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OFF THE BINARY

by May Bridds

The ones on T and in lip gloss ? welcome to Off the Binary, a space for those of us who live beyond “either/or”. transmasc-nonbinary folks embracing femininity even while being told we can’t.I am May aka lokablakshid a trans-nonbinary creator known on the internet for still serving face while transitioning fully outside the binary This podcast pushes back on the idea that femininity makes you “less valid” or there’s only one way to be trans. Nah. we’re good! It’s stories, rants, healing, heat and holding space for the in-between. told you are “doing trans wrong” this space is for you

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Episodes

  1. Transnonbinary: It’s Literally in the Name | Nonbinary Is the Gender

    Nonbinary is my gender which means yes, I am trans. In this episode, I unpack what that actually means, why nonbinary people belong under the trans umbrella, and why it’s so frustrating to keep having our transness debated even inside the community. If that makes you uncomfortable, maybe ask...

  2. How Transitioning F*cks With Your Sexuality

    This episode dives into something we don’t talk about enough; how transitioning can shift the way we see our own sexuality. It’s not always about “changing” who you’re attracted to, but how those connections feel once your body, identity, and sense of self evolve. I talk about what it’s like to...

  3. The Problem With The Detrans “Trend”

    Detransition is real , but the way it’s being used online? That’s a whole different story. In this episode, I’m unpacking the rise of the detrans trend on social media, and how it’s feeding anti-trans narratives that hurt the rest of us. From viral regret videos to cis people feeling suddenly...

  4. Cis People, Why Are You So Obsessed With Our Genitals?

    Why are cis people so weirdly obsessed with trans people’s genitals? In this episode, I’m breaking down the entitlement, the invasive questions, and the bizarre idea that being trans means you owe everyone a tour of your body. From “what were you before?” to “have you had the surgery?” I’m not...

  5. Trans and Visible — Here’s the Truth

    In this episode, I’m talking about what it actually feels like to be visible as a trans, nonbinary, femme person. Not the polished version. Not the performative kind of visibility. The real, quiet, layered experience, where sometimes it feels like freedom, and sometimes it feels like exposure. I...

  6. Off The Binary Before I Had The Words

    In this episode, I’m reflecting on the journey of realizing I was never really in the binary to begin with I just didn’t have the language for it. I talk about how dressing masculine, being called a “masculine woman,” or stud and trying on different versions of myself never quite fit because I...

  7. Stop Telling Me How To Be Trans

    *Why i needed this podcast* They always have something to say about how I “should” be trans like there’s a rulebook I missed. In this first episode of Off the Binary, I’m getting real about the pressure to perform transness a certain way and pushing back against the gatekeeping that tells us...

  8. Trailer: Welcome to Off the Binary

    Gender is fake — but our journey? Very real. I’m May or as you know me as , Lokablakshid and this is OFF THE BINARY a podcast for trans and non-binary folks who still present femme, take hormones, and refuse to shrink. If you’ve ever been told you’re “too pretty to be trans,” or “too femme to be...

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ABOUT THIS SHOW

The ones on T and in lip gloss ? welcome to Off the Binary, a space for those of us who live beyond “either/or”. transmasc-nonbinary folks embracing femininity even while being told we can’t.I am May aka lokablakshid a trans-nonbinary creator known on the internet for still serving face while transitioning fully outside the binary This podcast pushes back on the idea that femininity makes you “less valid” or there’s only one way to be trans. Nah. we’re good! It’s stories, rants, healing, heat and holding space for the in-between. told you are “doing trans wrong” this space is for you

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May Bridds

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The ones on T and in lip gloss ? welcome to Off the Binary, a space for those of us who live beyond “either/or”. transmasc-nonbinary folks embracing femininity even while being told we can’t.I am May aka lokablakshid a trans-nonbinary creator known on the internet for still serving face while...

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OFF THE BINARY is created and hosted by May Bridds.
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