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Our Relationship Pod w/ Emmy and Ify
by Ify Nwadiwe
Every week, Ify Nwadiwe and Emily Louise will dive into Reddit's r/relationship_advice subreddit and take listeners on a journey through relationship's up and downs. Laugh along as they wade through the internet's mess so you don't have to. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Episodes
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Checking in!
Hey there mess hall! A quick update to let you know we're alive! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Live at PAX East w/ Anica Cihla
Anica Cihla (@anica_cihla) joins Emmy and Ify on an impromptu panel for PAX East that was perfectly timed because they didn't record an episode today. We dive into matching hobbies with your partner, dealing with a cheater who hates magic, and wondering if a friend is addicted to a vtuber they...
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More Than One Was Suprising w/ Stanzi Potenza
We are back on the couch with our friend Stanzi Potenza (@stanzipotenza) this time, and wouldn't you believe it? More people are bad and weird. We have a situation with a trucker that is so bad I don't even want to put into words and risk having this podcast banned, a husband's weird habits, and...
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Grindin' Since the Early 90s w/ Jon Gabrus
Our good friend Jon Gabrus (@Gabrrus) plopped on the couch with us to chat about kissin' the homies, trying out kink, and even more silliness. You gotta jump into this one because it's filled with laughs! Thanks for listening! Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and...
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How Do Black Holes Work? w/ Kira Noir
Kira Noir (@thekiranoirgram) sits down with Emmy and Ify to discuss polyamory discomfort with visiting metas from an email, then they hop into Reddit and dive into truly toxic relationship cycles, a partner who might lack joy, and dealing with someone talking bad about you to your friend group....
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BYHuge Detective Work w/ Matt Moynihan
Super producer, director, and friend Matt Moynihan sits down with us to dive into this mess! A listener has questions about moving in with a partner and on Reddit a foot guy tries to hard, a BYU student is setting his future child up for failure, someone dealing with their partner blowing up, and…
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Addictions and Back Seat Births w/ Witchy and Danielle DeNicola
Listeners win this week as I was swamped yet again and am uploading this on Wednesday. Like Emmy said, new episodes Tuesday or Wednesday! We're joined by our friends Witch (@witchy.brew) and Danielle DeNicola (@danielledenicola) to dive into the mess of the week and they're such a treat. We talk...
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Surprise Group Play w/ BiqtchPuddin
Our friend Biqtchpuddin (@biqtchpuddin) is joining us for todays mess and boy is it messy! [Sorry for the delay this week! My car was broken into this weekend and I had to get myself together to remember all my responsibilities. As a reminder, this episode an the next have high reverb, but after...
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Don't Pack Your Sparkle w/ Chris Grace
Happy Mess Day y'all! Feels good to be consistent with the episodes. We jump into another email and a bunch of Reddit posts with the amazing comedian Chris Grace (@chrisgracecomedy). We got people asking about kink, dads afraid of the gay, and more! As a reminder we have a few more episodes with...
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Contagious Divorce w/ Chris Mejia and Siri Dahl
We are back with SEASON TWO of Our Relationship Pod that's filled with the juice and also we have video yet again! We're joined by comedian Chris Mejia (@chrismejiacomedy) and and porn royalty, content creator, and activist Siri Dahl (@thesiridahlagain)! Very juicy intro segment on our first...
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Are We Dating the Same Guy? (Positive)
Back from Australia and back into your ears! It's time for more mess! We're hopping into: Email about a heart that still wants. I (28f) commented on a post of my boyfriend (29m) on a "are we dating the same guy" page and he found out. What are my next steps? My (37f) Husband (38m) was fired for...
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Ask Us Anything!
Mixing things up this week and answering questions that were asked on our IG! We're hopping into our own mess and sharing advice on some questions asked by the Mess Hall! Thanks for listening! Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG...
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Finding What You're Looking For
Whaddup Mess Hall! We're back with another episode filled with the internet's mess! We're hopping into: I (28F) went through my boyfriends’s (31M) phone and can’t unsee what I saw. 37M with 38F for 4-5 years. Not sure how I should feel... Confused by mixed signals from an 18F need perspective,i...
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Proposing Problems
Friend of the pod BJ hops in with some advice for Jayne in Cleveland and we jump into some spicy questions on Reddit. Lots of weird behavior, catching the ick, and stressed out partners. It's like they say, "we are so back". We're hopping into: My (f26) ex-bf (m27) said he was gonna propose for…
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Whole Lotta Advice
We just got back from Atlanta and we're ramblin', tangentin', and taking pregnant ass pauses to think about the things that we asked this week.The emails are POPPIN', so we have to take the time to sit through em and chop it up with the mess hall. We're hopping into: Thoughts on the Age Gap Nice...
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Laundry Day pt. 2
Lil update for the Mess Hall while we're out and about! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Laundry Day
While Ify washes his clothes for a big trip, they answer two emails from listeners and head to reddit to close things out! Come hang and laugh with your messy friends who will give it to you straight. We're hopping into: Age Gap Relationships The Return of Jayde I (F25) struggle to have sex with…
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Projecting From The Comments
We're coming at y'all like from the Big Cut! That's Connecticut for all the folks who haven't adopted my weird slang for this New England treasure. We're in the harbor side cabin talking a whole buncha mess while Em's nephews and niece have fun downstairs! We're hopping into: An Email Requested...
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Sam! Sam! Sam!
Took us a while, but we're officially back! We are deep in our e-mail backlog and we are so happy to talk to everyone again! Someone even made Ify cry!!! We're talkin' bout: Dealing with a tough break up. How to flirt. Some words of praise. Asking out a coworker. Thanks for listening! Socials:...
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Mental Health and Stuff
We're back and so is my voice! We bust through some emails and have a deep chat about mental health and what's going on with our brains. A few updates and some questions about being a good friend to a new parent and transitioning into friends after dating. Thanks for listening! Socials:...
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Throwback Bonus Episode!
In our mad dash to prep for Neo we didn't get a chance to record an episode, so we're throwing it back with a bonus episode form Patreon around this time last year (4/17/24)! See you cuties next week! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Daddy Needs Care Too
We're back! After a quick aside to chat about tackling the big thoughts on the previous episode, we jump into some listener emails and get into some reddit threads. We're tackling body image issues, caring for our kink daddies, and talking about old people's outdated child care tricks. It's all…
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20 Seconds of Sin
Very explosive episode this week! Wow! So much love from the mess hall and probably our messiest email yet! We talk about a lot of great topics like where you stand in queerness, loneliness, sex while parenting, and some fun updates from the mess hall. Then, we close it out with a silly Reddit...
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Bamboozled in the Mailbag
We're diving into more emails this week and we even throw in a bonus Reddit post! Lots of love in the mess hall community, some friends not digging partners, and diabolical miscommunication amongst swingers! Lots to dig into this week! Buckle up! Thanks for listening! Socials: @ourrelationshippod...
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The Crystals Podcast
We're back home and we got tons of mess for you this week! We answer some follow up emails and jump into two reddit threads! I totally forgot what I said I would link in the notes, but will run back here to post it when I remember* *Listen to it or am reminded by a listener Thanks for listening!...
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Live from JoCo Cruise 2025 w/ Daphne Always
We're out at sea, but apparently the sea has internet! So buckle up for the live episode recorded in the Rolling Stone Lounge on the JoCo Cruise! We are joined by the wonderful Daphne Always to wade through the mess thrown at us this time. Buckle up for this wild ride with audience reactions to…
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Post Game Mess
It's been a while since y'all have gotten a sleepy episode from us, so you know we had to do it to you! Ify keeps Emily up late after his hockey game to jump into the mess with you all! We even threw in a reddit question for you! We kick off with an email with someone from the mess hall having...
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Boundary Breaking Grindr Humiliation Sub Part III
Hello everyone! Looks like another mailbag episode and this one is FUN! We have the pod's first trilogy along with some amazing questions that give insight into nervousness around new relationships and desiring independence, the return of the humiliation sub breaking boundaries in new and...
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We Are So Back!
I mean, ending it at 50 would've been a neat number to leave it off on, but we couldn't do it. Not when we're needed more than ever probably. We knock out all the listener emails today and we even throw in a bonus ep! To skip past question 1 fast forward to 27:41! Thanks for listening! Socials:...
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Hello there! We're back next week!
Hello everyone! Just giving everyone a quick update on where we've been and what's happening! See you next week! We're back! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Therapyspeak Gone Wild
Hello Mess Hall! We're back from Philly and got a fresh new poddy cheesesteak for ya. Check Spotify or our socials to get in on the poll! We're hopping in these threads: Email: BDSM in the Bible Belt My (29M) partner (29F) has recently started frequently making claims about me I feel are extreme....
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Holiday Mailbag
This is totally on time y'all trust us! We're jumping into some listener mess today, so buckle up! We're hopping in these email: What it means to be polyam/ENM Roommates to lovers Goal based partners Batting out of his league update Thanks for listening! Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is...
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Knowing What You Want w/ Krys T
It's a mailbag episode! Thank you to all the anon listeners being vulnerable enough to share! We're hopping in these topics: Friend Batting Out of His League Boundary Breaking Degradation Sub Home For The Polydays Woke White GF Autoromantic Anon Thanks for listening! Socials: Krys T is @krys_t_...
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The Breakup Episode
Not OUR break up mind you, there's just a lot of breaking up We're hopping in these threads: EMAIL: Update from anon EMAIL: Friends growing distant My (35M) girlfriend (33F) is urging me to quit my band because she doesn't like the other members. How do I explain to her that it isn't fair for her...
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Dogsgiving Dilemma w/ OJ Stellar
Guests are back and we're hanging with the amazing OJ Stellar! What a time to be had! We're hopping in these threads: My (31F) Husband (31F) and I Cannot Handle My Mom (60F) and Dad's (75M)'s Decisions? I (27F) got dumped by a guy (31M) because he didn't want to wait one month for sex after 5...
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Why Did You Get Her Number?
We spend a good bit of time yapping in this one. We spent 5 days in Vegas and somehow only talk about MagicCon and not about that fact that Ify won $14, until you take into consideration that the Casino ATM fee was $12... We're hopping in these threads: I [27F] decided to shoot my shot with my…
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If you wanna be my lover
Wednesday is basically Tuesday, so let's just go with that! Got an email and some reddit questions! Let's boogie! We're hopping in these threads: Email: Accidental ghosting My (38F) husband (36M) completely dropped the ball on our wedding day - how to move past it? I (29F) want to tell my…
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Karen Adjacent
Look at us getting you your new episode on time for your commute! I'm proud of us! Happy Tuesday, y'all! This one is a rollercoaster of emotions and a lot of open and shut cases, but that doesn't mean we don't get to have a great discussion about it!! Come one, come all, to the messiest show on…
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Boys Night Out!
****UPDATE**** Sorry for the confusion, but we have now uploaded the right episode! Delete your current downloaded episode and refresh to get the new episode!!! ******************* Hello there! We're back with another venture into the mail bag and we have some nice tea for you all. Come on a wild...
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Bad Boyfriends Episode
Happy Afternoon y'all! We got some goods again! We're talking about: My (36M) Wife (37F), said some really disrespectful and unpleasant things to my parents recently, thinks she was right. I think that she might have some trauma which is causing this thoughts. How do I approach this? My 22f...
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Brother Is A Love Cop!
We are back with another ep and we get right into the emails and reddit questions! We're talking about: A brother who wants his brother to stop flirting How to silence that fear in your head. How can I have an open conversation with my husband (30M) about him using escorts when I (27F) am away?...
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Hood Housekeeping
We're doing something completely different this week, we're talking about our mess in full detail. Walk with us through this fun transition (we're not breaking up) and a ton of tangents, of course. Thanks for listening! Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG…
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Factory Standard Equipment
Happy Tuesday, Mess Hall! We're deep into listener's this question after giving you some insight into the adventure that Ify's car went on while we were in London. We're hopping in these topics: Email: Are ~equipment~ preferences okay? Email: How to stay close friends with people who just started...
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Tough Love Letters
We thought it was Monday, so that's why you're getting it late this week! We don't even need to go to Reddit this episode, because so many listener questions came in! So listen in as we discuss getting back out on the dating scene, feeling like you can do more to support your partner, and what it...
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Talking About bell hooks Gain!
Another listener question!!! Thank you to anon and I hope we helped you out. We also spend another episode kicking it off with a long discussion about OUR deal. We still got some mess for y'all tho! I'm (m22) pretty sure my friend (m22) and my mom (f51) hooked up. What should I do now? I (27F)…
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First Listener Question!
We're kicking this late episode off with a long talk about Magic: the Gathering and parenting! So, buckle up for that! Then we have our first listener question read anonymously! This is what else we tackle: Every time my wife (43f) gets home after a few days away, leaving me (42m) to look after…
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We're not talking about Jazz
We're back with some more fun! I explain where I was and what I was up to, don't worry! Today we're hopping into these: My (18F) Mom (50F) is suddenly obsessed with my hygiene because I "don't take long enough to pee." Help?! How do I (F27) handle a demanding friend (F27) who ignores boundaries?…
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Eighty Two Dollar Water!?
Siena East joins up as we stumble through more mania! What do I (33f) say to my suddenly Conspiracy Theorist boyfriend (40m) My GF's (28F) parents think I (28M) peed the bed, but it was her squirt. What should I do? 70M 60F been together for two months (Trigger warning Old People having sex )...
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(23f) Homewreckers with Demi Adejuigbe
Better late than never, right? We're coming in hot a day late with another great episode with our good friend Demi Adejuigbe who is coming in with some good advice and some illegal advice. We're jumping into these questions today! I saw (f32) tinder bank charge on husband’s (m39) bank statement....
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Lewd Cheese Balls
On todays episode it gets wild and spicy as Ify has a bone to pick with some of these posters. Annoying people dealing with annoying people, potentially outing your husband because you snooped, and familial beef all go off in these week's episode! Here's what we're getting into: How do I (F23)…
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Every week, Ify Nwadiwe and Emily Louise will dive into Reddit's r/relationship_advice subreddit and take listeners on a journey through relationship's up and downs. Laugh along as they wade through the internet's mess so you don't have to.
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Ify Nwadiwe
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Every week, Ify Nwadiwe and Emily Louise will dive into Reddit's r/relationship_advice subreddit and take listeners on a journey through relationship's up and downs. Laugh along as they wade through the internet's mess so you don't have to. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more...
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