(not so) Secret Dads Business
by Nate Newman and Judge Gonzo
Hosted by Nate Newman from Western Sydney and Judge Gonzo from New Jersey, (not so) Secret Dads Business is a show for dads talking about all aspects of life, society and parenthood.Nate and Judge are just a couple of dads, trying to navigate life, family issues, and make sense of the world; talking about life, societal issues, and helping others try to make sense of it as well. While not always politically correct, the ugly truth will always be laid out on the table.With 70 guest interviews and a plethora of tangent filled episodes with Nate and Judge, this podcast has it all!
Episodes
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NSSDB and Young Dad Podcast Crossover Episode
This episode is a first for both NSSDB and the Young Dad Podcast! We have created a special crossover for your listening pleasure! Tune in for some awesome conversation on a plethora of different topics. Nate and Jey kick off talking about the differences between the USA and Australia, especially...
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The Search for Sanity: Parenting Through Laughter and Chaos with Tom Kreffer
In this engaging episode, join Nate as he sits down with author and humorist Tom Kreffer to delve into the joys, challenges, and humorous moments of parenthood. Tom's latest book, "The Search for Sanity," takes us on a hilarious and heartfelt journey through the world of raising a toddler, where...
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Raising Tomorrow's Heroes: Nurturing Resilience, Freedom, and Character
In this episode of (not so) Secret Dads Business, join Nate as he engages in a transatlantic conversation with his dear friend, R.L. Shawver, who is a passionate advocate for freedom, resilience, and character-building. Together, they embark on a profound exploration of the intricate world of...
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How Dads Can Create Quality Family Time: Fun and Learning with KidBox.fun
In this episode, Nate dives into a candid conversation with Matt, a devoted dad and the creator of an innovative project called Kidbox.fun. In this engaging conversation, Matt shares his journey from city life in Denver, Colorado, to rural South Dakota, where he's embraced the role of a dedicated...
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Unlocking Your Full Potential: A Mindset Makeover
In this inspiring episode, our host, Nate engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Chris Phillips, a passionate entrepreneur and mindset enthusiast. Chris shares his remarkable journey from a traditional 9-to-5 job to becoming a successful business owner and mindset coach. Join us as…
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The Journey to Redemption: From Addiction to Super Dad
In this emotionally charged and inspiring episode, we dive deep into the life of Josh, a single father who battled addiction and emerged as a remarkable example of resilience and transformation. Join us as we hear Josh's incredible journey from the clutches of addiction to becoming a devoted and...
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The Resilience Revolution: Building Mental and Emotional Strength
In this empowering episode of (not so) Secret Dads Business, Nate dives deep into the world of resilience and self-improvement with the ever insightful Kristian Moore, founder of the Resilience Revolution Facebook group. They unravel the essential aspects of mental and emotional resilience that...
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Empowering Education Through 3D Printing: Revolutionizing Learning and Skill Development
In this thought-provoking episode, join Nate as he engages in a compelling conversation with James, a visionary entrepreneur and educator on a mission to transform education through the power of 3D printing. Drawing from his unique experiences and insights, James shares how he and his wife are...
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Rising from the Depths: A Tale of Sobriety and Artistry
Step into a world of resilience and creativity in this episode of (not so) Secret Dads Business]. Nate engages in a profound dialogue with Nemiah VanGuilder, a gifted author and artist, as he shares his courageous journey from the clutches of addiction to the realm of artistic inspiration.…
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The Children in the Pictures: Fighting Child Exploitation and Protecting Our Children in the Digital Playground
Join Nate on a gripping episode of (not so) Secret Dads Business as he tackles the disturbing topic of child exploitation. Special guest, Akhim Dev, a renowned documentary filmmaker and investigative journalist, shares his experiences and insights from his global adventures covering stories on…
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Navigating Parenthood: Reflections on Love, Challenges, and Letting Go
This episode, Joseph Pereira is on the show! Join us as we have an honest and heartfelt conversation about the beautiful, chaotic, and ever-changing journey of parenting. From the importance of being present and learning from the everyday moments to the bittersweet feeling of watching our…
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Unleashing Your Power: Breaking Free from Limiting Beliefs and Taking Control
In this episode, my guest, Steve Smith and I, delve into the topic of control and the importance of breaking free from limiting beliefs. Through a captivating conversation, we uncover the desire for control in our lives and how it often goes beyond material wealth. From the longing for a...
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*ENCORE EPISODE* We Got Out: Leaving a Cult, Reclaiming Our Lives and Family Connections
*This episode was first published February 5th 2022.* Sarah and Nippy were in the NXIVM (said Nexium) cult for 12 and 16 years respectively. In early 2017, Sarah was invited into a secret women's sect of the cult called DOS. She was asked to strip naked, was blindfolded and led into a room with...
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Village Wisdom: The Ultimate Dad Manual
This episode, I had John Christensen join me on NSSDB. John is one of 6 fathers who collaborated with each other to create a book of dadvice (see what we did there?). It’s about the road fathers travel. Not always paved, not always smooth. It’s about regret, success, vulnerability and…
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How Mindfulness Can Help Keep You Centered
This episode, Mike Finnigan returns to the show for another chat. Mike is a father of 2 and a stepdad of a 3rd child. Mike and I sat down and spoke about our respective lives and contemplate our roles as dads. We also discuss how we manage our inner selves and how easily we can lie to ourselves.…
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Setting Clear Boundaries After Divorce
This episode, King Smith joins Nate on the show. King is from the US and a dad to a teenage daughter. He is also the host of Chats with Dads, a video podcast on YouTube. In this episode, Nate and King let the conversation go where it naturally wanted to go. They talk about their respective...
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Toddler Inc - Adventures in Dadding
Tom Kreffer is back for another episode! In this weeks episode, Nate and Tom discuss his book, Toddler Inc. Toddler Inc. is the 3rd book, which was released last year, in the Adventures in Dadding series . We also talk about how to broach tough subjects with kids, the toddler wonderment in the...
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*BONUS* S4E2 Welcome To Fatherhood Podcast
This episode features a conversation with my mate from down under, Nate Newman, host of the (Not So) Secret Dads Business podcast. Nate is currently taking a break from podcasting on his own platform, but reached out to me for us to talk about what we're both currently experiencing with our...
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Success After Multiple Miscarriages and Adjusting To a New Family Dynamic
After an extended break, (not so) Secret Dads Business is back with fresh new episodes! This episode, I spoke to Kelly Jean-Philippe about the huge changes in his life as a father. After multiple miscarriages, Kelly and his wife welcomed a new addition to their family back in February. Kelly and…
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The Journey From Recon Sniper and MC Prospect to Personal Development Coach and Role Model
This episode, I had an awesome chat with Andrew Geldert. Drew is a personal development coach and a dad to teenagers. He is also the founder of the Man to Man Brotherhood Movement and the Man to Man: Lets Talk About It Podcast. In this episode, Drew tells of his journey from being a Recon Sniper…
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The Power of Earning: Teaching Our Kids Resilience and Problem Solving
This episode, I sat down with Damian Piotto. He is a dad of 3 girls as well as the creator and host of the Apex Unleashed podcast. We talk about generational differences, adapting with technology and the resistance of life. We also delve a bit deeper into teaching our kids resilience and problems...
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What is Play Therapy and How is it Beneficial?
This episode, Nate sat down with Laura Orr. Laura is one half of the Should They Watch It? Podcast, a mother and family, marriage and play therapist. This episode, we sit down to unpack what play therapy is and how it is beneficial for kids. Laura also covers different approaches within the field...
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Navigating the Ups and Downs of Foster Care and Fatherhood
This episode, I sat down with Zach Murphy from Pennsylvania, USA. Zach is a players representative for Pro Level Sports Agency and the owner and creator of the Breaking Down The Tape podcast. During this episode, Zach covered a lot of his fatherhood journey and frankly, he's been through quite a...
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Teaching Your Children About Personal Protection and What To Do When Recovering A Lost Child
Adam Mitchell is a martial artist and dad in New York. He has a dojo where he teaches children self defence and personal protection. He also has a business and podcast called Close Quarter Dad, where he teaches parents on how to teach their children about personal protection and for the parents,...
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The Ups and Downs of Fertility Treatment and How Important It Is To Support Our Spouse
This episode, I had John Popko join me on the show. John is a radio personality out of Pennsylvania. After the station decided to reformat, his show, which highlighted different local and out of state bands, was axed. So John decided to start The Popko Project. It is a music podcast with the same...
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Being a Weekend Rockstar and How Music Influences Our Children and Their Emotions
This episode, I spoke to the front man of the Metallica tribute band, Damage Inc. Clint is another Western Sydney dad and in recent weeks has seen the damage the Queensland and New South Wales floods have been affecting people. We sat down and spoke about music, the influence it can have on our...
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Living the Life of a Military Spouse and How to Manage Self Care to Keep Yourself Grounded.
This episode I spoke with self care management coach and host of the Mom Chat Show, Sade Jenkins. She is also a mother of 3. We spoke about the pressures that come with being a military spouse at the early age of 19 and navigating life within the structure that comes with military life, how to…
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Discipline, Focus and Knowing Your "WHY"
This episode I needed a devils advocate, so I called my mate Judge Gonzo to return to the show for a heated conversation. We talk about discipline, focus and knowing your "WHY". We also talk a little bit about those teachable moments that arise with our kids and how we can effectively communicate...
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We Got Out: Leaving a Cult, Reclaiming Our Lives and Family Connections
Sarah and Nippy were in the NXIVM (said Nexium) cult for 12 and 16 years respectively. In early 2017, Sarah was invited into a secret women's sect of the cult called DOS. She was asked to strip naked, was blindfolded and led into a room with several other women. She was then instructed to repeat...
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From Barbells to Braids: Being a Solo Dad and Breaking Down Parental Stereotypes
Michael Ray is a dad and single parent. He describes himself as a SoloDad. He has spoken on global media about his journey as a single father and the motherhood stereotypes he has come up against while raising his daughter. Michael is an advocate for all fathers and works on breaking gender and...
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Imagine: A Dreamers Writings, Breast Cancer, Surgery and Family Bonding
Dr Richard Harris, is a dreamer with many talents. He is best known as one of Australia’s top Vascular Surgeons and for spearheading the rebuild of a major metropolitan public hospital. Richard lost his wonderful partner and mother of his 2 gorgeous children in early 2020 to breast cancer.…
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Titanium Dave: Motorcycle Accidents, Living on Disability and Raising a Man.
This week I had Dave Bognuda on the show for a chat. We talk about a few motorcycle accidents he's had and the impact that had on his career. We also talk about how it hasn't held him back from having an active role in his sons life and how proud he is of all the achievements his son has made.
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Our Story: How We Met, Having Family Support and Equality in a Relationship
This episode, I had my beautiful partner, Christine Newman on the show. We talk together about our story of how we met and became parents. We also talk a little bit about raising a child while we both work full time and how our family have been a huge support in our lives.
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6 Heart Surgeries in 18 Months - Walking Through Hell with Your Child
R.L. Shawver is a husband to his joyful wife Stephanie, and the father of two growing boys. He is a Christian Author who also works in data, computers, and engineering; he has worked for a Fortune 500 company in Oil & Gas and now works for a mid-size Telecom Software company. He has also worked…
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Being a Step Dad Can Be a Balancing Act
Aaron Young has come back on the podcast for another chat. This episode we talk about Aarons perspective on fatherhood after having a new addition to his family. He also talks about his new role as a step father and the different approach he has to take in his parenting style. Together, we spoke...
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Adventures in Dadding - Fathers Day Episode
Tom Kreffer is a first time dad and author from the UK. Tom writes to his son every day about parenthood from a dad’s point of view. He does this for many reasons: to force himself to reflect deeply about his role as a parent; to create a gift for his son when he’s older (imagine your parents...
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Do I Have a Problem with Porn and How Can I Keep My Children Safe?
Heather Neilsen is an anti porn activist and addiction coach. This episode we talk about porn addiction and the effect it has within the family. We also talk about how accessible porn is to our underage children and the effects it has on them. Heather has a new website up to help men, youth and...
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Self Acceptance and Embracing Vulnerability
Joe-y is a qualified and registered Clinical Hypnotherapist, Counsellor and Life Coach based in Melbourne, Australia and the owner/administrator of Secret Men's Business. This episode, we talk about leaving our ego to the wayside and embracing vulnerability. We also talk about opening up to our...
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Special Ops to Performance Coaching
Marc is former Special Operations with the Australian Army and is now a performance coach. He focuses on working with men with his business, The Masculine Edge. We talk about his transition from military life to performance coaching and how he helps bring all aspects of life, that men should be...
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Diary of a Superdad
Mark is a stay at home dad and one of the hosts from the Shedadigans podcast. This week, Mark and I discuss being a stay at home dad, the benefits of medical care in Ireland and the current pandemic. We also take a small trip down memory lane and discuss the differences between our childhood and...
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It's Not a Weakness to Seek Help
Adrian is a counsellor and psychotherapist. He is highly skilled at maintaining safety throughout his sessions, accelerating the ability for clients to move through difficult times. His integrated approach to counselling means that he is quick to adapt to finding the best way to work together,...
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Embracing Your Masculinity
Shane is back for another episode! This week, we talk about masculine and feminine energy and how they compliment each other. We also speak about embracing our masculinity despite what the mainstream consensus seems to be these days. Shane has a webinar on the 31st of July going into more depth…
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Parenting with ADHD
James is a dad living in the inner west suburbs of Sydney. He's a father of 2 girls and a private business owner. He is the owner and operator of Sydney Parking Solutions. This episode, we talk about ours experiences with parenting with ADD and ADHD. We discuss how organised our wives are and how...
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Welcome To Fatherhood: Racism, Being a New Dad and A Change in Perspective
Kelly Jean-Philippe is the creator of the Welcome to Fatherhood podcast and a father of 1. This episode, Kelly and I sat down to talk about the differences of raising our children and he opens my eyes to some of the trials he has to face as an African-American man and how he is preparing to equip...
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Communication Barriers and Learning AUSLAN
This episode, Reece and I talk about the communication barriers he has had throughout his relationship with his wife, Trudi, who is part of the deaf community, working long days as well as studying AUSLAN and raising his daughter with two different languages. Together, they have their business...
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Dogs of Town Hall: How Screenwriting Brought a Family Closer Together
Mike Vardal is a YouTube content creator and a dad living in Connecticut, USA. This week we spoke together about the kids show he creates with his family called "Dogs of Town Hall" and how it has brought the family closer and how it had had a positive effect on their mental health. Check out...
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The 6 Pack Dad: Helping Dads Lose Weight and Having Healthy Expectations to Weight Loss
Andrew Jax is a fitness guru focused on helping dads "Ditch the Dad Fat". He has a book and a podcast by the same name. He is a former Victorian State bodybuilding champion and a former Australian National bodybuilding champion. In this episode, we talk about his work helping dads lose weight, we...
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Parenting vs Wrestling: Fatherhood on the Road
This week on NSSDB, I spoke with the great and powerful, BRIMSTONE!! In this episode, Brim tells me all about his career as an entertainer, from Sesame Street and Pro Wrestling to being one of the biggest podcasters in the world with an audience of 4 million listeners a week! We also discuss how…
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Who Should Handle Your Children's Awkward Questions?
Hayley is a mum living in the UK and a co-host of the Mac to Mac podcast. This week, we talk about parenting life with sons, how to tell our kids about the grown up world and which parent should field the awkward questions. You can find the Mac to Mac podcast on all major streaming platforms!…
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Don't Be a Shitty Parent
Judge is a co host on the Shedadigans podcast. He's a lifter, a cosplayer, a teacher and a dad. We had a chat about not being a shitty parent, being aware that our kids recognise more in life than we think they do and how to be a good example to them. Judge also spoke about the massive changes…
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About this show
Hosted by Nate Newman from Western Sydney and Judge Gonzo from New Jersey, (not so) Secret Dads Business is a show for dads talking about all aspects of life, society and parenthood.Nate and Judge are just a couple of dads, trying to navigate life, family issues, and make sense of the world; talking about life, societal issues, and helping others try to make sense of it as well. While not always politically correct, the ugly truth will always be laid out on the table.With 70 guest interviews and a plethora of tangent filled episodes with Nate and Judge, this podcast has it all!
Hosted by
Nate Newman and Judge Gonzo