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Oxi MarshMellow
by Rae Del Carmen
Hello, and welcome to Oxi Marshmellow! I’m no different than anyone else doing their best to navigate life- having my experiences. Stopping from time to time to have a cookie… pet a kitten… blow up the Death Star… ya know, whatever.
Episodes
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Just Talking
The World’s a big place with a lot that goes on. Plenty of things to talk about.
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PSA 27
The “boy mom” thing is f’n weird, and I’m not nice about it.
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Mysguided Ignorance
The amount of crap dished out on us women is astounding. Absolutely astounding, and the majority of us just accept that as “it’s just the way things are”. Fuck that- we are harassed to the point where we don’t feel safe, and nothing’s really done about it. A knife will have to be in our back…
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(Extended) Story Time 16
Yeah. My AD went FULL HD. I probably should’ve canceled my day, but I refused to be defeated by the neuro-spicy. Thankfully I got through my outing in one piece.
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Astrology
I do believe there is Cosmic JuJu that exists in the Universe- The Law of Karma, etc… But, using Astrology to explain everything (and I mean every single thing all the nouns/verbs/adjectives) is just wild; Jupiter’s moon is minding its business, dude. Unless it collides with Earth it’s not…
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Off Putting
We all have those things that make you squint your eyes and look at someone sideways; and no. Mr. Rogers would not appreciate being called feminine, and Amelia Earhart did not appreciate being called masculine.
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Happy Mother’s Day
Every Mom deserves their flowers. Happy Mother’s Day to all of us 🖤💐.
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PSA 26
You’re allowed to change your mind. Don’t let anyone try to tell you different.
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Full Time Foolishness/Prt 2
Being so burnt out that you walk away from everything, and a different perspective on your co worker friend.
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PSA 25
Don’t be chief (or bud). We can be boss, but never be chief.
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Full Time Foolishness
We all know not everything is going to be smooth sailing all the time, but there is no reason for all these work environments to be so toxic, while trying to barely pay you. Stuff’s bonkers; it’s not a constant horror show. It really isn’t. But, you’ll never know that until you’re actually in...
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Ghostpants
Letting someone go when you didn’t want to. Especially when they meant so much to you.
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Story Time 15
(One of) The best way(s) to responde when the interviewer does not know how to talk to people.
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PSA 24
Unlearning a behavior you subconsciously developed to survive a crap situation.. takes time, but it can be done. You’re going to be fine.
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Executive Exhaustion
It’s not that you don’t want to do the “thing”. You literally can’t, and thankfully there are better tools available to help us with our day-to-day, and to do the damn thing. Mel Robbins is to thank for the 54321 method. Stumbled upon that years ago, and it has helped me immensely.
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PSA 23
Jobs in general can be stressful, but you shouldn’t be stressed out on your days off.
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PSA 22
Even after becoming an adult, we all still have a touch of immaturity.
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PSA 21
We all need a little reminder from time to time. No more crumbs. Period.
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Connection
Always getting flaked on, or always the one initiating conversation are also great examples of why people will withdraw. P.s.- repeatedly being shown you don’t matter, from a young age, is exactly how a narcissist is born. P.s.s- and no (about the disorder matter) I don’t want to hear anything...
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The Dating Bubble/Prt 2
Stuff is wild in there- purposely damaging property? Stringing someone along because you can’t stand your own company? “Punishing” someone because you weren’t their first choice???
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The Dating Bubble
This is a few of the things that stick out to me that I just don’t understand when it comes to dating. Personally, I enjoy actual connection, but people like me are out numbered; there is way too much going on in there, and I’m staying away from that thing until further notice. Also, something I...
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PSA 20
Make no mistake- this is manipulation.
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Good morning
And “flat Earthers”. The Earth is not a perfect sphere. Too much happening within it, but it sure as hell is not flat.
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Story Time 14
“An it do no harm, do what you will”. I’m over here in my own lane doing me. How this silly broad, or anyone else feels about it, is none of my business.
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PSA 19
More to this point, “because I don’t want to” or “I don’t feel ready” are entirely acceptable responses.
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Things I don’t understand prt 3/take 2
Driving just irritates the crap out of me now. I’m at a point where if I can’t knock out what I need to do in one trip I’m staying the hell home; someone is not a gold digger just because they took you up on your offer to be “spoiled”; music is not “just noise”, and I have a headache from this...
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Sleep
With all the things happening on this Earth I know there’s something out here that will actually work for me so I can just sleep. There just has to be 😫.
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People people’ng
The dumbassery I dealt with to get some important paperwork submitted. Nothing terrible happened, thank flippin’ goodness. Was just one of those “man, I would’ve been alright if that wasn’t part of my day”; not much you can do when someone wants to be a big bitch and take something that was never...
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Things I don’t understand/prt 2/take 2
Nature is fascinating. I will definitely give someone that much, and those of you who call others selfish because they don’t kids? The majority of you have no business making them in the first place. But that’s not what we’re talking about here.
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It’s O K
None of this is any particular order. Just sounding off on some stuff. If you or anyone you know has been having a hard time lately you can dial 988 for 24/7 crisis support. If texting is easier you can text GOT5 to 741741. It’s O K to have a hard time turning your brain off. It’s O K to not be O...
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Things I don’t understand/Prt 1
My brain, legit, stalled out on the last thing I mentioned because that’s just how much I don’t get it. And leave the bunny and guinea pig alone! AND cold peanut butter is practically impossible to work with. Tearin’ up the bread n shit.
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Compelled
Life. It definitely has a funny way of helping you out from time to time. Even when it doesn’t seem like it. When I say “the process can be something else” I just mean growth is exhausting. It is a pure exhaustion of… all of it: mental, emotional, and physical.
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Way With Words/Take 2
Disrespect is disrespect, and I’m done tolerating it, and why just stay silent? Because silence is absolutely a response and will be the most effective at conveying exactly how you feel about someone/something. Just say nothing. And go about your day. “Take 2” because I felt this could’ve been...
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PSA 18
It might shock you to see who you’re not cool with.
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Heave-Ho
Super fun game I was playing with my Nieces and Nephew… that boy is ruthless 🖤.
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Story Time 13
Remember the dancing flowers? I am not a terrible person, I was mislead into a false belief and just wanted to see the flower dance.
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PSA 15
There’s a way to treat people. All I’m saying.
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Relationships- Breakups Prt 2/Take 2
Those mourning periods are no joke. Definitely not something fun to deal with. And other times you do the happy dance like the hippos in “Fantasia”.
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(Extended) PSA 15
Women (that like penis) need to know about guys like him. He does not care about you. You are nothing more than a means to an end. He gets “hot and heavy” pretty quickly- will immediately send you the kiss face/heart face emojis. More to the point if anyone says they don’t like using protection...
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Happenings in Lady Land
I don’t know what’s happening anymore. Women out here actively choosing (not depressed, etc… making an active choice) to stew in worse than swamp ass, and I don’t care what’s going on out there, stop justifying not having money.
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PSA 14
To be clear I’m not referring to things that someone finds therapeutic, like music, exercise, axe throwing, etc… and I’m also not saying everyone needs to go to therapy in order to make positive changes. That’s absurd. What I am saying, from what I’ve seen so far in my life, is anyone that says…
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Toxicity
If you need someone to “snap to” tell them how valued and cared for they are instead of dumping on them and adding to the stress. They’re having a hard enough time. They need to know someone’s in their corner.
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Relationships Prt 4/Take 2
There’s a difference between not seeing eye to eye sometimes, and someone needing to be dragged away. Don’t get me wrong. If something seemed too easy or was just handed to you it’s probably no good, but I don’t subscribe to the whole starving artist thing. Not everything needs to be so hard,...
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Fake Compliments/Take 2
The examples I make are not in regards to any person that was born a certain way, had to under-go a medically necessary procedure, suffered an unfortunate accident, or dons anything with any type of hate speech. This is all strictly “surface level” type stuff; basically catty nonsense you’ll get...
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PSA 13
This, and oatmeal raisin cookies that look like chocolate chip.
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Dean/Take 2
Careful how you word what you wish for. Just sayin’. It’s fine. I’m fine, everything’s fine. Also, Dean doesn’t hate me 😄🖤.
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PSA 12
Cut this person off. If they can’t be bothered, neither can you.
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PSA 11
Sometimes you have to stop, take a breath, and focus on what you NEED to do.
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PSA 10
Personally, I find these phrases to be really rude. Depending on who I’m talking too/the situation I can have a sense humor about the last one.
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ABOUT THIS SHOW
Hello, and welcome to Oxi Marshmellow! I’m no different than anyone else doing their best to navigate life- having my experiences. Stopping from time to time to have a cookie… pet a kitten… blow up the Death Star… ya know, whatever.
HOSTED BY
Rae Del Carmen
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