Over 40 Fabulous and Pregnant

117. When Ana started her journey to motherhood at 36, she expected a straightforward path. Instead, she entered a harrowing seven-year battle marked by ectopic pregnancy, hydrosalpinx, severe adenomyosis, and an AMH level that dropped to 0.1. Navigating misdiagnoses and dozens of protocol failures, she reached a breaking point that ultimately sparked a total transformation in how she approached her fertility.By throwing herself into researching, advocating for proper uterine diagnosis, and completely redesigning her daily protocol, Ana overturned the odds and carried a healthy baby boy at 42. In this episode, she candidly breaks down the emotional toll of medical burnout, how to recognize when a clinic isn't serving you, and the practical methodology she created to help women navigate complex fertility struggles without losing themselves in the process.Get the resources, transcript, and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode117/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

116. Alisa experienced unexplained hot flashes and night sweats in her early thirties, no doctor thought to test her hormone levels because of her young age. It wasn't until she was diagnosed with advanced early menopause at 31 that her long, winding path to parenthood truly began, a journey that would span a divorce, years of self-advocacy, and knowing the love of her life for years.In this open and inspiring episode, Alisa candidly shares how she navigated choosing donor eggs, traveling to Barbados for IVF, overcoming pregnancy anxiety, and ultimately welcoming her baby girl at age 47. From using a laptop and a glass of wine to pick their egg donor to experiencing a room full of supportive women during her delivery, Alisa's story is a powerful reminder that motherhood over 40 doesn't follow a rigid timeline and your dream is worth fighting for.Get the resources, transcript, and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode116/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

115. Fertility coach Jen Richards shares her raw, beautiful, and seven-year-long journey to motherhood. From navigating the confusing world of unexplained infertility at age 40 to experiencing the BOGO "dating website" swirl of sperm banks and the heartbreaking silence of a 13-week miscarriage, Jen opens up about what it really takes to survive the emotional trenches of late-30s and 40-plus family building.Jen shares the incredible, fortuitous turning point in her story: navigating the "new frontier" of private embryo donation after a close friend offered a basket of hope. We talk about the unspoken realities of a 48-hour C-section labor, the severe postpartum anxiety that followed her victory, and the liberating day she finally said goodbye to the breast pump. Whether you are currently staring down a difficult medical crossroads, considering donor options, or looking for permission to let go of a strict natural birth plan, Jen’s relentless hope and grounded wisdom will make you feel less alone in the woods of your own journey.Get the resources, transcript, and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode115/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

114. Ruth, an oil painter and children’s book author, shares her journey to welcoming her daughter at 43. Ruth opens up about the reality of facing back-to-back miscarriages in her 40s, how receiving genetic testing results brought unexpected healing, and the radical mindset shift that allowed her to view her body not as failing, but as profoundly "badass."Moving past the fear and labels of a typical clinical setting, Ruth shares her experience working with a practice of supportive midwives to plan a natural home birth. From a sudden, explosive water-breaking moment on the toilet to an efficient, 8-minute standing labor, Ruth's story is a beautiful, primal, and refreshingly positive look at later motherhood. Whether you are currently trying to conceive over 40, recovering from pregnancy loss, or exploring the care model of midwifery, this episode offers a powerful reminder to slow down, practice rest as resistance, and trust the pace of your own life.Get the resources, transcript, and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode114/Get Rejoova Eggs & Rejoova Repair. Use code FAB for 10% offShop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

113. When Jeani scheduled a doctor's visit to address hot flashes, night sweats, and an elevated FSH level, she assumed she was simply following in the footsteps of her mother and sisters who had all entered early menopause. Instead, a routine ultrasound revealed a dislodged IUD, and a month later, on September 11th, a positive pregnancy test that quite literally left her weak in the knees. At 43 years old, with her oldest daughter on the cusp of high school graduation, Jeani found herself forced to completely rewrite the blueprint for her upcoming retirement years. In this episode, she dives deep into the complex, heavy emotions that followed, bravely uncovering the profound sense of shame and unworthiness she carried throughout her pregnancy as she struggled to accept a gift she felt she hadn't planned for or deserved.Jeani pulls no punches when discussing the distinct physical and emotional differences of carrying a baby in her 40s versus her 20s. From an early fetal viability scare and a whole new level of bone-deep exhaustion to a sudden preeclampsia diagnosis at 38 weeks, her path to the delivery room required total mental endurance. She walks listeners through her intense, multi-hour induction in Sioux Falls, detailing the physical agony of a grueling hour-and-a-half push to deliver a sunny-side-up baby—and the incredible labor positioning trick from a seasoned nurse that finally brought her son safely to her chest. Looking back with a heart full of grace, Jeani shares an emotional message for other women navigating later-in-life motherhood, wishing she could tell her pregnant self to banish the embarrassment, accept the support of a baby shower, and fully celebrate the beautiful disruption of a mid-life miracle.Get the resources, transcript, and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode113/Get Rejoova Eggs & Rejoova Repair. Use code FAB for 10% offShop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

112. Dr. Stephanie Gray, a functional medicine practitioner, nurse practitioner, and author of Your Fertility Blueprint. After navigating a complex, 10-year secondary infertility battle that involved eight IUIs, two out-of-state surgeries for endometriosis, and a devastating standstill with multiple failed euploid embryo transfers, Stephanie had to become her own medical detective. She shares how she used PubMed research to advocate for her own health, eventually uncovering a chronic, low-grade uterine infection (endometritis) from a previous birth and a silent blood clotting condition that conventional doctors completely missed.Stephanie shares the powerful cross-section where conventional reproductive endocrinology and functional medicine meet. Dr. Gray explains why she believes the global decline in fertility is being heavily driven by a toxic world, touching on environmental toxins, soil depletion, and EMF radiation. She also shares the exact high-dose antioxidant protocol she used to achieve an incredible 60% euploid embryo rate at age 39. From the traumatic reality of surviving a life-threatening postpartum hemorrhage to navigating a high-risk pregnancy with placenta previa, Stephanie’s story is a masterclass in patient self-advocacy. Tune in to discover the practical, root-cause steps you can take to optimize your egg quality and uterine environment, and get a heavy dose of encouragement to trust your intuition when something doesn't feel right.Get the resources, transcript, and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode112/Get Rejoova Eggs & Rejoova Repair. Use code FAB for 10% offShop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

111. Journalist and mental strength trainer, Bettina Gordon shares the raw truth about being ambivalent about kids for years, dealing with a year of unprotected sex where nothing happened, and the exact tipping point that shifted her mindset from fearing a loss of freedom to embracing motherhood at 44. If you’ve ever felt crushed by the loud outside noise telling you you're running out of time, Bettina’s story is the ultimate proof that your mindset dictates your reality, not a number on a calendar.Bettina breaks down the fascinating science of biological versus chronological age, proving why fertility is simply an extension of your overall system, not an isolated ticking clock. From discovering her pregnancy in a majestic alpine hut on a mountain peak to navigating a 100% natural, unmedicated hospital birth run by midwives, Bettina's journey is a masterclass in trusting your intuition. You'll walk away knowing exactly how women in their 40s possess the ultimate superpower for motherhood, how to actively lower your biological age through five foundational lifestyle pillars, and why you should never give your power away to a medical system that relies on outdated statistics.Get the resources, transcript and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode111/TTC Sisterhood Circle: Join the waitlist and receive the email to sign up!Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

110. Kezia, Mandy, and Carly join us to share their deeply personal experiences with trying to conceive in their 40s. The conversation cuts through the noise of societal "age limits" and the buzzword of perimenopause, replacing clinical statistics with radical authenticity. From overcoming health hurdles like endometriosis and emergency surgeries to navigating the complexities of vasectomy reversals and secondary infertility, these women open up about the "aha moments" that reignited their desire for motherhood and the mental fortitude required to stay the course when the world says it’s too late.The episode goes beyond the physical journey, diving into the spiritual and emotional shifts that occur during this "second chapter" of life. Listeners will hear a raw look at the daily realities of "workbench sex," the solitary grief of a negative pregnancy test, and the life-changing impact of finding a supportive community. Whether discussing the nuances of breastfeeding while trying to conceive or the importance of trusting one's inner intuition, Kezia, Mandy, and Carly offer a defiant and hopeful perspective. They remind us that the journey isn't just about the outcome, but about the resilience, education, and empowerment found along the way.Get the resources, transcript and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode110/TTC Sisterhood Circle: Join the waitlist and receive the email to sign up!Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

109. Jaclyn shares her incredible 12-year gap between children. Jaclyn opens up about the grueling process of IUI and IVF, the emotional toll of a negative pregnancy tests and secondary infertility. She shares how leaving a high-stress 60-hour work week and moving to a new city created the space for a surprise pregnancy just weeks after her 40th birthday.We also dive into the practical realities of being a "geriatric" pregnant woman, from managing extreme nausea and low iron to the logistics of a scheduled C-section during COVID. Jaclyn shares why she chose to embrace a more relaxed parenting style the second time around. Whether you are currently in the thick of infertility or navigating a large age gap between your kids, this conversation is a beautiful reminder that it’s never too late for a new chapter.Get the resources, transcript and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode109/TTC Sisterhood Circle: Join the waitlist and receive the email to sign up!Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

108. After five boys and two devastating miscarriage in her 40's, Anne-Marie believed her journey to motherhood was over. She decided to reclaim her body through a health and wellness routine—incorporating a GLP-1 (semaglutide) and a major abdominal surgery—only to discover she was pregnant with her first daughter soon into her tummy tuck recovery.In this raw and authentic conversation, we dive into the reality of "Ozempic babies," navigating a high-risk pregnancy in your mid-40s, and the shock of facing gestational diabetes and post-birth eclampsia. Whether you are looking for hope after loss or curious about the intersection of weight-loss medication and fertility, Anne-Marie’s "second chapter" story is a powerful reminder that it is never too late for a beautiful surprise.Get the resources, transcript and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode108/TTC Sisterhood Circle: Join the waitlist and receive the email to sign up!Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

107. Britt Fohrman, a birth doula of 24 years found herself navigating the very journey she had supported hundreds of others through—but with a tragic twist. After years of fertility struggles and the sudden loss of her husband, Britt shares how she honored his final wish by continuing their path to parenthood as a solo mother. From winning a legal battle for her husband's sperm to finding a "miracle" egg donor within her own community, Britt’s story is a masterclass in resilience, spiritual alchemy, and the power of choosing life.We dive into the unconventional and the sacred, exploring how Britt utilized "Sex Magic" and tantric pleasure practices to prepare her womb and nervous system for a successful transfer at 48. Britt pulls back the curtain on the "cognitive dissonance" of pregnancy after loss, the reality of a 42-week induction that ended in a C-section, and the honest, often unspoken challenges of bonding and breastfeeding in your late 40s. Whether you are navigating your own TTC journey or looking for inspiration on how to move through profound grief, this episode offers a visceral look at the intersection of modern science and ancient wisdom.Get the resources, transcript and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode107/TTC Sisterhood Circle: Join the waitlist and receive the email with the sign link!Britt's Course: Preparing Your Vagina for Birth use code JAMIE for 10% off Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

106. Jamie welcomes Jessianna, a military veteran who shares her incredible 20-year path to becoming a mother at age 48. After nearly two decades of marriage, multiple deployments, and a history of heart-wrenching losses—including several miscarriages and a life-threatening double ectopic pregnancy—Jessianna opens up about the resilience required to keep going. She discusses the medical hurdles she faced, from a pituitary gland microadenoma to the physical toll of multiple failed IVF and IUI rounds, and how she navigated the complex decision to eventually move forward with donor eggs.The conversation dives into the realities of a "geriatric" pregnancy, including managing gestational diabetes with insulin and the unexpected challenges of an emergency C-section. Jessianna offers a raw look at the postpartum period, discussing baby blues, the importance of mental health support, and the logistics of breastfeeding with a lip tie. With three master's degrees and a career of service behind her, she reflects on why 48 was the perfect age for her to finally welcome her daughter. This episode is a powerful testament to the idea that hope prevails and that there are many different, equally beautiful paths to parenthood.Get the resources, transcript and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode106/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

105. After anchoring the news for nearly 30 years, Emmy-award winner Marla Tellez found herself reporting on her own miracle: a successful pregnancy at 48 using her own frozen eggs. In this episode, Marla shares the incredible 12-year timeline from freezing her eggs at age 37 to welcoming her daughter, Sloan, just days before her 49th birthday. She pulls back the curtain on the technical and emotional hurdles of later-in-life parenting, including navigating a partner’s prior vasectomy through sperm extraction and the decision to pause treatments during the height of the COVID-19 pandemic.Marla’s story is a testament to the power of proactive fertility preservation and the resilience required to chase a dream across decades. From running three miles on the day of her induction to the raw “identity crisis” of the postpartum period, she offers a candid look at what it really takes to conceive and carry a baby in your late 40s. Whether you are currently “TTC” or considering freezing your eggs, Marla’s journey provides a roadmap of hope, scientific possibility, and the reminder that the best headlines are often the ones we write for ourselves.Get the resources, transcript and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode105/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

104. Rosey is on to share her IVF pregnancy with donor eggs. Rosey shares the intimate details of her decade-long path to motherhood. After a relatively straightforward journey with her first daughter at age 36, Rosey was met with years of "unexplained" infertility while trying for a second child. She takes us through the clinical maze of IUIs and mini-IVF, the heartbreak of a mid-trimester loss, and her eventual decision to pursue donor eggs. Rosey speaks candidly about the importance of being your own advocate—specifically how she pushed for endometriosis testing when she was told "it’s just your age"—and how she navigated the transition to donor conception with a focus on bonding and peace.We also feature a special "update" where Rosey and I reconnect months after our initial recording. In this powerful segment, she reflects on how her story took one final, unexpected turn.Get the resources, transcript and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode104/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

103. For years, Karen was dedicated to her career and travel, waiting for the right moment and the right person. When she finally met Jason in her early 40s, they assumed their path to parenthood would require clinical intervention or adoption. But just as they were planning their future, a "Crohn’s flare-up" turned out to be a life-changing surprise: a spontaneous pregnancy at age 46.In this episode, Karen shares the shock of her "die stealer" pregnancy test and why she was firm about not being a pregnant bride, choosing to separate her wedding from her journey to motherhood. We dive into her experience navigating a teaching hospital, the "peanut gallery" of residents, and how she learned to advocate for her own rest during a grueling three-day induction. Karen also discusses her "mindful minutes" in the classroom and the bittersweet transition of surrendering the life she knew for the "miracle" daughter she waited so long to meet.Get the resources, transcript and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode103/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

102. For years, Jude grappled with a single, heavy question: Do I actually want to be a mother? Feeling stuck in ambivalence, her quest for an answer took her from the high-stakes environment of the ER to the depths of the Amazon jungle. After a profound experience with a Shaman in Peru, the "indecision" finally cleared.In this episode, Jude shares her journey of meeting her partner at 39 and navigating the delicate balance of relationship-building with a "ticking clock." We dive into her spontaneous pregnancy at 41, the heartbreak of "twin demise," and her incredibly easeful pregnancy. Jude also tells the hilarious and harrowing story of her 10-centimeter-diluted dash to the hospital in a tiny Toyota Yaris. Tune in to hear how this medical professional learned to surrender her clinical mind to the mystery of motherhood.Get the resources, transcript and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode102/FREE registration to Fertility Over Forty Summit:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/Fertilityover40SummitShop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

101. We have Fallon on to share her spontaneous pregnancy at 40. Fallon was never the girl who dreamed of being a mother. A full-time yoga teacher with a life she loved, she was content being a “dog mom” until the loss of her dog and a new marriage changed her perspective. On the night of her 40th birthday, she and her husband decided to go for it. One month later, she was staring at a positive pregnancy test.In this episode, Fallon talks about the shock of conceiving so quickly, the challenge of navigating a pregnancy with hardware in her pelvis from a previous accident, and what it was like to hear her daughter’s heartbeat for the first time without her husband. From a scheduled C-section on the summer solstice to the ego-stripping challenges of breastfeeding and low milk supply. She reflects on the “sisterhood” of mothers that finally let her in and why she’s choosing to be one-and-done at 40.Get the resources, transcript and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode101/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

100. To celebrate our milestone 100th episode, we are doing something different: hearing from women who are in the thick of it right now. Join host Jamie Massey as she sits down with four incredible women—Sarah (44), Johanne (44), Bidi (43), and Katie (46)—for a global roundtable discussion on the raw, real-time experience of being pregnant in your 40s. From Scotland to the U.S., these women pull back the curtain on what it actually feels like to navigate "advanced maternal age" before the baby arrives.This episode explores the vast spectrum of the "Over 40" experience, including Johanne’s 15-year journey of faith and six embryo transfers, Sarah and Katie’s empowering paths with donor eggs, and Bidi’s total shock at conceiving naturally at 43. We dive deep into the topics rarely discussed in clinical settings: the "mental scramble" of shifting your identity, navigating birth plans like VBACs and delayed cord clamping, and the resilience required to manage physical hurdles like grapefruit-sized fibroids. This isn't just a collection of success stories; it’s a masterclass in persistence and a reminder that you are never alone in this community.Get the transcript and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode100/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

099. Stephanie is on share her spontaneous pregnancy at 43. Stephanie has been with her husband since she was 27 and married him at 39. She always wanted kids, at least one or two, but no more than three. Her husband is eleven years older than her with kids from a previous relationship and was open to having more. Once they decided to try to have a baby, she wasn't pregnant and thought something was wrong. Her husband had kids, so she went to the doctor a year and a half into trying to conceive to get herself checked out. All tests were normal. Eventually she just let it be. At 32 they found a fibroid, so they put her on birth control to shrink it. Luckily it worked and at 34, after getting off of birth control, she was pregnant with her son. When her son turned two, she was ready to try for another baby. At about the same time they were deciding, her husband got custody of his three kids. She instantly became a mama of four boys, a toddler and three preteens. Her blood pressure was high and she thought her family was complete. Find out how her blood pressure medication may have played a role in the surprise of her daughter of 43. Get the transcript and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode99/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

098. What happens when you spend your 20s and 30s building a life, a marriage, and a career, only to wonder if you’ve missed the window for a second child? In this episode, we meet Amanda, who shares her deeply relatable journey from questioning if she wanted children at all to navigating a successful IVF pregnancy at 45 years old. Amanda opens up about the "epiphany" she had at 44 that led her to pursue fertility treatments in North Texas, overcoming the fear that she had waited too long to complete her family.This conversation follows Amanda’s path through a heartbreaking pregnancy loss, the spontaneous birth of her first son at 34, and the decade of career-building that followed. She dives into the clinical reality of starting IVF in her mid-40s, the emotional resilience required for the process, and the details of her surprising birth and recovery. Whether you are currently standing at a crossroads or seeking proof that it’s never too late to make a bold decision for your family, Amanda’s story is a masterclass in flexibility and hope.Get the transcript and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode98/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

097. When Jessica received a call six months before her wedding informing her that her AMH levels were low, the news felt like a daunting hurdle in her plan to start a family. Having spent her 30s focused on her education to become an occupational therapist, she was finally ready to prioritize motherhood at 41, only to be told that while pregnancy was possible, it would be significantly challenging. This episode follows Jessica’s journey from the initial shock of her diagnosis to her proactive efforts to prepare her body, including weaning off birth control and experimenting with targeted supplements like B vitamins, probiotics, and mushroom extracts.Thirteen months postpartum, Jessica sits down to share the raw and inspiring details of how she moved from clinical concern to a spontaneous pregnancy. She discusses her experience navigating the world of fertility specialists, the role of manifestation in her journey, and the specific steps she took to support her hormonal health and address weaknesses in her ovaries. Jessica’s story is a powerful reminder that clinical statistics are not the final word, offering a message of hope and empowerment for any woman navigating a low AMH diagnosis in her 40s.Get the transcript and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode97/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

096. Allison spent her life surrounded by children as a babysitter and camp counselor, yet the decision to become a mother wasn't always a clear-cut choice for her. Content in her 15-year relationship with her husband and close with her two stepchildren, she initially prioritized her love for travel and professional life over starting a family of her own. However, reaching the milestone age of 40 and getting married that same year sparked a profound shift in her perspective, leading her to seriously consider motherhood for the first time.In this episode, Allison shares the unique and deliberate steps she took to navigate pregnancy at 43, including why she opted for IVF to gender select for a girl and the proactive measures she took to mitigate specific developmental concerns. She opens up about the reality of undergoing five egg retrievals and the emotional resilience required to stay the course through the IVF process. Join us as Allison breaks down her journey from "maybe" to "definitely," offering a candid look at the medical and personal choices that shaped her path to becoming a mother in her 40s. Get the transcript and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode96/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

095. When Melissa turned 40, she felt a deep calling to motherhood but hadn't yet met the right partner to start a family. Despite well-meaning friends suggesting she should simply "get a dog" rather than face the uphill battle of late-age fertility, Melissa chose to trust her intuition and embark on the journey as a Single Mother by Choice. What followed was a grueling three-year marathon involving eight egg retrievals and five embryo transfers—a testament to her incredible resilience and unwavering commitment to her dream.In this episode, Melissa shares the raw, behind-the-scenes reality of navigating the "fertility industrial complex" as a solo parent and the mental fortitude required to keep going after repeated setbacks. Her story is a powerful masterclass in persistence, proving that while the path to motherhood may not look like the one you originally imagined, it is possible to defy the statistics and hold your miracle baby in your 40s. Whether you are navigating IVF solo or are deep in the trenches of multiple cycles, Melissa’s journey offers a vital dose of hope and a reminder to never settle for someone else's timeline.Get the transcript and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode95/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

BE04: We are discussing 10 ways to prepare for a transfer. I created this list based off of research, my experience of two transfers and ways that guests have shared from their stories.  If you are like me, you are searching the internet on how to make this transfer successful. You might feel like the more you do, the higher the chances are of it being successful. I suggest doing what feels good to you from this list. Because you can do all of them and it work, and you can do none of them and it work.DISCLAIMER: This is NOT medical advice. I am not a doctor, so talk with your doctor about doing any of things. Get the resources, transcript and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/bonusepisode420 Journal Prompts during TTC: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/20-journal-prompts-while-ttc/5 Better Questions to Ask during TTC: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/5-questions-to-ask-yourself-while-ttc/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

094. At 40 years old, Rosanne Austin was a high-stakes prosecutor facing a grim clinical diagnosis: she was told her age made a successful pregnancy nearly impossible. After a grueling and unsuccessful IVF journey that left her physically and emotionally depleted, Rosanne realized that the "mind virus" of fear and statistical doom was her biggest hurdle. In this episode, she details her radical shift from a logic-driven legal mindset to a deep trust in the mind-body connection, explaining how she navigated the transition from "checking boxes" to reclaiming her power and autonomy over her own fertility.The conversation culminates in Rosanne’s incredible account of her spontaneous, fearless pregnancy at age 44. She shares the pillars of her Fearlessly Fertile Method, offering listeners practical advice on how to silence the noise of age-related anxiety and stop treating their bodies like "science projects." Whether you are currently in the thick of fertility treatments or are being told your "biological clock" has run out, Rosanne’s story serves as a powerful testament to the fact that your mindset is a vital tool in writing your own success story, regardless of the number on the calendar.Get more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode94/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

093. After years of being told that her body wasn't ovulating and that natural conception was a statistical long shot, Kayla found herself navigating the overwhelming world of fertility specialists and clinical timelines. In this episode, she opens up about the emotional weight of a diagnosis that felt like a closed door and the resilience it took to keep searching for answers when the standard protocols didn't seem to fit. Kayla shares the specific shifts she made in her lifestyle and mindset, moving away from the stress of "trying" and toward a deeper understanding of her own hormonal health.The conversation culminates in the incredible story of Kayla’s spontaneous pregnancy at age 41—a miracle that defied her previous medical history. She discusses the vital importance of advocating for yourself in the doctor's office and why a "non-ovulatory" label doesn't have to be the end of your story. Whether you are currently struggling with irregular cycles or have been told that your age is your biggest obstacle, Kayla’s journey serves as a powerful testament to the body’s ability to heal and the hope that remains even when the odds are stacked against you.Get more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode93/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

092.  We have Selah on to share her spontaneous pregnancy at 41. You might know her for her older mom and boy mom skits on IG or as the voice of Chloe Bourgeois. She started trying to conceive in her early thirties. After three years of trying, she started to be more intentional by tracking her ovulation and temperature, but nothing happened. She went to a fertility clinic for help. They cleaned out her fallopian tubes, scraped her uterus and removed a garden of polyps on her uterus. She was never officially diagnosed, but she had an endometrioma on her uterus. Her periods were extremely painful. Then she had two IUI's, but that didn't work. With her three egg retrievals, she only got nine eggs total, so she wasn't confident. Finally, the embryo stuck with the transfer, and she had her first son at 37. At 38, she wanted to try for a sibling, but after a year of trying, she wasn't pregnant. At 39, right before Christmas, she email her clinic to let them know she was ready to have another transfer. Christmas morning she woke up only to realize her cycle was late. She found out Christmas Day she was pregnant at 39 with her second baby. Selah didn’t think it was possible to get pregnant at 41. Get more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode92/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

091. Neesha shares her incredible transformation from receiving a "cold" post-menopausal diagnosis to becoming a mother at 44. After being told she had a 10% chance of conceiving naturally due to stage 4 endometriosis—and later experiencing a full year without a cycle—Neesha refused to let a clinical diagnosis be the end of her story. She walks us through the emotional and physical hurdles of navigating complex medical news and the pivotal decision to pursue motherhood through donor eggs, proving that the path to a family is rarely a straight line but always worth the journey.Neesha’s story is a powerful testament to resilience and the importance of finding the right support when the medical system feels dismissive. We dive deep into the realities of life with stage 4 endometriosis, the transition into the donor egg process, and the joy of finally welcoming her daughter in Edmonton, Alberta. Whether you are currently facing a daunting fertility diagnosis or are curious about the donor egg path, Neesha’s transparency and triumph offer a roadmap of hope and a reminder that motherhood is possible even when the odds seem stacked against you.Get more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode91/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

BE03. This is episode 3 of a 3-part series sharing my story. I'm talking about my recovery. During this recording, I'm six months postpartum. I am so lucky to be sharing my story! We left off the last episode with THE BIRTH STORY as us leaving the hospital as family of three. The first bonus episode we talked about being Over Due. Those two bonus episodes were in chronological order. However, in this show, there are over 25 topics I will to discuss and not be in any particular order.If this is your first time here, I’m Jamie Massey, 43 and the host of the podcast. It took us 3 years, 5 pregnancies, failed IVF, and a failed embryo transfer to have our first baby using donor eggs.Get the links, resources and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/bonus3/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

BE02. This is episode 2 of a 3-part (maybe 4) series sharing my story. I'm talking about my birth story with my good friend, Chantel. During this recording, I'm 4.5 months postpartum. I am so lucky to be sharing my story! We left off OVER DUE BONUS EPISODE 1 with my midwife appointment on Friday where I was scheduled to be induced on Sunday. This episode I share how we went our Saturday, how labor started on Sunday, and then the birth of my baby boy.If this is your first time here, I’m Jamie Massey, 43 and the host of the podcast. It took us 3 years, 5 pregnancies, failed IVF, and a failed embryo transfer to have our first baby using donor eggs.  Get the links, resources and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/bonus2/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

BE01. This is episode 1 of a 3-party series sharing my story. We are talking about the ECV, when the doctor turned the baby from breech to head down, my expectations of starting labor, my birth plan, ways we tried to turn the baby head down, and how we tried to induce labor. The next episode is the BIRTH STORY, and the last one is postpartum RECOVERY. If this is your first time here, I’m Jamie Massey, 43 and the host of the podcast. It took us 3 years, 5 pregnancies, failed IVF, and a failed embryo transfer to have our first baby using donor eggs. I am so lucky to be sharing my story with my baby sleeping next to me.Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/bonus1/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

090. The conversation focuses on the deeply personal and often difficult topic of navigating pregnancy after loss in your 40s. The episode features returning guests Jamey and Jenna, who join the round table to share their vulnerable stories of resilience and hope. Jamey opens up about her ten-year IVF journey, which included multiple miscarriages before she successfully conceived via embryo adoption at age 41. Jenna discusses her own path to motherhood, which involved four losses before she welcomed her fifth daughter at the age of 43.The goal of this round table is to normalize the reality of pregnancy loss for women over 40 and to ensure that no one feels alone in their journey. By sharing these raw experiences, the guests offer a supportive space for listeners who are navigating the "mental scramble" of balancing hope with the anxiety that frequently follows a loss. This episode serves as a powerful reminder of the strength required to persevere through fertility challenges and provides community for those still "in the thick of it" while pursuing their dreams of motherhood later in life. Get the transcript, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode90/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

089. Host Jamie Massey sits down with spiritual author Alice Grist to explore the incredible story of her spontaneous pregnancy at 44. After assuming she had entered perimenopause, Alice shares the surreal moment she realized her exhaustion and "flu symptoms" were actually a positive pregnancy test. She opens up about the spiritual signs she received along the way—including a family prediction that had promised a son long before he was conceived—and how she navigated the transition from being a mother of older children to starting over with a newborn.The conversation dives deep into the realities of a later-in-life pregnancy, from managing intense morning sickness to handling the "red flags" and opinions that often come with age. Alice provides a refreshing perspective on birth as a moment of total surrender, explaining why she chose an empowering C-section to prioritize her family's well-being. This episode is a beautiful masterclass in intuition and self-discovery, offering a soulful reminder that motherhood can be a powerful gateway to finding your truest self, no matter when it happens.Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode89/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

088. After a grueling journey with cancer, Kerra’s partner was told that having biological children was likely off the table. Yet, despite the medical prognosis and the added pressure of being 42, Kerra felt a profound spiritual conviction that their story wasn’t over. In this episode, she shares the incredible narrative of how she leaned into her intuition, moved from planning for adoption to experiencing a spontaneous natural pregnancy, and navigated the emotional highs and lows of a late-season miracle.Listeners will be inspired by Kerra’s unwavering faith and her refusal to let a "final" diagnosis define her future. Whether you are facing male-factor infertility, navigating the complexities of conception over 40, or simply need a reminder that the impossible can happen, this episode offers a powerful testament to the strength of the human spirit. Tune in to hear how Kerra defied the odds and welcomed the child she always knew was coming.Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode88/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

087. Kristen shares her inspiring and deeply relatable journey of conceiving naturally at 41 after experiencing the heartbreak of recurrent loss. After a seamless first pregnancy in her 20s, Kristen faced unexpected challenges when expanding her family later in life, navigating the emotional complexities of "rainbow babies" and the fear that often accompanies pregnancy after loss. She shares how she stayed the course through the uncertainty, eventually welcoming her second rainbow baby and proving that natural conception in your 40s is not just possible, but a path filled with resilience and hope.Beyond the medical side of her journey, Kristen opens up about the lifestyle and mindset shifts she embraced while living abroad in Barcelona and raising her growing family. We explore how she balanced the desire for a third child with the reality of her past losses, and the specific ways she protected her peace during her 40+ pregnancy. Whether you are currently navigating the grief of loss or are looking for real-life encouragement for a natural pregnancy later in life, Kristen’s story is a beautiful reminder that your age does not define your ability to bring a healthy baby into the world.Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode87/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

086. On episode 86, Lorraine shares her breathtaking journey of resilience, proving that the road to motherhood can be reclaimed even after the most devastating setbacks. After losing her fiancé to cancer at 37, Lorraine found love again at 40, only to face a daunting new set of hurdles including fibroids and a breast cancer diagnosis right in the middle of her IVF journey. Her story is a testament to the incredible strength of the female spirit, detailing how she navigated life-altering medical treatments and fertility protocols simultaneously to reach her ultimate dream.Lorraine provides a raw and honest look at the realities of pursuing IVF at 44 while managing a complex health profile. From the emotional weight of a cancer diagnosis days before her wedding to the physical endurance required to overcome fibroids, she offers invaluable insights for any woman facing medical obstacles on her path to pregnancy. This conversation is more than just a success story; it is a roadmap of hope and a reminder that age and illness do not have the final say in your story of motherhood.Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode86/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

085. After years of navigating the complex intersection of PCOS and diabetes, Judy found herself facing the daunting reality of trying to conceive in her mid-forties. She opens up about the lifestyle shifts and medical hurdles she overcame to reclaim her health and her hope. Judy’s story is a raw and honest look at the persistence required to manage chronic conditions while holding onto the dream of motherhood, moving past clinical labels and discouraging statistics to find a path that worked for her unique body.The journey culminates in the incredible story of Judy’s spontaneous pregnancy at age 46—a milestone that many medical professionals consider a statistical miracle. She shares the vital importance of advocating for your own health, the emotional resilience needed to stay the course, and the overwhelming joy of finally welcoming her baby. Whether you are managing your own health hurdles or looking for proof that natural success is possible in your late forties, Judy’s story is a powerful testament to the body’s resilience and the beauty of life’s most unexpected surprises.Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode85/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

084. What happens when life brings you a "blast from the past" just as you are navigating the complexities of motherhood in your 40s? In this episode, Erica shares her incredible story of a surprise pregnancy at 42. After having her first child at 33, Erica’s path took an unexpected turn when a chance encounter led to a natural conception nearly a decade later. She dives into the unique phenomenon of double ovulation, the shock of a positive pregnancy test in her 40s, and the emotional journey of becoming a single mother for the second time with a ten-year age gap between her boys.Erica, a high school coordinator and empowerment mentor for teen girls, opens up about the realities of a "geriatric" pregnancy, from managing the initial surprise to navigating the healthcare system as an older mom. This conversation explores the resilience required to embrace a new chapter of motherhood later in life and the joy of welcoming a "miracle" baby when you least expect it. Whether you are currently TTC over 40 or looking for stories of hope and strength, Erica’s journey is a powerful reminder that it is never too late for a beautiful new beginning.Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode84/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

083. At age 34, Katie was diagnosed with breast cancer just as she was rekindling a relationship with an ex-boyfriend. Faced with aggressive chemotherapy, she took the proactive step of freezing embryos, comforted by a promise that she would always have access to them. However, years later, after surviving cancer and preparing for motherhood at 42, Katie was met with a devastating legal and emotional blow: she was denied access to her own embryos.In this powerful episode, Katie opens up about the intersection of cancer and fertility, the heartbreak of a broken promise, and the courageous decision to pivot her path. She shares the intimate details of her transition to donor eggs, the reality of pregnancy at 42, and how she finally claimed the motherhood she fought so hard to achieve. Whether you are navigating infertility after chemo, considering donor egg IVF, or facing a complex legal battle over embryos, Katie’s story is a masterclass in resilience and hope.Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode83/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

082. Jen, who faced a daunting Premature Ovarian Failure (POF) diagnosis at 38 while dreaming of a third child. After being told her ovarian reserve was depleted and navigating the challenges of secondary infertility, Jen spent five years searching for hope when medical interventions weren't an option. This episode explores the emotional toll of a POI diagnosis, the complexities of navigating fertility decisions with a partner, and the resilience required to keep the door open for a natural pregnancy over 40.Learn how Jen moved from the anxiety of a "premature menopause" label to the shock of a miracle pregnancy at 41. Whether you are currently dealing with high FSH, low AMH, or have been told that conceiving after 40 is unlikely, Jen’s journey offers a roadmap for managing pregnancy anxiety and finding community. Tune in to hear how she transitioned from a devastating fertility diagnosis to welcoming her third baby, proving that the path to motherhood is rarely linear but always full of possibility.Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode82/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

081. This is the second part of a two-part series where three ladies plus myself discuss the IVF process. Listen to Part I where we discuss our overall experiences. I’m pregnant in the second trimester at 43 with donor egg conception. We have returning guest from episode 50, Sonia. Sonia was pregnant at 44 with donor egg conception, also. Nisha is a returning guest from episode 56. She was pregnant at 43 with her first transfer of one embryo that led to her twin girls. Adriana is our first-time guest sharing her experience where IVF hasn’t worked. The goal of this show is to share our experiences of the IVF process, so you can be more confident if IVF is right for you.Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode81/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

080. We have three guests on to discuss IVF. The goal of this show is to share our experiences, so you can be confident if IVF is right for you. We have returning guest, Sonia from episode 50. Sonia had a six-year IVF journey to her pregnancy at 44 with her daughter using donor eggs. Nisha is a returning guest from episode 56. Nisha had a two-year IVF journey to her pregnancy at 43 with her first transfer of one embryo that led to twin girls. Adriana is a first-time guest on her seventh year of her IVF journey. Her journey to motherhood continues. This is Part I where we discuss general IVF questions and their journey. Stay tuned for Part II next week as episode 81.Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode80/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

079. What happens when you are mentally preparing for the intensity of IVF, only for your body to surprise you? In this episode, Bridget shares her deeply personal journey of fertility in her late 30s and early 40s. From the shock of an unplanned pregnancy early in a relationship to the devastating experience of an ectopic pregnancy and subsequent losses, Bridget opens up about the emotional and physical toll of the TTC journey. We discuss the impact of low AMH, the reality of living with fibroids, and the difficult decision to undergo surgery to clear the path for a healthy pregnancy.Bridget’s story is a powerful testament to the fact that "fertility statistics" don't always tell the whole story. She reflects on the moment she decided to lean into her faith, burned a "hope" candle, and found herself naturally pregnant at 40 despite being told her reserve was low. This conversation covers everything from managing high-risk pregnancy complications like a subchorionic hematoma to the life-saving reality of her scheduled C-section, offering hope to anyone who feels like they are running out of time.Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode79/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

078. After meeting her partner at 41, Melodie experienced a profound shift from never wanting children to an intense desire to start a family. However, her path was quickly marked by the heartbreak of back-to-back losses and a devastating emotional turning point: her partner decided he no longer wanted a baby. Facing the impossible choice between her relationship and her dream of motherhood, Melodie moved out to find her own space while continuing to date, eventually finding herself pregnant again at 45.In this episode, Melodie opens up about the complex reality of navigating a high-risk pregnancy while fearing she might lose both her baby and her partner. She discusses the emotional toll of recurrent loss, the strain of differing family goals, and the ultimate joy of welcoming her miracle at 45. Whether you are dealing with relationship uncertainty or the challenges of late-season conception, Melodie’s story is a raw and honest look at the courage it takes to follow your heart when the stakes are at their highest.Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode78/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

077. One of our most inspiring episodes yet, Shirley joins us to share a story that truly defies every biological statistic. After starting her journey later in life, Shirley achieved what many deemed impossible: two successful IVF pregnancies, the first at 47 years old and the second at 49. She dives deep into the "50/50" reality of her transfers, discussing the courage it took to step into the world of IVF near 50 and the unwavering belief that her family wasn't yet complete.Beyond the numbers, Shirley opens up about the unique experience of being a mother to young children as she approaches her 50s. She discusses the mindset shifts required to ignore the "naysayers," the practicalities of her IVF protocols, and the profound joy of welcoming her second miracle just before a milestone birthday. Whether you are currently facing a "low percentage" talk from a doctor or just need a reminder that age is only one part of the story, Shirley’s journey is a beacon of hope for anyone dreaming of motherhood in their late 40s.Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode77/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

076. Sarah is a personal trainer living in Miami, Florida with her husband of twenty years and their three-month-old daughter. She wasn’t ready to have kids after she married at 28. At 38, Sarah thought about having a baby at the same time as her best friend, and questioned why she was so afraid of having a baby. After a year of trying, she saw a fertility doctor because she hadn’t gotten pregnant and her cycles were long and irregular. They told her she was ovulating too late in her cycle and would need medication to ovulate sooner, but it didn’t work. At 40, she had two egg retrievals and didn’t get any embryos. Join us as she shares her journey to her daughter with donors eggs. Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode76/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

075. Tara grew up in a very small town in Massachusetts. She moved away to attend college at Northeastern in Boston. She moved out to Denver, Colorado almost 11 years ago when she was looking for a job after she completed her MBA. From an early age, Tara assumed she was going to have issues having children. Her mother and grandmother both went into menopause in their early 40’s. Every doctor told her she had a less than 10 % chance of conceiving naturally, so she didn’t see a reason to be on birth control. Her AMH was super low and her follicle count was also low. Join us as she shares her natural pregnancy at 40 and her journey to using donor eggs at 44. Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode75/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

074. Claire spent years assuming the door to more children has closed, a positive pregnancy test can feel more like a mistake than a reality. In this episode, Claire shares the candid and humorous story of her "shocking" natural pregnancy at 43 years old. She takes us through the weeks of symptoms she brushed off as everything but a baby, and the moment of pure denial when she finally saw those two lines. It’s a refreshing, honest look at the emotional whiplash that comes when life gives you exactly what you wanted—just when you’d stopped expecting it.Beyond the initial surprise, Claire discusses the unique journey of navigating a "geriatric" pregnancy with a mix of gratitude and disbelief. She opens up about the lifestyle she was living when she conceived, the mental shift required to prepare for a baby in her mid-40s, and how she moved from skepticism to a deep sense of peace. For anyone who feels like they are "out of time" or waiting for a miracle they aren't sure will come, Claire’s story is a beautiful reminder that sometimes, the best things happen right in the middle of our denial.Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode:https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode74/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

073. Laura was a Boston Marathoner in peak physical condition, but she quickly discovered that being "healthy" doesn't always translate to an easy fertility journey. After marrying at 40 and facing a daunting Low AMH diagnosis, Laura had to pivot her expectations and navigate the complex emotional landscape of using donor eggs. This episode follows her inspiring transition from the marathon finish line to the nursery, detailing how she welcomed her son at 43 and then defied the odds again to welcome her daughter at age 46.In this candid conversation, Laura dives into the "mental marathon" of infertility and the resilience required to keep going when your body doesn't follow the plan. She shares how she moved through the grief of her diagnosis to find empowerment, eventually turning her own struggles into a passion for helping others. Today, as a fertility coach, Laura offers a roadmap for women navigating the unique challenges of motherhood in their mid-to-late 40s, proving that while the path may look different than you imagined, the destination is just as sweet.Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode73/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/ 

072. Kezia shares her remarkable journey of overcoming a discouraging fertility diagnosis to conceive naturally at 41. After experiencing a heartbreaking loss on her 40th birthday and seeing her menstrual cycle vanish entirely, Kezia was told she was likely entering perimenopause. Refusing to accept that her journey was over, she sought out the right medical support to restore her body’s natural rhythms, proving that a "final" diagnosis isn't always the end of the road.Listeners will follow Kezia’s transition from moving her life from Canada to a small town in Pennsylvania to navigating the complexities of late-in-life motherhood. She dives deep into the steps she took to bring her cycle back and the resilience required to manage a pregnancy that came with its own set of unique challenges. Kezia’s story is an essential listen for anyone who has been told their "biological clock" has run out, offering a powerful perspective on advocate-driven healthcare and the possibility of natural miracles in your 40s.Get the full story, resources and more information about this episode:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/episode72/Shop the Show 🛍️ To browse every product recommended by our host and guests, visit:  https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/shop/ (Note: We may earn a commission at no extra cost to you—it helps keep the episodes coming!)Support the Pod ❤️ If you enjoy our content and want to help us stay independent, you can donate to the show here: https://over40fabulousandpregnant.com/donate/