Not Defined By Motherhood, the Podcast

Send us Fan MailYou felt it before you had words for it. Motherhood feels off — not because you don't love your kids, but because nothing about the life you're living actually feels like yours.That feeling has a name: performative motherhood. And it's happening even behind closed doors, with no audience, no one watching - just you, quietly following rules you never agreed to.You didn't choose this version of motherhood. You absorbed it.In this episode, we're getting into why so many mothers are living a performance they didn't audition for, what it actually looks like in real everyday life, and how stepping into deliberate motherhood starts with one uncomfortable question: what do I actually want?This isn't about blaming yourself for getting here. It's about recognizing the pattern so you can start building your motherhood - one that fits your life, your values, and who you actually are.After listening, you'll be able to identify where performative motherhood is showing up in your life, why it's been so hard to spot, and what the first step toward my motherhood actually looks like.Grab [FREEBIE NAME] — [short description] — linked in the description below.

Send us Fan MailYou've done the work. You've started questioning the performance, you've dug into your core values, and you know that the old version of motherhood wasn't really yours. So what comes next?That's where deliberate motherhood comes in.This episode is for the mom who is ready to stop just thinking about what she wants her motherhood to look like — and start actually living it. We're getting into what deliberate motherhood really means, why it's not the same as intentional motherhood, and what it looks like on a completely ordinary Tuesday.You don't have to make every decision about your kids. You get to make decisions that are guided by what you actually value — including yourself.We're also talking about what happens when you slide back into the performance, how to handle the pushback that comes with doing things your way, and why choosing yourself is not — by any definition — selfish.After listening, you'll understand exactly what deliberate motherhood looks like in real life, how to catch yourself when you drift, and what the smallest possible first step actually is.Grab [FREEBIE NAME] — [short description] — linked in the description below.