Not So Fxcked After All?
by Natana Mayer and Jessica Anwyl
When the world appears fxcked, what can you do about it?Meaningful change is impossible when you can’t find the cause.That’s why we, Natana and Jess, dive deep into some of the worlds hairiest and complicated problems to show you how they can be traced back to the most mundane beginnings.Join us on a thought quest full of theories, scientific facts, and personal anecdotes where we’ll arrive at the the simplest actions you can take to create meaningful change.By the end of each episode, you’ll see that maybe we’re not so fxcked after all, and maybe there is something we can do about it.
Episodes
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Consent, Sex, Compatibility, Rejection and Intent
Diving into all things consent! Be prepared to hear things you’ve never heard before, including: The nuances of consent. How porn conditions people out of connection, and understanding the body language cues necessary for consent. Different types of consent, for different people... Determining...
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How to be in control without being controlling
When things don’t go as planned, are they a failure? In this episode, Natana’s unexpected redundancy sparks a realisation about what real control looks like and how to get it back. But not only that, we reframe what success can look like and how to evaluate yourself based on this new way of...
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BONUS: how to change people’s minds
In this bonus episode, we clarify the difference between mental constructs and mindsets and how to speak to the right one to change people’s minds. For the context of the full episode , see episode 5: Why Conflict Is A Good Sign.
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Why Conflict Is A Good Sign
If you’ve ever asked yourself one of the following... How can I instigate change when people are so happy with the opposite? Is the change you’re working towards even a welcome change? Is there even a point to me trying to make a change? How do we make progress when people believe their behaviour...
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What does a lesbian, a judges wig, and chronic illness have in common?
How do you know what is true? In this episode, we uncover how what we believe to be true can drastically alter our lives...especially when it is discovered to be untrue. Specifically, how societal norms such as ‘compulsory heterosexuality’, or an overly medicalised view of your body can lead to...
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Have we gone too far calling people out?
Does “schooling” people perpetuate more hate? What can we do to eliminate the residues of sexism, racism, and other prejudices? In this episode, we talk about recent law changes and how they come about. Plus, on an individual level, how you can respond to micro-aggressions in a way that creates...
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Can You Hustle And Be Happy?
An episode on: How society is structured to perpetuate self-hate and distrust. Why you should see people as puzzles And Ways you can cultivate lasting happiness. Join the conversation on Clubhouse: https://www.clubhouse.com/club/not-so-fxcked-after-all
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Surprising Ways To Get What You Want
When you’re feeling lost with nowhere to move, how do you come up with creative solutions? How do you navigate your reality into what you really want? How do we truly harmonise? How do we negotiate what we want with others to create a win-win solution? Here’s a clue: it starts with us. Join the...
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Trailer
When the world appears fucked, what can you do about it? Meaningful change is impossible when you can’t find the cause. That’s why we, Natana and Jess, dive deep into some of the worlds hairiest and complicated problems to show you how they can be traced back to the most mundane beginnings. Join…
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About this show
When the world appears fxcked, what can you do about it?Meaningful change is impossible when you can’t find the cause.That’s why we, Natana and Jess, dive deep into some of the worlds hairiest and complicated problems to show you how they can be traced back to the most mundane beginnings.Join us on a thought quest full of theories, scientific facts, and personal anecdotes where we’ll arrive at the the simplest actions you can take to create meaningful change.By the end of each episode, you’ll see that maybe we’re not so fxcked after all, and maybe there is something we can do about it.
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Natana Mayer and Jessica Anwyl
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