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On the Contrary
by Onsite! Presents
What happens when you take a retired City Girl, a happily married comedian, a certified Sexologist and the ultimate bachelor and give them all microphones? On The Contrary is a weekly podcast presented by Onsite. If Love is a drug we have your weekly dose, no subject is too taboo and no stone will be left unturned. Sex, Dating, Love, Divorce, Relationships, Cheating, Kinks, Intimacy, from the streets to the sheets our highly opinionated panel has you covered. Join Rah Ali, Luis, Kash and Mr. Organik on this uncensored rollercoaster ride
Episodes
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No Blueprint to Parenting: Inflation, Hypervigilance & Co-Parenting | On the Contrary
Season 2, Episode 9 "No Blueprint to Parenting" Every generation thinks they're doing it better than the last. And every generation has something they completely got wrong. Rah Ali, Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, and Taz are back at the table. This episode, they're getting into the conversation...
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Are You Too Old For The Club?
Season 2, Episode 7: How Do You Define Fun at Different Ages? At some point, the club stops feeling like a release and starts feeling like a chore. Especially when you need acid reflux medication just to get through the night. 💊 Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, Taz, and the full panel are back…
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Does Long Term Mean Low Desire
Nobody wants to admit it. But after years with the same person the desire shifts. Is that normal? Is it a problem? Or is it just what long term actually looks like? Kash, Luis, Rico, Taz and the full panel are back at the table and this episode they are going somewhere most people don't want to…
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Women Don’t Lose Friends, They Outgrow Them
The narrative that women can’t keep friends, that we’re catty, competitive, and disloyal? We’re flipping all of it today. Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the Sexologist, Rico, and Taz are at the table and this episode they’re getting into one of the most layered conversations the panel has had all season...
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Bonnets & Durags Outside: Comfort or Careless? | On the Contrary
Season 2, Episode 4: "Bonnets & Durags Outside: Yes or No" It sounds like a small conversation. It is not a small conversation. Rah Ali, Luis, Kash the Sexologist, Taz, and the full panel are back at the table, and this episode starts a debate that had everybody in their feelings before the first...
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Why Is It So Hard For Men To Tell The Truth? | On the Contrary
Season 2, Episode 3: Why is it so hard for men to tell the truth? Lies have ended more relationships than cheating ever has. And nobody on this panel is pretending otherwise. 🛑 Kash the Sexologist, Luis, Rico, and Taz are back at the table, and this episode they are going all the way in on the…
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Did Independent Women Anthems Ruin Modern Relationships? | On The Contrary
Did music fuel a generation of single women, or did it just push back against unequal standards? On this episode of On The Contrary, we tackle how female empowerment anthems and the "I don't need a man" mindset shaped modern dating. We're breaking down whether popular culture built genuine female...
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Do Men Really Like Women Who Don't Got Sh*t? | On The Contrary
Does financial independence actually matter to men, or is social media lying to you? On this episode of On The Contrary, we unpack the controversial debate around modern dating, money, and power dynamics in relationships. From the myth that men prefer women who "don't got sh*t" to what really...
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Is OnlyFans Ruining Relationships or Redefining Power?
OnlyFans: Empowerment or betrayal? In this explosive episode of On The Contrary, we dive deep into the blurred lines between independence, intimacy, and insecurity.We’re asking the real questions:•Is starting an OnlyFans without your partner’s approval a form of cheating?•Can a man really handle...
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Booty Calls Part 2: When Feelings Get Involved… It Gets Messy | On The Contrary
The conversation gets even hotter in Part 2—because let’s be real… once feelings get involved, booty calls get complicated. This episode, we’re diving into the real-life situations, the messy moments, and when “just sex” turns into something way more.🔥 Can you keep it casual when someone starts...
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Is Hip-Hop Hurting the Black Community or Telling Its Truth?
Does hip-hop reflect the struggles of the Black community—or does it reinforce them? In this unapologetic episode of On The Contrary, the conversation gets deep, emotional, and real as we unpack the impact of hip-hop on Black relationships, families, and identity. We dive into the hard questions:...
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Booty Calls: No Strings Fun or Just a Fast Track to Drama? | On The Contrary
Are booty calls really no strings attached, or is someone always catching feelings? This episode, we’re breaking down the game—from sneaky links to whether a late-night “come thru” can turn into something real. 🔥 Can booty calls ever stay drama-free?🔥 Do men and women see them the same way?🔥…
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Polygamy: True Love or Just an Excuse to Cheat?
Is polygamy real love or just a way to avoid commitment? We’re debating whether having multiple partners is about freedom, emotional maturity, or control. Does it actually work, or is it just chaos?💬 What do you think? Drop your thoughts in the comments!🔔 Subscribe & turn on notifications so…
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Would You Sleep with a Married Person? The Controversial Truth
Is it ever okay to sleep with someone who’s married? Is cheating always black and white, or are there gray areas? In this explosive episode of On The Contrary, we dive into the moral, emotional, and societal consequences of infidelity.
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Men vs. Women: The Brutal Truth About Cheating & Forgiveness
Why is it that when men cheat, they want a second chance—but when women cheat, it’s unforgivable? In this explosive conversation, we break down the double standards of infidelity, how men and women cheat differently, and the role social media plays in temptation. Emotional cheating vs. physical...
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Get It How You Live featuring Eliza Reign
In this episode, we have Eliza Reign in the studio, and things get heated when she and Organik discuss a man's role in dating. We also find out if dating someone who lives far has its benefits and we help a listener who is dating a younger woman.
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The Best of 2024 Part 2
Even more laughs, more advice and more best moments of 2024.
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The Best of 2024
In this episode we put together all the best advice, laughs and best moments of 2024.
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Work Husband
On this episode we learn about the pitfalls of workplace relationships and the hosts give a listener some advice after making a mistake at work that could cost her the bag.
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Cougar Chronicles
In this episode we find out who is still thinking about their ex, learning how to communicate with your partner and we give advice to a woman who is dating a younger man.
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Toy Story with Diamond the Body
On this episode we have Diamond the Body sitting in the studio with the crew to discuss giving your partner a hall pass, being open minded about toys and googling someone before you ignore them.
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From Ashy to Classy
In this episode, we discover what we would change if we could travel back in time and how you upgrade your partner's style. We also help a listener who is dealing with a jealous husband.
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Break My Soul
Have you ever dated someone who embarrassed you or cheated to get out of a relationship? In this episode, we find out if those strategies work. We also discuss what to do after a breakup and what to avoid in new relationships.
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Dating After a Breakup
In this episode, we find out if soul mates are real, if gifts should be returned after a breakup and what to do if you start missing an old flame. We also help a listener who is back in the market after a being in a long relationship. 01:02 Are soul mates real? 03:02 Do you miss old flames? 04:34...
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More Money More Problems
In this episode, we find out if life was easier before making money and we ask the age-old question does money buy happiness? We also help a listener who just came into some money and we find out if you can build an empire while also maintaining a relationship.
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Hurry Up and Wait
In this episode, we find out who likes to prank their significant other and if there is ever a time when your goals are more important than your relationship. The hosts also help a listener with a marriage ultimatum.
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Thick As Thieves
In this episode, the hosts travel back in time and we find out what they would tell their younger selves. We also help a listener who has a BFF with sticky fingers.
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Long Distance Loving
In this episode we find out if one of the hosts has ever stolen from a partner and what's the craziest lie they have ever told someone. We also get to the bottom of long-distance relationships and if they ever work.
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Spying On Your Boo
In this episode, we find out what’s the craziest thing someone has done for love, why checking your partner’s phone is risky and we help a listener deal with a cheating fiasco. 00:50 Have you ever created a fake account to find out if your significant lover is cheating? 03:20 What’s in Organik’s...
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Money Talks
In this episode we find out if any hosts have ever kept a financial secret from a partner, we ask if a man support you and we breakdown why people should open their horizons when dating. 01:05 Have you ever kept a financial secret from your partner? 05:32 Have you ever lent money to a partner and...
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The Keys to Success with Smart (Part 2)
In part two we have the crew and Smart giving their thoughts on marriage, power structures and giving sound advice to a listener who is having an issue with her boyfriend. Follow Smart https://www.instagram.com/thesmartguy_?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==
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The Keys to Success with Smart (Part 1)
On this episode, we have motivational speaker, artist, and future light heavyweight champ Smart discussing his keys to success and why leadership and accountability are important in the black community. Follow Smart...
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Flag on The Play
In this episode, we discover what happens when the honeymoon phase is over and if any hosts have ever ghosted someone. We also answer a listener’s questions, give some tips on how cheaters get caught and we find out why safety is always important. 00:39 Have You Ever Clicked With Someone In The...
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Corn But With a P
In this episode, the hosts discuss which city has the best gentlemen’s club and why people are addicted to certain private home videos. The crew also gets to the bottom of why people cheat and we have something to get off our chest this episode.
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The Pajama Jammy Jam
In this episode, the hosts break out their finest sleepwear as they discuss what they would do in Vegas if they could hang out with any celebrity and had to spend a million dollars in 48 hours. We also find out how far into the relationship granny panties make their first appearance and the hosts...
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Welcome To The Circus
In this episode, we discover what song gets the team started for the day and why holding money to your ear might be considered clown behavior. The crew also gives a listener some great advice and we get something off our chest!
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Career Day
In this episode, we discover which countries have the most beautiful people, who are better at keeping secrets and the hosts have something to get off their chests. We also find out what secret talents the crew has that nobody knows about.
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Should I Stay, Should I Go?
In this episode, we find out how the hosts have grown since their past relationships, why some people stay in abusive relationships and the crew introduces a new segment that will have you rolling on the floor laughing.
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Back To The Future
In this episode, we give flowers to those who helped us along the way and we find out how our past affects our current relationships. We also give a scorned listener advice on what to do about a co-worker who snatched her crush away.
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Breakups to Makeups
In this episode we find out what percentage of your ex’s want you back and the hosts reveal the biggest arguments they’ve had with their partners. The crew also gives advice on how to deal with a pathological liar.
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Who Is Thee Prize?
How important is forgiveness in a relationship? What things have you learned from past partners and relationships? We get to the bottom of these topics and find out who is actually thee prize in a relationship.
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Case Of The Ex
Can you be friends with an ex? Can your new boo be friends with their exes? We explore this topic, give the people some great book recommendations and get in everyone’s business with a confession segment that you won’t want to miss.
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Could You Be Kept?
On this episode we explore age gaps and being kept. Rah’s all men cheat campaign continues and the jokes roll in as always, join us for the latest episode of On The Contrary
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Love Don’t Live Here Anymore
The hosts get personal with this week’s opening question and an ambiguous question of the week leads to a spicy conversation with the hosts. You don’t want to miss this episode of On The Contrary.
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Untitled
From subs to tough love we learn a bit more about our hosts and what makes them tick. Join us for another episode of On the Contrary.
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All Black Everything
If you want to see how we go from celebrity crushes to the black experience and end up becoming Asian students in under an hour join us for another wild ride on this episode of On The Contrary.
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Paging Dr. Miami…
The hosts discuss the double standard when it comes to beauty standards and the pros and cons of going under the knife. Join us for this hilarious episode!
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Kickin It with Cutty
We have switched things up, new studio, who this? And we have our first guest ever! Join us as we get to know author and dating coach @Passport_Cutty
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Lucky Number #13
Join us for another wild episode where we discuss everything from Porn Names to Astrology. The jokes are never ending and we sprinkled in some real advice for a listener with an issue.
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All The Feelings…
In a never-ending journey to be better partners, the hosts explore the idea of forgiveness and what love and support look like in a relationship.
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
What happens when you take a retired City Girl, a happily married comedian, a certified Sexologist and the ultimate bachelor and give them all microphones? On The Contrary is a weekly podcast presented by Onsite. If Love is a drug we have your weekly dose, no subject is too taboo and no stone will be left unturned. Sex, Dating, Love, Divorce, Relationships, Cheating, Kinks, Intimacy, from the streets to the sheets our highly opinionated panel has you covered. Join Rah Ali, Luis, Kash and Mr. Organik on this uncensored rollercoaster ride
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What happens when you take a retired City Girl, a happily married comedian, a certified Sexologist and the ultimate bachelor and give them all microphones? On The Contrary is a weekly podcast presented by Onsite. If Love is a drug we have your weekly dose, no subject is too taboo and no stone will...
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