Now You May Kiss Podcast with Chanelle Carlin, your Celebrant for Life

After the vows are spoken and the celebration ends, many couples find themselves in a space no one really talks about.A quiet comedown.A sense of “now what?”Even unexpected sadness.In this solo episode of Now You May Kiss™, Chanelle Carlin—wedding officiant and Celebrant for Life™—opens an honest, compassionate conversation about the post-wedding blues.Why do so many newlyweds feel a sense of loss after such a joyful day?What emotional shifts are actually happening beneath the surface?And how can couples move through this transition with intention and connection?This episode is a gentle reminder that nothing has gone wrong—you are simply stepping into something deeper.Because while the wedding is a moment…the marriage is the meaning.

A short and heartfelt check-in from Chanelle.After a quieter month, she shares a personal update—navigating a family health scare, settling into a new home, and honoring the need for rest in an unexpected season.She also shares some exciting news:Now You May Kiss has been nominated for a Women Podcasters Award in the Society & Culture category.If this podcast has ever resonated with you, your vote would mean so much. Voting is open April 1–30.https://www.womenpodcasters.com/awards-nominees?page=5Regular episodes return next week—with more meaningful conversations, beautiful love stories, and intentional guidance for your marriage journey.

What happens when love, marriage, and entrepreneurship all intersect?In this episode of the Now You May Kiss Podcast, Chanelle sits down with transformational relationship expert Annie Yatch, who helps entrepreneurial couples strengthen both their partnership and their business.Annie’s work focuses on helping high-performing couples dismantle subconscious patterns of control, competition, and unresolved trauma so they can lead—and love—with deeper connection and unity.Together, Chanelle and Annie explore how couples can shift from conflict to connection, navigate feedback without defensiveness, and transform their relationship into their greatest leadership asset.You’ll hear practical tools for improving communication, resolving conflict with compassion, and creating a shared vision for the life and business you’re building together.If you’re an entrepreneurial couple—or simply committed to building a strong, intentional marriage—this conversation will give you powerful insights to strengthen your relationship.In this episode you’ll learn:Why many relationship conflicts are driven by subconscious “stories”How couples can identify and shift the narratives that create disconnectionThe importance of defining your relationship’s desired emotional statePractical techniques for navigating conflict with compassionA powerful framework for giving and receiving feedback without triggering defensivenessWhy the goal in conflict should always be to “race back to connection”Because a thriving marriage isn’t accidental—it’s intentional.

Destination Weddings Done Right with Carolyn Kulb of Windward PathDid you know that 1 in 4 couples is now choosing a destination wedding?In this episode of the Now You May Kiss (TM) Podcast, Chanelle Carlin welcomes back luxury travel advisor Carolyn Kulb, owner of Windward Path, to talk all things destination weddings.From European villas to mountaintop elopements in the Pacific Northwest, Carolyn shares who destination weddings are perfect for — and who should think twice. They discuss legal vs. symbolic ceremonies, managing guest logistics, travel insurance, budgeting realities, weather considerations, and how to build the right team so you’re not overwhelmed.If you’re dreaming of saying “I do” somewhere extraordinary — or wondering whether a destination wedding is truly right for you — this episode will help you plan wisely and beautifully.

What if your wedding day didn’t require choosing between celebration and caregiving?In this heartfelt episode of Now You May Kiss, host Chanelle Carlin sits down with Chelcy Flores, founder of Devote Home Care and Devote Event Care, to explore how couples can include beloved grandparents and family members with special needs—without added stress.Chelcy shares the deeply personal story behind Devote Event Care and how her background in nutrition, orthopedics, and home care led her to identify a major gap in the wedding industry. Together, Chanelle and Chelcy discuss how intentional planning, compassionate support, and gentle presence allow couples to stay fully present while ensuring their loved ones are safe, comfortable, and included.From intimate mountain ceremonies to destination weddings, this conversation is a powerful reminder that weddings are not just about two people—but about generations, legacy, and love.If having your grandparents and loved ones there truly matters to you, this episode will open your eyes to what’s possible.

Guest: Vic (Victoria) Thomas – New Zealand Celebrant & Founder of My CelebrantIn this heartfelt and globally-minded episode of *Now You May Kiss™, Wedding Officiant and Celebrant for Life™ Chanelle Carlin sits down with Vic (Victoria) Thomas, a New Zealand-based marriage celebrant and the founder of My Celebrant—the world’s first celebrant-specific business management platform.Together, Chanelle and Vic explore what it truly means to be a celebrant: not just someone who officiates weddings, but a professional who holds space for life’s most meaningful milestones. From deeply personal ceremony creation and micro-weddings, to building sustainable, heart-led businesses that support family life, this conversation beautifully blends love stories with leadership.Vic shares how becoming a celebrant — and later a mother of three — inspired her to rethink systems, boundaries, and client experience, ultimately leading to the creation of the mycelebrant app, now live in New Zealand, Australia, the UK, and Ireland. The episode also reflects on the sacred impact of marriage itself, the shifts that occur after “I do,” and the privilege celebrants hold as witnesses to love, legacy, and lifelong commitment.Whether you’re a couple planning a meaningful wedding, a celebrant seeking alignment and sustainability, or someone who believes in the power of intentional ceremony, this episode will leave you inspired, grounded, and full of hope.

Now You May Kiss™ Podcast | Featuring Carter Eve of Carter Eve JewelryWhat makes an engagement ring truly meaningful? In this episode of the Now You May Kiss™ podcast, Chanelle Carlin sits down with Carter, founder and designer of Carter Eve Jewelry, for a heartfelt conversation about intention, craftsmanship, sustainability, and honoring love stories through thoughtful design.Carter shares her journey from a childhood fascination with gemstones to becoming a formally trained fine jewelry designer with degrees from SCAD and RISD, and an apprenticeship under a master goldsmith. Together, Chanelle and Carter explore why engagement rings and heirloom jewelry should never be one-size-fits-all — just like weddings and marriages themselves.From reimagining family heirloom pieces into modern, wearable designs, to practical advice on caring for fine jewelry, appraisals, and insurance, this episode is filled with wisdom for couples who want their rings to reflect who they truly are — not outdated rules or trends.If you’re newly engaged, planning to propose, or dreaming of a ring that reflects your lifestyle, values, and story, this episode is a must-listen.About our guest:Carter Eve is a Los Angeles–based fine jewelry designer known for creating modern heirlooms with timeless intention. Classically trained as a goldsmith, she specializes in custom engagement rings, wedding bands, and heirloom transformations—reimagining meaningful pieces for a new chapter. Each design is rooted in thoughtful craftsmanship, refined materials, and the belief that jewelry should be both deeply personal and made to last a lifetime.

Veils are more than an accessory — they’re a moment, a memory, and often the finishing touch that transforms a beautiful dress into a wedding look.In this episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, host Chanelle Carlin sits down with Bethany Spence, owner and lead designer of August Veils in Portland, Oregon. Bethany shares her serendipitous journey into the bridal industry, how she came to lead one of the Pacific Northwest’s most beloved veil studios, and why veils continue to hold timeless significance for modern brides.Together, Chanelle and Bethany explore:The evolving traditions of wedding veilsHow veils can elevate, balance, and personalize a bridal lookModern veil trends, from lace and blushers to vintage-inspired stylesPractical advice for outdoor weddings, wind, and veil securityThe beauty of heirloom veil restoration and multi-generational wedding piecesWhen (and how) to choose the right veil — even if you think you’re “not a veil bride”Whether you’re newly engaged, planning an outdoor wedding, or drawn to meaningful heirloom details, this episode offers thoughtful insight and expert guidance from a true artisan of bridal design.🎧 Tune in and discover how the right veil can complete your wedding-day story.

Gratitude, Growth & Joy in Ceremony: A 2025 Reflection with Christopher ShelleyIn this special year-end episode of Now You May Kiss™, Chanelle Carlin is joined once again by her dear friend and fellow officiant, Christopher Shelley of Illuminating Ceremonies—marking his fourth appearance on the podcast.Together, Chanelle and Chris reflect on the journey of 2025, sharing meaningful wedding stories, lessons learned, and the gratitude that anchors both their personal lives and professional callings. From the joy of loving spouses to the honor of walking alongside couples on one of the most important days of their lives, this conversation is a heartfelt reminder of why ceremony matters.They also offer thoughtful guidance for:Wedding professionals, encouraging continued learning, courage, and the willingness to simply do the thing.Couples planning their 2026 weddings, with empowering reminders to trust their instincts, design a wedding that reflects who they truly are, and hire experienced professionals they can trust—especially a wedding planner who allows them to fully enjoy their day without stress.At its core, this episode celebrates the role officiants play in fostering joy, presence, and connection in the room—because that’s what we do.A meaningful, gratitude-filled close to the year, and an inspiring invitation into the weddings yet to come.Thank you for an incredible year! - Chanelle

What if celebration wasn’t about perfection—but about presence, play, and connection?In this joy-filled episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, host Chanelle Carlin sits down with Cindy Shaw, founder of Color Collective by Cindy Shaw, to explore how creativity brings people together in deeply meaningful ways. After decades in the corporate world, Cindy traded spreadsheets for paintbrushes and built a business rooted in three simple yet powerful values: create, connect, and flourish.Together, Chanelle and Cindy talk about the healing power of creativity, why art is for everyone (even those who “can’t draw”), and how painting parties are becoming a heartfelt alternative for bridal showers, bachelorette gatherings, and multi-generational celebrations. They also discuss the importance of human connection in a post-2020 world—and why carving out time for creative play is essential for our mental, emotional, and relational well-being.Whether you’re planning a wedding celebration, craving more connection with the people you love, or simply looking for permission to feel like a kid again, this episode will inspire you to slow down, pick up a paintbrush, and rediscover the joy of creating—together.No experience required. Just a willingness to show up and have fun.

Are you dreaming of a wedding day that feels deeply meaningful and aligned with your values? In this episode, I’m joined by Kiira Portet, owner of Evergreen Event Company—a Seattle-based wedding and elopement planner who specializes in intentional, eco-conscious celebrations.Together, we explore how couples can create smaller, more intimate weddings that are rich in love, connection, and presence… all while reducing waste and honoring the environment. Kiira shares practical ways to incorporate sustainability, why “small” doesn’t mean “simple” (or low-budget!), and how focusing on your why can guide every choice you make.We also discuss the role a planner plays in elopements and micro-weddings, the movement toward sustainability in the wedding industry, and Kiira’s leadership with Emerald Hour, a Seattle-based collective advancing eco-friendly practices among wedding professionals.If you’re looking to plan an intimate celebration that reflects your values, your love story, and your vision for your marriage, this episode is for you.

Are you looking for a wedding venue that feels like a full-weekend celebration?In this episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, Chanelle sits down with Kyra Skaggs, General Manager of the Blue Elk Inn in Leavenworth, WA, to explore why this independently owned boutique hotel is quickly becoming a beloved destination for intimate weddings and family-centered gatherings. With 31 rooms, a beautifully landscaped backyard wedding space, onsite amenities including breakfast, a pool, hot tub, saunas, and cruiser bikes, plus its convenient location (less than a mile from downtown Leavenworth), the Blue Elk Inn offers couples the perfect blend of rustic elegance, modern comfort, and mountain-town charm. We talk about:*Creating a meaningful wedding weekend experience*Working with Ashley Coffin and her team at The Local Event Co for planning and rentals*Full-property buyouts and keeping loved ones together onsite*Seasonal wedding options—yes, even magical winter weddings in the snow*Why Leavenworth is the perfect destination for guestsIf you're dreaming of a cozy mountain ceremony, a relaxed outdoor celebration, or simply a venue where everyone you love can stay together in one beautiful place, this episode will give you a true feel for the magic of Blue Elk Inn weddings.Learn more at: www.blueelkleavenworth.com and www.thelocaleventco.com

What does love really mean — and how do we prepare ourselves for the kind of relationship that lasts?In this heart-opening episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, Chanelle sits down with Elizabeth Rave, dating and relationship coach for highly sensitive women and host of the Seeking True Love Now podcast.Together, they explore:What love actually is beyond fairy tales and cultural scriptsHow Elizabeth learned to understand her deepest emotional needsWhy falling in love is one of the most vulnerable — and courageous — choices we ever makeHow to create clarity, confidence, and alignment before committing to a lifelong partnershipElizabeth shares powerful insights from her own journey of emotional healing, self-awareness, and redefining what devotion looks like — wisdom she now uses to help others call in the healthy, committed relationship they deserve.Whether you're dating, newly engaged, or decades into marriage, this episode invites you to reflect, grow, and love with intention.Learn more about Elizabeth’s work at ElizabethRave.comhttps://podfollow.com/seeking-true-love

When love finds you again after divorce, how do you help your children feel safe, seen, and supported through this new chapter?In this heartfelt episode, Chanelle Carlin sits down with Rosalind Sedacca, CLC — Certified Life Coach, Divorce & Parenting Coach, and founder of the Child-Centered Divorce Network — to talk about how parents can lovingly guide their children when they plan to remarry.Rosalind shares compassionate insights on:creating open conversations about remarriage;helping children navigate jealousy, loyalty conflicts, and change;introducing a new partner with patience and respect; androle-modeling healthy love and emotional honesty.Whether you’re a parent entering a new marriage or a professional supporting blended families, this episode offers warmth, wisdom, and hope for everyone walking the path of love after loss.Learn more about Rosalind’s work at childcentereddivorce.com.

There’s something magical about saying I do while snowflakes fall and twinkle lights glow all around you. In this cozy, story-filled episode, host Chanelle Carlin, Professional Wedding Officiant and Your Celebrant for Life™, invites you to imagine the wonder of a Christmas elopement in the Bavarian village of Leavenworth, Washington.From couples who’ve exchanged vows under the town Christmas tree, in candlelit cabins, and beside frozen lakes, to practical tips for planning your own snowy celebration, this episode blends romance and reality — with heartwarming stories, laughter, and a sprinkle of holiday sparkle.Featuring:Real Christmas love stories from couples like Daryl & Katelyn, Janelle & Tom, John & Katherine, Lacey & Matt, and Dylan & TeishPractical winter elopement planning tipsA spotlight on the Leavenworth Wedding Show (October 25, 2025)Resources and inspiration at Leavenworth.orgWhether you’re newly engaged, planning a winter wedding, or simply love a good love story, this episode will warm your heart — one snowflake at a time.

Your honeymoon isn’t just your first trip as a married couple — it’s your first opportunity to practice being a team in real life. But between wedding planning, endless destination ideas, and the pressure to “get it right,” planning the perfect honeymoon can feel overwhelming — even for high-achieving couples.In this episode, Chanelle Carlin, your Celebrant for Life™ and host of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, sits down with Carolyn Kulb, Luxury Travel Advisor and Owner of Windward Path, to talk about why honeymoon planning can be uniquely challenging — and how to make it effortless, luxurious, and deeply personal. Together, they explore:The emotional weight of planning your first trip as a married coupleNavigating “honeymoon style mismatches” (adventure vs. relaxation, planned vs. spontaneous)Why delayed honeymoons are secretly the most luxurious optionThe insider perks and VIP touches only a true expert can accessIf you’re dreaming of a honeymoon that’s more than just beautiful — one that’s meaningful, seamless, and completely you — this conversation will inspire your next chapter together.🎙️ Hosted by Chanelle Carlin, Wedding Officiant and Your Celebrant for Life™✨ Guest: Carolyn Kulb, Luxury Travel Advisor & Owner, Windward Path📍 Learn more: https://chanellecarlin.com/podcast

In this special episode, I’m sharing the brand-new Now You May Kiss™ Podcast theme song — written just for the show by my husband, Bill Black. It’s fun, upbeat, and guaranteed to have you smiling (and maybe even dancing) as we celebrate everything this podcast is about: love, marriage, and all the kiss-worthy moments along the way. Turn it up, sing along, and let the music carry you into the world of Now You May Kiss™

Your wedding ring is more than sparkle—it’s a legacy.In this episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, Chanelle Carlin sits down with Erika Czerniejewski, owner of Columbia River Jewelers in Scappoose, Oregon. Erika is a master jeweler and “storyteller in metal and stone,” with decades of experience creating custom designs that honor love stories across generations.Together, they explore the cultural history of wedding jewelry, the artistry of custom design, and how today’s couples are choosing everything from heirloom estate pieces to colorful gemstones in place of traditional diamonds.If you’re dreaming of a deeply personal, meaningful, and unforgettable wedding ceremony, you’ll love this inspiring conversation.Listen now and learn how to choose jewelry as unique as your love story.

Wedding planning can be stressful—but it’s often the deeper emotional patterns and relationship dynamics that create the real tension. In this episode, Chanelle talks with **relationship coach and couples therapist Lindsey Bourne** about navigating the *power struggle phase*, working with attachment wounds, and reframing emotional triggers as opportunities for healing. Lindsey also shares practical tools for setting boundaries, managing guilt, and staying grounded as a couple through the wedding planning journey and beyond.👉 Connect with LindseyInstagram @lindseybournecoaching

Planning a wedding in Central Washington—or dreaming of a Leavenworth celebration? In this episode of Now You May Kiss™, Chanelle sits down with Ashley Coffin, Wedding Planner, Owner of The Local Event Co., and Founder of the Leavenworth Wedding Show.Ashley shares the heart behind this vibrant, one-of-a-kind wedding showcase happening October 25, 2025, at the Leavenworth Festhalle. From llamas and live music to curated vendor experiences, you’ll hear why this show is more than just a vendor expo—it’s a celebration of relationships, collaboration, and the joy of weddings in Central Washington.Couples will discover why this show is the perfect way to meet their dream team of vendors, and wedding professionals will be inspired by the camaraderie and care that makes this community so unique.🎉 Save the date: October 25, 2025 | 9 AM – 3 PM | Leavenworth Festhalle, Leavenworth, Washington✨ Free for couples to attend!For more information, visit www.leavenworthweddingshow.com

In this uplifting episode of Now You May Kiss™, Wedding Officiant Chanelle Carlin sits down with fellow officiant and third-time guest, Christopher Shelley of Illuminating Ceremonies. Together, they share how they intentionally cultivate positivity and gratitude in their personal lives and in the ceremonies they create, even when things don’t go as planned. From setting the emotional tone for the entire celebration to finding silver linings in unexpected moments, this is a joyful peek behind the scenes of what it means to hold space for couples on one of the most meaningful days of their lives.

What if your second (or third) chance at love was the most aligned one yet? In this heart-opening episode, Chanelle is joined by transformational coach Michele Heffron to talk about rewriting your love story, reclaiming your worth after divorce, and finding deep connection at any age. Whether you're navigating your own next chapter or planning a ceremony that honors a long journey to "I do," this conversation will remind you that love always has more to give. Learn how to tune into your heart, release limiting beliefs, and create a life you’re excited about—starting today.

In this heart-centered episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, Chanelle Carlin sits down with Ruby Knapp, Master Esthetician and Founder of Lavish Looks Spa & Wellness Center in Omak, Washington. Together, they explore the power of intentional pre-wedding wellness—beyond skincare and into the realms of emotional grounding, stress relief, and true self-love.Ruby shares practical, soul-soothing rituals that help couples feel confident and present before they say “I do,” along with insider spa wisdom on red light therapy, salt room healing, and grounding routines that make a lasting difference. Whether you’re planning your wedding or supporting someone who is, this episode is a gentle reminder that your wellness is worth prioritizing. Brought to you by the 2025 Leavenworth Wedding Show.

What if you could have a wedding that feels like a scene from your favorite love story—whether it’s bathed in fresh snowfall, golden autumn light, or framed by wildflower-filled meadows? In this episode of Now You May Kiss™, Chanelle Carlin—Professional Wedding Officiant and your Celebrant for Life™—spotlights the North Central Region of Washington and reveals why Leavenworth, WA is one of the most enchanting year-round destinations for couples seeking a deeply personal, breathtaking, and unforgettable ceremony.From magical alpine charm to a community of creatives who truly “get” meaningful celebrations, Leavenworth isn’t just a backdrop—it’s a co-creator in your love story.Whether you’re eloping in the snow, gathering your closest people for an intimate vineyard celebration, or simply craving a place where you can be fully present for your vows… this episode will show you what’s possible when the place, the people, and the purpose align.✨ Plus: Don’t miss the inside scoop on the upcoming Leavenworth Wedding Show—your opportunity to experience the magic firsthand.

What do you do when the groom forgets to make any promises in his vows? Or when a surprise Elvis tribute breaks out mid-ceremony?In this funny, heartfelt, and eye-opening episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, your host Chanelle Carlin—Professional Wedding Officiant and Celebrant for Life™—welcomes back the one and only Chris Shelley, award-winning Officiant, Certified Life-Cycle Celebrant, speaker, and author of Best. Ceremony. Ever.Chanelle and Chris dive into the wild, wonderful world of wedding day surprises—from last-minute ceremony changes to unexpected guests and bugs in bridal gowns. They share real stories and laugh-out-loud moments that reveal just how important it is to have a professional officiant who can roll with anything—while still honoring your story with reverence, warmth, and style.This episode is perfect for engaged couples who want more than just a “cookie-cutter” ceremony. If you’re looking for a luxury, one-of-a-kind wedding experience that’s personal, meaningful, and stress-free—even when things go off-script—this conversation is for you.💛 Looking for the officiant who will make your ceremony the most unforgettable part of your day?Book a complimentary Consultation/Discovery Call with Chanelle Carlin: chanellecarlin.com OR Chris Shelley: illuminatingceremonies.com🎉 Proudly sponsored by The 2025 Leavenworth Wedding ShowExperience curated inspiration, top-tier vendors, and exquisite Pacific Northwest wedding possibilities: leavenworthweddingshow.com

Why Your Wedding Story Deserves to Be Seen AND Heard – With Seattle Videographer Reid JohnsonYour wedding day will fly by—but what if you could relive the moments, the emotions, the laughter, and even the vows, again and again, in full cinematic beauty?In this heartwarming and insightful episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, your host and Celebrant for Life, Chanelle Carlin, sits down with award-winning Seattle wedding videographer Reid Johnson, the creative force behind Best Made Videos®. With over 400 weddings captured and a background in broadcast journalism, Reid shares why wedding videography is more than just a luxury—it’s a living, breathing heirloom.Whether you're eloping in the Pacific Northwest, exchanging vows on a vineyard, or planning a celebration with those closest to your heart, Reid helps you understand:✨ What truly makes a wedding video unforgettable🎥 How to choose the right videographer for your story💍 Why video can complement a deeply meaningful ceremonyExpect a joyful, candid conversation filled with behind-the-scenes wisdom, genuine passion, and inspiration for couples who want to preserve their wedding day with the same intention they put into planning it.Press play and imagine the love story you’ll watch over and over.Looking for more info on Reid and Best Made Videos? Check out our show notes here.💌 Ready to craft your own deeply personal and unforgettable wedding ceremony? Connect with Chanelle at chanellecarlin.com and say yes to a ceremony that reflects the depth of your love and the beauty of your journey.

Imagine this: You’re standing at the altar, fully present, completely confident—not just in your love, but in your shared vision for the future. That kind of clarity starts way before the vows... it starts with conversations about money."Talking about finances doesn’t have to feel heavy, awkward, or tense. In fact, with the right tools—and the right mindset—it can become one of the most fun and freeing things you do together as a couple.In this episode of the Now You May Kiss (TM) Podcast, Chanelle had the opportunity to interview Sarah Nicole Nadler, a 6-figure finance coach for female entrepreneurs, award winning author of the book, "From Hustler to InvestHER" and Wedding business owner. Sarah helps women turn their business profits into personal wealth. We spoke about how couples can learn to have deep conversations about money and finances before they get married. Check out our show notes for links to Sarah and her book mentioned in this podcast episode.

Planning a wedding that reflects who you really are as a couple shouldn't feel like you're trapped in a rulebook written by strangers. In this week's delightfully candid episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, your host and Celebrant for Life, Chanelle Carlin, sits down with the irreverently wise and wonderfully warm Chris Shelley—celebrated wedding officiant, speaker, and author of Best. Ceremony. Ever.Together, they bust through some of the most common (and outdated) wedding myths that are still showing up in high-end ceremonies today—like whether you really can’t see each other before the ceremony, why weddings “always” start late, and if your officiant needs to be awkwardly wedged between you during your vows (spoiler alert: no!).Chris brings a decade of experience crafting ceremonies that are wildly personal, refreshingly hilarious, and emotionally resonant. This episode is perfect for couples who want to break free from tradition in all the right ways, creating a wedding ceremony that’s elegant, intentional, and unforgettable.Whether you're planning a luxury destination elopement or an intimate affair with family, this episode is your permission slip to make your wedding day authentically yours.Visit the podcast page on our website for contact info and the links to Chris' book.

"I told God, ‘Please don’t send anyone my way until you send the ONE.’ And when I met Ron, I just knew—this was the love I had been waiting for."Are you longing for a love story that feels like it was written just for you? In this soul-stirring episode of the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, I sit down with Michelle Steiner to explore how love, patience, and a powerful prayer led her to Ron—the man who became her husband and answered her deepest hopes.From meeting at a community art center to building an unshakable friendship before romance ever bloomed, Michelle shares how she waited with intention and leaned into her faith to find lasting love. Whether you're single, engaged, or already planning your wedding, Michelle’s story will remind you: love doesn’t always arrive when we expect it, but it always shows up right on time.We also talk about how couples—especially those planning a luxury or deeply intentional ceremony—can draw inspiration from their own story to create a wedding experience that’s far more than just beautiful. It’s meaningful.Tune in and be reminded that true love is worth waiting for.

What does it take to build a marriage that lasts—not just in years, but in purpose, passion, and service? In this heart-expanding episode, Chanelle Carlin sits down with John Graham and Ann Medlock, a remarkable couple who have been married for 42 years and whose love story is deeply entwined with their life’s mission.John, a former diplomat, mountaineer, and author, and Ann, a celebrated writer and speechwriter, are the powerhouse duo behind the Giraffe Heroes Project—a global nonprofit, founded by Ann, honoring everyday people who “stick their necks out” for the common good. Together, they share what it means to grow through differences, stand united through challenges, and build a love that’s rooted in shared values and meaningful work.Whether you’re planning your wedding or reflecting on your own marriage journey, this episode is a reminder that love is both an adventure and a calling.🦒 Featuring insights on:Building a marriage that supports individual and shared purposeJohn’s journey with Asperger’s and how it shaped their dynamicWhy service and mission matter in partnershipTimeless advice for couples who want more than just a wedding—they want a lasting union

Marriage isn’t just about the wedding day—it’s about the life you’re building together. In this heartfelt and eye-opening episode, Chanelle Carlin sits down with premarital coach, author, and podcast host Verlyn Tarlton to explore the profound importance of truly understanding why you want to get married before saying “I do.”Verlyn shares wisdom from her work coaching engaged women, emphasizing that a strong marriage starts with honest conversations, full transparency, and a shared vision for the future. She offers three essential tips for couples preparing for marriage:✨ Ask the hard questions – Why do you want to get married? Why this person? Why now? Be open, be real, and leave no room for secrets.✨ Create a marriage vision board – Just like you plan your dream wedding, plan your dream marriage. What do you see for your future together?✨ Consider marriage maintenance counseling – Just like you maintain a car or a home, a healthy marriage requires ongoing care and check-ins.This conversation is genuine, insightful, and full of love—perfect for engaged couples, newlyweds, and even longtime partners looking to strengthen their relationship.💍 Tune in and gain the clarity you need to ensure your wedding day isn’t just beautiful—it’s the start of a marriage built to last.🎧 Listen now and connect with Verlyn at www.verlyntarlton.com and on Instagram @before_you_do.

What if your wedding registry could help you buy your first home? In this episode of Now You May Kiss (TM), Chanelle sits down with Mortgage Loan Advisor, Tami Greene from CMG Home Loans to talk about HomeFundIt, a revolutionary program that allows couples to use wedding gifts toward their down payment. We cover how it works, why it’s different from traditional crowdfunding, the benefits for couples and their guests, and how you can get started. 💍 Ready to turn your wedding gifts into a home? Tune in now!#HomeFundIt #WeddingRegistry #DreamWedding #UnforgettableWeddings #WeddingOfficiant #HomeOwnership #EngagedCouples #ChanelleCarlinWeddings #YourCelebrantforLife

Get ready for a fun, laughter-filled, and deeply insightful episode of Now You May Kiss! Chanelle sits down with the vibrant and fabulous Kim Evans—licensed aesthetician, beauty expert, and passionate advocate for every bride’s inner and outer radiance. Kim’s energy is contagious, and her wisdom on pre-wedding skincare and flawless bridal makeup is nothing short of transformational.From practical skincare tips to confidence-boosting beauty rituals, Kim shares how she helps her brides remember their queenhood on their wedding day. Whether you’re prepping your skin for that picture-perfect glow or looking for long-lasting makeup tips, this episode is packed with real talk, expert advice, and a whole lot of fun!✨ Want more of Kim’s magic? Follow her on Instagram @2Gorjiswellness and visit 2GORJIS Integrated Health & Wellness to explore her services, listen to her Inspired, Conversations with Kim Evans, 2025 Podcast, and—if you're a woman business owner—check out her brand-new School of Beauty and Business!Tune in, take notes, and get ready to embrace your bridal glow like the queen you are! 👑✨

When it comes to weddings, the food is more than just a meal—it's an experience, a conversation starter, and a reflection of the couple’s love story. In this episode, I sit down with Desiree Seghetti Sulpizio, Vice President of Operations at the historic Commellini Estate in Spokane, to explore the artistry of wedding catering.From preserving family traditions and curating personalized menus to embracing sustainability and interactive dining experiences, Desiree shares invaluable insights into how couples can make their wedding meal unforgettable. With a deep-rooted passion for Italian cuisine and hospitality, she has spent over a decade transforming weddings into immersive culinary experiences at Commellini Estate.Whether you're planning your dream wedding or simply love great food and storytelling, this episode is packed with inspiration and expert advice!🎧 Listen in to discover:🍽️ How Commellini Estate’s rich history influences its wedding catering🍷 The evolution of wedding dining—moving beyond plated meals to interactive experiences❤️ The power of storytelling through food and how couples can incorporate personal touches🌱 The latest trends in wedding catering, including sustainability and dietary inclusivity👉 Follow @CommelliniEstate on Instagram for stunning wedding inspiration and behind-the-scenes looks at their incredible cuisine.💍 Looking for a venue? Schedule a tour of Commellini Estate to see their breathtaking grounds and all-inclusive wedding amenities.📢 Loved this episode? Share it with a friend who’s planning their big day! Let’s help more couples create wedding memories that are as delicious as they are meaningful.#NowYouMayKissPodcast #WeddingCatering #CommelliniEstate #WeddingPlanning #FoodAndLove #WeddingVenues #SpokaneWeddings

Your wedding is a magical, unforgettable day—but it’s just the beginning of a lifetime of love, growth, and commitment. In this episode of Now You May Kiss, I’m diving into why your marriage deserves just as much celebration and intention as your wedding day. We’ll explore the power of gratitude, the small everyday moments that strengthen a relationship, and how you can nurture your love beyond the “I do’s” with three super easy, but truly impactful actions you can take today. Whether you’re engaged, newly married, or celebrating decades together, this episode is filled with heart, wisdom, and actionable ways to keep the love alive. 💛✨Tune in, and let’s celebrate the moments that matter!

In this heartfelt episode of Now You May Kiss, Chanelle Carlin dives into the timeless art of writing thank-you notes —a simple yet powerful way to express gratitude after your wedding (or any special occasion!). From acknowledging gifts to showing appreciation for loved ones who played a role in your big day, Chanelle shares thoughtful tips and easy-to-follow strategies to craft meaningful, heartfelt messages.Whether you're feeling overwhelmed by the number of notes to write or just need inspiration to make them personal and memorable, this episode will help you turn a daunting task into a joyful act of connection. Tune in to discover why handwritten thank you notes still matter, how to personalize your message, and ways to make the process smooth and stress-free.Grab your favorite pen and a cup of tea—it’s time to spread some love, one note at a time! 💌✨

Join Chanelle Carlin as she has a relaxed chat with Ashley Coffin, owner of The Local Event Co, a premier wedding planning business in Leavenworth, Washington. In this episode, Ashley shares her journey as a wedding planner in the picturesque Bavarian town, dives into why hiring a wedding planner is essential for creating seamless and stress-free celebrations, and reveals how planners enhance the overall client experience. Plus, get the inside scoop on the upcoming Leavenworth Wedding Show and why it’s a must-attend event for couples planning their dream day. Tune in for expert insights, practical tips, and a behind-the-scenes look at the magic of weddings in Leavenworth and North Central Washington.

Planning a wedding is exciting, but it can also be overwhelming—especially if you forget to care for the most important part of the celebration: yourself. In this episode of Now You May Kiss, we explore the transformative power of pre-wedding self-care. Drawing inspiration from Chanelle Carlin’s insightful blog, we’ll dive into practical tips and strategies to help you stay grounded, radiant, and present during the lead-up to your big day. Whether you're navigating the pressures of planning or simply need a reminder to prioritize your well-being, this episode is your guide to embracing the journey with confidence and grace.

In this episode of Now You May Kiss, Chanelle Carlin dives into the world of elopements, challenging outdated ideas and redefining what it means to “elope” in today’s wedding landscape. From intimate ceremonies on scenic mountaintops to thoughtfully planned micro-weddings in cozy venues, elopements are as unique as the couples who choose them. Chanelle shares her expert insights on what makes an elopement special, why couples are drawn to these personalized celebrations, and how they can create unforgettable memories without the overwhelm of a traditional wedding. Whether you're dreaming of saying "I do" surrounded by nature, in an iconic city, or anywhere in between, this episode will inspire and inform you on all things elopement. If you're considering an elopement or just curious about this growing trend, tune in to explore the possibilities. 🎧 Listen now and start envisioning the day that’s all about you!

In this special bonus episode of Now You May Kiss, Chanelle welcomes Penny, a love, dating, and relationships coach who specializes in helping high-achieving career women find their romantic soulmates. As a feminine energy expert, Penny shares her transformative approach to dating—the high-value, feminine way. With a focus on self-love, loving boundaries, and the highest standards, Penny empowers women to embrace their authentic selves and attract deeply fulfilling relationships where they feel truly seen, heard, and cherished. During this episode, Penny reveals her top three tips for women to know their partner is the one, and even shares a bonus tip for gentlemen on recognizing they’re with the right woman. Don’t miss this inspiring and insightful conversation with this intuitive coach, holistic healing expert, and London-based dog mom! Follow Coach Penny on IG @coachpennylove or visit her website at https://coachpennylove.com/ Comment below with your favorite takeaway from the episode or share your own love journey!

In this episode, Chanelle chats with Anna Porter, the founder and owner of Mapped Travel. Mapped is a boutique travel agency that specializes in curating exceptional travel experiences in both U.S. and international destinations. Anna focuses on creating highly personalized itineraries tailored to each client's unique preferences and desires. In this episode, she shares her thoughts on curating travel for couples and ways to celebrate their love through meaningful and memorable journeys.

In this episode, Chanelle chats with Evan Hale, the Director of Hospitality and Private Dining at Casia Lodge and Ranch, a luxury, destination retreat center and venue in Twisp, Washington. Evan and the team at Casia Lodge are all about creating those unforgettable, one-of-a-kind experiences that feel like magic. He's got a real knack for blending fun with elegance and he's here to share what makes Casia Lodge THE place to spend an evening, a weekend or host your wedding or special event. Check out their website for more details at www.casialodge.com or follow them on IG @casialodge

When you first began dreaming about your wedding day, you started with the two of you, your love story and planning a day where you would share your vows and commit your lives to each other. That happens in the sacred space of your wedding ceremony and there is not better person to help you create a beautiful, meaningful, truly all-about-you ceremony than a professional wedding officiant. Check out today's episode for the myriad of reasons why AND how to find the right officiant for YOUR special day.

In this episode, Now You May Kiss Podcast Host and Your Celebrant for Life (TM), Chanelle Carlin talks about why wedding ceremonies are important in today's world. She begins by taking us through a bit of history, highlighting particular traditions and rituals and discussing how wedding ceremonies strengthen us as a community and society. Finally, she focuses a bit of attention on HOW to make your wedding ceremony all about the two of you and your unique one-of-a-kind love story, because that's really what we all want to know anyway, right?

In this episode of the Now You May Kiss Podcast, we’re diving into the enchanting yet sometimes challenging world of outdoor fall and winter elopements in the Pacific Northwest. Whether you’re dreaming of a scenic autumn backdrop or a cozy winter wonderland, we’ve got you covered with insights into the benefits and challenges of each season. Benefits of Fall Elopements: Scenic beauty with vibrant autumn foliage Cooler temperatures and smoke free air for comfort Greater availability of venues and wedding professionals Unique, atmospheric settings that enhance the romance Challenges of Fall Elopements: Unpredictable weather conditions Shorter daylight hours Ensuring guest comfort in cooler temperatures Romantic settings with potential for snow-covered landscapes Benefits of Winter Elopements: Incorporation of holiday celebrations for added festivity More cost-effective options for budget-conscious couples Creation of a cozy, intimate atmosphere Challenges of Winter Elopements: Harsh weather conditions that can impact the day Potential travel issues for you and your guests Limited venue options due to seasonal closures Tips for Planning Your Outdoor Fall or Winter Elopement in the PNW: Be prepared for varying weather conditions with contingency plans Choose appropriate attire and footwear to stay warm and comfortable Work with wedding professionals experienced in seasonal event celebrations Ensure your witnesses and guests are kept warm and comfortable throughout the event Calls to Action: Visit Chanelle Carlin Weddings at chanellecarlin.com for more insights and inspiration on outdoor elopements and intimate weddings. Follow Chanelle Carlin Weddings on social media for updates, tips, and real wedding stories. Subscribe to and download the Now You May Kiss Podcast to never miss an episode and join the community of couples celebrating their unique love stories. Tune in to uncover all the magic and practicality behind planning an unforgettable fall or winter elopement in the beautiful Pacific Northwest!

Hello and welcome to the very first episode of the ‘Now You May Kiss’ podcast! Whether you’re engaged, already married, or simply a fan of love stories like me and my Wedding Pro friends, hopefully this podcast is one you’ll enjoy. Each week, we’ll have a mix of practical tips, insider info from the perspective of a wedding officiant, and interviews with other wedding experts. We’ll also take some time to answer your questions related to planning your outdoor wedding, especially the ceremony.In upcoming episodes, we’ll talk about why ceremonies matter and how to make them all about the two of you and your unique, one-of-a-kind love story. We’ll also look at why hiring wedding professionals not only helps alleviate stress leading up to and on your special day and can also ensure you’re getting the best value when planning your wedding. You can expect heartwarming and funny stories, expert advice, and a whole lot of inspiration.

Welcome to the Now You May Kiss™ Podcast, where love stories come to life. I’m Chanelle Carlin, professional Wedding Officiant and your Celebrant for Life™. You’ve built a strong relationship and are now ready to commit. You’ve chosen an outdoor elopement or intimate wedding ceremony to celebrate your one-of-a-kind love story. You’re in the right place for inspiration and expert advice. In this podcast, we’ll explore everything you need for a bespoke elopement and intimate wedding ceremony. Over the past several years, I’ve had the honor of officiating nearly 200 wedding ceremonies. Each one has been unique and perfectly tailored to the couple’s wishes. My goal is to share these stories, answer your questions, and inspire you as you plan your special day. We’ll discuss various aspects of planning your elopement or intimate wedding ceremony, from choosing the perfect location to writing heartfelt vows. Each episode aims to make your journey to the altar as smooth and joyous as possible. I recommend starting with episode #1 to get a sense of what this podcast has to offer, but it’s completely up to you. It’s just lovely to have you here, and I’m excited to chat with you.