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New Dad Order
by Ray Belvin/Jerrard Parfait
This channel explores the profound intersections between parenting, faith, and family dynamics. It reflects on the challenges and rewards of navigating family life while balancing personal passions, such as sports and fitness. The discussion highlights the importance of discipline, growth, and emotional maturity in parenting, and how shared experiences can strengthen relationships. Ultimately, it reveals the transformative power of learning through exploration and discovery.
Episodes
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We Drafted the Perfect Dad Traits… Who Won? #draft #dad
f you could give your children only FIVE traits to help them succeed in life, what would you choose? Faith? Discipline? Integrity? Patience? Financial wisdom? The answers might reveal more about you as a parent than you think.In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait go...
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Are You Actually Smart… Or Just Confident? #smart #confidence
What if the thing making you feel intelligent is actually keeping you from getting smarter? And how do we raise kids who are confident enough to lead—but humble enough to admit when they're wrong?In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait get into a conversation about...
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Faith, Discipline & Fatherhood: Raising Kids Who Know Their Worth! #faith #discipline
What does it take to raise successful children without making their success the center of your family?Marshall Graves helped raise three Division I athletes—including 2026 NBA first-round draft pick Allen Graves—but his biggest lessons have very little to do with basketball. They’re about FAITH,...
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From Teacher to Entrepreneur: Finding Purpose Through Service! #service #leadership
What if the greatest impact you make in life has nothing to do with being a parent—and everything to do with being present?On this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait sit down with educator, strategist, entrepreneur, community leader, and content creator Tim San Filippo for a...
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From the Army to Addiction Recovery: Coach Ken's Powerful Story! #fatherhood
What happens when the man everyone depends on finally admits that he needs someone to pour into him?In Episode 70 of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait sit down with Coach Ken Richardson—a husband, father of two, military veteran, youth coach, and night supervisor at Restoring Freedom, a...
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Should Pro Athletes Be Allowed to Return to College Football? #football
College football has changed forever. NIL money, the transfer portal, player eligibility and professional opportunities have blurred the line between college athlete and professional athlete. But has the NCAA actually prepared for any of it?And if an athlete leaves college to turn pro, doesn't…
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Your Kid Wants to Be Great—But Will They Do the Work? #softball #work
What separates the kids who WANT to be great from the kids willing to WORK when nobody is watching? And how much of that mindset can a parent or coach actually teach?Ray and Parfait sit down with Red Henson, General Manager of Louisiana Swarm Softball, longtime youth softball coach, Mandeville…
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The Healthcare System, AI & Fatherhood | What Families Need to Know! #health
In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait sit down with Ardon Ballard, physician assistant, father, youth sports coach, and author of The Homemade MD, to expose what patients rarely see behind the curtain of the American healthcare system—and explain why advocating for yourself and your...
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Every Man Needs Non-Negotiables. Here Are Ours. #status
Every man has certain things in life that should be non-negotiable—but have you ever actually stopped and identified yours?In Episode 66 of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait break down the personal standards and routines they refuse to compromise on as husbands, fathers, friends, and men...
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This Young Coach Is Building Better Athletes! #coaching #athlete #podcast
Every great athlete remembers one coach who changed their life.In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait sit down with young coach LJ Whitaker to discuss coaching youth athletes, building discipline, developing confidence, overcoming adversity, and how faith helped shape his purpose.LJ...
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He Lost Football... But Found His Purpose! #football #life #dad
What happens when life changes overnight?In this episode of New Dad Order, Gerald Munoz shares how becoming a father at just 17 years old forced him to grow up fast. Instead of quitting when life became difficult, he chose responsibility, discipline, and leadership.The conversation explores what...
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He Bought an Abandoned Building...Now It's the Talk of the Town! #podcast #realestate
What does it take to completely change a community?In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait sit down with entrepreneur and real estate investor Jason Lipscomb to discuss the current housing market, commercial real estate, entrepreneurship, leadership, and the mindset required to build...
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The Coach’s Guide to Fatherhood: Faith, Discipline and Effort! #father #faith #discipline #effort
What happens when a championship basketball coach becomes a first-time father?In Episode 62 of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait sit down with Danny Dunn, a husband, new father and accomplished Louisiana basketball coach. Danny discusses leaving the familiar surroundings of Ponchatoula…
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He Walked Away From His Dream Career for Family! #newdadorder #podcast #dream #career
Youth sports can build champions—but only if parents and coaches focus on the right things.This week on New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait sit down with Springfield Youth Football Commissioner and three-time league champion Coach Cody Jones to discuss what really matters when raising young...
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Teach these Five Social skills before they leave home! #social #newdadorder #podcast
Respect isn't something children magically develop—it has to be taught.In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait discuss five practical life skills every parent should intentionally teach their children before adulthood. From firm handshakes and eye contact to apologizing with humility,...
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12 Healthy Foods You're Eating at the Wrong Time! #food #health #newdadorder #podcast
Did you know that when you eat certain foods may be just as important as what you eat?In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray brings a list of 12 common foods that many people eat every day—but often at the wrong time.From rice and bananas to watermelon, tomatoes, milk, apples, and red meat, we...
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The Hardest Workout I've Ever Attempted-Murph Challenge! #newdadorder #murphchallenge #podcast
What happens when an average dad attempts one of the most respected workouts in fitness?In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray takes on his first Murph Challenge while Parfait tackles the workout wearing a 20-pound vest. What started as a fitness challenge quickly became a lesson in discipline,...
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The Hidden Pressure Kids Face in Youth Sports! #pressure #newdadorder #podcast #sports
In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait tackle one of the biggest issues facing families today: the growing pressure placed on kids in youth sports.From school tryouts and travel ball expectations to specialization, burnout, playing time, and dealing with failure, they break down the...
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Parents Have Become Too Soft!
Are parents becoming too soft? Are teachers being forced to parent instead of teach? And are we raising kids who can handle real-world consequences? In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait dive into the growing conversation around discipline, accountability, and modern parenting. From...
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Best Youth Sports for Scholarships Ranked by ROI! #podcast #parenting #newdadorder
In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait break down one of the biggest questions parents face today: Which youth sports actually provide the best return on investment?From travel baseball and soccer to football, wrestling, swimming, and track, the guys dive deep into the real costs of...
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The 5 Worst Youth Coaches Destroying Kids’ Love for Sports! #sports #coaching #newdadorder
Ray and Parfait break down the five worst types of youth coaches and how bad coaching may be one of the leading reasons kids quit sports early. From daddy ball to toxic leadership, this episode explores how coaching shapes confidence, discipline, and long-term success for young athletes. ✦...
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Iron Sharpens Iron | Why Real Friends Matter! #friendship #podcast #newdadorder
In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait tackle a topic that hits harder than most men are willing to admit—friendship in adulthood. Parfait shares a powerful experience reconnecting with lifelong friends during a meaningful golf tournament, reminding us what real brotherhood...
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Are We Raptured Before the Tribulation? | Tony Maska Explains the End Times! #podcast #bible
In this powerful episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait sit down with guest Tony Maska for a deep, thought-provoking breakdown of Bible prophecy, the end times, and the true meaning of salvation.Tony Maska leads a comprehensive discussion connecting the Book of Revelation, the Book...
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Epstein Files & Iran War: What’s Really Going On?
In this episode of the New Dad Order podcast, Ray, Parfait, and returning guest Tony Maska, dive into a powerful conversation surrounding the Epstein files, global politics, and the growing questions around truth, power, and media narratives.The discussion begins with reactions to the Epstein...
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When Your Kid Isn’t Performing in Sports (Attitude Matters More)! NDO 50
Why are kids quitting sports at record levels? In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait break down the real reasons behind youth sports burnout—and what parents, coaches, and kids are getting wrong.From shocking statistics like 70% of kids quitting by age 13 to the pressure…
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The Real Cost of Youth Sports Today!
In this New Dad Order conversation, Ray and Parfait break down the real reasons youth athletes walk away — from rising costs and travel ball pressure to divorce, scheduling conflicts, and parental influence.Is it burnout? Is it money? Or are parents unknowingly pushing kids out of sports?This...
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Why Kids Are Quitting Sports, Today! #newdadorder #podcast
In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait break down the real reasons kids are quitting youth sports at record levels. From travel ball burnout and parent pressure to time demands and the rise of gaming, we dive into what’s driving this trend—and whether quitting is always a bad thing.We...
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Should Kids Quit Sports? Commitment Over Comfort!
In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, Ray and Parfait dive deep into one of the biggest debates in youth sports today — should kids be allowed to quit?From travel baseball and soccer to burnout, pressure, and parenting philosophies, this conversation breaks down the real reasons kids walk...
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Traditional Lifter vs CrossFit Athlete: Gear Breakdown!
In this episode of the New Dad Order podcast, Ray and Parfait break down a surprisingly popular topic in fitness culture: what’s actually inside a gym bag — and what it says about your training style.Ray represents the traditional gym lifter, bringing practical, affordable essentials like wrist...
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CrossFit or Traditional gym? -The Truth About Ego Lifting! #podcast #weightlifting
In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, hosts Ray and Parfait dive into the world of fitness, gym culture, and the never-ending debate between CrossFit training and traditional weightlifting.Ray shares his return to the gym after a break, talking about rebuilding momentum, leg day routines,...
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Toxic coaches are ruining Youth Sports!
Youth sports are supposed to build character — but what happens when adults let ego get in the way?In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait break down the reality of travel baseball, toxic coaching, parenting regret, and leadership in youth sports.Parfait shares a wild travel baseball...
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BAD BUNNY, SAM DARNOLD, AND GOODELL'S CONTROVERSIAL SUPER BOWL!
In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait break down the Super Bowl from every angle — the defensive battle on the field, the controversial Bad Bunny halftime show, and the redemption arc of Sam Darnold going from draft disappointment to Super Bowl champion. Was the game really boring… or...
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Big Food, Big Pharma, and the Truth About Protein Diets! NDO 44
Is the new high-protein food pyramid a real step toward better health—or just the next marketing scam? In this episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, the hosts start with music, workouts, and unexpected Bruno Mars appreciation before diving headfirst into a raw, honest conversation about…
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Why Fathers Feel Invisible in Modern Families
In this episode of New Dad Order, we have an honest and unfiltered conversation about modern fatherhood and why so many dads quietly feel invisible in their families, marriages, and daily lives. Fatherhood today often comes with clear expectations: provide, protect, and stay strong. But what…
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Dad Burnout Is Real: 6 Signs You’re Mentally and Emotionally Exhausted
Burnout is quietly affecting more dads than ever—and many don’t realize they’re experiencing it. In this episode of New Dad Order, we break down the six key signs of dad burnout, including emotional exhaustion, irritability, lack of motivation, detachment, poor sleep, and neglecting self-care....
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One Innocent Person Is Too Many: ICE, Media, and Modern America!
In this episode of New Dad Order, the hosts sit down for an honest, wide-ranging conversation about the state of America, global power, and the narratives shaping public opinion. What starts with a brief discussion on the NFL and leadership quickly evolves into deeper topics surrounding…
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New Year's Resolutions for Dads that Actually work!
In this powerful episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait dive into why New Year’s resolutions so often fail—and what actually makes fathers, husbands, and families better over time. Instead of empty promises made on January 1st, this episode focuses on discipline, presence, and leadership…
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“Life After the Navy: A Veteran’s Journey Through Fatherhood, Faith, and Hard Times”
Navy veteran and father of three Charles Lyle shares his deeply personal story of resilience, faith, and rebuilding life after trauma, loss, and military service. From growing up in the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina to serving as a Navy airman, Charles reveals how adversity shaped both the man…
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From Yale Football to New Orleans Fatherhood: Parenting Through Life’s Disruptions!
New Dad Order – Episode 37 is a thoughtful, wide-ranging conversation about modern fatherhood, youth sports, resilience, and intentional parenting, featuring the real-life experiences of a former Division I athlete, attorney, coach, and dads. The episode explores how early life lessons, career...
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Lane Kiffin to LSU: The soap opera that is college football!
In this episode of New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait dive deep into the college football coaching carousel, reacting to Lane Kiffin leaving Ole Miss for LSU and the ripple effects it creates across the SEC and the national landscape. This conversation tackles the complicated intersection of NIL, the...
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Kids, Screens, and AI: How Technology Is Shaping the Next Generation!
Will AI destroy us, or are we panicking about the wrong things? Through a fast-paced and honest conversation, we explore how artificial intelligence, social media, screen addiction, and technology are shaping modern life—and whether any of it actually threatens humanity.The discussion begins with...
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Dad Rules That Actually Matter: Health, Manners, and Dressing Like a Grown Man” epi 34
The Dad Rules Compilation explores a humorous yet relatable set of “dad rules” covering fitness etiquette, grocery store behavior, men’s fashion, and the culture of fatherhood. Blending real-life scenarios with bold opinions, the conversation outlines what it means to be a modern dad—and what...
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Stop Avoiding Hard Things: How Daily Discipline Builds Success in Life, Sports, and Faith
In this episode, Ray and Parfait dive deep into the real meaning of failure, discipline, and doing hard things—and how these principles shape success in sports, business, parenting, and everyday life. They break down why people fear failure, why excuses become our biggest obstacle, and how…
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Work-Life Balance, Fatherhood & Real Estate Success with Jason Lipscomb-NDO12
In a special Father’s Day episode of the New Dad Order Podcast, hosts Ray and Parfait welcome their longtime friend and first guest, Jason Lipscomb, a local real estate mogul and entrepreneur from Ponchatoula, Louisiana. Jason’s inspiring journey from dealing cards at poker tables to becoming a...
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Forbes Top Financial Professional Talks Estate and Retirement Planning! EPI24
New Dad Order, welcomes Ernie M. Burns, Jr., President & CEO of Burns Estate Planning & Wealth Advisors and host of the TV show Total Retirement with Ernie Burns. With over 30 years of experience in retirement income planning, Ernie shares his personal journey of resilience, faith, and…
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Raising Confident Kids: The Power of Pressure, Practice, and Patience! Epi 32
In this episode of The New Dad Order, Ray and Parfait break down what it truly means to have “Ice in the Veins” — that elite-level calm under pressure that separates average performers from true leaders. Drawing from college football memories, parenting lessons, and the psychology of performance,...
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Real Leadership Starts with Emotional Control! EP 31
This episode explores the often-unspoken reality behind modern masculinity — where strength and vulnerability collide. This episode dives deep into the emotional struggles men face in silence, the pressure to “be the rock,” and the hidden cost of suppressing pain. Hosts Ray and Parfait open a…
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Are You Really Okay or Just Saying It? EPI 30
In Episode 30 of the New Dad Order Podcast, hosts Ray and Parfait dive into the unspoken rules of emotional intelligence, and conversation skills. The episode opens with a relatable truth—how men often default to saying “I’m good” even when they’re not. It’s a cultural shorthand for emotional...
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How Faith Changed Our Family! Epi 29
In this episode of the Water to Wine Podcast, two dads open up about faith, family, and friendship—and how God often turns the simple, ordinary moments of life into the “good wine” that nourishes our souls. Drawing inspiration from Jesus’ first miracle at Cana, they explore what it means to live...
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Pete Hegseth & the Soft Culture Crisis: Are We Raising Tough Enough Kids? EP28 #petehegseth #speech
Is America getting too soft to defend itself — or even raise resilient kids? In this episode, Ray and Parfait break down Pete Hegseth’s passionate warning about soft culture, weak leadership, and fading standards. They connect his message to everyday parenting, youth sports, and the modern...
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This channel explores the profound intersections between parenting, faith, and family dynamics. It reflects on the challenges and rewards of navigating family life while balancing personal passions, such as sports and fitness. The discussion highlights the importance of discipline, growth, and emotional maturity in parenting, and how shared experiences can strengthen relationships. Ultimately, it reveals the transformative power of learning through exploration and discovery.
HOSTED BY
Ray Belvin/Jerrard Parfait
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