Our Life Our Way

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss who to they talk to when they have marriage issues or concerns. The couple also discusses how some people view their marriage based off of things they see on social media and how some friends view their marriage as well.

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss parenting styles. The couple also gets into how they view roles within marriage.

In this episode the couple is discusses what they're busy week.

In this episode Shug and Saundra sit down with their neighbors. The couples discuss marriage, parenting styles, and much more.

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss how parenting can effect intimacy in a marriage. The couple also discusses Shug's vasectomy experience

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss how they handle depression and life stressors in their marriage

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss supporting your spouse. They discuss supporting your spouse emotionally, financially and mentally.

In this episode shug and saundra discuss outgrowing friends, the challenges of navigating long distance friendships and more.

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss how they navigate changes in your spouse.

In this episode shug and saundra have a conversation around couples going 50/50 in a relationship

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss the KeKe Palmer topic. The couple uses that topic to discuss insecurities in men and women.

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss where they have been for the last two and a half years. The couple discusses everything from family to careers.

In this episode me and saundra sit down to discuss money and how it affects our relationship . Does money give you power in a relationship? Did money come up during the courting phase of y'all relationship? We dive into it all

In this episode me and Saundra discuss people in your circle not clapping while you win. We also discuss how much of your success should you share with the world. 

In this episode me and Saundra Discuss parenting. We discuss our different parenting styles. We also discuss how we parent different from our parents. We get into an interesting conversation about raising  black boys in America.  This whole episode we discuss everything about parenting, the good and the bad. 

In this episode Me and Saundra discuss the importance of having marriage mentors. We also discuss how we have been dealing with our newest beef 

In this episode we talk about having another baby. We discuss the pros and cons of having a new baby. 

We are back(again)!!!! We are back to recording again on and this time we came back with a twist, we now have video. So check out our YouTube page in order to watch the podcast on YouTube. Just Search  " The Our Life Our Way Podcast" on YouTube. In this episode the we catches you guys up on where we have been and what our plans are for the future of the podcast. 

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss who's more petty men or women. The couple takes a walk down memory lane about some of their petty experiences with each other. 

Shug and Saundra discuss the energy that they think they give off. The couple also discusses how Covid-19 affected our family

After a two week layoff due to army duties Shug and Saundra are back. In this episode they discuss what has been going on in the past few weeks and how covid-19 has effected them and their marriage.

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss love languages and what is considered to be couple goals. 

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss entanglements. Are they real? Have they ever been in entanglements? The couple also discusses where they see themselves in 5 years.

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss how children can change a marriage, The couple also discusses gender roles and who should be doing what within the household. The couple The couple also talks about if they have ever been in a relationship and felt as their partner was just not that into them. 

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss the events that has led up to the birth of their new son. The couple also speaks on gender roles and the new baby's hospital stay. 

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss the process in how Shug was able to get home so early from his deployment. The couple also discusses how married couples survive during a deployment and the issues that they have with communication. 

Welcome back welcome back welcome back. Shug and Saundra are back to podding after a 6 month layoff because shug was deployed. The couple catches you up on how they dealt with Shug deploying and family/life changes since shug has been gone. Its has been a busy time since shug deployed and the married couple sit down to discuss some key things that has happened in the months after he deployed.

In this episode the couple discusses a huge surprise. Also they discuss their Christmas vacation, Samirah's birthday, Shug's birthday and everything in between.

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss their busy and surprising weekend. The couple also gives an update on Saundra Youtube channel.

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss their busy army weekend that was filled with Christmas parties and other events. The couple also discusses deployment and how its going to effect their family.

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss their thanksgiving holiday. The couple also discusses the new baby that they have on the way.

In this episode Shug and Saundra have another guest on the podcast Coco from the socially correct podcast. They talk about everything from women empowerment, to dating people who aren't in your tax bracket. This is the Shug and Saundra longest episode so there are a lot of gems in this podcast.

In this episode Shug and Saundra tackle the upcoming deployment that shug is about to go on. The couple discusses their personal feelings about the deployment and how it will affect their marriage.

In this episode shug and saundra make a big announcement that will shake up their marriage. The couple also discuss raising your kids in todays society and talk about what they believe should be accepted for kids when it comes to sexuality.

In this episode Shug and Saundra sits down with Jazz and Mo, this is one of those episodes where nothing is off limits. The couples discuss everything from 3somes to marriage, kids and traveling.

In this episode Shug and Saundra sits down with Nassirah to discuss racism ,traveling, interracial dating. We also questioned Nassirah social media post and if it effects her social life.

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss how much space is too much space and when you need more space in your relationship. The couple sheds light on their personally experiences.

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss their vacation in Jamaica.

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss the impact that babies will have on a relationship. The couple discuss how they were able to deal with a new baby and how it affected their relationship.

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss dating outside of your tax bracket. Does a person have to make a certain dollar amount to date you. Does money even matter when dating someone?

In this episode Shug and Saundra tackle the topic of submission. Should a women submit to her man? Do women have problem submitting to their men? The couple tackle this hot topic

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss being insecure. The couple discusses their own personal experiences with being insecure and how it can effect your relationship.

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss friends and how they effect their relationship.

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss parenting styles. The couple also discusses ways to get your kids to open up and be honest about what they are going through.

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuess family traditions. They talk about the family traditions they had growing up and the ones that they want for their family. The couple also discusses dropping Samirah off for her freshman year of college.

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss what's been going on the past for few weeks. Shug's is fresh home from military training and Samirah had her trunk party. The couple also discusses old people and their stubborn ways and a few other things.

In this episode shug sits down with some of his former co-workers to discuss a few different topics.

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss loyalty.

In this episode Shug and Saundra discuss baby Kennedy's first birthday party. The couple also talks about Saundra wanting to have a "HOT MOM SUMMER"

In this Episode Shug and Saundra sit down with their teenager to discuss many different things from parenting to Samirah getting ready for college. The couple has an open and honest conversation with their child about Everything, nothing is off limits.