores really represent: respect, mental load, and whether you feel like you’re doing life with a partner or for a partner. We dig into practical ways to divide household labor without turning your home into a scoreboard. That includes why kids need age-appropriate chores, how paying for tasks can motivate without spoiling, and why “invisible labor” matters as much as mopping and dishes. We also talk cleanliness standards, how to set expectations without sounding like a parent, and why schedules help until real life blows them up. If you’ve ever thought, “I shouldn’t have to ask,” or “If you tell me to do it, I won’t,” you’ll recognize yourself fast. Then we pivot into our advice segment with three situations that escalate quickly: a spouse finds an unopened box of condoms in a glove box after years of monogamy, a Labrador refuses to leave the bed during intimacy, and a husband with binoculars crosses into neighbor-watching territory. We break down what’s harmless, what’s suspicious, and what’s a straight-up boundary problem, with the kind of blunt honesty you’d expect from people who’ve already been through the hard stuff. If this made you laugh, cringe, or rethink your own division of labor, subscribe, share the episode with a friend who needs it, and leave a review so more people can find the show. What’s the one chore fight you wish you could solve for good? Find us on our socials! Just Google My Wife My Ex-Wife and ME and you'll find us....OR....go to our website:https://thankgodcancersavedourdivorce.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

The fastest way to reveal someone’s personality is to hand them a microphone, a score sheet, and a stack of “useless trivia” questions. We kick things off with our signature chaos, then launch into a wife vs ex-wife vs Kenny Farmer showdown where the facts get weird fast. Think Navy-trained dolphins, cookie history, cartoon name reveals, and the kind of Disney trivia that turns into high-stakes bargaining. The score changes, the rules bend, and somehow the banter gets even louder than the answers. But we don’t stop at laughs. We pivot into "Relationship Advice With Ams And Jams", where real listener letters force real relationship skills: how to ask your spouse for more creativity in the bedroom without making them feel pressured or “not enough”, how to bring up a boyfriend’s dog whose farts are ruining date night without starting a fight, and what to do when a brother-in-law crosses a line and the fallout could hit the whole family. It’s messy, honest, and focused on what actually helps: clear language, firm boundaries, and not turning discomfort into drama. If you love a funny podcast with sharp chemistry, relationship advice you can actually use, and the kind of marriage communication talk that sounds like real people, you’re in the right place. Subscribe, share this with a friend who would lose their mind at trivia, and leave a review with the one question you wish we’d asked next. Find us on our socials! Just Google My Wife My Ex-Wife and ME and you'll find us....OR....go to our website:https://thankgodcancersavedourdivorce.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

The end of a relationship usually doesn’t arrive with a single explosion. It creeps in through patterns you can feel but can’t always name and that’s what we get into, loudly, honestly, and with Kenny in the studio to stir the pot right along with us. We talk through the classic predictors of divorce like criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling, plus the quieter one that scares us the most: emotional disengagement. When someone stops fighting, stops trying to resolve conflict, and starts living on autopilot, the relationship can be “over” long before the paperwork shows up. We also dig into what happens when couples build separate lives under the same roof, when intimacy and affection disappear, and how mistrust and constant negativity turn home into a stress test. Then we argue about the sentence that can either be a healthy boundary or a relationship grenade: “I’m not responsible for your feelings.” Where’s the line between owning your actions and managing someone else’s reactions? We also hit the serious stuff, including abuse and why safety and support systems come first, especially when kids are involved and planning an exit takes time. To close it out, we take relationship advice questions that go from awkward to outrageous and somehow still pull real takeaways from the chaos. If you like unfiltered relationship talk, divorce reality, and practical communication insights, subscribe, share this with a friend who needs it, and leave us a review. Find us on our socials! Just Google My Wife My Ex-Wife and ME and you'll find us....OR....go to our website:https://thankgodcancersavedourdivorce.com Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.