OUR TAKE on Dating Over 40

Show Notes: Trust after 40 isn’t something you give freely—it’s something you build, observe, and allow. In this episode, we explore the shift from blind trust to conscious trust, where self-trust becomes your foundation and discernment replaces guardedness.We talk about how real safety comes from no longer abandoning yourself—learning to listen to your intuition, honor your body, and trust your own signals. Instead of getting swept up in chemistry or potential, we reframe trust as something earned through consistency, emotional availability, and aligned actions over time.This conversation breaks down why behavior always tells the truth, how to stop confusing triggers with red flags, and why dating apps are only introductions—not indicators of trust. We also explore the balance between staying open and moving slowly, allowing vulnerability to build connection while letting trust deepen naturally.Ultimately, this episode introduces a new model of trust after 40—one rooted in self-trust, trust in the process, and trust that is revealed (not given) in relationships.💬 Mic Drop Moments* “You don’t need to trust faster—you need to observe longer.”* “Your intuition whispers before your mind explains.”* “The goal isn’t to avoid getting hurt—it’s to never abandon yourself again.”* “After 40, love isn’t about potential—it’s about patterns.”* “Trust isn’t given anymore—it’s revealed.”🔗 Stay Connected & Go Deeper* ✨ Substack:* Come hang with us on Substack—this is where the deeper, more intimate conversations unfold. We expand on these topics and engage with you directly.* 💬 Submit your dating dilemmas: [email protected] Take on Dating Over 40 is where real, raw conversations meet transformation—helping you navigate modern love, decode patterns, and finally get it right. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

📌 Show NotesOur Take on Dating Over 40 dives into the messy, thrilling, and transformative world of dating, sex, and relationships after divorceIn this episode, we unpack what happened when we asked single moms over 40 if they would ever live with a man again — and why so many said no.Through lived experience, nervous system science, and real relational dynamics, we explore:Why emotional labor erodes attractionHow chronic over-functioning kills polarityWhat makes a woman feel safe enough to softenAnd what men can do to create relief instead of more weightThis conversation is for women who feel exhausted by past dynamics — and for men who genuinely want to understand how to show up differently.🌿 Continue the Conversation🔥 Stop trying so hard — start being the energy that attracts.WILD FEMME Midlife👉 https://substack.com/@wildfemmeJoin the private Facebook community for women who are done performing in dating and ready to embody their power:WILD FEMME (Private FB Community)👉https://www.facebook.com/groups/thewildfemme💬 Stay Connected📩 Email us anytime at [email protected]🎙️ And stay tuned as we continue sharing what singles over 40 around the world are really experiencing in dating today.You’re not late.You’re not behind.You’re right on time for the best chapter of your life. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

📌 SHOW NOTESYou’re Not Crazy — You’re DysregulatedMost women who get called “crazy” in dating aren’t crazy at all. They’re overwhelmed. Activated. Dysregulated.In this episode, we unpack:What men actually mean when they say “crazy”The difference between emotional expression and emotional floodingHow resentment builds when women hyper-function and suppressWhy dysregulation collapses polarityThe 5-step feminine communication resetHow co-regulation creates safety in grown loveThis conversation is for both women and men navigating love after 40 and wanting to do it differently this time.Because mature love requires:Emotional responsibilityNervous system awarenessClear communicationMutual attunementIf this episode resonated and you’re ready to go deeper into feminine embodiment, midlife awakening, and relational polarity…🌹 Subscribe to Darlene’s Substack:Wild Femme Midlifehttps://substack.com/@wildfemmeWhere we explore embodiment, emotional truth, polarity, and becoming the woman who no longer abandons herself in love.You’re not late.You’re not behind.You’re evolving. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

🎙 Past Love, Present BoundariesDating Over 40 & Staying Friends With an ExIn this episode, we unpack one of the most emotionally charged questions in dating over 40:Can you be friends with your ex and still build a secure new relationship?This isn’t about control.It’s about relational safety, emotional loyalty, and feeling chosen.Inside This Episode:Why relational safety is the foundation of attraction after 40How overstepping boundaries with an ex creates emotional abandonmentThe difference between respectful co-parenting and blurred attachmentWhy divided emotional loyalty quietly erodes trustHow attachment styles influence how we handle ex dynamicsThe essential conversation every couple must have about exes early onRed flags that signal unresolved attachmentGreen flags that demonstrate maturity and prioritizationWhy unfinished grief can masquerade as “friendship”The role of ego, validation, and trauma bonds in keeping exes closeHow to tell — in your body — when something feels unsafeWe explore how to protect the sacred space of a new relationship without being reactive, insecure, or controlling.Because you can’t build a future while emotionally entertaining the past.Past love isn’t the problem.Unclear boundaries are.🌹 Explore More Ways to Deepen Your Dating Journey🌹 Ready to claim your Femme Edge in dating?Step into your magnetic feminine energy with somatic embodiment practices, rituals, and reflections inside the brand-new Substack.WILD FEMME YOGA👉 https://substack.com/@wildfemmeyoga/note/c-194490495?r=48uizv&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action🔥 Stop trying so hard—start being the energy that attracts.Join the private Facebook community for women who are done performing in dating and ready to embody their power:WILD FEMME (Private FB Community)👉 https://www.facebook.com/groups/thewildfemme💖 Curious about your dating style?Discover what may be standing between you and the love meant for you.Take the Dating Quiz👉 https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quiz🧠 Need clarity on your current dating situation?Book a one-off coaching session for grounded, objective guidance:Dating Dilemma Coaching Session👉 https://thedatingplaybook.com/bac💬 Stay ConnectedThis podcast isn’t just something you listen to — it’s a conversation you’re part of.📩 Email us anytime at [email protected]🎙️ And stay tuned as we continue sharing what singles over 40 around the world are really experiencing in dating today.You’re not late.You’re not behind. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Dating over 40 requires more than chemistry—it requires DISCERNMENT.In this episode, we break down how to vett potential partners on dating apps with intention, focusing on safety, emotional maturity, and long-term alignment. This conversation is for anyone dating with the goal of finding a *future partner*—not wasting time, energy, or compromising their standards.Vetting isn’t about being guarded.It’s about being conscious.💡 What We Cover in This Episode🔒 Why Vetting Matters Over 40* How vetting protects your safety, emotional health, and future.* Why intentional dating requires slowing down and observing patterns* The difference between chemistry and character🧭 The Vetting Timeline We Recommend1️⃣ Photos — Your First FilterWhat pictures reveal about lifestyle, cleanliness, honesty, mental and emotional health, social structure, and alignment with your life.2️⃣ In-App MessagingWhy staying on the app matters for safety and discernment—and what to listen for in early conversations.3️⃣ Background CheckWhy getting a last name and checking social media is essential before moving forward.4️⃣ Video Call (Preferably In-App)Confirming identity, energy, and emotional presence before investing more time.5️⃣ In-Person Public MeetingSafety steps every dater should take, including telling a friend who you’re meeting, where you’ll be, and having a check-in plan.🖼️ What to Vet for in Dating Profile Photos* Signs of misrepresentation or outdated photos* Backgrounds that reveal lifestyle habits and self-regulation* Whether photos show *the person* or avoid them altogether* Clues about fitness, cleanliness, discipline, and social life* Alignment with your values (children, hobbies, lifestyle)Photos tell a story if you know how to read them.💬 Vetting Through Messaging: Questions That MatterEarly Safety Questions (Asked Calmly & Directly)* Have you ever been convicted of a violent crime?* Have you ever been accused of physical or sexual assault?* Has anyone ever taken out an order of protection against you?How someone responds matters as much as the answer.👩‍🦰 What Women Should Vet for in Men* Emotional grounding and self-regulation* Accountability for past relationships* Consistency, discipline, and follow-through* Leadership in communication and dating* Ability to honor your emotions without gaslighting* Vision, purpose, and commitment to self-growthA conscious, grounded man, leads himself first.👨 What Men Should Vet for in Women* Emotional availability and nurturing energy* Alignment with your values and life vision* Willingness to receive masculine leadership* Emotional maturity and accountability* Ability to communicate without manipulation or gaslightingA healthy feminine partner brings softness, warmth, and emotional safety.❤️ Core Values Over Common InterestsShared hobbies matter—but shared values*matter more.We discuss why emotional regulation, honesty, growth, and integrity are non-negotiables for long-term partnership.✨ Explore More Ways to Deepen Your Dating Journey🌹 Ready to claim your *Femme Edge* in dating?Step into your magnetic feminine energy with somatic embodiment practices, rituals, and reflections inside the brand-new Substack.WILD FEMME YOGA👉 [https://substack.com/@wildfemmeyoga/note/c-194490495?r=48uizv&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action]🔥 Stop trying so hard—start being the energy that attracts.Join the private Facebook community for women who are done performing in dating and ready to embody their power:WILD FEMME (Private FB Community)👉 https://www.facebook.com/groups/thewildfemme💖 **Curious about your dating style?**Discover what may be standing between you and the love meant for you.**Take the Dating Quiz**👉 https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quiz🧠 Need clarity on your current dating situation?Book a one-off coaching session for grounded, objective guidance:Dating Dilemma Coaching Session👉 https://thedatingplaybook.com/bac](https://thedatingplaybook.com/bac💬 Stay ConnectedThis podcast isn’t just something you listen to—it’s a conversation you’re part of.📩 Email us anytime at [email protected]🎙️ And stay tuned as we share what singles over 40 around the world are really experiencing in dating today.You’re not late.You’re not behind.You’re right on time. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Where Are Singles Over 40 Actually Meeting in 2026? A Global Dating Reality CheckDating over 40 is changing and instead of making assumptions, we’re getting curious.In this episode of Dating Over 40, we’re opening up an honest, intelligent, and heartfelt conversation about what dating really looks like right now, for singles over 40 across the globe.Are people still meeting in bars?Are dating apps the main way to connect or just one option?Is dating easier, harder, or simply… different depending on where you live?Rather than telling you what dating should look like, we’re inviting you to help us understand what it actually looks like—in real life, in real cities, and in real cultures.This episode is light, flirty, thoughtful, and grounded in one core belief:👉 Dating over 40 isn’t broken, it’s evolving.🌍 We Want to Hear From You (Our Global Listeners!)If you’re listening from anywhere in the world, thank you..... Truly.This episode exists because of you.We’d love for you to email us and share your take on dating where you live.💌 Email us at:[email protected] You can keep it short and simple. Tell us:* Where you’re located (city/country)* Where singles over 40 actually meet in your area* Whether bars, apps, social circles, or something else play a role* What feels hard—and what feels surprisingly good—about dating right nowYour insights may be shared (anonymously) in a future episode as we reflect back the patterns, surprises, and truths emerging from this global conversation.✨ Explore More Ways to Deepen Your Dating Journey🌹 Ready to claim your *Femme Edge* in dating?Step into your magnetic feminine energy with somatic embodiment practices, rituals, and reflections inside the brand new Substack:**WILD FEMME YOGA**👉 [https://substack.com/@wildfemmeyoga/note/c-194490495?r=48uizv&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action]🔥 Stop trying so hard start being the energy that attractsJoin the private Facebook community for women who are done performing in dating and ready to embody their power:WILD FEMME (Private FB Community)https://www.facebook.com/groups/thewildfemme💖 Curious about your dating style?Discover what may be standing between you and the love meant for you.Take the Dating Quiz👉 https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quiz🧠 Need clarity on your current dating situation?If you’re navigating a connection and want an outside, grounded perspective, we offer one-off coaching sessions designed to help you move forward with confidence.Book a Dating Dilemma Coaching Session👉 https://thedatingplaybook.com/bac💬 Stay ConnectedThis podcast isn’t just something you listen to—it’s a conversation you’re part of.📩 Email us anytime at [email protected]🎙️ And stay tuned as we share what singles over 40 around the world are really experiencing in dating today.You’re not late.You’re not behind.You’re right on time.Dating Over 40💫 This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Dating over 40 isn’t about guessing anymore—it’s about clarity. In this episode of Our Take on Dating Over 40, we introduce The Dating Rating Scale, a simple yet powerful tool to help you assess whether the man you’re dating is actually showing up in the ways that build trust, safety, and long-term connection. We walk you through the five non-negotiables every healthy relationship requires;Communication, Integrity, Respect, Leadership, and Values and show you how to objectively evaluate what you’re experiencing instead of explaining it away.If you’ve ever wondered “Am I being too picky… or not picky enough?” this episode is for you. Listen in as we break down how to use the Dating Rating Scale in real time and download the worksheet so you can score your relationship honestly and clearly. Stop wasting time, stop second-guessing yourself, and start dating from self-trust and self-respect. 🎧 Press play on the episode now and download The Dating Rating Scale below.— Michael & Darlene 💫Ladies, subscribe to my brand new SUBSTACK to learn about the FEMININE EDGE IN DATING with WILD FEMME YOGA https://substack.com/@wildfemmeyoga/note/c-194490495?r=48uizv&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

The New Way to Date in 2026 is here — and it’s not about him ladies. It’s about YOU.In this episode, Darlene and Michael dive into dating with intention and integrity, revealing how to step out of old patterns, release hardened energy from past relationships, and return to your feminine embodiment. Discover how somatic practices, breathwork, and presence can make you magnetic, aligned, and ready to attract a partner who matches your values.Learn what traits truly matter in a partner — integrity, growth, reflection, and repair — and why focusing on your own pleasure and radiance is the ultimate dating advantage.✨ Ready to claim your Femme Edge in dating? Click over to my brand new SUBSTACK "WILD FEMME YOGA" to explore somatic feminine embodiment exercises, and more ways to magnetize the love you deserve. https://substack.com/@wildfemmeyoga/note/c-194490495?r=48uizv&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Tonight we have a fun topic for all of you out in the dating world. Tonight we are discussing the INSTANT TURN OFF's that both men and women do in dating. You do not want to miss this one!Ladies stop trying so hard in dating and instead start BEING the energy that attracts. Join my private FB community WILD FEMME; https://www.facebook.com/groups/thewildfemme/Learn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. Take our dating quiz and let love chase you!.https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizDid you know that we offer one off coaching sessions to help you navigate your dating situation? If you are dating someone and need an outside perspective and advice, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bac This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Hi friends! Welcome to our humble corner of the podcast world. Tonight we are having a light conversation on the GOOD the BAD and the UGLY with flirting! See you inside.Ladies stop trying so hard in dating and instead start BEING the energy that attracts. Join my private FB community WILD FEMME; https://www.facebook.com/groups/thewildfemme/ Learn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. Take our dating quiz and let love chase you!.https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizDid you know that we offer one off coaching sessions to help you navigate your dating situation? If you are dating someone and need an outside perspective and advice, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bac This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Hi everyone! Welcome to OURTAKE! Tonight we are sharing a listener's "Dating Dilemma", and it is JUICY! We are diving into the secret world of affairs and giving honest insight into this unique love triangle situation. We would love to hear your take on this situation as well. Write to us at [email protected] and let us know your take on it or tell us about your dating dilemma. See you inside!Ladies stop trying so hard in dating and instead start BEING the energy that attracts. Join my private FB community WILD FEMME; https://www.facebook.com/groups/thewildfemme/Learn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. Take our dating quiz and let love chase you!.https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizDid you know that we offer one off coaching sessions to help you navigate your dating situation? If you are dating someone and need an outside perspective and advice, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bac This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Hi everyone! Welcome to OURTAKE!Tonight we’re covering a topic for THE GUYS… Michael is putting Darlene on the spot with off-the-cuff questions about what women really want. Guys—this one’s for you.Ladies, stop trying so hard in dating and start being the energy that attracts.If you want deeper conversations, real talk, and updates on when new episodes drop (plus opportunities to join us live), make sure you subscribe to our Substack: https://ourtakedatingover40.substack.com/That’s the best way to stay connected, get exclusive insights, and be part of the OURTAKE community.Got thoughts on this episode or a question you want us to answer on the show? Subscribe and join the conversation—we’d love to hear from you. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Hi everyone! Dating after divorce is not easy. The truth is that relationships are not easy either and most people never stop to consider what they are even really looking for. Healthy relationship can offer the fertile ground for healing and growth. If your goal is to have a healthy relationship that is deeply connected and wildly passionate this episode is for you! Ladies stop trying so hard in dating and instead start BEING the energy that attracts. Join my private FB community WILD FEMME; https://www.facebook.com/groups/thewildfemme/ Learn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. Take our dating quiz and let love chase you!.https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizDid you know that we offer one off coaching sessions to help you navigate your dating situation? If you are dating someone and need an outside perspective and advice, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bac This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Hi Everyone! This is a quick episode to fill you all in on where we. have been for 2 months and the lessons we have learned. We are so glad to be back!Ladies stop trying so hard in dating and instead start BEING the energy that attracts. Join my private FB community WILD FEMME; https://www.facebook.com/groups/thewildfemme/ Learn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. Take our dating quiz and let love chase you!.https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizDid you know that we offer one off coaching sessions to help you navigate your dating situation? If you are dating someone and need an outside perspective and advice, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bac This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Hey friends! Welcome to our little corner of podcast universe! If you are over 40 and trying to get it right in love, dating and relationships you are in the right place. Tonight we are discussing the stages of dating. If you are dating someone now and wondering "where things are going" & if she/he is "the one" this episode is for you!.... Ladies stop trying so hard in dating and instead start BEING the energy that attracts. Join my private FB community WILD FEMME; https://www.facebook.com/groups/thewildfemme/ Learn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. Take our dating quiz and let love chase you!.https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizDid you know that we offer one off coaching sessions to help you navigate your dating situation? If you are dating someone and need an outside perspective and advice, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bac This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Hey friends! Welcome to our little corner of podcast universe! If you are over 40 and trying to get it right in love, dating and relationships you are in the right place. Tonight we are diving into what it really means to be HIGH VALUE in dating. Join us for this unfiltered conversation and learn exactly what you need to do to attract a high value partner into your love life. Learn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. Take our dating quiz and let love chase you!.https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizDid you know that we offer one off coaching sessions to help you navigate your dating situation? If you are dating someone and need an outside perspective and advice, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bac This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Join our unfiltered after-dark conversation about SEX ON THE 1ST DATE & SHOULD SHE TEXT HIM FOR A 2ND DATE. If you are considering getting intimate on the first date, listen in to why you may want to wait it out. Then we dive into who should LEAD the planning and timing of the 2nd date. Join in for "Ourtake" on both situations and write into us to share your take to [email protected] Learn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. Take our dating quiz and let love chase you!.https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizDid you know that we offer one off coaching sessions to help you navigate your dating situation? If you are dating someone and need an outside perspective and advice, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bac This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Today, we are diving into the hidden truth to your arguments and the opportunity for healing in relationships. Get ready to peel the layers back and understand the dark corners and depths of your psyche. Learn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. Take our dating quiz and let love chase you!.https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizDid you know that we offer one off coaching sessions to help you navigate your dating situation? If you are dating someone and need an outside perspective and advice, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bac This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Tonight, we are replying to audience dating dilemmas on the topics of what to do if the guy you are dating keeps bringing up his X girlfriend and what to do if your man is following half naked women on social media. If you are not being respected and honored in your relationship, this episode is for you!Learn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. Take our dating quiz and let love chase you!.https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizDid you know that we offer one off coaching sessions to help you navigate your dating situation? If you are dating someone and need an outside perspective and advice, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bac This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Tonight we are diving into GHOSTING. Why people ghost and what to do if you get ghosted. If you have ever been ghosted this episode is for you! Learn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. Take our dating quiz and let love chase you!.https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizDid you know that we offer one off coaching sessions to help you navigate your dating situation? If you are dating someone and need an outside perspective and advice, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bac This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Tonight we are diving into FEMININE MAGIC. Ladies learn the ancient secrets to having LOVE CHASE YOU! Did you know that we offer one off coaching sessions to help you navigate your dating situation? If you are dating someone and need an outside perspective and advice, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bacTake our LOVE QUIZ and discover your path to dating, and having love chase you! https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quiz This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Tonight we are diving into the way MEN THINK and discussing what men actually want. - If you are divorced and now dating and wondering what men are looking for, this episode is for you! Tonight we pick Michael's brain to help our ladies learn what men REALLY want- and don't want.Did you know that we offer one off coaching sessions to help you navigate your dating situation? If you are dating someone and need an outside perspective and advice, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bacLearn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quiz This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

We are continuing our POLARITY series- the last episode we discussed the number one attraction killer- so if you did not catch that make sure you go back and listen after today's episode. Tonight- We are brining you a very special episode - for the guys on HOW to be more attractive. The tips in this episode will 10x your attraction. WARNING- ONLY LISTEN IF YOU WANT TO BECOME MORE ATTRACTIVE TO THE LADIES ;)Did you know that we offer one off coaching sessions to help you navigate your dating situation? If you are dating someone and need an outside perspective and advice, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bacLearn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quiz This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

THE NUMBER ONE ATTRACTION KILLER Hey Friends! Today we are kicking off our POLARITY SERIES! If you are wondering why the passion fizzles out, and want to understand the KEY to long term attraction and relationship success, today's episode is for you!Did you know that we offer one off coaching sessions to help you navigate your dating situation? If you are dating someone and need an outside perspective and advice, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bacLearn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quiz This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

In today's episode we cover how you can STOP CHASING and START ATTRACTING. The real conversation is how to be HIGH VALUE in dating so you can attract high value partners. If you are out there dating and still have not found "the one" this episode is for YOU! Join us for this "off the cuff" conversation! if you would like our support with attracting high value partners click here to sign up for a private coaching session with us. In this session we will help you identify your unique path to attracting "the one"  https://thedatingplaybook.com/bacLearn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quiz This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Hey friends! Today we are discussed TOXIC DATING. We cover how to recognize if you are in a toxic dating situation, why this is happening and what to do about it. Did you know that we offer one off coaching sessions to help you navigate your dating situation? If you are dating someone and need an outside perspective and advice, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bacLearn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quiz This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Hey friends! Today's topic is a MUST if you want to GET IT RIGHT in a new relationship. This conversation will help you become aware of how you may have unspoken expectations of your partner that are creating a problem in the relationship. We also offer the "Get It Right"relationship structure that can help you to GET IT RIGHT with this new person. If you really like the person you are now dating and want it to go the distance, this episode is for you! Did you know that we offer one off coaching sessions to help you navigate your dating situation and GET IT RIGHT in relationship. Click here to sign up for a session and take that first step toward creating the relationship you have always dreamed of.  https://thedatingplaybook.com/bacLearn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quiz This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Hey friends! Tonight we are discussing WHEN to introduce your kids to the person you are dating. If you have kids or are dating someone with kids, the episode is for you! Did you know that we offer one off coaching sessions to help you navigate your dating situation? If you are dating someone and need an outside perspective and advice, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bacLearn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quiz This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Hey friends! Today we are discussing what to do when you really like them, but don't agree with the way they are parenting. Join us for this "off the cuff" conversation! We hope you enjoyed today’s episode. Before you go, if you would like our support navigating your dating situation, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bacLearn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quiz This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Hey friends! It's TEQUILA night! Tonight we are having some fun recording, but we are covering a serious topic - CHEATING. If you think your partner may be cheating on you, this episode is a MUST! Before you go, if you would like our support navigating your dating situation, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bacLearn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizThanks for stopping by! Darlene & Michael This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Welcome to Ourtake on Dating Over 40 - After the Wrath of Divorce! Today we dive into the Red flags of the 1st date. Before you go on your next first date, be sure to tune into this episode!We hope you enjoyed today’s episode. If you would like our support navigating your dating situation, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bacLearn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizIf you have a topic you would like us to cover or a question for us, we would love to hear from you. Shoot us an email & we will get back to you within the week. [email protected] Thanks for stopping by! - Michael & Darlene This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Hey friends! Today we are discussing if men and women can just be friends. We cover the red flags and how to approach your partner if you wondering if they are really just friends with a specific person. If you are questioning if your partner is "just friends" with someone they talk to, this episode is for you! Learn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizWe hope you enjoyed today’s episode. Before you go, if you would like our support navigating your dating situation, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bac This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Welcome to Ourtake on Dating Over 40 - After the Wrath of Divorce! Today we have a JUICY episode for you! Social Media & Dating ETIQUETTE. In today’s episode discuss the COMMON and avoidable issues that social media can create for people newly in relationships and we cover the etiquette to avoid all of the pitfalls of social media and relationships. If you are going ALL IN on your new relationship, this episode is a MUST! We hope you enjoyed today’s episode. If you would like our support navigating your dating situation, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bacLearn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizIf you have a topic you would like us to cover or a question for us, we would love to hear from you. Shoot us an email & we will get back to you within the week. [email protected] Thanks for stopping by! - Michael & Darlene This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Welcome to Ourtake on Dating Over 40 - After the Wrath of Divorce! Today we have a JUICY episode for you! Today we are talking about what to do when you feel like the person you are dating or in a relationship, with starts to pull away. If you are seeing someone now that you are really into, and feel like they are pulling away, this episode is for you! We hope you enjoyed today’s episode. If you would like our support navigating your dating situation, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bacLearn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizIf you have a topic you would like us to cover or a question for us, we would love to hear from you. Shoot us an email & we will get back to you within the week. [email protected] Thanks for stopping by! - Michael & Darlene This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Welcome to Ourtake on Dating Over 40 - After the Wrath of Divorce! Today we have a JUICY episode for you! Today we are responding to a listener who wrote in about their boyfriend of 6 months. The relationship is going well and they are now "exclusive. The only problem- is that he refuses to delete ALL of the dating apps on his phone. He also is still looking on the apps. Tune in to hear Our Take on this dating dilemma and write to us to share your dating dilemma! If you are experiencing this, or are about to be exclusive with a new dating partner this episode is for you! We hope you enjoyed today’s episode. If you would like our support navigating your dating situation, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bacLearn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizIf you have a topic you would like us to cover or a question for us, we would love to hear from you. Shoot us an email & we will get back to you within the week. [email protected] Thanks for stopping by! - Michael & Darlene This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Oh ladies, you DO NOT want to miss this episode! Let's be honest, we have all been there. We have all had that moment where we see our guy giving another women on social media attention. In today's episode we respond to a listeners dilemma with her boyfriend and give our take on how she should handle it. Between us, at the end of the day- I would not tolerate that type of "leaky energy"! - Tune in for the full episode! Learn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizWe hope you enjoyed today’s episode. If you would like our support navigating your dating situation, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bacIf you have a topic you would like us to cover or a question for us, we would love to hear from you. Shoot us an email & we will get back to you within the week. [email protected] Thanks for stopping by! - Michael & Darlene This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Welcome to Ourtake on Dating Over 40 - After the Wrath of Divorce! Today Michael and Darlene dive into knowing what your non-negotiable in relationship are, the 80/20. If you are actively dating and want to get it right this time around- this episode is for you!We hope you enjoyed today’s episode. If you would like our support navigating your dating situation, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bacLearn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizIf you have a topic you would like us to cover or a question for us, we would love to hear from you. Shoot us an email & we will get back to you within the week. [email protected] Thanks for stopping by! - Michael & Darlene This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Welcome to Ourtake on Dating Over 40 - After the Wrath of Divorce! In today's episode Michael and Darlene have the much needed conversation on heartbreak. Michael shares his take on moving on and Darlene offers a structured process to help you heal to move forward. If you are in heartbreak, this episode is for you.We hope you enjoyed today’s episode. If you would like our support navigating your dating situation, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bacLearn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizIf you have a topic you would like us to cover or a question for us, we would love to hear from you. Shoot us an email & we will get back to you within the week. [email protected] Thanks for stopping by! - Michael & Darlene This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Welcome to Ourtake on Dating Over 40 - After the Wrath of Divorce! Today Darlene and Michael dive into the KEY- Red AND Green flags of dating after divorce. We know from experience how important it is to be aware of these flags- and are here to share our knowledge and experience. The green flags may surprise you!We hope you enjoyed today’s episode. If you would like our support navigating your dating situation, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bacLearn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizIf you have a topic you would like us to cover or a question for us, we would love to hear from you. Shoot us an email & we will get back to you within the week. [email protected] Thanks for stopping by! - Michael & Darlene This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Hey friends! Today we dive into the A-Z's of setting up your dating profiles to attract quality men and women. We go through the do's and dont's, so if you are just getting on the apps this BONUS episode is for you1Learn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizWe hope you enjoyed today’s episode. If you would like our support navigating your dating situation, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bac This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Welcome to Ourtake on Dating Over 40 - After the Wrath of Divorce! This is part 2 of this series and today we dive into the nitty gritty of dating apps. If you are considering getting on the apps or are new the dating apps, this episode is for you! We hope you enjoyed today’s episode. If you would like our support navigating your dating situation, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bacLearn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizIf you have a topic you would like us to cover or a question for us, we would love to hear from you. Shoot us an email & we will get back to you within the week. [email protected] Thanks for stopping by! - Michael & Darlene This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Welcome to Ourtake on Dating Over 40 - After the Wrath of Divorce! Today Darlene & Michael talk about how to feel more confident getting back out there and the various ways to meet new people. This is a 2 part series so be sure to check-out the next episode! We hope you enjoyed today’s episode. If you would like our support navigating your dating situation, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bacLearn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizIf you have a topic you would like us to cover or a question for us, we would love to hear from you. Shoot us an email & we will get back to you within the week. [email protected] Thanks for stopping by! - Michael & Darlene This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Welcome to Ourtake on Dating Over 40 - After the Wrath of Divorce! If you are new to the dating scene and have decided to join the world on online dating - this episode is a "MUST" for you. We hope you enjoyed today’s episode. If you would like our support navigating your dating situation, we would love to meet you! Click here to sign up for a Dating Dilemma coaching session. https://thedatingplaybook.com/bacLearn about your dating style and what is standing between you and finally finding “the one” meant for you. https://datingandrelatonshipadvice.com/dating-quizIf you have a topic you would like us to cover or a question for us, we would love to hear from you. Shoot us an email & we will get back to you within the week. [email protected] Thanks for stopping by! - Michael & Darlene This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com

Welcome to OUR TAKE with Michael & Darlene!In this episode, we delve into the crucial steps to ensure you're truly READY to re-enter the dating scene post-divorce. We share key insights and personal stories from our own experiences with online dating, providing a comprehensive guide for anyone looking to start dating after divorce.Michael brings an unfiltered, real, and raw perspective to the challenges and triumphs of dating again. Meanwhile, Darlene provides expert insights grounded in relationship psychology, focusing on masculine and feminine polarity and the psychological readiness necessary for healthy relationships.Discover practical advice on preparing for dating, from understanding your emotional state to setting realistic expectations. We'll discuss the importance of self-awareness and emotional healing as foundational steps before stepping back into the dating world.Tune in to learn how to navigate the complexities of dating after divorce with confidence and positivity. Make your next relationship successful by being fully prepared. Enjoy the episode! This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit ourtakedatingover40.substack.com