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Out Loud & Laughing
by Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz
Presented by Out.com / Out Magazine Out Loud & Laughing is a hilarious, heartfelt, and unapologetic podcast hosted by queer cousins Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz. Bringing their distinct comedic chemistry and shared family history to the mic, Bryan and Jon offer a fresh, unfiltered look at life, love, relationships, and everything in between. Through a sharp comedic lens, they dive headfirst into today's hot topics, essential life lessons, and the messy, beautiful highs and lows of growing up queer. Hosted by two proud queer cousins, our show uses laughter as a compass to navigate navigating identity, culture, and the unique challenges of the LGBTQ+ experience. Together with equalpride—the ultimate home for LGBTQ+ media—we are on a mission to build a community where identity and humor intersect. We’re here to inspire bold self-expression,
Episodes
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Dan Jinks | Movies That Matter From American Beauty to Milk & the Man Behind the Movies
Hollywood producer Dan Jinks joins us to share how he built an Oscar-winning career by championing original stories—and why he never saw being gay as a limitation in an industry full of gatekeepers.From a theater-obsessed kid dreaming of show business to producing films that made a lasting…
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On & David Mekahel | Bearing It All from Love to Business and the Briefs-Brand Behind Their Success
What does it take to build a life, a relationship, and a creative empire together? On and Dave join us for a candid conversation about queer love, entrepreneurship, and staying unapologetically themselves.The couple shares how they balance working and living together, what they’ve learned from...
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Jake Graf | The Leading Man Who Wrote His Own Damn Script
Jake Graf had to write his own role in life—and then turned that same determination into films, activism, and a family story the world rarely gets to see. From growing up under Section 28 in Britain to becoming a trans filmmaker, actor, and advocate, this conversation explores visibility…
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Ginger Minj | The Minj, The Myth, The Legend: Spells, Sisters & Showbiz
Ginger Minj has upcoming appearances to put on your calendar: she’ll perform a Winifred Sanderson cabaret at Anthem in Orlando, and celebrate her Broadway EP, The Broads Way, at New York City’s 54 Below on November 10. Ginger says the 54 Below show will feature live singing, live music, and…
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The Drillmaster Live in LA on OCT 13 2026 with Caleb Zeringue, Jenny Zigrino & Jeffrey Jay
The Drill Master: One Night in Los AngelesComedians and co-writers Caleb Zarang, Jenny Zigrino, and Jeffrey Jay join Out Loud and Laughing to talk about The Drillmaster—their funny, irreverent take on the story of Baron Friedrich von Steuben, the queer Prussian military leader who helped shape…
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Paul Wagner | Inside the World of Aesthetic “Perfection”, OnlyFans Reality & Keeping It Real
Paul Wagner turns the glossy fantasy of adult entertainment into a candid look at what it takes to build a brand, stay grounded, and make it all work. From a sheltered religious upbringing to international modeling campaigns, he shares how he went from feeling overlooked to taking control of his...
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Chris Salvatore & Brandon Shypkowski | Apocalyptic Drama & Finding Yourself in Your 40s: Inside the New
A queer apocalypse movie gets personal fast when Chris Salvatore and Brandon Shipkowski reveal how they brought the dark, toxic, end-of-the-world thriller Scorch Marks to life. If you love messy relationships, intense character work, and horror with real emotional stakes, this conversation is for...
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Maria Sjödin | Fighting for Global Queer Liberation, Finding Joy on the Front Lines, & Swedish Candy
Queer rights are under attack in too many places, but Maria Sjödin shows why the future is still being built right now. The Executive Director of Outright International shares how global change actually happens, why you can’t “parachute rights” into another country, and what it takes to turn...
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Ricky Cornish | From Red Carpets to Real Life – (And the Ultimate Elevator Kiki with Ariana Grande, Ricky Martin, and RuPaul)
Ricky Cornish knows how to get celebrities to drop the PR script—and in this conversation, he flips the microphone and reveals the real story behind his own rise, his red carpet secrets, and the queer joy that keeps him going. From Harry Styles saying his name at the Grammys to interviewing Meryl...
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Daniel Reynolds: Behind the Cover: Inside LGBTQ+ Media with the Editor-in-Chief of Out & The Advocate
Queer visibility does not happen by accident, and Daniel Reynolds has spent more than a decade making sure it gets seen, remembered, and celebrated. From fighting for LGBTQ students in New Jersey to shaping the front pages at Out and The Advocate, he reveals how media, activism, and culture…
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Alexander-Ali Dalipi - The Balance Between Owning Your Own HR-Tech Business & Spilling All the NSFW (After-Hours) Tea
In this episode, Alexander Ali Dalipi shares his journey from Wall Street to founding HR1 Systems, navigating the challenges of being a queer leader in corporate America, and balancing his personal identity with professional success. Tune in for insights on leadership, authenticity, and building…
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Kevin John: Belting Out Loud – Authenticity, Rejection, and Radical Self-Love
In this episode, Kevin John shares his journey from childhood to becoming a versatile performer, discussing the challenges of coming out, the impact of American Idol, and his musical inspirations. He offers insights into staying authentic, the power of self-belief, and the importance of...
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Stewart Taylor: Dark Summer Zombies, James Dean, and a Dog Cameo That Stole the Show
In this episode, Stuart Taylor shares his journey from a bright pop star to exploring darker, more personal themes in his music, inspired by icons like James Dean and Lana Del Rey. We discuss his creative process, the making of his latest single Dark Summer, and his openness about his identity…
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Kirstie Nicole: Redefining Leadership and Activating the Power of Authentic Storytelling
In this episode, Kirstie Nicole shares her journey from content creator to media entrepreneur, emphasizing the importance of authenticity, vulnerability, and building community. She discusses her work with She Comes with Baggage Media and the Amastara friendship app, highlighting how embracing...
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Meet Joseph Lucido | Building a Career, Brand, and Life Without Curating Perfection
Google product strategist by day, jet-setting creator by night, Joseph Lucido is living the kind of double life most people only daydream about. But behind the glossy travel photos and iconic party stories is a sharper question: how do you build a life that is ambitious, visible, and still…
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Meet Alexander Stefanini | How a therapist built a sanctuary for trans and queer healing
Trans and queer people are being asked to survive a hostile climate while still finding a way to heal, transition, and stay whole. Licensed therapist and Arrive Therapy founder Alexander Stefanini shares what actually helps: sanctuary, community, laughter, and care that meets people where they…
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Revealing What Asexual Looks Like – From HighFashion Modeling to NYC Pride Grand Marshal with Yasmin Benoit
Most people assume the fashion and modeling worlds are rooted purely in sexuality and male gaze—Yasmin Benoit challenges that with her radical authenticity and activism. As the first openly asexual grand marshal at NYC Pride and a trailblazing figure in alternative fashion, she turns societal...
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The Anatomy of Confidence – Shedding Small-Town Shame for NYC, Jockstraps, & 16-Hour Days with Zane Kazan
Most people think of the adult entertainment industry as a realm where passion and ambition clash with shame and stereotypes. Zane Kazan, a trailblazing actor, content creator, and founder of Helio Menswear, shatters that misconception by unapologetically owning his sexuality while aiming for...
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Disney High Seas Tales From a Quadruple Threat Puppeteer with Conor Devoe
Most theater kids dream of turning their childhood shyness into a dazzling career — and Connor DeVoe did just that, blending singing, dancing, acting, and even puppetry into a vibrant, multifaceted life. But it wasn’t always glamorous; he reveals how early stage fright almost kept him from…
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Flipping the Script on Queer Gymnastics while Balancing the Creative Hustle with Andrew Chupp
Uncover the inspiring journey of Andrew Chupp, a true embodiment of multi-talented excellence who’s redefining what it means to be a modern athlete and activist. From elite gymnastics and content creation to advocating for LGBTQ visibility on the global stage, Andrew’s story is a masterclass in...
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Algorithms vs. Allyship: How a Trans Comedian Won the Internet with Chris McAllister
Most comedians say their first time on stage is terrifying, but Chris McAllister turned that fear into a powerhouse debut that kickstarted their stand-up career—and their journey of unapologetic authenticity. From a nerve-wracking open mic in Sydney to a sold-out show at Australia’s premier…
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Spilling First Class Tea & Creating Content at 30,000 ft with @Whoisseanmac
Most companies struggle to showcase the real, unglamorous truth behind their glamorous travel lifestyles — until now. @WhoIsSeanMac, a flight attendant and viral digital storyteller, flips the script on airline life with humor, honesty, and jaw-dropping stories from the cockpit. He reveals the...
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The Visibility Superpower – Empowering Chosen Family From Flesh to Felt with Jen Capra
Most people wouldn't dare turn childhood nostalgia, Muppet magic, and raw Gen X existential crisis into a rallying cry for radical queer joy—Jen Capra does it with effortless wit and unapologetic authenticity. Her career doesn’t just entertain; it builds community. From wrangling iconic Muppets…
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An Olympian’s Guide to the Glide: Finding Identity Past the Perfect Score With Randy Gardner
Most champions hide a story that’s even more inspiring than their medals — a story of courage, vulnerability, and unwavering authenticity. Randy Gardner, five-time U.S. national and world champion figure skater and trailblazer in LGBTQ+ history, reveals the journey behind his glittering career…
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The Art of Belonging & How Democracy Demands the Queer Existence with Gui Mohallem
Most artists wouldn't dare turn their activism into a movement for democracy—Ghee Mohlim does it with stunning visuals and unapologetic courage. His work doesn’t just document; it demands action. From capturing the raw realities of queer kinship to fighting for representation in Brazil's…
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Directing the Heartbeat in Every Frame – From Ghosting to A-List Movie Sets with Matt Sparks
Most people don’t realize that behind viral sketches and bold creativity, there’s a filmmaker who’s been crafting stories since childhood—and is now using those skills to parody dating, explore identity, and connect through humor. Meet Matt Sparks, the visionary behind some of the most hilarious...
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Rebuilding Life on Your Own Terms: Stress, How to Manage it, and How to Do it Authentically with Dr Chris Biddix, PHD
Most people think “blowing up your life” means losing everything — but for Dr. Chris Biddix, it was the radical transformation that led him to his true self. From the hyper-conservative halls of Liberty University to becoming a Gen Z wellness expert, a proud gay dad, and founder of My Best…
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The Modern Guide to Elevated Living and Bringing the Chaos to Classic Luxury with AJ Hernandez
Most people see AJ Hernandez as Boston’s stylish lifestyle guru—an impeccably curated content creator with a razor-sharp, unapologetically queer sense of humor. But what if beneath that polished surface, he’s also a deeply resonant voice redefining representation and joy for LGBTQ+ communities?…
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From AIDS to Integrative Oncology – Healing Beyond Disease with Dr Donald Abrams
Join Dr. Donald Abrams, a pioneer in integrative oncology, as he shares his journey from the AIDS crisis front lines to championing holistic healing. Discover how he blends science with soulful care, redefining health through cannabis research and integrative medicine. Explore tangible habits for...
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From South to Stage: The Journey of Satire and Storytelling with Caleb Zeringue
Most comedians turn news cycles into punchlines — Caleb Zeringue takes it further, transforming chaos into award-winning theater that shouts queer stories from the rooftops. From viral musicals to hilarious history lessons about America’s most fabulous gay generals, Caleb's work challenges the...
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Guerrilla Filmmaking, Writing Your Own Roles, and a Little Jumpity Doo with Alex Ringler
Most creators wait for the industry to give them a stage — but Alex Ringler built his own. From Broadway hits to provocative web series, this multi-hyphenate actor, dancer, choreographer, and writer reveals how he’s forging his own path in a world that often limits LGBTQ+ voices. If you're tired…
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Heart and Spade in the Pocket – Building an Independent PR for Queer Voices Everyone Knows and Loves with Matt Gross
Most PR firms spin stories, but Matt Gross built Heart Spade PR from pure heart and grassroots hustle—centered on authentic queer voices in a crowded, commercialized landscape. Discover how he turned a passion for visibility and integrity into a thriving, values-driven agency that defies industry...
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Eating Out, Rick & Steve, and Queer Joy – 25 Years of Radical Queer Comedy with Q. Allan Brocka
Allan Broca is a trailblazer who’s reshaped queer storytelling with humor, heart, and unapologetic authenticity. From the groundbreaking Eating Out series to innovative animated projects, he proves that LGBTQ narratives can be bold, messy, and genuinely joyful—without compromise. In this episode,...
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A Father’s Day Special The Blueprint of Us Featuring Dad Tom
Most families have stories, but few are filled with the grit, love, and laughter of Bryan and John’s dad—an immigrant, public servant, and master fixer whose journey from Cuba to building communities in South Florida is nothing short of inspiring. In this heartfelt and humorous episode, Bryan and...
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Keeping the Pulse Alive: How Reclaiming Our Joy Changes the System with Brandon Wolf
Most companies shy away from celebrating the full spectrum of LGBTQ+ joy—but advocate Brandon Wolf shows us why prioritizing laughter, pride, and resilience is the boldest act of protest. In this heartfelt and inspiring episode, Brandon, a survivor of the Pulse Nightclub tragedy, shares his…
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Loosening the Grip on Masculinity: How Pop Culture Shifted from Toxic Tones to Playful Tropes with Queerty Johnny Lopez
Most of us are stuck in a cycle of app swiping, instant gratification, and superficial small talk. But what if we told you that the secret to a deeper, more authentic gay life—and even better dates—lies in resurrecting the art of meeting in person? Johnny Lopez, a fearless cultural critic and…
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From Huge Aspiration and High Notes to Ever Bigger Stages and Building a Foundation to Fabulousness with Daniel Joseph Baker
Most of us dream of blending raw talent with unapologetic authenticity—and Daniel Joseph Baker proves it’s possible to do both at once. Whether he’s captivating millions online, giving life on America’s Got Talent, or singing for the LGBTQ community at the UN, Daniel is here to show how embracing...
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A ‘Chosen Family’ Reunion – Ben from “It’s Ben a Week” Podcast is Back!
Most creators get into podcasting for connection—fewer realize how deeply it reveals your true self. Ben Macdonald, a master of transformation from TV drama to behind-the-scenes director and podcast host, shares how making his voice heard has become his most authentic act yet. If you've ever felt...
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From Yahoo Tech Titan to Queer Media Mogul – The Playbook for Building a World Beyond Tolerance with Scott Gatz, CEO of Q.Digital
Most companies settle for being "tolerant." Scott Gatz, CEO of Q Digital, proves that true freedom comes from leading with heart, authenticity, and a fierce commitment to shaping a world where everyone can be their most genuine selves. After helping to build the digital future at Yahoo and…
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Funny meets Full-frontal comedy and dildos at the [Thanksgiving] dinner table with Naked Eddie
Most comedians hide behind scripted routines, but Naked Eddie flips the script—literally. His vulnerability, confidence, and no-holds-barred humor challenge what it means to truly “show up” on stage. Do you have what it takes to strip away your fears and embrace your authentic self? Eddie’s…
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The Amazing Pace – Life, Love, and Navigating Roadblocks Together with Mark Romain & Brett Hamby
Most couples who meet in Vegas and take their love on a round-the-world race wouldn't necessarily turn their journey into a lesson in communication under pressure. But Mark Romain and Brett Hamby do exactly that—and blow expectations wide open. From ballet studio to reality TV, their story is a...
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Midwest Grit, Heartfelt Grief, and the Soul Behind His Newest project: "Guess What? I Love You" with Mike Maimone
Most people think grief and heartbreak are just scars — but what if they could be the blueprint for a soulful rebirth? Mike Maimone shares how navigating loss transformed his music, revealing an unfiltered, intimate perspective on love, healing, and resilience. In this heartfelt conversation, he...
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Lead with Joy, Choreograph with Heart & Dancing Through Life! With Chip Abbott
Most companies kill their creativity and authenticity by enforcing outdated standards—Chip Abbott reveals how embracing heart over perfection can transform both your career and your life.In this inspiring chat, Chip, a sought-after casting director, choreographer, and passionate advocate for...
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Spilling the Tea From Non-Profit Boardrooms to Bravo Courtrooms with Matty Durkin
Matty Durkin proves that pop culture and nonprofit work aren't separate worlds. As the creator of Pop Corner and a fundraising director at Concern Worldwide, he blends celebrity analysis with humanitarian impact. This episode reveals how Matty stays authentic while juggling high-stakes...
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Building a Bigger Table – Fathering the Movement to LGBTQIA Family Building, Parenthood, & Beyond with Brian Rosenberg
Join us for an inspiring episode with Brian Rosenberg, the visionary founder of Gays with Kids (GWK) and the GWK Academy. Brian shares his journey of creating a supportive platform for LGBTQ+ families, offering resources and guidance for those on the path to parenthood. Discover the evolution of...
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Nauti by Nature – Dropping Anchor, Shedding Layers & Exposing It All with Captain Beau
Most people think sailing trips are about luxury and lounging—but for Captain Bo Bruno, they're about genuine connection, embracing authenticity, and redefining what a vacation can be. On his boutique gay sailing adventures, nudity isn't just allowed—it’s the catalyst for breaking down barriers,...
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A Mothers Day Special: The Blueprint of Us with Mom Bea
Beyond the usual tales of parental sacrifice, this episode explores the extraordinary resilience of Bryan’s mother, Bea. A Cuban-born educator who fled her homeland in the 70s, Bea shares how she raised four children through economic hardship with unwavering faith and grace. Her journey is a...
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Setting Out on a [Snowbound] Soul-Searching Journey Along the Pacific Crest Trail with Riley Riffel
While most fled record-breaking snow, Riley Riffle trekked 2,650 miles through it on the Pacific Crest Trail. Facing historic snowpack, body dysmorphia, and grief, he discovered that true resilience stems from vulnerability. This episode explores Riley’s journey of healing, revealing how the...
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Passports, Points, and Pride — Life & Travel Hacks for the Modern Nomad with BryGuides
Join us as we explore the art of travel hacking, LGBTQ+ travel experiences, and lifestyle design with digital nomad Brian from BriGuides. Discover how to travel smarter, save money, and embrace a life of adventure and authenticity. Travel hacking and credit card points strategies Navigating…
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Doctor’s Orders: Redefining Wellness Through Humor and Heart with Dr Tubss
Join us as we chat with Dr. Tubss, a digital content creator and physical therapist, about his journey from South Florida to viral fame. Discover how authenticity, humor, and strategic platform use have propelled his online presence, while also exploring the balance between personal branding and...
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Presented by Out.com / Out Magazine
Out Loud & Laughing is a hilarious, heartfelt, and unapologetic podcast hosted by queer cousins Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz. Bringing their distinct comedic chemistry and shared family history to the mic, Bryan and Jon offer a fresh, unfiltered look at life, love, relationships, and everything in between. Through a sharp comedic lens, they dive headfirst into today's hot topics, essential life lessons, and the messy, beautiful highs and lows of growing up queer.
Hosted by two proud queer cousins, our show uses laughter as a compass to navigate navigating identity, culture, and the unique challenges of the LGBTQ+ experience. Together with equalpride—the ultimate home for LGBTQ+ media—we are on a mission to build a community where identity and humor intersect. We’re here to inspire bold self-expression,
HOSTED BY
Bryan Ruiz and Jon Ruiz
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