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Not So Sexy
by Not So Sexy™
Not So Sexy gets into the gross, real, fun, and most importantly sexy parts of human relationships and life. We talk about sex and how that impacts how we live, who we meet, and what we do. Sex is part of our everyday lives and it impacts so much of what we do. However, when we talk about it we couch in in soft language or we just don't get to the nitty gritty details. This podcast explores with curiosity and gets to the core of sex. Because talking about sex should be easy. Hosted by standup comedian Alexander Cabana.
Episodes
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Not So Sexy - Season 4 Tails from A High End Sex Worker
We are back with Season 4 of Not So Sexy! We hope over this very long break you've been falling in love, getting your back blown out, and having messy breakups. Everything that means you're alive. This week we spoke with Amy Taylor, a high end sex worker. She talked with us about working for...
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Not So Sexy™ Season 3 Episode 7 - Advice from a sex therapist
This week we interview Angela, a sex therapist. She talks to us about how to have the best sex, what it means to be in an abusive relationship, and shares with us details about her divorce. Even an expert in relationships can sometimes get it wrong. It's always good to remember that. As always if...
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Not So Sexy™ Season 3 Episode 6 - Advice from a sex worker
How many of you think sex workers are "Ladies of the Night" or have only experienced them through movies and TV? If you're like "Yup, that pretty much sums it up for me" then you and I are on the same page. This week we talked to Rose Love who is a sex worker. She tells us about her dating life,...
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Not So Sexy™ Season 3 Episode 5 - Naughti Gras
What would a sexually liberated, zero shame, totally sexy group of people look like? Think leather, tons of leather. This week Not So Sexy goes on location to a premier erotic art show - Naughti Gras. We touched soap that looked like a dick, got spanked, and talked to people about all things sex....
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Not So Sexy™ Season 3 Episode 4 - Personal Grooming
How much hair is too much hair? How often should you shave or is going full Brazilian too far? This week on Not So Sexy we explore these questions and more. Also, our host Alex now has to go get a Brazilian wax which he may or may not live stream ;). As always email us at…
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Not So Sexy™ Episode 32 - Power Dynamics
Power - that is a big word in our lives. On this episode of Not So Sexy we explore what power means in relation to sex. How it affects how we couple, how it affects our interactions with other people, how it even affects our bodies. What does power mean for you? Do you feel powerful in your life,...
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Not So Sexy™ Episode 31 - As you like it
Do you ever struggle asking for what you want? What about when you're in front of the person you're about to have sex with? Asking for what you want during sex can be really tough. It can be uncomfortable 😳😳😳. But you can't get what you want when you're not asking for what you need 🥰. This...
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Not So Sexy™ Episode 30 - I did everything right.
Herpes can be a scary thing but it's surprisingly common. Yet, it's not talked about except in hushed whispers and angry texts like "DID I GET THIS FROM YOU". But herpes shouldn't be so scary. You can get it without an outbreak or from having penetrative sex. Instead of making fun of it and not...
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Not So Sexy™ Episode 30 - Mortified
Dave Nadelberg, the creator of the Mortified show and podcast, talked to us about current projects, his past masterbation techniques, and his loves - past, present, and future.
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Not So Sexy™ Episode 28 - That Four Letter Word
This week we bring on the zen master Andy to talk about when to say that huge four letter word L.O.V.E. It's, like most things, layered and complex. We struggle to find an analogy, we show how much Alex really needs to calm down, and we talk about spears. Also check out LELO our sponsor. They…
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Not So Sexy™ Episode 27 - Me Being Me!
Guys, this week for Not So Sexy we brought on the most wonderful human being (and dating novice), Megan. Kit, Megan and I talk about putting yourself out there, and the pain of flirty first impressions.
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Not So Sexy™ Episode 26 - ABC... 123... BDSM
How much do you know about BDSM? Do you think it's the dark world of sex that only the brave and masochistic dare to go? Well this week on Not So Sexy™ our guests give us the break down of BDSM. We find that it's a community of people that deeply care about consent and communication.
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Not So Sexy™ Episode 25 - Breakups, with Katie.
Breakups are hard, Katie makes them easier.
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Not So Sexy ™ Episode 24 - Sexy Myths
Do blue balls exist? Can HIV get through condoms, are married couples having less sex? All these questions and more we answer this week on our Sex Myths episode. Thanks to everyone who send us their myths. Check us out via these social media feeds Email - [email protected] Twitter -...
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Not So Sexy™ - Pregnancy, pregnancy porn, pregnancy.
This week Not So Sexy brings on Joyce to talk about her experience being pregnant and being into porn. Check us out via these social media feeds Email - [email protected] Twitter - @WeKnowItsGross Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/NotSoSexyPodcast/ Make a donation to Not So Sexy -...
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Not So Sexy™ - Episode 22, GOOOOAALLLLY!! - Exploring contraception & how we stay safe during sex.
There are SO many ways to stay safe before, during, and after sex and we talk about all of it! This week we bring on the lovely Kate Rose to talk about her experiences using the pill and contraceptives. Email - [email protected] Twitter - @WeKnowItsGross Facebook -...
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Not So Sexy™ Episode 21 - Catch me if you can. Exploring the red flags in relationships.
WE. ARE. BACK! Season two mofos! We brought Charles into the studio to talk about Red Flags. These are the things we should take notice of from the people we're dating, like being SUPER IN LOVE WITH Vin Diesel. Check us out on Twitter @Weknowitsgross Check us out on Instagram at NotSoSexyPodcast...
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Not So Sexy™ Episode 20 - Masturbation
Have you been caught? This is our final episode of season one of Not So Sexy. We talked about that very human activity, masturbation, with Bernard. He's a really great human and has touched himself, a lot. Get in touch Facebook - We love when you message us your stories. Twitter - Tweet at us...
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Not So Sexy™ BONUS EPISODE - Sid's vomit story
Have you ever done something gross during sex? So gross that it shut it down? Well you're not alone. We brought Sid into the studio to tell us his gross and poignant story about love, acceptance, and vomit. Warning: This episode is kinda gross and heartwarming all at the same time. Don't forget…
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Not So Sexy™ Episode 19 - Parents Fucking
Did you ever walk in on your parents having sex? So did we! This week we bring in Carlo to talk about being a parent and the struggles of finding time to get nasty when you have children running around opening doors all willy nilly. As always you can connect with us on Facebook, email us at...
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Not So Sexy Episode 18™ - Sex Ed
Oh man. Sex Ed, what a time to be in school. Seeing the inside of your parts, seeing the inside of other people's parts. Learning about how your body changes and why it's going to be even grosser. We brought on Daria, Duria, Dilza? And Rob to talk about their sex experiences. We also recorded…
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Not So Sexy™ Episode 17 - Shame and Embarrassment
Shame, hoohah, what is it good for? Absolutely nothing. Get it! Like the song... Whatever, you get it. This week we bring on Jodi and Brandon and talk about the shame and embarrassment we felt around sex, our bodies (of course), and everything else. As always you can connect with us on Facebook,...
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Not So Sexy™ Episode 16 - Breakups and Baggage Special
Who is the winner when it comes to a breakup? (Hint, not us). This is a special episode. Kit and I sat down with each other and talked about some significant breakups in our lives and how they've affected us. We also talk about that classic idea that there are winners and losers at breakups. As...
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Not So Sexy™ Episode 15 - What you wish you knew (before you had sex)
What did you wish you had known before you had sex? We bring in Logan and Darian this week and probably like you, were totally unequipped with before we started having sex. So many emotions, so many fluids. Who knew! We didn't... As always you can connect with us on Facebook, email us at...
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Not So Sexy™Episode 14 - When do you feel sexy?
This week we brought on Ainslie and Ken to discuss when they feel sexy. Ainslie has some experience in that arena as she was a former stripper and Ken, well he's a fuck machine (his words, not ours...ok ours). Feeling sexy is how we look at ourselves and how we're treated by others. Shocker?...
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Not So Sexy™ Episode 13 - Cheating. Do you do it?
Have you ever been cheated on, or had someone cheat on you? This week's episode we explored a topic that affects so many relationships, cheating. We brought Jada and Lisa into the studio and asked them do they do it? Cheating that is. Turns they're cheater cheater pumpkin eaters. Look, if…
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Not So Sexy Episode 12 - Fucking your friends, do you shit where you eat?
This week we brought in Justin and Lisa to talk about friend fucking or as we politely refer to it "Shitting where you eat". We also challenge that notion that friend fucking is bad thing. We learn that having boundaries is important, that treating each other like humans is important, and that...
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Not So Sexy™ Episode 11 - What makes you cum?
We really do want to know. And so we went and got some answers. We sat down with DJ Godiva and Sid this week asking them a pretty basic question - what makes them cum... and we learned a lot about BDSM, sloppy blowies, and ourselves. It was super fun to work on this episode because who doesn't…
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Not So Sexy Episode 10 - Sex, what is it?
Sex, what is it? Does it know things? This is our 10th episode! What! Seeing as this is a special occasion we brought Beth and Bryan into the studio and they helped us define what sex is. Turns out sex is a lot of different things. It's a skill, a paradigm, a societal construct created by the...
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Sad Day - Not So Sexy
This week we had some technical issues and our episode 9 was completely wiped. We at Not So Sexy™ are sorry to our amazing guests who gave us their time. We are also sorry to anyone who listens to this podcast regularly. You'll have to wait until next week.
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Not So Sexy Episode 8 - Part 2 of a three part series on dating and relationships
We learn that you can shave your butthole and that when you live with someone you have to be yourself all the time. Your SO (Significant Other) will, at some point, walk in on you pooping - get over it. We learn that you deserve to be happy with people you're with. And finally we learn that boys...
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Not So Sexy Episode 7 - Relationships 1 of 3
We've been thinking a lot about dating here at not so sexy. As one of us is single, I know, we mention that a lot. But it's something that's on our minds. We've been thinking a lot about the perceptions we have before we go on a date with someone. How we look at them and how they look at us. So…
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Not So Sexy Episode 6 - The Sexual Awakening
We all have a moment where we realize we're sexual creatures. Sometimes we realize we like girls, sometimes boys, sometimes butt stuff. Often our sexual awakening's show us a whole new perspective about ourselves and the world. This episode we learn that our awakening's have changed who we are,...
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Not So Sexy Episode 5 - Porn
Look. Porn is weird and terrible and wonderful. It also has many uses. Sometimes I like to get off on my own and sometimes I like to get off with a partner with it on in the background. It's there when I need it. Thanks porn!
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Not So Sexy Episode 4 - The Ask
Asking for sex can be hard. It can be weird and there isn't really a road map for it. This week we bring on Nicole and Rafe to talk about asking for sex. It turns out that it's not as easy as we thought. Also communication. Shocker!
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Not So Sexy Episode 3 - Kinks & Quirks
How many times have you worried about what you like? Ever asked to be dominated? Want someone just to say "I love you?" This week's episode we bring on Kit, FOR THE FIRST TIME, and Jodi to talk about their perspectives on getting weird, which hey IT'S NOT THAT WEIRD. We also talk about being over...
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Not So Sexy Episode 2 - Body Shame
Today's episode is about Body Shame. We brought Frank, Seth, and Analicia into the studio to talk about how we feel about our bodies. Look, we only get one body we might as well love it. Additionally, it can be funny standing in our underwear in front of people. As always we want you to have that...
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Not So Sexy Episode 1 - Consent
We bring in Logan, Melissa, and Katie into the studio to talk about consent. It's such a massive topic. We find out that consent is like a layer cake. A sexy layer cake? No, a regular ol get permission before you stick your finger into the cake cake. Also magic.
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Not So Sexy gets into the gross, real, fun, and most importantly sexy parts of human relationships and life. We talk about sex and how that impacts how we live, who we meet, and what we do. Sex is part of our everyday lives and it impacts so much of what we do. However, when we talk about it we couch in in soft language or we just don't get to the nitty gritty details. This podcast explores with curiosity and gets to the core of sex. Because talking about sex should be easy. Hosted by standup comedian Alexander Cabana.
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Not So Sexy gets into the gross, real, fun, and most importantly sexy parts of human relationships and life. We talk about sex and how that impacts how we live, who we meet, and what we do. Sex is part of our everyday lives and it impacts so much of what we do. However, when we talk about it we...
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