Episodes
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How Often Should You Have Sex?
An answer to the age-old question In this episode: Bare minimum in Anami Land Frequency and duration The Taoist sexual prayer: on your knees, kids Sex date time minimums The weekly 3-hour sex date Is daily sex crazyyyyyy? How long before couples start to feel the impact of NOT having sex
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Convos as Deep as the Doggy Style
Does sex leave you feeling energized, rejuvenated, transformed, ecstatic and like it changed your life? If not, you’re doing it wrong. It’s easy to have “tick-the-box” sex. Anyone can do that. Couples can have sex a few times a week even. 5-15 minute encounters. He gets off. She gets off—with a...
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The Best Way to Breakup
Is there ever a “right” way to end a relationship? 100% there is. And many wrong ways. In this episode: The best way to leave your lover A story from when I did it badly A story from when I did it brilliantly What to do when you know it’s time Check out our Breakup Cleanse in the Anami Alchemia...
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Toxic Masculinity Is the LACK of Masculinity
Masculinity, in its truest form, is: Beautiful. F**kable. It inspires reverence. Respect. Admiration. It makes a woman get on her knees and be compelled to serve. It protects. It inspires trust. It’s worthy of deep surrender and submission. But…masculinity has been disowned. And in that…
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Healthy, Wealthy and Hard
Are you fucking life? Are you bending life over, slamming it into the headboard, and fucking the shit out of it? If you are, you’ll find that all these elements of your life are performing at the highest level: Health. Wealth. And erections. If you aren’t, you’ll see and feel signs that you are...
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How to Make Her Pussy Wetter than a Tsunami
Our genitals are PERFECT and honest reflections of our inner truth and desire. I want you. I’m wet. You want ME. You’re hard. Simple cock and c*nt math. In this episode: How to get a vagina wet, wet, wet How to get her wet BEFORE you’ve even touched her No lube. No exceptions. Except for the ass:...
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Post-Porn and Reborn
In today’s conversation on all things porn, I tapped two of our legendary Well-F**ked All Stars, Jeff and Jim, who’ve both been on the podcast several times. In this episode: Kim’s top 5 reasons to give up porn Did every young boy find porn mags in the bushes? Is porn use a form of infidelity?…
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Why You Come Too Fast and How to Fix It
Premature ejaculation is the most common sexual affliction men have. And, stamina is THE MOST important sexual skill you need to cultivate as a man. 99.9% of men come within minutes. This means 99.9% of women are underf**ked. In Anami Land, the bare minimum for men is: Being able to go a full...
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The Healing Power of Your Cock
Good dick is a miracle drug. Learn how to unleash the full power of your magic wand to heal your woman, transforming her into an insatiable cock monster. In this episode: What is the definition of “good dick”? How to wield your cock as a super-healing, enlightened, ecstasy-producing magic wand…
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Make Your Woman Multi-Orgasmic
The Anami Guarantee is that every woman can have every type of orgasm. We also have a rule here in Anami Land: She comes in threes. Your woman is ONLY going to be supremely well-f**ked if she’s having anything BUT clitoral orgasms. And she needs at least a few of them. Every time. Three is the...
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Boys, Men and Gods
Gods do whatever the fuck they want. They operate outside the bounds of “normal” society. They make their own rules, they follow the beat of their own drum. They think big and they think wild. They shape the worlds around them. They don’t wait for permission or consult a rulebook. They live from...
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10 Things that Happen as a Well-F**ked Woman
In Anami Land, the way we define being well-f**ked is by how you answer this barometric question: Does sex leave you feeling energized, rejuvenated, transformed, ecstatic and like it changed your life? If not, then you’re doing it wrong. If yes, then you are DOING IT right. Sexual energy is...
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Cervical vs Clitoral Orgasms: No Comparison
Cervical orgasms: Once you have one, you’ll never go back The first orgasm I ever had was a cervical one. It was ecstatic, transcendent, elevating, self-actualizing, and life-changing. I thought that’s what sex was supposed to be. Isn’t it? Like I always say, if sex doesn’t change your life…
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Best Blowjob Technique EVER!
The Kim Anami ultimate cocksucking guide. For connoisseurs and aspirants.Everything you need to know. In this episode: The #1 secret to advanced cocksucking 4 techniques to give the best blow job ever The only polyamorous relationship I’ve ever been in The biggest reason why women fail at...
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Natural Breast Enlargement
Do I think women ought to be obsessed with getting larger breasts? Or stressed about it in any way? Definitely not. I actually prefer the look and vibe of smaller, more elegant—at least I see them that way—breasts. But I still respect you mesmerizing, naturally big-breasted babes! What I DO aim…
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No HRT, No GLP1s, No Peptides: I'm a Superfreak!
I’m multi-orgasmic, can fuck my partner from across the planet, I surf big waves, lift heavy at the gym and weigh what I did in high school. I’m supa-freaky! I’ve never taken any kind of hormone medication. No GLP1s. Never taken peptides. No plans to. I’ve been clean and sober for 33 years. No...
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My Cervix Is My CEO
How do you think I’ve stayed ahead of the curve—well, let’s not be modest here—I’ve CREATED the entire curve of holistic sex and relationship coaching. How do I constantly innovate? How am I fearless in being first? I’m connected to my cervix. It’s the ultimate GPS. When your self-actualized…
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Perimenopause Is a Scam
Like a lonely grandma falling for a Nigerian scammer, women who have drank the Kool-Aid and the victim consciousness of “perimenopause” have been swindled. “Low libido” is a scam. “Dry vagina” is a scam. “Hot flashes” are a scam. “Sleepless nights” are a scam. The only sleepless nights you ought…
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How to Know if They Are "The One"
There wil be signs. At least 10 of them, according to Anami Lore. In this episode: 10 signs they are "The One” Is there only ONE? Or do we meet several “ones”? Is there such a thing as “soul mates”? Are things more mutual when you meet your person? Chemistry: the greenest of all the green flags....
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Why Modern Dating Is Broken
Dating humans is so passé. Date gods instead. If you want an Anami-style injection into your love—and especially dating life—this episode is for you: 10 rules for dating Anami-style to become a dating god. Stake your claim. Choose. Plant that flag. The best pickup line I’ve ever heard Filler and...
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Love Bomb Me
Apparently, there’s a new term for “not giving a shit” as a seduction strategy: Being “nonchalant.” “I don’t care if you like me. Maybe I like you, maybe I don’t. I’m here. Sorta. But…I could be anywhere else, with anyone else, doing anything else.” Wow. What a turn on. Be still, my beating…
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Narcissists: Everyone's Love to Hate
It's always their fault. Everyone’s got a narcissist story these days. IT’S ALWAYS THE FAULT OF THE NARCISSIST! Someone said to me a few years ago that a narcissist is essentially someone who hasn’t healed their trauma. And they aren’t interested in healing it. But what if this isn’t about how…
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F*ck Yes or F*ck Off!
In a conscious, Anami-style relationship, the only acceptable answer to any invitation from your partner is: F*CK YES!!! Would you like to learn how to have better sex? F*ck yes! Do you want life-changing G-Spot, cervical and squirting orgasms? F*ck yes! Would you like to be able to become a...
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From Divorce Court to 4-Hour Sex Dates
In today’s episode we interview a couple who have had the most dramatic—and fastest—turnaround I’ve ever seen. They were in a *beyond* sexless marriage. They were intimate 2 or 3 times—a year. In the span of a few hours they did a massive 180 and they’ve been full speed ahead ever since. It’s…
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Talking Heads: When Genitals Speak, We Listen
As in, our genitals are oracles. When they speak, they reveal our innermost truths. We can have conversations with our own genitals. What’s even more fun, is having them with our partner’s genitals. In today’s episode I speak with Well-F**ked All Stars and Coming Together Alumni Carla and…
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Squirting Saved Our Marriage
One of my absolute most favourite concepts in ALL of my work is the idea of: Fuck them until you change them. Our sex acts have the power to transform us. But only when they hit a certain level of Anami gourmet-style sex. The big barometric question I always ask people about their sex lives, and...
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Bring Back Manly Men
A few weeks ago I put up an Instagram post comparing the male models of the 90s to male models in 2025. https://www.instagram.com/reel/DU_J5P8EVHN/?igsh=dDU0Y2xjbW1qNmY1 It went mega-viral. Putting them side-by-side made the differences SO much more dramatic. Juxtaposing these legendary men with...
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Orifice Selection: A Guide for Men
Hell hath no fury like a woman underf**ked. When you have an underf**ked woman on your hands, you’ll know it. Because she’ll MAKE you know it. It will be loud and clear. Her underf**ked behavior is a cry for help. A cry, which distinctly says “F**K ME.” Men THIS is your job. THIS is your raison...
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5 Superpower Couple Problems Worth Having
Being a well-f**ked couple isn’t all fun and games, you know. There are some serious issues that come to pass, and I’m here to help you through them. In this episode: The 5 biggest well-f**ked couple problems Navigating life and hotel rooms with a prolific squirter Which private island to have…
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Underf**ked Orcs vs. Kim Anami
Someone alerted the “All women need HRT!” community that I put up an apparently oh-so controversial post: That I don’t take HRT. They came RUNNING. A gang of underf**ked orcs, rabid, foaming at the mouth, grunting and panting, clambering over the hills and mountains to arrive at my page and tell…
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My Body, My Oracle vs. My Body, My Enemy
Listening to the wisdom of the body and healing thyself is the ultimate flex. Not your peptide and supplement stack. In an era of every biohacker selling their supplements and peptide stack, every integrative and regular physician flogging their HRT and TRT, I’m not even remotely interested in...
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Self-Healed Prolapse with the Jade Yoni Egg
My vagina does amaaaaaazing things. Sometimes people see me doing phantasmagorical things like: Dead hangs ab exercises, whilst also lifting 11lb. With my vagina Lifting pieces green coconuts, bunches of mangos and Venetian chandeliers. With my vagina. Of course, we want women to realize that the...
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From Zero to Multiple Orgasms in Weeks
For 50 years, Sonja hadn't enjoyed sex. She didn't get what the big deal was. But she was hopeful there was one. She took Vaginal Kung Fu and within weeks had an avalanche of orgasms: G-Spot, squirting, cervical, anal, nipple and full-body. Making up for lost time. She proves The Anami Guarantee...
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Create Your Dream Life with Your Vagina
I often say that my vagina created my life. I've learned how to tap into the power of my sexual, pro-creative energy and use that to “birth” my life and projects with. And so can you. In this episode: The fastest way to achieve creative genius What it really means and looks like to “magnetize…
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Coming Off HRT with Vaginal Kung Fu
Look ma! No hormones! These kinds of stories are my favorite. The ones that showcase the direct impact that being well-fucked, awakening your vagina and activating your sexual energy has on your life. Milena had PCOS and was experiencing “peri-menopause” symptoms in her 30s. She was, of course,...
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Support Group for Hot, Sexy, Fit, Orgasmic People
We need love too! It’s really hard being in this category. Seriously, it is. A lot of hard work. Like, every day. Hours spent surfing, swimming, going to the gym, running, fucking, doing inner emotional processing, clearing blocks and having orgasms. Being a visible minority like this is tough…
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Study Bros and Hormone Hoes
Study bros, hormone hoes and biohacking bitches vs. my orgasms. “OH LOOK A NEW STUDY CAME OUT AND NOW HRT IS REALLY ACTUALLY SAFE!” “Look at my peptide stack!” “I need all these machines and tests to tell me what’s happening in my own body” “I give my blood away in an ancient ritual every month…
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Should Love Feel Safe?
On the heels of my last podcast, talking about intense chemistry and whether it’s a green or red flag, today I’m talking about the idea that relationships ought to be “SAFE”. I hear this word tossed around A LOT now. Everyone's talking about nervous system resetting and how SAFETY is the holy…
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Is Chemistry a Red Flag?
Is heart-fluttering chemistry necessary or is it "toxic"? Lately, I’ve heard some people say that chemistry is DANGEROUS! TOXIC! Run away! Red flag! Ridiculous. Tell me you’ve never had life-changing sex before without telling me. Chemistry is the reaction. The friction, the spark. You need it in...
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Why I've Never Dated
I’ve never dated anyone. Never been on a dating site. My experiences in the early stages of romance and relationships have always been intense, wild and unmistakable. I’ve seen something reposted a few times lately, an idea that people seem to be in awe of, that’s been the story of my life…
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Be a Man with a Plan
“Be ready at 8. I’ll pick you up. Wear a cocktail dress.” Is music to a woman’s ears. And her vagina. IT NEVER GETS OLD. Be a man with a plan. Take the lead. Initiate. Be bold. You can—and ought to—do this throughout your relationship. This applies to early stages all the way through 30 years of...
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9 Qualities of a Modern Alpha Male
I’ve forever been a champion and aficionado of the re-emergence and love of all things holy, fuckable and wild: The alpha male. There’s been so much noise and distortion over the past decades on “toxic masculinity”. The only thing toxic about masculinity is the absence of it. In this interview…
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Softcock to Supercock
Forgettable to formidable—how a once underwhelming 🍆 became a bedroom and life force majeure. ** The cock is the ultimate barometer of the man. When a man is fully occupying his masculine power and his sexual self, we see this reflected in her erection: Strong. Unwavering. Solid. Rising to its...
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10 Steps to Sexual Mastery for Men
These are the essential skills that every man needs to be a well-f**ked man, and to create a well-f**ked woman. The good news? They are all learnable. From cock size (yep, adjusable), to marathon sex to mastering the mighty and elusive female orgasm, it’s all here. My Sexual Mastery for Men…
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Wealthy and Well-F**ked
My vagina makes money. In this episode: How I went from hand-to-mouth to creating my business empire The relationship that changed everything for me The biggest thing I did in my business to make it rain down in cash Why being a well-f**ked woman is your biggest money maker What the universe…
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Honesty: the New Lube
“An increase in wetness to tsunami proportions.” ~ Joanne “Now all I have to do is talk to him on the phone and I’m dripping to my knees.” ~ 61-year-old Michelle “I am constantly aroused and wet. I love my juices and can have an orgasm without touching myself.” ~ Tia How do you like them…
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Yo, Libido! Wherefore art Thou?
Every woman has a high libido. Every woman—once sensually switched on—is an endless well of insatiable desire and pleasure. I guarantee it. What does it take to switch her on and make her come alive? In today’s episode we talk all things libido boosting. I assert that once awakened, women are...
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Vixen in the Boardroom
How do you actually achieve things while you’re in your feminine energy? How do you especially do this in a situation, like a job or workplace that is typically dominated by men? Annette, our Well-F**ked All Star articulates it so well. She works as a CEO in high-level positions and she’s found…
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5 Steps to Remove Painful Periods
For many women, their periods are agonizing experiences. For a week out of every month—and longer for some women—they suffer excruciating, fetus-position, vomit-inducing, can’t function, pain-killer guzzling pain. This has become normalized for so many people. But it’s not normal. What’s “normal”...