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Not Yo Average Aunties Podcast
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Welcome to Not Yo Average Aunties Podcast!Looking for a safe space to laugh, love, learn, and grow? You’ve come to the right place! Each week, we dive into everything that matters to us women – from dating, marriage, and finances to divorce, motherhood, and mindset, plus everything in between. We’re all about increasing confidence within ourselves and lifting each other up.We share our stories, sprinkle in some humor, and keep it real because, honestly, what’s life without a good laugh? Tune in for your weekly dose of laughter, inspiration, and those straight-up, no-nonsense talks you crave.Join us on this journey – let’s laugh, learn, and grow together!
Episodes
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The People vs. Road Rage: Who Really Caused the Crash?
Court is in session—and this one gets heated. The Aunties break down a viral road rage incident that sparks a bigger question: Was this about bad driving… or bruised egos? From lane-switching and speeding to refusing to move over, the hosts debate: Who actually caused the accident Whether road…
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The Era of Options: Are We Building Anything Real Anymore?
In this episode, the Aunties unpack a truth a lot of people feel but don’t always say out loud—nothing feels permanent anymore. From careers that change every few years to relationships that end without closure, the conversation dives into what it means to live in a world where stability feels...
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Auntie's Court: When Good Intentions Goes Left
In this Auntie’s Court segment, we react to a viral clip where a woman approaches someone on the street to help — but the situation quickly escalates, leaving people divided. Was it genuine care… or a lack of awareness? We break down what went wrong and get into the bigger conversation: consent,...
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You're Not Hard to Love — You're Hard to Control
On this episode of Not Your Average Aunties, we get into a conversation a lot of people avoid — the difference between love and control. Why is independence labeled as “difficult”? And at what point does “caring” cross the line into manipulation? We break down how control shows up in real life —...
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Boredom & Dating Drama | Aunties Talk Love Is Blind, Pop the Balloon & Relationship Red Flags
From Love Is Blind to those wild pop-the-balloon clips, the hosts unpack how looks, conversation, and chemistry shape modern dating. They get into whether routines ruin romance, if a strong mental connection can outlast physical attraction, and why some people confuse peace with boredom. Then it...
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When you can't read the room | Situational Awareness
Walking into a room and instantly knowing the vibe is a skill, and the Aunties are breaking it down. In this episode of Not Yo Average Aunties, Ki, Jay, and Jo talk about how to they read the room, spot the real leaders, catch the posturing, and move with confidence in social settings, meetings,...
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The Cost of Being ‘Perfect’ — And Why Letting Go Feels So Hard
We’re taught that perfection is the goal — but nobody talks about what it costs. In this episode, we unpack the emotional weight of always needing to get it right, how perfection becomes a coping mechanism, and why letting it go can feel like losing a part of yourself. From burnout and…
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Faith, Tithes & Boundaries: When Giving Starts Feeling Like Pressure
In this episode of Auntie’s Court, We tackle a controversial topic that’s been stirring up real conversations—money in the church. From pastors asking for tax returns to public call-outs during service, we break down where faith ends and pressure begins. Is tithing about obedience… or has it…
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Black Excellence: Ambition, Accountability & the Power of Choice
Ki, Jay, and Jo take a deeper look at what Black excellence really means — beyond the slogan. From resilience and high achievement to the role of personal accountability, the Aunties explore how ambition, choices, and systemic barriers all shape our outcomes. Then in Auntie’s Court…
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25 Year sentence!!!… At 18 yrs old| prison pipeline!!!!!
An 18-year-old gets 25 years… and the Aunties are asking deeper questions. In this episode, the Aunties step into “court” to break down an aggravated robbery case that raises big conversations about accountability, punishment, and what happens when teenagers make adult mistakes. Yes, the victim’s...
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Code-Switching: Who Gets the Real You?
Are you the same person at work, at home, and in these streets? Or are you clocking into different personalities like it’s a 9–5? This week, the Aunties are unpacking code-switching and asking the real question: who actually gets the real you? On this episode of Not Yo Average Aunties, Key, Jay,...
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Built By Us: The Culture, The Coins & The Credit
Black women don’t just participate in culture — we build it. From music and fashion to viral moments and billion-dollar trends, this episode explores how Black women shape what the world consumes… and why we’re often the last to profit from it. The Aunties unpack cultural appropriation…
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You Made It. Now Everyone Wants a Piece | The Black Tax Explained
You prayed for success. You worked for success. But nobody warned you about the invoice that comes with it. This week, the Aunties unpack the real weight behind “making it”: from financial expectations to emotional labor and why success can sometimes feel like a group project you didn’t sign up...
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Aunties React to ANTM’s Most Controversial Moments | Did America’s Next Top Model Go Too Far?
America’s Next Top Model gave us iconic moments, but did it also cross the line? The Aunties step into Auntie’s Court to break down the Netflix documentary revisiting the 15-year legacy of ANTM and the controversies fans can’t stop debating. From emotional breakdowns to “tough love” critiques…
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Auntie's Court: The Day Clifton Powell Faced the Accountability Mirror
At 69 years old, Clifton Powell says he just figured out love. After decades of living as a self-described womanizer, he now says he understands monogamy and emotional commitment. Auntie has questions. Welcome back to Aunties’ Court — we bring viral moments under review. We’re not judges,...
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Soft Life vs Real Life: How To Build Ease Without Losing Discipline
The soft life looks good online but real life still requires discipline. In this episode of Not Yo Average Aunties, Jo, Jay, and Ki unpack what “soft life” actually means beyond social media and how women can build more ease without losing structure, consistency, or accountability. The Aunties...
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BAFTA Controversy: Tourette’s, a Racial Slur, and the Accountability Debate | Aunties’ Court
A viral BAFTA moment stopped the internet in its tracks and had everybody arguing in the comments. Disability, accountability, race, intent… whew. The timeline was in shambles. Welcome to Aunties’ Court — where we bring viral moments under review. We’re not lawyers, judges, or jury… we’re Aunties...
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IF Social Media Disappeared tomorrow, what would happen? Are we addicted?
What would really happen if social media vanished tomorrow? No Instagram. No Threads. No TikTok. NO Facebook. No scrolling at 1AM. Be honest… would you feel free or panicked? In this Women’s lifestyle conversation, your favorite Aunties get real about social media’s grip on our daily routines —...
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Everyone is "Triggered" all of a sudden!
Feeling overstimulated, overworked, and one notification away from losing it? Same. In this episode, your favorite Aunties are breaking down how to find calm in chaos using something powerful (and low-key life-changing) called glimmers. Ki, Jay, and Jo keep it real about the everyday triggers…
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Who Are You Becoming — and What Are You Leaving Behind?
Are we actually the best version of ourselves… or just the latest version? In this episode, the Aunties talk about growth, aging, and the pressure to have it all figured out. From unlearning old patterns to pushing our bodies, our minds, and our boundaries, we get honest about what it really…
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Why Every Generation Thinks Everyone Else Is Wrong at Work | The Multigenerational Workplace
Why does every generation at work feel like they’re the only ones who get it right? In this episode of Not Yo Average Aunties, Jay, Jo, and Ke unpack why the multigenerational workplace feels so tense and what really happens when five generations with different values, communication styles, and...
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Subscribe or Sacrifice: How We’re Taking Back Our Coins in 2026
Are you paying for a bunch of subscriptions you don’t even use? Same. In this episode, the Aunties get real about money habits in 2026, the TikTok stuff we bought and regret, the things we swear were “worth it,” and the subscriptions quietly draining our accounts every month. We talk no-spend...
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The Luxury of Being Alone: Boundaries, Quiet Seasons & Choosing Yourself
In this episode of Not Your Average Auntie, the conversation goes deeper than titles and labels and lands squarely on the power of being alone on purpose. The Aunties talk about solo trips, solo dates, quiet time, and why choosing yourself isn’t selfish — it’s necessary. They unpack how…
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Who’s Really in Your Corner? Friends, Family & the Truth About Support
In this episode of Not Your Average Auntie, the hosts get real about friendship, support, and what it actually looks like when you step out and try something new. They unpack the different forms of support: emotional, financial, promotional, spiritual and why unmet expectations can lead to...
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Vision Boards, Boundaries & Getting Sh*t Done: The Aunties’ Real Plan for 2026
In this episode of Not Your Average Aunties, the hosts break down how they’re really preparing for 2026 no manifestation cosplay, just intention, boundaries, and execution. The Aunties talk vision boards (physical vs. digital), reviewing the wins and unfinished business from the past year, habits...
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NYAA Wrapped: Our Biggest Laughs, Lessons & WTF Moments of 2025
Join the Not Yo Average Aunties Podcast for our 2025 rewind — NYAA style. Think of this episode as our version of Spotify Wrapped, where we break down the moments you loved, quoted, reposted, and debated all year long. From hilarious dating stories and first-date fails to real conversations about...
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Puff, Prenups & Power: Celebrity Scandals, Divorce Talk & Our Real 2025 Recap
The Aunties are closing out 2025 with no filters and no fluff. In this candid year-end recap, the Not Your Average Aunties unpack the biggest moments that shaped the culture from the Puff Daddy conviction and documentary fallout, to celebrity divorces, prenup debates, power dynamics in...
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Holidays the Auntie Way: Grown Kids, Tight Budgets & Letting Go of Holiday Pressure
Join the Not Yo Average Aunties (NYAA) for a real, unfiltered conversation about how the holidays change as you get older. From barely decorating and grown kids running the show, to Secret Santa swaps, re-gifting with zero shame, skipping Black Friday chaos, and navigating holiday spending in...
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TikTok Hits vs. Real R&B: Are We Losing the Art of Music?
On this episode of Not Yo Avg Auntie’s Podcast, the aunties dive into Gen Z music vs. our era of real R&B, storytelling, and soul. From mumble rap, viral TikTok hooks, and recycled samples to the timeless vibes of ’80s and ’90s R&B, we’re breaking down why today’s songs have us confused…
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Scammers Got Smarter: AI Calls, Fake Banks & QR Code Schemes Exposed
In this episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, Jo, Ki and Jay expose how scammers have upgraded — and why so many people (young, old, and “should know better”) are still falling for it. They break down the newest scam trends: AI-generated voice calls pretending to be your bank Texts and emails…
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Turkey, Tea & Thanksgiving Truths | Not Yo Avg Aunties Holiday Special
In this Thanksgiving episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, Jo, Ki and Jay dive into the real holiday experience, the food, the family, the foolishness, and the feelings. They break down the must-have dishes (turkey wings, mac and cheese, collard greens, stuffing, sweet potato pie) and call out…
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Do We Even Believe in Love Anymore? | A Talk on Modern Love, Marriage & the Meaning of Connection
In this episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, the Aunties ask the real question: Do we even believe in love anymore? They unpack how social media, money, and modern dating have shifted what people expect from relationships — and whether love is still about connection or convenience.
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Match Their Energy or Protect Your Peace? | Aunties Talk Boundaries, Karma & Self-Control
Do you “treat people how you want to be treated,” or do you “give what you get”? This week, the Aunties debate how to handle disrespect while protecting your peace. Join Jo, Ki and Jay as they talk boundaries, revenge, karma, forgiveness, and how growth shifts your reactions as you evolve.…
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Makeup vs. Bare Face: What Really Defines Confidence?
On this episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, Jo, Ki, and Jay get real about makeup, confidence, and beauty standards. Are you more confident with a beat face or bare-faced? The aunties dive into personal preferences, societal and partner expectations, and the pressure women feel to always “look...
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Sinners, Sitcoms & Soul: Movies and Music That Stand the Test of Time
Join the Not Your Average Aunties as they debate movies and music that withstand generations — from new hits like Sinners to classics like Love Jones, Dirty Dancing, and timeless TV sitcoms. The hosts mix personal stories (including a memorable coffee-shop meltdown) with spirited takes on genres,...
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Parenting Without a Manual: Sacrifice, Social Media & Letting Kids Grow
Parenting doesn’t come with instructions, and the Aunties keep it honest about raising kids in today’s world. From the pressure we unknowingly put on our children, to learning how to step back and let them become their own people, it’s a journey full of lessons. We get real about the differences…
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Culture, Controversy & Conversations That Matter
The Aunties are back, keeping it real and raw about the issues that hit home. From the ongoing fight for the CROWN Act and the bias Black women still face for wearing natural hair, to the messy world of politics, housing cuts, and detention scandals—we’re saying what others won’t. And you know...
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Wild Conspiracy Theories: Aliens, Celebs & Pigeon Spies: Time to question everything
Think pigeons are just birds? 👀 Or that aliens might already be here? In this hilarious and unfiltered episode, the Aunties go all in on the wildest conspiracy theories—from government secrets and vaccines to celebrity drama and why folks swear pigeons are spies. With equal parts curiosity,...
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Making Our Kings Feel Safe: Vulnerability, Boundaries, and Balance
Three hosts explore what it takes for Black women to make Black men feel emotionally safe—covering expectations of toughness, the need for vulnerability, and the importance of balanced support. They share poll results, personal stories, and practical strategies like emotional check-ins, mutual...
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Would You Still Go to College? Student Debt, Hustle Culture & Real-Life Alternatives
Is college still worth it in 2025? The Aunties break it down—student loans, sky-high tuition, and whether the traditional degree is still the golden ticket. From trade schools and certifications to on-the-job experience and side hustles, we talk about the real choices people are making today. We...
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Don’t Let Stress Age You: Self-Care, Skincare & Sleep Secrets for Black Women Over 30
Stress can show up on your face, your body, and your energy but you don’t have to let it age you before your time. In this episode of Not Yo Avg Auntie’s Podcast, we get real about the everyday habits that speed up aging: constant stress, bitterness, helicopter parenting, poor sleep, skipping...
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“Don’t Call Me Grandma”: Redefining What It Means to Be a Modern Grandparent
Forget rocking chairs and knitting stereotypes, today’s grandparents are rewriting the rules! In this episode, the Aunties dive into what grandparenting really looks like in the modern age. From picking names that fit your vibe (Glam-ma, GiGi, Pop-Pop—anything but “Grandma” 👀) to setting...
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Be HONEST....Do you curse at your kids?
Hosts Jo, Ki, and Jay discuss whether they curse at their children, the difference between joking and hurtful language, and how parenting styles evolve as kids become adults. They reflect on boundaries, respect, authenticity, and avoiding helicopter parenting while keeping family relationships…
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What If We Got It Wrong? Family Drama, Scandals & Growth Unfiltered
In this episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, the hosts dive into recent viral moments that had everyone talking from explosive mother-daughter altercations to cheating scandals, privacy breaches, and messy celebrity encounters. But it doesn’t stop at hot takes. The aunties flip the script and...
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What's the REAL Deal with Interracial Dating
In this episode of Not Your Average Auntie’s Podcast, Jo, Ki, and Jay dive into the real and raw truths about interracial dating. From personal experiences to cultural clashes, the aunties unpack everything why some people date outside their race, how projection and judgment show up in our...
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Can Being Delusional Actually Help You Succeed?
Welcome to another engaging episode of the Not Your Average Auntie's podcast, where Jo, Ki, and Jay explore the intriguing concept of "delulu"—a blend of delusion and optimism. Dive into the discussion on whether being "delulu" is a new form of self-manifestation or just romanticized denial. The...
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Dating Potential: Why Love Isn’t Always Enough in Your 40s and Beyond
In this episode of Not Your Average Auntie’s Podcast, Jo, Ki, and Jay keep it all the way real as they unpack the tricky topic of dating someone based on their “potential.” Is it noble… or just naïve? Now that we’re grown-grown, settling for potential just ain’t cutting it. The aunties get honest...
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Religion Ain’t One Size Fits All: Defining Faith for Ourselves
In this powerful episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties Podcast, Jo, Ki, and Jay peel back the layers on what it really means to be spiritual in today’s world especially as Black women navigating inherited beliefs, generational shifts, and cultural traditions. They’re talking about everything from growing...
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Black Girl Magic on Screen: Breaking Stereotypes & Building Legacies in Hollywood
This week on Not Yo Avg Aunties, Jo, Ki, and Jay dive into the world of film and television to explore how Black women have been portrayed and how we’re flipping the script. From outdated stereotypes to bold, groundbreaking performances, the aunties reflect on the evolution of Black women in...
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Generation wealth: Wealth Ain’t Enough, Are You Passing Down Wisdom Too?
In this powerful episode of Not Yo Avg Aunties, Jo, Ki, and Jay break down the real meaning of generational wealth and it’s deeper than just money and assets. They unpack the responsibility that comes with building a legacy, from financial literacy and passing down knowledge, to deciding if your...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Welcome to Not Yo Average Aunties Podcast!Looking for a safe space to laugh, love, learn, and grow? You’ve come to the right place! Each week, we dive into everything that matters to us women – from dating, marriage, and finances to divorce, motherhood, and mindset, plus everything in between. We’re all about increasing confidence within ourselves and lifting each other up.We share our stories, sprinkle in some humor, and keep it real because, honestly, what’s life without a good laugh? Tune in for your weekly dose of laughter, inspiration, and those straight-up, no-nonsense talks you crave.Join us on this journey – let’s laugh, learn, and grow together!
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